When I was young, purple was my favourite colour and it still is. There is nothing wrong with people liking things that are usually associated with the opposite gender, but wanting to change a four year olds body physically is just messed up.

@Lulu-mj2fi

3 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏👏

@subhub637

2 жыл бұрын

i wore boy clothes and hated makeup, didn’t brush my hair, loved going in muck boots in the pond and catch frogs. I still love all that but i love being a female, i love makeup but i also have a huge interest in reptiles etc. Like if my parents pushed on me wearing boy clothes that i want to be a boy, i’d feel bad if i didn’t be the “boy” they are acting like they wanted. They are treating him like they want him to be a girl and they will be disappointed if he doesn’t transition

@jakenineham1741

2 жыл бұрын

She wouldn't of got her way if the father was alive still

@Arianne3011

2 жыл бұрын

The unfortunate boy's mother is an "ideologically possessed" lunatic seeking validation from her ideological fellow travellers and she is willing to extract it at the cost of her own son's welfare, a barely few years old boy at that. She is playing a dangerous game with him as her pawn; a game that has a huge potential for disastrous consequences. If she is not stopped, her antics can possibly ruin his life ahead. It is so tragic because without her sick twisted despicable behaviour; disgusting obsession and criminal experiments - her boy can have a normal childhood and therefore most likely to grow up into a healthy and happy adult. Safe to say that sans his mother's harmful interventions, instead raised by his grandparents with healthy influence of his caring uncle thrown in it has all the potential to blossom into a productive and satisfying life. But she is hellbent on not letting that happen.

@eggpod4567

2 жыл бұрын

Yup. Especially if you give them puberty blockers and other stuff. That's abuse on a whole other level.

It’s so dangerous to be considering SURGERY at age 6 this mom is sick!

What an evil, weird woman. I really hope this kid gets out of that situation. God bless him.

@angee_p

Жыл бұрын

@Glenn Ryan it's a fact. She's grooming her son. There's a reason why under 18 is called a pedo because they are not an adult yet. Meaning they don't have the ability to make the right choices for their life. One day, a child will say they want icecream but after a bite, they will throw it away.

@annikenlittle9644

9 ай бұрын

@@angee_p Boy Is Brainwashed Into Believing He Is A Girl. Did The Mother Hypnotized The Boy Into Believing He Is A Girl. Thanks. God Damn

When I was 11 I cutt off my hair and only bought mens clothing. My family thought I was a lesbian. I have never been bi or gay. I just liked the style. Today I am very feminine and married to a man. So it does not have to mean anything just because u dont look like you're "supposed" to in this socieyy

@chukamaca

3 жыл бұрын

good point, I grew up watching my sister dress “manlier” than me and I always assumed she was lesbian because she never had a boyfriend through middle school or high school but now she’s happily married to her husband and still dresses manly but she can dress better than me so it’s okay

@vibe2248

3 жыл бұрын

I get that to a point I guess but I’m not going to get on the bandwagon with everything my child is doing. I would not consider myself having good parenting skills by doing that to my child.

@liammaple3055

3 жыл бұрын

You do realize that transitioning is done with the presence of doctors right? You think MAYBE POSSIBLY COULD BE a chance that there is more to it than an interest in pink clothing?

@b_money_

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, stereotypes are so annoying. There can be a feminine male that is straight, or gay. There can be a masculine male that is gay, or straight. There can be masculine females that are straight, or lesbian. There can be feminine females that are lesbian, or straight. Interests and styles dont determine gender. Other things do.

@yukimasahiko

3 жыл бұрын

Omg, I use to get called butch lesbian cause of it. I looked up to my brother and dressed like him including hair. But I always knew I was and wanted to be a girl.

Omg yea some parents push that trans stuff too much. A little boy liking pink and purple does not mean anything.

@alanancy3178

3 жыл бұрын

@@alyssaregi4551 He is a CHILD...

@alanancy3178

3 жыл бұрын

@@alyssaregi4551 and a child doesn't know he is a trans or not...wait until he turn 16 or 17 soo

@alanancy3178

3 жыл бұрын

@@alyssaregi4551 nobody denying nothing... Being trans is okay but he literally a CHILD and he didn't know he is trans or not wait until he turn 16 or 17 that a proper age and I do like pink and playing with Barbies when I was His Age doesn't mean I was Trans...WAIT UNTIL HE TURN ATLEAST 16 OR 17...he is a Child u can't take a chance..u just repeating words and ur crázy

@Cyndogg085

3 жыл бұрын

@@alyssaregi4551 But is mom really letting him choose his path or is she paving it is what I'm saying.

