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1. Passionate about something - aliveness energy 2. Playfulness 3. Be positive

@tagabulodchastityobedience7292

4 жыл бұрын

💛🌸💛

@whathappenedwas7083

4 жыл бұрын

Was looking for this ! 😂 ty

@adimana1588

4 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️

@Pos546

3 жыл бұрын

If we be the above, character will be at stake..be cautious ! It depends on who we talking..

@jillpaull4392

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

Something that I find extremely attractive in a man is him not being afraid to show that he's a sensitive person.

1. General manliness 2. Catching him looking at me and smiling 3. His time and energy spent on me

@nahoga

4 жыл бұрын

I co-sign, plus #3. And MONEY! LOL

@joycee5493

3 ай бұрын

Yes, general manliness

What I find beautiful in a man is when he is very consistent and I don’t have to guess if he is interested in me or not. He makes it so easy for me to talk to him and I don’t have to worry about whether what I’m saying is dumb or interesting. It’s definitely a breath of fresh air when a guy is like that. I love it 🥰

@planetwalker798

2 жыл бұрын

yes, well said :)

When a man has old school values (plans a date and confirms it, open doors, pulls out chairs, orders dinner) can communicate and has respect for himself ...nothing sexier.

@Lalala-fz2ci

7 жыл бұрын

You don't have hands??

@remiearao7550

7 жыл бұрын

Paige xD

@acharich

7 жыл бұрын

😏😏😏

@wozanisijabulisiwe

6 жыл бұрын

Definitely

@noemistephanie93

6 жыл бұрын

OnWingsOfHope well what do u expect? Look at their username

I find it attractive when a man is gentle when greeting an elderly person , assertive in his job and how courteous in greeting other individuals while being clam cool and collected.

“How he treats others around us is how he’ll eventually treat us” so true 🙄 pay attention to that girls you CANNOT change him.

@thegossetfam5304

3 жыл бұрын

So true

@monicagambino318

3 жыл бұрын

I knew it too late...

@alwaysinprayer900

3 жыл бұрын

Guys only change for the "next" person..my ex said when the same things bothered the new girl ( that he cheated on me with while engaged) then..he knew I was right....twenty years later...she caught him on my FB page I guess...he wrote me out of the blue...oh well...too late.

@lorifulcher3223

3 жыл бұрын

Amen on that.

3 things I find beautiful in a man: 1. Kindness 2. Joyfulness 3. Generosity

@fionagregory8078

4 жыл бұрын

Yes and a tall dark man who is an architect or detective.

@zoraidacastro5403

3 жыл бұрын

@@fionagregory8078 lol

@hildarendon663

3 жыл бұрын

Yyyeeesss! 😍 Kind,Funny Generous, communicative. Tall, ex- military, or C.E.O. 🔥💖 I've got to find me one of those type.

@vai7m551

3 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏😉

@MariaLopez-hc2nm

3 жыл бұрын

@@fionagregory8078 Like Tom Selleck?

Never stop dating you wife. Just because you are married you don't have to let the magic go out of your relationship.

@goldielockks8421

7 жыл бұрын

Mary Ursula Clarke everytime I try and set up a date with my husband he never seems thrilled. And he never asks me on a date...this is getting old...

@wecanthandletruths

7 жыл бұрын

goldielockks Ask him what's going on. 💞

@goldielockks8421

7 жыл бұрын

Eclectic Interests I did...I guess it was a misunderstanding on both accounts. We also don't really have a sitter for the bubbies so we'll work on that.

@chocoloco4505

6 жыл бұрын

your soooo right, i feel the same way, my husband is cold, he is only affectional when he want sex, he always on his cell phone after work and i havent seen him all day, evryday till its time for sleep....same thing every single day for 4 and a half years now... i cry alot because i love him but i realize now that im not inlove with him, so i saved money for a place for me because i cant continue to feel lonley anymore. so many men want to be with me but im faithful. i need happiness again.when i cry he doesnt care he doesnt ask why im crying, never take me to the park or a stroll around the block. I hate that he is like this with me because im a very passionate woman, i like cook outs, watching the sunset, making sure he has frsh dinner when he comes home from work, his laundry done. I try talking to him about beautifull things but he just brushes me off. I talk to him that i want to live on my own and i want a divorce but he won't let me go because i give him what he needs yet he doesn't give me the attention i need. we go on a date oncw a year if that. i always pray to god that he sees how loyal i am to him an that i try to make him happy. but im finally giving up. i hope god gives me the strength to be living on my own, with my 16 year old son, he not the biological father btw.....JESUS PLEASE HELP ME AND MY SON.....AMEN

@hamzaboss4903

5 жыл бұрын

My husband is a piece of shit

My wife and I have been married for 47 years, and she admits to loving me for so long is how I make her laugh and smile. But she makes the same for me. Be spontaneous and live your life for each other and everything else will fall into it's place....guaranteed!!!

