5 Ways to Take Care of Your Wife with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Embark on a journey of deepening your spiritual connections and fortifying your marriage with us, Ken and Tabatha, as we unfold the secrets to fostering a flourishing relationship in our latest episode. Discover the six integral ways to care for your wife, insights that have not only strengthened our bond but have the power to transform yours too. From understanding the unique language of love your partner speaks to the pivotal role of spiritual leadership, we share our most personal experiences and lessons learned in the hopes of guiding you and your spouse towards a more harmonious and spiritually aligned life together.
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  • @brishelton7107
    @brishelton71074 ай бұрын

    “Being a spiritual leader is more important than being a financial provider”-Ken 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @melchisedec.

    @melchisedec.

    3 ай бұрын

    “I don’t need you to tell me” 🚩 your attitude in not right in front God.

  • @melchisedec.

    @melchisedec.

    3 ай бұрын

    Girl you want a man who provides you with financial stability. A lot is revolved around him being responsible for just that. Prophesying can be your job as the queen of the household. ❤

  • @heatherreese6867

    @heatherreese6867

    2 ай бұрын

    🙌

  • @calebhill7055
    @calebhill70554 ай бұрын

    Shout Out all my single fellas prepping to build a family. You Got This King ‼️

  • @yvonnecato3848
    @yvonnecato38482 ай бұрын

    His wife is really kind, loving and respectful.

  • @yvonnecato3848
    @yvonnecato38482 ай бұрын

    I like the fact that he said for him to function as a husband he had to have a relationship with God., that is powerful. Most husbands lack that attribute. A man of God.

  • @TheRansomHouse
    @TheRansomHouseАй бұрын

    I really admire how Ken and Tabatha communicate with each other. I like how he allows her a safe space to express her feelings and he seems to understand what she feels/communicates.

  • @fitbodyworksonlinepro
    @fitbodyworksonlinepro4 ай бұрын

    He's a good husband and humble. He sees room for growth in the relationship. Conscious and Awareness for God is always helpful

  • @noms3841
    @noms38414 ай бұрын

    This podcast is going far🙌, God's hand is upon it❤. Let's share the channel with everyone 💞❤🎉

  • @eboniestringer5952
    @eboniestringer59524 ай бұрын

    She is so graciously telling him the TRUTH! I hope that he receives it in love.

  • @JerandGelPodcast
    @JerandGelPodcast4 ай бұрын

    I love this. My wife has brought self evaluation to our relationship which I had never experienced before and I love that we can see how we are doing through each others view. It's beautiful. We have grown a lot and continue to apply more to areas we lack in our relationship. Love it. Thank you for sharing your transparency with us.

  • @latonyalee322
    @latonyalee3224 ай бұрын

    I absolutely Tabatha and how she is so soft but yet so very strong! I love the way Tabatha looks at Ken!

  • @makayadejarnette6671
    @makayadejarnette66714 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the healthy modeling as uncomfortable as it seemed for Ken. 💕 We need more of this safe vulnerability! Love y’all.

  • @devaughnstephenson6309
    @devaughnstephenson63094 ай бұрын

    Lol she said I don’t like the way you think … he said I gotta process that 🤦🏾‍♂️😂

  • @MrJR82

    @MrJR82

    4 ай бұрын

    🤣✨️

  • @Gracegirlyy

    @Gracegirlyy

    4 ай бұрын

    Timestamp?

  • @Mmathapelo8910

    @Mmathapelo8910

    3 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @kerryg3885

    @kerryg3885

    3 ай бұрын

    😂😂

  • @daphnebailey6223
    @daphnebailey6223Ай бұрын

    I’m recently married, and my husband is the best. I couldn’t ask for a better husband. He works hard, and cares for me deeply. I can’t wait for our love to grow and see what it’s like in 20-50+ years😊

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    Ай бұрын

    Love to read this! Don't forget to always keep dating each other 🙏🏾

  • @neicyh1181
    @neicyh11814 ай бұрын

    This is so good because Ken is open to hear his wife needs really listening. Men don't listen like this. Omg, this is sooo good.

