These women were more thick than picky. Girl thinks 5.9 is same as 6f. Other one thinks basic income is 50k a year😂 that one killed me

@NeonKnight83

Жыл бұрын

She's perfect, she'll also think 5" is 9"

@callanbiehn2992

Жыл бұрын

@@NeonKnight83 lol

@Anonymous-uw4sr

Жыл бұрын

​@@NeonKnight83 🤣🤣

@brittspencer4905

Жыл бұрын

I viewed them as girls vs women

@rikupv

Жыл бұрын

I remember someone asking a girl what she thought the average income was and she said 200k...

Its all pay 2 win. I've never met a doctor who didn't find "true love" or have problems dating. Moral of the story, work on yourself

@darkhorizonifyable

Жыл бұрын

Maybe I'm misreading that but you know some awfully stable doctors, hell scratch that, you know some doctors with some very understanding spouses regardless of mental condition

That's basically what Kevin Samuels said about the guys women want vs what they could get

@human7491

Жыл бұрын

@Tyler Of course, and it doesn't need to be proved. It's just natural. Why would women have mammals if it weren't necessary?

@moonlightprincess449

17 күн бұрын

Yea and it’s the same for men

I met my husband of 13 years now online in a Christian chatroom. I wasn't looking for a relationship but it all just lined up without me trying. It's so important that your overall views on life & goals line up!

@tyan_ldn

Жыл бұрын

God bless you and I’m very happy for you sister

@amberwishon

Жыл бұрын

Amazing! Met my husband on a Christian dating app and couldn’t be more thankful! If only everyone knew the real secret to it all 🙏🏼

@niki_99

Жыл бұрын

So true. Align the goals and values and everything else falls into place.

great video. i'm a woman and i agree, women are picky... on a dating app, or when they don't know the guy. i always thought of myself as an "unlovable person", but then i realized that i don't have a male friend nor i have many real life hobbies! the advice in the end of the video is good. i think more people should act like that.

@hauntedhose

Жыл бұрын

You’re not a woman 😮

@tigerbear3038

Жыл бұрын

Then why don’t they try to get to know a guy ? Isn’t of constantly thinking there are better options out there . On a first date, even if there’s nothing wrong with the guy, they often will just say no spark and go onto the next guy

@SkrzekuZenmasters

6 ай бұрын

So actually most of the time, because women prefer the romantic relationships to start as a romantic relationship instead of transitioning from a friend to boyfriend. So most of the time you are the unkown guy, so they are picky. Regardless of apps.

Dating is awful. I heard something a while back and it sticks in my mind all the time. I'm paraphrasing here.. "men are afraid that a woman might laugh at them while women are afraid that a man might kill them".

@opaltaberna6817

Жыл бұрын

Right on , unfortunately. I wonder how MANY women , girls have been raped assaulted or killed by a ‘ date’ ?

@stealingfire5036

Жыл бұрын

Men are more worried that women will falsely accuse them. Men already ridicule each other mercilessly. It's not exactly being laughed at that's the fear...

@stealingfire5036

Жыл бұрын

It's also a fact that a man has to earn his opportunity to mate, or his lineage goes extinct. A woman only has to say "yes", when asked, for her own genetic lineage to carry on. The female is the gatekeeper of reproduction. Rejection is existential for a male. The vast majority of men that ever lived throughout history, have died as virgins. Only until the advent of monogamous marriage did that begin to change. But that concept of marriage is fading too.

@jesusisunstoppable4438

Жыл бұрын

BS

@Ounouh

Жыл бұрын

I know another one "Men are rational, women are irrational."

Something you miss in this analysis. While familiarity bias is real, it does not account for women leaving the overwhelming majority of relationships. While the number fluctuates, the rule of thumb that 50% of marriages end in divorce. Women are hypergamous, and a plethora of them are always looking for better than what they have. A minimum wage 5'5 guy who is charming and in a woman's social circle does not have anywhere near the sway of a 6'0 tall six figure earner on a dating app. In fact, if she believes she can trade up for the other, she most likely will.