@phxarizona7201

3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful Stay Blessed ❌⭕❌⭕💖

@sineadiloveyou

3 жыл бұрын

I hope I can have what you two have

@alwaysinprayer900

3 жыл бұрын

@@sineadiloveyou agree..I'm alone very long time

@sineadiloveyou

3 жыл бұрын

@@alwaysinprayer900 I'm not alone. But sometimes, I feel like I was alone 😔 I don't know what's worse.

@alwaysinprayer900

3 жыл бұрын

@@sineadiloveyou it's hard for humans I guess...we want to dwell in harmony...but our programming is towards the material and we get edgy and fight sometimes and shut down...even if we absolutely love someone.

A man who is honest, A man who is not bossy, A man who is romantic, A man who treats you as his equal, A man who has a sense of humor, A man who is positive, A man who loves God, A man who cares about others, A man who cares about pets.....

@joannedovey9710

3 жыл бұрын

perfect

@eufroniacruz755

3 жыл бұрын

This is perfect. Loved this!

@neetabhat5316

3 жыл бұрын

Rather a man who doesn't exist on this planet probably? Hehe, jst kidding..

@MaryTheresa1986

Жыл бұрын

You described my husband. 😍😍

I love when a man makes me feel like Im the only girl in the world..Especially when a beautiful woman walks in his path...and he seems to not notice nor care

@lolitamorris4164

3 жыл бұрын

Me too!! Right on!!

@patriciarobbins3791

3 жыл бұрын

Why it is always the woman that has to create the excitement, happiness, etc. Always the woman. Why not the man?

@johanna5688

3 жыл бұрын

Angela Rose, sounds just like my ex husband. Made me feel special like I was the only woman in the world. Problem was he made EVERY woman feel like that. He used to walk a little behind me when we went out & arranged to meet the local whores later on, thinking I didn't see. I pretended not to see. He had women all over the place. He worked in hotels. Enough said! He remarried and was contacting women on social media to meet up with, while he had a younger new wife & young son at home. She promptly dumped him. He misses his little boy but hardly gets to see him. He is now old, alone & lonely now. He lost EVERYTHING. We all know him now. Nobody wants him. He felt entitled to see any woman he wanted to. He just never got the msg. A man should be respectful and cherish his wife without lying by putting on a BS show of being a devoted husband. Why should we waste our precious time on someone who doesn't care about us? Ppl who met him at first thought how devoted a husband he must be, whereas he was in reality a cheating love-rat. Don't be fooled by looks alone. Actions speak louder than words. My husband played his part very well in front of me or my friends, but was anything but - the opposite. He dropped to rock-bottom in my estimation. I divorced him. I then told him EVERYTHING I ever knew about him. He looked absolutely STUNNED thinking I was his idiot. Hey guys, when you cheat on us - WE KNOW! We are NOT stupid. Ok?.... Later on when he tried to get back with me, I talked non stop about how much I love my husband, since I remarried. I told him of his good qualities which he himself lacks. He got the msg. He regrets it all after having his midlife crisis. My door is firmly SHUT to him - permanently. His is a sad story. He is still handsome but has developed deep mental problems. He's very bitter, angry & will most likely never find another woman again in his condition. He's always confrontational & shouts at everyone if what he's doing isn't going smoothly. He has turned into an out of control raging madman after he got dumped & I too rejected him. He told me he hates women??? and is nasty to all around him. He had it all but chose to walk away. He has himself to blame. He should be in a psych ward. He's not getting the treatment he needs. He is suicidal & deserves ALL that he brought onto himself. He has nothing. He no longer lives in the big lovely home like b4 but in a tin can sized place. His life isn't worth living. Take note you guys out there. Bad conduct and getting old will not have women knocking on & lining up outside your door.

@earthangel3108

3 жыл бұрын

That man is the jackpot!

@waldensiansylph4869

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!

I like in a man: Honesty/trustworthy; humour; & thoughtful/caring/empathetic

1. Good Communicator - Not afraid to show vulnerability 2. Confident but not arrogant 3. Smart and Strategic

@stevenherrold5955

5 жыл бұрын

his list could have been 12 things that are attractive to men 3 is like saying well i know my car needs gas oil and tires to run but what else does it need ?? duh!!!!

@MsMesem

5 жыл бұрын

Vulnerability is out, they cant cope with looking after anyone but themselves.

