Rebound guy here, 6 weeks after my breakup. Please do us all a favor and dont get into a new relationship until you're healed and completely over your previous relationship(s). Also, to the exes, if you see them with us "rebounds", dont reach out to them. Let them be. I was with this guy for three months until his ex reached out to him, which caused him to doubt what we had. He ran back to what he felt was "secure". We had no issues and never argued. It was honestly amazing. Also from my digging post break-up, I pieced together that they were broken up for roughly three months until he started dating me. HEAL YOURSELF BEFORE YOU END UP HURTING SOMEONE ELSE.

@Cutthroat__

2 ай бұрын

Don’t get with someone that just got out of a relationship its not that hard

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Good point. Thanks for your comment!

@robturner7024

Ай бұрын

You’re a rebound guy and we’re seeing a guy? What?

@ShanitaBartlett

Ай бұрын

Exactly heal

@Sethos.cosplay

Ай бұрын

@@robturner7024what’s wrong about that👀👀👀👀

This is very correct! Thank you Brad

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Hey you're welcome! :-)

I love your videos! When in doubt about doing the right thing. I watch this video to reassure myself that I am doing what is best. haha! I watch it several times daily. The goal is to get him back and not have to watch your videos all of the time. For now, I will do what I have to do to get past this stage. Thank you

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

You're welcome! :-) A great alternative would be to read my Ex Factor Guide so you'll have something to keep you busy and some bonus reference materials on what to text your ex when the time comes, at www.breakupbrad.com/fbuy Either way, good luck to your goals!

I got stuck at stage two for three months because I kept chasing her. The moment I let her go and walked away and was absolutely serious that I was never going to be with her again, she went through all the other stages within a week and was begging me to take her back. I had a lot of girls trying to be with me, but I wouldn’t do it because I wanted her back. The only way I was able to let her go was when I finally started dating other girls. Once I began dating my entire attitude and demeanor changed. She could tell it changed , she went through worry and then regret within days.

@johnnyt8902

2 ай бұрын

Did you get back with her?

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

That's what I'm talking about! :-) Thanks for sharing.

@fivebooks8498

2 ай бұрын

@@johnnyt8902 I did get back with her. We had been together over 10 years when we split for 3 months. This happened 7 years ago and we are still together. Now been together 17 years. When she left it was bad. It was over in her mind. Nothing I did helped and only made it worse. I was destroyed. The thing is I didn’t do anything wrong to begin with. I was good to her and loved her so much. Women can just be selfish. When she left for those 3 months it changed me. I finally got over her there at the end. At least enough to move on. That didn’t change when she came back. Since she came back I have not showered her with love and affection like I used to before. I actually don’t treat her very good at all now but I did before all that happened. She left me when I was totally and completely in love with her. Now that I don’t care anymore she is all over me. She insists we have sex every single day and at least a couple times per weeks she wants it twice per day. In the last 7 years there has been maybe 5-6 days total that we did not have sex. What’s crazy is you can’t fake not caring. You really have to not care. I also believe she saw all the women that were lining up to be with me. She realized she was approaching middle age and only heading downhill but I’m only getting better and girls in their early 20’s were lining up. Do the no contact best you can. I know it’s hard but it’s the only thing that will work. For me it didn’t take 30 days. After 3 months of chasing her it only took about a week and she was begging me for forgiveness. She actually called me when I was on the way to the beach with a friend. She wanted me to come back but I didn’t. She asked if we could get together and talk when I got back. I had moved on and she knew it.

@fivebooks8498

Ай бұрын

@@johnnyt8902 I did get back with her.

Hi Brad, you make a lot of content about how to get back together with your ex. But for cases that we were cheated on, how do we know if we should accept them back? Hope to hear from you soon. Thank you.

