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after watching quite a few of your videos in a row I've decided im just going to get 8 dogs and not worry about a boyfriend

@jujubee90275

7 жыл бұрын

Chloe Pekel I hear ya girl.

@jujubee90275

7 жыл бұрын

it will happen when you least expect it

@nyambsify

6 жыл бұрын

Chloe Pekel 😂😂😂😂

@hadizasalele266

6 жыл бұрын

lol.

@melissaslade9652

6 жыл бұрын

These days no one wants to work or invest in anything. Especially relationships. Easy, usually doesn't last.

and they say women are complicated🙈

@lady_insane868

5 жыл бұрын

Paola Mancilla lmao

@genevievereindl5537

5 жыл бұрын

Paola Mancilla lol I feel the same. I feel like the roles have changed now with sexes lol

@nadiakhan2996

5 жыл бұрын

I wish I could like this comment more than once...lol...It's like rocket science

@winning3329

5 жыл бұрын

In the bible it talks about how men were going to become selfish and only intrested in sex.

@yimveerasak3543

4 жыл бұрын

No, men are complicated

when they flirt with you and you find out that they are married leave fast

@lydiamusima5840

4 жыл бұрын

Jeff Godsey that’s why when I notice guys trying the attraction game I ignore them. I don’t believe they’re genuine

@anthonyperkins5856

4 жыл бұрын

SIMP

If He loves Her only because She loves Him, the only thing they have in common is their both in love with the same person, Him.

@homicidalmuffin6190

6 жыл бұрын

Boba Fett Lol, awesome!

@hnobumi

5 жыл бұрын

best comment!

@IceSk8Princessa12

5 жыл бұрын

Boba Fett HA!!! 🤣 And that doesn’t even always work!!!!!

@DallasJayCook

4 жыл бұрын

This is sooo Jack Sparrow... When Angelica told him that she loves him he responded "As do I. Always have. Always will." Only to realize that he's talking about himself. He loves no one but himself 🤷

@plutooliver686

4 жыл бұрын

Yep had one of those got boring real quick

I don't care about men anymore...im now 43 I dated hot men a lot of them when they fall for me I ghost them its because I know they will become complicated in the end! Now I'm not so young but I'm still free and single and so happy with my life! I chose to be single forever! Happiness is contentment with what you have and also not having the things you don't want jejeje .When you enjoy yourself and be one with your self and talk to yourself sometimes it's weird but you'll never need a man in your life!! LIFE IS NOT ONLY ABOUT HAVING SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU OR HAVING SOMEONE TO LOVE BACK. IT’S ABOUT HAVING A PURPOSE AND CONTRIBUTION TO OUR SOCIETY AND TO THE WORLD.

@kawaiimitchiko7669

4 жыл бұрын

You know what...while reading your statement....im feeling like 110% facing the mirror....it is exactly me what you are saying...

@truthseeker243

4 жыл бұрын

I so agree. I have never felt as lonely as I was in a "committed" relationship, now that I'm not. We are always connected to Source, and for me that means though Jesus, so no reason to ever feel alone. We are born alone and will depart alone, so why bow to peer pressure. I loathe drama. If you are destined to meet a soul mate great. If not, great too.

@truthseeker243

4 жыл бұрын

@@ismeltitdeltit9354 Uhm, reality check. Since when has Islam not had a hand in running the world. No one needs your dark energy.

@truthseeker243

4 жыл бұрын

@@ismeltitdeltit9354 It is the hate in YOUR heart, according to your last three sentences. Why else would you have such a dark stance? Why is calling you out a 'phobia. So everyone who disagrees with the postulation that Islam is all positive and good, has a phobia? How about the same in reverse for other religions? Are you Christianophobic?

@angelataylor7799

4 жыл бұрын

@@jab7168 neither do we want your saggy balls and ED, beer belly and bald spot, receding hairline, etc...