@sannagray1382

5 жыл бұрын

amen

@efaronshaggyjinky9434

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed 200%

Three things I find attractive in a man: 1. Assertiveness/Confidence 2. Sense of humour 3. Spontaneity

@amiugly2255

3 жыл бұрын

Aysheri

When a man takes the initiative to pray with you and spend time with you in Gods word , When a man is not afraid to show his true feelings

@monicanath4859

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@terrysmith5190

3 жыл бұрын

True ❤️

@ludiajorycha1044

3 жыл бұрын

Amen🙏🙏

@DanielaaLovessYouu

3 жыл бұрын

Amen!!! God bless you 🧡

@simply-living8523

3 жыл бұрын

Yes 🙌

Protectiveness, sense of humour, gentlemanly behaviour.

@greenkitty82

5 жыл бұрын

MaddiedeVillada I agree. Also it's really attractive when a man isn't afraid to admit his feelings or cry, it's so attractive as it turns on the nurturing instinct in a female. Compassion and kindness to all is very attractive too. I can't stand a male who thinks they need to be macho or aggressive, it's so unattractive. If it's a fight in protection of you it's different, that's very attractive but being controlling and aggressive to get what they want, that's a huge turn off.

@susanparker9873

5 жыл бұрын

MaddiedeVillada amen

That "sexy walk" in tbe beginning wore me out. 😂😂😂

@jazzymoni7750

7 жыл бұрын

***** What?? How is that negative?? I was giving him a comedic thumbs up.

@jazzymoni7750

7 жыл бұрын

Mark Conlon No worries. Just a more urban turn of phrase that means something is incredibly funny. 😊

@jazzymoni7750

7 жыл бұрын

***** Yeah. I'm more prone to phone convos, as well. But for the most part, I'm a pretty expressive writer so not much gets misinterpreted. I think this was just more a case of me using lingo that you weren't so familiar with, which is understandable. No offense taken at all.

@trianaaaliyah1836

7 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 it was the head motion

@storiesfromauntiepam8663

7 жыл бұрын

+Mark Conlon U absolutely right

1) Being a true gentleman 2) passionate (same as your point 1 for women) 3) expressing his emotions specially to his partner

I love it when my husband calls me and flirts with me.

I find humor attractive and a man who has a calm nature

@amandagarcia6320

5 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!!!!!!! Calm nature is HUGE!!!........these guys who are "spastic" are a real turn-off. Calm men are sexy and hard to find:-)

I loved watching this video from Mat Boggs. 1)Passion 2)Playfulness 3) Being positive--great tips! Love this,

what I find so incredibly loveable is feeling that i'll be loved unconditionally. because we all fall short from perfect, and I know that I will be there through mistakes I want to feel safe knowing that so will they.

When a man compliments me, when he apologizes for his mistakes and when he is faithful.

@cruiseanthony6197

3 жыл бұрын

That's what a woman needs from a man Apologizes ...where are you from ? Greetings from New Zealand

I love, when I feel appreciated, when I can be myself and when a men is thoughtful and I can tell he noticed little things that are meaningful to me. :)

The qualities I find beautiful in a man are, 1)His passion in loving God first above all, because if he loves God first, then there is no room for worries. 2) sense of humor and 3) less talk more action

@kashifaarahams3787

3 жыл бұрын

3. Less talk more action. ......very important.

@earthangel3108

3 жыл бұрын

Amen, Amen, and Amen sister!

@tanyathompson2396

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!

When a man has a great sense of humor and makes me laugh.

@hildarendon663

3 жыл бұрын

Yup! That's it!☺😊😀😃😄😘

@lolitamorris4164

3 жыл бұрын

Being playful, silly and humorous...then he becomes sexy and attractive!!

@winniegraham1102

3 жыл бұрын

Funny

@melindaluksich6740

3 жыл бұрын

@@lolitamorris4164 aàà

Thought u were going to say: A confident woman. A good listener and a sense of humour. Best qualities a man can have: faithfulness, integrity and generosity

1. Protector 2. Provider 3. Respect me and my desires 4. Treats me as #1 5. Ambitious 6. Emotionally present and can be a comfort. 7. A leader/has power & authority 8. Loves/gentle with children 9. **Loves to worship God***

It's a turn on when a man recognizes my internal beauty and compliments my hustle!

