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I don't agree with the third one. He was already discussing plans with her, she had hopes, but he later said he wants to go out with his friends. It's purely ditching. It would be right to go out with friends if he was not planning with her for the weekend at all. If you could understand what I am trying to say. Last minute changing plans, nobody likes it. If you want to go out with friends, don't discuss the possible plans with your partner at all, and if you want to spend time with partner don't discuss with friends for plans. Never leave one for another, stay true to your words and actions. (Many people won't understand what I am trying to say anyways.)

@itsrachel1

3 жыл бұрын

I 100% agree! Was scrolling thru the comments to find this, good to know I'm not alone in thinking that!

@kreztineking

3 жыл бұрын

I agree to this.

@ushine4me

3 жыл бұрын

For me, it would only be an issue if it was a continuous thing. If he is constantly bringing up the possibility of plans but always switching at the last minute, a discussion needs to happen. If it's a rare thing, I def understand wanting to do a big fun thing with friends.

@alinowak2619

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed.

@Izycaspel

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I agree

This was so helpful. Face value over assumptions. Build curiosity instead of fear.

I think spending time apart is HEALTHY! I don't classify it as guy time or girl time, but "my" time. It doesn't matter how much you love a person or how well you get along, you've got to have my time. It suffocates me to be with someone who wants to be together all the time; I just can't do it.

What I learnt from last 4 years of marriage, men simply mean exactly what they say, and also they mean it in a good way 😊 if they address someone who they love and appreciate ❤ girls, relax and take it simple, with no overthinkings 😊 you are all more than good enough for your men. If not so, they would leave simply.

@nofybn7794

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry, you are rare. Not in my experience, what they mean IS not in a good way. Not always true that they leave. They will settle, stick with the sex they get if they get any rather than starting over having to attract someone new.

@uqjoon

3 жыл бұрын

Ohhh... Very nice thinking. You know, actually I agree with you. Sometimes we are the one that makes things complicated. Very inspiring, thank you! I have to admit, I overthink a LOT, but I want to be better and believe whatever men say, they mean it exactly like that. Thank you 🤗

great video, you should make one of " what he says when he doesn't want to tell you his feelings and what we hear" 🙏

When he says he wants to know more of me. That can literally mean anything. 😅

GREAT format. Really liked the way you unpacked these concepts.

Haha what they mean in the early stages of dating when they say.. You know what i usually get bored easily!! Hit the road and run hahaha

So, I have this man I’ve been talking to/getting to know. He said “I’m not your typical adult”. I pressed him a little and he starts talking about relaxing, skateboarding (he’s athletic and really enjoys skateboarding, football, baseball which is different than other men I’ve been involved with that have been into outdoors stuff/cars but not unusual), what it might looks like when he retires, bringing his band back, etc”. He wanted to be a “rock star” when he was young, got preggo and joined the service (not sure which came first only that he knew “rock star” wasn’t going to pay the bills at some point), went into the health care field has been there for 30 years. I kind of referenced it today to get more information. He said it was a minor not a major comment. I actually agree with him and think it was probably more just about pursuing his true passions (that might sound childlike, more immature) now that his kids are almost out of the house and he can see retirement in the future. We kinda had the discussion andI I think everyone has/or potentially has dreams/pieces of dreams that got interrupted which they might want to revisit if they had the chance. I think he did grow up, become an adult, and now he hopes to get a chance to play more which I find nothing wrong with and in fact completely natural. This is gist of what I told him. Is this where he’s going or is he really trying to tell me he’s an immature adult? I’m not into raising another child. However, I think there’s nothing wrong with going after passions that you had to put aside to do “real life” when that’s what needed to be done. Everyone hopes to be in a position where they can retire at a decent age and hopefully focus on “want tos” rather than “have tos”, right?

Thanks!!! I started watching your videos because after been separated for 4 1/2 years, i started dating this guy and is my first attempt for a relationship and is been so long I need some guidance cuz i wanna do things right n understand how guys act and expect to have a long lasting relationship. I really really like this guy, since covid i lost my job and only have a part-time for now, but i keep busy at home and making art and work in myself. This past Monday he came over and at one point he asked me what did i do the rest of the week when i am not at work. At first i did feel like the video, sounded like he was insinuating i am lazy, but i remember some of your videos and nicely reply Oh you know i always find something to do, I can’t be still for too long. And that was the end of it... Thanks for your advice! Bless you for sharing all this w us!!

Manbiguous comment “I’m feeling you.” Great advice as always! Thanks!!!

Love this!!

This was great

Great Video. We as women must get to know ourselves and manage our insecurities, we also need to have healthy experiences with men.

Loved it ❤️🔥🎉🙏👍

OMG.... this was so good to hear! The first one I went back in my head about a guy and was like holy crap that happened.

