Amber is actually single again right now, so under what circumstances would you ever date Amber Heard, or who do you think would be a perfect match for her?

@t_nels

2 жыл бұрын

Elon

@karlbristow1223

2 жыл бұрын

She's so gorgeous, many people still will

@t_nels

2 жыл бұрын

@@karlbristow1223 ☠

@karlbristow1223

2 жыл бұрын

@@t_nels I don't disagree with you, I'm just saying. With the current culture of desperate men, they'll date her. Not that I would. I've been with a woman just like her, it aged me, made me anxious. I'll probably never recover from it. Never again.

@Classic7-4-7

2 жыл бұрын

I would have to be a hostage

Did anyone else notice how much younger, healthier and more vibrant Johnny looked in the beginning of their relationship? 😢

@kathyjones1576

2 жыл бұрын

And now that all this rubbish is over, he's looking younger again, more relaxed. He looks happy again.

@queenlegitimate5015

2 жыл бұрын

A raging drug habit combined with a woman who is trying to eat your soul will definitely do that. Its great to see him looking so good again.

@elenalizabeth

2 жыл бұрын

Even just over the course of the trial. He went from looking tired and worried on day 1, to smiling and waving on the last days.

@vivimortius4337

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, i think the Same!!! In this few Years....He is gettin 10 yrs older !

@neilsun2521

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Johnny looked almost the same as he did in Nightmare on Elm St (1984) in that engagement interview. Fresh skin etc. During the trial the close-ups he'd aged a lot during their marriage.

Not a specialist, but I found a way to tell when she’s lying. It’s when her mouth is open 😂

@Latingurlbc

2 жыл бұрын

🤭🤭🤭 It's funny because it's soo true!

@goldeneagle2976

2 жыл бұрын

hahhahah!

@darlahardy3386

2 жыл бұрын

Okay. That was perfect and funny.

@Anna_Key

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣 But Jessica, AH isn't bad (mad), she's just drawn that way.

@sweetyoghurt

2 жыл бұрын

😭😂😂

She destroyed him bit by bit you can see how his health and appearance deteriorated so fast after meeting her 😟

@glamdolly30

2 жыл бұрын

Very true, photos of him tell the story. It's ironic she got her lawyers to go after him about his drink and drug use, when it's totally obvious his abusive relationship with her was the reason he was escaping more and more into his coke and booze addictions! Poor guy. If she'd loved him and been a kind and supportive wife who made him happy, he wouldn't have needed those artificial highs. Imagine being a married couple as they were with unlimited funds and opportunities for great experiences - eg travelling the world by private plane at a moment's notice - and all you can do with your time is fight! They could have started an amazing new charity together reflecting a shared passion for a good cause - maybe an animal charity, or some other more political cause like domestic abuse (HA!) And as both were actors they could have enjoyed finding new scripts to develop, or other acting projects. But no - in the five years they were together they created nothing but misery - for themselves and everyone else affected by Amber Heard's abuse. I hope Johnny Depp takes a long, hard look at how he allowed such a dangerous woman into his life, and indirectly his children's and other innocent people's lives too. Then he needs to decide who his REAL friends are, and sort them from the hangers on who encourage his drinking and drugging, to distract him from the fact they're stealing from and using him. I worry Johnny's childhood abuse and massive wealth and fame have made him an easy target for ALL kinds of abusers.

@organicmagic8822

2 жыл бұрын

@Kyuku She seems to be waaaay more toxic

@Rebekah_78

2 жыл бұрын

He certainly appeared to age rapidly in his relationship with AH. Looking at him in that clip where he’s talking about his engagement to her he’s almost unrecognizable from the man in the court room. Warning: toxic partners will ruin your looks.

@olimpio69

2 жыл бұрын

I sutton it's also the drugs and alcohol. She's not responsible for everything Johnny has done!!!!!!

@Lynnefromlyn

2 жыл бұрын

@@olimpio69 no one is saying that. But as an arch manipulator she prevented him from continuing his alcohol and drugs detox many times. She drove his decline. It’s what narcissists do.

A good thing that has come out of this trial is that so many of us are learning how to identify these dangerous people and avoid them before we're in too deep.

@joannschmidt4253

2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree !!! Cause after watching this I see now the ‘red flags of my own ex !!!

@rosebudame

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree with you!

@elishebameade1441

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed👌🏻

@melodienaber3238

2 жыл бұрын

👍

@porkbeans854

2 жыл бұрын

Oh my god, yes! The trial and analyses are a veritable watershed of body language, narc, etc. knowledge. So glad I caught this particular video. Watching Amber rock back and forth on that couch was the most grotesque thing I think I've ever seen. Thank you, Derek, for the video and analysis.

AH: I’d take being called a bi*ch any day over being called sweet. The public: Way ahead of ya.

@andreacarter8202

2 жыл бұрын

You got it! Buy you’re also a 🤡

@andreacarter8202

2 жыл бұрын

I me

@cacola_3373

2 жыл бұрын

no broblem here

@martineshamzin7535

2 жыл бұрын

LOL!!!!! so true.

Notice how as she says “I love him” she is shaking her head “no” because she knows thats not true. She doesn’t and never has loved him. She loved his fame. Thats all she thinks of him. Is his star power.

@elysabethboyesautumn5135

2 жыл бұрын

She is not capable of loving anyone !

@kari8187

2 жыл бұрын

She nearly gags on the words. Girl is just ridiculous.

@cryptnick_

2 жыл бұрын

@@elysabethboyesautumn5135 I wouldn't say that. She loves herself a fair bit, I suppose.

@JohnShalamskas

2 жыл бұрын

@@cryptnick_ Amber Heard does not understand what love is, so she is incapable of feeling love for anyone at all. Not even for herself. What a horrible life she leads. She gets pleasure from destruction of other people's lives.

@MyChilepepper

2 жыл бұрын

JD would usually get ready to duck for her smacking his ear again. It’s called love bombing.

I had never heard of Amber Heard before this trial, what I find truly sad is how she has lost her looks at such a young age. She WAS gorgeous but now looks severe, those cheek implants and caterpillar eyebrows doing her no favors. Her looks are beginning to match her personality.

@cosmicmuffin322

2 жыл бұрын

Coke bloat will also do that. The baby powder speeds up your metabolism, and when you stop, your metabolism slows, and you get a bloated puffy face.

@binkao2938

2 жыл бұрын

Yep those cheek implants are horrendous and doesn’t suit her face shape at all. Honestly despite the aging she’d still look decent without them. She could really benefit from an upper eyelid lift and Botox in the corners of her mouth though

@jkhtravelrn

2 жыл бұрын

I had never heard of her until the trial either. I did hear about Johnny getting in to trouble for failing to “declare” (not the word I wanted, but was the only one that I could get out of my brain) the two doggies. Even with all of the media coverage about it, I still don’t remember being aware of Amber Turd 💩.

@jkhtravelrn

2 жыл бұрын

@@binkao2938 I need those procedures as well. I could use a lip filler like Juvéderm. It’s pretty sad and also very telling that she already needs work done. Especially at such a young age.

@bettyhiatt8820

2 жыл бұрын

Amber Heard is pretty. She's 36 and still looks good. She's lucky she has the good genes. However, she's had a few plastic surgery procedures though. Her cheek implants and nose done. Lip fillers and teeth veneers. She sometimes wears hair extensions at times.

He always looked miserable with her. You can see how drained, unhealthy he was.

Amber Heards sister also looked scared of her as they were exiting the courtroom, this behaviour of her does not seem to be confined only to Johnny Depp.

