What do you think is most impactful to get someone to open up to you?

@KasumiRose77

Жыл бұрын

I watched this in order to find out what I'm doing wrong with my mate. Basically everything. I'm grateful for the help. I know this makes me look bad but he's ten years younger than me and is ADHD easily distracted. I can't change the environment and he's always got access to his phone. He lives at work and when he's off work he doesn't want to focus on me. Trying to get and keep his attention really frustrating. I've been doing these suggestions by accident already and it's been helping. this only confirms why it helps and it's put in a more positive way than how it was in my head.

@danajohnson6273

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking about this for my oldest. Most conversations with him are during car rides. I’ve learned SILENCE IS GOLDEN and repeating back what he says in my own words and then empathizing with his emotion: “I can see why that was unfair/ was frustrating/ scary.” Also, I ask for permission to offer my insight. Sometimes he just wants to vent and frustration is circumvented when I don’t offer unsolicited advice. I’ll express similar experiences, and how I felt. I ask if he’d like to know the rest of the story and how I resolved it…. Communication, next to health, is everything in life- I think this will be my goal for the second half of this year- to actively improve my communication.

@oldwelshlady6584

Жыл бұрын

Not trying to trick people to reveal more than they comfortable with.

@georgehenry76

Жыл бұрын

A gun to the forehead

@tsvetanstoychev655

Жыл бұрын

@@KasumiRose77 Listen to yourself but try to put yourself on the "other side". You sound like a loon. Not the other way around.

I personally don't want to tell an interrogator anything except that I need my lawyer.😂😂😂😂😂😂

@atlasintegrations4114

Жыл бұрын

3 points to remember during an interrogation prior to your lawyer arriving: 1) Shut up 2) Shut Up 3) SHUT UP!!! Hope that helps.

A blowtorch works pretty well

@mariaross7535

Жыл бұрын

Omg I thought that said blowjobs...I need to wear my glasses more...😳😳😳

@jtjames79

Жыл бұрын

Elon?

@TheKotor2309

Жыл бұрын

Blue flame works best, I’ve heard.

@anonymousadult

Жыл бұрын

I haven’t tried that YET… but I will keep it in mind for future use!

@jennidesilva5995

Жыл бұрын

😂 🔥 🔥 🔥

@ 4:00 I like the interrogator's strategy of talking constantly until the suspect screams, "Alright! I'll confess! Just stfu already!"

@emusunlimited

Жыл бұрын

That was the case of Michael Raferty. I can't remember the detective's name (I think it's Mike Smith) but he's legendary. Jim Can't Swim did a video on it a while back. It's incredibly disturbing what Raferty did, but thanks to efforts of the detective he's behind bars.

I work as a tattoo artist. People open up whether I want them to or not 😂

@lulumoon6942

Жыл бұрын

I CAN ONLY IMAGINE

@SporthighlightsS1

Жыл бұрын

Gotta study some psychology for that good way to help them and make them come more to you’re tatto store

@Shann381

4 ай бұрын

I wish there was a hat that had a button you could hit so that a partition came down like in a limousine lol

Love this channel so much. Been one of my favourites for years. Quality is unmatched. Knowledge rings SO true and Derek is perfect mix of expert and entertainment. Top Notch!

I actually really love these videos as a parent LOL! I know I'm a sound completely insane but kids and teenagers can sometimes act like little mischievous criminals so these breakdowns are excellent for being a parent! I have used so many of your breakdowns and body language analysis to catch my kids in a lie! I actually studied law and took 3 years of college to prepare to be a police officer but it never came to fruition so we learned a lot about reading body language back then as well. Your analysis and videos are very similar to what we would study and practice. Keep up the awesome work on the videos!

@quirogatnonerrat3214

Жыл бұрын

I completely agree, kids are dangerous. They are either victims or abusers.

@human7491

Жыл бұрын

Kids are ALWAYS victims. Adolescents are OFTEN victims. Adults are FULLY responsible.

I have the opposite problem, everyone feels the need to confess to me wherever I go, when I just want to be left alone.

Never ever talk to LE about anything, lawyer up immediately!

Rank #1 youtuber back at it again with the heat! Missed you man appreciate the vid

I really enjoy this longer form content. The shorts just doesn't do it for me, so thank you for taking your time to deliver something more meaningful and comprehensive.

The way I do it is to get the person off the defensive. Works every time.

Finally, I can start my own cult

Great video. When my son was having a problem, he wouldn't respond to my questions. I suggested we play with Legos and sure enough, he'd open up without me asking. I know police and military interrogators who say the first thing is to make the subject feel comfortable. The police interrogator also said that people feel a need to confess but the conditions have to be right.

