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  • @elishadamba6583
    @elishadamba6583Ай бұрын

    If there's one thing satan does not love, is marriage. If you have chance to have the gift. hold on to it.

  • @rachelakatusiime7794
    @rachelakatusiime77942 ай бұрын

    Carol actually styled my hair and did my makeup for my wedding in 2017. I didnt wven have a clue of what she was experiencing. Hugs dear Carol

  • @lydiaamwesiga1837

    @lydiaamwesiga1837

    11 күн бұрын

    In that situation one always needs that one person to understand them, give them shoulder . glad to hear this testimony

  • @najjembabarbra23
    @najjembabarbra232 ай бұрын

    I think Bahat can sit down Daniella koz we need to hear her story like this..

  • @ainomugishatracy3642

    @ainomugishatracy3642

    Ай бұрын

    100%

  • @ShalomKamya
    @ShalomKamya2 ай бұрын

    Whoever has ever passed through a depression understands where she is coming from. I’m going to take it upon myself to pray for you sister, the lord will use that testimony to overcome the powers of Darkness.

  • @nalumuwinnie7127

    @nalumuwinnie7127

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks alot

  • @Pauline12365
    @Pauline123652 ай бұрын

    As she speaks I can empathize with her. I recall how I thought of Yeshua what he went through and how he still loves us. The challenge as a believer is to strive to be like Him but the journey is rough! What I love about the bible is that it tells us how the ones who lead us in this blessed journey struggled. We are all redeemable. The challenge is to strive to be like him, it is not perfection but earnestly seeking God. Thank you for sharing. I feel encouraged.

  • @444333222shot
    @444333222shot2 ай бұрын

    Depression is a very dangerous mental health issue and it attacks and destroys souls in utter silence. Bahati thanks for the programme and I am grateful that Carol shared her story. She is obviously in a better place.

  • @nagawajustine787
    @nagawajustine787Ай бұрын

    You can see how she is trying to hold that pain inside it was really hard for her I can feel her. Thanks for bringing her

  • @twebazejoshua9974
    @twebazejoshua99742 ай бұрын

    My very first Interview was with Carol Flower on NTV. She is very inspirational. Prayers for you Carol.

  • @lornab
    @lornab2 ай бұрын

    Sending much love and hugs your way Carol! May you always keep your head above waters & one foot in front of the other. The scars will heal and you will raise above all this ❤

  • @tukwasikanyeliz3422
    @tukwasikanyeliz3422Ай бұрын

    Just got here and Carol says,in all my dark times I NEVER STOPPED SERVING GOD❤❤❤this is it...

  • @PeaceDestiny-hl4hx
    @PeaceDestiny-hl4hx2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this story Bahati and Carol. Some of us needed this to know that we are not the only ones that have suffered from extreme depression... that have done things we shouldn't have done because of brokeness, whose own christian friends have given up on us and judged us very harshly without knowing what we are going through.

  • @pamelanayiga4704
    @pamelanayiga47042 ай бұрын

    You're so brave Flower, thanks Hilda, for sharing your story....

  • @CotildaNakyeyune-rj6vh
    @CotildaNakyeyune-rj6vhАй бұрын

    Sorry to hear what you have gone through. I used to enjoy GXP when I still had time for TV. God bless you Carol.

  • @bekaogoro7071
    @bekaogoro70712 ай бұрын

    ❤❤, thank you Carol for sharing your testimony

  • @kabaterinealoysius6821
    @kabaterinealoysius68212 ай бұрын

    Women are never given benefit of doubt.But surely it's your life and live it to your potential.