@chartroy

2 жыл бұрын

I think Whitney just looks miserable, unhappy, and angry

@carrotspaghetti236

2 жыл бұрын

I saw a video of AH with her mother at an event: she seemed happy, then AH issued a terse order and her mother looked scared and stopped enjoying herself.

@mariat108

2 жыл бұрын

@@carrotspaghetti236 AH's mother? You mean the mother that died unexpectedly just 4 days before she was scheduled for a deposition in favor of JD. That AH mother?

@elsajones6325

2 жыл бұрын

@@mariat108 ??????

@FabiolaMacabre

2 жыл бұрын

@@mariat108 wait , WHAT ? !?

"A pretty face don't mean a pretty heart." Robert Palmer

@journeylvr

2 жыл бұрын

“ Beauty’s only skin deep”!

@caobita

2 жыл бұрын

"No matter how beautiful you're on the outside, as long as you're ugly inside, you keep being an ugly person"

@neilsun2521

2 жыл бұрын

"A pretty face may last a year or two, but pretty soon they'll see what you can do" - John Lennon's 'How do you sleep' song

@journeylvr

2 жыл бұрын

Love Robert Palmer. Been obsessed listening to Feel The Heat!!

@marcomalo02

2 жыл бұрын

@@journeylvr Guy died age 54. Sad.

Yes, being in a relationship with a toxic person is extremely mentally, emotionally, and physically exhausting.

@Whitedove6

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly and it's not worth it !

@mariebarr1745

2 жыл бұрын

This is 100% true

@jackwolf78

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, Amber would know. Poor woman.

@MsLouisVee

2 жыл бұрын

That’s why they’re called psychic vampires suck the life out of you and leave you drained and old

I think the perfect partner for Amber would be Amber. And on that note, I'd like to share a great quote: " Talk about me good, talk about me bad... just talk about me!" -Narcissist

@leetempo

2 жыл бұрын

😂so true

I hope Johnny doesn't react to her latest interview. People with PD hate to be ignored and would rather have confrontation and fight. I think he should just ignore everything she says and does. Anyone with a brain in their skull knows the truth that she is an abuser and obsessed with Johnny.

@IndigoDisco

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. The ego needs feeding & she still wants her supply from him. It will eat her alive if he acts like she isn't even a thing.

@safakhartoum1454

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t think he will respond. Because he knows that is what she wants. And I know she knows that too. That is why, she continue talking. She should be locked up. Too make an example out of her.

@laur131306

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. She would rather him absolutely hate her than treat her like shes irrelevant

@Gigi-yx3mk

2 жыл бұрын

💯 when you know someone is a Narcissist - ignore…… ☀️☀️☀️ Johnny showed the world who she is. The End 🍺🥃

@Kronosomee

2 жыл бұрын

so far so good

She's so terrible. And she continues to try to cobtinue to spread her lies.

He may have "married his mother", caught in the trap of abusive behavioral patterns that his mother ingrained in him as a child; those traps may well explain why his connection to AH was so powerful in the first place, as well as why he seemed unable to extricate himself for such a long time. What actually surprises me more is that after that abusive childhood he was able to have some very healthy relationships with several women, and that AH seems to have been an exception.

@jmills5420

2 жыл бұрын

Weird that the beginning of his courtship to Amber was when his mom was sick and rushed to the hospital, and then they got a divorce right after his mother died. So Amber was literally the woman in his life for his mother's deterioration and death, and that's it.

@juleslaabs9808

2 жыл бұрын

Possible theory...."mid-life" stuff- plus she was very beautiful..... an unfortunate vulnerability while being open to a new relationship. Poor guy

@monikaakabelle1123

2 жыл бұрын

Imagine how powerful for Johnny it was to get free from AH, I am sure this also will help to heal from his Mom’s abuse

@judyanderson-hamed4034

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed.

@sharleecoulton2472

2 жыл бұрын

It’s been said from witnesses, plus Johnny himself that Amber was a completely different person when they first met, she knew exactly what she was doing before even meeting him. She became everything she knew Johnny loved and adored. Witnesses said that she was so sweet and lovely, like a stepford housewife, she would bake cookies for him and take his shoes off when he would come home. Johnny fell right into her trap.

My ex girlfriend was exactly like amber. Like terrifyingly similar. It got so far she tired to put my son in danger. She attacked me and when the cops came she tried to get me arrested. Thank God they smelled liquor on her and listened to me when I told them why I had hit her back. One kept her away from me while the other cop helped me pack up to leave. I understand people have disorders and stuff, but if you refuse to get help and you try to take others down with you, you deserve every bit of misery that comes your way You can't use your mental health as an excuse to walk around being crappy to people

@joannemurdock7899

2 жыл бұрын

Well said! Glad u got away!

@MsLouisVee

2 жыл бұрын

Nor can you crap in people’s beds.

The more we learn about this girl, the more I wonder if she had this mapped out from day one. There are some very broken people in the world, capable of unthinkable things. I may have watched one too many true crime shows, but she seems text book cray-cray of the scary as eff variety. I’m glad Johnny is free. Love your channel, was hoping you’d put something out on this. 😊

@katrinat.3032

2 жыл бұрын

I know I struggled with that thought of did she plan this all along. I feel I feel like she did because she talks about how she has mountains of evidence. If you were abused for years you would talk about repetitive abuse I don't think you would refer to it as evidence UNLESS YOU we're going to use that information in court most likely during divorce proceedings.

@yagirl0949

2 жыл бұрын

I believe since day one she had this in mind! Idk who said it but people around her heard her said she was dating a “famous,older fat man” idk but you don’t refer to someone you love like that . I believe she also didn’t stay with him for the longest because maybe at the time she heard she couldn’t carry herself a baby and I don’t think JD was down to have done the whole procedure at the time from what they were going through . Which it was smart from his part so in sight she wasn’t going to waste her time trying to benefit out from him if she couldn’t that way so she build this whole show and allegedly trape in a richer bd!

@agilalawin1584

2 жыл бұрын

She indeed set him up from day one. There is an audio evidence wherein she explicitly implied that if tge case goes to court there wil be evidence of photos of bruises made by makeup corroborated by text to friends and relatives in the span of 3 years

@lindathomas1247

2 жыл бұрын

I believe she had this planned from the start. Shes a nasty coniving gold digger with assorted personality/mental issues.

@chantalbrunet4230

2 жыл бұрын

She did have it planned out from the beginning. She doesn't like men. That's why she went to the therapist and started a record off b.s. at the start of the relationship and took all those pictures of JD. Why not take pictures of her injuries?

Ambers traits are quite similar to Jodie Arias. Johnny is lucky he got out.

@cherylgorder5645

2 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing especially when she was asking about his will, I really believe she was trying to make him overdose

@laur131306

2 жыл бұрын

The whole staring at the jury thing! Amber and Jodi should be together...in prison.

@claudiarebecca4688

2 жыл бұрын

I got Jodi vibes too. Like she was a lawyer and could run the defense.

2 жыл бұрын

Oh my Gosh. I can’t unsee it now!

@goodbyecommunists1335

2 жыл бұрын

They say people put fecal matter on/ near people for whom they have utter contempt to express power upmanship, and often before making plans to destroy them in whatever way, including killing.

I noticed some years back a huge change in his appearance. Then anytime I saw him on some red carpet interview or event I noticed he never looked happy . It was very obvious he was going downhill, now I know why. What a waste of a good man and phenomenal talent. I hope he returns stronger, highly in demand for Roles and with a beautiful KIND loving woman on his arm. I won't say what I hope for her. Vicki

@FabiolaMacabre

2 жыл бұрын

I wonder if his substance abuse was also affected deeply by her presence 🤔

@Disturbd_76

2 жыл бұрын

@@FabiolaMacabre I wouldn’t be surprised if she was lacing his stuff or dosing him with drugs. I’m so glad he’s free and hope he finds peace and love.