@joylugo4979

4 жыл бұрын

true that

@shammahndzalama9731

3 жыл бұрын

Oh yes💓

I really appreciate you pointing out how tiring negativity is. I have a hard time finding women friends because they complain so much about their spouses. I love to let my hubby know how much I adore and appreciate him, not only to him but to our friends. Been happily married 28 years. :)

1. Passion .. stay passionate about what you love. What keeps you feeling alive 2. Playfulness - be light & easy going, be present, learn to have fun 3. Be positive - fantastic human quality Always two sides. it’s up to us to focus on what’s going right. Negativity is the most ugly qualities anyone can display

the things i found attractive in men are: 1. being responsible / caring -when theres a problem he's there beside you, he won't leave you, he'll do what he promised you with all his heart. 2. being humble 3. passionate in every thing he's into 4. he respects and accept you as who you are

@lamamama6337

4 жыл бұрын

So true. Nothing feels more loving than a man who stands beside you when times get tough. He let's you know he is there for you and on your side. I have never experienced that myself, but I know how much it hurts to not have his support.

@everedit4you285

3 жыл бұрын

That are the golden rules and i couldn't agree more with you

things i like in men : 1. Devotion ( i don;t say he should not look at other women at all, but he should just look and nothing more) 2. Inner firmness and stability (i should rely on him, i shouldn't be afraid that once he promises smth today he will change his mind tomorrow. Man has to be a master of his word) 3. Humor ( life is much easier when you take humor in it and do not take everything seriously, we all have problems, sometimes we have to laugh over them) 4. Ambitious (he should have great plans and he should believe he will achieve them someday) 5. Kindness (cruelty is not attractive , when you are a good personality with kind heart is 6. Friendliness ( the root of root of love is friendship, when you can just sit and talk things out is awesome) 7. Soulmate (someone you is yours and nobody else's) Sorry for long list, hope you enjoy it ))

@Carolechichi

7 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you !

@diannawilliams9419

7 жыл бұрын

yes that's perfect!!

@sunshinegirl7489

7 жыл бұрын

New Nanny , yes! #2!! We so need that!! I believe that comes from his emotional maturity! really...all the things that you listed are good! : )

@cherrynenne6556

7 жыл бұрын

hope to find some ))

@lahinna432hz

7 жыл бұрын

Agree!!

Cliff notes. 1. Passion/enthusiasm/aliveness 2. Playfulness 3a. Be positive (even when it’s not so easy) 3b. Kind/generous

@accountname537

5 жыл бұрын

LinYouToo THERE IT IS;)

When a man goes out of his way to do something special just for me: kindness and thoughtfulness.

love when a man opens a door and treats me I'm special and worth caring for.

@wshelby83

5 жыл бұрын

the forge I feel the same way

1. I love when a man has inner strength 2. I like to be treated like a woman.. (opening doors, pulling out chairs) even if I say no.. I like for them to do it anyway. (in other words I like when they know the right thing to do and they do it) 3. Humility- the ability to say they are wrong or they are sorry 4. I like a man to say he's in his man cave-give me a while and not just ignore you or act cold. I get the "man cave thing" 5. Honesty (should have been #1 but thought it was a given) 5. I love when a man listens and observes things. Since I know this may be hard for them because they could care less what kind of clothes you wear or where you shop, so when they get you earrings from your favorite shop or your favorite flower (doesn't have to be a lot) it really shows they care and are observant to your likes. 6. Another tough one, but women sometimes like to vent. I like when a man listens. Maybe a head shake or a "hmm, that stinks, I can't believe that happened" Please don't find a solution to the problem. Validate (as crazy as it may sound to them) trust me, it makes us feel better. 7. Love, love, love when a man pulls your hair back from your face and gives a gentle kiss on the cheek. No reason. Just because. 8. A smile and eye contact with that smile 9. A take charge type of guy but lets me have my own way.. in a playful way. 10. A major turn-off for me is a man who takes selfies, brags, and agrees with you but does what he wants anyway. All of these likes are, of course, if you are in a healthy relationship. I like a man to smell like a man, look like a man and I will, in return look like a woman. We are different and have different needs. Some are the same and some are not. This is my opinion so hopefully women don't jump down my throat for it.

@chocoloco4505

6 жыл бұрын

i love it...... especially #7 but i get neither of them, im always giving him all the attention and everything above.....

@shaswatichattopadhyay4245

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Angela, I roughly knew this man cave thing but not so much My current date just did that... It's super crazy after chasing me off n on for about n year plus 2.5 months of serious dating he vanished into "his man-cave" ( as I can read now) Good or bad I need to deal But I get it why he simply withdrew Thanks 😊

@Scuba_Steve_lll

4 жыл бұрын

Good list but what you said in number 2 (even if you say no) guys hate that. When you say no, we think you mean no and we shouldn't do it, so we don't do it.

@fussballnot

4 жыл бұрын

Darren Hudson That was the only detail of the entire list that bothered me too. If you truly don't want a guy to do those things, let him know that and expect him to respect your preference. If you do like when a man does those things, a simple " thanks", "thank you" or a warm smile is in order.

