I know it is really hard to stay in No Contact in 30 days but it worked for me, my ex reaches out to me after 2 months and said that she still has feelings for me. I hope my comment will help you to have more motivate to stick through the No Contact. THANK YOU BRAD !

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome. Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX6oz7ibdM7InNo.html Best of luck!

@anthonyjesus6151

2 жыл бұрын

Whoa whoa whoa...give us some more info here. How long were you guys together? WHY did she break up with you, HOW did she do it, and did she swear she was done with you? Come on....help us out please.

@hoangairsoft8421

2 жыл бұрын

@@anthonyjesus6151 just in a relationship for 2 months, she broke up with me because she had no feelings anymore, she did not swear anything but she blocked me for 2 months

@ChadTalley1983

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah got divorced like 2 years ago but still have been close after. My ex moved to another state but she has come back to visit a few times and we took a vacation together. We had basically in a long distance relationship for awhile. Then here recently she kinda started talking less and finally told me she had met someone very recently and was devoted to that person, I’m still completely in love with her and it’s hard. I let her know how I felt but she ended up blocking me for a while a couple times cause she didn’t want to hear that. Guess I just hope she comes back one day and I’m a better person for her at that point. I still love her so much…

@ChadTalley1983

2 жыл бұрын

@@kingsleyadmiral3444 That’s awesome

Don' t worry about when or if they will be back , that causes resistance and slows things down even stops it all together, focus on yourself, live your life and keep your vibration high, this will literally bring them back 💗💗💗

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

True! A couple of my vids discussed that. Here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/oZZ2q9atgbbHm5c.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZoWZj5Z6XabWhrw.html

@chriss5382

2 жыл бұрын

Nola that's alpha thinking. Shine bright an they will knoe they fucked up. Confidence is key. Best revenge is success

@nandi8412

2 жыл бұрын

@@chriss5382 I know that’s right

@beatrixkiddo13

2 жыл бұрын

This comment… so much yes and thank you 💖

@moislord

Жыл бұрын

@@chriss5382👏🏾

He is back with me already...and I am so thrilled. I missed him he is my best friend and lover.

@BradBrowning

Жыл бұрын

That's awesome to hear. Happy for you! :-)

@TheDirvish

2 ай бұрын

How long were you apart?

This is probably the best sign list. You're really helpful, brad. I wrote the signs down and realized that most of them apply to my situation. The quiz also confirmed it. Thanks again for another great video, Brad. 🙌

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can use some help, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!

@jamesgordonphiri362

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning Just found out my girlfriend is a prostitute.Broke up with her after she left me around 10pm to go and meet up with a man.I am hurt

@hannahsandoval560

Жыл бұрын

Did they ever come back?

Never lose hope. A narcissist always comeback after a breakup. Have patience they will contact you 💯 just make sure to focus on no contact. Trust it. It's an effective way to get your ex back. Thank you for this video really help me a lot to ease the pain I been through.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

If they're a true narcissist, you'd want to stay away anyway. Be careful though as there's a fine line between someone with NPD versus one who just makes selfish and immature choices! Whatever the case, space is always needed. You're welcome.

@lemagloria

2 жыл бұрын

You are suppose to stay away from narc wtf are you saying???

@jordanjohnson9866

2 жыл бұрын

Nah. Not always comeback after a breakup. When you say comeback, you mean comeback to an ex. /

@gagaearthian

2 жыл бұрын

Lol who wants to be with a narcissist anyway? 😂😂

@keegankemp863

Жыл бұрын

Wdym a narcissist always comes back?

Hey Brad thanks so much I watched this video, and applied the No-Contact, and it had taken roughly around 3 months, then she had messaged me, saying something about wanting to get back together and trying again. This was super helpful tysm Brad!

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Happy for you! :-) You're welcome.

This Guy is Really Amazing!!!!!!!He knows what to do,and this guy really strulgges to get breakup people to get their EX back.You can trust his ideas and suggestions.But it depends on how you use his ideas and how you think about you Ex.Thanks Brad Browning.You will hit 1million in KZread soon!!.Thank you buddy!!

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Awww thanks for the support, man! I appreciate you.

You helped me to married my Girl last week! Thanks 🙏🙏🙏🙏

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Awesome, congratulations! Thanks for watching. :-)

@bibhutibaibhavbora8770

2 жыл бұрын

Congrats bro

@shafiqgallo3757

2 жыл бұрын

Congrats broo!

@greeneyedchul0

2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations

@kokokurimaw7526

2 жыл бұрын

wow congrats❤

My ex has defintely been more touchy feeling towards me, he has touched my cheek even brad

What a nice videos,,, thanks a lot!!! Wacthing from kuwait 🇰🇼Philippines 🇵🇭

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)

My ex & I recently got back together 5 weeks ago. But when we were split, he showed 9 out of 15 signs.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Great! Thanks for sharing! :-)

@santiagobayan6484

2 жыл бұрын

M e s s a g e.. h i m.. for h e l p.. o n w h a.. t s a p p............??

@lilianakeya9868

2 жыл бұрын

What a bout your beaking 3ys ago

@philiptucker7590

Жыл бұрын

My ex showed every single one of these signs before we got back together lol 😂 we’re in love more than we ever were back when we first dated. I hope it works out for you!!!!’ It sure worked out for us 😃

I gotta be honest, the best decision you can make is ti move on. I did it, it was hard but i found myself. ;)

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved.

Thanks Brad. My ex ended things over text (18 month relationship) he asked me not to contact him again, he was very calm about it. No massive fight. I have been in NC since. Its 4 weeks now and really saddened that he may never reach out

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. What he said can easily translate to him needing his space so make sure you do your part and stop reaching out to him for a good while, okay? If you've been constantly texting him out of panic, then that explains further why he's telling you never to contact him again. Respect his decision to break up first. This vid should hopefully help you see things clearly about the importance of the "no contact" rule as well as the common challenges and how to overcome them: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iYp2ksGlZpO5oLA.html

@faiza2237

Жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning my ex has formally told all his contacts that we are separated.

He did all of these and we r bk together 😁ty Brad for all that u do to help us 😁❤️🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿I pray that we last till eternity with no major issues in future 😁

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome! I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: kzread.info/dash/bejne/nJ6msdKxkZDdlqw.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/qG2huNyhYrG8ccY.html or from this advice here as well: kzread.info/dash/bejne/X4Olu9uYdNS0esY.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/apuXl5WMqqvYkcY.html All the best! :-)

Thanks for the new video Brad. There's a problem, every time she comes back after a breakup but then a few days latet she will start to fight and everything falls into old routine, she hangsup on me over the phone, and I block her and initiate no contact....😔 This back and forth cycle is so toxic and exhausting, how can we make ex treasure the relationship more without keep stepping the lines by saying or acting meanly?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Don't block her. Try to work out the issue instead? Also with on-and-off relationships, oftentimes this is a sign of underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. It may be time to put things into perspective while it's still early because in 12 years spent as a relationship online coach alone, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKV1p8tygMWrcaQ.html But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!