@fly89

2 жыл бұрын

@@FabiolaMacabre if you lived with a batshit crazy person, you might need some substance to numb your stress.

@notagain2856

2 жыл бұрын

@@FabiolaMacabre in the trial, Johnny mentioned it was a nightmare while he was undergoing rehab on his island because Amber would not give him witdrawal meds on time and she also constantly drinking and taking drugs in front of him

@richardeidemiller6739

2 жыл бұрын

@@Disturbd_76 I said the same thing on another post. She didn't want him " clean and sober". One recording she's giving him a Xanax when he sounded perfectly calm, on her birthday she asks him to bring home wine and weed, during his detox she withheld the meds and fought with him to the point he wants her to leave, she orders drugs for their wedding and on and on. She wasn't afraid of " the monster ", she encouraged his usage, he was easier to control. She is diabolical. Vicki

I was married to a sociopath, so I understand exactly what Depp went thru. Borderline personality disorder? I think they're being too nice. Amber's a full blown sociopath. She exhibits all the red flags

@olimpio69

2 жыл бұрын

So u are an expert?? Lool

@journeylvr

2 жыл бұрын

Gregg, I agree!

@caobita

2 жыл бұрын

And NPD, too

@CrystalShadow

2 жыл бұрын

Yup she’s got it all 😂😂😂definitely a low rent sociopath

@laydeelinkful

2 жыл бұрын

My daughter has BPD she acts just like this. When she was 15, she left the house, called the cops with her eyes blacked and tried to blame somebody at the house. 2 years later with security footage proving nobody followed her and she wasn't hurt at the house, she still maintains that person did it. She wanted them to go to jail and die. Many other examples, but really this is the behavior that presents. Funnily enough, my daughter also has Cluster B, which includes Histrionic Personality Disorder, which AH also supposedly has. I feel like a lot of these probably overlap with sociopathic traits.

I'm guessing her Southern belle didn't last too long. It was very brave of him to step forward and have the world see what a terrible situation he was in. I wish him all the best in his life after AH. He deserves it.

@amberparker9883

2 жыл бұрын

No.. he said on the stand that after about a year, maybe two, is when "things started to reveal themselves"

@elsajones6325

2 жыл бұрын

@@amberparker9883 and he was under such a spell that she managed to get him to marry her sooner that originally planned. Quickly, before he remembers the pre nup. Then, when he mentioned post nup, she went ballistic!

@barbaramccormack5612

2 жыл бұрын

@@elsajones6325 Yup. That's about the size of it. Remember when he said, she asked him why she wasn't on his Life Insurance, and he said he asked her, why, do you want to kill me?! Powerful! He knew she had the potential. He didn't really get the message though, not until she pooped in his bed. She's just shameless.

She gives me the creeps. I’m just so relieved that JD survived. Had he stayed with her longer, she may have done something worse than defaming him. Sick woman. 😬

@MsLouisVee

2 жыл бұрын

Yes I was afraid she would drive him to suicide and then become a very rich widow

Do you know why Johnny was smashing cupboards? He found out that day that 650 million was gone and taxes had not been in years. His accountant had to break the bad news to him. Johnny was already in Australia when Amber showed up smuggling the dogs in - he took the blame

@caobita

2 жыл бұрын

Also, the day before his mother passed away

@MsLouisVee

2 жыл бұрын

Yes when angry Johnny smashes cupboards not people. it’s Amber that punches people oh excuse me I mean slaps people

You didn’t note how she didn’t say “im so sorry I didn’t declare Pistol and Boo” you only saw her say “im so sorry Pistol and Boo were not declared.” THAT is her avoiding taking responsibility, ONLY other option puts it on Johnny

@cathylindeboom4494

2 жыл бұрын

Good observation of detail!

@lynnejones6258

2 жыл бұрын

Jonny was already in Australia when she arrived with the dogs that he had told her to leave with sitters in the US ... it was never "we" she ignored advises and vets...

Johnny's friends said they didn't like Amber right from the jump

@scuwopguwop_0715

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, It Was Beaming Red Flags At The Very Start, It Just Pisses Me Off That Johnny Let Her Get That Deep Into Him; But At The End The Of Day He Reclaimed Everything That She Tried To Destroy And Take! 👏🏽

@PureSparkles22

2 жыл бұрын

@@scuwopguwop_0715 Johnny's self destructive

@glamdolly30

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, it's especially sad he didn't listen to his older sister Christi Dembrowski, who he's always been close to and who works for him, he generally respects her judgement. She was very worried about his relationship with Amber Heard - she could see she was mentally unstable and abusive. When he told Christi they were getting married she asked him not to rush into it. But sadly he allowed himself to be rushed by Heard - and no wonder she rushed him, she didn't want to leave time for a pre-nup! And in the absence of a pre-nup, Heard was confident she could blackmail Depp into a massive divorce settlement when they (inevitably) split, by falsely alleging he beat her up. He walked right into that trap. Her divorce lawyers' early letters to him are blatant blackmail demands, basically saying "give our client multiple millions of dollars, plus three penthouse apartments and the top-of-the-range Range Rover she drives, and she won't go to the media with outrageous negative stories about you". And she pretends she's not a gold digger - she's the worst kind of gold digger! Depp was stupid to get entangled with such a woman, but people who understand the cycle of narcissistic abuse recognise this doomed relationship was a textbook example. As a survivor of childhood narcissistic abuse by his mother, Depp was the perfect victim for another female narcissistic abuser to target him as an adult. Amber Heard was that narcissistic abuser. When they met, he was in a failing, 14 year marriage to Vanessa Paradis. They would almost certainly have split soon, regardless of Heard. The point is, he was ripe to fall in love with another women. Heard was in a relationship with a woman (surprise surprise - she's a lesbian, which should have been another red flag for Johnny), and that same-sex relationship was also in trouble. Heard's violent domestic abuse was a serious issue (as we heard in court, it once landed her in police cells for a night, when she had one of her rages and hit her girlfriend in an airport). Heard saw that global superstar Depp could further her acting ambitions, and set about seducing him with flattery, sex and all the good stuff that happens when narcissistic abusers 'love bomb' their victim in the first stages of the relationship. That's how they ensnare the victim, and get power over them. Once they've hooked the victim, their mask comes off and the abuse begins. And by that time, the victim is in love with their abuser and blames themselves for upsetting them - aided by their gas-lighting and brain washing of course. They feel if only they could keep the abuser happy, they'd go back to being the wonderful partner they were at the start of the relationship, during the 'love bombing' phase. But of course that wonderful partner never existed. The real person is the abuser, and always will be. As a kid he would rub his mom's feet when she came home tired and bad-tempered from working as a waitress, and in the same way he'd try to placate Amber and calm her rages with love. But it never works - these abusers are a bottomless pit, and nothing the victim says or does for them is ever enough to win their love or approval. I'm just glad Johnny Depp escaped that toxic relationship with his life, and I believe the only reason he did is he flew to Europe right after telling her the marriage was over. If he'd stayed anywhere near her after rejecting her, I'm of the view she may have literally killed him. Narcissistic abusers as extreme as her won't accept rejection. When the victim rejects them by telling them they no longer want to be with them, their violence can escalate to murder. With Johnny out of the country, an enraged Amber Heard could not physically attack him. So instead she launched divorce proceedings and took out a restraining order to support false claims he beat her up. That was how she took her power back, and was the start of her cruel vendetta against him for daring to end their marriage.