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I get this video. Yes, please do another videoz

Thank you Mathew boggs for this video.😁 It has changed my life. 😇😇. Love from Nepal ❤️❤️

Thank you

Great content! Normally I go with the flow. When someone said something, then I believe him/ her. When I don't understand it, I ask follow up questions. So far so good. But it get's really complicated when Someone is saying something and acting then completely the other way around. And that happens specially in the emotional department. Like a guy tells you he's uncertain about his feelings. He says he's falling a bit in love with you, but can't tell you that he loves you after 6 month of intense dating. But his actions are screaming from the rooftop, that he loves you. Very confusing. And it gets even more confusing about planing the future. But I think when people are in the middle age ( maybe devorced or with a death in the family) and start to evaluate their lives it's going to be more complicated. Just because there is so much you already know, and so much you understand is influencing your actions. And in best case scenarios you work a lot on yourself to heal yourself from the past to see the future more clearly. But in the time in between it's a process where you need to be sometimes more patient. Because the answers are not so easy anymore, with all the different complex personalities. And yes, I think when you are in that phase of your life it's even possible that it's the right person but the wrong timing. Greetings from around the globe in Berlin, Germany ;-)

@theresahammond6251

3 жыл бұрын

Thats whats going on with my man, 7 good months together and he buys food, paid for my truck to get fixed, with me almost everyday ect, but i have not heard i love you.

@rubinapope3822

3 жыл бұрын

A man must know never to cancel out moment plan to spend with his woman. The one that physical satisfy him. Others should come after

Guy time, gal time, I believe it's ESSENTIAL that both partners have their "own time," learned this the hard way. Nothing wakes you up to reality than being with a nar****st.Thank you Universe for sending me Mr. Boggs channel!

I had a guy tell me once, "If I were choosing a partner, I wouldn't pick me." Parted ways, and 8 months later, during a "thirst check", he actually told me that my presence in his life "doesn't really matter" to him, on the gounds that "nothing in the universe matters"... So... We don't talk anymore. 🤦‍♀️😆

@Ana-rb7ws

Жыл бұрын

Lol he actually bothered to tell you that you don’t matter to him 😂

Matt, what I find a bit disrespectful is just coming up at the last minute to cancel things. I mean, I do not care if he says that to me some days before so that I can make plans for myself for the weekend, but if he says that to me just the day before, I find it disrespectful and I get pissed off.

@jiggityjig10

3 жыл бұрын

It IS disrespectful. This guy is teaching you to ignore gaslighting.

@messrsandersonco5985

3 жыл бұрын

@@jiggityjig10 boy, you need to learn how to negotiate!

@jiggityjig10

3 жыл бұрын

@@messrsandersonco5985 negotiate being ditched after freeing up my weekend? Boy, bye.

@patriciarose2342

3 жыл бұрын

How often does he do that? Really a guy should cherish and respect your time, especially in the early stages. Even so, this should be an exception not a habit.

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3 жыл бұрын

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" I need some space but this isn't a break up" and doesn't communicate during his "space apart"...... so basically he ghosted me? Lol

He says people ask me why in single. I was hurt so bad by my wife its hard for me too trust. This is after sending me beautiful songs, giving me thought full gifts and telling me he loves me. Also being totally supportive to me thru life.

@gpeace9187

3 жыл бұрын

Peggy, please get over it. I know it hurts, but not everyone will betray you. Don't let one person dictate your future as that is giving them control over you even after they are long gone. Learn from your mistakes. Try to forgive for yourself so you can be whole again. Good luck.

Am new here but you advise have really helped me so much in my long distance relationships...now he is really crazy with me😍😍

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

@@victoriavickie6705 i'm sorry. That "Matthew Boggs" that replied above looks like a scam to me.....

My ex-husband told me that he was selfish and I should have believed him the first time he told me that and walked away!! Lost many years with him!!

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@ruth..

3 жыл бұрын

@@matthewboggs6165 fake account. He only has one “t” in his name haha.

Great video! Learned over time...what he says is just what he means. Don't read into it. Pay attention to the words used. That's it. (Put the overthinking cap away;)

Yup! Lesson learned! My ex told me he was an asshole & used all his gf in the past, but he wouldn't do that to me... And me like an idiot believed I was the exception 😂 Shame on me, but lesson learned. Never again!

Hi Mat, Great advice. I think women hear what they want to hear. Thanks Mat xxx 💝

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3 жыл бұрын

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What does he mean when he says certain things make him feel weird? One example is when we hung out on my birthday and we just talked and hung out. He ended up hugging me at the end of the night after we had such a great conversation.

Wow ❤️🔥🎉

Mat I was very interested in the comments you made about 'guy time' because I believe the relationships you have with your friends are equally important as the relationship you have with your partner, and those relationships need nurturing. If you spend all your time with your partner, what is there left to talk about. What do you think Mat?

@sweetsue4204

3 жыл бұрын

May I?.....Married for 35 years to a hermit, which severely cut back on the time I spent with others outside of work. It was a good thing my grandfather had taught me that most of the time in a marriage you’re sitting quietly together, doing your own thing, but up until his dying breath we never ran out of things to talk about. Two creative and curious minds that enjoy the interface with each other......quite frankly, it was never boring either.