@Cyndogg085

3 жыл бұрын

@@alyssaregi4551 ok let's put it this way. I have 2 brothers. I remember one liking barbies and the other liking rainbow bright. Not one is trans or even gay at this point and probably not ever since they're both in their 30s now. What I'm saying is the kid is too young to tell if he is trans so it's better to just let him decide that when he's old enough.

My little boys favorite color is pink, but his favorite hobbies are hunting, four wheeling, and any other "boy" stuff. He allows his sister to dress him up, as did my baby brother. It doesn't mean they're gay, it means they like having fun.

@janewildly

3 жыл бұрын

True. As a child, I liked trucks, robots, legos and “boy things”. I just thought that they’re practical. Soo glad my parents did not read too much into it.

@prod.eenigma

2 жыл бұрын

when i was a kid i played with my sister's dolls, dressed up and did stuff like that and i also loved fishing and stuff like that. it didnt really effect how i turned out

These parents are delusional

@cupcakes7954

2 жыл бұрын

They are so punchable

This is child abuse. Plain and simple. Kids as young as 2 have wild imaginations play pretend. I think she’s misinterpreting James’ interests. James is not old enough to understand the impact that this decision would have. He could come to regret this in the near future. It’s a mother’s job to guide her child in the right direction and she’s not doing that. She’s confusing James and I think that she never wanted a son.

@Lulu-mj2fi

3 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏

@CamSiv996

3 жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly. In fact, I think Carly is lying about her son wanting to be a girl. I mean what the video shows her painting "his" nails, picking out bows, and putting him in a dress is grooming %100. And the fact about mothers not wanting sons, that s*** happens.

@Lulu-mj2fi

3 жыл бұрын

@@CamSiv996 definitely doesn't seem like he's into it and unfortunately, his family seems to be legitimately on something....

@arthurias7693

2 жыл бұрын

@@CamSiv996 Grooming? Uh, no.

Once we stop associating specific interests with gender identity, we can move on. That's the whole issue here. I can say for myself that I hated girlie things growing up, that's doesn't mean I wasn't born a girl and don't identify as female. We just have to let things take their course and allow people decide for themselves how they want to represent who they are. We need to stop labeling everything because it really doesn't matter in the end.

@AnahataMaryjane

3 жыл бұрын

yes! i was a total 'tomboy' in my youth. i played with boys, boy games, had short hair. i kinda wonder if i had been a child today whether my parents would have told me i was transgender. i'm not though! i feel like a girl, i like being a girl, and i just like a certain aesthetic that is not pink and frilly!

@becca2938

3 жыл бұрын

@@AnahataMaryjane Exactly!

@nicolasnicolas999

3 жыл бұрын

But that makes too much sense.

@Lulu-mj2fi

3 жыл бұрын

@@nicolasnicolas999 EXACTLY. They don't want to hear common sense, it's not interesting enough and doesn't fit the agenda🙄

@catserver8577

2 жыл бұрын

Agree 100%

I feel sorry for that little boy

I wore my sisters pink dress once when I was a little kid, guess what, I AINT GAY

@hopelove7167

3 жыл бұрын

The difference is you wore it once ..while her son is made to act as a girl 24*7

@Peem_pom

3 жыл бұрын

And even if you were, being gay wouldn't be a direct outcome of that, and is definitely nothing to be ashamed of.

@Peem_pom

3 жыл бұрын

@@hopelove7167 wearing pink 24/7 doesn't make you gay either. There is 0 science to back this up.

@hopelove7167

3 жыл бұрын

@@Peem_pom I pity her son

@theonestickman4162

3 жыл бұрын

Can i just say, Id love to see more men wearing dresses. As a bi male, id just love to see men wearing dresses on the street without feeling bad about it and I have some friends who would like to wear dresses and feel bad about it.

I used to make my little brother wear ballerina tutus and play ballerinas with me 😂 i dont think he remembers lol

@largemarge9519

3 жыл бұрын

That's the keyword "play" you're not forcing him to be the opposite gender

@RedRose-qs1ob

3 жыл бұрын

Tell him n let us know if u still alive

@carolyngrey2853

3 жыл бұрын

@@RedRose-qs1ob im never telling him 😂 i dont want to traumatize him

@ridhwanali4429

3 жыл бұрын

Evil 🤣

@carolyngrey2853

3 жыл бұрын

@@ridhwanali4429i know 😣 lol

My son wanted to paint his toes because he saw me doing it. I let him , he was a toddler. Now he is 16 and he never wanted to be a girl, he just wanted to play with nail polish when he was little. I feel like this woman saw normal things like that and jumped on it

so hes basically forced to act like a girl out of some form of fear? Its ok if he likes pink and purple, but he should be able to live as he wants to.