@taopaille-paille4992

2 ай бұрын

Great comment. But I think she is not a plain pure narcissist because she seems quite smart socially and is able to have a lot of different facial expressions and body language adaptation. Pure narcissist are most often unable to have nuances and to have a smart body language She definitely can. So, I think she is a psychopath (which has a huge narcissistic component as everybody knows)

Every single person looking for a partner needs to hear this

@silla-je9od

2 жыл бұрын

By the time a target starts seeing these red flags, they're in deep with their abuser. This is because before this point, the target is showered with what seems like love: the sex is amazing, they're showered with the perfect gifts, sent love texts, given love notes, etc. The abusers make their targets believe they've "never had someone love me this much," and the targets are actually grateful for the abuser's attention. It's like how a mosquito first injects an anesthetic into our skin. Once that spot is numb, the mosquito then starts taking our blood. Likewise, abusers anesthetize us with "love bombing." Then when our defenses are down, and they've earned our trust, the abuse begins. Good luck trying to point out red flags to your friend, a target who is in the love bombing phase with their abuser. You will most likely get a "If you can't be happy for me, then I don't want to talk to you" response, and get left out in the cold. It's usually after the dust settles from the wreckage caused by the abuser in the target's life, that the friend will say, "you tried to warn me, but I didn't want to listen," and that's the only time the friend will see clearly enough to see the red flags, in hindsight.

@MsLouisVee

2 жыл бұрын

That’s why they’re call psychic vampires they suck the very energy out of you

The old interview made me sad. The relationship aged him a lot and made him seem a lot more private and sad in his affect now. I believe he will get through it though and come back to his healthy thriving self ☺️ lots of people believe in him and want the best for his life moving forward!

@flagal519

2 жыл бұрын

He is a beautiful soul....he will recover from this. Many people love him.

As a survivor, I'd add: If you find yourself keeping records to double- check your memory (because you'll be accused of being the one who misremembers) such as emails, texts, voice messages, ticket stubs, receipts, Etc.. This is a red flag that you're a victim of "gaslighting" . Records are only to help you confirm for yourself (or others they triangulate against you), because abuse typically escalates if you defend yourself by showing them any evidence . Reactions can start with stuff like: "Why are you making such a big deal out of this?!" , "You make me feel like you're using anything I do you'll use against me.", "What kind of crazy person keeps records?", Etc., Etc.. Advice? Leave. Stat. Run..

@jfregia8070

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, they get extremely mad at you for remembering and having proof... Your mind is constantly in overdrive everyday like memorizing an entire filing cabinet/documentary EVERYDAY adding each day to them and on top of all of this you still have to go through your day making sure you don't do anything to make them mad, you clean house incessantly, you make sure meals are right on time, you cater to their every need, basically just everything you can do to ensure in hopes that they won't get mad about anything that day and having to do it again the next day and so on and you hope to get just a small and real compliment or some kind of approval/positive recognition from them but nothing you did was appreciated, your just a dummy, worthless, a bad person, the problem, etc. But hey, you develop a phenomenal memory but it's such a horrible and agonizing way to develop it in this way😢 I was such a good woman to that LYING, MANIPULATIVE, CHEATING, NARCISSISTIC, ABUSIVE, CRUEL, AND SADISTIC PIECE OF SH!+😡😭😡 I wasted the best of me and what I had to offer on him and now I can't give that same energy, love, hope, dream, life to anyone else ever again because I'm too afraid to and no longer have that kind of hope or energy😢😡 the dream and love is still there but everything else is gone and under lock and key and the key has been destroyed and the pieces scattered.

@taminapiwocki3423

2 жыл бұрын

always listen to your gut- even when you don't want to

@davidemaglio5745

2 жыл бұрын

@@jfregia8070 I'll never understand why you should accept to have your mind in constant overdrive. As soon as you realize all this shit, RUN!! I lived with a woman with disorders (I didnt't know at the beginning), but as soon I realised who she was, I kicked her out.

Amber's perfect match is a mirror

@cheery-hex

2 жыл бұрын

100% lmao!

@dafreedomfita

2 жыл бұрын

Or Elon musk

@FabiolaMacabre

2 жыл бұрын

She’d probably love that too 😂

Amber’s perfect match would be a straight jacket.

There were a large number of red flags. The very fact that she walked around flaunting herself would have been the only red flag I needed. Add to that a very condescending manner, and we're done. I don't know why people rave on about her beauty. She's only beautiful when she's dolled up. Very ordinary otherwise, and those cold cruel calculating eyes would be a total turn off for me, especially coupled with her superficial stance on thingsm she had declared as a youngster that her aim was to marry a rich man in order to use him. Amber would not fit the bill in my book not even as an occasional acquaintance with whom to hevr the occasional drink. Fake, unfeeling, cruel malicious manipulative people are not in my list of collectibles!

He’s aged while he was with her! Look how much younger he looks at the beginning of the relationship!

Great video DVS! The Australia video apologising for sneaking their dogs into the country by private plane without declaring them is interesting, and reveals a lot about both Amber Heard and Johnny Depp and their relationship - which at this point was very close to breaking point (he ended the marriage 2 weeks later). Johnny Depp had to be in Australia to make his 5th and likely his final 'Pirates' movie, since Amber Heard's false abuse allegations subsequently destroyed the relationship between Depp and Disney. So his reasons for being in Australia were important, business ones - he was the star of a major movie being filmed there. Amber merely flew out later to join him, as his wife. She had mentioned to both Johnny and their PA, her intention to smuggle the two tiny teacup Yorkshire Terriers with her into the country, without doing it legally. Both Johnny and the PA advised her against, knowing it meant breaking Australia's strict laws - and the risk of public censure/negative publicity for such high profile people as her and Depp. But she went ahead and did it anyway. Her actions in deliberately breaking Australian law showed disrespect not only for the country but also for the dogs, which Australia could have legally euthanised as a direct result of her actions. But in the context of the Depps' marriage, her decision to break the law is very telling. She told the jury she was scared of her husband - but would she really have shown contempt for his wishes and brought the dogs into Australia, if she was some terrified domestic abuse victim? Hardly! It showed a staggering disregard for Depp's status and image. One could interpret her actions as an active, conscious attempt to sabotage him. He had made it clear to her he didn't want her to bring the dogs into Australia without proper paperwork - but she went ahead and did it anyway. Johnny Depp was always by far the bigger star out of the two of them. She knew that - Hell, it's almost certainly the reason she married him, against a history of lesbian, same sex relationships. There are many examples of her hostile treatment of Depp that indicate she resented his greater fame and talent. There are also grounds to believe she was so envious, she wanted to BE Johnny Depp - even during the recent libel trial, she turned up to court wearing strikingly similar outfits to his! This trolling or 'mirroring' was noticed by many serious media commentators. We often see this weird, envious dynamic in relationships between narcissistic abusers like Amber Heard and their chosen victim/partner, who is typically an Empath ie the opposite of a Narcissist. The abuser latches onto the Empath victim like a parasite, and enjoys all the social advantages of their close association with a more well-adjusted, generous, warm-hearted and popular person. The Narcissist is incapable of loving anyone (other than themselves), so they choose an Empath partner who absolutely DOES love, deeply and genuinely - and is socially successful and widely loved in return because of it. We saw this in all the people, friends, family and employees of 30 years, who came to court and spoke movingly of Johnny's kindness and generosity to them. All but Amber's sister stayed away from the court, and instead gave evidence by Zoom. The special qualities the victim possesses that first attracted the abuser to them, are the same qualities they envy and resent. In the early, 'love bombing' stage of the relationship, the abuser praises and compliments the victim to win their love and loyalty. But once they have the victim hooked, the 'de-valuing' stage starts, and insults fly in which the abuser tries to destroy the victim's self-esteem. One example of the many insults Heard threw at Depp were that he was an "Old, fat, washed-up actor". At the time he was arguably the world's biggest movie star commanding up to $20 million a movie. She was a supporting actor not a headlining one, and best known for no other role than her romantic relationship with megastar Johnny Depp. Another time on hearing that global couture house Dior were interested in hiring Depp, Heard responded "Why Dior want to do business with you? They are about class and style and you do not have style". Obvious jealousy! Depp's reactions to Heard's multiple abuses was to be overly passive. He even supported her when the shit hit the fan over her smuggling the dogs, by making that ill-advised, parody apology video with her - which only made the insult to the country worse. That video was made 2 weeks before Depp finally called time on the 15 month marriage and told her he was ending it. It's powerful proof of how overly tolerant of her abuse he was - even when he'd had a bellyful of her verbal and physical assaults, he was so supportive of his wife he made a video backing her up ovr her abuse of Australian laws! This strongly supports his own evidence that he was a victim of childhood abuse by his domineering and violent mother Betty-Sue. His response as a child when she geared up for a fight was to flee - and he did the same as a middle aged adult when Amber Heard flew into an abusive rage. I truly believe Heard was capable of killing him when he told her he wanted out of the marriage. In my view he's only alive today because he flew many miles away to Europe for a music tour, immediately after delivering the news. Narcissistic abusers as extreme as her often escalate their violence to murder, when the victim rejects them. We see this frequently in domestic homicide - the victim's decision to end the relationship, triggers their murder. Narcissistic abusers won't accept rejection, and won't allow the victim to leave the relationship alive - and be happy without them. In Depp's absence, Heard could no longer physically assault him. So she did the next best thing to take her power back and hurt him - she launched divorce proceedings, and a restraining order, then got her staff to tip off the media when she went to the court with a fake bruise painted on her face (a bruise which would have faded had Depp inflicted it, since she hadn't seen him in 10 days). It was the publicity stunt that launched Heard's vendetta to ruin his image and career. And as Depp himself said, from that first big lie came all the other, escalating lies painting him as a wife beater and even a rapist. We could very easily have been watching a murder trial, at which Amber Heard would have told exactly the same lies about Johnny Depp's supposed domestic and sexual violence to claim she killed him in self defence. Thank God he got out alive - and didn't make the mistake of getting her pregnant, so he was tied to her forever through a child. It seems likely Elon Musk is the idiot who donated sperm for her surrogate baby (perhaps her passive punching bag sister Whitney was the surrogate in question - she seems to do Amber's bidding, including her recent perjury).

