When I thought the video was going to end I get hit a bonus 3 text messages!! Love the content Brad! I’m in my 40s- I love the content but every relationship is different I’ll take bits and pieces of your content - not all is relatable to me- because everyone’s situation is different- but the end result is the same ❤

@breakupbradbrowning

3 ай бұрын

Hey thanks! You're right. Find what applies to your situation. You can also find more tips here on my other channel: www.youtube.com/@BradBrowning/videos but if you still need further help or have too much of a unique situation where it gets confusing for you, then please don't hesitate to sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@akeemapereira9139

3 ай бұрын

@mamaratchet how?

As of right now I feel like I’ve been disrespected so much I’m not going to be 2nd choice anymore. Hope the best for her. The Grass is never greener on the other side.

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

Remember, you teach others how to treat you, but the first 30 days of the breakup is often the most tumultuous, which is why you need to give each other space in almost all cases. And you're right, the grass is never greener on the other side. It's greener where you water it. Thanks for dropping by!

@user-if6ex2nd4s

5 ай бұрын

@@breakupbradbrowning I need your help and advice my girlfriend ( Lgbt) I’ve been together for about four years now. Our relationship has been perfect but we have had a lot more high during this relationship she here from Newtown she didn’t have friends she wanted to try to meet people online is more comfortable but the problem that I’m having every time engages out with a potential friend (female), it always turns into something sexual at first encounter, she always ends up feeling upset and knowing that she is wrong and this is happened for the third time in the last 2 1/2 years. I’m just trying to figure out where I should do because the day I love her so much and I don’t expect people to be perfect in relationships. I just want to build us up and build stronger but it feels like in her mind, thinking of what it comes to this most recent Communication with three months… she’s told me constantly it’s not me And I haven’t done nor made her feel anyway, I know that’s true I’m not perfect at all but I haven’t cheated , flirted, thought about stepping out etc, I feel that I’m a very loyal person, and I want to continue loving her despite her mistakes. I appreciate her taking accountability for her in your opinion what do you think we should do because we still live together we have two dogs and each other.. I don’t want her mixed feeling and doubt to effect us moving forward and she feels that with these mistakes she needs to try to be more independent because she always jump from relationship to relationship but she knows our love is totally different. She seems to constantly be in her head but she always brings up her love and never wanting to lose me because of a connection because our connection will always be the best and no one will know her like I do.. any advice I would GREATLY appreciate because again we do live together

@stephaniegordon834

2 ай бұрын

Yea I told my ex the same thing "the grass is always greener over a septic tank"

I'm irreplaceable. Meaning that there's no comparison

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

That's true!

Don't ever ask for another chance because that sounds like...please rescue me!

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

Yes, re-attraction should be built naturally and organically.

Having no contact after a breakup is similar when you’ve met a girl and you have her number. You don’t want to appear needy and too talkative otherwise it’s just going to push her away. Less is more in both cases.

@breakupbradbrowning

3 ай бұрын

That's one great analogy! Yes, less is always more. Thanks for sharing.

Thank you, Brad. Looking forward your new videos!

She can find another person but can't find another me her loss

@breakupbradbrowning

2 ай бұрын

That's true! However, if your relationship was otherwise good and you've both ego get in the way, it's both your losses. It's why it's important to really give things time and for both people in the relationship to calm down first and not make rash decisions.

@christopherhilliard3681

2 ай бұрын

@@breakupbradbrowning our relationship was like a supernova so much chaos lots of adventures definitely toxic but it was a lot of fun I was the fool that tried to keep it going she's just not dedicated to the cause . she's detached and indifferent only about herself from day 1 . Her mindset if you can handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best . Being a mechanic I can fix everything except people and my relationship. The universe will provide when it's time

i been watching alot of your videos u a smart man i follow all your advice uk what u talking about i'm glad ur channel popped up god bless🙏🏾u

@breakupbradbrowning

3 ай бұрын

Thanks for the support, man! I'm happy to have you as one of my followers. Here's my other channel that has tons of other vids you may find useful as well: www.youtube.com/@BradBrowning/videos

@tioshmatrotter3462

3 ай бұрын

@@breakupbradbrowning you welcome and i will check that link out

Brad, I would appreciate your two. My GF left me 5 days ago after 8 months, and NC since. Equally good times and bad times because my kiddo's mama tried to ruin us, and it stressed us both out. She is also at a different stage of life and will move to the other side of the country for school in August. She would say we will marry someday and be together forever. She said she could not handle everything and was weak, and we both deserved better. She also said she didn't know if she was making a mistake and didn't know what the future holds. She also kissed me, was intimate, and said she loved me over and over and nurtured me with physical affection the night she broke up. I know now I should have been more empathetic for her staying with me as long as she did. I was wrong in being emotionally distant when I felt she crossed my boundaries, and I also got mad at her when she stayed out late on a school trip and didn't call me. She would also expect me to communicate, just a mutual respect thing when in a serious relationship. I love her and didn't correctly apologize for getting mad at her. I need to clear the slate because of my behavior before returning to NC?? Am I wasting my time, or do you see this as it's done because of all of the many circumstances? Thank you! 🙏

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

If you've begged or somehow tried to negotiate the breakup, then it's important to send the clean slate email (if you have my Ex Factor Guide) or use the free version here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aH9n2tefddqrdso.html but if none of that happened, then just go straight to the "no contact" rule for at least 30 days. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hYiAzNubqczHcrQ.html

@cherylu9716

5 ай бұрын

Work on loving yourself with nc. I hope this helps. So far it has not helped me yet. I know he misses me.. I've had nc for 5 mnths. Good luck!😊 I hope I can get my ex back. Unfortunately he lives 1300 miles away 😢

@ibednego6398

5 ай бұрын

Yes I am. We have to steadfast to self care and healing. There is no other way to carry on after a tough heartbreak.