Hey brad just know you’re a pro on this…. I moved from one of your video alto the other, and trust me you’re good

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: kzread.info”

Hey brad. I have a bit of a weird situation. My ex and I broke up about two months ago since we started to fight and argue more and more as time went on. After we broke up we were still friends and saw each other frequently. We eventually decided that we wanted to try to restart and do things right instead of going too quick. We got to the point where she would tell me “I love you” “I miss you so much” “I just want to be closer to you..” but she hen not even a week later, she starts seeing someone else and being so distant to me. She told me that she doesn’t want to be with me and that she only sees me as a friend. Is this true or just her way of coping? Do you think she really meant all of the “I love you” recently?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. I know it's harsh, but take it at face value because she's already seeing someone else...and continuing to deal with her will only lead to her stringing you along, so it's best to let go for now, all things considered. Make her prove her love because if she really did mean those words, she will come around sooner or later after you play your cards right and basically get on with your life. Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/jK1-tNKhp6fJkZc.html This should help guide you on what to do for the time being: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mqCdzbqClrC_fps.html However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mYl2sMZvoKevfrA.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/iYp6vLiqdqeshpc.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in KZread to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!

My ex never cared so it doesn't matter about no contact. I've been working on myself and slowly building my life without them.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. If that's the case, then yes, it's best to really contemplate on moving on. This vid is for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZoWZj5Z6XabWhrw.html

@bigcitydreamz4444

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning it the case only reason it took me so long to move on is I was in her kids life since they was born. I never want them to feel or think I abandoned them.

ure videos are amazing brad they helped me alot i watch your videos all the time your great at explaining things and ure the best so helpfull keep up the great work 😘

Amazing video Brad ! I have a question I know from my mutual friend that she talking about me and she said that I don’t look at her IG stories or anything (am in NC) Is it rude to not watch any of her IG stories ?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Not rude at all to love yourself first and heal. Why continue to monitor/watch her when it's only torturing you because you're being reminded how you're already broken up? Take care of your own mental and emotional wellness first.

Hi Brad, I’ve been watching your videos and I found them really helpful but I’m not sure if it’s to late for them to help me. I didn’t live with my ex. My ex stopped communicating with me, like he wouldn’t tell me stuff and he would keep things to himself. He ended our 7 year relationship with no explanation. I tried no contact but it was only for 10 days because I was scared that I was losing him. We met a couple of times and I did get very emotional and he seemed concerned. He wanted to remain as friends, I did this for a couple of day’s because when the texts got few and far between, I told him I couldn’t do it anymore. He sent me a text saying he understood and he was there if I needed him. That was a couple of days ago, does this mean I’ve lost the chance of us getting back together?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Really sorry to hear that. I understand your frustration and pain. Seven years is a long time. Also reminds me of the 7-year itch! When a breakup happens, most of the time this means he has lost attraction for you, hence, it's a bad move to be friends with him. You need to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKtkpcquiKarndo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch this video so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, at kzread.info/dash/bejne/oqqTxcyzmLmxcbw.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/q5hq0tiHhsiumqw.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!

@osemugabriel8234

2 жыл бұрын

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@imeubokulo4994

2 жыл бұрын

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@santiagobayan6484

2 жыл бұрын

I. k.n.o.w.. o.f. a. m.a.n. w.h.o. h.e.l.p. m.e. g.e.t. m.y. e.x b.a.c.k.........,...??

Hi brad. Ive got a difficult situation. Me and my ex (18 yo both) were together 2 years and we broke up 3 weeks ago. We had little amounts of fights and discussions and everything was going well. Our last discussion had been 2 months before our breakup. And she decided to end our relationship because she was exhausted and those fights we had made her feel bad at times she doesnt see me for who i am only for who i was. i havent talked to her and we broke up 3 weeks ago, said she wanted to break up and she needed time on her own, i told her its ok. everyone tells me she isnt coming back but she clearly misses me. and i have respected her space and time since then we only spoke once. what do you make of this situation? what should i do?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Hi there! I appreciate the time you took to write to me and I would really love to help, but as what I've been telling anyone who posts super long comments, please try to keep your post short. I only have limited time to give free advice since obviously my coaching clients take first priority, and I'm trying to cover as many comments as possible. Feel free to sign up for my coaching program so I can prioritise your situation at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Lastly, you can also visit my other videos to check if there's anything you've missed that you haven't followed. Here are the basics: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html Thanks for your understanding!

@yungdrip7203

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning I understand, i made the post shorter. thanks

@kobe_dropped_8121

2 жыл бұрын

@@yungdrip7203 how’s it going man hoping the best for you

@lordasissin7422

Жыл бұрын

@@yungdrip7203so what happened?

@philiptucker7590

Жыл бұрын

You should move on with your life. Start making new friends and going out and having fun! Make sure you have fun around your mutual friends because they will talk about you around her. You have to let her know that other women like and want you, make her a little jealous but not too too much lol. If she messages you again be calm and cool. Don’t be mean to her just be kind and caring. Every situation is different and so is every woman. Only you know the right thing to do

Hi Brad! I'm in a bit of a sticky situation: my ex and I broke up a couple days ago and we both agreed that we will be in a no contact situation as emotions were running high and we wanted to heal from what happened. We were going through a couple months of rough situations as we were long distance for a little and got into small, but frequent arguments. Additionally, he was transitioning into a new college and told me that he wanted to try living college life single and who is out there. However, he kept telling me that he has no intention of actually getting with other people or talking with other girls; just he wants to see who is there. He told me that we can call in a bit to get some closure and emotionally heal and grow and maybe (hopefully) be friends and even date again afterwards. He keeps telling me that he loves me, wants to be with me if our situation was good, and that he would always cherish me and that he doesn't want to disappear from our lives and would always be a part of each other. He just told me that for right now, we can't be in contact so that we can process and heal separately. Would we have a good chance of getting back together? (We have been together / talking for almost 10 months, and have really good sexual chemistry).

@philiptucker7590

Жыл бұрын

The fact that he wanted to be single just to say he wants to see what else is out there is a huge 🚩….he had probably been thinking about other girls for quite some time and will probably think about them even if y’all were back together. He isn’t too focused on you. I would move on and talk to other people but have fun around mutual friends. They will talk about you especially if other guys have shown interest. Good luck, hope it works out the best for you 🖤

@tylerhoward6357

Жыл бұрын

This person gave terrible advice !! Hope you didn't take it !

@ENFPerspectives

Жыл бұрын

U were are a booty call amd thats it.

My ex and I dated for 11 months, and the entire time we dated and before that she was best friends and extremely close with another girl. While she was with me she came out as bi, and eventually forwards the end of the relationship she admitted she had feelings for her friend which basically led to the breakup. Three days after we broke up she started dating her friend. I am wondering if this is a rebound or not considering the unusual circumstances? Please feel free to respond even if you’re not brad I need some insight on this

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry, man, but chances are your girl has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: kzread.info/dash/bejne/n2Zrtq6eqbjTp8o.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place. Take care!

@splitzyentertainment7995

2 жыл бұрын

Woah bro that's crazy man my ex is extremely close with her best friend but I doubt shes bi i bloody hope she isn't because everytime i asked she denied it but by gods grace she isnt bi and she was friends with this girl way before I got in the picture anyway

Hey! I really like your content 😊 I'm in my *No contact period* . So excited!