@ZosAos

2 жыл бұрын

Excellent break down and spot on. Once people realize the NPD element, there's little that doesn't make sense with her actions. The problem is that generally only people who have been intimately involved with someone who has Narcissistic Personality Disorder are able to clearly see all the signs with Heard from the get go.

@zilgill9589

2 жыл бұрын

An excellent summary of highlights of this saga.

@DJ-sv7xf

2 жыл бұрын

Good point about JD going to Europe. I moved 800 miles away to avoid my abusive narcissistic parents. It wasn't far enough away as I regularly woke up crying from nightmares about being abused (always around 3am) and threw up. However within a year I moved overseas and I finally felt safe. What a relief!

@JohnShalamskas

2 жыл бұрын

Great summary! Your posting should be pinned to the top of the page.

@evelynniemeyer1119

2 жыл бұрын

Excellent. I feared she stabbed him to death to pretend domestic violence and to heir his wealth. We can only see and recognize what we know. There are many KZread videos about the narcissic disorder. Watch them ! They are made by people who were the prey of narcissic abuse and they want to help others to avoid this experience. All narcissisists use the same tools and they follow the same steps. The start is love bombing. They mirror their prey and watch with cold empathy their values to pretend them to get quickly sympathy and appear as a twin soul. They love or pretend to love the same things and hobbies. Without having values and real emotions they have learned feelings like vocabularies from movies and watching people. If a man talks about love to her she thinks he wants sex. They sleep together immidiately. This is her successful way to connect. There ist no other way for her. Johnny was so impressed by this lovely girl. She was too good to be true. When he came home she puts off his shoes and gave him a glass of red wine. When he puts off his shoes she got angry. This was the first sign for control a.s.o.

I keep finding the body language in that first clip of Amber and Johnny so remarkable every time I see it. It’s easy to see how cautious and essentially frightened Johnny looks. He’s constantly evaluating her closeness, body language and expression in order to placate her if necessary, to take steps if necessary. While Amber on the other hand…she’s aware that Johnny is doing that. And you can see the smug smile on her face reflecting how happy she is that she has her victim right where she wants him. She owns him here.

Johnny mentioned circular argument (a psychology term), her sudden outbursts, her constant need for attention etc. It goes to show he knows the signs and symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder and what he will need to do to protect himself, even now when they are divorced and he's won the case. He is aware she will continue to come after him and she is going to be relentless in pursuing him to get her supply. This means he is aware of what he will need to do (legally or otherwise) to break the vicious cycle. Look what she has done already -- she is going on TV, challenging him to do a similar TV interview, she's going to write a book etc etc, all just to get his attention. I am sure he is aware of effective strategies to stop her and I hope he implements them.

@helenahon

2 жыл бұрын

@Johnny Depp Malaysia. I have been following you because I sincerely admire you for the person you are. I never got to know the real Johnny Depp, instead of just a movie character, until now. I guess it's the same for everybody else. I listen to your music, I think your original "Hedy Lamarr" is such an honest declaration. I believe it's about the loss of trust. I love the melodic lines and most of all, the lyrics. I loved the way you wrapped it all up pulling in the story of Hedy Lamarr into your own. You should seriously do more songwriting. You have it. Congratulations on your soon-to-be-released new album with Jeff Beck. I also appreciate your art and paintings. I love the way you experiment with different mediums and styles. You don't stick with one. You're not afraid to try other things apart from what you are familiar with. They all come out good in the end. You are a man of many talents and you have a genuine heart. I just want to see you rise and move on in life. Your breakaway from a horrible past is our redemption. Your victory is our victory too. That's why we are all rooting for you.

She latched on to Johnny from the get go for his money and fame and then set out on a plan to get all she could out of him, she's that low

Amber Heard and Alec Baldwin should hook up, they deserve each other.

@gratefulguy4130

2 жыл бұрын

Which one would go missing first?

@Jezebel066

2 жыл бұрын

Predators only go for the empathic ppl w big hearts. The givers.

@rickt1951

2 жыл бұрын

Wow good one.

@3lttlbrds

2 жыл бұрын

Alec Baldwin did something????? 😮

@rubywarner34

2 жыл бұрын

Please don't encourage that. Like we need another Fred and Rosemary West walking free.

I didn’t know Jim Carey was a psychologist!

@rosesacks7430

2 жыл бұрын

gold!!🤣🤣

@gratefulguy4130

2 жыл бұрын

His new stuff is a lot more serious

@Odin197188

2 жыл бұрын

@@gratefulguy4130 LMAOOOOOO!

@FabiolaMacabre

2 жыл бұрын

😂

I believe that she had it planned from day 1. Let’s be honest, how many of us would record or take pictures of our spouse (the person we love, the person you choose to send your life with) sleeping or knocked out to show to others. None of us are perfect and I know for a fact if my spouse passed out after drinking, Im not going to run for my phone to take a picture of him to show to someone else and embarrass him.

I think her and OJ Simpson should date.

I wouldn’t personally want to share the same air space as this toxic person. Nooooo thank you! #Run

There is a video when AH was at the Loreal Fashion Show when the guest models were all lined up for a photo op and she literally stepped in front of the model next to be front and center. It was incredibly rude.