The Third One happens a lot.

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@kshrvpz1587

3 жыл бұрын

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He should have asked' how was your day?' Men are not good at asking thoughtful questions but they expect us to know how with them?

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@kemi.a.2000

3 жыл бұрын

@@matthewboggs6165 I will. Thanks

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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I have a couple 1) When he told me that he dosen't want me to listen to people that will tell me if they see him talking to other girls. Because sometimes people don't want to see a person have a happy relationship so people will say things to end other peoples relationships, to not listen to everything I hear. " I'm not the sheathing type when I'm going out with someone that's who I'm with." 2) I'll change once I get married because I'll have someone to come home to and that cares about me. 3) All I want is someone who can encourage me and motivate me to do better. So that I can feel motivated to stop drinking. Somebody that loves me and that will be encouraging and not put me down at yell at me .

Watching

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3 жыл бұрын

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Hey Mat, I believe you when you say guys need their guy time with mates or working on a project etc.

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When you ask your boyfriend if he wants to hangout and he says “It’s fine”. Seriously wth, it’s not ‘fine’ it should be “that sounds great” or “of course “ ugh, fine.. smh! Then he tries to justify it because ‘fine’ really means AWESOME, why else would they call it “fine dining “?! 🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

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3 жыл бұрын

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@michaelhart1072

3 жыл бұрын

Girl chill. We have different emotional reactions, why are you trying to control ours? Fine is good. Accept your guy for who he is

@amandaantico78

3 жыл бұрын

@@michaelhart1072 interesting because that sounds like something someone would say who has no interest in learning how to improve communication in a relationship. Have you read the Love Language book? Some people feel loved VERY differently than others.

“I don’t want to hurt you”

As for the third one. Make plans then decide to bail and go out with your friends? Need guy time? I need it too...and that guy down the road is kind of cute. Although this attitude might be why I choose to be single.

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@michaelhart1072

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah you should stay single if a guy wanting to go be with his friends make you cheat.

@SandraWatkinsB

3 жыл бұрын

@@michaelhart1072 didn’t read the whole thing did you? He made plans then bailed on those plans. Makes him a loser in my eyes. Don’t make plans or promises that you don’t keep. But hey, men don’t see it that way.

I’m just waiting for some guy to tell me he is an a-hole so I can reply “oh really? Thanks for letting me know. I gotta go.”

@ajkirkland3807

3 жыл бұрын

😂 Exactly.

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@mariamutahi.

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣nice one

Hey Matt. Thanks for the video. #1 was actually the case with me in that the guy told me specifically he was an a-hole and I took it as he needs attention! Epic Fail cos he turned out to be just that! 🙄🙄He would also say things like I’m getting flowers for my girlfriend when I am working away and in the same breath say, I just wanted to hear what you had to say about that! A complete mindfuzz! Anyway, I am learning the art of listening to what is said and not interpreting it as what I want to hear but rather take it from the place it comes from. Great video! Thanks

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LOL!!!! Mat this is Amazing and so so True!!!!!! Love your videos!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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We have been together for a long time.i think we will always be together I love you.

I was dating a guy and after few weeks he told me that I am very sweet but he wanted to give me a little tip and told me I shud be little strong and bold otherwise I will dominate over you. I felt it was good suggestion and yes it was initial few weeks so I use to avoid any conflicting conversations. Later after 5 months in dating when I started implementing his advise on him and take my stand over things...then we started fighting a lot over everything. Later we broke..So yes I did what he told me when the time came but then he could take that and things went south.

@ty1480

3 жыл бұрын

Keep practicing being bold

@aff.k

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks 😊

@eeyeltee

3 жыл бұрын

Never ever change for any man to conform to what they want you to be UNLESS you want it for self growth. Establish boundaries and stick with it. A man who loves you and wants you to be part of his life will stick with you for the long haul. Be your unique authentic self #selflove

@aff.k

3 жыл бұрын

@@eeyeltee you said it well ...thank you ..I love developed so much of self love and I am committed to my personal development.

What if he said he doesn’t know when I asked him where do we stand with one another. He said he start feeling depressed, he gets sick all the time, he is not a good company for me at the moment. I answered him ok then we haven’t talked for 44 days now. So he means breakup, right?

Hey Matt i wanna say thank u for all ur advice videos. I been dating this guy for a while. He does everything a man does if he loves someone. But be hasn't said the words "i love you" yet. I know you cant force love, but i want to know if i am doing anything wrong.

@chinnalipante9165

3 жыл бұрын

I caught my boyfriend cheating when I used hackwilliam325 on iG to hack his phone,I needed to be sure he wasn't seeing someone else because his attitude towards me changed completely,I tried to force myself to trust his and move on with this but it totally made me sleepless at night to the point that I just couldn't take it anymore,a friend of mine told me about William,he was finally done hacking her phone and I was completely speechless when I found out everything it had been going on for two months and I just found out..