Totally can relate. I once dated a man who gave me a ring within 3 months of dating ... He was very sweet & would do anything I wanted immediately into our friendship. I was baffled - how could he be THAT invested almost immediately?! I'm a good person but that behavior seemed desperate to me & I felt like I was just a body filling his need 🤷‍♀️

The Insta-Relationship applies to us women too. It's happened to me a lot where I've been on dating sites and I've started talking to this one particular guy and then after a few days it's like BAMN HELLO LET'S BE TOGETHER NOW. When that happens I'm just like "Wtf how can you want to be with me already? You don't even know me". One guy answered "We got our whole lives to get to know each other baby" I'm not even kidding, I wish I was lol.😂

@nerdturd8718

7 жыл бұрын

some guys will say that just to get in your pants. don't mistake him telling you what you want to hear for love. i had someone say that EXACT line to me when i was 20 lol

@Loriana93

7 жыл бұрын

NerdTurd Yeah I knew they were probably saying all that to get in my pants although some of them said they weren't lol.

@nerdturd8718

7 жыл бұрын

Loriana Firth lies lies and lies. when i look at a man i don't think how hot he is. i think lies lmao hey least you didn't fall for it. some poor love sick girl will though. god bless lol

@Loriana93

7 жыл бұрын

NerdTurd Lmao how optimistic of you! Haha yeah I'm smart enough not to fall for shit like that.

@Loriana93

7 жыл бұрын

Breaking News Okay so if I am a "ratchet-Instagram chick" who doesn't deserve love does that mean someone that spreads hate like you deserves love? If you think I am so "ratchet" you sure went out of your way to look me up on Instagram didn't you? Hypocrite haha.

Men stop pursuit when you tell them to slow down, that you won't sleep with them quickly.

@haimamacmod9623

7 жыл бұрын

+Mathew Boggs yess i agree, cause when u give it easy no reasin to pursue u more cause he can get what he want from a women..i mean he want a bed partner instant until he lose her desire easly couse the women are easy to get.. When u are really looking for a women that true and really seroius or let us say a one man women she is the one of person who is trying to see if u are the one really meant to him not only for a while desires.. Hipe u understand what im trying to say..thank u..😊

@coppersense999

6 жыл бұрын

Mr. Richards, what? Seriously? Since when do most women hate their dads? Cite your source. Or, hold on, * speaking in a gentle, maternal tone and leaning forward at the waist to lightly touch arm, Honey, can you tell me where exactly you heard that? Did you read it in a book? A magazine? * picks up newspaper, and what's this about your mama sweetheart? You mean to say a female who reminds you of your mother makes you feel funny in your pants? * smacks Mr. Richards with rolled up newspaper. Lmao you pervert. Lol even Freud limited that ridiculous perspective to a stage in childhood, it doesn't trigger grown men who are normal. I'm sorry but you're an idiot lol. Go to your room, smh.

@4gma59

6 жыл бұрын

I was in my early 30s when I married because I was picky and had a very full life. NEVER did a man dump me because I wouldn't sleep with him. Many of my friends got dumped, and told me I was crazy -- "What are you waiting for??" --- got that all the time. Ladies: if you're the kind of woman who prefers to wait, by all means, WAIT. The right guy(s) will be glad you did. Don't listen to horny little assholes when it comes to what men want. They aren't worth your spit on the sidewalk. YOU decide who you want to be, don't compromise, and the right guys will see you as someone worth chasing and keeping.

@elmorab.2921

6 жыл бұрын

Gail Lewis I definitely agree & he stopped perusing me it's been about 7 days & i haven't heard anything from him but this was after I told him I wasn't fuckin 4 6 months.

@nofybn7794

6 жыл бұрын

slutty or feminist? That is terrible! I'm not slutty, I am a feminist. What's wrong with being a feminist? Nothing. That is why women are feminists because guys don't respect women and it shows when they can't respect a woman who's a feminist.

Thanks for the video Mathew. After I watched the video, I searched, 5 reasons women stop chasing you and you know what, that kind of things don't exist. Don't get me wrong I like your videos and I understand the basic principles of divine feminine and masculine but still it doesn't feel right you know to put all the responsibility on women to learn how to behave to go on a date? Please, can someone teach something to men too because I kind of feel tired of making myself better as a woman. Lots of love ❤️

@habibeeroglu1949

7 жыл бұрын

i have been doing a lot of research about the divine femininity. and it is never about the politics of the relationship. it is about being really really present with all your emotions in the moment. it is not about getting a man to chase you. it is about radiating an attractivefeminine energy to attract love and abundance in every form. when you are truely feminine, you intuitively know what to do. and it is never about keeping a man. it is about flowing with life. i am sorry i got caught up. love..