@katherinew.8201

3 ай бұрын

If a woman is gonna trade what she has for an illusion, she wasn't a good woman anyway to begin with. Anyone can do this, i've seen men do it to their wives with romance scams. Sometimes you choose the wrong one. Better vetting procedures before marriage is a must. Social apps are a major red flag, if she can't do without them then she can do without the ring.

There you are! So excited to see you post!

The women and men who use the apps aren't the ones who establish the selection criteria. They can only select from the answers that are given them.

Glad you are back at it. Another interesting video concept.

Excellent video. Opened my eyes on some things. Thank you 😊

Thank you for doing a video on this. You’re 100% correct

Damn, that's good advice! "To find Love just go out and do what you love!" Thanks Darek! WTF is up with your weird fan-blown wavy background?! Keep the rest and ditch the wind machine lolol!

Good stuff Derek, thanks.

Great video. Dating apps don't reflect real life as they create unrealistic expectations for everyone. They might work for older people where the pool of singles is tiny. But if you’re young, just try to find a partner in person lol.

The king is back! Great video!

Brilliant video, Derek!

Derek just has to rev his Lamborghini 😂

You saying that dating apps are in the business of keeping people single, reminds me of Cosmopolitan's notoriously bad sex advice. They sell more magazines when women are looking for tips to get a man than they do when they're in a happy relationship, so it's not in their interest to recommend things which promote that. That's how you get stupid advice in Cosmo such as "When giving oral sex, use your teeth" - ouch! And Yikes!

@CommandoMaster

11 ай бұрын

Mainstream media, and dating apps are not on ur side. They don't give AF if u succeed or not in dating or relationships. They only CARE ABOUT MAKING MONEY.

Girl who works at starbucks making $12/hour wants a 6ft guy that makes $75,000 a year minium.

@albertsantos9966

9 ай бұрын

Yeah hahahahahhahahaha!

I haven’t watched you since last year and it’s quite interesting to see you’re tapping into the red pill market

I like your backgrounds! Very nice staging!

Nailed it. I’ve been trying to explain this to guys for years.

Wow I'm impressed. What a great breakdown analysis on the dating apps

That was pretty insightful. Yes, the real thing is to just pick a hobby you like and join a group that is also into it. Get out there folks!

that was fun man. thanks for echoing what my subconscious sort of already proposed to be the case back then when I tried the apps.

Another excellent and insightful video

This is so true! Great video!

I believe men start this whole picky stuff and then when a woman changes her looks surgically or naturally she becomes picky because now she has a whole lot more options. Guys like big butts or big breasts but don't want a woman to have these assets and be fat. The say they want a skinny woman but majority of skinny women either have no butt or flat chested then they complain about that lol. Lastly you get a female that is slim but gets plastic surgery to get big breasts or big butt (things that men love) then that woman is called a 304 for the streets plastic fake etc. guys have unrealistic standards. Even if a skinny woman has the assets a man wants in a natural one that's very rare two a man's insecurities would most likely turn narcissistic or ruin the relationship from all the attention she gets from men. What's odd it's mainly the men who themselves aren't even much of a catch a 5 at the most.

Hey DVS, will you be doing a body language analysis of David Grusch soon? Would love to see that.

There's also two parts that are important here: a) innocent ignorance and b) bad (potentially "bad faith") question framing. a) You can see that some of these women are practically fledglings with next to zero real-life understanding; that's OK, we've all been far less cognizant of the world at their age than in our age, regardless of gender. Take, for instance, the girl who seemingly doesn't grasp how 5' 9" is vastly different from 6'. In the metric system, that's 76.2 mm apart; btw, 3" is the unit described as a palm (the span across your four fingers, from one side of the palm to the other). Then there's all the others who blurt no less than 50k annual income or more, with the rather striking case of the one assuming minimum wage nets you a whopping 100k! Yeah, this is clearly a case of misconception or misinformation, rather than anything else, or, at the very worst, of a genuine brain fart. b) The problem with the question itself is asking them about an ideal partner. We could equally be asking people what their ideal housing be, and most people would likely list so many implausible criteria that the likelihood of getting them would be even slimmer. If you then go ahead to use this as proof of people being unrealistic about their choice of housing, that's in bad faith, because "ideal" anything is inherently not the most realistic prospect, but the one you'd like to get if it was possible to get it within your means.