  • @queenconscious2989
    @queenconscious2989Ай бұрын

    I love the fact that they can have these constructive conversations and remain loving & respectful towards one another. Not everyone grows up seeing this, I find it beautiful 🥹❤

  • @kisha732
    @kisha7329 күн бұрын

    This podcast literally has blessed me. 😢

  • @celestialbodee
    @celestialbodee2 ай бұрын

    I am so glad I stumbled upon this. I was married for 21 years, and always dreamed of and tried to create this type of openness, dialogue, and communication. This is beautiful to see and gives me hope for future relationships.

  • @Godstransformeddaughter
    @Godstransformeddaughter4 ай бұрын

    Tabatha is fired up 😂❤❤

  • @TheRuchingDiva
    @TheRuchingDiva4 ай бұрын

    I love how they addressed many of the things some of us have observed on the outside 😂. Ken does come across as controlling at times, so it's encouraging to see him willing to "process" and admit his areas of opportunity.

  • @tearrajay9197

    @tearrajay9197

    4 ай бұрын

    Yes I wondered if I was looking too much into it. But Ken does seem controlling at times. But I do appreciate what the info they give us

  • @shahara7375

    @shahara7375

    3 ай бұрын

    I thought I was the only one with this thought. I value the gems they drop here. I believe Tabatha is very graceful, respectful and loving in how she deals with things Ken does/says that may be off putting and it gives me hope. Instead of lashing out , being argumentative or ‘snippy’ in her responses, she takes the high road and responds with love and wisdom. I know how tough that is dealing with a partner like that, so I commend her for being so loving and understanding no matter what. This is great to see. Thank y’all for sharing for with us ❤

  • @cameliamoodie4928
    @cameliamoodie49284 ай бұрын

    My husband looks so appetizing when he worships in spirit and in truth . It's so beautiful 😍

  • @tianajones961
    @tianajones9614 сағат бұрын

    LOVE THIS !!! Thank you for being so open and honest i needed this❤

  • @abbya8749
    @abbya874924 күн бұрын

    I enjoyed watching you two. Love the honesty and open conversation. In listening to this discussion regarding Tabatha saying that doing things your way could not be better simply because she is just a different person and it's hard sometimes. I am thinking just because his way might be harder and that you are different doesn’t factually mean it won't work or that is the only way but rather I understand it to mean the best way or method that will produce the best results of two or more options factoring different aspect like saving time, quality of tasks, efficiency, performance, taste, profit etc. It seems like Tabatha is an emotional thinker and processes and solves problems from a personal and emotional fulfillment level while the husband is facts and results-focused oriented. I like what you two are doing. May God continue to bless and guide you through this ministry.

  • @laquandahill1322
    @laquandahill13224 ай бұрын

    I have watched a few episodes now, and I love you guys! this was the best one hands down, at least regarding marriage! The first 15 minutes was a sheer display of humility, kindness, and oneness, while accepting each other's uniqueness and differences .You guys had a tough conversation and let us watch it. I don't know if y'all practiced this, I don't believe so, but what a vulnerable, transparent, beautiful moment between a couple who wants their marriage to win and our marriages to win too! The whole thing was wonderful! Thank you❤

  • @buggwa
    @buggwa4 ай бұрын

    Our strengths can be our weaknesses when applied during the wrong time.

  • @lolitaowens484
    @lolitaowens4844 ай бұрын

    Blessings Ken & Tabitha ❤ I watch you guys alot my husband starting to watch also , Thanks for your obedience to the Lord I believe GOD has called you guys to this 🙏🏾 Thanks again ❤

  • @user-vp6ch4rb1h
    @user-vp6ch4rb1h4 ай бұрын

    When the Grace of God locates you , miracles happen. Amen

  • @thebestfam9868
    @thebestfam98683 ай бұрын

    Loved this!

  • @venerullysse8819
    @venerullysse88194 ай бұрын

    I miss you guys so much. Love you guys and thank you for everything you guys ❤️ have shown 🙏 me all these years later.