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Good, thanks! Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX6oz7ibdM7InNo.html Best of luck!

@cheme5887

2 жыл бұрын

Hello ,I have no contact to my exbf ,since June 26 until now ,last msg me ,don't disturbing me anymore ,and he block me ,what I will do,I love him so much.please help me.thank you souch

@jaydub7386

2 ай бұрын

YES!

@jaydub7386

2 ай бұрын

@@cheme5887 what helped my through no contact (six months here) is I asked a question about what I didn't miss about the relationship. So what do you not miss about the relationship?

Your all videos are awesome. You are the best I have ever seen. I have applied NC from 51 days. Should I wish my ex their birthday.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

It's been a while so yes. I said 30 days "no contact" rule, not 51 days. Anyway assuming you've done the first phase properly, which is the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you should be in a position to be ready to test the waters with your ex. Here's how you can tell you're doing it correctly: y2u.be/f7zuXk-sVsI You may want to tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms Now once you're positive you've done all that's mentioned, you can proceed to contact your ex. Start with the tips here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/fYGB2JulmsfYm84.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/p4KTuqOgeM3HdrA.html but make sure to check out my other vids for more texting tips you can send your ex or get my guide for the complete step-by-step details on how to go about it. Best of luck!

We’ve completed NC and now we seem to be really good friends. Sometimes I’m not sure what to think about how he feels about me. He’s starting to be a little flirty with me, tries to make me laugh and we have a lot of fun together. But sometimes he ignores me as well. It’s driving me crazy and I’m not sure what to do!

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX6oz7ibdM7InNo.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

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@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

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@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

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Hi Brad, my ex and I haven’t talked to each other for almost two years. I had a package that need to be delivered to her house so I went to her house and have her sign before I give her a package. We had a short talked and then at the end I asked her if I can send her a text later in the week and right away she said yea sure. Then I left. Idk is that a good sign or she just saying that so she doesn’t sound rude. Either way I’m going to send her a text soon. What’d you think of that and what video do you suggest for me to watch? Thanks hope to hear from you soon!

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Try not to overthink it and just apply the tips anyway. Watch this first to help set your expectations: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ga6K28-SnrSshM4.html and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hqKO3Md-ebOrmc4.html If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/a4B3k8ewl6XRebQ.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html and the golden rules here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Y59-k9ubpamveKg.html

@imeubokulo4994

2 жыл бұрын

十2348160366949♻️♻️🎦🚻高兴认识你

Hi Brad, I go to school with my ex gf (we dated for a year). I’ve been in no contact for 30+ days now after begging for a month. Yesterday was my bday, and today my ex gave me an expensive gift in class, my mind went blank and I quickly responded a “thank you very much” and went to my own seat. I felt like I was bit cold? Should I text my ex to show her my thanks? Im still in no contact tho

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

A simple thank you is enough. I don't think it's a wise idea to be talking to her just yet, considering how you've begged profusely. Give it AT LEAST a month where you work on yourself and get back your confidence. Best of luck!

Hey brad I just need an input from a specialist like yourself. Me and my ex dated for 4 months, broke up 2 days ago and I’m doing no contact. I hurt her during arguments as she said I’m not able to control my emotions. The relationship was perfect and there’s no other guy figure in the picture. She’s really goal driven and she said she wants me to let her go so we both can grow. She quoted “I really hope we can reconnect because I do believe you are my person. I hope the universe brings us back together” This made me cry but I’m confused thoughts?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

The fighting has to stop. Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. What were you two fighting or arguing about? It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iql-qMhue8bOZdI.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dHZ5ysOSY8qyedo.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw

Thank you Brad!

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

No Contact has crossed 60 days. No response from Ex. No signs You mentioned. It seems it is just an end.

@corywalling861

2 жыл бұрын

Lol same here bud

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Discussed about an ex's tendency to do that here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dYRsqLOlpqfbhrg.html But what sort of messages have you been sending your ex? It's a different story if you've been trying for so long with all the right moves and still stuck in the friendzone, but I don't think that's the case with you. Focus on the second and third phases instead. It helps to learn the basics here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html and/or better yet, read my guide to guide you every step of the way, at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!

0/15 Yea, I should move on

I just signed up for the one on ones. I’m looking forward to it!!

@BradBrowning

Жыл бұрын

Great!

Hi Brad. So my ex gf showed a few of these signs in the aftermath (first 1-2 weeks of the breakup) and was acting hot and cold then. Two weeks after the BU she was struggling with insomnia, saying she missed me and asked me for help. Then, a few days later she blanked me at a mutual friends’ dinner because she was upset with me. Felt like her head and heart were saying different things. Because I didn’t want things to get messy, I insisted on going NC and we haven’t messaged/talked in over 30 days now. When we return to college this month, should I try reach out to her or wait for her if our last interaction was negative?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

It's best to get to the root cause of the issues first. Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. What were you two fighting or arguing about? It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iql-qMhue8bOZdI.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship and extending the "no contact" rule might help. This may help: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dHZ5ysOSY8qyedo.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw

Love you ❤️

Hello, hope you're having a wonderful day! My ex broke up with me and I kept begging in the beginning and she completely blocked me because she found out that I was flirting with another girl so I feel a bit better about the break up but it back fired. When she blocked me, I decided to wait 30 days no contact and she never contacted me through out those days. But I decided to create an alt account and talk to her again, we called and it went well, but she still hasn't forgotten about the negative thoughts so she is very cold during texting. I have watched so many of your videos and I still don't know to do. Any advice or suggestions ? Thank you!!

@rubensattal

2 жыл бұрын

Don't know what to do*

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

You ought to show her you accepted the breakup. You shouldn't have to feel bad about mingling with someone new granted how your ex dumped you in the first place. Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ga6K28-SnrSshM4.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mGuu17qkXda8o6w.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aH9n2tefddqrdso.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com

@rubensattal

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning thank you very much for all of this information, I will update you in a couple of weeks or so, to tell you how it will go. Thank you again, keep up the good work!

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

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You have really good videos! I just broke up a little less than a week ago and going over your tips, I’m not sure if my ex would want to get back together after finding out that I’ve been casually dating around, because to her, she might feel that I’ve gotten over her real quick, as that has happened with her previous boyfriends before me.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

It was your ex's decision to break up though, right? Unless it was you who end things with this ex, then your ex's reasons aren't valid. She made her choice to break up and there are consequences. Being her puppet and waiting around for her will do you no good though, so be careful with that. Don't sell yourself short. Know your worth. Anyways good luck!

@ponokunishima1

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning Thanks and yes, it was her decision. However, it’s still early in the break up (1 week) and we have been together for 5 years, 6, this year, so I still have faith that she might come around, because we were romantically involved and loved each other and she was my first of everything. In your professional opinion, is it too early to judge?

hello Mr browning; I got my GF back with your advice and 1 year of endeavor but after 4 months we broke up again(she said you don't get me despite all my efforts) this time she has a clear decision for not having me. is there a way to win back after multiple breakups or do I have to MOVE ON? thanks for reading my comment it means a lot.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

With on-and-off relationships, oftentimes this is a sign of underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. It may be time to put things into perspective while it's still early because in 12 years spent as a relationship online coach alone, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKV1p8tygMWrcaQ.html But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!