Gentleness is beautiful in a man. An unapologetically masculine man...that too, is beautiful to a feminine woman.

1. Vulnerability (in relationship, NOT DATING) - when he's not afraid to show his feelings, tells you his weakness, says sorry (most guys pride are just damn too high) 2. Confidence & amazing social skills Nothing turns me off more than having no friends & can't stand for himself & his lover 3. Passionate about life (just like your explanation) 4. When he loves animals , treat others with compassion ♥️♥️

The three things I find attractive in a man are, is he: attentive, affectionate, and trustworthy. Protective is a close fourth.....

@ddupree9484

4 жыл бұрын

Protective...definitely.

@phyllismorgenstern6076

4 жыл бұрын

Scammerds

A strong relationship with his Creator and Redeemer that isn't just a show or a piety. But has actually formed and established in him the heart of Christ.

My husband just told me yesterday, “I trust you’ll make the right decision.” With a wink 😉 haha that always makes a woman feel good

@belgicarivera4002

2 жыл бұрын

Oh yeah:)

Qualities I love in a man: eye contact, open minded, thoughtful, present, curious, compassionate listener, sense of humor, values communication

What i find attractive in men: 1. Good values as a person like being sincere, belief in god, security in himself, positivity, etc. 2. Inteligence 3. Sense of humor Hope I can help with some ideas :)

What qualities i find in a man beautiful? 1.)God fearing - Fear of god is the beginning of wisdom. 2.)Respectful 3.)Positive attitude 4.)Humble 5.)Compassionate 6.) A man that can bring you closer to god.

@estherjohnson6019

7 жыл бұрын

Yas yas yas

@tantanmustdie

6 жыл бұрын

Clair rose Nah

@kellystone1535

6 жыл бұрын

Clair rose Until he turns and uses that Bible to abuse you. Religion is control. Religious men are into control in a big way.

@dianeyarzebinski5192

6 жыл бұрын

Clair rose amen!

@nataliapelenkahu

6 жыл бұрын

Of course

I love Compassion in a man, Kindness, Respect, show Interest in me, Caring, Confident, Just Simply Beautiful.

Never thought of it this way before: "How you treat others around you is how you're going to treat us after you become comfortable with us". Watching how a couple of different guys I dated treated waiters and waitresses was a major turn-off for me. Another red flag for me is when the guy puts his cell phone on the table at a restaurant and periodically checks it during our time together. But it didn't occur to me that the reason these behaviors are a turn off is because on some level I know that's how they would treat me later. Good point!

I love when a man has dinner or a drink with me, looks at me with a smile in his eyes, or friendly expression in his face, and pays attention to me, and talks to me. It feels wonderful when a man looks at me, with open welcoming body language, and with all the positive energy it gives me it inspires me to give to him things he loves also so it is win win. I love it when he supports and protects me either in hypothetical scenarios or real life. I love when he is loyal to me above all others. I love kindness, genuine kindness; kind and gentle, yet strong. I love self sufficiency. He is able to look after himself, have a good job and turn up to work every day, save his money responsibly, be reliable and dependable, and support himself perfectly. I love when he treats everyone in his life with respect and kindness.

@ogiiross9383

7 жыл бұрын

Perth Flute Academy

When he’s a protector. His sincerity. His morals and values.

When I started dating my husband 35 years ago, I had purchased a Patagonia brand jacket. It cost about $150 which was a lot of money for me to spend back then. It got stolen, and I didn't have the money to replace it. Valentines Day arrived shortly after. He took me to dinner, and afterward the waiter brought a big gift box to the table. It said "Patagonia" on it. I looked at my husband, who had a big smile. I opened it and there was an exact duplicate of my jacket. Boy, if I wasn't crazy about him before! Kindness is the most important thing to me.

@lareinae5184

4 жыл бұрын

Awww.... You're just so lucky to have met a man like that ❤️❤️❤️

@smpotts7640

4 жыл бұрын

@@lareinae5184 Oh, thank you for your nice comment. I've always felt lucky. Take care.

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

4 жыл бұрын

For me, it's Bose headphones and a particular type of discontinued drum sticks. If he did some reconnaisance on me and went and found something unique to me, I might consider marrying him. So far, I prefer buying it myself. Lots of men are SOOO cheap. Not all, tho. One guy bought tickets for us to see the Wall, THEN for me and my friend to see it without him. That was big. And I drove his Maserati. I was terrified. He said, look, it's JUST a car. It's insured. Don't worry about it. (No, i didn't damage it).

