"Rishton se itbar uth jana" hits me hard, my father invested alot of love and time in his nephews and nieces but on his death, only one of his nephews came to console me, all others were completely unbothered and even after 10 years i still can't forget their behavior. We shouldn't neglect ourselves while investing our time and love in the relationships.

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

So sorry that happened to you 💕

Your podcasts are very thoughtful and knowledgeable thinking about how toxic our southasian culture is that we go onoard for people and they dont value that we just do it to seek validation but in return our mental health is detoriated but in some rare cases it is fruitful too But I wanna conclude by saying that these coversations literally talk about more sensitive and important topics in a very beautiful and respectful way So hats off to u guys✨

Yes, you people are right. It depends on the people you are living with, i live in a joint family but its so toxic. And everyone is in each others business. We had covid and none of our extended family were there to support us. But when there is something that they want, they expect us to be there for them. They know what there rights are but ignore others rights. And in todays time people fail to notice or take hint when other person is setting boundaries.

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

That’s unfortunately so common and so hard to live with!

so good to see finally someone from Pak is talking about these things.Enjoying your podcasts so much.😊🌸

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

Thanks!

Love love your podcasts ❤

Marianna is the best! I liked her perspectives

Very nice topic ❤ please talk about how to avoid toxic people, thanks

What a refreshing podcast.. bravo girls!

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

Thank you 💕

I have set boundaries with my very toxic sisters, life is much more peaceful now

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

Good for you 💕

25:38 thats so true pakistani women need to decide what they want and take step.Accepting unpleasent situations and doing nothing for it ,is wrong.Having said that ,its not an easy thing to deal, in majority of pak.Families dont validate such concepts and many people dont even have choice.But another issue is that people don't even know their rights and obviously responsibilities as it is not taught in schools.But it is more of a cultural problem which i guess new generation is understanding and will brougt change slowly slowly.

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

You are so right!

Love love love your podcast ❤🙌🙌👏👏

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

Thanks 💕💕

I like Laila the most and Dure..

the best podast, keep 'em coing

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!

Very valid and neutral views👌

Love this podcast ❤

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

Thank you 💕

Wow good job

resonating with dure sameen like 100% all the way !!! but i want to mention here, that sometimes its your direct family members like mother father siblings who do not look for your happiness instead looking out for their own benefits as well , and sometimes it is the extended families members like khala etc, who really support

Totally agreed with durre sameen, yahe name hai i guess🙂

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

💕

Please include video chapters in your podcasts. All KZreadrs include it. That makes it easy to watch

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

That’s a good suggestion! Thanks.

Please make it atleast 1hr long .. itni jldi khaatam ho jati hay😢

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

Awww okay noted

I want to be durre😂 want to say a direct Noooo😂❤

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

Hahaha

Plz don't interrupt when someone is talking. It breaks the flow of important conversation

These girls are so loud esp. Summiya.

Yaar girls dont shout in the mic atleast 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️