@AriLynn1014

3 жыл бұрын

@@chinnalipante9165 wow im so sorry to hear that. Thank goodness you found out sooner than later 💯

We have been texting nearly every day 4 months during confinement..and we have only had 2 video chats. I addressed it recently, that I would really like an ACTUAL phone conversation more frequently because its important to me to form a better connection and he told me "He has NEVER liked talking on the phone, even with his family". He prefers us be in person, but with pandemic etc..this is impossible.

@Sarotti28

3 жыл бұрын

Wow! I once had a gent say the same thing: that he never talks on the phone except to his mother and texts. I said, "Ok, no problem. We're looking for different things out of a relationship." He was totally single & will likely be that way for a while. (I'm not being mean. He just hasn't dated in a long time.) I sincerely wished him the very best in his search for love & he did the same to me. Guess what? A very short time later I met my bf & we're thick as thieves. He LOVES to video chat during the pandemic & even now after a video chat he will text to say how much he loves seeing me. It's tough during the pandemic. If you've communicated your need & he's not willing to meet you halfway with a simple phone or video call... Keep your options open for that man who is willing to step up to the plate with you & put forth an effort. You're worth it.

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3 жыл бұрын

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@bertadavila318

3 жыл бұрын

@@Sarotti28 thanks for your kind words they give me hope! I actually researched that phone anxiety really exists for lots of people..and he explained he has suffered anxiety in the past..so I get he can get nervous and hide behind texting. He is also an introvert. The thing that keeps me connected is his communcation of his desire to spend time in person once all of this craziness is over..and I believe him. He is a very serious person. We dont live in the same area and Spain is still in severe lockdown. So.. I dont want to completely discard him, if this is the case. I have expressed what will make me happy, so he knows. Balls in his court. he did commented ..that wow how surprising it is that his voice makes me happy and that maybe this IS something he can be willing to kick. However, I'm not going to continue to pressure..nor put all my eggs into one basket.

@Sarotti28

3 жыл бұрын

Good for you for doing the research. I had no idea such a phone anxiety exists. Your patience is commendable. Not much one can do during a Covid lockdown & I understand the challenges. It'll take some creativity & this will force you both to take the time to get to know each other. My hope is that he will at least agree to more video & phone calls as a minimum. Emails are nice, however they're limiting. A real relationship requires that in person face-to-face time where you share activities, mutual interests, and hobbies doing things together over many dates. Maybe you both can read a self development/relationship book together & discuss it. I'm doing that with my partner who suggested we read the book together which is great. (I didn't even have to ask - Bonus!) Glad you're also keeping your options & mind open. You appear quite kind-hearted & deserve the absolute best. Best wishes always!

@bertadavila318

3 жыл бұрын

@@Sarotti28 thank you! Love and much light to you!!🤍🤍

"What have you done today?" Yup, that was this guy's question to me earlier and yes, took it at face value. Good timing, Mat!

@lioydwilliams1850

3 жыл бұрын

C J, you look stunning dear

#manbiguous When he cut off the conversation in the best point of that, saying: "Now, I have to go" or "Now, I'll let you go". In these moments, I wish we had more time for building connections.

Well, if he says, do you mind if I go and play a poker tournament, I say yes. It's his way of releasing what has happened in his week or day. On the other hand I have been hopelessly ill and he got called o off to a business conference somewhere far off, then i feel second best. I felt that he put work before family.

Hey

Why all of sudden me and the hubby no longer take vacations he takes his own vacations. He said he needs his alone time.

Well i will say this , i got married and then my husband did tell me he could be an asshole, i told him , you better not be to me...and he always seemed good to me....fast forward 7 years he had a stroke and died, i found out then all of the lies that he told that i thought were truth, i could write a book... And this was a year and a half ago.so its true when they say it , they mean it.im still trying to get through it.but my new man told me he wants to "keep me" and he does alot for me.so is "keep me" the same as love me?

I just need a little time to my self

" it's "essential time" for women as well. Hellloooo!!!mention that.

I really wish my ex husband was up front and had told me he was an asshole, it would have saved me many years. On another note, I think most women take things the wrong way. Then, I’m ok with man time, in fact, I encourage it!!

Last year I dated a guy who told me his story (me was separated), so I could understand him in case he got weird 🙄 I just ran away.

What does he mean when he says “do you feel like your emotionally stable?” Because to me it reads as “you don’t seem emotionally stable, is that true” but I’m sure that’s not what he means.

He says; "I need to fix my life before I can give more to you" 🤨

@almaengberg313

3 жыл бұрын

ironically, i have said that to a guy once. In my situation, i wasn't ready to be in a relationship at the time, though i really wanted to. I needed to fix some pretty major things in my life, to feel ready for a commitment. I really wanted to give the guy everything though and caring about him was a huge reason for why i wanted to fix my life. Fixing major stuff though took a long time for me, though i dont know anything about your guy, might be something totally different.