You make me laugh a lot! 😂 1. I appreciate a man who is respectful and kind to me and other people (waiters, other men, children, his parents, etc.). 2. He must be ambitious or is happy with his life and what he does at least (I hate negative people). 3. I respect a man who takes care of his appearance and hygiene. I don't understand it when they think their body, teeth, hair or clothes don't matter to girls. 🤦🏻‍♀️ 4. He should have an opinion; not just keep saying yes to the girl to please her even if he's not happy. I'm trying to think of other qualities! Love from Egypt+UAE! ❤️

quiet confidence, protective of me and of others, being my hero, of good and honest character.

What I find beautiful in a man: If he's mature but also full of life. If he's a true gentleman with old fashion values. If he is respectful. If he has ambitions and dreams. If he is protective. If he is strong, and I don't mean physically. If above all things he is sincere and loyal to his values.

@kayephillips7256

4 жыл бұрын

Good luck finding him!

@ryanclover1148

4 жыл бұрын

So you basically want to be treated like a queen but will you treat him like king

@eldiariodecantodehellen

4 жыл бұрын

@@ryanclover1148 I have a boyfriend now. I treat him like someone between a king and a God, if that answers your question :3 and he actually does the same with me! Might sound like bs, but it's true. It never happened to me before, ever. He loves me for real, and that's why I'm like that with him. He is my king, even if that annoys some people sometimes, including my family or friends, sometimes even people that I don't know when we are in public xD in my country, if you're a woman and you treat your man like your king, they point fingers at you. They did that to me, as if I were against womens rights for treating him like that when it actually has nothing to do with that. It's sad. People sometimes lose the opportunity to do beautiful things just because it is not well seen by the rest.

@eldiariodecantodehellen

4 жыл бұрын

@@ryanclover1148 BTW... Sorry if my English sucks. It's not my real language.

@eldiariodecantodehellen

4 жыл бұрын

@@kayephillips7256 I founded him :3

He listens and is genuinely interested in what I have to say i.e. he pays attention, asks follow-up questions; doesn't take the topic I introduced to use it to now talk all about himself (self-centered). He is genuinely complimentary. Has a sense of balance about himself and life, including humor.

Qualities I find beautiful in a man are 1) being open with his emotions and not burying them in order to appear "manly" 2) chivalry such as if a man holds the door open for me or offers me his jacket when it's cold 3) protectiveness

Spiritually minded! Kind and loving towards towards children, the elderly and animals! Wash the dishes, takes out trash, helps with household chores! Physically affectionate- lots of hugs & kisses and holding hands! Lets you sleep.

Definitely a man who loves God, who is humorous, adventurous, and intelligent!

1: Being honest, trustworthy and genuine 2: Being present and listening 3: Being caring, fun, understanding, experimental - I guess the same goes for women as well 🙂

@lioydwilliams1850

3 жыл бұрын

Karine T.Knudsen,you got a pretty smile !

Must be affectionate, positive, confident and cooks every now and then.

@starfishw7138

3 жыл бұрын

Give me a break. They failed to teach all this stuff in school

@zoraidacastro5403

3 жыл бұрын

Yesssss food brings families together

@KayNovember26

3 жыл бұрын

I have all of these qualities and I'm a great cook! I also value family time and keep my house clean. Old school for sure. Sometimes difficult to balance my career and household... I give it my best. My fiancee absolutely adores me. Getting married soon! I still think I'm the lucky one having him in my life. Just saying.

I love it when guys are gentle and kind, but also positive, as you had mentioned. It's great when they have a sense of humor as well.

Vulnerability for sure... A man who isn't afraid to show his emotions. Passion, positivity, playfulness and patience as well!

@xm377Moyocoyatzin

5 жыл бұрын

Those all sounds like the qualities of a child.

@maretvilla1531

5 жыл бұрын

Emotional men are like having a gay besrfriend instead of a boyfriend. Emotions should be displayed at the right time and right cause. Men are not emotional by nature so let men be men and embrace their natural manliness. Let women bring the drama. Let the men keep their cool and help declutter the unnecessary emotions women tend to overly display

I think you are spot on for attractiveness, regardless of gender. Many a first date have flopped when someone was unkind to those serving them or with less power, continuously complaining, or being indecisive. I'd say other huge factors are: 1. asking questions and 2. bragging, which tend to go hand-in-hand. Usually someone who brags about their life is not someone who cares to ask meaningful questions.

I am 47 happy single I never commeted to a man I never go dating, maybe at this time I would learn lot of new things here.thanks alot....

I find that loyalty, generosity, honesty, being affectionate , polite and looking in my eyes while talking to me are very beautiful traits in a man .