  • @maameodeadu-gyamfi7913
    @maameodeadu-gyamfi7913Ай бұрын

    Listening and watching from Ghana. God bless you both. Learnt a lot

  • @tricepugh5739
    @tricepugh57394 ай бұрын

    You 2 are amazing. The security is so serious. I tell my husband this all the time. I've voiced to him how i dont feel secure, and if you all knew what i deal with, you would completely understand.

  • @KayQhosa
    @KayQhosa3 ай бұрын

    The intro is 🔥🔥. Love you guys!!

  • @TashaunaHowe
    @TashaunaHowe3 ай бұрын

    Thank yall❤

  • @debbyrene
    @debbyrene4 ай бұрын

    Pride thinks everybody should do things the way they do it.

  • @arethaford3368
    @arethaford33684 ай бұрын

    This is so good!!

  • @Roosieb325
    @Roosieb3254 ай бұрын

    I love y’all honesty on this podcast. It’s so authentic and raw. And as a single man, I learned a lot of a gems.

  • @MaeDayTv
    @MaeDayTv4 ай бұрын

    I prayed the prayer! Thank you! ❤️

  • @Feej81
    @Feej814 ай бұрын

    Great job Keep them coming ❤

  • @katrinataylor406359
    @katrinataylor4063594 ай бұрын

    I prayed that prayer today

  • @stellanatukwasa4452
    @stellanatukwasa44524 ай бұрын

    Ohh my God am loving this,God bless you 🙏 Keeping helping us.

  • @melissacastillo4307
    @melissacastillo43074 ай бұрын

    I prayed that prayer Amen 🙏🙏

  • @joyaustin3140
    @joyaustin31404 ай бұрын

    Y’all got a new subscriber..God 1st you got me and then you’ll are actually communicating, I’ve never seen two couples more transparent. This is edifying 💕. I’m blown away

  • @hannahdavis8022
    @hannahdavis80224 ай бұрын

    Thank you, guys truly thank, you for these videos they help me so much! i do not have a lot of believers in my life so i look up to you guys as spiritual leaders.

  • @jstellato921able
    @jstellato921able4 ай бұрын

    Excellent podcast! I resonate so much with not only this particular podcast, but everything you share on relationships & marriage! Thank you for putting out such quality content. God Bless you both and keep them coming! 🤍🕊️✝️

  • @robinraymond6035
    @robinraymond60354 ай бұрын

    This is such an awesome teaching!! Thank you so much and may God continue to bless you and your family🙏🏽

  • @Mmathapelo8910
    @Mmathapelo89103 ай бұрын

    12:56 so honest ❤

  • @Mmathapelo8910
    @Mmathapelo89103 ай бұрын

    I appreciate and love you guys, I love this podcast

  • @phenyorakoma
    @phenyorakoma2 ай бұрын

    Love you guys ❤

  • @melissacastillo4307
    @melissacastillo43074 ай бұрын

    Amen so good 🙏 thank you ken and tabatha blessings

  • @paulinekirby-rodgers9791
    @paulinekirby-rodgers97914 ай бұрын

    Thanks for what you.. I enjoy your content. I love you both..

  • @maryroseidu4661
    @maryroseidu46614 ай бұрын

    My highlight: the tongues… thank God for this podcast.

  • @gaillastof8851
    @gaillastof88514 ай бұрын

    Thank you. What stood out the most is that the way I want to receive love/love language does shift. I.e I may not want as much physical touch now after having kids because they are often climbing on me and wanting attention. ❤

  • @kolynslester6858
    @kolynslester68584 ай бұрын

    incredle show ever.

  • @CallmeAri_
    @CallmeAri_4 ай бұрын

    Okayyy Tabatha 💪🏾 💖✨Not married but enjoyed this conversation, love listening to you guys

  • @yvonnecato3848
    @yvonnecato38482 ай бұрын

    I am hering honesty.

  • @TheKibiro
    @TheKibiro4 ай бұрын

    Hey..you guys have impacted my family life soon very much ...am grateful 🙏

  • @RollanskyDarote
    @RollanskyDarote4 ай бұрын

    Love you guys and this message. Glad to call you guys my lead pastors.

