We all girls needed this safe space where girls like you talk and share what women keep wondering! There are so many male podcast but so good to see a female oriented

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

Thank you for the comment 💕 this was exactly our intention ☺️

What an entertaining and practical conversation. I would say just one thing, not doing a job doesn't mean that we dont have an identity , dont have financial independence, yes. Saying this since i have seen women saying this to other women in gatherings. Turned out that the one who is not working is a certified pilot , a trained deep sea diver, and volunteers for girl scouts. You can be defined by so many other things beyond your job. I do work but admire people who explore their talents and work on their hobbies Well done for producing such great content.

@girlsinthetwincities2834

8 күн бұрын

You’re right - our job doesn’t and shouldn’t define us. But i feel it is important to do things that bring you joy - whether that’s your job or something else.

i was hooked to these episodes! I hope the wait won't be too long. Your balanced, educated and honest opinions are a pleasure to listen to. All the best girls! Hope to see you guys together soon

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much!! New episode every week is the plan. 💕

Good job, girls. Thanks for making us more aware ❤

I love this podcast, and i was extremely shocked when sumaiya said, last episode, 😢... looking forward to more episodes

Make more podcasts like this For people like me who don’t have sisters these podcast are learning and therapy and healing Love how you guys are great listeners and great at sharing insights ❤

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

Thank you 💕💕

its so difficult to speak to parents about anything let alone, who you want to get marrired. even in todays days. so its so HARD!

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

That is true! Parents need to allow their adult children more space to speak their mind

Thanks for the series of interesting conversations. These are of course the topics which should be talked more and more in order to create awareness in our society. I want to understand your stance on the monetary contributions of the working women towards the household. In Pakistani women, it is generally considered that only men are responsible for financing the household. Even if women are working, they (generally) are reluctant to commit to contribute in managing the household. Why it is the general notion in Pakistani women in contrary to women from other countries? On the other hand, they want men to help them in everyday's household chores if they are working. So if a man is working and managing the household and woman is also working but not contributing to the household, can this equation create a sense of equality (that we talk a lot about) and respect for each other? I want to understand the perspective of the women who work but are not willing to contribute to the household finances and want men to help them in household chores.

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

That’s such an interesting (and complicated) topic that we have spoken about briefly in some podcasts. But it requires in depth conversation definitely.

@JamilaCares

Ай бұрын

yes, 100% , and when they do provide monetary contributions, they resent it in the future about it. and then they make it sound like theyve done huge favors and that their kids owe them for all the money theyve spent on them. so unfortunate and sad

Lailaaa speaking facts ❤ can’t put into words how much this podcast has helped me and saved me from wrong decisions

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

Wow so happy to read that 💕

Great talk ❤

I was listening to this while cooking, when you were talking kisi ki girlfriend ho or phir kaha kisi ka boyfriend ho to.... I turned my face jaha se awaz arae thi and gave a cold stare and rolled eyes.... Realized after a few seconds you are on the screen not actually standing with me 😂😂😂

@girlsinthetwincities2834

12 күн бұрын

Haha so cute!!

Can you please also in some next podcast or something talk about financial abuse and pre nups? So many people these days are after money and openly demand expensive gifts if they think the girl is financially of a higher standing .

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

That’s a really good suggestion! We will start filming new episodes in June ☺️

Girls who demand separate accommodation after shadi are looked down upon even though ye unka sharai haq hai. But kaha ye jata hai k ye “shart” rakhogi tw kon krega shadi

@girlsinthetwincities2834

19 күн бұрын

that is true - our society is not kind to women who ask for their rights. That’s why we must stand up for ourselves.

Alsoo mostly in pakistan.. mother in laws are mostly the issue .. sometimes I feel k ye jo statement hai aurat he aurat ki dushman blkl thk hy... mostly boys are good enough now a days.. but mother in laws have so much influence nd unhu ny bivion ka khayal rkhna b hu to dar dar k chup chup k rkhty hain.. Nd yes main ye pichli genertion ki bt nai ker rhi.. ye hota hai aj kal nd blkl normal hai ye aur ye feel kerwaya jata hai k lrkian b isko normal smjhyn..

Guys please start a series where we ask questions and you answer those in podcast

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

Planning this very soon!

Please include video chapters in your video. It makes it easy to watch

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

Thanks for the suggestion!

Thank you for discussing the privileges men have in Pakistan 🙂btw your podcasts are interesting. and other than host you guys speak really fast

Good topic ✅ just curious when you all are living in diff countries then how you guys record these podcasts episodes? 🙈

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

We recorded them earlier this year when we were together ☺️

Mariana you are so pretty

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

💕

Yarrr... can't relate... I tell you maybe you people are privileged enough.. Main b yei sab btyn kerti th before shadi .. but shadi hyi th phela etraz he honeymoon per ekele mian bv kse chaly gye... bas phr pabandian.. ufff it was horrible ..

@sarahz.1293

Ай бұрын

Honeymoon pe kya pooray susraal ko saath lekar jaatay hain? I am sorry that this happened with you but I am sure you know kon kidhar ghalat hai. Apnay huqooq ke liye zarur stand lein, Allah ne aapko aapke huqooq diye hain.

@ramshajabeen370

Ай бұрын

@@sarahz.1293 hmmm mjhy to shadi l bad pta chala k esa b hta hai k kui etraz kre k honeymoon per akele ja rahy hyn.. g haqooq to pta hain lekin haqooq ki jung lerna shuru ker dn to ghr ka mahool he khrb rahy her wqt.. is liye sometimes khamosh rehna perta hai..

@girlsinthetwincities2834

Ай бұрын

Definitely the conversation wasn’t for people who’s in laws are not nice