....i suggest that Dr.Evas takes us through the salty waters of friendships with Exs ....it has become a detriment to marriages also...........thanks for the show mdm Rachel

@rachaelmwine611

Ай бұрын

This noted😇

@TheFranny31

Ай бұрын

True....

Dear GratefulHearts FoundationSierra, thank you so feedback. While your concerns and emotions are highly appreciated, please take time to do a bit of reflection on this so-called "BEST FRIEND" concept in marriage. If I may ask, between oneness and friendship, what is more superior? Apparently, this friendship thing is the most abused concept in marriage and parenting relationships. No wonder, people throw it around so carelessly that it loses meaning. In my parenting coaching, I have met parents who are desperate for the "best friend slot" in their children's hearts. They forget that what children are looking for in them is a good parent, rather than a best friend! In an attempt to be best friends with their children, parents have ended up being permissive parents who are unable to offer balanced guidance and nurturing to their children. Similarly, what our partners need in us is not a friend husband or wife. The scripture you quoted in Genesis 2:24, speaks of oneness and not best friend. God, in his wisdom knew that the friendship thing is quite fluid and subjective! Please note that we are not advocating for partners to relate more intimately with people outside of their marriages. As I explained in the segment above, TWO most important things in all relationships are 1) EXPECTATIONS/NEEDS and 2) BOUNDARIES!! With same or opposite sex relationships, as long as our partners open up boundaries and permit intrusion by friends, parents, siblings, into the oneness, insecurity and confusion are inevitable!

I call them "HOME DEVILS, STREET ANGELS"

@InspiredbyBNatifu

Ай бұрын

Thats a good one...

I wish the individual who switched off had listened on. Valuable information

Number 1 need for every person in a relationship is security… and security is rooted in exclusivity👌

Yeeeey first one here🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

🎉🎉woke up to this great conversation...❤

Great conversations here, ❤

In your relationship be real or authentic. It is a statement for me

Great conversation!! Having or setting boundaries in any kind of relationship is very key!

Indeed marriage is not for kids. Its for mature people only. Lets choose well ❤️

Great that I now see ads on this channel 🎉. Thanks for the services

RICH INFORMATION

Grateful to God for this great ministry. Blessings to you

God bless you Auntie Evas. Great conversation

Thanks listened and learnt something and I believe am not failing in my next marriage or any other relationship

Indeed boundaries are needed in any relationship

It was nice to hear this

Thanks Reality check for this insightful conversations, this is so true, I have experienced too much of these relationships in my marriage but where it has always ended is not good.

wow thank you for this episode.

I tap into Dr Evas' wisdom. Thank you

Thanks for sharing 🎉

So educative thank you Rachel and Dr.

Great information ❤

Valuable information

I agree with the view above but also relate with Dr Eva's view. Indeed pure opposite sex friendships can exist but of course must have clear boundaries and limits.

Lord I come to with a heart full of gratitude thanks for the years of love that you been my Father and mother am forever grateful 🙏🙏

Thank yoy these highlights, though I feel there was more and you ended suddenly

For me ,it's the family boundaries what are the boundaries really because....

Thank you.

Thanks soo much Dr Evas and Racheal

Dr Evas is smart woow

The shock on Rachael's face when Dr said ....it's okay😮

@rachaelmwine611

Ай бұрын

Ikr? 😂I realized it is possible, it may not work for me but I think it is possible.

@lilywhite8029

16 күн бұрын

​@@rachaelmwine611😅😅😅 From bump love I had to follow you here. I'm from Kenya

Yaaaaayy finally there's an episode..I missed you guys last week kept on refreshing my feed unsuccessfully. I'm ready to indulge because this show is therapeutic yet insightful ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉❤

@rachaelmwine611

Ай бұрын

Aww apologies we were off last week 😊

Nice hair Racheal..

Thank you Rachael and Dr. Eva’s we all need to invite more people to watch your channel so you are highly monetized. You are addressing many issues here. It’s the only way we can thank both of you.

@itscaroline3203

Ай бұрын

Please finish this conversation people in Uganda we don’t have boundaries. Include ladies who are always asking financial support and moral support from peoples husbands

@itscaroline3203

Ай бұрын

Whenever you can please Rachel have a conversation about a narcissistic personality and how it affects a marriage

Today's episode is electric....meticulously addressed Dr.Eva the attention you pay to details,choice of words& forethought 🤔 It's like yo walking on eggshells....very clear cut✂️ Mwebare programme

@rachaelmwine611

Ай бұрын

Yes some of the topics are sensitive but she tries to address them in a respectful manner.

@Mr.Articulate146

Ай бұрын

She is very epic at it🙏

The episode has ended suddenly when Dr Evas was explaining something ..Is there part 2?

Bambi I wish that you talk about what to do if you find you are not priority with all the insecurities...

I think the issue of stealing people from others people has already been discussed. A human being can't be stolen. So when I hear Auntie Evas talking about people steal people.... My head spins.

@evasatwinekansiime5106

Ай бұрын

Quite unclear why your head spins over this issue. If you are in touch with realities in marriage relationships, you know that partner snatching is happening every day and everywhere. Secondly, the issues discussed are related and so repetition is inevitable! We will appreciate your indulgence on this!

@komugisaracheal1352

Ай бұрын

Namesake...i agree with you, They steal a human being willing to be stolen

Thank u for sharing 👏👏, However, as if Dr. Evas was cut off as she was explaining how one partner is taken for granted.....is there a part 2?

I feel like this talk was cut short.

Hello there, what are your contacts for counselling.

I stopped listening when a you said a married person can have a best friend of the opposite. Your BRST friend should be your spouse. Your spouse should be the be the bearer of one's most intimate thoughts, wishes, and dreams. The Bible says when you married, you become one.

@katushabesara187

Ай бұрын

They didn't say it's a must. It all depends on how different people relate with their spouses, and having a best friend of a different sex doesn't mean that you have stopped being one

@Gracenew-ms7wj

Ай бұрын

But for peace and sanity in a home,the opposite sex shouldn't be the friend of a spouse

@kyomugisharacheal457

Ай бұрын

I think best friend and spouse are two separate things.

@GratefulHeartsFoundationSierra

Ай бұрын

When you are married, your best friend is your spouse. Period!! Weather it be of the same sex or the opposite sex it doesn't matter. The best friend of a married person is their spouse. It frightening to listen to so-called Christian therapists espousing non biblical counsel. Plrase read Genesis 2:24; Ephesians 5:31 and many. I'm not saying a married person should not have a friend, but BEST friend of a married person should be their spouse. I will NEVER put another person's friendship above my wife's.

@Vivilaks075

Ай бұрын

You have to know that much as one may be married, we have different worlds to run besides marriage. Friendships aren’t necessarily meant for only intimacy. This can be work related which impact the social capital. We won’t be spending every single minute with our partners. There times that you need to be yourself and others. That’s why there’s need to set boundaries as one relates with the opposite sex. It’s all about mindset and trust issue.

why no long shots. i denied.