Why Paulina Porizkova Still Loves Ric Ocasek and Thinks the Will Was a Mistake

Although they were getting divorced, Paulina Porizkova always thought that she and Ric Ocasek would remain best friends and family forever. When Ashleigh Banfield asked her about the painfully publicized omission from his will, Paulina explains how she and their children choose to believe it was a mistake, and that he didn’t realize the full impact of what he signed at the time.
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This segment originally aired on 3/10/21.

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  • @TheBent139
    @TheBent1393 жыл бұрын

    Love her, she takes responsibility in other interviews for not being wise financially by allowing her money to be controlled by others. She now teaches women to be aware financially so this does not happen to them. She is clearly not destitute either and is modeling again in her 50's. She will always be beautiful in my eyes.

  • @madeleine7411
    @madeleine74112 жыл бұрын

    Paulina is such a class act. She is generous, honest and real. She was hurt and treated unfairly and yet, defends how that act of disinheritance might have not have been Ric's intention. She is someone I would love to have been friends with.

  • @michaelidarecis

    @michaelidarecis

    Жыл бұрын

    Such BS how was she a class act when Rick was Married to Suzanne and Paulina caused the divorce? Really that is your friend? What does that say about you?

  • @priyanka1649

    @priyanka1649

    Жыл бұрын

    She cheated with a married man. Karma

  • @clairechloe5294

    @clairechloe5294

    Жыл бұрын

    👍👍👍👍👍Well said.

  • @Michi444-8
    @Michi444-83 жыл бұрын

    Paulina is graceful and gorgeous inside and out

  • @almaalcaraz7083
    @almaalcaraz70833 жыл бұрын

    Paulina is still so beautiful. Thank goodness she hasn't touched her face.

  • @KristinaTurnerAquarius

    @KristinaTurnerAquarius

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@debra13 But not like Melanija Knavs Knauss Trump who looks a lot different because of surgery from when she was a young model.

  • @greenleaf8226

    @greenleaf8226

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@debra13 she has had maitanace procedures that rejuvenate and relax her face, but she has done no plastic surgery.

  • @greenleaf8226

    @greenleaf8226

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@KristinaTurnerAquarius difference is Paulina has a brain, Melania's brain left somewhere longtime ago on indeffinate leave!

  • @greenleaf8226

    @greenleaf8226

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@debra13 no facial maintance does not always mean fillers...i for example have done maintance like CO2 or specific facials + certain facial yoga...i'm not saying this is what she has done, but if she has basics like botox or fillers to fill out hollows...why not.

  • @greenleaf8226

    @greenleaf8226

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@debra13 well if you dont really care...+ your obviously bothered by this discusion that you take opinion personally and want to end it so quickly...then you shouldn't have made any assumed beauty care comments in the 1st place!

  • @anaisr.s.6645
    @anaisr.s.66453 жыл бұрын

    HOW MANY women DEVOTED their lifes to men who DID NOT deserve it...

  • @lastfewtokes

    @lastfewtokes

    2 жыл бұрын

    HOW MANY men DEVOTED their *lives to women who DID NOT deserve it..

  • @BigB932

    @BigB932

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes beauty is very shallow. What else can it be?

  • @lennertcornette

    @lennertcornette

    2 жыл бұрын

    With women initiating 70% of divorces I'd think it's men who devoted their lifes, it's MEN who are happy with their current love, it's WOMEN who are always looking for the next best thing.

  • @plantlvr

    @plantlvr

    Жыл бұрын

    Me 3 times, happily single for over 20 years. I'm not good at picking partners 😉

  • @LeeannaSloan

    @LeeannaSloan

    4 ай бұрын

    I have always been a big fan of the cars and ric. Yet I don't think he was probably emotionally there for her. All her interviews sound like he ignored her and she just couldn't stand it anymore. It happens all the time as women get older. Men may stay in marriages longer then women but men also have lives outside of the home and jobs, that they put first. The wife is at home trying to make a family and giving 100 while me are giving maybe 40 percent. Men stay because they are fine with the situation. They get their cake and eat it to. Women don't. I think that's why more women leave marriages. That's just my opinion I'm not saying it is every situation but I have been around a lot of divorce and heard both sides and that is the majority of the reason the woman was done.

  • @downunderoioi3421
    @downunderoioi34213 жыл бұрын

    Paulina is more beautiful than ever, omg she is a absolute darling

  • @randallcastonguay6353
    @randallcastonguay63532 жыл бұрын

    I lived in New Braintree, MA many years ago and my farm bordered the infamous recording studio Longview Farm. One particular day back in the 80's, I noticed a tall man with scraggly hair walking in one of my fields... I went outside and wandered over to greet the man and he explained that he was recording over at the studio. At that very moment, I suddenly realized that the person in front of me was Ric Ocasek! He explained that he had gotten lost while taking a walk and asked for directions back. Seizing on the moment, I offered to drive him back to the studio. He accepted and I was more than happy to give him a ride. A few days later, I received 2 tickets to one of their concerts and 2 backstage passes with a note that read simply; "A small gesture in return for your kind gesture. RO" I will never forget the man and that moment in time! RIP RO...