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Since that's a devastating experience, the desire/intention to fix that particular relationship then becomes a purely subjective experience. There are many causes of one partner going astray and while some cases can be worked on, other cases deserve to be left in oblivion. So use your discernment if the situation you describe happens, all right? If you need my help on that, then I need a ton of details to your situation but this is what I'm here for so hire me as your coach at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

I love it thanks ❤❤❤

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

You're welcome! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: kzread.info”

Hey Brad! About 4 days ago, we broke up. However I know she is a very honest person and is wanting to collect her life first, and I fully trust her that she isn't willing to see anyone else until she has space in her life to do so. We are still in contact, but obviously not talking as often, she says that she will need sometime to heal due to the pain I caused her. I also don't think the 30 day no contact would really apply as that isn't much time for both of us to become better people. However, I have lots of plan to better myself and as I'm typing this out, I'm already going the right way! When do you think it's appropriate to reach out to her again? And again, I know for a fact that she does NOT want a relationship for a while.

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Hi! The average time to go no contact is 4-6 weeks but if you don't think that's enough time based on your situation, then you can extend it a bit more. You can both be better people for each other if you two manage to work on it... or you can both be better people for other people. It just really depends as some people fit like a glove while others take a huge amount of compromise to get there. Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

Almost seems accurate enough, just gotta watch out for the inconcistencies on these stages. It would usually overlap, thx Brad. ;-;7

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

You're welcome! Don't forget to check out my other videos if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX6oz7ibdM7InNo.html Best of luck!

Hi Brad! I followed your advice on how to text my ex after no contact and it went well but after that we never spoke again. Any advice on how to start a second conversation that will potentially move to an in person meet up? Thanks!

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

There's tons of my vids that talk about just that. Look it up. As general advice though, focus on texting and try not to meet up when one or both of you aren't ready yet. The phase you're on (assuming you've done the first phase correctly which is the 30-day no contact rule) is the second phase where you're rebuilding attraction. It's part two of the 3-phase system in my guide but here's a quick overview to help you understand better: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but as you go on this phase, you'll notice one or more signs here: y2u.be/nmRM3dZAzDA and the best you can do is to continue to play your cards right and move to the third phase when you're both ready. Good luck!

Hi Brad, I appreciate the channel a lot! My ex and I recently broke up over a mutual decision that our personal lives got to much into our relationship lives and caused used to break apart, due to things we needed to work on personally so it can be better for us personally, especially me not changing for her needs at the time. We have been together for 2 years and planned on having a life together by getting married and starting a family and I know on my heart it was meant to be. She still wants to be my Friend in life and she cares a lot about me. At this time I'm taking the time to let her be and do the 30 day no contact but she texted me on 3 days after we broke up saying "I'm really sorry for what you're going through" I really am" so I'm kind of confused why she would text me but its good to understand she cares in a way. I'm working on my self by working out and distractions like family and friends. Is there any advice into when I should start reaching my ex out to let her know I'm doing great on my own? So that way later I can get her attention that she wants this better man in her life that he changed. Please see this message Brad, and help me to get started privately.

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Hi there! Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

Thank you sir for all your videos. After 22 years and 4 kids, I got the “I love you but not in love with you” speech. Kids stayed with me. 10 days later she moved out. I begged and pleaded to no avail. After 6 months we agreed to try again. I was walking on eggshells when talking to her. I was always worried that she will get upset if I said the wrong thing. Basically afraid to speak my mind. It felt like she was waiting for any excuse to break it off. 2 months in and after a stupid argument she broke up with me again. This time I didn’t beg or plead and immediately went into NC. After 1 month she texted me “hey my parents are in town in case if you want to see them” I stuck to NC and didn’t reply. 2 weeks later I get another text “hey my brother had his baby in case you want to call him” and again didn’t reply. Now 3 weeks have past and no calls or texts. Was she breadcrumbing or is she playing games? Effn confused. Is she in stage 6?

@madkicks1127

2 ай бұрын

I say text her back brother but maybe wait for someone else to respond lol idk

@johnnyt8902

2 ай бұрын

You needed to text her back. I don’t agree with 100% NC. NC is on your terms. If they contact YOU, you should respond. Otherwise they know you’ve moved on and will completely be gone.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Not really but she may be trying to figure her feelings out. How did you mean by "agreed to try again?" does this mean you got back together? Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@madkicks1127

2 ай бұрын

Yea I regret my comment u shoulda definitely txted her txt her now brother

Please pray for me so God will restore my relationship and open Edwin eyes and work in edwin heart and if in his will bring us back together. Lord please help me I feel tired 😭

@pimq3948

2 ай бұрын

Hey im going through exactly what you are going through right now and feeling what you are feeling. You are not alone!