@SunnySummer777

7 жыл бұрын

Sevinc Meseci oh my gosh exactly how I feel!!!!!😥😧😩😩

@4gma59

6 жыл бұрын

Don't any of you women have mothers who taught you these basic principles? I can't believe some of these utterly stupid comments.

@mgtowarena9636

6 жыл бұрын

The fact that the word "divine" is associated with the word "feminine" as if you all are levitating above the rest of us (in the words of Bill Burr) is absurd.

@nikkitobin8356

6 жыл бұрын

Sevinc Meseci UVE SAID A MOUTH FULL ... IM BEHIND U GIRL ... WE SEEM TO HAVE FORGOTTEN THAT WE ARE THE DAMN PRIZE BECAUZZ ... We CHOSE THEM

scary - sleeping with a guy and not be a relationship potential

@jackfavvv

7 жыл бұрын

Not at all. It's called, "exploring your sexuality", ma nigga.

@bobhunley2721

7 жыл бұрын

Rarna im sorry it didnt start out that way. And i the man couldnt handle it. Women shut off any feelings. I couldnt. The erotic thing was they can feel so good and acting without feeling anything. But close frienships did happen and a few were always concerned for my welfare. And some got jealouse. Like " come see me instead of her" i think we were all sex addicts who just needed my fix. Im at a point in my celebacy where now im thinking of traditional commitment. Months ago that would be YUKK. LOL

@Principessa1046

6 жыл бұрын

Oftentimes, it seems the very act of sleeping with a man makes them lose interest, likely often without them even realizing why. The underlying reason seems to be: the chase is over. Next.

@redsonja2291

6 жыл бұрын

That's my problem when I have sex with guys, I just lose interest in them, even though I was very interested in them before we had sex.

@taylorjohn7426

6 жыл бұрын

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So true first you must know him better, its good idea to aware this kind of things and if his not pursuing you let him go, you deserved someone better.

@rhuthk2710

6 жыл бұрын

A True Love Official so true

As a guy, I’d say #4 is so true. If you come on too strong and fast out of the gate I will pull away because I think these things need time to develop and I don’t want either party to get hurt if things don’t work out early on.

another really good reason is, he might have his own thing to deal with. Could be nothing to do with the woman but his own problems etc.

@Mollyfolly33

7 жыл бұрын

Olga Kiely are you a guy falling into the reason?

@lanzoalisson3483

2 жыл бұрын

@@Mollyfolly33 I agree with him and I am a guy

This is way too hard. Can’t play those games and work so hard to build his ego and make him feel special but somehow not come across as I care too much.

@hangwithdoug

5 жыл бұрын

I very much agree. I think that if you think it is too hard that you should spend more time focusing on yourself and not bother with men.

@nofybn7794

5 жыл бұрын

So true.

@angelataylor7799

5 жыл бұрын

lol. I know right...

@angelataylor7799

4 жыл бұрын

exactly. and WE'RE "high-maintenance". right.

@anthonyperkins5856

4 жыл бұрын

good, eave us alone then.

I’d rather be single than cater to men’s insecurities.

@mr.b7486

4 жыл бұрын

I agree too. You won’t cater to men. Men won’t cater to yours. Let me know how it works out.

@jab7168

4 жыл бұрын

And i'd rather be single than potentially lose half my stuff to some post wall thot....

@jab7168

4 жыл бұрын

@@mr.b7486 she will get a cat and a box of wine and cry about where are all the good men.....

@anthonyperkins5856

4 жыл бұрын

true typical whamen right there

Thank you so much for your ongoing videos! I still watch them, even though I am in the throes of an amazing new relationship with a sweet man who lives and loves to surprise me. Thank you, Matt!! I honestly would never have changed the mantra in my head about what I wanted if not for you. And ladies, if you have read this far, I wish I could show a pic of me an my man! Thanks again!!

I appreciate you too! Good points! It's like you said one 'When you meet the guy for you it's easy.' And I've learnt you can't say the wrong thing to the right person. 😍 The three categories make sense!

#5 in my experiences has only been appreciated by older more mature men.... The younger, immature ones don't appreciate this..

wow, I just love it how you talk like you're really trying to help and you enjoy doin' it.

