First Act of Yousuf (AS) | 5 Steps On Creating a Loving Family | Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan

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  • @roheenwali1612
    @roheenwali16122 ай бұрын

    Bro just made me rethink my relationships with EVERYBODY lol😂 Allah bless

  • @abdurrahmaan1949
    @abdurrahmaan19492 ай бұрын

    5 love languages by Gary Chapman 1. Words of affirmation ( words ) 2. Acts of service ( service ) 3. Giving gifts ( gifts ) 4. Physical touch ( affection ) 5. Quality time ( space ) All of these and more are in the Quran and prophetic life ( sunnah )

  • @user-hm4sq9xy3n

    @user-hm4sq9xy3n

    5 күн бұрын

    Even here the 5th one is kind of paraphrased with what they got from "Space"... P.S. you can see what I mean in the comments section...

  • @mansurahad6281
    @mansurahad628112 күн бұрын

    Syeikh Nouman Ali Khan is such a great gift from Allah SWT for the present generation. May Allah SWT protects him all the way. Aameen

  • @MoonLight-rc6xy
    @MoonLight-rc6xy2 ай бұрын

    I have learned from my 21 years old son he ends his calls mom love you and he thought me this magic word. May Allah bless him and guide him to right path

  • @najlasalehi9874
    @najlasalehi98743 күн бұрын

    I don’t watch or listen to ustad’s videos. I live them. U r all in one ❤

  • @postmanmaj
    @postmanmajАй бұрын

    Made me rethink my relationship with my children ...need to show this to my hubby as I think men especially in this changing parenting methods need the education as they only repeat what they have had the relationship with their own parents. Space is good but too much space is now the problem kids spend too much time in their rooms

  • @Siara259
    @Siara2592 ай бұрын

    "We hold love hostage" This made me cry. It shouldn't be that way.

  • @ienehanceit
    @ienehanceit2 ай бұрын

    I paused and read to the recitation of the Surah and came back here and I could have never imagined there was so much wisdom behind an Ayat and Ustaad has that skill, Mashallah

  • @black.muslimah

    @black.muslimah

    2 ай бұрын

    subhanALLAH

  • @meenotu5973

    @meenotu5973

    Ай бұрын

    allahumma barak

  • @Motivate.myself1468

    @Motivate.myself1468

    Ай бұрын

    ❤MashAllah beautiful lecture..easy to understand yet very deep in meaning. May Allah bless Ustaad with more knowledge inshAllah

  • @gemmameidia8438

    @gemmameidia8438

    Ай бұрын

    Yep I do that to when I listen to ustadz, I can read Quran but dont really know about the language. It took hours to complete cause sometimes, the video did not provide the information about which surah which ayah that ustadz recite and I had to pause the video as well and google it to find out and match that with what ustadz read, but I think, that is one of the best way while learning Quran, and we are blessed with this technology. May Allah always guide us, ammeenn

  • @user-pj6bp6np8t

    @user-pj6bp6np8t

    Ай бұрын

    Allahuma Baarik Amiin ✨🤲🏾

  • @maryamansari4896
    @maryamansari48962 ай бұрын

    I can't even imagine the wisdom behind the 1 prahse in surah Yusuf . Thank you so much for such beautiful lesson that you have taught. May Allah be pleased with you and your family.

  • @allhealingcomesfromallaah

    @allhealingcomesfromallaah

    2 ай бұрын

    Allaahumma Aameen to all the Duas!

  • @honeygul92042

    @honeygul92042

    2 ай бұрын

    Magnificent lecture,💚 jazakAllah 💚

  • @jamouskouta4902

    @jamouskouta4902

    Ай бұрын

    😊

  • @shareqaazam9171
    @shareqaazam917110 күн бұрын

    Amazing how comfortably and logically Noman Ali Khan goes into the depth of the Quran. I love listening to his soft soothing yet compelling explanations. May Allah bless him. Ameen

  • @MABKBDS
    @MABKBDS2 ай бұрын

    'A family has to be one in which love is expressed'

  • @Siara259
    @Siara2592 ай бұрын

    Bro has me rethinking my entire life-relationships and gave 'Space' a different meaning!

  • @beepedude

    @beepedude

    4 күн бұрын

    You can't be having profiles with uncovered women even if it's just their hair. What if you gain sin when men look at it? Avoid sins before the Day of judgment comes and you're unprepared.