@jo-annenordin7032

2 ай бұрын

@@pimq3948 it feels like my heart is empty.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Have faith but also do your best, then surrender the outcome. Don't forget to check out my other videos too if you're not getting my guide so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX6oz7ibdM7InNo.html Best of luck!

@jo-annenordin7032

2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning thank you today is 29days he still have not reach out. And I am still praying and still battling with myself did I really matter to him. Help please let me know what you think

Hello Brad! What do i do if my ex feels resentment towards me, we broke up end of decemember and i did the no contact rule, we have a child so i do minimum contact, he didnt wish me no mothers day and told me straight up he has flashbacks of our relationship the bad memories.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

This depends. Was your relationship that bad? While most relationships can be salvaged, other cases are just beyond toxic which are better off left in the past. Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

Thank you Brad I'll be very grateful if you answer❤️.. I've Been in a long distance relationship for 5 months and he broke up with me after a honest conversation about what our relationship miss to be more successful.. I said to him I will try my best to make things better but after 10 day he said he want to breakup again I tried to convince him but it didn't work and he said he is sad and his feelings changed since that conversation and felt like his hard work for the relationship wasn't enough for me and he feel his heart is close and not knowing what to do about it and say he want me stay away from him now and want to be alone to feel him self again because he so tired from this.. I been in no contact about 6 days but he break it 2 days ago to wish me a happy birthday.. What should I do now???

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

You can give him a simple thanks for the birthday wish. With regards to your situation however, as you've noticed, the distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then it may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYWNlrBpZNjcpKQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z6KaubSDgtXUcdY.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

It's 5 months and my ex hasn't contacted yet. I guess she's happy living her new life

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

By now you would have a proper evaluation whether or not the relationship and/or your ex is worth a second shot, right? If you want to try, then it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: kzread.info/dash/bejne/i4qKy7ymiZXeYKw.html and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!

@farrukhakhtar1185

Ай бұрын

what if she married someone else

@maytachannel6031

18 күн бұрын

same here

8 months since break up. 4 months nc. She is done done. She deserves everything but ain't coming back

@BradBrowning

11 күн бұрын

If none of you reaches you, then yes, it may really be over for good. This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aa6kmbV_ksipgrg.html but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back in the best possible way, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!

Its hard when my is in his rebound but now things with my ex are going well but now it shouldnt bother me when his friend move in with him

Hey Brad need help asap! My ex 2 mo's gets a Therapist She broke up next day. after me being in no contact for a week i broke it w/a couple mild texts. She said she understood my surprise/disappointment she was dealing with issues she was hoping to fixincluding the passing of her daughter 1 year anniversary) but wanted to know why i perceived she needed space. I didn't answer right away and within 3 days then she blocked me. I did one call 6 weeks ago with no response and its been nothing communication wise on either side since . Fyi l'm on no Social Media of any kind. She maybe probably thinks I'll show up to talk it out we’re 10 minutes away i wont. Need advice ! It's not easy its getting a little better with time..i still care but its tough!

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

What were the issue/s in your relationship? I think you both need some space and not push it. Most people react to grief in not so good ways and this seemsto be the case with your ex, who in particular needs space because she seems to be going through a lot, so respect her decision and her goal to want to be a better person. Okay? Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

I ended because he love bombed me and then breadcrumbed me. I think I deserve more. My ex texted me after exactly 30 days with limited contact. I followed your advice but now he is trying to start a disagreement with me and is bitter with me for breaking up with him by putting the blame on me. I just didn't answer his last text because I am not going to argue. I miss him but I deserve better. He is also with a rebound right after we broke up.