I can see he's missing me cause he's constantly sending me messages. I was the one who was all over him not to long ago till I realized I was done. I walked away and went no contact. I'm not taking him back no more

@breakupbradbrowning

3 ай бұрын

Hi! Yup. As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision. Thanks for sharing! :-)

It's been 6 months and she's given me every signal possible. I don't think she's coming back lol

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

She's given you many of these signs I covered in this video? If she's STILL sending you these sorts of signals even now 6 months after the breakup, you might still have a chance. Obviously with that amount of time having passed since the breakup, your odds aren't likely very good at this point, but I have seen some of my clients win back their ex even a year or more after the initial breakup. I would suggest you start moving on with your life and accept that she may be gone for good, but that doesn't mean you have to close the door to re-connecting again if she shows any interest down the road. Thanks for watching and good luck. :-)

Hi Brad, I’ve been researching your product and watching your videos and they have been helpful. My boyfriend broke up with me last Monday, but we separated on 4/16. Almost a month now. We were living together. Long story short, I fell into a deep depression after getting fired, terrible buyer’s remorse over new construction issues, financial worries, and grad school. I burned out. I turned to smoking weed at night to help numb and deal. I could not be there for him as he needed, and he left me because of these things, saying the only way we have a path forward is if I change. Otherwise he does not want a relationship. He also said he is actively trying to not miss me. He is not looking at my social media. With all of this said, what do you think is the best path forward, and do I have a chance of getting him back?

@breakupbradbrowning

2 ай бұрын

This is one of the instances where I say a breakup is needed at this time. Put all that focus back to yourself first and your own life, yeah? However, be careful not to spiral into self-destructing patterns of behaviour like you mentioned. It's too much to handle for most people, your ex included. Channel that energy into something else, something more productive. Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@chrismistretta4801

2 ай бұрын

@@breakupbradbrowning thanks Brad. I would really like to work with you on this. I am hopeful for reconciliation in the future, but also am working to detach and am using no contact (today is day 10). Do I purchase your program to sign up for coaching?

Hi Brad What advice do you have for me as me and my ex work in the same workplace as well as all their friends they talk to and hang around with that part taked in their smear campaign against me there is no way of not seeing them at work on the days we are in together I have been applying the “grey rock” method but people at work sometimes force me into positions where I have to communicate with them for work reasons at the minute we don’t look at each other or talk to each other but I have a feeling my bosses will put me in positions where I’m forced to communicate with them for work reasons what should I do?

@breakupbradbrowning

3 ай бұрын

Things don't have to be any more awkward than it has to be. Do limited contact instead and keep any conversation you have strictly work-related, especially the first 30 days after the breakup. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYiep6OAerq6paQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/lniO1NCHmJuyf8o.html

What would you advise if someone broke up with you, you had a monrh apart limited/no contact then was told "lets see how things go" and in rhe few weeks since there has been minimal effort/emorion? Saying they want to be 100% sure before rushing back in?

@breakupbradbrowning

Ай бұрын

They're unsure of their feelings and wanting to take things slow. In this case, make sure you don't put all your eggs in that proverbial basket and try to open your dating pool instead of limiting it to your ex. Unless your ex makes up her mind and commit to you, you ought to protect your heart but at the same time play your cards right. Refer to my other vids for more tips if not, get the Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!

I've watched so many of these videos and I'm slowly coming to the conclusion that I'm probably screwed and lost her for good.

@breakupbradbrowning

4 ай бұрын

How many have you watched? I think it's best to take the free quiz and answer as best as you can to find out, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz If your score is around 70s, then all hope may not have been lost just yet. Good luck!

@dolfanatic1991

4 ай бұрын

@breakupbradbrowning I spent most of my day at work watching and it was a very slow day. So I've probably watched between 20-25 of your videos today alone.

@albertodeulofeu5277

4 ай бұрын

You probably did. Chicks leave and move on. We don’t matter after.

@dolfanatic1991

4 ай бұрын

@albertodeulofeu5277 oh well. After what I've learned between the time of my comment and now it's probably for the better and I'm probably better off. She has more self improvement to do than I do.

@Scheherazad100

4 ай бұрын

Never beliefe you dont matter. Tou do. You've no idea how just a smooe from you can lift someone ekses day. Or just saying hi. ​@@albertodeulofeu5277

Great video Brad, I got a quick question for ya, so me and my ex have been really connecting well lately and recently she add back my friend on instagram that she knew well(she’s not romantically interested in him at all), just wondering if this is a good sign that I’m headed in the right direction

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

That's a neutral sign. Did she ask about you though to this friend of yours though? In general, here's what to be on a lookout for: kzread.info/dash/bejne/fYGZ1Jlyf7TFqNI.html

Hi Brad how would I go about this in strategic NC as we have kids and I see him on his days off, ive asked for space but I see him couple times a day for few mins at a time he's always asking me how I am.confused how to make him miss me.thanks

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

Do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYiep6OAerq6paQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/lniO1NCHmJuyf8o.html

Brad! So me and my ex baby daddy I did no contact for like a month just very minimum communication because of our son. So after the one month contact i started reaching out and we would talk and everything was cool. Last week everythig was good when I was leaving he gave me a hug, and he even put my arms around his neck and now he been more cold arguing with me more… what do i do we broke up middle of December

@melindabararata6888

5 ай бұрын

And he has been bringing up negative memories between us, like my flaws in the relationship

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

It's best to continue the same dynamic with little improvements every now and then. I recommend to try to apply the tips from this vid, too: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z62Ku8yHfJa-pJc.html In the future, if you're still not sure about what you're doing, I really suggest you sign up for my coaching program so I can assess your situation properly and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

My now ex and I have been split for a month and some change now. Never had one problem in our 2 and a half, almost 3 year relationship. I was caught texting a couple girls, never touched anyone or anything, but it destroyed her. What unfortunately made it worse was the exact thing happened in her last relationship, except that guy ended up in a relationship with that person a month later. I on the other hand was being a horn dog and wasn’t actually wanting anything relationship wise with these girls. Not trying to downplay the situation, cheating is cheating. Long story short, I’ve tried reaching out a few times, even apologized to her parents because we’re on the verge of moving in together this summer and now I’ve jeopardized everything. I’m her longest relationship and her best relationship, also mine... I screwed up but want nothing more than to marry this girl. I was recently blocked after trying to talk to her after leaving church one day and it didn’t help at all, but was trying to show that I want to make things right and show her we’re able to overcome this. She’s unfortunately blocked me on everything and am lost on what to do..