@thecurrentuniverse

2 жыл бұрын

That’s the event where fan photos show her right hand knuckles are red and raw and cut. From punching Johnny.

@damnitalexis

2 жыл бұрын

@@thecurrentuniverse From punching someone perhaps, but not Johnny, as the fashion show was in October 2021. The last time they had even been in proximity to each other was during the UK Sun trial in July 2020.

@thecurrentuniverse

2 жыл бұрын

@@damnitalexis maybe it was from beating Elon. There are photos of his face red and swollen when he is with her.

@hollyshaw-elliemae

2 жыл бұрын

yea she literally pushed her way in front of her, the look on the models face told me everything. pure "wtf are you doing stick?"

@sherrykreier8156

2 жыл бұрын

Wowwwww really wtf she should hSd Ben disqualified fr that rude move

Perfect match: Empath with no self-awareness, alternatively, a doormat, a servant, a slave, or a punchbag.

This was mentioned on another site, and really got me thinking. They said they thought Amber might have killed Johnny if they stayed together. With all "her" evidence, she may have claimed self defense. I got thinking. Maybe thats why she got so angry when he would want to leave during the fights. She couldn't get him to escalate the fights to the point for this to happen. I know its just a strange thought. But maybe Johnny saved his own life by getting out of there when he did. If you listen to the tapes, she actually says. "You're killing me" I thought. How convenient to have that to dub in later. Just my thoughts. Please don't crucify me.

@mianta55

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with your thoughts. You are definitely correct. When you are raised by an abuser or married to an abuser, you learn to run, not walk, run fast and get out of the abuser's reach and stay out of their line of vision as long as is necessary. I have listened to those recordings several times and being someone with many years of experience being gaslit, mind-fucked, lied to, etc., I too, am certain that Johnny saved himself from much worse by throwing in the towel when he did. Honestly, I pray that he gets some decent therapy and finds some peace of mind. I also hope he doesn't jump into another relationship until he does get some therapy. He needs to make Johnny his priority. ❤

@amyhabing7281

Жыл бұрын

spot on. there was premeditation for sure with her pics etc

Think some anger management might go a long way for Amber. Narcissists don't take defeat lightly as we are pretty much all witnessing. She'll be lucky not to get dragged back into court at this stage.🙈 Good post Derek. Thank you for the enlightenment 🤗👍

@rachelmartineau8102

2 жыл бұрын

My sister is like Amber! She had to undergo anger management and road rage in order to maintain her drivers license

@Galemor1

2 жыл бұрын

The victim just wants to be rid of their abuser, so I don't think Johnny will be the one suing her again. I even heard rumors that he's going to let her of the hook about the payments too.. I think he's done with her, and doesn't want anything to do with her ever again..

@TheHestya

2 жыл бұрын

Anger management would require her to give a shit about hurting people around her. She not only revels in his pain (clearly on display when she smirks during audio and video recordings of his distress), but she also doesn't think she's the bad guy. And oh boy is she the bad guy. She will never change. She doesn't give a shit about anyone but herself.

She ruined JD’s appeal. He’s not nearly as handsome. It’s not his fault but just noticing how much older he looks after going through the seven gates of hell from Amber

Any relationship that makes you feel worse about yourself, rather than better, is toxic! When you are left feeling unloved, drained and have been attacked in any way, is a sure sign that you're in a toxic relationship. No one is worth staying in a relationship that causes you constant pain and heartache.💔 💙KZreadr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

True gentle Johnny fans wish her no harm. We wish her help and a long shame filled life. The world knows the truth. Johnny can move forward, head held high. As it should be

Amber Heard and her mirror. Perfect relationship.

Amber Heard and my abusive ex are one in the same. I would love to see them together, although I realize this would never happen- these Personality disordered specimens must have someone who, at least in the beginning, can’t see thru their behavior. But it would be so satisfying to force them together and let them each have a taste of their own medicine.👐🏽👏🏽👐🏽👏🏽👐🏽👏🏽 Muwhaha

@elviragutierrez8396

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@sabinewee_3D

2 жыл бұрын

👍👍💯

@narcdetester2102

2 жыл бұрын

Put them all together on a remote island!

When you're traumabonding with a Narcissist, you're not ignoring red flags, you're unconsciously reliving something you're once had, mainly with a narcissistic parent. I'm quite sure she's a covert narcissist, though. My mother and an Ex are, the latter has made me feel exactly like JD said:" It felt like it did with my mother. " I thought I was a Borderline personality for three decades, I now know I'm not. BPD is misdiagnosed by 40%.

@martineshamzin7535

2 жыл бұрын

Very few people really have personality disorders. And honestly, the line between a personality type, and a personality disorder is not clearly defined. In the end she probably doesnt have a personality disorder either. If she did, I dont think she could work as effectively as she does in a creative field.

@martineshamzin7535

2 жыл бұрын

@@litty4553 Literally people lie and are selfish sometimes. And relationships get ugly. Its not illness. Its not anything. But if you need a safety blanket to hold onto, believe what you like.

@martineshamzin7535

2 жыл бұрын

@@litty4553 There is no such thing as a strictly defined norm for human behavior. And I have no idea what you are talking about, but Europe has a higher suicide rate then we do, not lower. They have a growing violent crime problem just as we do. They have much smaller population, so the numbers do not look as bad. We are far from the most violent country. We are not tops in school shootings, or anything else. Again; That is just a matter of our large population. When you look per capita, there is nothing unusual about this country. In fact, if we had a strictly defined "normal behavior" what would we do with the masses of people who dont behave like that? Im sure that its true that we have kids that commit crimes and are no good at emotional relationships because they were not raised by both a mother and a father. Im sure that the things we teach ins schools like that one group of people are oppressors, and another group is victims encourages crime. Being raised by a single mother is a very good predictor of criminal behavior. But it has nothing at all to do with sanity. People in prisons are perfectly sane. It has to do with selfishness. In fact, I consider being closed mined a form of selfishness, which I guess equates to "narcissism". What we need are more police, and putting more perfectly sane, but not law abiding people in prisons. Meanwhile, I guess you can explain to all of us what exactly defines "normal".

Johnny looked so good, but after Amber, he looks so old. Much older than his actual age..

Amber and Juicy Smollet together. The drama!

@Cerberus984

2 жыл бұрын

Alec Baldwin should be forced to marry Amber Heard and have it televised for our lulz.

@johnbuchman4854

2 жыл бұрын

I don't know --Amber probably wouldn't TIE THE KNOT with him...

@SamStone1964

2 жыл бұрын

Amber and Juicy would be hilarious. Who could tell the most unbelievable lies while holding eye contact. I'd like to see them on the red table with Jada. Along with Ezra Miller as suggested by a commenter above.

she was toxic and he put a ring on it if she can get a man to marry her any woman can or Jonny has really low standards

@Rollwithit699

2 жыл бұрын

Johnny shows many, many signs of a very abusive childhood. This is one.