  • @naushinatiq
    @naushinatiq2 ай бұрын

    I never laugh so much in my life listening to a lecture.nauman Ali khan is the best❤

  • @bemindful5643
    @bemindful56432 ай бұрын

    Only Allah knows how hard ustad is studying to come up with such an amazing level of skills Tabarakallah May Allah increase you ustad

  • @M.A.Batool

    @M.A.Batool

    2 ай бұрын

    What to do with the 11 year old hates going to the school, argues fights n never happy with anything and anyone

  • @petrichor499

    @petrichor499

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@M.A.BatoolThey re just a normal 11 year old. Stay calm around them, dont scold them harshly, dont threaten them. Be the safe base they need.

  • @sazzadahmed2297

    @sazzadahmed2297

    Ай бұрын

    @@M.A.Batool Maybe think of alternatives too. It may be that Allah has something else planned. The education system is quite long and can hinder the growth of independence. Maybe he can start business or go into a more specialized field of education early. Or maybe he needs help with homework, etc. to gain confidence in school. The point is don't try to force and threaten, but ask Allah (SWT) and look for solutions.

  • @ayesha7304

    @ayesha7304

    Ай бұрын

    ⁠@@M.A.Batool Either you or someone else the child relates and bonds well with should find a quiet moment to sit down and openly speak to your child with full attention, no distractions, and coax your child to speak about school and what’s going on there. Your child is probably having a hard time with something, either making friends, bullies, difficulty in understanding their school work or even being afraid of a teacher. I had a problem once where my daughter who used to love school at grade 2 suddenly had a tummy ache, headache or some illness every other day at the start of grade 3 just so she would stay out of school which I comprehended as there being an underlying issue. I got her to start talking just conversationally first about friends, then anyone bullying her, then schoolwork and eventually got to the teacher and it turned out the teacher was a lot stricter than her previous teachers and my child was very afraid of her, not that the teacher had done anything to her. My daughter was just really afraid of doing something wrong to trigger the teacher’s anger. So I went to the school and spoke to the teacher but never came out and told the teacher directly that she was the cause of my child’s fear. I just explained the situation of the fake illnesses and asked the teacher to please keep an eye on my child as something was scaring her at school, like perhaps a bully, could even be something with her schoolwork. The teacher paid a bit more attention to my child and thereafter, I never had a complaint of pains again and school trips was definitely pleasanter. So, I suggest really taking the time to bond and find out what’s really going on.

  • @fit_me_up9355
    @fit_me_up93552 ай бұрын

    I’ve never laughed this hard during a lecture he literally got all of us men and women

  • @EmeraldDiamond3

    @EmeraldDiamond3

    2 ай бұрын

    Why??? Lol

  • @NurayaHijab

    @NurayaHijab

    25 күн бұрын

    😂 same

  • @LilLion1818
    @LilLion18182 ай бұрын

    Next Level of the 5 Languages of Love 🫶🏽👍🏼

  • @ibukancil
    @ibukancil2 ай бұрын

    Ustadh was being all funny but I'm just crying because the space part really hurts.

  • @CGO458
    @CGO458Ай бұрын

    Surat Yusuf is my favorite! The amount of lessons we can from it is deeply touching, from every part. I highly recommend reciting, reading in shaa Allah🙏🏽

  • @user-xf6gm6dv3m
    @user-xf6gm6dv3m9 күн бұрын

    Ending advice about apologize is very true and helpful while we are not taught like this

  • @jawharpanna939
    @jawharpanna9392 ай бұрын

    This lecture worked just like a therapy to me, Alhamdulillah! May Allah bless Ustadh with a long healthy life.

  • @shaheenshariff2692

    @shaheenshariff2692

    Ай бұрын

    Nishallh

  • @user-pj6bp6np8t

    @user-pj6bp6np8t

    Ай бұрын

    Amiin 🤲🏾

  • @NurayaHijab

    @NurayaHijab

    25 күн бұрын

    Me too Alhamdulillah

  • @jannatulakmam1926
    @jannatulakmam1926Ай бұрын

    SubhanAllah!!! SubhanAllah!!! Such an amazing lecture, full of wit and wisdom!!! I'm happy and so grateful that I came to know NAK and the works of Bayyinah. I have heard nobody making more relevance of the Quran to our lives than NAK. Alhamdulillah!!! Who says learning the Quran is boring!!!

  • @fuhadakinbola969
    @fuhadakinbola9692 ай бұрын

    No one delivers stories better ❤😊

  • @brainswash7868
    @brainswash786810 күн бұрын

    This is sooo good. Need to be taught world wide!!!!