@breakupbradbrowning

4 ай бұрын

Here are the most common reasons for being blocked and my thoughts about it, including what to do: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 and don't forget to take the quiz if you still have questions on what to do after, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz

thank you brad but my ex is an DA and she went back to her ex after we broke up 1 month plus ago . So i guess i think ill just let time do its work

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

Hey, you're welcome! Yes, but in general, consider moving on from this if you haven't been together that long... because in addition to being DA, she likely has some unfinished business with this ex she went back to. If your situation is unique, don't hesitate to sign up for my coaching program so I can help you out further, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

hey brad , what do u think i should do. me and my boyfriend have been ups and down but we loved each other, until he broke up with making an excuses that we dont understand each other olny to find hes talking to my best friend and have feelings for er. next day he came to me saying he doesnt know who to choose. what do u think i should do? im really hurt that they betrayed me but i hate the fact that i still love him

@breakupbradbrowning

18 күн бұрын

Sorry to hear that. That's a huge betrayal but it's your decision to see if you're willing to give it another shot if he tries to make amends. But the question is is he even trying to? If he isn't trying to make it up to you, then he obviously has made his choice and if you're asking me, the breakup looks like a blessing in disguise. It's necessary to cut ties with both of them so you can regain control of your own life. This may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aa6kmbV_ksipgrg.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com

I'd say wish you all the best. But I'm better off without you. It worked! I showed him i care but i love myself more! He felt and relaized what he lost. I kept myself busy, I STOPED calling, caring for him, instead I start loving myself, I became happier. He saw it and likes to get back together, even admitted how badly he treated me but im not risking my my heart again. No way! Block! And you are right, I deleted everything that has something to do with him. I healed easily. I didnt memorize his phone number, deletes his number ony phone and change mine. This way, we both fully lost way to contact each other. I love it! Coz i admit it was hard at the beginning but we have to remind ourselves that we are worthy of something more.

@breakupbradbrowning

4 ай бұрын

I'm happy to hear that. It looks like giving each other space and respecting his decision has worked as it helps you re-evaluate stuff in your relationship. And as I often say, the decision is ultimately up to you. What matters in the end is you're happy with the decision you've made after clearing your head. Take care!

hi Brad thank u for ur video. My ex broke up with me 6 months ago saying he's not happy where he is in life, struggles with mental health, and cannot be in a relationship/a good partner. Neither of us wanted to let go but eventually he said he needs more time, I went NC. It's been 4 months. what do i do? randomly texting seems very odd as it's been awhile. we're on good terms and i still want another go. suggestions?

@heatherc2062

5 ай бұрын

Same here

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

4 months of No Contact? It’s definitely time to reach out or find a way to reconnect. Come up with a legit sounding reason to contact him the first time if you can… could be a question / request for help… could be a meme or a joke you know he’d appreciate, etc. At this point I think you have to accept a bit of awkwardness with the first message because you don’t want to wait any longer before trying to connect. Hope it works out for you, good luck!

@user-ui4uv2ko5h

5 ай бұрын

@@breakupbradbrowning thanks Brad. Yes 4 months of NC since my thinking was if he wasn't feeling like he's in a good place to be in a relationship, i'd give him space. i asked him to reach out when he wants to talk again. Me forcing anything does no good. But he never reached out, only browse my social media. i'm still hesitant to make the first move but waiting is causing me a lot of grief and anxiety. i miss him and what we had but not sure if the fact he's not reaching out, he's not ready and i should move on. struggling. :(

@user-ui4uv2ko5h

4 ай бұрын

Hi Brad, i ended up sending him a message asking how he's doing and with an interesting question. however he ignored and never responded. what do i do from here

@pumpkinpie7864

4 ай бұрын

@@user-ui4uv2ko5hheyyy what was the question you asked him? I’m sorry he didn’t reach out :(

Brad she said she was amicably seeing someone, sound like she wanted a reaction from me, I didn’t give one. She’s an avoidant, said the other guy didn’t wanna date because he’s moving in April etc, she didn’t want to date either. So Jan 1 2024 I went NC she texted me three days later wishing me happy birthday. After I said I’m done talking to her. I ignored her and then she reached out again couple weeks later I ignored her. Then her aunt died recently I was close with her aunt. And she called me crying telling me she died and “ said she had no one to talk to”? So I kind of comforted her and was there for her as a human. Checked in twice to see if she’s good. Then my family and I went over to the family house to pay our respects, she sat right beside me multiple times even when she got up. Kept talking cute to me. Gave me two body hugs. Also when i scratched her head she tilted her head back ( she liked it) but I know she’s still talking to this other guy? It’s been 7 months since breakup longest no contact was 43 days then called me about her aunt

@user-tw2fr5pv8b

5 ай бұрын

What’s your advice? Is she using me emotionally? But I’ve been living a good life and she defintely sees that.

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

At this point which is 7 months in to the breakup, you should've been seeing someone else too or at least keeping your dating options open. Anyway try to see if you're okay with her seeing someone casually. Since it's been many months since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: kzread.info/dash/bejne/i4qKy7ymiZXeYKw.html and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!

@user-tw2fr5pv8b

5 ай бұрын

@@breakupbradbrowning hey Brad that didn’t make sense my ex is still clearly interested. She looks at all my stories usually the first. She called me when her aunt died and said she said no one to talk to. She was very intimate when we came over to pay our respects to her aunt she sat right beside me, and answers my calls etc, wishes me happy birthday ( when I was in no contact) she is clearly interested why else would she want emotional support from me if she’s happy with the casual guy she’s seeing? She wouldn’t sit right beside me let me play with her hair etc I know it’s been 7 months but I need advice on what to do not a video that didn’t imply to my situation

I have a question if he says we are done for good then why does he keep responding to my texts ?? Wouldn't he just ignore it or block ? Like I reach out to him and he talks a bit then blocks the number I reach out on texting apps

@breakupbradbrowning

4 ай бұрын

He may just be trying to be nice because contrary to the popular opinion, dumpers often hurt as well when they have to end a relationship. So it's possible he still cares enough for you to respond to you, but not enough to stay in a relationship/committed to you. The solution is to give him space for at least 30 days and allow him time to miss you. Does that make sense? Here, watch this, for example: kzread.info/dash/bejne/fYapt8aLfrbTY7Q.html

We’re going to meet up and the next few days. He already said he doesn’t want a relationship out of me, but he wants me to get closure and move on. He’s can be an avoidant at some points, and by his tone I can tell he’s broken, I broke his trust he said. In he’s scared to let anyone get that close to him. In I can tell he’s still attracted to me by his actions.l when we’re around each other. How should I go about this meet up? I want him to remember and miss the good times we had, we lived together for 7 months and planned a whole life together. Also he still reads my messages, he doesn’t respond, and it’s confusing because if he didn’t want anything to do with me. Why read my messages? N why not block me?