@glamdolly30

2 жыл бұрын

Narcissistic abusers are very smart. Amber Heard set her sights on Depp as a trophy partner who could further her acting career. He was the perfect victim for her - a mega rich and powerful movie star, who as a survivor of childhood abuse, was a major Empath. That meant when he encountered abusive, domineering women like his mother, he responded the same way he always had - with passive, non-resistance. Amber Heard will have tested his boundaries early on and discovered to her delight, he would be very easy to dominate and manipulate. When they met Heard was in a relationship with a woman (she's a lesbian who was never into him). The relationship was marred by Heard's domestic abuse, and probably nearing its end (she spent a night in police cells for one physical assault on that woman in an airport). Depp was 14 years into his marriage to Vanessa Paradis. Heard 'love bombed' Depp in the early stages, as narcissistic abusers do. She flattered him, slept with him and told him she loved him early on, and basically swept him off his feet. This is how they gain control over their intended victim. And once they've hooked the victim with all this good stuff and got them committed, the mask falls off and they begin the 'de-valuing stage', telling the victim they're nothing special, not good enough for them, insulting them, gas-lighting them, and in worst cases like this one, physically attacking them too. By that time the victim is so in love with the abuser they blame themselves for the mistreatment and anger they're on the receiving end of. They are brainwashed into believing it's their fault, and they must do better to re-gain the loving, attentive partner the abuser once was. But that loving, attentive partner never existed - it was only ever an act. The abuser is the real person, and the sooner the victim realises that terrible truth and gets out, the safer they will be. I hope Johnny Depp commits to long term psychotherapy, to address the demons that allowed him to tolerate Amber Heard's serious abuse for so long. We learned through the court case, he had allowed her sister and many of her friends to abuse his kind nature too, moving them rent-free into neighbouring penthouse apartments (that alone showed he was no abuser as Heard claimed, as abusers isolate victims from their friends & support networks, they don't invite them to live next door!) Depp is said to have many hangers-on he thinks are friends, who he's given cash, homes and cars to, believing every hard luck story brought to him. He's naively trusted untrustworthy people to have free access to his homes. These people are parasites who have literally stolen from him - cash, jewellery, even his clothes. A few years ago this same legal team who represented him against Heard helped his sue a business manager who siphoned millions of dollars from him, without his knowledge. It's said many of Depp's supposed friends deliberately keep him drunk and drugged to facilitate their thefts from him. Abusers come in many guises, not only partners - now he's kicked the toxic ex-wife to the kerb with this court case, I hope he'll take a long hard look at the other people in his life who benefit from his patronage, and clear out the rest of the trash.

@Rollwithit699

2 жыл бұрын

@@glamdolly30 Well said.

@mariat108

2 жыл бұрын

Please watch That Umbrella Guy episode w a written deposition from a close JD friend. He testified that JD was bullied into the wedding. He was afraid of her reaction to breaking up with her. And look what happened.... all hell broke out. He did NOT want to marry her.

@jacquelinepayne2012

2 жыл бұрын

Quite often there is unfinished business from an abusive parent and so this probably made him believe he could cure Amber by being tolerant and loving her. Big mistake.

The interview scene in Number 2 was in Tokyo in January off 2015 while they were engaged. This would be after the night Johnny was photographed by Amber, curled up unconscious next to his bed in their hotel room. If he was this afraid of Amber, I’m thinking he didn’t just ‘fall asleep’ on the floor.

@Galemor1

2 жыл бұрын

😮😢

@sabinewee_3D

2 жыл бұрын

Ich habe das Gefühl, dass er während des Schlafes körperlich misshandelt wurde. ( Würgemale)

@olimpio69

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯 Johnny is no vulnerable baby boy

@CrystalShadow

2 жыл бұрын

She drugged him maybe

@raggedyannie6794

2 жыл бұрын

She did drug him . It’s on video where she gives him something

I am glad you noticed that too. I noticed the same reaction when I first watched it on KZread when the trial just started. I did not understand why JD showed nervousness, uneasiness with AH and unwillingness to look at AH, during the Japan film festival interview. After having watched AH lied on every abused situation on the witness stand, I, as a DV myself, could conclude why JD’s reaction during the Japan film festival. He was the DV, NOT AH. She set up Johnny from the very beginning when she met Johnny. I am so sorry for Johnny and feel his pain, confusion, and anxiety to leave her.

Keep it up Derek. By the way the new set up makes me feel like I am at a therapist office lol

You should do a video breaking down her full interview. That would be really interesting.

@fivenotewonder

2 жыл бұрын

I like dvs but also check out the behavioural arts channel some excellent stuff on there about her body language

She actually looked really annoyed at the suggestion to have a photo with the guy. She just appears to be a spoiled person that everything has to go her way or she’ll get angry.

In one pause (not this one) Johnny says something like, "I don't know where to go, I'm scared and I want to go home!" That was heartbreaking to me...as I believed it...

@narcdetester2102

2 жыл бұрын

I saw that piece of film, it was alarming

@hallymariah45

2 жыл бұрын

@@narcdetester2102 Yes, it was!

Dude this setup is very cool! That side angle showing the camera is great

I'm still recovering from a relationship I had 2 years ago where my beloved gf was telling her friends how terrible I was and misrepresenting me. One time I asked what her plans were because she was out for a long time, she said she met some friends and now going to party, said "come out if you want", so I did, and when I showed up I was turned away, defended by one of her friends and accused of trying to beat up my gf... I'd never spoken to this girl before and she's telling people to call the police on me! So much shit stirring behind the scenes! Beautiful girl, superficially nice and loved by everyone who doesn't know her, but absolutely evil behind the scenes and never said some horrible things to me about her friends behind their backs. She was turning everyone against each other as a way of making her seem better and getting attention.

Her and Elon deserve each other …. narcissist versus narcissist.

You missed a clue in the prank video. When she found out that her father and Johnny were pranking her she playfully slapped both of them. Her father just laughed and stood there. Johnny took a large step backwards. This is the reaction of someone who is used to being hit by someone.

I'm loving the new setup! Always excited to see your notification pop up!❤

@gratefulguy4130

2 жыл бұрын

Dr. Van Schaik

I knew you wouldn't disappoint. YT has been bombarding me with other body language channels and I didn't click on any, had to keep clicking, "Don't recommend this channel to me." People put up with hateful, psychotic people much more easily if said hateful person is conventionally attractive. It's sad how this gold digger got to waltz into his life, ruin it in both public and private matters, and then came out acting like she's the victim. I never believed her, but I can see why others did in the beginning, but not now. After they will have seen that she was happily cheating on Johnny, multiple times, with multiple different people. You don't get to claim you feared for your life because your husband was violent and jealous, whilst also personally escorting your lovers up the private elevator and into your husband's home.

@HeriEystberg

2 жыл бұрын

If you enjoy body language material, then why on earth would you tell the algorithm that you don't want to get recommendations for said material? 🤔 That makes no sense to me. I have found several other channels with body language experts and they are just as interesting, if not moreso. What is your reasoning behind your decision to block other channels?

@CherryDiMilo

2 жыл бұрын

@@HeriEystberg same, it was the only part of the comment I thought about, weird

Johnny was already in Australia so I don’t get why amber was even blaming Johnny about the dogs she clearly bought over without consent.

She ignored some toxic red flags in him too.

I feel bad for Johnny Depp that had to be super embarrassing having her pull that stunt with the dogs! The whole situation has to have taken a toll on him. He is more than likely not her last victim!

Thanks Derek. Note in the prank scene that she actually doesn't go along with taking a photo with the cop fan cuz it's Johnny's fan not hers, she won't lookup when he takes a picture.

Your relationship can also be nothing but a series of disasters. The few upswings are brief, unsatisfactory, and generally cost the abused partner in money, or time, or worry.

Saying "I love him" while shaking her head "no" ....contradiction body language

#10 is right on the money for me. What you said rang true in my marriage and is definitely a big part of the reason we're not together anymore. It had such an affect on me that I'm struggling in my new relationship even though she's nothing like my ex-wife, but damage was done and it will take awhile to heal.

I've been waiting for this! Thank you for posting!

It's funny, when she thought no one would believe him/side with him/still love him, she was distant. When everyone rallied behind him, suddenly "I still love him".

This piece needs to go viral! It is such vital information.

What about Christian Bale??? He has a strong personality and has been known to have similar personality traits as Amber Heard.