@romxxii

Жыл бұрын

The women choose "6'" because to them that's a nice round number, but what they really mean is "taller than me, when I'm in heels." She can't even really envision the difference between 5'9" and 6', because both are taller than her. In fact, unless she's constantly around people who are 6' tall, she wouldn't even know how much shorter someone who is 5'9 would be. Hell, I'm 5'10" and people have mistaken me for 6'. Also, I've known plenty of dudes who can pull tail even though they're short. Hell, plenty of big time Hollywood actors are under 5'7".

@RaspK

Жыл бұрын

@@romxxii It's not like 5' 9" is short, either. My wife keeps telling me I am nearly too tall for her at a little over 5' 10" (179 cm), and loves crooning under my chin when we have some privacy standing next to each other. I got early hypothyroidism at around 9 or maybe even earlier, and what the doctor who finally diagnosed it told me is that I would most likely had been in the ballpark of 6' 4" (190-195 cm). When she heard that, her words were: "That would had made you *_too_* tall for me!"

great video man! Do some more body language vids too man

Excellent analysis. Thank you

Yes, but on dating sites and apps when someone seems perfect it's very likely they are creating a fake version of themselves to get people to be interested. So yes looking for people in places that are comfortable and fun for you is your best chance. 😎👍

Spending time on hobbies doesn’t work either. If you go to a reading group for example you meet girls but there still not interested. You just meet girls who a looking for a ten out of ten rich looker who likes to read.

the internet is not reality, come to terms with this as soon as possible

Most couples meet online today and the number is only going up. So your "only on the apps" argument is invalid, plus the on app behavior is starting to spill into real life.

I used to be part of the whole "red pill" propaganda. After I stopped watching red pill content, I lost 50 lbs, gained a bunch of muscle from the gym, made more money, cured my low-key gaming addiction which now I haven't played more than 30 minutes at a time every couple of months or so (mostly Forza and Chivalry 2, lol). And I traveled to 3 new places in less than 8 months, including 2 separate continents. Leaving the red pill shows you the real world. Getting out and actually experiencing the world is way better than being chronically online. I used to think girls would never like me. To a degree, there have been girls that I liked which didn't reciprocate, but that's fine. There have been a few girls that I kinda liked (in terms of personality and even looks), but I realized I'm not ready to settle down yet because I want to accomplish more and being financially stable before having a wife and kids. Trust me, life gets 10x better after leaving the red pill. Sure, I'm not completely anti-red pill. I have taken some good points with me, like looking for physiological red flags, and wanting a more traditional woman, but outside of that, the red pill rabbit hole was just straight up poisoning me with false beliefs, and breaking out from that content cycle has been one of the best decisions I have ever made.

@brokeboiacey5674

8 ай бұрын

If these red pill guys really wanted to help men, they would tell them to stop watching red pill content for 8 hours a day and go outside theyre not gonna do that tho because thats how they make money. The red pill is a business for content creators to make money off lonely men

@ixplain

14 күн бұрын

Went from red pill to black pill. 😮

I agree 100%. It is so easy (yet takes more time) to find someone offline. Most online contacts early transfer to the offline world.

Why are your videos so short, now? Weve already got the youtube shorts. I was hoping youd still do your deep dives into cases. Its been like 8 months since weve had a 20 minute video!

Derek, I've been a fan for a long time. Can I request a body language breakdown of Stan Romanek in the documentary, Extraordinary: The Stan Romanek Story?

As a single newly getting divorced person. I have no idea where to start again definitely not evwn ready

@williamspears1627

3 ай бұрын

Figure out which qualities matter the most to you. Don't virtue signal, be honest with yourself. Then look for men with those qualities.

This gave me hope when for so long, I just believed what those dumb short formed videos taught me. That women were picky everywhere and expected you to have a billion dollar job and look a certain way.

Wow this mans is so smart, he can solve 3 rubix cubes and read 3 books. Probably einstein?