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

Your ex could still be processing the breakup and so should you. How long have you two in a relationship in total? It seems like it's too soon to be living together to really gauge true compatibility. Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

Mine freaked out after I got a spinal cord injury and got put on opiates because her mother OD in front of her at 10 years old. She's now out of state but still wants to say good morning and good night etc etc and wants to be back in my life and marry me "when she feels ready" I've got my engagement ring back that I took from her 4 months before she left when she said she didn't believe in marriage. Should I cut off all contact or continue to talk to her in the morning and evening and is it even too late now that it's been 3 months today that she went back up North and I'm down south

@breakupbradbrowning

Ай бұрын

Cut off contact for at least 30 days. It's obvious this is a very confusing time not just for your ex but for you as well and it's crucial for you both to think clearly first, okay? This vid is for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/oKSps8RqcbO5kbg.html

I used to leave a rose at Starbucks for her from time to time. It has been 2 weeks of no contact and I was thinking of leaving a rose at the drive through window counter. It won't be for her but as she drives through, I'm thinking it will trigger her to think of me. What do you think of that?

@breakupbradbrowning

6 күн бұрын

That sort of thing is something reserved for when you're in a relationship...not an ex. So I highly suggest against doing that. Start with something light and fun AFTER the 30-day no contact period. Otherwise you may come across as creepy, so be careful. So send a little text and see how it goes. Your situation is also very delicate so once you start to see some progress with your ex, then don’t go at it alone, especially if you're in doubt or don't know what to do next. Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

This is really important. What if you've been broke up years ago somehow a couple of years or 3. Is no contact method still effective or would it still work. What if after 3 years of break up then you are just trying the no contact rule. Would it affect. Or is there any techniques you can do such like that for years long break ups. Please answer me Brad. I wanna hear your answer.

@breakupbradbrowning

4 ай бұрын

It might but the potency will be much lesser than if you were to have given each other space right then and there and showed him you respected his decision to break up. But if you're not seeing progress with him through these months, your window of opportunity may have already passed. Discussed that here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/l2egl62QddOvoNo.html and especially if you see the signs here: y2u.be/k1myDIp0gSc Good luck!

@ruthereduardposadas7044

4 ай бұрын

So it is not possible though?

@cherylu9716

2 ай бұрын

@@ruthereduardposadas7044 suggestion if you don't mind....you might want to work on yourself, self affirmations and concentrate on yourself.

I had been in a four year on an off relationship with my ex, just recently we broke up about a month ago because she wanted me to come over her house and do you know what, When 2 days prior she looked at me in my eyes and told me even if she asks tell her no because she wants to get closer to god, So I did that and She got mad at me hung up , called me back and said you're not going to call me and and then she hung up one more time and we haven't talked since Except one time I texted her because she had called me and I missed her call and she said accident. I guess what i'm trying to say is I still want to talk to her but I just got very busy and haven't been able to have a conversation. And I know it will be difficult to have one with her if I do

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!

HEY. Very much learn from your teachings. I have learned a lot from you. Yesterday I did that quiz "What Are Your Chances Of Getting Your Ex Back and I sent it, it seemed to send Ok, but I never got the results of my chances, sent to me in email after I provided my email address. So was this an obsolete quiz or something?? Results are not in my Spam mail either. And yes, I sent the correct email address.

@breakupbradbrowning

Ай бұрын

Hi there! The quiz has been working fine as far as I know, lots of other people have already taken it recently and received results successfully. Please try again using a new browser (ie. use Safari if you previously used Chrome to take the quiz) and a different email address. Also please check if it didn't end up in your email's spam folder or something. Hope that helps, and thanks for taking the quiz.... best of luck!

Hey, Brad, currently in no contact with someone i was dating. Its been more than a week and im cracking. I recently found out that she was out partying with my mutual friends and she did not ask about me at all, in fact, it was quite obvious she was having a blast. What should i do? Has she already moved on?

@breakupbradbrowning

8 күн бұрын

Hi! Your ex is enjoying her newfound freedom, which is what all dumpers do. It helps to know which phase your ex is at so you can focus on yourself in the meantime. This vid is for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/lqWi06mQf86ffqQ.html Right now it's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. Just whatever you do, make sure to heed the tips from this vid at all times: kzread.info/dash/bejne/nJ2fuZaSiaafqdI.html So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my updated 2.0 version Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenario and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy Good luck!

@222333681

7 күн бұрын

@@breakupbradbrowning Hey Brad thanks:) , signed up for your coaching program! Cant wait to work with you!

What if I never did anything in my part to make her fall in love with me in 2.5 years we were together so in the end I was the one left in love wifh feelings and she's off and gone 5 months after breakup happy and moving on! I was the one with the power our entire relationship but the difference is she made all the efforts to make me fall in love with her so now I'm the one suffering. I broke up with her 5 months ago and 1 month ago I started fighting for her. She blocked me ive been trying to get her back messaging everyone we know but shes not budging. Is if over?

@breakupbradbrowning

3 ай бұрын

Here are the signs to confirm she has moved on: kzread.info/dash/bejne/jK1-tNKhp6fJkZc.html You wouldn't want to see half of these signs especially if it remains that way consistently for months on end, depending on how long you're trying/willing to try. Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

What if he's blocked me from everywhere, call, instagram, WhatsApp, facebook, etc??

@breakupbradbrowning

4 ай бұрын

Hi! Here are the most common reasons for being blocked and my thoughts about it, including what to do: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 and don't forget to take the quiz if you still have questions on what to do after, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz

What if you've only recently started dating someone. 2 months of contact including messaging & phone calls, and two dates, but then they end it. Does no contact still work in this situation?

@breakupbradbrowning

Ай бұрын

There was obviously a disconnect and depending on what really cut the relationship short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKtkpcquiKarndo.html

Brad I have a six years old son that is not the father of my Ex but my ex and my son have a very close bond we was in a relationship since my son my was 2 years old he look at him as his Father now we Separated...is it a good idea for my son to keep on talking to my ex on video call etc...