@strengthanddignity7428

2 ай бұрын

This is exactly my story also! Wow I pray for strength forcus all

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your story. It's either he didn't know what he want and he love bombed you or you two were too incompatible to make it in the long run. Either way, I agree, it's not a good relationship and if you don't feel loved by him, it's time to move on. Continue ignoring to not give out false hopes. Take care!

@starlight1514

2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning Thank you Brad. I used your method before in the previous relationship. The no contact worked but some people don't realize they have something good until they lose it. In my case I have trust issues with men and am not willing to put up with breadcrumbing. I ended with my best friend who I had been over looking for other emotionally unavailable men. He was there patiently waiting for me to notice him as more than just a friend. This man I do feel I can trust. I am much happier. I hope other people on here find love.

What happen if you are a content creator and there's impossible for you to disappeare since you need to upload videos weekly?

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Just keep doing your thing (content) which hopefully doesn't require her?

Man i have been broken up with my ex for a month and a half, at first it was space and self growth, i gave her space we talked here and there, then we stopped talking. A week ago i called to see where we were at (it was a mistake) she says she wants to be alone and shes not sure if she will later regret that decision. After the conversation i told her basically im not going to figth if its meant to be it will be of not life goes on. Being in limbo stage sucks. Im moving on with my life with hope that we can get back together but not really counting on it for sure.

@BradBrowning

9 күн бұрын

That's right. You're already on the right mentality. It sucks indeed! This vid is for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/g4R-0tSDpcmTmbg.html

For step 6 if they feel resentful what do I do? Especially if i try to be cool with him but I can tell he keeps his distance and bitterness.?

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

A lot depends on your history together and why he's bitter in the first place. i.e.: have you cheated on him?

Ok thanks for your advice. I learn no contact rule BUT how could i show her that im fine and good and other things when we dont see each other. We arent connected anymore , dont have mutual friends

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

It's cliche but you're doing this mainly for yourself. Once you start to do it genuinely, it will naturally show...and it's a bonus if your ex finds out.

@sohrab1990

Ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning ahhhhh now i get it. Thank you.

Hi I Broke up with him and when he said Bye I felt so bad…I Did the worst mistake I Begged and pleaded with him I let my emotions get the best of me for 2/12 months and not talked to him for 2 weeks now how could I get him back I feel so bad:)

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ga6K28-SnrSshM4.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mGuu17qkXda8o6w.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aH9n2tefddqrdso.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com

So I was with my ex for 4 years and engaged for one. We broke up in February and she blocked me everywhere. In early April she contacted to check in on me and to tell me she is seeing someone else. I’m Florida now and she is in California because I was in the military. How can I get her back, what can I do?

@canis556

2 ай бұрын

Who broke up with who? You wanna girl that is having sex with other dude?

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Stage 6 may be a long time coming especially if the new beau can give her constant companionship, rebound or not. With that said, wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/ZyJRphwDca4 and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUB Good luck!

@16merrick

Ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning when I broke up, I tried staying contact by seeing videos or letters and gifts. I learned about you and the no contact rule this month. Does this hurt my chances now?

@16merrick

Ай бұрын

@@canis556 she initiated. She’s not having sex. At least not yet

Is there any way to get them back after stage 6?

Nothing can change that because it's gods will

@BradBrowning

16 күн бұрын

Yes and it's human nature everyone experiences. Love and loss are all part of living.

What phase of we’ve been nc for 10 weeks and I’ve heard nothing from him yet. He’s avoidant

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

I teach folks to take on a more active approach (if you want your ex back) rather than a passive one... as you could be waiting forever. Anyway you can reach out to your ex after the 30 days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aYSXyKmeetS7idI.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pmp9l81uZdPUc6g.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

@uppercutgrandma4425

Ай бұрын

Update?

He and I on dating app, I made a fake account and massaged him,he suspect it's me. He visited my profile 32times, but at last I made him to believe that I am another guy. Now he wants to meet with me. I told him not so early, we will meet outside from our campus. He said ok . I wanna talk with him slowly and wanna fix everything . No contact policy didn't work. But when he saw me with my friends laughing he stare me several times. Now I wanna meet him in a coffee shop, Will it work to fix our relationship?!!?