I believe I would probably tell you everything Derek! I am a big fan of your channel. Thank-You

I have noticed a significant difference in your form of presentation over the last year. I was curious as to what you were hoping to achieve with this different dynamic? Appreciate all the input because I can go use it on my friends who use to do it professionally. 😁

Your voice-ing and enunciation is a cross between Rod Serling and Jordan Peterson.

Thanks for this insightful video Bro, hope your studies are going good. 😊👍

Brilliant! Thank you for sharing!

Love how this guy says phycologists 🔥

The waterboarding method works too

An absolute diamond of a video, as always. At the end, why did you remove the video of yourself for a few seconds while the music was playing ? I find it gave a very unique and important twist. Is it because you wanted to display links et c ?

We need a body language video about the Las Vegas alien & the government ufo whistle blower that came out the same night!!!!

"I care because you care" ❤

sometimes i forget your channels name and i remember the way you say welcome bake shakers,that sticks in the head.keep making more of these pls

The Watts case is a great study of interrogation tactics...

@3:50 - Canadian here. The main detective that interrogated and shrunk Michael Rafferty, Jim Smyth, was a master at getting suspects to talk. He even brought down Canadian serial killer Russell Williams. Everything that motormouth here wasn't

I'm not a detective, psychiatrist, therapist or a interrogator but I literally use all these techniques I guess naturally and now I feel like I'm a bad person😆😆

@lulumoon6942

Жыл бұрын

Could be a career skill

Do a video on the latest ufo whistle-blower !

Thank you.

Get them drunk

Always informative. Always handsome.

I wish you were my Dr. or integrator. 😂😂😂

I would love to see you do an analysis of the Phillip Scofield interview that is becoming quite popular.

Hope life is treating you well.

whats the psychology behind the random emphasis you put on the "k" sound in psychology? and other random syllables in other random words. nothing wrong with it im just genuinely curious bc you didn't always do that. still love your channel tho, i miss your body language analysis videos!

I used to be a nurse and till this day my husband is amazed at what people will tell me even in a grocery store. Once at disney I had a person sitting on a bench next to me start telling me about his bowels it's weird

Much obliged.

My whole life, people tell me a lot when I barely know them. Im not sure why this is. Im 52 and it’s happening exponentially over time. What is the reason for this….

@cerealchild166

Жыл бұрын

It might be that you look like a trustworthy person in their eyes!!

I would stock the interrogation room with tequila lol

Book recommendation here... Mindreader by David Lieberman. It puts the principles in this video on steroids. Also, Rapport by Laurence Alison.

@unknowninfinium4353

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the recommendation king.

@craigfinnegan8534

Жыл бұрын

​@@unknowninfinium4353 That's what my mother said to me when I recommended to her a book on how to raise children who don't go around making recommendations.

@unknowninfinium4353

Жыл бұрын

@@craigfinnegan8534 These are dire and challenging times, still you have the heart, consideration and some thought to allow people to grow so for that and on behalf of all the family and friends you help and will help - Thank you King.

@craigfinnegan8534

Жыл бұрын

​​@@unknowninfinium4353 Thank you for such kind words. You're right about me, I hold growth in knowledge and wisdom (and love and freedom) in highest regard. But you could only have said that if you're much the same as I am.

I've always been a closed and locked book I can sit in silence for hours days maybe

This reminded me of Terry Goodkind book Wizards First Rule which is “people are stupid”

Train stations give me the creeps.

Pls do one on David Grush 🙏 😮

If I ever got in serious trouble, Derek is the last person I'd want interrogating me. You may as well just admit what you did lol, it'll be less painful in the long run. Edit: because he's going to figure you out eifher way.

I will use this secret

Wow. A lot goes into interrogations.

cover the Reid method

Would any of this work on an introvert?

Dude? No David Grusch analysis yet???? Bummer 😮

7:13 did he ??? 😁😁

9:13 tell that to cops.

Definitely not passing judgment has served me well, and people tend to be really open to me, but i also show them that no topic will really shock me. Going over past experiences has helped quickly break down barriers. I find that showing respect even in extraordinary circumstances goes a long way. For about 5 years I would help notify and inform victims of revenge nude posting of the said postings and in the initial message give then all the detail they needed to remove the postngs, In extreme cases i would provide how-to on disabling fb links to help ease the onslaught of terrible people. More often than not, this would lead to people putting more trust in me than anyone else they have ever done prior because it is dealing with them at their most vulnerable. I think when your intentions are pure, people can truly sense it. Gladly, the internet has become better than it was in the 2010s from this standpoint, and social media companies (facebook) try to shield people better in some ways.

What does it mean if you like psychology and manipulation???