@breakupbradbrowning

4 ай бұрын

If your ex is the responsible type who doesn't want to shock your kid when he broke up with you, then yes, it may not be so bad. It won't affect your chances or anything, as long as it's your ex's initiative to stay in touch with your kid versus the other way around. Otherwise it may be best for everyone involved to cut off contact for the time being.

What if she removed you from social media, after I posted my first story about my holiday? Almost 3 weeks after break up....Does it mean she is hurting seeing my stories?

@breakupbradbrowning

Ай бұрын

It's normal means of coping from the breakup. Contrary to what you might think, a breakup hurts not only the dumpee but the dumper too. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/lqWi06mQf86ffqQ.html

Brad, I feel strong attraction towards a guy, we came in contact twice in 4 years...last time i approached him fr marriage and this time he texted me to get to knw abt me..we both r going through very tough situation in life as we both r getting divorced with our karmic partner...He confirmed that we both r spiritually connected, we used to cry a lot but i hided him tat i do love sexual talks which he loves the most..we talk 3 mnths but Last week he brings no contact situation suddenly but my instinct keeps telling tat he likes me too, Can you pls help if i should wait or move on?

@breakupbradbrowning

4 ай бұрын

I'm not keen on pushing you towards marriage with this guy when you've barely even talked and you're still very much on the "getting to know each other" stage. That's often why marriages fail, if you two rush. I suggest to take time to know each other more and spend time together to gauge compatibility. But as it is, I suggest to respect his need for space. Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

We were five years together. She is very angry and upset. It's been three weeks without contact but she adamant about telling it won't work out She is trying to be provoke me in social media. I'm doing no contact with her

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

This may help you see things from your ex's perspective, especially if the breakup was particularly messy/toxic: kzread.info/dash/bejne/goJhkpmkcdevmto.html make sure you apply the tips from the vid you've watched and employ the 390-day no contact rule first.

What if they have someone in there ear keeping occupied n distracted straight after breakup n staying with them

@breakupbradbrowning

2 ай бұрын

As I mentioned in your previous comment, a strong support system can help. This has nothing to do with your relationship with your ex. I suggest you do the same and reach out to trusted friends and family during this time to help you cope as well. Take care!

Hey brad can you give advice what can i do if my partner doesn't trust me because of he's past how can i improve the way he sees himself because he's self-esteem is very low and that makes thing were hard he won't let me neer a man and that includes my family and his family and he always what so be in central please help 😢

@breakupbradbrowning

Ай бұрын

That's suffocating behaviour from him. Try to see where these insecurities are coming from but be prepared to give him time and space as your last resort to let him work through his own issues first because enabling that kind of behaviour in the long run will turn your relationship toxic...if it hasn't been already. If you need my regular guidance in trying to do so, then hire me as your coach at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

What to do if my ex calls me every time I try to apply the no contact rule

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/l5-Tltmpm7mcZsY.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/iWudpY-geNDAYqQ.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYiep6OAerq6paQ.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/lJuDqZusYcnHk5s.html

I've known my ex for 25+ yrs, had a son together, been officially together 5 yrs, engaged for 2, and ghosted me out of the blue. My only theory is she was and still is being controlled by a manipulative toxic friend, that had her date another coworker. Thoughts on that?

@breakupbradbrowning

2 ай бұрын

Other people's influence and outside opinion are all outside your control. It still has to be your ex's choice whether she allows herself to be influenced or not. Just continue to do you and focus on stuff within your control, yeah? Apply the tips here along with the other tips on my vid on what you can do in each phase, especially if you're not getting my guide: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZoWZj5Z6XabWhrw.html

Hey brad she broke up with me because i was always arguing with her but she ended a 6 year relationship dhe likes to to party with her friend and she short text me sometimes text me first i begged her take me back snd scared to loose her or see her with somone else what do i do and what it mean when she text me first and we hang out I tell her all the time i need her

@breakupbradbrowning

3 ай бұрын

Neediness will only push your ex further away. Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ga6K28-SnrSshM4.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mGuu17qkXda8o6w.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aH9n2tefddqrdso.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!

In no contact period can I post ig stories or post pictures like normal on ig?

@breakupbradbrowning

Күн бұрын

I suggest to post like you normally would, less any dramatic stuff and zero about the relationship. You can also leverage social media to your advantage. Here's how: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dmV70rRufaTWgc4.html

She says she was uninterested and made up her mind 1-2 months before the actual breakup she says she don’t see future with me she text me and ask about my health and likes my post and wants me to move how should I get her back she has a lot of boys available as well but the main reason was she fell out of love

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

That figures. If your ex has the "Grass is Greener" Syndrome, realize and accept that this is outside your control and really the best you can do is becoming the best version of yourself, this includes NOT taking less than what you deserve and not settling to just becoming an option, especially if this used to be a stable relationship between you two. She's likely taken you for granted, so you don't really need that in your life. Use the law of attraction. You deserve love and worth of love, so you can only attract love. If she goes away from it, then you repelled her and will most likely attract her back if she vibrates as high as you. Otherwise, be open to new people who may be on your level. Be strong!

So my gf and I were on a long distance relationship cus I´m studying abroad. After 1 year and 5 months together, she told that the she's not mentally well to be in a long distance relationship and that she's afraid she's losing feelings due to distance. In the other han, she told me that she doesn't want me to leave her life, cus I'm a really good friend and even the best relationship she's ever been. The other day she told me that she needed me and my advices as a friend. In 3 months I'll come home and we could be together. What should I do? Should I keep on taking things slowly, being there as friend and try something later?

@xanacruz8655

4 ай бұрын

She suffered with depression and anxiety in the past, so I'm scared she's entering a "bad season" again and distance is making it worse. But I've helped her in the past and I wanna do it again. I told her I'm not giving up so easily and I'll give her the time to understand herself and her feelings. Am I doing the right thing?