  • @lukomaedith8914
    @lukomaedith8914Ай бұрын

    Don't leave God, leave the people of God. Wow....amazing

  • @doreenpedun3302
    @doreenpedun33022 ай бұрын

    Thank you Carol for sharing your story.Hilda you are a blessing

  • @Bekahtsa
    @Bekahtsa2 ай бұрын

    What a testimony... thank you Carol.. God bless you

  • @atugonzajulljoy1662
    @atugonzajulljoy16622 ай бұрын

    Thanks Carol for sharing am inspired

  • @nakayijjagladys9884
    @nakayijjagladys98842 ай бұрын

    Thanks dear Carol for sharing, blessings 🎉

  • @mutesibetty1630
    @mutesibetty16302 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much my mentor woman of substance 🙏🙏🙏🙏😘😘😘😘

  • @ndibalekeraagnes2237
    @ndibalekeraagnes22372 ай бұрын

    Oh dear Carol, you have been an inspiration since school days till now.May the Lord strengthen you always. God's got you..God's got us all.

  • @vakinduphilliam
    @vakinduphilliamАй бұрын

    Awesome encouragement! God bless you ladies.

  • @ojosephsnsereko6321
    @ojosephsnsereko6321Ай бұрын

    My OG, I have been there before and I can understand what you went through. The devil is a liar and uses people to damage us but God is faithful and remains faithful through it all. He eventually vindicates your name.

  • @maridiovigil
    @maridiovigilАй бұрын

    I was going through a rejection in my relationship...but when I came across your video... trust me I quit the relationship last Friday it's actually the first time I'm staying days without thinking a single thing about this love...im healing,im having hope each single day ❤ thanks bahati

  • @BahatiHilda

    @BahatiHilda

    Ай бұрын

    You got this!

  • @user-mx4so7vb1j

    @user-mx4so7vb1j

    Ай бұрын

    Bahati,where are u found

  • @sharonangel-pe3dk
    @sharonangel-pe3dk2 ай бұрын

    This story is so inspiring. Thank u carol

  • @nakittohellen3934
    @nakittohellen39342 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing

  • @daphnekkarusoke1381
    @daphnekkarusoke13812 ай бұрын

    So sorry for what you have been through Carol. You are an amazing person ❤❤

  • @janetilaguha1851
    @janetilaguha18512 ай бұрын

    Carol Flower i wish i would hug you and tell you all will be well. God is a restorer , God will continue fighting for you, God can never be mocked.

  • @meekness3385
    @meekness3385Ай бұрын

    Okay God I see what you’ve done here! You just spoke to me! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾I needed this!

  • @dinahmirembe7675
    @dinahmirembe76752 ай бұрын

    This is healing. thank you for sharing. May the Lord use me to deliver others too. God bless you

  • @bobi_holictherealnupbae2182
    @bobi_holictherealnupbae21822 ай бұрын

    Powerful Powerful Testimony 😊Thanks beautiful Hilda for hosting sister Carol 💖Thank you for not running away from GOD.

  • @estherakello9638
    @estherakello96382 ай бұрын

    I love you Carol, u r an inspiration to many young girls. Strong, courageous, graceful above all God fearing. May God restore marriage to you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @James-ek5mh
    @James-ek5mhАй бұрын

    This is encouraging show. Sorry for judging you wrong. However, everything in life happens for good. Thank you for coming out to share your story.

  • @esthernakibira3451
    @esthernakibira34512 ай бұрын

    Thanks Carol for allowing us into your world.I have just learnt not to judge people

  • @nalukwagosuzan
    @nalukwagosuzanАй бұрын

    How I pray that pastor Kayanja gets to see this and invites Carol Flower just to tell her it is okay. This will give her peace and take away that guilt ❤

  • @arinaitwelydia6448

    @arinaitwelydia6448

    Ай бұрын

    8

  • @evejuliaug

    @evejuliaug

    Ай бұрын

    Nobody will ever give you comfort and make u feel ok until u have settled it in your mind. Infact, I stopped looking up to people because u become so dependent on people who are also depending on God.