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Did you mean to meet up with him using the fake/dummy account? That's a big no-no. You need to be able to rely on yourself before you're in a position to get an ex back. Apply the tips here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZoWZj5Z6XabWhrw.html but this is the overview of what needs to happen, it helps to review it: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw Good luck!

@samibangladeshi1721

2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning 😓in a dating app I acted like I am from Morocco I mean from his country and he acted like he is Chinese, we talked then I not talked two days then when checked again seen that he blocked me, 💔💔 One of his friend already showed him my USA university admission letter ,but he not replied him, I actually don't want to leave him , but alas maybe he completely moved, I think now this is the time to think about myself,

The last two stages… 🔥 I hope both last forever for him… :)

@BradBrowning

3 күн бұрын

Especially if there's something to regret for! This vid is for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iqOYycN6mZurkrA.html

My boyfriend broke up with me 3 days ago he promised me a marriage but he said he don't love his feelings gone and he leave me alone and I'm dying for his love i can't live without him what should I do i want him back please help me tell me what should I do

@robturner7024

Ай бұрын

Sounds like he monkey branched to another girl . Just move on and do breath work and cry it out .

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

What happened between the time of him wanting marriage and the breakup? Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

Me and my ex Has been brokeup about 7/8 days ago after dated for 8 years, I was wanted to marry. And he said he Doesn't believe in marriage. So we call it quit. But than he calls me after 5days,. And ask is I'm getting marry to someone else. I said It's none of his business. So he hang up the call.. Today he calls again I was busy so couldn’t received it so i call back him, he received but Didn't say anything, and hang up the call. I Don't understand what actually happen? 😑

@BradBrowning

27 күн бұрын

He could be having doubts about his decision in not wanting marriage, so continue to act cordial but for now, cut off contact for at least 30 days, yeah? Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/lqWi06mQf86ffqQ.html

@nusraatmahzabeen8888

27 күн бұрын

@@BradBrowning Thank you Brad

He told me he met someone, what about in this case? I would appreciate your comment.

@BradBrowning

11 күн бұрын

It's best you try to put your focus elsewhere (best to put focus back to yourself) because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX95mNCbZJDUlKQ.html Watch this, too: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hnaoxJVtl9ycqto.html This should hopefully get you back on track with what you ought to be doing during this time: kzread.info/dash/bejne/oZZ2q9atgbbHm5c.html However, if their relationship lasts for 6 months or more, it's probably best to start moving on from this. Take care!

I told my ex,i want to heal so i blocked him on WhatsApp. Will he still miss me? Coz he's always on my mind and it's really hard for me to heal and move on.

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

If your relationship was serious, he will, especially if it was serious. This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aa6kmbV_ksipgrg.html but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back in the best possible way, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!

@joyemmanuel4264

Ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning yh,it was but I guess It won't just work out anymore since we're both still young(teens).

How do i get her back when she saids shes not in love with me anymore

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

99%of breakups comes as a result of someone feeling the way your ex has felt. The bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction but my program is about trying to regain that lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. Apply the tips here to help you out, too: kzread.info/dash/bejne/oZakuKqAlbHeetY.html Best of luck!

@lolabrown1918

Ай бұрын

Move on bro

Love trying to make a hard break when we live together and can’t move out 😬

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

It's another story if you live under the same roof after a relationship ends. I suggest you do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!

@anniemba1205

5 күн бұрын

Is he back?

I think my ex is in stage 3 since he texted me during no contact. Does he have options? Yes, do I have options, most definitely. So I ignored the text, let him enjoy the rebound dates & let him start worrying, "Is my ex doing the same"

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

That's right!

What if we broke up we took time of she wanted me back but then she decided she needed more time i think she dated someone else

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Dumpers will often always need time. Try to see which stage your ex is at and move accordingly. The fist step for you is to cut off contact for at least 30 days. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/lqWi06mQf86ffqQ.html

@normakirkman8756

14 күн бұрын

I would like to my husband I have had no regrets he has not contacted me. I have moved on and I have no regrets

7 months and I miss being in a relationship. But honestly I think Im dong with relationships hasta 47 years of doing my best and losing all those battles. I think I gave all I could give and people dont give a freaking fu... I feel like Im done.