My ex broke up with me and I'm 6 months pregnant with our child. We had a difficult long distance relationship (I had to return to the US for medical reasons). Since he told me he wanted a break he contacts me all the time asking about our unborn baby. How should I go about this? Should I just do no contact until the baby is born?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

If he wants to take an active role, let him. It's going to be tougher than usual with kids and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for an uphill battle but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYiep6OAerq6paQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/lniO1NCHmJuyf8o.html

He blocked me and I cant see any signs. Now almost 3 months now. I think this is my time to move on

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

If your ex has ghosted you or blocked you everywhere where contact is impossible and you can't text/call/email even though a lot of time has already passed, then I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but it may be over for good. It's one of the things I've discussed here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eIRsu89-oqi1h5s.html

First comment... Always like your videos

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)

@judahpopz6587

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning I shall do certainly bro, it's always helpful to the people in life

By watching this I’m realizing that these signs mostly apply to me, and 2, maybe 3, apply to him. We still live together for at least the next 6 months, and frankly I’m not really sure he wants me back since he said i killed it during the breakup with what i said. He said he still wants the best for me and loves me and wants me to improve, but that i won’t have a future with him. His best friend says I shouldn’t worry and should give it time, but a lot of these signs are hard to see since my ex is very good at hiding his emotions and acting like things are fine. Im considering coaching with you after my therapy session today, and I scored a 71 on your quiz. Should I even try and pursue my ex? I was the one who initiated the break up and said horrible things to keep him away, only to realize my emotions got the better of me. Anything helps, thanks brad.

I feel like I have done more of these than my ex..

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

That means you need to really focus on yourself. The signs has to come from your ex for it to be valid but you really can't force it, man.

Hi Brad. Thank you for answering my questions. Im currently on a journey to win back my gf that Ive been in relationship for 4/5 years. It was almost like marriage, we loved each other and she was always happy and desperate when we apart which gave me confidence that she loves me . We had some major arguments during relationship that lead to brake up . She never told me that shes done with me or anything like that , just said that she needs to find herself and little time away from me and wont be texting me which I sad okay and havent talked to her for 30 days . After that day I texted her to see if shes willing to at least talk to me and she replied quickly "Hey , Im fine thank you" , but as I asked her to set up a meeting she responded briefly and stubbornly "No , I am busy and have responsibilties to take care of , thank you for asking me" . After day or two I sent clean slate text and apologizing If I was crossing her boundries couse Im aware of how she feels about us. Should I continue "No Contact" strategy or try something else ? Thank you so much !

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe she felt you were lying because you didn't follow through? When do you plan to propose to her though? She could've gotten tired of waiting or she has has some issues with you that you may not have noticed and it's very important to address that but I need to know what's really going on between you two so whatever the case, you'd benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

Hi Brad, thank for the all helpful info you shared with us. My ex for 5 years broke up with me about 6 months ago. However not long ago we started talking again and seeing each other. But I know she is seeing someone else during this time and she is still “with” him . Even if she is telling me that she miss me and thinks constantly about me, no one can replace me and things like that she is still not too sure about if she want to get back with me or not and make the things work again. Please give me some advice what should i do on my part to help thing work. Thank tou.

@BradBrowning

8 ай бұрын

Keep your options open but be open to your ex's advances. In other words, let her make the first move but don't wait for it. However, keep your interactions with your ex light and fun unless she wants to open up to you. Make sure you go and live your life to the fullest as well. Watch my other vids for texting tips. All right? Good luck!

Hey Brad👍🏽 I recently have been watching a load of your videos. If you have time I would really really appreciate a response from you. Me and my ex have been dating for 2 years, this school year though is my first college year and it’s her senior year of high school. Right when she started she was really overwhelmed since she is in band, cheer, nhs, and as well has homework. One day to the next we didn’t talk much because she was busy and I got upset at her. She said she needed space so I gave it to her then 2 weeks later told her I was moving on and that we need to meet to end on a high note. 2 weeks later we meet and after our serious talk we start joking, laughing, and holding eachother. We even kiss. She asks If I’ve been seeing anyone and I say that ive met quite a bit of people but am uninterested. Within all that I tell her I still want her. She was kinda turned off by me meeting others and said she didn’t think she could keep going. A week later through one of my buddies that’s at the high school tells me someone asked her to homecoming and that they like each other and have been going to lunch during school. So they’re going to homecoming, wherever he takes her is gonna be a downgrade because prom last year I took her to Ruth’s Chris…anyway It hurts because we had just kissed (and it was a great kiss) that week. We texted a few times and she agreed that she also felt amazing during our interaction but has to move on because I had met other people. I found it hypocritical because she’s ‘talking’ to this other guy. Which is a clear downgrade. We continue to text a bit and I show my desire for her subtly and she knows that. And I know she feels like she’s in the power position right now. Last night I talked to her on the phone and she says she already have me her answer to move on and she says she’ll talk to me later. On the phone she sounded like she didn’t care. I know she does though. So we say bye and right now I believe I should start no contact. My question to you is: what if this ‘rebound’ blossoms into something bigger. It’s terrifying to think about. Can you please read everything about this situation that I’m in and recommend my best move right now, it would be GREATLY APPRECIATED. Have a great day🤝🤝🤝🤝🤝

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Forcing her to meet to end on a "high note" when she was asking for space was a bad move, man, especially 2 weeks in. At the very least, she is confused, so the best you can do right now is leave her alone and go do your own thing. When your ex is confused, you can't suddenly make her have an "aha" moment by constantly being around her or meeting up as it will only cause her to value you less and less. You meeting others was a good move as long as you're being subtle about it. Made vids on it too Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/fqiusKubh7OXoLQ.html Overall, give stuff time to play out and don't rush. Moreover, focus on yourself instead of this relationship. Good luck!

@matthewgarcia2340

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning I made a typo. I didn’t force her to meet up. It was a mutual agreement between the both of us. I’ve been going on dates with beautiful women so I’d say I’m doing good as of now. Some days I miss her like crazy but some days I’m good. I’m continuing to use no contact

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

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Awesome video!! Its good for all of us!!

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks! Glad to help! :-)

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

I k.n.o.w o.f a m.a.n w.h.o h.e.l.p m.e g.e.t m.y e.x b.a.c.k ♥️

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

W.h.a.t.z.a.p.p h.i.m I f y.o.u n e e d h.e.l.p

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

十2348160366949♻️♻️🎦🚻高兴认识你...

Oh looks like my ex wont come back after 30 yrs married and separated 2 yrs he's still with 3rd party.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. A divorce may be in order so you are officially free and be able to marry someone who truly loves you and values you. Don't be stuck in this situation or in any situation really. Life's too precious for that! :-)

Hi Brad. I'm going through a break up at the moment and I have contacted my ex couple of times with no luck of course. Would it still work to my advantage to get him back now that I stopped contacting him?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Giving each other space is best as it shows you respect your ex's decisions. I got over 10 videos explaining the benefits of the no contact rule. Check it out. I suggest you employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iqOir9aFdtKWYJM.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!