@tereyk2169

3 жыл бұрын

@@almaengberg313 did y'all end up together? You have to admit it feels like a blow off...like "it's not you, it's me"...

@cebisilensibande7956

3 жыл бұрын

Terey I’m seeing a guy who told me that and i said cool but he can’t stay away from me he is the one texting me first,calling and missing me ....I really dnt understand what’s must i do here because i dnt wanna be hurt

@cebisilensibande7956

3 жыл бұрын

Alma what were you expecting from the guy when you address the issue?

@tereyk2169

3 жыл бұрын

@@cebisilensibande7956 yeahhhhh...I also said "cool"...and he has been mostly radio silent, but sends messages and "likes" randomly...I know he misses me... My advice? Be happy and love yourself...don't reach out to him...but respond kindly when he reaches out to you...don't wait for him...take a step back and protect your heart...and if he's lucky, you will still be there for him when he straightens up and starts making good decisions... You have people on your side...

OK help me understand this,,, he always says "Time will tell" when it comes to our relationship. Yes we are dating but it's LDR cos of corona plans were cancelled to meet up so when I bring this up with my frustration then he says it.

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My husband of one year's ambiguous statement, "are you sure you still think you got a prize, cause you'll never get your way, but you will never have anyone love you the way I do," (what?!) Were in our fifties, both have previous marriages, and have the normal amt of disagreements as any other two people who live together. We have both "given in" on positions we came into the marriage with, or met each other halfway, so technically I have "gotten my way" in some cases, but when he says this it worries me.

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Hi Mat.. my bf always when we fight says you hate me I know you do ,and i know you don't like my face . I always saying i love you so much and i can't hated you or i can't love your face . He made me feel insecure with this 2 things. And I always said everyone have a beautiful side in his/her body. But he insisted to said I have an ugly face and you hate me. What I should do ?

@ty1480

3 жыл бұрын

Leave him or stop saying you love him until he says it to U. He's disrespecting U and U shouldn't take it.

@jessykaram5253

3 жыл бұрын

@@ty1480 thnx but he think he is ugly not me .

@tl4754

3 жыл бұрын

Narcissist...Next...move on...quickly

@eeyeltee

3 жыл бұрын

Unless you're a masochist, leave this guy if he won't believe you love him. Reserve your love for someone who gives you more love and attention than you give him. Don't waste time and energy on this guy.

@susanhealey5363

3 жыл бұрын

bf is reflecting his insecurities on you. kick his pathetic ass to the kerb asap

This will be hard as women dont mean what they say all the time. But also when things aren't great some men aren't honest.... that's why ghosting makes women go over statements they've heard to see where the signs were for their disappearance.

He was so sure of his intention at the start of the relationship. He was being upfront - telling he's into me and later confessed the I love you statement. But recently, there was this 1 time that we were texting & he told me that he's still evaluating me (the relationship) and still ongoing actually. I don't get it.

@melatimohdsalleh1880

3 жыл бұрын

He’s not sure about his feelings for you and whether you and him are an actual us couple going onwards steady long term. I’ve been in that situationship before.

@da_xtine

3 жыл бұрын

@@melatimohdsalleh1880 how do you dealt with it? Initially I wasn't too sure. Because I felt like he's coming too strong & I kept pushing him away. That only made his comeback more powerful each time. Probably it's the ego element in this. Now that I'm willing to give a shot & started investing.. suddenly out of the blue he said he's still evaluating this.

@matthewboggs6165

3 жыл бұрын

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He told me that he was the nicest guy I would ever meet.

@welcometothejungle6956

3 жыл бұрын

He's actually the worst hun

@sweetsue4204

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah.... that made me pause too, and I’m widely known for being the sweetest woman you’ll ever meet. 😄 Seriously.....take your time with him. Get him drunk at least once to see his true nature.

@jahdaughter7

3 жыл бұрын

yep, same here!

@susanhealey5363

3 жыл бұрын

red flag

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I’d love to understand the following: i am not ready for commitment/relationship , i will hurt you but i love you and I can’t skip a day without talking to you.......