  • @matabalovincent2422

    @matabalovincent2422

    Ай бұрын

    Nga tebigatta

  • @slyviaokougha8210

    @slyviaokougha8210

    Ай бұрын

    Do you think that pr kayanja doesn't know what is happening to carol????note this once you find your self into such situation, you have to stand alone with your God

  • @nalukwagosuzan

    @nalukwagosuzan

    Ай бұрын

    Sylvia, whether pastor is aware or not, kindly don’t ignore the fact that he’s her spiritual father from way back when she was young. All strong and powerful people in the Bible had spiritual fathers too so pastor has a divine role as a mentor and shepherd to comfort and help Carol find peace plus forgiveness. Even Jesus himself had the 12 disciples who he would talk with and share agony with while on earth, since he’s supernatural he would have been talking to only God in heaven. Moral of the story is, God put people around us so he can reach out to us through them. Talk with them, pray together and you will experience his divine power. Pray in silence alone to your God but most times he’s willing to work through the people you’re avoiding. While on earth, you need people, no shortcuts!

  • @janeninsiima4883
    @janeninsiima48832 ай бұрын

    Thank God for pulling you through the dark time. Depression is only understood by someone who has experienced it. Seeking help from a therapist is good when no one understands you. Hugs and prayers

  • @mastineliatha4476
    @mastineliatha44762 ай бұрын

    Praying for Carol and Family. May God continue to heal you and Deliver the message of Christ

  • @princessklv247
    @princessklv247Ай бұрын

    Oh Carol!!! May God's grace always be SUFFICIENT 😊

  • @mutesibetty1630
    @mutesibetty16302 ай бұрын

    Thanks for hosting her Bambi I love her ways 😘🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @stellasusu6395
    @stellasusu6395Ай бұрын

    Carol thank you for the interview, when you talked about your depression I related coz I have ever had it, it was so draining, mentally and physically

  • @nakyeyuneanna5138
    @nakyeyuneanna5138Ай бұрын

    Complete healing starts the moment you start sharing your story. Trust me, you never feel the same way when you speak it out yourself no matter how bad it is. I love you Carol. Thank you for inspiring us. And remember that many are looking upto you. Keep going. The glory of God shines brighter on you.

  • @peteropata8892
    @peteropata8892Ай бұрын

    Copper needed to believe in you a little more with regard to this character assassination. You are a strong woman, you will overcome.

  • @agnesmusuyaokello8030
    @agnesmusuyaokello80302 ай бұрын

    Wow beautiful,I have enjoyed every bit. My prayer for you Carol is to reunite.with Cooper. There's always hope for a tree that has been cut

  • @hillsmat9036
    @hillsmat90362 ай бұрын

    *MAY GOD RESTORE YOUR MARRIAGE SWEAT HEART* We are all on second chances. Be strong girl! Jesus has got you.

  • @angelanabirye8948
    @angelanabirye89482 ай бұрын

    We still love and appreciate you Mama Carol ❤ Thanks Mrs.Bahati Hilda I love you too since 2016. ❤

  • @ainesunflower3607
    @ainesunflower3607Ай бұрын

    thx Hilda for da show..

  • @user-ix2uy8zl8b
    @user-ix2uy8zl8bАй бұрын

    Thank you Carol for sharing ❤

  • @BrianSendaula256
    @BrianSendaula256Ай бұрын

    This is very enlightening Carol... you have said so much here that we all need to hear as a church. Thank you so much for this courage. You are blessed

  • @nicholasmulindwa
    @nicholasmulindwaАй бұрын

    Amazing Interview. You touched on topics that I totally relate to.

  • @sanyusarah-mv5jj
    @sanyusarah-mv5jjАй бұрын

    Thanks for sharing with us your testimony! people are so Judgemental, full of envy may God protect and bless you abundantly

  • @mollybusingye6928
    @mollybusingye6928Ай бұрын

    Thank you ladies,it's amazing watching you

  • @witonzejosephine2476
    @witonzejosephine2476Ай бұрын

    That’s why judging is not ours. Carol stick on God He still loves u and have good plans for u , thanks for sharing

  • @DillisOkwari
    @DillisOkwariАй бұрын

    This is so inspiring, thanks for sharing dear Carol, I will always pray for you.

  • @josephine-uv5ov
    @josephine-uv5ov26 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much Hilda.

