Evolve

Evolve

Your no.1 source for Healing after Narcissistic Abuse

Welcome to my KZread channel! I'm Sarah Khan, a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach and Trauma Professional. On this channel, I'm dedicated to raising awareness about Narcissistic abuse and helping those who have experienced it heal and recover. My videos cover topics like identifying Narcissistic abuse, coping strategies, and self-care tips. As a certified trauma professional, I provide evidence-based insights and practical advice to guide you on your healing journey. Whether you're a survivor or simply interested in learning more about Narcissistic abuse, this channel is for you. Subscribe now to join our community and start your journey towards healing.


Let's Heal Lets Evolve . . .





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  • @williamrussell2353
    @williamrussell235320 сағат бұрын

    Yesterday, July 4th, my dad (that i work with) rolls up around noon as I'm walking to the house. "Working on the holiday?" He asked. "I'm done now" I answered. I had been working since 7:30. He then asked what I was doing the next day. "I have to see what (my wife) has planned." His response... "YOU'RE NOT COMING TO WORK TOMORROW!?" The half day on the holiday means nothing, just like the two 14 hour days before it to get everything caught up before the holiday. The man needs his lawnmower fixed... That's what has to be done today. What would the neighbors says if his grass started looking shaggy.

  • @dumbfoundedagain
    @dumbfoundedagain20 сағат бұрын

    Nobody takes you seriously with that nose ring 😂

  • @madddogg6904
    @madddogg6904Күн бұрын

    Can't count the numbers of weekends ruined because the narcissist wanted me to do some stupid work like sorting the files in the office or getting his car serviced. "Please please please, it's very urgent. Can't wait till Monday". Then in the evening you find the guy's spent the whole day on the sofa in front of the TV.

  • @tmking7483
    @tmking7483Күн бұрын

    Is that why i feel like the teletubbies Adult Baby 💞

  • @tmking7483
    @tmking7483Күн бұрын

    Yea_ short term investment big big big big return_ then everybody fills with gas and explodes into diabetic stress_ the fat lady sings _ time to go home

  • @hasansarhan9296
    @hasansarhan9296Күн бұрын

    yes , its the most chalenging thing especially if you're codependent on them finiacialy

  • @SuperRockstar007
    @SuperRockstar0072 күн бұрын

  • @smustipher
    @smustipher2 күн бұрын

    The problem is that they have No Shame. They will say and do anything to maintain "control". It's sad and the irony is that while they are tearing you down, they insist that you prop them up.

  • @lejci38
    @lejci382 күн бұрын

    My,goodness...yes, yes!

  • @SG-nu7go
    @SG-nu7go2 күн бұрын

    They are not smart to be constantly putting down a child but comparing them at the same time to others to be better….the child will never get anywhere.

  • @echowoah
    @echowoah2 күн бұрын

    "Repeat a lie often enough and it will become the truth." ‐ Joseph Goebelles Narcissitic folks are no better than nazi propagandists. Don't fall for their illusion of truth, it is a big lie.

  • @Kim-wt2gl
    @Kim-wt2gl3 күн бұрын

    They don't want their sons to grow up and leave them. These mothers can be quite manipulative and seductive. They use their sons for their own narcissistic supply. They also turn them into their husbands. A lot of men that grew up like this turn into Homosexuals. The Truth. I've met a number of them and that isn't a coincidence.

  • @feministmard8958
    @feministmard89583 күн бұрын

    It is so so true.

  • @nalenilambourdiere9620
    @nalenilambourdiere96203 күн бұрын

    May everyone watching this video find liberation and solace

  • @nalenilambourdiere9620
    @nalenilambourdiere96203 күн бұрын

    Thanks for empowering people with this knowledge

  • @nalenilambourdiere9620
    @nalenilambourdiere96203 күн бұрын

    Another helpful video

  • @jackiep5009
    @jackiep50093 күн бұрын

    A MAN is to leave his mother and CLEAVE to his wife - that is biblical for a reason

  • @Kim-wt2gl
    @Kim-wt2gl3 күн бұрын

    That is Right.

  • @user-pv3px4nb2m
    @user-pv3px4nb2m3 күн бұрын

    Nice example of small term investment to lonnnng term return😂

  • @user-pv3px4nb2m
    @user-pv3px4nb2m3 күн бұрын

    Hey Sarah, the paintings on the wall behind you, is that your craft?

  • @evolvebyskd
    @evolvebyskd3 күн бұрын

    Yes ! I painted it

  • @user-pv3px4nb2m
    @user-pv3px4nb2m3 күн бұрын

    Thank you for validating my personal experiences with my now 2years no contact “ mother”.