Good video.

This should have way more views than those "sigma male mindset reacting to women freaking out after being hit with reality" videos. These dating apps are just toxic

Hahahahaha! I absolutely love this!

"attraction is like statistics" riiiiiiiight

Please don’t stereotype all women. I’ve never been on a dating site and don’t talk to anyone who does TikTok.

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There's a logical fallacy here. The women were responding to very specific and limiting questions instead of open ended questions. Back in the day when I tried the dating apps, my description of the person I would like to date said, "above all, you are kind."

they say 1 thing but their standards are MUCH higher than what theyre saying.

People no longer possess the qualities that make them a worthwhile investment. Facts.

@-onyx2626

8 ай бұрын

💯

It'll be interesting to see you analysis the Philip Schofield BBC interview

Same principle applies to employment hiring! That's why hardly anyone can even get a damned interview anymore!

Im not shallow but I have certain standards that are nothing like money or anything shallow like that. And the 6'2 guy, football player and absolutely my twin flame which I believe to be a good thing not a negative thing. Hes sweet, hes honest and we were best friends first. Im not shallow. I think looks aren't everything but being very attracted to each other work's out great. I had to ask him out, after some very sweet encouragement from him. He definitely has a Halo!!

I wish I could find a woman not picky enough to date me.

Perfect assessment of the situation! In a nutshell! 👀🕵🏽😅

@NeonKnight83

Жыл бұрын

In a nutsack!

I am so very glad that I have found my partner in life.

i'm in LA and have overheard girls talking about using apps to get free dinners...multiple times. apps can be fun but are definitely not an encouraging avenue for an authentic connection. interesting vid, thanx

@lindac6919

Жыл бұрын

I'm in Seattle and have overheard boys talking about using apps to play women for money and sex...multiple times. Not authentic at all.

Are you Jordan Peterson's son? 🤣

Great,I love this video. More attention needs to be brought to this issue. Yes join a club people!

@BlakeBlackstone

Жыл бұрын

I joined a few. They are meat fests. Any suggestions?

@NeonKnight83

Жыл бұрын

@@BlakeBlackstone eat meat

@laurakeightley9882

Жыл бұрын

@@BlakeBlackstone i live in a small town in nz so im struggling too! Its a granny fest instead of a meat fest lol

@ShimmerBodyCream

11 ай бұрын

@@BlakeBlackstone Volunteering and anything animal based is heavily women. Join some vegetarian groups (even if you aren't vegetarian you might learn to cook some cool stuff!) or walk the local dogs at the shelter : )

Can you make a video about David Grusch interview (UFO whistleblower)?

It depends on the type of women you ask but most of us arent thaaat picky. We all have things we like and dislike, I don't think that makes us "picky"

@Dziaji

Жыл бұрын

Make a male profile on a dating site with average looks and stats and try to get a response, and you will experience what he is referring to as "picky"

Sadly I, after a long time, now have to date again and I hate it! I have been single for a whole 6 months since I turned 15 . That was many many years ago.

Totally agree!!

Very good video brother :) Hope to see more of the same style

I don't know if this is satire, but it looks like it. If You are serious here is a quesiton. Why would women describe the most dangerous traits on a man as a barrier against strangers? A wealthy, tall, strong man is as dangerous as it gets. And they never ask about what they look for in apps, in those interviews thay ask what they look for in a man, period. Not only that, their list is not meant to protect them from strangers, quite the opposite, it is a list of requirements that a stranger needs to fulfill to go out with them without any other check on character, Quality, morals or intentions. This is exactly why they always end up pumped and dumped, they always open their legs for every man that checks all the boxes on their superficial list.

It's a big jump from an online attitude towards a faceless unknown to someone you already know in person, in fact there is no takeaway here as far as the premise except ^

Derek potentially setting me up with my future wife by telling me to go outside and do stuff.

Everyone should see this video

If I send a woman this video do you think she will go out on a date with me?

Sorry doc, you've got it wrong. The last thing you want is for a woman to get to know you and like you - that means you become her friend. Another dude, who is bad and aloof, will be supplying her sexual needs and you're just being used. This has been the story of my life. So yes, make no mistake, women are picky. The whole point of the friend zone is to "shelf" a guy as she seeks out better.