  • @rachealkirabo8369
    @rachealkirabo8369Ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this powerful testimony

  • @mabelnabateregga9279
    @mabelnabateregga9279Ай бұрын

    It must have taken extraordinary strength and bravery to share such a painful but hopeful story… thank you Flower Carol for displaying such grace, most women are not able to exude such kindness in traumatic situations. Thank you Bahati Hilda for creating such a safe space for such complex topics. We have been blessed!

  • @patiencekobusingye1042
    @patiencekobusingye10422 ай бұрын

    Nice to hear your story Bambi I used to hear people judging you in places like rugby club etc not knowing what you were going through ! Thanks for inspiring many .

  • @fredtandeka8743
    @fredtandeka8743Ай бұрын

    Thanks for the inspiration

  • @belindamercya
    @belindamercyaАй бұрын

    I reasonated with this so much, having gone through a similar season. It is well

  • @sookastephen6649
    @sookastephen6649Ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your life story. As God restored you, May He use your story to restore many others going through similar situations. ❤

  • @EmmaGanaiture
    @EmmaGanaitureАй бұрын

    I just love the strength of this lady, everyone serves God with a weakness, thanks for the persistence, in serving God in all what you went through

  • @mubirujackiewonder6033
    @mubirujackiewonder6033Ай бұрын

    One place I know that has broken so many hearts is church.It’s hard to mend and heal fellow broken Christians but they are easily buried and condemned for just rumors but we thank GOD for personally loving us regardless of what we have been through.Thanks for sharing this Carol.

  • @tibendazununa6452
    @tibendazununa64522 ай бұрын

    Surely being hopeful is key

  • @ashanamulawa2001
    @ashanamulawa20012 ай бұрын

    I thank God for his restoration for you Carol

  • @lucyevans6606
    @lucyevans6606Ай бұрын

    That’s therapeutic thanks for your services

  • @carolynenakiberu2620
    @carolynenakiberu2620Ай бұрын

    So sorry that u had to go through this but for His glory God will your story to set many free. And am glad through all this u didn’t leave God

  • @MummySsemuka
    @MummySsemukaАй бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing your story

  • @petermukisaa
    @petermukisaa2 ай бұрын

    Powerful Testimony by Carol Flower. Thumps up to Hilda

  • @nicksonankunda8928
    @nicksonankunda8928Ай бұрын

    Thanks Carol for sharing your story. I am sure a soul is restored.

  • @jennifernuwera8081
    @jennifernuwera8081Ай бұрын

    Thank you Hilder, I enjoy every bit of your shows. They are very inspirational

  • @Patty_k
    @Patty_kАй бұрын

    Sending you alot of love and light, Carol. I have been blessed by your testimony. 💜🙏 Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @matildaathieno1713
    @matildaathieno17132 ай бұрын

    Awwww @Carol hugs 🎉

  • @busingyevangilister5594
    @busingyevangilister55942 ай бұрын

    Beautiful story here, thanks Coach Bahati for hosting her 🎉

  • @namubiruhope4175

    @namubiruhope4175

    2 ай бұрын

    Your right

  • @elizabethkukunda5765
    @elizabethkukunda57654 күн бұрын

    This is inspiring Carol❤. Thank you for speaking out

  • @rachealmukomeza4742
    @rachealmukomeza474228 күн бұрын

    Carol you got this.. thanks for sharing your testimony with us

  • @victorianakimuli4794
    @victorianakimuli47942 ай бұрын

    Oooh bambi these two beautiful ladies . God bless them. U know sometimes when your beautiful people r always looking for whats bad about u,even if they have to make it up,sori my dia but dat man should have stood up for u as well and protected u,am hurt, am not born again but i smtymz made a stop over on your channel jst to watch u,u just looked humble and nyc yet so beautiful 😢

  • @Growthclasstoday
    @GrowthclasstodayАй бұрын

    This was very encouraging - Thank you Carol Flower for speaking up and sharing. I believe you and I believe that God is using your life testimony to heal people. Also grateful to ma’am Hilda for hosting such a beautiful show 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🎉

  • @hellennalubwama156

    @hellennalubwama156

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks for the show

  • @habonibrahim1885
    @habonibrahim1885Ай бұрын

    The husband should have known that the wife didn’t live is south Africa.