@pmo7780

3 жыл бұрын

From my perspective he actually does love you and wants to spend time with you but if he puts the label of commited relationship on it then he introduces two new things and the first one has two parts: 1. He has to be more invested in the relationship and accept more responsibilities meaning he can't enjoy the time he spends with you without providing those. There could be two reasons why this is not desirable to him: 1-a: he actually just doesn't want to accept the responsibilities themselves. 1-b: when people invest in something then if it doesn't work out, they'll loose all those investments and effort but if there are no investments then the only thing he looses is his time and since he enjoys the time he spends with you, then the trade was worth it. 2. The more intimate the relationship becomes, the more the persons self worth is on the line. If it ends under the label of commited relationship it means he actually put effort and it was deemed not enough and that he doesn't deserve love but if it ends without that label then even though to some extent it's still the same and it hurts like hell, the pain would be significantly less and won't last as long because you could say she refused part of what I showed her and parts of my efforts, not me entirely. Let me reiterate that these are how I see it and there could be other reasons and if these actually were the case, even though they might seem manipulative, please realise that it stems from everyone's need to be accepted and it's an unconscious reasoning most of the time, meaning that he might not even be aware of these natural defence mechanisms. I advise you to get more though out opinions on what to do (since this hasn't been a problem for me so I might not have the best advice) but if I were to give my opinions, I would say look for red flags (this channel has good videos on how to do so) and first make sure that you can actually see a future with your current partner, then try to give him some love and signs that you actually do want to commit to him so he can be more sure of his decision to do the same for you. I guess what I'm trying to say is if you do love him to, be more understanding. Hope this helps

@cebisilensibande7956

3 жыл бұрын

@@pmo7780 thank you so much I really appreciate your point of view and this one is making sense ,i always understand whatever he is doing

The guy I have been casually seeing for some time has been saying he's very attracted to me, he really likes me, and he wasn't sure if he wants a very serious relationship yet. I don't like to rush things, so I don't mind taking time, and seeing where it goes, but when he was quite a bit drunk, he started to confess to feeling quite a bit more, and being a bit afraid after having been hurt in the past. I don't want to push him until he's ready, but should I believe him mores when he's drunk or when he's sober?

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3 жыл бұрын

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@susanhealey5363

3 жыл бұрын

yes

@peacenlove

2 жыл бұрын

Believe in how much time you have to invest. How long is he going to be ready? 3 months, 6 months, a year or many years. Do you have that much time before you want to settle down? So, time budgeting is important as life is short.

“I don’t know how to answer that question,” followed by silence. 😑

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3 жыл бұрын

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Great video. I don't have a manbiguous statement available as an example, but a complete experience when a man I was dating invited me to his place (far from where I live) to spend some days together and there he totally ignored me and acted like a tremendous asshole🙄

@matthewboggs6165

3 жыл бұрын

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So...question ladies- when a man offers you a manbiguous statement, how comfortable do you feel about asking him "I'm not sure what you mean by that, would you mind explaining a bit more?" And also, how confident do you feel that he would give you a straightforward answer?

@matthewboggs6165

3 жыл бұрын

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I had a date with this guy and he says, "The more you get to know me, you will see I would rather just sit on the couch and watch TV." I thought that was a very odd statement to make and laughed it off. We dated for a while...yes, this is what he did all the time. What did he want to do other than that? Go to the movies...really just another couch and very large t.v. LOL. Oh the other biggie was go to the beach to stand in the water drinking beer. Yes, that is a thing in Florida.

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@matthewboggs6165

3 жыл бұрын

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Hi my guy just broke up with me because I did not reassure him when he said that I deserved someone better than him. I went silent and he tried to get me to talk as he said I misunderstood him. And another occasion similar to that before with him. So he broke up with me and won't talk to me. But what did he really mean.

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3 жыл бұрын

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My ex-man once told me that he was a pretender. My stomach dropped, I knew he meant what he said. I later found out that he had “Border Line Personality Disorder. Smh🙏🏽. We are divorced.

The guy that I'm seeing is still communicating with his ex. He says they are still friends and when I asked him if they're getting back together, he said he doesn't THINK that they're getting back together. That for the most part, they're friends. And he keeps assuring me there's nothing going on between them and that he likes me. Mat, please help. It's still driving me crazy. Maybe make a manual on dealing with a man's ex or clues that women should observe in such situations.

@Sarotti28

3 жыл бұрын

Not a great situation. Trust your own gut. You already know the answer. I see the answer in your comment. You know your bf isn't over his ex & "he doesn't THINK they're getting back together"? When a man is over his ex & really into you, they make it VERY clear & you have no doubts. Your man is STILL communicating with his ex. Is he passing the time with you while he figures out of he can rekindle things with his ex? You deserve a man who is totally into you & respects you. Take control of your own relationship future into & decide if this is what you want for your life. Is this the type of relationship you desire? If it isn't, wish your bf the best, heal & look forward to attracting a great man who is over his ex & focused on YOU because you're worth it! Love yourself. I wish you all the best. ❤️

@matthewboggs6165

3 жыл бұрын

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This same guy I dated would come home and say with a sneer, "I just got back from doing (XYZ), what have you been doing?" To me, he is saying, "you wasted your day reading, while I was out doing (XYZ)"

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3 жыл бұрын

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Watch the movie malcom and Marie and see how men. Feel? I was like huh

“ They want they want”, but you don’t let her down after she made time for you at your request!. Simple. Up until then I was listening. His time is not more valuable than hers!