@jeffk3746

3 жыл бұрын

Who is being forced? all the videos seem to show that the child wants to live as a girl. Why should she not be allowed to?

@chernobylobsessed32746

3 жыл бұрын

@@jeffk3746 i know that but after saying that he liked pink and purple, they took it to a whole other level

@titanick7676

2 жыл бұрын

@@jeffk3746 Because he's a boy; you can't assume your child wants to be a girl because he likes pink or dresses up

@jeffk3746

2 жыл бұрын

@@titanick7676 that’s not why the family and the child believe she is a girl. Perhaps watch the video if you don’t want to appear of ignorant in the future

@titanick7676

2 жыл бұрын

Nahhhhh there was nothing more to it andif so please enlight me instead of calling me ignorant. Its my opion that that's a child he doesn't know better, you ain't happy about it that's fine.

If they want a daughter why not try to have a baby girl instead of forcing a kid to transition.

@sydneycloud5930

2 жыл бұрын

I know right. Lady reminds me of the aunt from sleepaway camp

The mother is creepy, and her boyfriend is just along for what he can get from her. Not the kind of people who should bring up a child.

@Lulu-mj2fi

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY. The brother also seems like a druggy tbh

I still remember my grandmother dressing me up as a girl cus she wanted a grand daughter as soon as possible,sadly she didn't live the day to meet her

there’s a difference between actually being transgender and having interest in what society deems the norm for the opposite gender. i am a full supporter of transgender people, and i think it’s great that parents are letting their kids express things like this. however, this child is very young and i don’t think they truly understand the concept of gender. gender is much more than colors and toys, and i don’t think these parents should be having their child transition. a better approach is to let the child dress the way they want, play with whatever toys they want, etc. without putting any sort of label on it. i get the parents are trying to be supportive, but i think it’s too early to have a child transition.

Great way to set up a life of misery and suffering for your own child.

@annikenlittle9644

9 ай бұрын

Why Did The Mother Brainwashed The Boy Into Believing He Is A Girl Named Isabella. Did He Wanted To Wear A Strapless Ball Gown Mom.

Child abuse.

Poor kid :( his life is going to be very difficult from this point on

That mother is just trying to turn that kid into the daughter she always wanted, thats sick and is probably traumatizing the poor boy

i deadass used to make my brother play dress up and do his makeup and he loved it but it never meant he wanted to be a girl lol there’s so much wrong about this mother let kids be kids then let them make that decision themselves 😐

I really hate this new world 🤦🏾‍♂️

I played dress up and if my mom took that as I wanna be a girl I’d of hated her this is disgusting behavior

Forcing a change is at best crass ignirance or at worst child abuse

Okay, there are kids that are genuinely transgender and manage to understand that very early on in their lives, which is good for them. But some kids are genuinely forced by their parents, I believe that this situation is the latter.

@Cyb3r.Vxmp16

2 жыл бұрын

Omg yesss finally a comment that isn’t transphobic and ignorant

@yumithescarecrow3490

2 жыл бұрын

@@Cyb3r.Vxmp16 fr

@worldsbestaquarium08

2 жыл бұрын

It reminds me of a Munchausen by proxy situation

@navzy6211

2 жыл бұрын

if a kid is "trans" that means they were directly introduced to the topic

@gr00vy.sunflxw3r

Жыл бұрын

@@navzy6211 false

Doctor Phil literally does nothing...

@zer0f580

3 жыл бұрын

Das true

@pinchofsalt4566

3 жыл бұрын

Letting people speak for a time and trying to understand a situation is just an important part of getting them help. Dr Phil SEEKS to understand first. He is also a good mediator. Other times Dr Phil. refers his guests to top specialists in his network to give them the best care. Stop being ignorant and basing your opinion off of a 3 minute video cut-out.

@eliseprincess795

3 жыл бұрын

And it’s somehow entertaining still

at the time, he didnt even know what this stuff is. she's crazy like my sister.

Our world is so screwed up..

Bro, long neck guy looks like someone got his head in office 365 and just shrunk it

When I was 4 I barely knew my name

CHILD ABUSE

she is the most karen person i have ever seen

They should wait till James/Bella goes through puberty before they make a decision that the child might be mad at them for in the future.

@gourmetchocolatemilk9639

3 жыл бұрын

@Mazani Cruz i hope you're kidding. He can't make that decision yet.