  • @kegomoditswemotlhabani649
    @kegomoditswemotlhabani6494 ай бұрын

    have recommended the podcast to my friend and encouraged my husband to listen ...few episodes i have watched .at first when i got married taking care of my husband was really emphazsed ,to tell the truth i had no idea what that meant until i listen to the podcast Lord i learnt and understood the meaning behind take care of your husband for the past 4 months we have been married..thank you

  • @nikkispell9060
    @nikkispell90604 ай бұрын

    Self awareness is great but like faith without works is dead so is self awareness without change. We are all works in Christ so progress over profection!

  • @norahnakalanzi931
    @norahnakalanzi9314 ай бұрын

    I love this a lot, was Married before now Single, but this is good, being honest and open with each other, this is deep, thank you love love this. wow

  • @paulmatthews8776
    @paulmatthews8776Ай бұрын

    Nice episode

  • @righteousmasculine
    @righteousmasculine4 ай бұрын

    I really enjoyed this video lots of GODLY wisdom

  • @teresarobinson1677
    @teresarobinson16774 ай бұрын

    Yes, spiritual leader.. its a deal-breaker for me

  • @yvonneharris1770
    @yvonneharris17704 ай бұрын

    Good podcast .I enjoy it. My husband is not spiritual but he is a good provider. Pray that he will give his life to God.

  • @vena2g2006
    @vena2g20064 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for doing this podcast. I’ve sent this to my husband not to shame him but to encourage him and let him know that he is growing in the areas of loving me better.

  • @sharonnabagwanya7740
    @sharonnabagwanya77404 ай бұрын

    May the good Lord continue blessings u for us. we thank the holy spirit for the great job that he is enabling you to do. ❤u people.

  • @yvonnecato3848
    @yvonnecato38482 ай бұрын

    When a husband is not affectionate it due to the fact they did not get affection as a child as well as they did not see it in home while growing up.

  • @teresarobinson1677
    @teresarobinson16774 ай бұрын

    This has blessed me so mich.. I'm divorced but if God ever call me to marriage again.. I'm listening

  • @thyramccray724
    @thyramccray7244 ай бұрын

    This is so good thanks to my daughter who got saved in your Church who invited me to Watch your Contents oh my goodness you are amazing this is my favorite thing to watch and trying to emulate your principles, thank you 🙏

  • @nishman1370
    @nishman13704 ай бұрын

    Great podcast. This information can help so many marriages and singles as well. Thank you for your honesty and transparency. The security part is so huge for a woman!

  • @fridahkaloza8540
    @fridahkaloza85404 ай бұрын

    I came across this prodcast last year, I have never been the same I have become feminine without even me knowing how, I believe my marriage will never fail as am preparing to be a wife, thank you so much may God continue to bless you. Learning and following from zambia❤❤

  • @keondrawalton9251
    @keondrawalton92514 ай бұрын

    My fiancé and I are reading the 5 love languages. It’s helping us love each other in our love language.

  • @asher579
    @asher5794 ай бұрын

    Thank you for being obedient to the voice of GOD,This podcast has really helped me get some nuggets on marriage as I am getting married soon much love from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹

  • @alessiajoy2906
    @alessiajoy29064 ай бұрын

    Praying for you. May you continue to choose God first & your spouse. May God's angels be encamped all around you in every area of your lives & your children so that no hurt, harm, or danger will come near your dwelling. Thank you for being willing vessels in helping the Body of Christ.

  • @zaidagonzalez466
    @zaidagonzalez4664 ай бұрын

    Tabaka, you came to our church CALVARY CHURCH not so long ago. Your testimony was very touching and real. I’m very thankful for you your ministry as well as your husband. I have shared some with my husband. You guys are doing a great job we got continue and this journey so that we learn more, and be strong leaders with our families so that they could see Christ in us

  • @teresarobinson1677
    @teresarobinson16774 ай бұрын

    Question? Do you study the person during the dating process. I don't want to misuse that word process. I couldn't think of another word. Thank you for listening

  • @elizacolvin
    @elizacolvin4 ай бұрын

    THIS WAS ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE. I’m single but this provides so much Wisdom and insight that I’m always seeking. Thank you for the love you both have for Jesus and for eachother, it is truly a beautiful kingdom marriage! This is what I want!! So grateful for you both! Really blessed. I also sent this to my parents because there marriage is so broken! Thank you for all that you do. I pray that our heavenly Father will continue to pour out his love upon you and use y’all to reach those who need Jesus to Revive there Life! In Jesus name AMEN!! Also speaking on wisdom and insight.. I am definitely one who struggles with making decisions and really acting on faith for taking next steps. Specifically trusting GOD in the unknown and really knowing where God is leading you. Wondering if you guys could talk about it?