@imeubokulo4994

2 жыл бұрын

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Hey Brad! I am putting NC to practice and its my ex’s bd in 17ish days and I know I shouldn’t miss it i feel like she will be more than very upset abt it later as she has told me that she wants me there. Also she is in a hard 1-2 months of her life and I feel like im being evil for putting the NC stress on her. But imma go with it for at least 17 days so i can celebrate her bd with her do u think its a good idea? She will probably get in touch me till then becoz she told me that she still loves me. Thanks❤️

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

There's nothing evil about taking the time out for YOURSELF to heal (no contact, I suggest AT LEAST 30 days) after you've been dumped. She is responsible for the choice she made when she broke up with you regardless of what she's going through, so try not to take that burden if you wanna keep your sanity. Anyway with regards to her birthday, it's actually one of the things I've already discussed here: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 You're not breaking any rules if you greet an ex on their birthday as long as you do it right. So yes, can send your ex a birthday greeting on his/her birthday, just make it quick and direct to the point, end the conversation first too because you're busy (and I'm sure your ex is, too) -- it helps if you really are, so hang out with friends, learn a new skill, etc. Also avoid drama like the plague and don’t get into an argument with your ex at any cost. Be sure to check out my other videos in order not to miss any important tips on the steps to take to get an ex back. Here's a quick infograph to help you out: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX6oz7ibdM7InNo.html

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

I k.n.o.w o.f a m.a.n w.h.o h.e.l.p m.e g.e.t m.y e.x b.a.c.k ♥️

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

W.h.a.t.z.a.p.p h.i.m I f y.o.u n e e d h.e.l.p

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

十2348160366949♻️♻️🎦🚻兴认识你...

Hello brad, my girlfriend I just broke up 6days ago. She said that she doesn't want me anymore and is so burnout. She also said that even if we met me in future, she wont be coming back. She really got tired of me, but I know she's the one.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. Whatever happened, that's a huge clue for you to take a full step back and really give her all the time and uninterrupted space that she needs right now. I'm not sure if you pursued her too much to the point where she ended up saying those words to you or not but whatever the case, be sure to be on your own for a while, okay? Now as to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!

This whole video applies to me ,but honestly I just living my life my ex has been reaching out to me and calling me frequently. She doesn't have actual reason of calling me ,been telling me about her life and etc when I don't even ask either . And she was the dumper btw I'm keeping my distance and seeing how it all plays out

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Great! Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX6oz7ibdM7InNo.html Best of luck!

Hi Brad been 4 months since our breaking up. Will it be oky if I start with the No Contact rule now..after that 4mknths of trying to win him back

@BradBrowning

Жыл бұрын

I'd still suggest to give the "no contact" rule a shot because that's still really your best bet, which will work in a sense where you BOTH will get to clear your mind to be in a better position to deal with each other when the time comes - instead of letting emotions overrule everything, risking things to get blown out of proportion even further. Makes sense? But will no contact ALONE work to get your ex back? Sometimes it does, but other times (especially if your situation is unique) it won't, because the no contact phase is only part one of the three-step process I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. Learn the basics here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html There's also a risk of you being strung along if you don't cut off contact and give each other that much needed space and while it's beneficial for your ex, it's really detrimental to the dumpee in the end, so be careful. I also made a quick vid to those who are seemingly lost and could use a reminder on what to do: kzread.info/dash/bejne/oZZ2q9atgbbHm5c.html

Nearly almost all of these signs were present between me and my ex, until I saw her unfollowing me and removing me from her IG I asked about it, she said in order to forget me and get me out of her life forever completely, she doesn't want to see anything from me. And she told me don't ever call her and text her again. So do these signs still count ? Or this is an emotional breakdown?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

It's highly emotional times for you both, which is why it's always better to just give each other space because it certainly beats overthinking about stuff you have zero control over. Look, you both have to process the breakup first and go through all that pain and slowly let go of the bad memories...It is a process, but this is what the "no contact" rule is for, to help both of you move forward from that pain. A reconciliation with an ex means there will be a new (thus the old relationship be considered as over) relationship between you two where the lessons of the past are taken into consideration in order to resolve it to create a better relationship in the future. Does that make sense? Give your ex time to let go of the bad memories, however, this won't happen overnight and for sure takes time, so don't rush. Follow the tips on my other vids, especially this one: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eICZspOegqbRc84.html Good luck!

My ex is definitely number 5 and 6, he defintely does both. He is defintely doing 6 more and more than before

Hey Brad, how do we know our ex’s aren’t portraying some of these behaviours to try and take control from the dumpees? Kind of like manipulation to stop no contact?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

That's highly unlikely, not to mention a bit pointless? If they want to stop no contact, they wouldn't have dumped you in the first place.

@santiagobayan6484

2 жыл бұрын

M e s s a g e.. h i m.. for h e l p.. o n w h a.. t s a p p............??

@santiagobayan6484

2 жыл бұрын

W.h.a.t.s.A.p.p.. h.i.m.. i f. y.o.u. n.e.e.d. h.e.l.p.......??++

bradddd i finished no contact and i contacted her we texted but she n ever texts me 1st tho and i met her i wasnt flirting like i wasnt being touchy and all i thought it would make her uncomfortable so she told her bestfrnd this and that and was like i just want to be his frnd not more than that so any tips?? edit= bradd i fucked up she told her frnd that she didnt wanna hug me and i got mad i told her y was that and she blocked me and i begged her to unblock me a thru her frnd brad now what? i think im done for theres no chance and brad its been 3months i did no contact it doesnt work i failed after 25 days can the no contact will still work?

Coach question what if I put photos and videos of myself going to club on Facebook and even though my ex is with the rebound and she doesn't have me on Facebook but would still look at my Facebook would that be a good idea to do if so would it make her jealous or anything?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Of course it is. She dumped you, so it's fair game. Watch and apply the tips from this vid, too: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZoWZj5Z6XabWhrw.html

@laughingjack8794

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning thanks coach

This is great for a couples that have been together for a month or two but 20 years of marriage this doesn’t work

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

This is why I've dedicated a separate channel for marriage-saving tips. Check it out here as well as the other vids from this platform: kzread.info/dash/bejne/lqZmrLaij8Wpgrg.html

Unfortunately, there is not even a single sign that matches my situation.. but i still hope that someday, he will come back...

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Just continue to focus on yourself and don't limit your possibilities. Be open to new things as well. Apply the tips here, too: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZoWZj5Z6XabWhrw.html

Hello Brad browning I'm a huge fan of your channel ,thank you for all of your videos to help us 😢 can I ask if I have a chance to make him back it's been a 28 Days of no contact and radio silence? The first time he dumped me it last 1 week and we broke up again and I go on no contact ,it's been 28days of no contact and radio silence and he is posting on social media he seems so happy my friend told me...and can I ask if I have a chance to get him back when he says " I don't know if I have a feelings for you anymore" and I told him to delete my photos on his cellphone and he told me " he can't ,and I delete it when I've moved on"...

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

You really ought to give him space and back off completely especially if he keeps sabotaging the situation between you two. If he wants out, the last thing you want to be doing is chasing him. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ppdnq7SensvFY5M.html With on-and-off relationships, oftentimes this is a sign of underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. It may be time to put things into perspective while it's still early because in 12 years spent as a relationship online coach alone, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKV1p8tygMWrcaQ.html But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!