@josephstalin9357

3 жыл бұрын

@Mazani Cruz yeah but you should hit puberty and then see how you feel not at 4 years old. There are many cases of transitions and then regretting It

@MatticsAnimations

3 жыл бұрын

@Mazani Cruz your delusional, im a kid and i love pink and purple, theres nothing wrong with that. but just because i like those colors doesnt mean i want to be a girl, i liked playing with barbies when i was younger but that doesnt make me a girl either... my sister played with my hair, my point is just cause a few gender stereotypes are cracked doesnt mean they are trans. thats like saying a guy kpop star is a girl for wearing earrings.

That boy is going to end up growing up and hating his mom

Crazy lady that mom

I just realized that the brother and the boyfriend is a perfect irl counterpart of the fan vs enjoyer meme

Why are selfish parents assuming for the children? These are babies for goodness sake not in a position to make life changing decision

This is just sick, this woman is abusing her power over her child as a mother. Colours aren’t assigned to anyone, nor are clothes gendered. James is a boy, and that woman can’t change that.

Her boyfriend is not apart of this

I think she’s forcing it on him

4 year olds don't know what they are supposed to be. The parents clearly pushed this on him.

I grew up with 3 older boys and I would tell my mom not to dress me I'm dresses, I wanted my hair cut, I played with boy toys IMAGINE if I was given hormonal pills 😩😩

When I was that age I hated girlie things. I always wanted the boy toys and boy clothes. Now I’m a makeup artist and have a fashion degree. Point being I think this is just far too young for someone else to even understand gender enough to make a decision to transition. Just let them be themselves and do what they like until they are old enough to make their own choices.

@Brook_Nichelle

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed I mean I'm not into fashion or makeup much but I'm girlie in a way lol

A 4 year old can’t even fully comprehend gender or even know how to divide or multiply...... this kid is likely NOT trans... those parents are insane

This is gross … this is the way our world is now and it’s so beyond scary

If a person has the mental and emotional maturity to make a reasoned and independent decision about their sexuality, then that should be respected. However, how on earth can this shallow woman and her husband be qualified to assess the sexual orientation needs of such a young child? If I recall, correctly the outcome data on early transitioning children is not good. I am what one might describe as having a 'liberal' outlook, but that doesn't mean I fall prey to all the trendy social agendas that seem to circulate on a weekly basis. I instead apply common sense and critical thinking to my decision making, unlike this couple, who I fear have fallen prey to SJW wokeness and virtue signalling. I hope the child makes it out safely.

These people are just evil and sick

Wait until he turns 18 and let him/her make their own decision

See you in a couple years doctor Phil. My brother wife, pretending to be a man now, is trying to make my nephew a niece. I'll see you soon lol

@any1568

3 жыл бұрын

brain cell loss warning

@jackreidasaboboras3654

3 жыл бұрын

Such a disgusting mother! She does NOT have the right to decide what his child should be. Do you have any updates of this nonsense?

@mar2449

3 жыл бұрын

It’s okay if the brothers wife wants to transition, that’s their choice, but they should leave the kids alone.

@strawbolita

2 жыл бұрын

@@any1568 you talking about yourself?

@any1568

2 жыл бұрын

@@strawbolita that was a long time ago idk what i meant

She remarried to a guy she could control.

God be with you James

There is Super 8 of me at about 3 y.o. in high heals and a huge smile on my face. That was about the extent of it

when i was in preschool i liked to dress up in princess costumes and i dont know why, when i was 3. this woman is messed up for thinking those are signs of someone wanting to transition

i wanted to be a pirate at that age. wonder what would've happened if i had "supportive" parents like this 👀

It's messed up that you would try to force gender issue down his throat at such a young age.

I liked mud and bikes as a kid..I played in cornfields and enjoyed star wars..I'm still a woman and never felt I was a boy because bi liked a few "boy" things

I don't think that boy wants all these people fighting over what he wants to be. He's the one that chooses.

@sabineraabe3082

Жыл бұрын

, later

All these grown up aint there for the child, they are there for themself. That child shouldnt be close to anyone of these 3 people. That woman is lying aswell, please never let that poor child be close to those people.

Crazy lady wanted a daughter in her life, or something like that. The father can't take control back

So she is blaming her brother for trying to ruin her life, when her and her boyfriend assaulted him? What happened to concequences?

did they check their devices at home to see what kind of files they may have on them?

If I had that mother and brother, I'd be done with them too. Small minded, ignorant and disrespectful. Protect your child Mama!

hair,makeup,clothes,toys,ect has no gender *IT HAS,NO,GENDER*

@yumithescarecrow3490

2 жыл бұрын

SAY IT LOUDER!!!!!!!

@stacy3

2 жыл бұрын

@@yumithescarecrow3490 faster, harder, deeper

The guy clutches his college degree like it means something.