HOW UNIQUE YOU ARE MAT!! and Professional and so well prepared and sweet and kind as WISE!! Thank you!

his show is so real, really into it, I like it so much, he is so honest!

Your videos are really helpful. I went to visit this beautiful country for a month and met this amazing guy whom i dated twice. He was funny, caring and even sends me a message first soon as he gets home after dropping me off at mine. But he kind of distance himself eventually and comes up with reasons why he can't go out with me until i left the country. I still think about him until now.

All the videos that I have watched with you makes perfect sense plus your advices /talks have helped me! Thank You Matt!

You're so wise! You truly hit home, it's just amazing.

I now get the “he can’t win”. I subconsciously put out my independence vibe out and I don’t flirt. I find flirting to be too much too soon at times. Let me get to know you just a little. This is why it’s been years since I’ve had even potential guys

The Rules of Dating helped me out tremendously.

#4 spoke volumes to me and has potentially saved a relationship I really don't want to lose. thank you for your advice as I never understood this perspective before.

so basically a guy will want to keep pursuing you because you make him feel good about himself so you have to keep giving him a MAN OF THE YEAR medal every time he "plans" an activity? so a man will only pursue a woman when it makes HIM feel good. ah, now i see.

@karakara323

7 жыл бұрын

palehoney79 would you want to be with someone who doesn't make you feel good?

@marialvarez7954

7 жыл бұрын

palehoney79 ah, if i may- I think what it is is simply allow the man to do things and be there for you. Which for me does sound pretty nice- and its not really praising, but if i were to pursue someone-the best feeling is being Acknowledged. That my efforts are known. So, it would just be a simple thing to let him know you know. Its not giving into him when he's the one chasing you ☺️✨

@nofybn7794

6 жыл бұрын

So true!!

@angelataylor7799

4 жыл бұрын

guess that's why they say guys are dogs - we have to keep rewarding them and giving them treats when they do something good, or they'll pee in your shoe. lol

@nathalie5238

3 жыл бұрын

Yes puppy training! 😂

Your videos are Amazing! I'm a mother of a 25 year old daughter and and trying to convince her that she needs to watch your videos because I wish you were out there more for more young women to hear! If I had known what goes on in a man's head and how they think, which is Very different from women, and will automatically give a woman an edge into figuring out who is worth her time and thoughts. Too many girls/young women thinks it's MOSTLY about Looking sexy and showing Alot of skin. But helping women figure out how men Think, for real, is the Best help ever. Helps avoid learning too many lessons the hard way! Thank you!!

Thank you Matt, as all your contributions, always very valuable. I think some other reasons could be added, though. For example, as I reached my thirties, I found out many men stop pursuing when they realize I want a relationship, and they are coming from a recent and/or hard breakup. I think many of us could benefit also from some advice on this matter too. Thank you very much! Really appreciating your work, from South America!

I like very much the ways you transmit with those funny 'snaps' you put in meanwhile you tell us your GREAT knowledge..The 'snaps' really get into me .THANKS!!!

Thank you for making this video! I appreciate all of the advice. Keep up the good work!

The best video I've heard so far regarding understanding and "understanding" men's psyche :)

Just excellent! You have been so helpful and a blessing to me. More power to you, Matthew! 😊

This was the single most informative vid I've seen in a long time. Thank you, I know where I'm going wrong now.

I told a man I like him just to tell him how I feel because he was always approaching me and asking me about my day, ask me what I have been doing etc after I told him how I feel now when I see him he doesn't look at me and he doesn't talk to me anymore he just walk pass by me with no question ask and no conversation. That hurts

@biancalord488

7 жыл бұрын

Florence Lorfils sorry that happened to you

@coppersense999

6 жыл бұрын

Lol, way to break it to her gently, i like that. Gurl, next time get you a V8, skip the share. Better yet, as in basically all things, "show don't tell." And still. Drink a V8, you don't want to get dizzy and have a boob pop out. Not that kinda show n tell sister. GL.

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

4 жыл бұрын

Always have a spare on the back burner and adopt a dog.

@princetonshot

4 жыл бұрын

Yup. Can't ever let a man know how much you like them. They lose interest.

And thank you for all the hard work you have put into all of this and even bigger thank you for sharing your knowladge with others. Thank you. Have an amazing and productive day!