  • @sarahnkimeze3919
    @sarahnkimeze3919Ай бұрын

    May the Lord heal you , deliver you and restore your marriage, joy, peace, happiness, ministry, and favor. May His glory shine on your. May He vindicate you from those evil accusations and clothe you up with His glory. Thank you for sharing your ❤❤

  • @kabahumaroselyne714
    @kabahumaroselyne714Ай бұрын

    Thanks Carol for sharing your painful story keep moving God is faithful.

  • @maureentuhaisemusayigwantv8085
    @maureentuhaisemusayigwantv8085Ай бұрын

    Very inspirational story,may the Good Lord heal you completely,Carol🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @beckyatim410
    @beckyatim410Ай бұрын

    Caro thanks so much for sharing, this means a lot to someone out here. How I wish to follow you and get to have more words of encouragement ❤

  • @Carynne6969
    @Carynne69692 ай бұрын

    I've always loved you Flower..May God see you through dearie 💙

  • @ampeiremercy2189
    @ampeiremercy218926 күн бұрын

    Bambi, d burns & marriage issues, u a so brave & healed to share n sincerity. GBU.

  • @vickynaggayi544
    @vickynaggayi544Ай бұрын

    Thanks for hosting her, am encouraged I realised am not alone!

  • @birungiannitah7280
    @birungiannitah7280Ай бұрын

    I really needed to hear this😩🥰🥰

  • @sarahprofiting.
    @sarahprofiting.Ай бұрын

    WOW what a beautiful story may the lord protect you more

  • @Mukisawhite6740
    @Mukisawhite67402 ай бұрын

    If Cooper is not remarried i pray you re-unite which pleases GOD. Oh LORD may your will be done. Hugs CAROL

  • @marthapatiencenalumansi758

    @marthapatiencenalumansi758

    Ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @jacquelinekirabok.k6646

    @jacquelinekirabok.k6646

    24 күн бұрын

    AMEN from your mouth back to Carol as a testimony

  • @esielove2994
    @esielove2994Ай бұрын

    Hugs Caro Flower 🤗🤗 Thank you Hilda for this great inspiration

  • @dorlynhenry4849
    @dorlynhenry4849Ай бұрын

    Thanks Carol , u have encouraged me a lot. Am going through a lot may be not similar with ur situation but thanks ... Indeed in dark moments we should not run away from God....

  • @BahatiHilda

    @BahatiHilda

    Ай бұрын

    You are so welcome

  • @atwongyereracheal5024
    @atwongyereracheal5024Ай бұрын

    It's okay darling.sharing is caring!May God keep you strong all through

  • @carolkim9819
    @carolkim9819Ай бұрын

    Thank you Hida and Carol.

  • @muhindoannet154
    @muhindoannet1542 ай бұрын

    We've always loved your shows Carol. We love you ❤

  • @carolbaliru.o4729
    @carolbaliru.o47292 ай бұрын

    Wow Carol you have made me understand Exodus's plight thank you God is taking some were just hang in there.

  • @NakiryaBlessings
    @NakiryaBlessingsАй бұрын

    This what i am going through church instead of correcting me they are putting me down even i cried 😭😭while watching this but i am blessed i will never stop serving God no matter what thanks sister more blessings 🙏

  • @jameenaelsauko6073
    @jameenaelsauko60732 ай бұрын

    Love and Hugs Carol

  • @BusingyeMartha36
    @BusingyeMartha36Ай бұрын

    This is so touching 😢

  • @SolomeBasuuta
    @SolomeBasuuta2 ай бұрын

    Carol your courage to share is very inspiring!! May your story heal many other people...we love you!❤🧡

  • @cadiluxmusic
    @cadiluxmusicАй бұрын

    Wowww again this is so Powerful 🙏🏾 It’s deliverance for so many indeed as Bahati said