@atlasintegrations4114

Жыл бұрын

I have lived long enough to know this... 3/4 of all therapists/psychologists need more therapy than the average person. That is respectfully stated.

@TheListOf

Жыл бұрын

It means you've been repeatedly psychologically manipulated in the past and have a burning need to find out why.

In my field of work, I use most of these techniques on a regular basis and they are very effective. Excellent video as usual Derek 👌

How has the title/thumbnail changed like 3 times already

Interesting. It does depend on the person, the situation, the others involved. One time, years ago, I was in a situation at work, with an older lady who worked in the cafeteria of the building where I was in charge. This lady had a difficult time with Blacks. I would arrive early, before 7 a.m., and have coffee before I reported in. She would come right over to my table, there was no one else around, and distressfully voice her fears and trepidations about having "so many of them around," and "all the noise they make." I would listen, not agreeingly, but in such a way as to keep her going. I knew also that this was an unhealthy woman who probably needed to retire. These conversations would happen almost daily, every time revealing some small outrage this woman experienced the day before with one of her Black coworkers, always blaming a black person for this or that. Well, one day, this woman, Dorothy, accused one the daily cleaning crew, a reliable, good worker named Troy, of stealing a juice drink out the freezer cabinet. No doubt she confused his cell phone with one of the bottles from the freezer, cell phones were bigger 20 years ago. Dorothy created a big embarrassing scene calling Troy a thief. Management was called in. It was a mess. I was in a security position then, and I revealed Dorothy's daily rants in a tasteful way to the detective I reported to, and Dorothy was reassigned and Troy was not fired.

❤

- You know... you remind me of my father... I hated my father

I know it was just an example but the interrogator at 3:55 one of the best ever. The guy was a pedo and asked for a lawyer. They guy stayed quiet but the interrogator didn't lol

Why is he moving his eyebrows like some James Bond villain?

They can't get anything out of me, I'm an introvert. :-) :-)

Please, pretty please, could you analyse the body language of UAP whistle-blower David Grusch? I really value your opinion.

Only works on typicals lol

Sorry another post. This video got me going... You need yourself a Watson, just like Sherlock Holmes. A sidekick who barely keeps up and is ok with being duped by your wit.

So, Derek, you really appear to enjoy producing these videos. What do you enjoy most about it?.....(long silence).....

What’s going on with D’s eyebrows? Most particularly when he says the word “psychology.”

It's been over 2 years since a video on this channel has reached over 1 million views...

@remybuitenhuis2433

Жыл бұрын

Because 1 million is a lot.

Creepy lighting!

@cyana5867

Жыл бұрын

I like the lighting. It’s the Rorschach pictures behind him that’s creepy to me.😅

...🤔...

Colleen Ballinger would be an interesting subject... she is kind of a wolf in a sheeps skin 😂

I think during the cold war a lot of spies found most of their success just by getting their target a few drinks and then smoked a joint with them or spike their ciggarette with weed. I'm not even joking.

You should do a body language analysis of the BBC Andrew Tate interview. As well as Elon Musks latest interview. It is so easy to see the motive and mal-intention from the interviewers

Thought about giving this video a "thumbs down' due to over theatrics, laughed instead. tone it down a little and you may get a 'Thumbs Up'. enjoyed your content..

Why do you have so many depictions of pelvises behind you, Derek? ..and what does it say about me that it’s all I see in every one?

i think u used a bad example of interrogators talking too much- can't remember the name of that horrific child killer guy, but the interrogator (whose name i also can't remember but who was phenomenal) kept talking on purpose so the pos couldn't think of lies and excuses to tell. he didn't want to give him headspace. a better example would have been the donkey who interrogated Grant Amato and basically made it very hard for the far better female interrogator to get decent info out of Amato, interrupting her at bad moments, blabbering on when Amato was about to speak etc

ASU 🌞 😈 '07

No they can't. I'm so closed off. I refuse to see a shrink or THE RAPIST (therapist... THE RAPIST)

This dude is so creeoy now. What happened?

@Goodhello369

Жыл бұрын

I dig the vibe lol

@prophetmargin7497

Жыл бұрын

He's Jim Carrey's son, I thought everybody new that!

@atlasintegrations4114

Жыл бұрын

Jim Carrey's son? Hahahaha. Oh snap! I love this guy. However, there is more to what he shows... A lot more. Only a special bread of people can do what he does or use what he does, and I have met a few. Enjoy the intellect they display and the diversionary tactics that are so subtle. Awesome!

@prophetmargin7497

Жыл бұрын

@@atlasintegrations4114 Yeah, I know what you mean, its like this guy is really an actor who's been hired to play some nerdy youtuber, so the people behind him can push whatever agenda they want!