  • @turkiyeturkiye5525
    @turkiyeturkiye5525Ай бұрын

    Me randomly saying I love you for no reason but only feel that I love my sons…and I hear from them reciprocating ❤

  • @faizaanjum5288
    @faizaanjum52882 ай бұрын

    I was there for this lecture! Seeing Ustad in person was such a surreal moment for me🥹 I absolutely loved this lecture and am so glad so many people were present to hear it

  • @talhairfan8521

    @talhairfan8521

    2 ай бұрын

    I hope u are not from Ohio..... Kidding. Allah bless you

  • @black.muslimah

    @black.muslimah

    Ай бұрын

    MASHALLAH I'm so happy for you mu ukhti

  • @mubarakharuna4037

    @mubarakharuna4037

    Ай бұрын

    The day I'd meet him. I won't know what to do. He's incredible! Hopefully he comes to Ghana or one day, I'll meet him in US in Shaa Allah

  • @beepedude

    @beepedude

    4 күн бұрын

    Faizaanjum, you shouldn't have that profile picture because it is usually haram to make animate beings(not counting camera photos or videos) so you shouldn't normalize drawings and creations like that.

  • @yvonnes7412
    @yvonnes741216 күн бұрын

    The part about kindergarten girls was hilarious and 100% accurate 🤣😂😅😂🤣😂😅😂🤣 Great talk, thank you! may Allah bless you and strengthen our families 🤲 Ameen

  • @alplatife
    @alplatife2 ай бұрын

    Ustad Nouman ....I like his sence of humor

  • @ayeshasheikh4501
    @ayeshasheikh45012 ай бұрын

    This is funny yet informative ,,, long live brother nauman Ali khan

  • @sirajummonira9108
    @sirajummonira910828 күн бұрын

    That was sooo relatable

  • @faryaarshad9846
    @faryaarshad98462 ай бұрын

    Ustad nouman called out most of desi/southeast asian culture 😊

  • @user-tr6fd4il3r
    @user-tr6fd4il3r2 ай бұрын

    One of the most important and educational videos I ever watched ❤❤❤

  • @karimibrahim5224
    @karimibrahim5224Ай бұрын

    I have learnt so much from you. JazakAllah Alkheir

  • @Itshiraaaa
    @ItshiraaaaАй бұрын

    The role space plays between two people is a key element in relationships and validates the pain of many when they feel as if something is wrong but can't explain it completely due to what they have been told is love from people/society. JazakAllah for this beautiful lesson as it sheds light on the importance of strengthening our relationships and the steps that can be taken to accomplish this. My heart is now at ease ❤

  • @faridasayed4198
    @faridasayed419826 күн бұрын

    Most of the time my son comes to me with big hugs, and he always says mom I love you. And I do same thing to him because he doesn’t get that from his father. When his father calls I love you son when you are coming over, I told my son tell your father when I get my driver license. My son is only 10 years old.

  • @sameehafarook5813
    @sameehafarook581323 күн бұрын

    Masha Allah...Jazakallah khair...amazing!!

  • @NurayaHijab
    @NurayaHijab25 күн бұрын

    😅😅😅 i've been listening to many of ustadz Nouman video..this probably one if the most funny yet still full of wisdom

  • @HaveSabr
    @HaveSabr2 ай бұрын

    5 Situations: 18:39 - 43:09 32:09 - 39:41 42:05 - 44:31 44:32 - 45:56 46:35 - 47:21 49:02 - 50:40 (Start 50:45) 51:26 - 51:53 52:48 - 53:24

  • @BoredKidsTiredMom
    @BoredKidsTiredMomАй бұрын

    I named my son Yusuf ❤ he is born this February. The story of Yusuf A.S. is my most favourite. The start, the ending, the twists in the story... I cannot express how much it touches my heart. The role and dialogues of Yaqoob A.S. The personality of Yusuf A.S. May Allah help my son become a wise Muslim and has iman, haya, financial wisdom, patience, love for family and abundance of rizq as Yusuf A.S. ameen

  • @summerchase6005
    @summerchase60052 ай бұрын

    I needed this! Subhan Allah. May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala bless and preserve Nouman Ali Khan Aameen