@imeubokulo4994

2 жыл бұрын

I k.n.o.w o.f a m.a.n w.h.o h.e.l.p m.e g.e.t m.y e.x b.a.c.k ♥️

@imeubokulo4994

2 жыл бұрын

W.h.a.t.z.a.p.p h.i.m I f y.o.u n e e d h.e.l.p

@imeubokulo4994

2 жыл бұрын

十2348160366949♻️♻️🎦🚻高兴认识你...

My ex and I broke up a few days ago. What should I do or mean if she doesn't text me within 30 days, no contact?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

The "no contact" rule usually comes naturally to the dumpers. Learn the 3 basic phases I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. It helps to learn the basics of my 3R system here first, so you'll have an idea on how to go about it on your end: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw

She left on 5/7/2019 It is still painfull.

These signs that you talked about, are they more noticeable after the no contact period?

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Depending on your ex's interest and realizations, they come as early as within a day. However, that's outside your control especially if the breakup is still fresh and your ex is likely enjoying his/her newfound freedom. Get my Ex Factor Guide so you'll know what to do every step of the way and/or refer to my other vids for more tips. This vid is for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/lqWi06mQf86ffqQ.html Best of luck!

We going on 3 weeks now and we broke up cause she said i was too jealousy we talked in person last week and she told me she just needed space and I was okay with that. I was gonna give her space until the next day in the night time I passed by her work when I was going to the gym and I saw her talking to a guy I never seen and she claimed it was a friend . I got I got really jealous and let the emotions get the best of me and went to talk to her and we argued and she said in text after our argument, “I don’t want to talk to you “ . It’s been 5 days now with no contact and I been told she’s posting a lot on Snapchat, and I was curious if you think this is it for me and her? And if not how would I go to fixing this? I would appreciate the advice

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Unwarranted jealousy can be a huge turnoff. It's a different story of course if you actually find something to be jealous about. I suggest you give her space especially if it was unwarranted jealousy. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKtkpcquiKarndo.html

Hi brad.its 5 month old video bt I'm watching it today.i don't know you will give me reply or not.bt I'm commenting.if my x have blocked me what should I do????it s been 2 months he blocked my num totally disconnected what should I do brad????

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z4mIm5SCcpjbl9Y.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : kzread.info/dash/bejne/dmV70rRufaTWgc4.html Good luck!

Hey Brad, my ex and I had a break up once before and we got back together. This time I’m worried we won’t get back together… I’ve reached out, and asked mutual friends, and everything. He is now dating someone new and won’t respond at all.. it’s only been about a month..

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!

@santiagobayan6484

2 жыл бұрын

I. k.n.o.w.. o.f. a. m.a.n. w.h.o. h.e.l.p. m.e. g.e.t. m.y. e.x b.a.c.k.........,...??

She litterly found a rebound after 2-3 weeks, and I feel like shit

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

I hear you. It's never easy and would feel like the biggest betrayal and I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKtkpcquiKarndo.html Your ex is diverting her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX95mNCbZJDUlKQ.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mYl2sMZvoKevfrA.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hnaoxJVtl9ycqto.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA

Me and my guy broke up almost a month ago I still miss him after his brother told him lot of bad things about me , so he blocked me and I have not hard anything from him and he never talked to me about breakup or so he just got mad and blocked me till now. But I still keep thinking about him and it hard but I don’t know how to get to him or what is going on cause it a LDR. What do I do?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYWNlrBpZNjcpKQ.html and/or kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z6KaubSDgtXUcdY.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

Hyy , My ex was crying when I told him that I can't talk to him as friends and he said that we two are incompatible to be in a relationship then I said okay I agree with you and he can let me know if he changes his mind and then I went straight away into no contact rule , 2nd day of no contact he texted me but I ignored his text as it was insignificant ... And it's day 16th now , he have not reached out again . Please reply what should I do , please help , I'm not contacting him ...🙏🙏

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Don't let the breakup consume you. Easier said than done, I know, but you have to be mindful of that. I suggest you employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iqOir9aFdtKWYJM.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

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Well, my ex and I lived together for like 3 months,(been together almost 3 years) and all of a sudden she dropped the bomb, she didn’t have the same feelings as in the beginning, I moved out a month later after begging and pleading for 3-4 weeks, and begging a bit after moving out, then she found a new man(presumably a rebound), and haven’t talked to her for 3 weeks.. I lost all hope.. oh well

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/jK1-tNKhp6fJkZc.html This should help guide you on what to do for the time being: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mqCdzbqClrC_fps.html However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mYl2sMZvoKevfrA.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/iYp6vLiqdqeshpc.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in KZread to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!

Waiting for 1 million subs

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Me too. Thanks! :-)

Hi...my ex boyfriend and I used to fight a lot...we did have good times together, but we would normally have misunderstandings and all..he broke up with me over a fight...but says he loves me but he’s tired of the fights...really don’t know if we I’ll get back cause this is not the first time he’s breaking up with me over a fight, But it is also the first time we have gone a day being done and he’s not replying anymore to my texts...what should I do?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. What were you two fighting or arguing about? It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iql-qMhue8bOZdI.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dHZ5ysOSY8qyedo.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw

My ex reached out to me on day 22 of no contact. She did 10/15 of these signs. We are not together but just texting here and there.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Good! Looks like you're on the right track, I supposed? Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX6oz7ibdM7InNo.html Best of luck!

@imeubokulo4994

2 жыл бұрын

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I’m dating my ex again but I feel he has gone cold! He’s the one who dumped me and came back but has now stopped saying he misses me and stopped adding to the conversation on text. I don’t know what to do 🥺

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Did you recently got back together? You're basically starting from scratch with hopefully the two of you being the better version of yourselves, so don't expect for things to get back to normal right away. There's bound to be an adjustment period so try to chill, okay? Sorry but I would need more info to help you deduct what's happening. You can work with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@paigerebecca8629

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning yeah it’s been about 3 weeks since we’ve started dating again! We broke up because he needed space after the last lockdown ended and he felt pressured (we were looking at buying a house) he’s an amazing guy and he’s worth waiting for in my eyes. Do I just need to relax and add no pressure and let him initiate meeting and talking?

@splitzyentertainment7995

2 жыл бұрын

@@paigerebecca8629 update

@Hedonist1haha

2 жыл бұрын

@@paigerebecca8629 update?