It's a form of Munchausen by proxy. Because her son supposedly wants to be a girl she gets a lot of attention from that and that's what I think is going on. She should be ashamed of herself

Total proof right here

Deluded parents

@TheShapeshiftingReptilian

3 жыл бұрын

Everything you wouldn't want lazy, deluded, very little maturity

Let the kid be a kid, and only his imagination by his limitations.

You know, it's one thing, personally at almost 24, contemplating whether to transition, but THIS is SO far beyond WRONG at 4 years old. I cannot stand the fact that this is now a reality, where kids become coaxed just because they like doing different things of the opposite gender at such a young age, but, forcing a kid just to please someone, or to flat-out do it to fit into society, if I remember it right, that is a felony....and the fact that now, groomers are being allowed to get away with pedophilia, is absolutely sickening....

Mother is a joke

Why are they blaming her for keeping the child from them when they wanted a no contact order and have her number blocked lmao like what did they expect.

This is discusting, take the little boy away from that mother

what's actually pissing me off is Dr. Phil taking the side of the groomers, completely and intentionally ignoring that children are very easy to influence. so yes, they are manipulating, brainwashing and grooming the kid into being trans

I wore my brothers 3 piece suit to my 4th grade class picture. I'm glad my mom didn't turn me into a boy!

They mad because he might want to be a female

I feel like the parents are undercover child predators and have a serious malicious intention

I think these parents are high on certain things

It's very clear this woman is using her child to get revenge. She is spiteful and deliberately confusing her son to punish others. Anyone can see that. The boy needs taken away from this fruitcake.

As a trans person,let the kid be a kid then later in life he could decide whether or not he's trans or not I had a tomboy phase (now I want to look masculine and dress feminine)and then when I first hit my teenage years I wondered if I was really a girl My mom just let me be just a normal kid at that age then I decided for myself who I was going to be later on Please don't force your kids to be trans just let them decide for themselves later on Please

I hope the boy is safe and still a boy!

He hasn't experienced enough of life to know that he wants to become a TS anyway. Not a good mother telling him what he wants rather than listening to what he wants

this lady Carly is CRAZZZZZY

It was my hobby to put makeup and girly clothes on my all younger bros. But it was nothing nobody is gay .. so plz don't judge on the basis of purple and pink 😂😂

My son was the most rough & tumble little boy I’d ever seen. He had blond curly hair; I could dress him in bib overalls and people would still say, “oh she’s so adorable!” His favorite color was purple. It still is, 48 years later. And he’s still rough & tumble. 😂😂😂

This is so sick and disgusting what these people are doing to this little kid. Makes me fuking SICK!

He does even know

What is wrong with that mother. How could they confuse a child like that. A boy can like the color pink and like to dress up it doesn't mean he is a she.

Poor child! So much turmoil over this! As part of the lgbtq community I believe this woman might be pushing this agenda on her child. The child HAS TO ASK FOR IT and be in distress about not being the opposite gender. Playing dress up is not an indicator of anything and I give her points for allowing the child to choose to dress up. I imagine this child must be so confused with the family fighting back and forth.

Disturbed "parents"

They were all very interruptive geez

It's so simple of a solution to me, it's rude to comment or opine out loud about another person's appearance unless you are asked. Most people do not ask beyond "do I look ok in this?" or "do I have anything in my teeth?". It's also unhealthy to obsess over other people's outward appearance. Instead of having any opinion at all about how someone present themselves physically, why not either train yourself not to worry about it, or, at least not say anything out loud about it. It's so obvious to me, what is so hard about this for some folks? This goes for someone's skin, their clothing, hair, physical attributes and abilities as well. It's the low road to make that your concern and be vocal about. Any time someone who is different than you brings you into the conversation about themselves, your answer should be "How interesting, do you want to tell me about it?". And then shut the heck up and listen. You don't have to have your own opinion about someone else's being who they are physically.

I use to have such a high regard for Dr.Phil from season 16 and down. I literally thought he could do no wrong. I definitely never thought he would become a sell out. Things change and Dr.Phil has become as left and liberal as possible. He now stands for abortion 100% and has no issue with this HUGE trans and gay movement on our children. He actually stands for it now. What I think it comes down to is him fearing cancel culture and realizing he’d be off air in one episode if he took a position of logic.

They literally cant hear one thing without complaining.

Ewwww wth is wrong with her

This woman is not normal at all

I would like the kid to grow up and see this video and see who destroyed her life. I swear someone do this to my kid they’re going 6ft under😡

First of all, I think the adults need to get their xxxx together... The way they behave is not healthy for the kid.

I wore skirt one time; After I was circumcised