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3 жыл бұрын

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He told me in our early relationship that he's full of shits. But as our relationship goes on and whenever I'm asking validation of some things about him. He explained it and told me that he's being honest. There is no way for me to confirm everything he told me as we only been meeting online. Been friend for almost a year through mutual connection and only started dating since 2 months ago. The people who r close to him were even telling me that he's full of shits too. My question is how am i supposed to know when he's being genuinely honest with me? also is this kind of guy a big red flag?

Mat unless he's a subversive. Some of us can get involved with abusive types. It's a whole different topic. That could be a red flag. Narcissism is real. There's the M3nd Project for women with history of prior abuse in a relationship. Your teaching is crucial when paired with precautions. Not every man is honest. Some lie... it's rough.

@courtneyallison7328

3 жыл бұрын

I feel this a lot and it’s absolutely true. My long term boyfriend got diagnosed with schizophrenia 2 years ago. There was signs beforehand of course but nothing too major. He changed from a very loving and caring man to not knowing who I was sometimes and things could get violent, other times he’s still himself but a lot of things has changed in the last 2 years and a lot of it isn’t good. He went off his meds last fall and it’s gotten even worse. If he isn’t experimenting with substances, staying up for days on end playing video games, having an episode, or in a catatonic state, he’s just like his old self, but it’s really hard to pinpoint where his mind is and he can have several stages throughout the day.

@matthewboggs6165

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I appreciate the concept of guy time. However, I do not understand the concept of someone canceling plans to do something else. I guess if it's a rare one-off opportunity (like the weekend in the woods can only be the same weekend), but if someone cancels anticipated events to do something without you - when the guys could schedule it another weekend - I don't see how being ok with that doesn't set you up to be a door mat later.

@brandidamore1751

3 жыл бұрын

Your response is not connected and rude

Women need their "alone" time, too. It works both ways.

Hi Mathew, I was talking to a guy once about a product that is good for you. He said, Ahh its too late for me, I can barely move sometimes. My friend thinks that what he said was, I can hardly get it up anymore in bed. I'm not sure but I would like your opinion Please. What was he really trying to tell me?

@Sarotti28

3 жыл бұрын

Need more context to your comment. What kind of product were you suggesting is good for the guy? Example: if he's a runner with stiff joints & you suggested he take glucosamine & he responded, "Ahh, it's too late for me. I can barely move sometimes," I wouldn't automatically assume he's saying he can't perform sexually. That's a real stretch & you'd be reading into things a lot. Don't have enough information to agree or disagree with your friend's opinion.

@ty1480

3 жыл бұрын

@@Sarotti28 It wasn't about the product. It was about what he said to me. The product was for me.

@Sarotti28

3 жыл бұрын

OK, maybe Mat will address this in his next video because it sounds like a simple response to be taken at face value; though your friend seems to think otherwise for whatever reason.

@matthewboggs6165

3 жыл бұрын

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Its funny I was working at a bar a few years ago. There was this guy he would come in a couple times a week from work. Dirty job I finally got the nerve to ask him for a ride home he says sure. It was the next words out of his mouth that shocked me. He asked "do I need cleans clothes to wear after I shower & but I will need work clothes for tomorrow". I just stared at him then he says" ya I'm an asshole, a nice asshole but an asshole" we stopped at his place he grabbed clothes. Introduced me to his father. They lived together his dad had medical problems & couldn't live alone. After he drove me home he spent the nigh. That one night stand we both planned on lasted 5 yrs we lived with his dad I gave up my place. In the end yes he was an asshole he left me because he said I wasn't the same because my hair that went to my waist I chopped it up to a brush cut at the back.

I got one say your ex calls from his new girl friend phone cause he told her all about you. While she sitting there listening he tells you oh she knows I love love love you. But I love her? I think I know what he mint but if that was true then why does he have a girl friend. Just Wondering. Does anyone have any answers?

@youfoundme4939

3 жыл бұрын

I dont think I need any advice. As you can read I answered it. If he loved loved loved me as he put it. Then why would he love someone else.the games these guys play. But thank you for sharing your story.

@youfoundme4939

3 жыл бұрын

I have a guy I'm interested in. I was only sharing my situation. On things men say. I Wish them all the best..😊

@chinnalipante9165

3 жыл бұрын

I caught my boyfriend cheating when I used hackwilliam325 on iG to hack his phone,I needed to be sure he wasn't seeing someone else because his attitude towards me changed completely,I tried to force myself to trust his and move on with this but it totally made me sleepless at night to the point that I just couldn't take it anymore,a friend of mine told me about William,he was finally done hacking her phone and I was completely speechless when I found out everything it had been going on for two months and I just found out..

@youfoundme4939

3 жыл бұрын

@@chinnalipante9165 I feel yeah on the not knowing need to know thing. Iv been there I'm glad that I dont have them worry's anymore. Most of the time if you go with your gut instinct its normally right. Easier said than done I know. I'm the type show me. Which now I'm to the point in my life if I gotta worry about all that then I dont need them anyways. Love is peaceful with no stress of worrying about the other partner cheating or giving mix vibes.