@breakupbradbrowning

4 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that. A long distance relationship is not easy to maintain, especially if you two had a weak foundation where you don't get to spend time with each other much in person. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYWNlrBpZNjcpKQ.html and/or kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z6KaubSDgtXUcdY.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@xanacruz8655

4 ай бұрын

@breakupbradbrowning We've a good foundation, we're started the long distance after one wonderful year together. But it's pretty hard for us to be together, and as I said, she's not in her best. At the same time, I'm having a rough time in college, not being able to fully adapt and make friends. I think that's also one of the problems cus I ended up relying on her. I'm forcing myself to get out of my comfort zone so that I can feel better and prove her that I've changed. I'm trying to be positive and be there, but it's sooo hard for me. She was my gf and my best friend, so it's been hard to keep no contact. This week I've got better on respecting that and I've got an "I miss text" and she asked me if today we could call cus she has a lot of things to tell me (daily things, nothing special but she wants to share it with me). She told me that it's too early to get back, cus she's still not mentally well, but I think that it's a start. I think that mb, if we take baby steps and start building this relationship from the beginning (as friends), things could be different. Do you agree? I'll keep on watching your videos and keep on trying to do the right thing. Hopefully, this is just a bad phase and we'll get over it!

He is still talk to me text to me But 3Rd party is coming sometimes and She is chenges he is Mind what Am i do Wait or Move on

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

Never wait around for anyone. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aXWbtduQism9hpc.html Give each other space, yes, but put some boundaries up especially as to when and how long you'd try but also don't rush it. It's complicated to explain it all in one go but my updated 2.0 version Ex Factor Guide should give you a step-by-step process on how to go about it. In the meantime, here's a quick overview: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX6oz7ibdM7InNo.html

Our divorce is final the 18th. I caught her cheating and for 3 months did everything possible for her to come back. She never did nor she’s ever wanted to sit down and talk like normal adults.

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

Really sorry to hear that, must've been a really rough time. Quite frankly though it sounds like she didn't deserve you, and you may look back on this someday and realize it was a good thing. Hope you find happiness (and someone new who respects you as a person and a partner) someday soon!

@biggolfer00

5 ай бұрын

@@breakupbradbrowning Thank you for your kind words. I wasn’t perfect by all means and I man’d up and admitted my mistakes and I still don’t have my 100% clarity but I’ve changed in this process and looking forward to moving on. At the end of the day I’m home and still sleep in my own bed.

@bpoydras1503

2 ай бұрын

Why are so many guys on here crying about their ex leaving, when you are the prize. If you were good to her, and she left, then it’s her loss/her future regret. No need to get hung up on one woman, that can’t even appreciate you. Stop letting your ego substitute for heartbreak, and move on to better, but first, stop trying to do no contact to ‘win’ her back, but do it to get yourself back. When you Love and improve yourself and stop trying to get her back, is when she will eventually recognize her mistake.

@carlosdecastrojr3789

11 күн бұрын

I am going through the same thing after one of the shortest marriages ever. I got married to an ex girlfriend from many years ago. 8 months in, she abruptly ended the relationship and gave no warning or signals that she was going to do this. It was out of nowhere. I got accused of cheating, but it was her that was cheating. I recently figured out who the guy is. It has been extremely traumatic, and I believe I was dealing with a covert narcissist. Therefore none of the relationship was ever real anyways.

How can I do no contact when I see her 4-6 times a week for the kids? We were together 16 years. We broke up 2 months ago. She text me all day everyday still!

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

Hi there! Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@user-fd7iq5tk4y

4 ай бұрын

Is there a family member who would be willing to drop off and pick up the kids and communicate with them for you? It would probably even shock your ex if you did that.

So when did everyone else block or unfriend ur Ex on FB?

@breakupbradbrowning

3 ай бұрын

I highly advise against blocking an ex. I've just noticed a bunch of people having some problems reaching out later on because they've either deleted their ex, blocked (especially everywhere) or unfriended them, which creates an unnecessary dilemma really, if you ask me. The only reason why I suggest NOT to unfollow/block or delete an ex (that you want to get back with) is because you can, in fact, leverage social media to your advantage. Here's how: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dmV70rRufaTWgc4.html

My ex left me for a couple months now he wants me back I’m having a hard time trusting him and not sure if this what he really wants or if he will change his mind again …

@breakupbradbrowning

3 ай бұрын

If you're looking to give this another go, be sure to understand the reasons why he left in the first place and whether or not this is something you can work on. The good news though is most marital issues can be resolved. Consider getting my Mend the Marriage guide where you two can answer the free worksheets together to help strengthen your marriage the second time around, at www.marriageguy.com/fbuy

I have done no contact and it worked and me and my ex and i got back together but when we were back together i was so busy that i couldn't text her or even call for two days and then she texted me the following days and told me that she wants to break up again becoz she feels like I'm no serious about and I'm not giving her attention. We then broke up again i think this time we won't get back together, and i miss her so much but I'm doing no contact again and I'm fighting everyday the urge to text or call her. I am hurting every single day but i think it will get better as time goes and i will be fine and live my life.

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

If you have a valid reason for not being able to communicate with her, then talk to her. Otherwise yes, consider moving on from this since a relationship does need work in order for it to thrive.

My girlfriend broke up with me 1month ago but she still Calls checking up on me??

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

That's what I call the "check-in" text/call and believe it or not, your ex is somewhat expected to send one or more of these sooner or later and I've got just the vid for that. Discussed that in one of the vids, including how to handle that kind of message and when and/or how to reply, including what not to text, (so watch to the end of the vid) here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ppmqlI-loq3XZ9I.html

What about if we have two children together under 5 years old,?

@breakupbradbrowning

12 күн бұрын

If you're hellbent on trying to work things out, let me just set expectations that it's a tough battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYiep6OAerq6paQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/lniO1NCHmJuyf8o.html

My ex situationship 1 month left me because shes an avoidant and ive been doing no contact ever since. She said i gave her the ick and its been 1 week and she still looks at my stories. Ive come to realize i dont want her back but im still hurting over her. I want her to text just to ignore her

@breakupbradbrowning

Күн бұрын

Hey man, thanks for sharing your story! If she's truly not an avoidant and not someone who's not ready to get serious with anyone for whatever reason (thus, the "situationship" status), then this vid is for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZpuIuqhtYrnUmNo.html Good luck!

What do i do when we have 2 children under 5 together with nc?