  • @nalenilambourdiere9620
    @nalenilambourdiere96203 күн бұрын

    Very well explained, a bit repetitive, but very easy to understand

  • @nalenilambourdiere9620
    @nalenilambourdiere96203 күн бұрын

    How does this eye opening video not have more views??? More people need to see this

  • @echowoah
    @echowoah4 күн бұрын

    Trolling the narcissist at their own game by turning their strength into a liability, Sun Tzu would approve. ❤

  • @nalenilambourdiere9620
    @nalenilambourdiere96204 күн бұрын

    This channel deserves to get more views, for all the valuable information

  • @evolvebyskd
    @evolvebyskd3 күн бұрын

    thanks a lot

  • @nalenilambourdiere9620
    @nalenilambourdiere96204 күн бұрын

    Such informative video.

  • @evolvebyskd
    @evolvebyskd3 күн бұрын

    Glad it was helpful!

  • @nalenilambourdiere9620
    @nalenilambourdiere96204 күн бұрын

    I've watched countless videos on this subject that were long, but offered mere crumbs

  • @nalenilambourdiere9620
    @nalenilambourdiere96204 күн бұрын

    This lady is shooting out facts one after the other

  • @nalenilambourdiere9620
    @nalenilambourdiere96204 күн бұрын

    Wow, this video is like like a power punch, short yet so packed with useful knowledge

  • @evolvebyskd
    @evolvebyskd3 күн бұрын

    Glad you liked it!

  • @dontbelongherefromanotherp9807
    @dontbelongherefromanotherp98074 күн бұрын

    They provoke their target in exchange for reactive abuse. It is the oldest trick in the narc handbook, and they all have been following this technique since the dawn of humanity. I ignore them and pretend they don't exist and if they continue to nag or follow me, and I feel my life is in danger, I call the police. In most cases when narcs are ignored, they simply go away.

  • @kimmathe6701
    @kimmathe67014 күн бұрын

    Much needed content. Everything that you stated is very true. Loved this subject and information. So helpful. Thank you.

  • @evolvebyskd
    @evolvebyskd3 күн бұрын

    Glad it was helpful!

  • @Mindfullness758
    @Mindfullness7584 күн бұрын

    ❤😂😂😂

  • @Jenn_Renee
    @Jenn_Renee5 күн бұрын

    My husband disconnected from his family over 10 years ago. He is one of 3 sons. All emasculated. Is it possible to overcome this upbringing?

  • @evolvebyskd
    @evolvebyskd4 күн бұрын

    He can only overcome if he’s aware of what was done to him and also if he has radical acceptance. He needs to have willingness to unlearn all the past conditioning and relearn the right things. It’s difficult but it’s not impossible

  • @krugerfuchs
    @krugerfuchs5 күн бұрын

    You haven't gone through it what do you know from an actual survivor

  • @Stardust475
    @Stardust4755 күн бұрын

    South Asian MIL reverse oedipal complex.

  • @user-pv3px4nb2m
    @user-pv3px4nb2m5 күн бұрын

    It’s a really SAD situation for the male child of the narc mother.

  • @user-pv3px4nb2m
    @user-pv3px4nb2m5 күн бұрын

    Yea that’s my brother, who is a navy seal by the way and our “ mommy dearest “ have succeeded in EMASCULATING him big time and because of siblings triangulation that she created between him and me the younger sister, I can’t bring his attention to this issue. You should hear how this man talks about himself and acts, it’s strange and now I know WHY. The saddest part is now she has moved in with him and his wife and their children, I can only SEE the dysfunction from AFAR.

  • @evolvebyskd
    @evolvebyskd5 күн бұрын

    Sorry to hear that

  • @anand.kumarsoni
    @anand.kumarsoni6 күн бұрын

    I Don't know 😁 but when you told me I got to know.. Thankyou ❤

  • @loloworld593
    @loloworld5936 күн бұрын

    A feminine man will have a harder time finding a wife. He won't "leave" the mother and she won't lose him as narcissistic supply.

  • @anand.kumarsoni
    @anand.kumarsoni6 күн бұрын

  • @joekido55
    @joekido556 күн бұрын

    Very Sad and so very True.....eye opening!

  • @SurnaturalM
    @SurnaturalM6 күн бұрын

    That's wrong, obviously, but how it makes them narcissist ? Wouldn't that make them greedy instead?

  • @nalenilambourdiere9620
    @nalenilambourdiere96203 күн бұрын

    As explained in the video, it's not just about the money. It is tied in with emotions, control and manipulation, not to mention being castrated. Hope this helps. Check out her other videos, just as useful

  • @tenningale
    @tenningale6 күн бұрын

    Yep, my covert narc mom is a money-obsessed narc and always fishes around for everybody's personal financial info. She's just collecting data to see who she can manipulate for money. Always the victim, always has a story. Explicit and cute questions to get financial info. Is almost 70 years old and posts photos on her socials and dating profiles looking like a 25-year-old Barbie doll, then needs to know a guy's job under the guise of getting to know them. Has used men for money her whole life and projects this behavior onto other women.