The more I learn about Mrs. Heard, the less I care about her.

Several years ago, I was diagnosed with BPD and it was a huge relief. Unlike Ms Heard who seems to be defiant in this diagnosis, I actually recognise my emotional difficulties but hers seems so severe and she appears full of malice - recording his every move and trying to defame him. You see, in spite of my diagnosis and my insecurities, I am a kind and very spiritual person whom just happens to have these awful mood swings - yet I take any harm out on myself. I don't think I could suggest a 'perfect match' for Ms Heard because if a partner was too soft she would wreck their confidence I imagine. Too capable of standing up to her would surely lead to a bloodbath. She seems to be very emotionally manipulative. Greetings from the UK and thank you for the video.

@anneblubaugh58

2 жыл бұрын

You are probably lower on the spectrum and you have JUST BPD! She has NPD and is histrionic and is also a sociopath! She is a sadist and likes hurting people! And enjoys it and doesn’t feel empathy

@lolitre881

2 жыл бұрын

@@anneblubaugh58 Hello! Thanks for your kind words. I wouldn't harm a fly and the worst I did was last night by throwing my partner's Pringles across the room in a BPD moment lol. I've never raised a hand, much less accuse anyone falsely of domestic and/or sexual violence when untrue. I hope you are having a lovely day and again, thank you for your considerate feedback xx

Thanks you for this video. In watching various videos of both of them together at various events I did get the sense that he was uncomfortable-that he didn't feel confident in her presence in public. Also, didn't AH sneak in the dogs to go meet JD in Australia?

Another masterpiece, indeed ! I want Amber to stay single for eternity .. LOL

I agree with many comments below. Everyone who is dating and planning a future should watch this video. Derek, you are doing a great service for both men and women.

I said ages ago We all should just ban her name cause she's getting attention, even if it's negative attention, which she seems to thrive on.

Spot on! And this applies to a malignant narcissist parent and the same in a child.Nothing you ever do, making your greatest sacrifices in life, will never be enough to satisfy them. Their only intent is to destroy you which gives them great glee. You can never trust even the smallest thing they say since they lie about everything habitually. They would not truth if it hit them over the head with a $10mil judgment.

Yeah JD she was luring you in. She couldn’t wait to sink her evilness in! Beware of the next. If she records you run. Normal people don’t do this. She was setting you up!

@journeylvr

2 жыл бұрын

She’s a predator!!

Amber cares about EVERYTHING when it comes to her image. * She picked a megastar w/ Millions of $ to fall in love with & to help her imagine. * she was setting him up from the beginning. She knew how old he was when they started dating! She was in her late 20s & JD was now in his 50s *She thought she could be part of the “Me Too” movement but it backfired on her. *She counter-sue JD to explain why this & that. If she didn’t care she would fade off into the sunset. *She gave an exclusive interview to tell the “haters” she understands why they & the jury feel the way they do about her. *** BULLSH*T Amber!!! Your just burning up inside bc you lost and your planning your next attack.

Razorfist, is that you? Great video. I have friends, who after the end of a tumultuous relationship, admit to having seen many red red flags. Some felt they could overlook them and help the person, others claim only upon looking back can they recognize.

Thank you for doing this video! I enjoy your explanation on behavior and body language

she is the first one who said she just wants to move on and to heal. When the jury and the world sees her for who she is and doesn't buy into her lies she is suddenly everywhere...not leaving Johnny alone, attempting to gaslight the world via MSM and doing a media tour. why is she not focusing on being a mom with her daughter?? she herself stated she could no, no calls with lawyers etc etc instead she is on a media tour. Her heinous acts and lies should not be rewarded. For real victims of DV, this is absolutely despicable...if the genders were reversed none of this would be occurring. I am a female victim of a male....and I fundamentally believe abuse knows no gender and treatment should be fair across the board. as a female she does not stand for me. as a victim she most certainly does not stand for me. MSM needs to STOP giving her any attention. She needs mental health guidance and help, now more than ever that she has a daughter. Book deals, maybe..in the future when she is able to take accountability and divulge her journey to a healthy mental and emotional state

Unfortunately I’m in a relationship like this right now, after having grown up in a house watching dad put up with similar from mom (we sisters had to put up with it too as we got older & developed independent personalities). listening to those tapes was arresting for me / made my skin crawl & my throat tighten - it’s amazing how crystal clear verbal abuse it is when I hear it as an independent witness but when it’s happening directly to me - I’m just trying to get through it - often apologizing & soothing my husband as he hurls venom. Really pisses me off that they paint this verdict as such a loss for women in the main-media. I know what it’s like to live with narcissist/borderline/histrionic people who don’t hit (much) but hurt and devastate people’s lives just the same - Ive felt it from a man and a woman. making that type of abuse more recognizable to more people (incl. women) will save many from standing for further abuse. It made me realize so clearly that I have to get out.

Thank you for bringing your take on this, and showing examples!. So different from everyone saying the same thing, as other channels.

A masochist seems like a good match for her. I think she has a bright future as a dominatrix.

@FabiolaMacabre

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah she could make money off of that , and she can be herself! there’s hope 😂

@giftysworld9988

2 жыл бұрын

If that doesnt work, she should try WWE or MMA 💪🙈

@cosmicmuffin322

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sure you're joking, but that's a real misconception about the word "sadist". A sadist (in the kinky sense) is someone who enjoys providing pleasure to someone through pain (obviously the recipient enjoys it too). And a masochist doesn't enjoy pain without their consent. However a true psychopathic sadist like Amber enjoys harming people, physically and mentally, and she enjoys it because the other person DOESN'T want it, just like a r*pist enjoys it because the victim DOESN'T want it. The two are completely, totally different.

@bastianena

2 жыл бұрын

@@cosmicmuffin322 I wasn't joking. There are different forms of masochism that aren't sexual in nature and that don't require consent from the masochist. But even if it was a joke, it wouldn't require a pedant's uncontrollable desire to correct others. Here's a joke for you: Why did the cosmic muffin fall down the stairs? He was baked!

"you are such a baby" cassette tape

Thank you, Derek! This is a very valuable video. 🌹 🌹 🌹

I think Charles Manson would have been a better fit. Or take a 10 mil time travel and married Roman Polanski in 1969

Amber not only cares what people think of her...but she spends a lot of her time thinking about what other people think of her. You could say she's obsessed with it

What happens to borderline personality disordered people when they get older? They're not going to age gracefully right?

@Galemor1

2 жыл бұрын

If they get on medication and find the right dose, they will avoid those violent moodswings and actually be great people (my ex friend is borderline) but they need to be on the medications for life, or they will revert. (which is why I say ex friend, I have been there, not going through it again)

@notagain2856

2 жыл бұрын

@@Galemor1 Amber also seems to have NPD (narcissistic personality disorder), which as far as I know can't be controlled with meds

@mymai5859

2 жыл бұрын

Narcissists never get better or kinder when they age. They are never accountable for anything they do. They just get meaner & manipulative alienating & hurting people while crying false victimhood. Old nasty Karen's who ruin their relationships with their kids.

@DesPardesCuisines

2 жыл бұрын

@@Galemor1 I also had to leave my friend because she was schizophrenic 🥲

@caobita

2 жыл бұрын

@@notagain2856 yes. She has NPD, too

AH didn't like the first ring he purchased, so he bought her another, then that ring was too big to wear and he purchased a third. He spoiled her and I think he tried to fix her when the problems started and they got out of hand. I never saw the interview he did when he was announcing he was going to marry her and the signs were definitely there with her but she duped him into believing she was the one and let her claws out later.

Thank You for breaking down and pointing out every detail of bodylanguage, word and behavior. Very good explained.