@BradBrowning

20 күн бұрын

You know, some people are single by choice and there is definitely happiness in freedom as well! However, there is also intimacy that can only be found in relationships. What I'm saying is like all things in life, there's pros and cons to each status. It's best to decide which one you're most happy with but if you've just gotten out of a long term relationship, it's important to stay single first. Take care!

will this work on the 3rd time? you break up

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

With on-and-off relationships, oftentimes this is a sign of underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. It may be time to put things into perspective while it's still early because in 14 years spent as a relationship online coach alone, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKV1p8tygMWrcaQ.html But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!

She left me because she was confused about her feelings towards me and the relationship. We were in love and talked about our future a lot, mutually bringing it up. I want her more than I’ve ever wanted anyone. Loving her made sense, just like 2+2=4. I know she’s confused and doesn’t know what she wants and I just have no idea what to do. I’m assuming the best thing for me to do is give her space and figure it out. But I want to do any and everything I can for her to come back

@BradBrowning

7 күн бұрын

You're on the right track by giving her space. A healthy sense of optimism is needed indeed along with viewing the situation for what it is so as not to look at it with rose coloured glasses. This means you ought to have a balanced approach but cutting off contact will naturally help you with that, so try to stick to that rule for 30 days. One way to go about this is to not get too caught up with getting your ex back so you will allow for stuff to play naturally while playing your cards right , which is what my videos and/or my Ex Factor Guide is for. If you still can't help it, go ahead and sign up for my coaching program so I can guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching but really try to have that sense of independence without your ex first. You need to be able to rely on yourself before you're in a position to get an ex back. Apply the tips here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZoWZj5Z6XabWhrw.html but this is the overview of what needs to happen, it helps to review it: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw Good luck!

My sunlight was too bright.

@BradBrowning

23 күн бұрын

Hey thanks for dropping by!

Why are is my husband of 13 years, being cruel actually wicked during the relief period? I don't recognize him!

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Everybody has their own way of coping. Breakups in particular tend to evoke anger, sadness, relief, etc. afterwards. Just try to make sure you don't add fuel to the fire because drama is really the last thing you guys need right now.

Why would you take a boyfriend back? if they’ve been with somebody else I wouldn’t that’s one of my must-haves for him to even be considered to be back in mylife.. Just a thought of having them to be with somebody else and be touched by somebody else. That’s disgusting.

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

The decision to take an ex back is purely subjective. Sometimes they're worth it, other times it's not.

Been 10 weeks since the breakup. Don’t think she’s coming back

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

I teach folks to take on a more active approach (if you want your ex back) rather than a passive one... as you could be waiting forever. Anyway you can reach out to your ex after the 30 days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aYSXyKmeetS7idI.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pmp9l81uZdPUc6g.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

My guy of 22 years moved right in with someone else 😮

@BradBrowning

29 күн бұрын

Whoa. Sorry to hear that... Needless to say, that's a pretty huge move. Sorry, but chances are your beau has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: kzread.info/dash/bejne/n2Zrtq6eqbjTp8o.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aa6kmbV_ksipgrg.html but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back in the best possible way, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!

I don't know what to do guys. It feels like I have no friends, I can call people and go out, but they're flat, won't understand me. I feel as alone as it gets. I was very confident, and was doing really good and now I'm just as crushed as when we broke up. I need help, have no clue what to do. Suicidal thoughts are going through my head all the time in the last 20 hours. I'm self sabotaging. Help me

@TheDirvish

2 ай бұрын

Just hang on brother. The thoughts will pass. You need to cry as much as you can. And HARD, in privacy or whenever you need to. It's agonizing but it DOES get better. I promise. I was there about a month ago. It sucks ass and it WILL hurt, unbearably so. But it DOES get better.

@lucap6211

Ай бұрын

I’m right there with you. You’re not alone. We will pull through this. Taking all of this a day at a time.