This guy and I went on 3 fantastic dates. We were very into each other or so I thought. We mutually decided to take things slow. We did not sleep together and we were both ok with that. Then all of a sudden, I was ghosted. I have no idea why. I was never too pushy or crazy and just went with the flow of things. I complemented him when when he did well, appreciated him and told him so, didn't expect too much too soon. I was just being myself which he said he found refreshing. He was even talking about going on a road trip together in the spring. I am in total shock. I did remove him from my Snapchat, FB and so forth because clearly he no longer has any interest in me. Obviously I'll get over it but I just don't get it. It's so incredibly confusing and frustrating.

Wow....Happy I found your channel....your videos are well spoken and I have a better understanding about dating....thank you so much...

Thank you so much for sharing this amazing information. It helps me to understand how you guys think. Great videos!!!

Oh my! This just hit me so hard. That's is why. Thank you for this amazing tips!

Omg! I've never heard of insta-relationship but it makes so much sense can't believe I never thought about it like that. Thanks Matt!

Wow Mat, what a great mind opening clip. Thank you very much. I certainly did the insta-relationship a couple of times.

Thank you for the video Mathew! I wish a lot of women in Rio de Janeiro, could watch it. It's very inspiring...

In a world where women are encouraged to be strong and independant and to use their masculine energy to succeed, they must then turn it off in their personal relationships.seems like a double edge sword.also some men do like their partner to lead and take control.that is once they in the relationship.

@jackfavvv

7 жыл бұрын

That was supposed to be aiming and applied for the work force. If you are a woman and you were encouraged to be strong, independent and masculine, then chances are you don't need a man. And why would you even need one if you were independent to being with?

@nofybn7794

6 жыл бұрын

So true!!

@sarahlund3872

4 жыл бұрын

Work life and personal relationship's should be kept separately from each other. It's nice to be independent, but a man likes to feel needed. If a woman is TOO independent, the man will take it as gospel, and look for a woman who doesn't keep saying "I can do it myself".

I always amazed how you made advice's to your viewers keep it up! thank's for sharing

after watching this video i understand why men doesn't pursue a relationship with me..im looking forward to that guy who would have the courage to accept and embrace me for who i am.thanks for this video!

Matt, can you please make a video about reasons why men want to be friends with you, but not romantic relationships? Thank you so much! I love all your vids.

@t.y.6640

6 жыл бұрын

Because men don't want to be hurt or don't want the responsibility of having to answer to someone.

@nallelysantiago2839

5 жыл бұрын

@@t.y.6640 Exactly. Going through this at the moment 😒😒😔.

THANK GOD I found this channel before I potentially mess up my new relationship lol. I laugh but I'm so serious. I am learning sooooo much!!!

So much helpful needed advice from this video. Thank you Matt.

This is amazing Matt, very helpful Thank you :)

You are the ONLY one that his videos are very logic and really make sense to me. That I can't listen to anybody else!!! I owe you alot! U have no idea how much u helped me.. thank u

@ruthmiller1161

7 жыл бұрын

Ghadir Shahin

@ruthmiller1161

7 жыл бұрын

Ghadir Shahin ++

@ruthmiller1161

7 жыл бұрын

Ghadir Shahin ..

I was able to identify what I was doing and correct my behavior with your ideas

Thank you Mat. This really helped me understand what possibly went wrong for me. I think it was a combination of both points 4 and 5. It was a good relationship. And he's a good man. I don't know what the future holds but I'm working on correcting the mindsets within me so that if he decides to continue our another good man comes along I'll be ready to handle it. Great videos!

Hi Matt you advice is spot on! Thank you for all that you do and for not asking us to buy your programs all the time.' Kat

this happened to me... i met the most amazing guy.. he did all the planning he was pursuing.. took me fishing and all the fun stuff. he was perfect based on what i wanted on paper... i exposed my emotions and he literally ran away... the sex was great and the conversations were great as well...it caught me off guard .. nothing i have experienced before. but now i think i get it... i just wish i went slower but to this day i know he was perfect.. only if he knew it at the time.

Loving this video Matthew Boggs !! Thank you.

01:20 "Pursuing you RIGHT NOW and you haven't met him yet". Aren't those stalkers? Nervously looks over shoulder...

