REALITY CHECK

REALITY CHECK

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BOUNDARIES IN MARRIAGE

BOUNDARIES IN MARRIAGE

IS DIVORCE THE ANSWER ?

IS DIVORCE THE ANSWER ?

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  • @bernicerogo9190
    @bernicerogo919013 секунд бұрын

    This is insightful as an aspiring parent and coming from an authoritarian parenting I could relate 💯

  • @bridgetnyaketcho3189
    @bridgetnyaketcho31895 сағат бұрын

    How can I get Dr Evans is number

  • @marvintumuhaise8731
    @marvintumuhaise8731Күн бұрын

    Correct me if I am wrong but in a marriage, submission should not be a reward, it is a mandate. Just like a husband MUST provide, not because he is happy or not but because he is mandated to. Submitting to God's will is not transactional. We need to prepare ourselves better for the covenant of marriage.

  • @evasatwinekansiime5106
    @evasatwinekansiime5106Күн бұрын

    You are right Marvin, everything in marriage is a matter of responsibility rather than transaction. The gist of our conversation is how we can facilitate each other to play our role better. Thanks again for your kind feedback.

  • @aishaobeid8216
    @aishaobeid8216Күн бұрын

    mrs mwine you are glooooowing. tnx for educating us.

  • @jessicamasika7849
    @jessicamasika7849Күн бұрын

    Wow! Amazing conversation. We are raising adults...❤❤❤❤

  • @maggietalemwa9493
    @maggietalemwa9493Күн бұрын

    can we discuss narcistic parents pls

  • @irenekaigo8847
    @irenekaigo8847Күн бұрын

    I turned up well😂😂😂😂😅😢

  • @aloboaliceokidi8741
    @aloboaliceokidi8741Күн бұрын

    This episode is so amazing, thank you beautiful women of God, how does an individual help herself when she was raised in an authoritarian style of parenting?

  • @AidahNansubugasalama
    @AidahNansubugasalama2 күн бұрын

    In my process of learning positive parenting is before I correct I connect with my babies and I have found it so helpful.

  • @AidahNansubugasalama
    @AidahNansubugasalama2 күн бұрын

    Parents should look for knowledge about parenting positive, kind and God fearing generation and we should fight childhood trauma and forget negative parenting skills that we saw on our parents.

  • @winnieangella7572
    @winnieangella75722 күн бұрын

    But doctor ain’t we supposed to love our self

  • @Doreen2561
    @Doreen25612 күн бұрын

    😢i think some of us today's parents need therapy. Childhood trauma is sometimes protected on our children. Thank you for this topic.

  • @babyline595
    @babyline5952 күн бұрын

    Thankyou Dr. Evas. I learn alot from your channels.

  • @user-xl2ch4dp3j
    @user-xl2ch4dp3j2 күн бұрын

    Great show as always... thank you Dr Evas & Mrs Mwine We need to figure out a way of managing the light. I think it is a bit direct and too bright especially on the faces. - A kind suggestion

  • @nassalidaizy4824
    @nassalidaizy48242 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much women of God i feel like this is the best topic maybe in this year most of us we have a type of parenting we fall and no one is having at least two out of the four i have heard 😭 .This was a wake up call to parents 🤝👏🙏

  • @tyra136
    @tyra1362 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @brendanakirya1379
    @brendanakirya13792 күн бұрын

    Thank you Dr Evas and Racheal. I always look forward to learning, unlearning and re-learning from you.

  • @AngelTwinokwesiga
    @AngelTwinokwesiga2 күн бұрын

    Looking beautiful Rachel 🎉 What oil does Dr use, skin is always glowing, please share

  • @AidahNansubugasalama
    @AidahNansubugasalama2 күн бұрын

    She has money and a peaceful mind, it's not all about the oil unless when you want to bleach or whiten Ur face, but glowing deals with peaceful mind, being loved your ways and having money glowing comes automatically

  • @AidahNansubugasalama
    @AidahNansubugasalama2 күн бұрын

    My suggestion

  • @dottostephen8228
    @dottostephen82282 күн бұрын

    Rachel you are Beautiful

  • @SA-vw4ny
    @SA-vw4ny2 күн бұрын

    Please kindly consider a topic on raising children with autism, ADHD and any other conditions on the spectrum. It is good to raise awareness on these issues

  • @evasatwinekansiime5106
    @evasatwinekansiime51062 күн бұрын

    We will sure to run these sessions. Thank you so much for your feedback! We love to hear from you!