  • @nailasikander6571
    @nailasikander6571Ай бұрын

  • @abdhamidz4375
    @abdhamidz437517 күн бұрын

    Tqvm

  • @cheetahjobs-vi6cw
    @cheetahjobs-vi6cw2 ай бұрын

    The one and only ustadh❤

  • @alimatulhikmah5610
    @alimatulhikmah56102 ай бұрын

    I'm happy that this topic is being discussed, and the story of Yousuf A.S. is the best loving relationship story in the universe. It's mentioned in the Quran, right? "Ahsanal qasas". This lecture made me rethink the people in my circle I'm living with. Some people out there, even the parents, are still alive, but both never show love expression to their children but expect the children to show love to them. I never had one. All my life, no one in the family taught me this, and taught me how to take care of my mom when I grew up. In the end, I discovered this myself of how to take care of my mom in a way that Allah loves because she is getting older now and has become a single mother and living together with her special daughter(Down syndrome). Both my beloved mom and my special sister are now under my care, and I am under Allah's care to take care of these two special human being in the world, even though no one taught me to do this. In short, I believe that the reason why I never had a chance to experience this in my life is that Allah wants me to only rely on Him(Allah). In my case, it takes a long time to train myself and remind myself to rely only on Allah. Since I was a child, and up until now, I still train myself to do this. Even though those people in my circle are the most beloved and special ones, I am responsible for taking care of them in a way Allah loves me to do. Never stop putting Allah in everything I do, insyaAllah. Maybe there are stories in the Qur'an that I have not discovered yet related to my situation.😄

  • @marlenetasneem9509
    @marlenetasneem9509Ай бұрын

    Surah Yusuf is my favorite surah among others . It resonates with so many. Alhamdulillah.

  • @FJ-gc5zd
    @FJ-gc5zd2 ай бұрын

    Five steps of creating a loving family 1 Words 2 service 3 gifts 4 affection (hand on the shoulder hug I miss you) 5 space ( the most important one )

  • @KAhmed-wp5ui

    @KAhmed-wp5ui

    2 ай бұрын

    Thanks for this summary

  • @eddyb4

    @eddyb4

    27 күн бұрын

    Space= mindfulness or active listening

  • @mochaudhry991
    @mochaudhry99125 күн бұрын

    Aameen Allah'Humma Aameen.

  • @user-ct3ml2ps5i
    @user-ct3ml2ps5i17 күн бұрын

    I really appreciate him for this beautiful wisdom

  • @SSMSAAA
    @SSMSAAA2 ай бұрын

    Masha Allah such a beautiful and true talk I always enjoy listening to ustaad Nouman

  • @nurkisaleem19
    @nurkisaleem192 ай бұрын

    Love the Humour 😂 SubhaanAllah ❤️

  • @fatimamudassar2049
    @fatimamudassar20492 ай бұрын

    Mind blowing session I must say.... ❤❤❤ Brother Nauman you taught so many powerful lessons in this lecture connecting them with daily life incidents in a halirious way that I laughed out load, learnt and got Allah msgs given us in surah yousaf of beloved son.... What a detailed explanation of these two words❤❤❤😊May Allah bless you a healthy and protected life ameen.... Thanks for making us happy and learn big lessons at the same time😊

  • @diloramp6693
    @diloramp6693Ай бұрын

    Thank you for your hard work, this is so profound ❤

  • @modis_omar
    @modis_omar12 күн бұрын

    So wise

  • @user-ln5pv6hn9t
    @user-ln5pv6hn9t2 ай бұрын

    Award winning Performation brother Norman.U sooooo funny Love u for the sake of Allah

  • @sayeedadodwad9685

    @sayeedadodwad9685

    2 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @dhikrandlove21
    @dhikrandlove212 ай бұрын

    Subhana'Allah.. I'm laughing because crying would be too obvious. Ya Allah 💞 subhana wa ta ala allow us to show mercy to our family, expand our breast with love..

  • @dhikrandlove21

    @dhikrandlove21

    2 ай бұрын

    Ameen..

  • @dah8215
    @dah82152 ай бұрын

    Masha Allah very good advice in the end

  • @allinonegardenandkitchen435
    @allinonegardenandkitchen4352 ай бұрын

    Jazakallah khair

  • @muslima9488
    @muslima94882 ай бұрын

    JazakAllahkhair May Allah reward you

  • @fatehataf7826
    @fatehataf78262 ай бұрын

    I so needed to hear this , so beautiful, JazakaAllahu khairan

  • @zainabsibuma-omary7061
    @zainabsibuma-omary70612 ай бұрын

    Masha Allah tabaraqallah, jazakalah khairan Ustaadh

  • @allhealingcomesfromallaah
    @allhealingcomesfromallaah2 ай бұрын

    Inna Lillaahi Wa Inna Ilayhi Rajiun Jazak Allaahu Khayran Allaahumma Aameen to all the Duas!