@margomazzeo1680

5 жыл бұрын

ameelia ramotar yes!!

@wshelby83

5 жыл бұрын

ameelia I agree with you!!

that's so sweet men who take control but aren't controlling super sexy

My husband is the best example of a great man. He is soft, firm and caring. He is concerned about people around him. His presence take me to heaven. Thankyou sir

Thoughtful, being honest, and most of all just being there to care for your needs. 💕

A quality or some qualities that I find beautiful in a man: 1. That they're innovative. (i.e. suggesting going to a festival, or events that I've never heard of or knew about. 2. Upbeat personality: I find it attractive when guys are the ones all upbeat and smiley. I'm usually the same way, but life has a way of dropping my energy on a daily basis. So someone who can take me out of that mindset is amazing! 3. Public PDA: (all in good taste of course) When they're not afraid to kiss me in front of many other women in the room, or hold my hand when I'm lost in thought, or even put their arm around me to show me their affection , just because. I know, I'm so corny. I just never realized that these qualities attracted me about men until they were displayed.

@wendyh.9363

7 жыл бұрын

Not corny at all! We like to know we are special to him.

@wendyh.9363

7 жыл бұрын

Not corny at all! We like to know we are special to him.

@ImenBen12

7 жыл бұрын

As Wendy said, not corny at all! I love your examples, thanks for sharing :) PS: amazing results on ur display pic!

@lissienefranc3331

7 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on your weight loss, you look amazing!

@TheAznkat10280

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you all for your support for everything!

When a man is present, affectionate and makes plans - all super sexy.

@annstrong7553

7 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the great video, Mat!

@dbedazzling1

7 жыл бұрын

lol love it

@paulinalea129

7 жыл бұрын

There is a lot of bad energy in your comment. Mathew teaches us how men think and only man can teach that. He also teaches us how to love ourselves, which is the first step to love others and find happy relationship with the right man. You need to come out of your bitterness and open your mind for love. All best for you Kit.

@MegaZuzica

7 жыл бұрын

OMG Kit Kitren you absolutely took the words out of my mind. Everhything you said is exactly how I feel about brainwashing women to workship men. How stupid can be a woman to believe all this B? There were no books and no KZread videos teaching women how to be a woman and there were so many Romeo and Julliet type of stories, our grandparents were married for life. It saten me to see women accepting the bad treatment that men put them through making them jealous and as you said accepting to be called all kind of names. Men should be tought that a woman is worthy. Men should be afraid to loose a woman , not viceversa

@MegaZuzica

7 жыл бұрын

Paulina Lea if you need someone to teach you how to love yourself you have serious problems. I'll take an appoitment to a psychiatric cabinet and figure out why your mom didn't teach you that when you were a litle girl.??? It is not Matew job to teach you anything but your own parents. Maybe your parents were separated and that is what men like Matew should teach men , to stay with their family and love and respect their daughters so their litle girls love them self. There is just right what Kit Kitren said. OMG I can't believe there are women like you in this world.

Bold and sincere. Not shy but very focus. Strong will and honest. Loves hugs. Protector.

Thanks for sharing those with us...For me, i absolutely love when my guy wants to just hold me close...maybe a few kisses but mainly just sincerely holds me...it makes me feel loved and protected💙😁😉

@lioydwilliams1850

3 жыл бұрын

Stacy Bennett,you looking gorgeous!

Mature, know what he wants and says so, when he is being honest and open about everything, a man who listens and don get jealous. Loving and caring, I like it when they are protective of me and give me a sense of safety, emotionally and physically.

@chocoloco4505

6 жыл бұрын

AMEN

@Soouber

5 жыл бұрын

good manners and excellent character...yeah long shot LOL

@iamrhondarenee

5 жыл бұрын

Sonia g yes! I totally agree

0:24 hahahaha love the dance

@RebeccaLydia1980

6 жыл бұрын

Meryam.D haha indeed lol😆😆

@swoosh3684

5 жыл бұрын

Hahaha😂

@debralynnwalsh9998

5 жыл бұрын

Musoc

I have been watching these dating advices all week and I realize something common in all of them See the best advice is BEING YOURSELF And by this I mean, love, value, self worth, ambition, attractive, playfulness, appreciation, positiveness . Do these all things to yourself and people will see and be drawn into it, coz if you value yourself then ppo around u going to value as much as you do. So being loved it's start by you loving yourself. Don't go overboard and forget other people coz we need them as much as they need us.

Omg! I’m soo happy I already have all 3! I’m naturally a passionate person , positive and and a big kid at heart ! Thank you mat you are amazing and I love watching you and learning more from you ! As a matter of fact I’ve met the ONE for me, and all my playfulness enthusiasm passion and positivity comes out even more ! And he is too, playful and flirty and caring and sensitive and more ... so thank you mat !!