  • @hollyrosario5355
    @hollyrosario53554 ай бұрын

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @mahoganybaptiste5491
    @mahoganybaptiste54914 ай бұрын

    Pray for the people in Palestine 🇵🇸

  • @yourbesttoddlermodelgionna2319
    @yourbesttoddlermodelgionna231915 күн бұрын

    Omggg Ken STOPPP 🛑🛑🛑🛑😂😂😂🖐🏾🖐🏾 Talkin bout Baby ima need you not to shake da table n not be kickin me etc 😂😂😂😂🩷🩷😘😘

  • @camilleumland6976
    @camilleumland69763 ай бұрын

    Pray for singles wanting and wanting to receive a spouse!

  • @yvonnecato3848
    @yvonnecato38482 ай бұрын

    I feel fear when I don't have security, because I am able to function on my own so if a husband is ''in the picture' he should play his part. I feel a sense of security with my husband as he never causes me to be jealous, However I feel afraid when he is unkind. I experience insecurity financially.

  • @Mmathapelo8910
    @Mmathapelo89103 ай бұрын

    11:38 ❤

  • @gettended
    @gettendedАй бұрын

  • @sarahlehman8913
    @sarahlehman89134 ай бұрын

    You were treating her like a child when you said don’t hit the table don’t move your arms aroundi.

  • @1jazzjasmine

    @1jazzjasmine

    4 ай бұрын

    He shows a lot of signs characterized by Narcissism. But narcissists can never see how they’re wrong

  • @thembisamakhoba1606
    @thembisamakhoba16064 ай бұрын

    ❤❤😊

  • @rebkatesfaldet5050
    @rebkatesfaldet50504 ай бұрын

    🙏

  • @Mmathapelo8910
    @Mmathapelo89103 ай бұрын

    9:36 his face😂😂😂😂

  • @BBIMFAN
    @BBIMFAN3 ай бұрын

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @sarahlehman8913
    @sarahlehman89134 ай бұрын

    Why is this turning out to be a discussion all about him? It’s supposed to be her.

  • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha

    4 ай бұрын

    Please finish the episode ❤️❤️

  • @michaelcarter7829
    @michaelcarter78294 ай бұрын

    This is refeshing

  • @lolitaowens484
    @lolitaowens4844 ай бұрын

    😅 and ya'll funny

  • @yvonnecato3848
    @yvonnecato38482 ай бұрын

    He sounds like my husband is not affectionate, petty and egotistic and mean. I guess he has grown because he is listening to God. My husband needs to listen to God.

  • @awsambdaman

    @awsambdaman

    4 күн бұрын

    He doesn’t sound that way to me at all. He literally made an episode on how to take care of your wife

  • @donnabrown8187
    @donnabrown81874 ай бұрын

    Hey. I was married over 28years. Now divorce. I'm waiting for my real king It's getting hard. Any advice?

  • @jocelynreese4278
    @jocelynreese4278Ай бұрын

    Tabatha, I would love to talk to you in private. Is there anyway I could write directly to you? No disrespect to Ken. Love him, but sometimes you just need a woman to woman conversation. Please let me know

  • @Glorifiedak
    @Glorifiedak4 ай бұрын

    🩵

  • @yvonnecato3848
    @yvonnecato38482 ай бұрын

    Ken is trying to be defensive when his wife points out areas of lack in the relationship.

  • @yvonnecato3848
    @yvonnecato38482 ай бұрын

    What she described as insecurity for her is trauma. She needs to be whole.

  • @sami-fy1fq
    @sami-fy1fq4 ай бұрын

    Life is not about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself. ﹝Lolly Daskal