@youfoundme4939

3 жыл бұрын

I know what my ex of 10 years is saying. The question is does he know what I'm saying.

What does he mean when he says that he thinks I can do better than dating him?

@gpeace9187

3 жыл бұрын

Simo Had, maybe he has either low self esteem or he "knows" he has a serious character flaw that will eventually come to light and saying I think you can do better than dating me is a warning of sorts. I'd question that statement and ask for an explanation as there could be lots of explanations why he feels that way.

There's a guy i've met, he said he wants to marry me and willing to meet my parents. And he also want to bring me to meet his parents too. But one day, he suddenly disappeared. And it's been 3 months since we last contact. My question is, did he just leave me? Can anyone help? 😔

@meisamay1328

3 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry to tell you this, but you’ve been ghosted. So yes, he’s probably got cold feet and bailed on you. Idk how long have you two been together. But, if he promised something like that and just left like that, that is not a good sign at all. It could probably that he changed his mind about being together with you. Maybe his family against the idea of you guys are getting married. Maybe he wasn’t sure if this is the right thing to do. Maybe he was afraid of all the commitments that comes with it and it burdens him. So many possibilities but you wouldn’t know if you don’t ask him. Was there ever any talk about how both family think about the relationship or how the relationship would be in the future? I had a three years relationship where my ex told me that he’s gonna marry me and we both have met each other’s family. But then he got a cold feet and we broke up. I was miserable but couple months later he came back saying that he loves me still and wanted to go back with me. Lo and behold, the next day he just ghosted me. Gone. No contact at all. He just cut me off. What I’m saying is, you deserve an explanation. A closure. But sometimes there’s no explanations. You’re not the one he really wanted to, period. Yes it’s hurt. Truth is hurt. But It’s just what it is and there’s nothing we can do to just accept it and move on. You deserve someone who’s not only love you, but also respect you. Leaving you just like that definitely showed that he doesn’t respect you. Girl, let’s just move on. You deserve so much better. Another possibility is that he got into some bad accident...but it’s unlikely so...sorry. Sending you hugs. Stay strong!

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3 жыл бұрын

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@MrsArenisZ

3 жыл бұрын

@@meisamay1328 i see.. thanks for your advise. Now i am slowly trying to move on.. but i was a bit curious, cant he just tell me if he doesnt want to be with me instead of stop contact me? 🤔

When you ask a guy what he wants to do on the weekend and he says ‘whatever you want to do’. Or if you are ordering dinner and he says ‘whatever you want’. I’d just like to know the explanation for him always throwing the choices back at me. Does he genuinely want me to make the choices because I’m good at that sort of thing, or does he genuinely not care, or have no interest whatsoever? Please mansplain that Mat!

I don't understand why you can't hang out with your friends after getting into a relationship. I am a girl and that's the most annoying part of being a couple to me. It's not like you just fuse into one another once you get into a relationship. You're allowed to have your individual interests as well, isn't it?

A guy I started seeing before the lockdown would tell me he’s not into casual sex and ons and he was looking for something more serious, but wouldn’t invite me on dates! He would initiate sexy talk often and even offered for us to go to a sex club, but dates? Nooooo 🤣 I had to let him go, but it still bugs me lol why? Why say one thing and do the opposite?

How you decipher this. im going to Michigan to spend time with my daughter (feb 12th). then asks me what I want to do for Valentines day? Whats the likelihood he will see her then come back to spend time with me. btw this is a ‘manipulative man’ you want me to give you a grocery list of things to do just to disappoint me on the 14th? Then it makes me think he is asking so he has ideas to suggest to his daughter and her mom I asked What do YOU want to do? I got crickets. So I know its bs. Im blocking that number right now. Dont call me on the 15th with IM SORRY

@joyce_music

3 жыл бұрын

I think it’s a little premature to block a guy’s number based purely on what you think is going to happen. I realize idk this man, but we tend to create a self-fulfilling prophecy when we assume the worst. Perhaps he genuinely isn’t a good guy, but if you want to end it, take ownership of that decision. Shying away from addressing your concerns isn’t healthy either. I wish you the best. 💖

@budgetrebelgoals

3 жыл бұрын

@@joyce_music Yes it's so much history there. He is a good guy just not for me. I gave him a lot of time. Trying to find the strength to let it go. He hurt me to say the least

' I LOVE YOU BUT I AM NOT A '0' KM MAN ' what is that suppose to mean??

I asked my boyfriend can I meet him family he says no i don't want to because my family is crazy what does that mean

Ok so what about when he says “I’ll let you know”

@heipaklam5097

3 жыл бұрын

It means 1. He is not sure at all 2. It’s a no 3. If I prolong, u will figure it out 4.This is business, I need more solid information before I can let you know. 5. I need to see if the more important person in my life is ok or prioritized first, then u

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3 жыл бұрын

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What means when guy tells "I love you" only durring sex?

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