  • @akasiimalorna5372
    @akasiimalorna53722 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much... I have always struggled with. How to handle the situation after beating...

  • @anitaatuhumuza9007
    @anitaatuhumuza90072 күн бұрын

    Planned kids

  • @namiirojose6824
    @namiirojose68242 күн бұрын

    Very informative episode. Rachael's look is 🔥, the hair, the outfit, everything is on point.

  • @Arinatua2024
    @Arinatua20242 күн бұрын

    Not so long ago,I realized that Im parenting my children like my mum did to us....

  • @akasiimalorna5372
    @akasiimalorna53722 күн бұрын

    Me, I envy my mum...

  • @anitaatuhumuza9007
    @anitaatuhumuza90072 күн бұрын

    Dr. Eva's amuses me. You think there is only one human being in the world and it's you. Self centeredness.

  • @anitaatuhumuza9007
    @anitaatuhumuza90072 күн бұрын

    May God help us on this journey of parenting. It is hard work but worth the investment.

  • @stellalumu9479
    @stellalumu94792 күн бұрын

    Thank you Dr Evas and Racheal for the conversations. We are learning

  • @hellenkasedha892
    @hellenkasedha8922 күн бұрын

    Great conversation. Thank you so much

  • @akasiimalorna5372
    @akasiimalorna53722 күн бұрын

    Thank you for the show,, I am the first one...❤❤❤❤

  • @realitycheckicfc
    @realitycheckicfc2 күн бұрын

    @@akasiimalorna5372 thanks for watching

  • @realitycheckicfc
    @realitycheckicfc2 күн бұрын

    @@akasiimalorna5372 thanks for watching

  • @brendanakirya1379
    @brendanakirya13793 күн бұрын

    It is very hard to submit to a child! Thanks team

  • @RichardKusiima
    @RichardKusiima4 күн бұрын

    The title of this conversation is like asking whether gravity is still necessary!!!

  • @evasatwinekansiime5106
    @evasatwinekansiime51064 күн бұрын

    Can you break this down for us?

  • @RichardKusiima
    @RichardKusiima4 күн бұрын

    @@evasatwinekansiime5106 You never debate whether gravity is good or bad just because people keep falling, getting hurt and others even losing life to the principle of gravity; the same principle sustains life! The same applies to marriage which, unlike what many have been fooled to believe, is not the wedding but, contrary, a covenant held together by eternal principles! A wedding focuses on the interests of the parties involved but a covenant serves a much greater cause, one beyond the interests of those in it and so it requires folks to be knowledgeable and wise in regards to the very principles designed to protect them within such a covenant or environment, the same principles that can easily work against you should you tread outside the covenant! The conversations I see today, and this is such a shame, are carried out in so much ignorance, driven by a nature that has been deceived to believe life, and marriage as such, is about you! No it ain't! We all need to take a step back and understand the principles of life and living!

  • @evasatwinekansiime5106
    @evasatwinekansiime51064 күн бұрын

    I agree with you 100%. However, there is nothing wrong with the title of the segment! The purpose was to provoke interest in the content. Yes, submission is so key and an essential element in marriage and a non-negotiable. Our content confirms this principle.

  • @RichardKusiima
    @RichardKusiima4 күн бұрын

    @@evasatwinekansiime5106 Did you say provoke? I'd say, in trying to 'provoke', this only misleads or lays the wrong foundation for a right conversation! Obscured meaning can never be justified especially on a subject of principle! Most times, because of the systems we use, there is a temptation to fit in rather than stand clear on the truth - there are many platforms today, multitudes infact, going over the conversation on marriage, men and women; what will separate the churf from what's real is truth and, today, unfortunately, truth defeats the purpose of running conversations on such platforms so I guess I get your point.

  • @evasatwinekansiime5106
    @evasatwinekansiime51064 күн бұрын

    @@RichardKusiimacan you please listen to the conversation? Truth is that some people think submission is no longer relevant and you have to make considerable for them as we hold these conversations. And, we don’t just read content by the title.