@breakupbradbrowning

21 күн бұрын

If you're hellbent on trying to work things out, let me just set expectations that it's a tough battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYiep6OAerq6paQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/lniO1NCHmJuyf8o.html

She left me about 1 week ago with the "i feel smothered and subjogate from this relationship since the beginning" (im at work 95% of my time), i tried to contact her 4 days after the breakup and she just ghosted me.. i never been the type of worm that said "PLZ DONT LEAVE ME I BEG YOU" nah, none of that, i just wanted a confrontation with her, but she denied, so i tried to call her 1 time and she doesnt respond me, then 2 days ago i just ask her how she was doin, wierdly she replies, so i tried to ask her if she wanted to talk a bit later, and then she became aggressive and said "Talking to you make me feel worst..", so i dont know if everything is already compromised, but since then i just blocked her and im trying the no contact... im not that positive, but we will see

@breakupbradbrowning

2 ай бұрын

First off, I suggest you watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/lqWi06mQf86ffqQ.html Not begging an ex was a good move but the constant texting/contacting her was not. I understand how you feel and it's gut wrenching when you're trying to ask your ex for a really good explanation, but resist that! If you ask me, really, closures are overrated. If your ex broke things off with you and acts like it, trust me, you'd really want to give each other space as soon as possible. However, these may help offer a different perspective on things, as to what really happened in your relationship: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pmp9uo-phdGtirQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/iIWeuM59h9uwYtI.html

Good ideas 💡

@breakupbradbrowning

12 күн бұрын

Thanks for your support! Please like and subscribe if you haven’t already. I'd greatly appreciate it. :-) Also check out my other channel for more tips: www.youtube.com/@BradBrowning/videos

1300 miles away and nc for 5 months 😢

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that. As you've noticed, the distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYWNlrBpZNjcpKQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z6KaubSDgtXUcdY.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

Should I contact her on Valentine’s Day? Or keep going with the no contact?

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

No, I wouldn’t suggest reaching out on Valentine’s. How long have you been in NC for? If you’re already at or beyond 30 days then you can consider contacting her but I wouldn’t do it on Valentine’s specifically. Best of luck!

@a.bvlogs7614

5 ай бұрын

It’s been 2 weeks now that I haven’t contacted her.

@a.bvlogs7614

5 ай бұрын

Thank you Brad.

I bumped to my ex today for the first time after almost 2 years and she said hi almost in a flirty way and said that I look so pretty, what was her intention? 😂😭

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

Intention can't be gauged in just one meeting. Are you two in talking terms?

How does no contact work if you still live together?

@breakupbradbrowning

4 ай бұрын

It's another story if you live under the same roof after a relationship ends. I suggest you do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!

@lanniefisher8714

4 ай бұрын

Thank you very much. I’m hoping it works well.

Hi Brad, I bought your ex-back module. As regards th no contact rule, nearing 30 days, I mistakenly clicked on the Whatsapp number of my ex, and although she was offline, the call was reflected on the app. A day later, she responds with a “Yes?”. I havent replied though. Has the no contact been broken, because of this careless mistake? Should I reply that it was a wrong press, and apologize, or just ignore her text? Would greatly appreciate your input on this. Thank you!

@breakupbradbrowning

4 ай бұрын

It was a honest mistake so don't be so hard on yourself. Just make sure that mistake doesn't happen again though. But yes, you can send a quick message bout how you dialed by mistake and then continue on with the remaining days of the 30-day "no contact" rule. Be sure to read up on the bonus texting materials that went along with the purchase and use that when the time comes.

When i was in no contact she used to text me and post sad lyrics around 14 - 15 days I acted like i am busy and took time to test back Then around 27-28th day she again started putting sad stories But at that time i was busy I broke my no contact after 35 days It was ok, kind of conversation It has been a month since we both talked, and it feels like she is not taking but only replying, when I try to get it into a deep conversation she just says, i don't know, keep me at seen or "👍". We had a call, when I was having a call i said "oo my cute why are you sad", she just cut the call One of my friends is secretly texting her to know what she thinks, When she talked about me She said she don't like me, never want to see me again, i wish i would have never dated him, i am healing with him But with me She is yes, no, ok If I ask q then I get answers That's all Do i have any chance

@breakupbradbrowning

4 ай бұрын

You're on the right track to keep the lines open after the 30-day "no contact" rule. Give your ex time to warm up though. As to your chances, I say generally it's still fair game unless you see most if not all the signs that your ex is over you. Here's the vid: kzread.info/dash/bejne/jK1-tNKhp6fJkZc.html and especially if those signs prevail over a prolonged period of time. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!

What if we were together for 25 yrs and she doesn't want to work on us anymore, she blind sided me, and she wont even tell me who he is. SMH Tomorrow i start no contact!

@breakupbradbrowning

3 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that. Have you confirmed there's someone else though?

@bpoydras1503

2 ай бұрын

Someone else being in the picture is not necessarily a bad thing. If you were a good dude, then just allow the rebound to crash and burn. In the meantime, work on yourself while in no contact.

I need help my ex broke up with me last month because I was controlling and at times wanted to know where she was at sometimes, because I mentioned I went to jail 3 years ago when I really didn’t, because I don’t have a job or a car. She said we are not getting back together because her mom doesn’t like me anymore because I wasn’t treating her or talking to her right. Her mom has guardianship over her. She also said she not taking a break from men because she wants someone who will spoil her and treat her like a princess. Can you please help me out sir?

@breakupbradbrowning

Күн бұрын

It's important to get your personal life sorted out first before getting into a relationship. Although it's not really to "spoil" her like a princess but just to pull your own weight in a relationship instead of the woman having to pull your weight, yeah? The going to jail thing was a bad joke... but I suggest to start small and get a job first. Good luck!

@anthonymagner4896

Күн бұрын

I am working on getting a job and learning how to drive. I was being controlling and almost always wanted to know of her whereabouts. We have disabilities and her mom has guardianship over her and doesn’t like me now and for that reason she can’t get back with me and I need help with finding out what I can do to change all that. She’s on dating apps now and she has blocked me on three things except instagram. I was being toxic and never knew it until I was too late.

@anthonymagner4896

Күн бұрын

She even said in her own words she wants to be spoiled and treated like a princess

@anthonymagner4896

13 сағат бұрын

@@breakupbradbrowning she said she didn’t want me to contact her ever again that we were done and she was very angry at me and still is. Now she is on dating apps trying to find a new boyfriend because she wants a man who can not only spoil her and treat her like a princess but that can also drive, not be controlling and that her mom will like because her mom has guardianship of her due to the fact that she has a spending problem and she’s got schizophrenia. I did a lot of wrong and never wanted to be controlling. Can you please help me out with all of this?