A very passionate man is soooo attractive too! Same thing for what is attractive to women also! All these things are the same both ways

@lioydwilliams1850

3 жыл бұрын

Tiffany Tiff_fitmarie,you look good

I find a man who loves The Lord and has The Holy Spirit is very beautiful 💗🎀🙏😍

@childofgrace2087

4 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!

@s3eKiNgHaVoK

4 жыл бұрын

Amen sister!💜

@xoxo-nw6tb

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely 💖💜💛

@faithstrong410

3 жыл бұрын

Great great

@rachelhuang_sdg

3 жыл бұрын

Amen sister!!

Positive, passionate and playful. Brilliant. This is really helping me crystallise my selection criteria for my next woman, beyond the usual magazine-type qualities that I would get bored of oh so quickly!

The three Ps: passion, playfulness and positive attitude...love it, Mat! I like a man with interesting stories myself. Along with intelligence, kindness and a bit of humility.

when he listens and remembers stuff we talked about before

@khadijahamid944

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@nina-bh4nx

5 жыл бұрын

YES!!!! Love!!!

Compassion, depth, and spontaneity. I love your videos! Thank you

I agree with you, Matthew. I like it when a man is courteous, gentle and kind yet jovial.

Love your videos ! Love how your straightforward and tell us like it is! Thank you for your honesty and guidance , appreciate you

Strength from within, polite and respectful, solid values

He's not out to score, and doesn't pressure me. He has values and would never compromise mine to get what he wants. Instead, he's willing to wait until I'm ready. When our conversation becomes a warm, safe cocoon surrounding us and neither one wants to leave. We're in a world of our own, no matter what's going on around us. There is mutual respect and admiration.

@indolilyindomitablelily7306

6 жыл бұрын

You've said it all.

@kongmanythiphakhinkeo3345

6 жыл бұрын

YES, some things we fail to mention or think of when questioned. That's one of my turn offs: when a man can't wait. 😢

@margomazzeo1680

5 жыл бұрын

Filigree4591 Beautifully said..my lady..💝💝🎈

Thank you for your wonderful point of view about relationships. Love the way you president the ideas of having healthier relationships. Shalom !!!

concerned, understanding, genuine and true to his words

I love it when a man is always vocal with me, he tells me what makes him laugh,cry and feels upsets and what he likes me to do....how it like it when and where he likes it's. I can be very submissive if only my would be open and I like to talk and share feelings. communication is very important. nothing well change or happen the way want if we don't communicate.

I find it attractive when a man has that confident and capable vibe. When he says “I don’t know how to do this” and rather than complaining and whining about it or worse trying to push his responsibility onto somebody else, he figures it out because he has the confidence to know that he has what it takes to accomplish. A man with these qualities is usually also a leader and protector and I really like that as well!! These men are the easiest for me to trust fully. :)

I love a man who is kind, caring, confident, knows how to treat a woman, philanthropic.

If my man dances like that in front of me I would be like running towards him , lol !

Love a man with integrity and good character. He is honest and kind. A gentleman "Gentle Man" A man who shows you respect and treats you well. It has nothing to do with money, saving, cars, or anything material. It has everything to do with his manner of speaking with you and that he treats you as a woman that he cares deeply for. Whatever happened to manners. Women today need to expect manners from their men and in turn have the best manners themselves. Let him be the man he was created to be. And be his best cheerleader. Believe that he can do anything he sets his mind to. He'll surprise himself and you when he actually does it. Treat each other well.

@Soouber

5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely perfect response 10/10, thank you so much for saying it. I'm not the only one. xx

@maryamico5902

5 жыл бұрын

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@maryamico5902

5 жыл бұрын

Yrs drunk your juou,no first zpl

@maryamico5902

5 жыл бұрын

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@maryamico5902

5 жыл бұрын

U back v get

so true not just 4 men for people in general

I find it so beautiful when I can see a man's good heart and soul. When I see how much he cares for others, when I see his generosity towards others, or when I see him just do good soul shit like just nice things idek.

The same! Passion, Playful, Positive (kind) and also for everyone Honest, Creative, Spiritual. Good balance between strong and gentle.

in men for me honesty/ in tune with himself charisma /quirkyness passionate about life are three am azing qualities to have . a real drive for what makes him him.

Someone who can make me laugh, even when im in pain or angry

These are great tips not only new couples but refreshers for folks already in relationships and especially long term relationships....it seems we get too comfortable and don't think to continue these attractive behaviors and relationships becomes less connected