  • @feiswalsalim2117
    @feiswalsalim21174 күн бұрын

    even arbu mbs alikuwa amezaliwa pwani huwa nogumu tunawakuwa4will draving inawasimbuwa sana ndio badp nagikiria sana itakuwaje dawa otatoka wapi most off them ar forwil dravong

  • @feiswalsalim2117
    @feiswalsalim21174 күн бұрын

    nakupafano kama vile msicja wa kiskiswahili kuolwa na msojo itakuwe shoda migosam sababu kuwa wengowao mo foowill draving jeeunajuwa nonamanisha nim

  • @feiswalsalim2117
    @feiswalsalim21174 күн бұрын

    sotowahukabali wew no mcristo kisha ukuwe katholoc aou ithiyam

  • @Heavenlystecy
    @Heavenlystecy5 күн бұрын

    Ms Racheal please talk about building together in a marriage. Eg co owning properties.

  • @mwizasafaristourvlog8142
    @mwizasafaristourvlog81425 күн бұрын

    Submission =love Women-submit, men-love So in women submitting theyre loving on their husbands

  • @clairekakuru9460
    @clairekakuru94606 күн бұрын

    Wonderful submissions here.

  • @ninakatungi9568
    @ninakatungi95686 күн бұрын

    Such a profound, deep and meaningful extremely relevant conversation. Thank you so much ❤

  • @ninakatungi9568
    @ninakatungi95686 күн бұрын

    So much wisdom right here. Thank You for doing the Lords work. ❤❤❤

  • @babyline595
    @babyline5956 күн бұрын

    Thankyou you team ❤❤❤. You are a blessing sent from heaven 🙏 ❤️

  • @RichardKusiima
    @RichardKusiima7 күн бұрын

    And the fact that there are millions of conversations on submission and love as regards marriage is a sign that folks have no clue what marriage is. Marriage is a covenant - no one walks into a covenant holding onto their perceptions, opinions, beliefs and interests 😊😊

  • @annelutara1192
    @annelutara11927 күн бұрын

    Submission is not dependant on how your husband makes you feel,but a calling from God.

  • @nabaggalaritah4467
    @nabaggalaritah44673 күн бұрын

    Submission is dependent on your husband’s leadership skills

  • @johnjagwe9813
    @johnjagwe98137 күн бұрын

    Dr Evas has been spot on

  • @kembabazigloria1386
    @kembabazigloria13868 күн бұрын

    Well done. The truth of the matter is that the men do play the blame game by demanding for submission especially when there are underlying issues in there. Just like in the story of the fall of man in Genesis 3:... It's high time we learnt that the devil came to steal, kill and destroy. You see, we can't run away from the fact that marriage was ordained by God and therefore cannot work unless we put our trust in Him..... Lack of trust in God is the root cause of failed marriages not lack of submission or failure to take responsibility. It takes men who are after God's own heart to build healthy relationships and be leaders in their homes..

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy8 күн бұрын

    The echos in the sound😢😢😢

  • @Mr.Articulate146
    @Mr.Articulate1468 күн бұрын

    ....i perceive that Mr. Junior is very coherent in his delivery...not only does he communicate with acertain conviction but he also functions from aplane of admiration....he fits in that seat irrefutably.....we appreciate.

  • @alicemusubika8996
    @alicemusubika89968 күн бұрын

    Am praying for my relationship to thrive, to go the alter and beyond ❤

  • @agathakisakyekabugo946
    @agathakisakyekabugo9469 күн бұрын

    Friends, Submission is a REVELATION. Untill one catches the godly intent of submission.... It's a beautiful thing when we understand it

  • @akasiimalorna5372
    @akasiimalorna53729 күн бұрын

    Dr and Junior and Racheal, you need to have a TV program... Thank you so much..

  • @0784381873
    @07843818739 күн бұрын

    Submission is less of a man's works but more of what God says in his word. Because this is a divine mystery of union. That's why this is between a husband and Wife not male and female. This means an elevated office where they do their work and act of Worship to the most High King. You are submitting because God said so, and not because husband is deserving and the same applies to husband loving their wives.