  • @freesoul1633
    @freesoul16332 ай бұрын

    May Allah keep you sincere and bless you more and more

  • @FarsanaHaniffa
    @FarsanaHaniffa2 ай бұрын

    Assalamu alaikum usdhad May Allah bless you and your family This world and here after This video is heart touching and exposing the reality Jazakallah Khair

  • @aburaffe
    @aburaffe15 күн бұрын

    Barak Allah fee🤲🏼❤️

  • @misstornton3848
    @misstornton38482 ай бұрын

    Thanks ❤

  • @khurshidjahan695
    @khurshidjahan695Ай бұрын

    Just mind blowing

  • @maleehakhan9394
    @maleehakhan9394Ай бұрын

    This is amazing

  • @user-zx2hh8ds9m
    @user-zx2hh8ds9m2 ай бұрын

    Very deep analysis. Jazak Allah

  • @sabamaheen5956
    @sabamaheen59562 ай бұрын

    Assalamualaikum ustad nouman, that's so true.... ameen

  • @sherryphan6504
    @sherryphan65042 ай бұрын

    This is so nice to listen to

  • @user-be6me9fd3h
    @user-be6me9fd3h2 ай бұрын

    The best

  • @safiyyahzaman2334
    @safiyyahzaman2334Ай бұрын

    This is exactly what I needed. jazakallah khair .May Allah accept your efforts

  • @snyxpr4618
    @snyxpr46182 ай бұрын

    Great lecture. Thank you

  • @rhmk04
    @rhmk042 ай бұрын

    I love this speech. It's wake up call for all moms.

  • @shabinaali5177
    @shabinaali51772 ай бұрын

    USTAD IS USTAAADDDD

  • @rhmk04
    @rhmk042 ай бұрын

    May Allah always blessed you brother. U r so funny

  • @nurkisaleem19
    @nurkisaleem192 ай бұрын

    Amazing! ❤And Enjoyable 😂

  • @ahmedwaleed77
    @ahmedwaleed772 ай бұрын

    May Allah guide us to be patient with His creation. Great job

  • @junaidvazir
    @junaidvazir2 ай бұрын

    You have a very good observation bro.. it's worth it thankyou

  • @hakimbahaman84
    @hakimbahaman84Ай бұрын

    Thank you for provoking my thoughts and emotionally

  • @Ilmseriesofficial
    @Ilmseriesofficial26 күн бұрын

    Love the way he talks ❤

  • @nimisable
    @nimisable2 ай бұрын

    ما شا الله

  • @user-rw3ve6sd5w
    @user-rw3ve6sd5wАй бұрын

    Amazing speech

  • @hafsah6823
    @hafsah682325 күн бұрын

    Am glad i understand little bit of urdu, without him adding urdu words, l his lecture is missing some kind of flavor

  • @aniealja438
    @aniealja4382 ай бұрын

    SPACE- is so important. Thanks a lot for sharing this.

  • @zebamaliha8901
    @zebamaliha8901Ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @deen_over_dunia297
    @deen_over_dunia2972 ай бұрын

    May Allah grant us understanding of Quran . Ameen

  • @mss4346
    @mss43462 ай бұрын

    thank you so much for sharing. We pray for you from germany. May allah bless you and bless all our youth

  • @lubnashareef9123
    @lubnashareef91232 ай бұрын

    Funny , fun listening, and v v effective

  • @zebamaliha8901
    @zebamaliha8901Ай бұрын

    What a heart touching speech.. May Allah bless, Nouman Ali khan❤❤❤

  • @maproductions6512
    @maproductions65122 ай бұрын

    1) Words 2) Service 3) GIfts 4) Affection 5) Space 29:00

  • @labanoush
    @labanoush2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this talk! I was listening to it and my kids messing around me! It felt different! Jazak allah Khayrane!

  • @nina-gy8nv
    @nina-gy8nv2 ай бұрын

    Subhannah Allah! So much insight to apply to our real relationships from Quran! May Allah continue to guide you for us. May Allah continue to bless you and your family with the best in this world and the Hereafter! Ameen!

  • @fit_me_up9355
    @fit_me_up93552 ай бұрын

    I enjoyed every second of this 😂mA so true and so funny

  • @mirazuddin8551
    @mirazuddin85512 ай бұрын

    Ah! An amazing insight I've ever listened to! Wallahe it makes sense, will make the same in future for every listener.

  • @sofialatif2609
    @sofialatif260919 күн бұрын

    My son he dose the same hugs abd kisses all the time he tell me he loves me and i do the same to him

  • @tasneemrasool8222
    @tasneemrasool8222Ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sarar9387
    @sarar93872 ай бұрын

    It’s sad how many times I laughed during this lecture. Every example is so true!!!

  • @badambahar-sq4rd
    @badambahar-sq4rdАй бұрын

    I got my answer. Thanks. I harried a bit.

  • @tousifhasan1672
    @tousifhasan1672Ай бұрын

    Words of love/kind words, Affection, Service, gifts, Space

  • @juliedossantos-rosa8061
    @juliedossantos-rosa8061Ай бұрын

    ❤😊