The more he ignores me, the stronger I get, the more fabulous I get, went back to school and got better and better....f him!

Thanks ...isn't so easy as you say. .. but is good to remember .... especially x timid souls

Very good video, number 4 and 5 the toughest ones for me indeed!

THANK YOU VERY MUCH for this video ♡

1. He doesnt see you as potential. 2.You do all the planning. 3.Cant win with you 4. Insta- Relationship. 5. He feels like an object. ->make him feel selected, special.

you are so cool! i love watching your funny yet informative videos! thank you!

you forgot these : 1) you gain weight 2) you get older 3) if you nag/complain a lot.

@nofybn7794

5 жыл бұрын

You male? Shallow, you males get older as well and gain weight. She nags because you don't get off your ass! Either you said you would, is that a lie? Is it so SO MUCH TO ASK FOR THAT YOU DO WHAT YOU SAID YOU WOULD DO IN A TIMELY MANNER? APPARENTLY! YOU DON'T GET A WEEKEND, A WEEK, A MONTH, A YEAR OR 10 YEARS! YOU GUYS ARE SO SLOW! HAVE RESPECT! DON'T LIE! IT IS YOUR JOB TO PROVIDE AND PROTECT AND SATISFY US AND MAKE US HAPPY, YOU BEING SELFISH AND LAZY DOES NOT MAKE US HAPPY, OR WAS THAT A LIE THAT YOU WOULD DO WHATEVER YOU SAID YOU WOULD DO? HMM? NOT GOOD EITHER WAY. LEARN TIMELY MANNER, COME ON YOU HAVE LIVED YOU KNOW WHAT TIMELY MANNER IS. IT'S NOW! NOT IN 20 YEARS!!

@nofybn7794

5 жыл бұрын

@Mark Zaney She has a reason to shame him. She does those when he deserves it. 10, that is all women do. Sexist and wrong. That is ALL women do, guys don't!! 8 wrong. You have issues with women to work on and work on yourself. Law of attraction is like attracts like, that means work on yourself.

@atejani6994

5 жыл бұрын

@@nofybn7794 actually SOME women nag simply because they are never happy with anything, no matter what they have. And please drop this bullshit about men providing and protecting and making you happy- isn't that abit sexist?? in a relationship, making each-other happy is mutual- its not a one way street

@zippy_uk1046

4 жыл бұрын

@@nofybn7794 It is not "mens job" anything. It is not our job to protect, provide, hold society together or provide service to you. We were not put on Earth for you, we are here for US, with each man an individual. You want these things from men? Then bargain and choose well. Can't or wont do this? Then buy a cat because we don't owe you.

@soniaviramontes1473

4 жыл бұрын

" you get older"...and men don't🤔🤔🤔🙄🙄

love the advices. 99 percent of your videos are worth watching thank you so much

Yes, I’ve been waiting, and he keeps waiting long before I started waiting. We are in an interesting and fun waiting game.

Such a helpful video! But in regards to your tip about letting him know you're interested but letting him know he has to earn you, how would you go about that without sounding stuck up and high maintenance?

Thank you!! Great information!!

Love your enthusiasm and creativity!

I loooove watching your videos, you're smart and have great sense of humour 😍

I've been told I'm too independent... and it's intimidating... go figure...

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

4 жыл бұрын

Bull. Even other women aren't intimidated by you.

@jimjohnson394

4 жыл бұрын

Independent = untrustworthy Intimidating = annoying He is using kinder language

Matt, I love the visuals you use in your videos there right on and sooo funny!!! :)

This is on point. Great info!

I enjoyed this video and got GREAT TIPS from it. My biggest take away is when you say that if the guy stops pursuing you, at least you know and can make room for someone that your match (I paraphrased). It makes the bitter pill somewhat easier to swallow, of seeing that some or all of these points are what i’ve been doing. The first 2 reasons at the beginning of the video are like an intense shot that burns your chest after you chugged it.The last 2 reasons are like the yummy chaser you drink after, lol. It keeps the buzz and no longer burns. 😉😂 The message in the video rings true and resonates. It’s going to save me from unwittingly pushing a great guy away in the early stages of courtship. Thank you. 🤗❤️

I wish I had seen this two years ago, I think it would have saved me from two heartbreaks :-)

Great informative video as always. Thank you.