Hi Im from Ph, we can’t do no contact because we are sharing our dog. Sometimes I borrow it from him, and sometimes our dog is in his possession. But right now, our dog is in me. And lately he messaged me out of nowhere, he feel concerned about me, he even tell stories about his recent life and family. I should be feeling anything but Im just wondering why? We’re in good terms but we broke up almost a year now. What advice you can give me. Admittedly, I still want him back. Hope u reply 🤗

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

As you mentioned you broke up on good terms so he could just be genuinely concerned. Watch this first to help set your expectations: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ga6K28-SnrSshM4.html and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hqKO3Md-ebOrmc4.html If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/a4B3k8ewl6XRebQ.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html and the golden rules here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Y59-k9ubpamveKg.html

Hi brad my name is Bridget lally and I was wondering if you could help me to get Graeme back with me ? I’m asking because I really miss him and that this break up is too long for me to handle and it’s been 1 year since we did break up anyway I hope you can help me out with this thanks and hope to talk to you soon as possible

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Hello! Sorry to hear that. Watch this first to help set your expectations: kzread.info/dash/bejne/amapt6xwm7O-mKg.html and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hqKO3Md-ebOrmc4.html If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/a4B3k8ewl6XRebQ.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html and the golden rules here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Y59-k9ubpamveKg.html

Hey i have 6.5 years of relationship but past 6 months we were loosing that special connection…my breakup took almost a week to happen I tried to overcome all shortcomings but still she told that she doesn’t want to give another chance..I started no contact and its 15th day but she seems really happy and enjoying her life..what should I do….can you please suggest me

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Look, I know it's hard and may even feel like everything will slip away the moment you cut off contact, but trust me when I say this can really do a lot of benefit to your ex and you as well as your relationship as you'd both be in a clearer headspace to deal with each other when the time comes and therefore less mistakes made that will send your ex running for the hills further. I've seen people disregard the "no contact" rule and end up destroying their chances unknowingly. This is why I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iqOir9aFdtKWYJM.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!

@Akash_Kumar_._

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning Thanks Brad❤️..will surely stick to this 🙌

Hello brad so me and my ex is still living on one roof after break up but she is seeing someone else already. Is there any chance we can be together again?.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

I know it's tough but now is a good time to know yourself more and find that strength to accept the breakup and be independent of your ex in any way that you can. Do the dynamic "no contact" rule or limited contact. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYiep6OAerq6paQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/lniO1NCHmJuyf8o.html As to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!

@imeubokulo4994

2 жыл бұрын

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Hey, i don't really know where else to go besides here. Me and my girlfriend broke up 4days ago (November 15 and today's date is November 19th) after we broke up she still expressed how she loved and cared right after the first day she asked how I was doing and what not. I played it cool and didnt say too much after watching this video so far she's only done 2/15 things I have no idea what I should do because I miss her a lot. I haven't texted her since the day she texted me but I'm still very tempted. Should I do no contact ??

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

It's too soon. Employ the 30-day no contact rule first!

My boyfriend and I broke up about 3 days ago, his choice not mine. This would be our second time ever in the last 4 years, we broke up in March 2021 for 2 months, and then he came back saying he missed me..we’ve ran into a lot of bumps in the road and arguments the last few months which definitely led to this breakup… I love him…I really want him…& I really wanted it to work this time around. I’ve started no contact minus the fact we will have to communicate once a month for a bill. I don’t seem to relate much right now to any of these signs of him possibly wanting to come back either…I know it’s still early.. How do I get him back?! He’s so stubborn & claims he’s done for good, but I love him & I’m not… Any advice or help on getting him?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!

Hey Brad, been watching to numbers of your videos already after youtube recommended me your videos. My bf broke up with me 2 months ago. He told me we can still be friends and that he is always ready to talk if I want to talk. So we were in contact after we broke up but I'm confused. Sometimes he act sweet and the next day or week he acts cold. It's been only 3 days I applied the No Contact and this morning he texted like "Good morning. How u doing?" I didn't reply to him and this afternoon he texted me again asking if I'm okay. Should I reply him? I don't know what to do since it's only 3 days I started the No Contact.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

That's what I call the "check-in" text and your ex is somewhat expected to send one or more of these sooner or later and here's how to handle each text. Discussed that in one of the vids, including how to handle that kind of message, here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iIF1qriDZtfcg7A.html

@imeubokulo4994

2 жыл бұрын

W.h.a.t.z.a.p.p h.i.m I f y.o.u n e e d h.e.l.p

@imeubokulo4994

2 жыл бұрын

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More like 15 signs she will come BACK to destroy my life lol! She has been reaching out (few weeks), sending photos, bringing up old memories/sexual innuendos, selfie/videos of her wearing clothes I bought her. BUT the moment I replied her (just fun and positive response, no begging or clingy cringe messages), she would disappeared. I am meeting a girl for dinner this week, will posting it subtly (without saying I am on a date) on social media work or turn her off?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

The key is to try to genuinely enjoy your time with someone else, whether that's a potential romantic interest or with true friend/s. As to making her jealous, yes just don't be too obvious about it. Discussed that here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/i6eEm856oJepirw.html Good luck!

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

I k.n.o.w o.f a m.a.n w.h.o h.e.l.p m.e g.e.t m.y e.x b.a.c.k ♥️

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

W.h.a.t.z.a.p.p h.i.m I f y.o.u n e e d h.e.l.p

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

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Hi Brad I purchased your program and I finished the 30 days of no contact so I just text her a week ago and she hasn’t replied I send the text from your book but she doesn’t reply what should I do?? I don’t have my ex in social media should I add her ? ….. she was the one that unfriend me from social media

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Give it a couple more weeks before contacting again. Yes, try sending a message in social media too but remember to always wait for a response and send one to two text max. Also don't hold your breath waiting for a response. Make sure you go and live your life, better yourself out there too. Follow the guide to a tee!

@jimmy45yea

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning thank you 🙏

Hey Brad do you give one on one convos. Like personal coach

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, thanks for your interest. I offer a one-on-one email coaching and you can sign up depending on available spots at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

Hi Brad I need some help, so my gf left me about 2 weeks ago (Sep 11) and she broke up with me because she said that she lost feelings for me and now has feelings for another guy and 2 days later she and him start dating (Sep 13) I’ve been trying to get her back by talking to her but her bf made her block me, what should I do?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/jK1-tNKhp6fJkZc.html This should help guide you on what to do for the time being: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mqCdzbqClrC_fps.html However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mYl2sMZvoKevfrA.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/iYp6vLiqdqeshpc.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in KZread to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!

@Trash_Edits_26_HK

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning thanks so much Brad for this help I will follow all your steps thank you

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

W.h.a.t.z.a.p.p h.i.m I f y.o.u n e e d h.e.l.p

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

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My ex and I ended a 6 year relationship 3 months ago. She moved back to her home state and within two months started seeing someone. The first month we were in constant communication. Month two she started to resent me. Month 3 new relationship.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/jK1-tNKhp6fJkZc.html This should help guide you on what to do for the time being: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mqCdzbqClrC_fps.html However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mYl2sMZvoKevfrA.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/iYp6vLiqdqeshpc.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in KZread to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!