I feel like these breakup videos always seem to assume and act like your ex has no social life outside of dating and their entire life revolved around your relationship. I miss the FUCK out of my ex, but I can also assure you that she has some absolute wonderful, badass friends who between all of them will probably be able to fill the void of making her laugh and supporting her career and comforting her on her bad days and such. Moral of the story: go out and make friends and don’t make your partner the focal point of your entire life

@breakupbradbrowning

Күн бұрын

I agree with the moral of the story, thanks for sharing! With regards to your ex having friends to fill out her time, though, that's right however friendship and romance offer very similar yet very different things at the same time. The former help fill the gap but it's the person itself who you really miss and what you used to have together. In other words, if your ex was great and your relationship was other healthy, then it may be worth a second shot! Give each other space first. Here's a very quick overview on what needs to happen: kzread.info/dash/bejne/d3d3vM-YndTge8o.html

She is very upset with me I had said something that she never want to hear and I hurt her deeply from her core... But I was also going through many problems that moment anxiety and depression.. And what I said I never thought about that... I don't know how I just said that... I being 1 month to our break up I beg her.. I apologize to her but still she don't want to come together... I want another chance.. I started doing no contact rule ...

@breakupbradbrowning

2 ай бұрын

It's important not to do that any more than you already have. By begging, it shows how you're not respecting your ex's need for space and time at the moment. Can't you see? In other words, you're making it hard for your ex to be attracted to you again. Your best bet is still to cut off contact completely for around a month or even more in order to clear your heads. You'd increase your chances of getting your ex back if you've got your sh*t together than if you were doing the opposite of the no contact rule which is begging/pleading or negotiating/trying to woo your ex again. Well, there are a few rare who take their exes back if you beg/plead but it hardly ever lasts since these people are taking their exes back out of pity. So my point is, don't let your ex take you back out of pity, all right? Here are 5 keys you need to remember when it comes to this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/l45q0Mt8fLi7Zqg.html The best way to avoid that is to work on yourself and get your life together by having fun, hobbies, etc. and to stop chasing your ex. I've made numerous videos about the "no contact" rule and why it's important. Check those out. Also watch the stories here and try not to be a statistic: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Y4mTq7GmaNLMdtI.html

@utkarshchaudhary5441

2 ай бұрын

@@breakupbradbrowning no I didn't contact her in no contact period... I contacted her before that... I just want to know.. It is possible that will be back because she is hurt so much... And took things to her character... I haven't said anything related to that but she took thing at this point.. And she is say I hurt her from the core...

He block me on watsapp.....given a lame reason....tried fb messenger......never reply and block me .....listening to his friend who controls him simply bcos the friend is trying very hard to replace wat the fren left behind......

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

Don't reach out to your ex when he's blocked you because that would only aggravate your ex further. Here are the most common reasons for being blocked and my thoughts about it, including what to do: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 and don't forget to take the quiz if you still have questions on what to do, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz

Did you loose your page?

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

No, it's still very much active at kzread.info I'm just trying to revamp my style on here to give a podcast-like feel. Thanks for noticing!

My ex was very rude and i left 😒 then i found out he had disrespectful conversations with his girl cousin and i messaged him about that. Of course he dennied all so i didnt contcat him again . We both blicked eachother He recently unblocked me , but i wont unblock him. I think when a guy is rude there's somebody else so better to leave that alone and move on

@breakupbradbrowning

4 ай бұрын

Well, there are times when someone becomes rude because it's a recurring issue. ie: not giving them space after a breakup. But yes, if he's always been rude, you may have dodged a bullet there because he likely won't change that side of him. So discern the situation. Take care!

My ex is a ginger Casper 😅and i blocked him after he read my closure message in his inbox 📥 I hope he will chase back after that. It’s been 4days now and i could see he’s seeking online dating 😅such a pitty on him coz i am already dating a replacement to him 😂

@breakupbradbrowning

Ай бұрын

Good for you! :-) Thanks for sharing.

@almab586

Ай бұрын

@@breakupbradbrowning i love your video coaching guide and hoping for my next relationship to be peaceful and successful 🙏🏽🥰💪💃🏼

Sir you don't really know the pain I'm in right now .....I keep apologizing for good six months now only for her to tell me that she have found someone better 😢she left me unexpected sir 😢I have cried alot please what can I do?

@breakupbradbrowning

4 ай бұрын

Overapologizing can do more harm than good, man. There's simply no forcing someone to forgive or be in a relationship with you again because attraction is built naturally and organically. Watch this to get the full gist at www.breakupbrad.com

@footballlivetv538

4 ай бұрын

@@breakupbradbrowning so sir right now what are you advising me to do because I don't think the no contact rule can work here after I have used the past six months to apologize?

My ex boyfriend miss like crazy he had moved on other relationship

@breakupbradbrowning

2 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that. It may be time for you to do the same especially if the breakup happened a long time ago.

My case is very complicated

@breakupbradbrowning

Ай бұрын

Hire me as your coach at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

My ex dont want contact now :(

@breakupbradbrowning

5 ай бұрын

Bummer, but it's good that you recognize that, and obviously it's important that you give your ex the space they're asking for... any attempts to contact them in the near future before they're ready to talk again is only going to make things worse. Hopefully things will work out for you in the long run -- best of luck!

@paulatherton114

5 ай бұрын

Brad I've been trying to hard now she's booked me from any form off talking to her and ilove her so much paul

Women leave 70-80% of the time and move on. They don’t care. They don’t leave men they respect.

@breakupbradbrowning

4 ай бұрын

Not just women but in my 15 years of coaching, I find that men do it too. A relationship is doomed once respect goes out the window.

I've been watching a lot of these types of videos lately and to me it seems absolutely ridiculous how women are towards men these days. Do we as men really have to play these stupid games to keep a woman? Sounds like a man can"t be his true self around today's women. At least with a pet they will always give you unconditional love no matter what.

@breakupbradbrowning

Ай бұрын

With your girlfriend? No, not really. But with an ex you want to try to get back with, yes, you gotta have some game but use discernment though because not everyone is worth it.