This is really helpful. Thank you.

thankyou for this matt, all the love from Philippines

🌟👌Inspiaring and great advice! Matt! Love your energy too🙌🐬💜🌟

This was really good. Thank you.

love you !!! thank you for your wonderful advices!

Never ever had a man plan something...if I don't plan on vacations we would have had to sleep in the car.

@FleurRebelle

6 жыл бұрын

Sandra Wellens /hhh

@nofybn7794

6 жыл бұрын

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@nofybn7794

6 жыл бұрын

Yes, never known a guy to plan something.

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

4 жыл бұрын

You picked the wrong guy. Now you have a eunich. Good luck. :)

@TxJanna

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, I need Mathew to expand on how we get them to do that. How long do we step back? Do we just not doing anything with them for weeks?

@Mathew Boggs I love your Videos !!!! I learn sooo much! Thank Youuu Mathew

you help me lol. a single mom dating I feel like giving up most of the time.

When you were talking about making him feel special, I hoped so much for a "Mathew" limited edition like the one before with the love coach pic 😂😂😄

I was involved with a guy for 4 years. We had a pretty damn great relationship, but he cannot commit, so who the hell cares, if a man wants you he will be there. Maybe women need to know they are loved.

@deafcharmed07

6 жыл бұрын

Juanita Thomas I am sorry I have to say this... If he refuse to commit with you that means he's staying with you while he's looking for a better woman worthy enough to commit. I would leave him if I were you. You don't deserve this. You deserve a guy who wants to marry you.

@tanyatanu1

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you both, great comments

@redfather5342

5 жыл бұрын

Women need to stop being so entitled

@nofybn7794

5 жыл бұрын

@@redfather5342 We are entitled to RESPECT!! Law of attraction. What you think about women is what you can't admit to yourself, that you need to stop being so entitled.

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

4 жыл бұрын

Stop sleeping around, then. By the time you do research, you'd know he really wants you. 4 years is 4 years too long.

I just broke it off with a guy I really liked today. He wasn't a good planner and would always say something that screamed red flag...I realize now that there's someone out there that's better for me who will invest his time and energy into me. Just be single and happy :-)

Thank you professor, I am learning so much, I have been single for 11 years and divorced for 5, the last time I was single I was 22 and now I'm 48 and I feel like I'm out of the game and I don't know what to do to get back in the game and I am learning so much from you because I am looking for my forever so I think you so very much teacher

thankyou for the video...🙂

mr matt thank you so much for all your teachings.. 😍😍😍😍😍😍

I am so guilty of falling in love too fast... I have a feeling that has been a problem for men in my past. Thank you for this, Mat. If you have any videos about how NOT to do that, I intend to find them.

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

4 жыл бұрын

Quit sleeping with them.

question: say if he's interested in you and you're interested in him, if you wanna take it to the next level (being in a relationship) how do you get the guy by not being too desperate

This is a great and real video. Thank you

A suggestion: when you are giving us list of things it would be really helpful if you went over them briefly at the end.

Watching this video made me feel like shit - and I am just going to summarise and say "He doesnt want you and move on". No point in wondering why, it won't change the fact he doesn't want you. It is still a good video for people who DO want to know though.

Great video! #4 I love what you said... how do you make them earn the commitment? Especially after you tell them you like them and are interested?

Definitely a good video. Also: 1. The woman tests you beyond her perceived value (comes off as rigid, a bad attitude or aloof to the point where guys can't see themselves even being friends) 2. She expects more than she is willing to give (Not about sex, either. Always wanting him to meet you, him to pay, him to pamper, with no return) 3. She's surrounded by other dudes bc "girls are too much drama"...yeah. Many of us aren't standing in line to be in the group of "sucker boys" you've collected over the years...even if most are friend zoned. Keep in mind we have girls for friends, too, and some we have had prior relationships with as well 4. You gave off the crazy vibe during dating/talking, granted you may have done this intentionally bc we gave off the crazy vibe and you are subtly chasing us off...well played :) 5. You cheer for Alabama Crimson Tide or the New York Yankees...honorable mention goes to cheering for the Patriots (almost tolerable).

not trying to be thirsty but way he said "whooooo" made me smile (and blush a little bit)