@imeubokulo4994

2 жыл бұрын

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Hey brad,my ex Told me he wants to come bck more than I want him to come back but he told me not to be in rushed or he also said let's see how it goes Do I need to hope and wait for him to come back? I need help. I don't really know english but I'm sure you got my poink im from 🇮🇳india.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Take it slow. Here's a quick overview to help you get there: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw

My ex from over 5 years ago is my best friend as of 2 years ago. We are super close and hangout almost everyday but I still have feelings for her but I’m not sure if she feels the same. Will these tips and your other videos work? I was planning on doing the “no contact” method and try to move on

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Did you mean you've been friendzoned for two years? That's a tight spot. The no contact rule should've been done years ago but do you see the signs here? kzread.info/dash/bejne/pHac0rh7hKrFY9I.html but what steps have you tried with her? If you're not sure about what you're doing, I really suggest you sign up for my coaching program so I can assess your situation properly and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@bengrant1271

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning I did the no contact after the initial breakup and it worked as around a year later she texted me. She wanted more but I said I only wanted to be friends. Big mistake lol. Anyways, I told her how I felt last week and have since been focusing on myself. If she decides to come back I would happily date again, but if not it’s okay :)

My ex and I were together for 2.5 years in a long distance relationship. He said he doesn't feel the same anymore and only feels a friendly response towards me. for awhile before breaking up and I sent your good break up last and his response was "it's fine , I know this will be good for you in a long run, so keep doing your best" seems like he wants me to move on Is that bad for me?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. The distance will always be a major culprit but I also understand that the pandemic isn't making things any easier. Is this long distance scenario temporary, though? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYWNlrBpZNjcpKQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z6KaubSDgtXUcdY.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@chessysugarcandy118

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning okay

@chessysugarcandy118

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning thank you

I knew my ex gf wanted to reconcile when mutual kept talking about her to me. She was just too proud to approach. My ex gf and I were doing well but she slowly but surely started disrespecting me . I called her out on it and she left . She must have expected me to chase but I just stopped all contact. By the time she called me . I was over her and was dating other women.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a success story to me. Yes, apparently when it comes to stubborn people, you really can't do much to change their mind. Good for you!

Hi Brad, can no contact be 3 or 4 months? Do I have to contact her after 31 days of NC? Or is 3/4 months too long and risks losing the ex completely?

@BradBrowning

Жыл бұрын

The average time is 30 days but can go anywhere from 4 to 6 weeks in usual cases. If there's been some endless begging and/or refusing to cut off contact on your end, however, I usually suggest to give it more time, around 2 months or even more. Cheating instances are different if you've cheated, could be longer or shorter depending on how your ex reacts. Do take note that in some instances where the dumpee just couldn't take the hint and continually bugs their ex for months, there comes a time where the ex reaches a "breaking point" and confirms it's the right decision to break up and becomes hellbent in moving on from you. So the bottom line is the "no contact" rule is best applied when the breakup is still fresh. Discussed the importance of silence here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKtkpcquiKarndo.html Also don't forget to watch my other vids so you'll know what to do after the "no contact" phase, especially if you're not getting my Ex Factor Guide. Good luck!

@siriussaracen8371

Жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning Many thanks for you're reply Brand, i'm plannnig on buying your book next week. So you said ""take note that in some instances where the dumpee just couldn't take the hint and continually bugs their ex for months, there comes a time where the ex reaches a "breaking point" and confirms it's the right decision to break up and becomes hellbent in moving on from you."" .... so i begged my ex for 4 weeks, not every day, but almost every day, every other day, and then a beak of a few days, and then a break for 5 days, but in total the time was about 4-5 weeks, it was all via texts, and then the final two days was a meeting in person, and then she said she will not see me again and has made her decision not to be with me (by the way i was the one who actually pushed her away to begin with because she was being distant and a bit cold, so i said leave me)...... is this 4-5 weeks period of begging way too long? have i blown it? or can no contact still have an effect? Appreciate your help and response :)

Me and my girlfriend broke up 3 months ago and she recently reached out to see how i was and I didn’t respond immediately. I actually waited maybe a week and a half to respond and when I responded i was very casual seeing how she was. She told me she’s talking to another guy and that she is happy but realistically i want her back not just because she is with someone new but because i have been missing her and i asked should we try to pick up our pieces and fix our relationship and she said no I am 100% over you. What should I do if i want her back?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Don't you recognize an opportunity when you see one? :-) Your ex is opening the lines of communication which is a perfect opportunity for you to transition into phase two. Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, and assuming you've done the "no contact" rule properly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iqOir9aFdtKWYJM.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html Good luck!

@DaytonBassman

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning thank you man I really hope and pray that I get her back🙏🏾

@splitzyentertainment7995

2 жыл бұрын

@@DaytonBassman update

@splitzyentertainment7995

2 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning I got blocked 4 days ago she said before that, that she wanted to be with me and if I've been talking to other girls then I said to her to think about it for 48 hrs because I want her to be sure then after the 48hrs she said she isnt interested anymore and that day she got nasty to me for no reason and blocked me again 😑, it's crazy she said to me the day I spoke to her that apparently I caused myself to get dumped because of causing arguments most of the times and it wouldn't be like this if I wasnt argumentative what should I do?? You think she will unblock me? Today was my mums anniversary 6 years since my mum passed and my ex didnt unblock me and even check on me...

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

I k.n.o.w o.f a m.a.n w.h.o h.e.l.p m.e g.e.t m.y e.x b.a.c.k ♥️

We broke up early January this year ....it was a hard time for me but up to now he still texts me ,calls me ,say he loves me ...yet he still dated the girl he cheated on with ....I want to move on even though I feel some feelings fr him

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Stop entertaining him since he can't give you the commitment you deserve. Watch this, too: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZWmE2tlvitiqj7A.html

Brad What should i do I just began the no contact with my gf who herself broke up coz she lost feelings But yesterday she is sending breakup related posts and even asking me some normal ques which i told her about I just began thr no contact to regain hrr feelings but now i just see her texts but i dont give a reply Is that ok ? Or should i do something else She even said that "now you will ignore mr coz we are not together !? Fine sorry for texting " What does all this means and what should should i do Should i continue the no contact which i initiated 3 days ago

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

That's what I call the "validation-seeking" text and your ex is somewhat expected to send one or more of these sooner or later and here's how to handle each text. Discussed that in one of the vids, including how to handle that kind of message, here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iIF1qriDZtfcg7A.html

Hey Brad, i broke up with my gf and i did no contact for 2 weeks and it worked and we started to talk again . Sometimes she gets emotional and telling me that wish she lost her memory and we could meet again. What should i do?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

She did dumped you though, right? Or was it the other way around and you ended up dumping her? If she's the dumper, that kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Y59-k9ubpamveKg.html

So if my ex stays she wants to stay friend with me even when I tell her I wanna move on and she still interest that we be friends and she also check up on me? Sorry guy this is the first woman that I have ever loved I cheated on her and realized what I lost.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

If you're sure you want to fix the relationship, the best thing to do right now is to take responsibility and admit to your ex that you've effed up and try to be patient and sympathetic with what your ex is going through and just disappear from your ex's life for a while, because right now, you are a constant reminder of the pain and your ex needs to heal from that first. And saying sorry is not gonna fix that right away, it takes time. By cheating, you're automatically putting the ball in your ex's court and have lost privilege to take your power back in all this. It's up to your ex now and how soon they can forgive you and move on from the incident, not necessarily from the relationship although some people do that. With that in mind, these may help: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mGR6mtNreazNpKg.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/o6J5k5trlrixqKw.html Whatever you do, make sure you avoid doing the stuff here that will only push your ex further away: y2u.be/jikW4YYC9yo

Is it appliable on a lesbian relationship as well? I'm just asking because I'm aware that men and women act different in many kinda situations when it comes to feelings.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

The same psychology applies, yes. Discussed that here, too: kzread.info/dash/bejne/l5-MyamanLmooaQ.html

@yahayat.tibrahim5172

2 жыл бұрын

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