Also strange and dangerous men? Women on average are much more dangeorus, they just don't get caught or charged.

I wish this was true but it just isn't. Women want it all and they constantly hop from one guy to the next thinking the grass is greener. Very few women are willing to date under 6'. They are very self conscious about mens height. They want that instant gratification to brag to their girlfriends about their mans height. It's about status to her. The next thing is money and that varies person to person. But the 6' rule is the absolute minimum to get a date these days.

You really have great hair

I meet my husband at work. I've been working with him nearly 4 month. We started dating and here we are 13 years later having a daughter together. That was my second chosen one😅. He's nr rich, do not look like Keanu Reeves 😂 and yet he makes me laugh. So I don't know.

Love the ending rant. GetTF off dating apps!!!!

I wouldn't want to be anywhere near any of those girls in the opening clips

I agree with your stance.

Hahahhahaa very funny, accurate and sensible

This is a fresh and brilliant take. Thank you for that!

THATS INSANE. I never was able to find the words to explain to guys but yes. There’s 100% a stranger standard dude and it’s so weird that I can actually define it now

@HackersSun

3 ай бұрын

I gave everyone a shot, I they asked my interests but went from 0 to 100 reeeeall fast Like this guy and I both liked space, and I was like cool :D Then he was like *kiss hand* my love!!!1! The next sentence Well, I'm sorry, but I'd like to be your friend before you start making googley eyes. Maybe I should start being picky when it goes 0 to 100 for that >_> I accepted all my matches, but finding one that I get along with and get to know 😩

Most women do not know what 6 foot means, unless said woman is over 6 foot.

This is a stereotype that someone out there, man or woman, could have related to. Just more fuel for sexism and plz we already have enough

Do women go after the top performer in a soccer match or the best looking player?

@degenerateslikeyoubelongon4829

3 ай бұрын

The tallest and best looking

They have a list of 100 things. Men have a list of 3 things

I met my wife at the place we both worked she was a RN and I worked in dietary food service she made 5 times what I made, but we got along at work and I ask her out and I have custody of my 2 children from first and kim and me and the kids were 4 and 6 this was 28 years ago and we been married 27, she helped raise my kids she wasn't able to have kids she was a country girl a nurse and a mother to the kids, so you never know where you will meet your soul mate but you won't do it thru a computer so get out and do your thing if it's time it will happen....

Hey hey! Hoping to see you do your magic with the David Grusch interview soon. 😀

Would be willing to bet the girl saying 6 ft has dated mostly 5'7-5'10. She has no clue of the average height of most men. Never been on a dating app myself, so would be willing to bet I'm not alone.

I dunno what this video is.. I want your reaction to Brian Kohberger in court 05/22/23.. you are the best IMO.. plz look into this.. really want your insight and reaction.. thank you

These women never say I don’t know

great guy.

This is what I’ve been saying!!

I want a relationship but I don’t really like talking and being around people 😂

@kazbah1217

10 ай бұрын

AI bot maybe?

@williamspears1627

3 ай бұрын

Sounds like a Business style relationship would work for you. Not all relationships have to be romantic.

You really need to close that window

I've accepted a lot more guys than not accepted 💯😂 I looked at online "dating" seems like 1 big hookup

what happened to this guy?! you would think with all crime and new woke stuff that this guy would have tons of content, but he's turned into another one of those once a month uploaders with a 5 minute video, also has Derek's energy changed, i use to enjoy listening to him but lately not so much, just not feeling the vibe.

I found my partner of 7 years on a dating app. My advise to guys would be to actually write something in your bio that tells us about you. When I was swiping of course looks came into it but then, even the most physically attractive guys, if their bio was blank or said something short or stupid I'd be like nope. But then guys who were I guess sort of more regular with a good bio I'd want to talk to. Also it gives me something to you about. I'd do the same thing with my bio. At least then the opener could be some banter about interests and not just "hey how are you"

Women just fold like paper if your hot then change all the rules to conform