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that. You absolutely need to take care of yourself first before anything else. And yes, it's way tougher indeed without a support system. You can reach out to family or even post a topic on an online forum to vent out and/or make new friends. As to your thoughts, you likely feel overwhelmed and that's normal. It's time to release that pent up energy by brisk walking/jogging or getting a new hobby as you adjust to life without your ex. Take care!

What about a stubborn ex? That’s a difficult situation no?

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

When did you two broke up? If you're done with the "no contact" phase and therefore had sent one of these text messages for re-establishing contact, give your ex time to warm up slowly to you. Don't expect one text to work magic because it simply doesn't work that way. Getting an ex back is a process, therefore, learn to be patient and like I said, give her time to actually come close to you. She can't do that if you keep chasing her. Makes sense? Also, this may help: kzread.info/dash/bejne/gnaj1rOyl9ydn9Y.html

@johncornicello4924

2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning our relationship was for 17 years and I waited through no contact for 4 months then started texting her just 1 message every week. She would reply and text for a little then stop. I waited another month asking her for a coffee meetup with no pressure. She said she wanted to think about it. The next week she declined. I’m thinking about not sending her a weekly text anymore, it’s been 9 months now. Thank appreciate you,

My DA ex has left me again 😔

@starlight1514

2 ай бұрын

Work on yourself. Become the person you want to date. If they can walk away from you then they don't deserve you.

@teem5945

2 ай бұрын

She's not ready. Work on yourself to be the best version of yourself.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!

Mine did everything possible to hurt me as much as possible.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that.

My ex had sex with someone else, blamed me because I didn’t give her enough space. She then told me “I love sex - the struggle is real.” Pretty sure she’s not coming back… lol

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

If she wants sex with someone, she would've ran to you. She's likely lost attraction and trying to blame you. Sorry to hear this man, but consider moving on.

@RobbiJamesVogt

Ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning already did man! Did I mention she’s really angry with me? She was extremely relieved after our separation. I’m the one that asked if she had slept with someone else. He was married. I’ve take a full year and half to better myself - she’s also upset about that… She’s a very a jealous, insecure person. It’s too bad. I thought she was a great girl. Thank God I saw all this before we went any further.

Wonder if all this is the same for a long marriage where person left with another (also married) midlife crises! BUT YOU KNOW your person and the other aren’t right for each other ….

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

The process of saving one's marriage is a bit complicated and in fact, does NOT make use of the "no contact" rule... but this is why I've released a second book called Mend the Marriage. Check it out at www.marriageguy.com as everything is on there, from how to communicate more effectively, down to how to handle the kids (if applicable), monitor your progress through worksheets and stuff. But while I certainly need more information to know what's going on between you two for sure, I suggest you check out more marriage-saving tips which you may find useful, check out this new channel I've dedicated solely for this purpose. Here's the link: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU or sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program at www.marriageguy.com/coaching Take care!

Hey Brad, update here! You said I had been too needy, so I decided to heed your advice and go no contact for a while, and here's what happened. Update: My ex gf who had blocked me and is still ignoring me, reached out a few days ago (this is about 2 weeks after I went no contact) and texted that she was sorry for getting into a relationship so early with me without knowing me properly, bcoz she has realised I have many qualities she doesn't like, and so she broke up. She said she only contacted me bcoz she thought I needed an explanation and she doesn't want to start a conversation with me. I explained that I understood why our relationship didn't work out, she didn't have anything to apologise for, and that I didn't care whether she wanted to speak with me or not. All in all, I wasn't needy this time and tried to act pretty chill. But at the end of the conversation she blocked me and is now ignoring me again. (Although she hasn't blocked me on telegram yet, but that's coz she doesn't know I'm on telegram:) What do you suggest I do now?

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Hey man, how long were you in a relationship with her? If you've only been together for less than six months, chances are what she told you was the truth. Depending on what really cut the relationship short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKtkpcquiKarndo.html

MoFo can stay gone

@BradBrowning

7 күн бұрын

As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved or if it was overall a dysfunctional/toxic relationship. It's your life and it's your decision.