  • @daisypetal2487
    @daisypetal24873 жыл бұрын

    It sucks feeling betrayed by someone you trusted. I hope Paulina can heal from this.

  • @sandeeprana-yo3wm

    @sandeeprana-yo3wm

    3 жыл бұрын

    She was divorcing him when he was dying what the fuck do you think she deserved.

  • @mareeenchen4164

    @mareeenchen4164

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sandeeprana-yo3wm that is not true. He did not want to be married anymore. She did.

  • @sandeeprana-yo3wm

    @sandeeprana-yo3wm

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mareeenchen4164 the fact that 80% divorces are initiated by women and it is exceptionally rare for men to file it. She must have fucked up real bad. Anyways he doesn’t owe her shit. She had her own money. In the times when women say they don’t need men but want one. I don’t think any women should be entitled to any claim over a man’s assets.

  • @mareeenchen4164

    @mareeenchen4164

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sandeeprana-yo3wm He was much much older than her. She said in an interview that the age gap perhaps finally made a difference but to HIM not to her. She was the one that wanted to stay married, she even kept living with him. She did have her own money and she put it all into the marriage. Most women are wonderful, caring and empathetic creatures by nature. I see her like that too and I doubt that she srewed him over.

  • @terguliruk2224

    @terguliruk2224

    2 жыл бұрын

    She was too beautiful for her husband physically.. m saying cuz l got jealous of her husband... I dn't know what others saying beauty inner beauty blah blah... 😌😌😏

  • @yabe1496
    @yabe14963 жыл бұрын

    This beautiful lady is traumatized and in denial. Hope she heals.

  • @katemaloney4296
    @katemaloney42963 жыл бұрын

    Paulina MUST write a book--if for no other reason than to help other spouses from experiencing what she's gone through.

  • @michaelidarecis

    @michaelidarecis

    Жыл бұрын

    YES SHE NEEDS TO tell other young women who are 19 not to be a side chick to a 40 year old man that is married. Good Idea!

  • @priyanka1649

    @priyanka1649

    Жыл бұрын

    @@michaelidarecis she whored herself to a married man

  • @gingerchipper
    @gingerchipper3 жыл бұрын

    Paulina, in my opinion, is the most beautiful model to ever grace a magazine cover. She is also very intelligent and down to earth.

  • @natashathepolyglot
    @natashathepolyglot3 жыл бұрын

    She is such a gorgeous woman and she also seems like really nice person...

  • @CP-nl2zb
    @CP-nl2zb3 жыл бұрын

    Another Empath Stepped On By A Narcissist.

  • @kitchensh6889

    @kitchensh6889

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well said

  • @crystalship9900

    @crystalship9900

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right, she’s absolutely the narcissist. And he the empath?? Highly doubtful.

  • @CP-nl2zb

    @CP-nl2zb

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@crystalship9900 she is an empath.

  • @CP-nl2zb

    @CP-nl2zb

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@crystalship9900 He is the Narc!

  • @CP-nl2zb

    @CP-nl2zb

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@crystalship9900 Did you watch the entire video? She is caring for the home during the divorce and caring for him during surgery = empath.

  • @suzannebrady6201
    @suzannebrady62013 жыл бұрын

    She is such a sweet person

  • @jbt6007
    @jbt60073 жыл бұрын

    Paulina is very smart and she will go on and do extremely well!

  • @jessicalandi6750
    @jessicalandi67503 жыл бұрын

    Love this lady. What an honest, joyful, kind, and delightful human being Paulina is!

  • @priyanka1649

    @priyanka1649

    Жыл бұрын

    She’s clinically depressed now, according to her Instagram

  • @1splat23
    @1splat232 жыл бұрын

    She is so stable and collected in the interview. Such a classy woman.

  • @tinamartina1801

    @tinamartina1801

    8 ай бұрын

    😮I do not think so. Exactly the opposite

  • @gulammehdisumar1599
    @gulammehdisumar15992 жыл бұрын

    Paulina. You are so gracious and kind. You have a big heart ❤️ filled with humanity. Love you.

  • @elmobolan4274
    @elmobolan42743 жыл бұрын

    When they 1st became a couple, I was a teenager, I was always a little confused as to how he landed such a beautiful, beautiful woman....and I'm still confused as to how it ended...😕

  • @LB-gz3ke

    @LB-gz3ke

    3 жыл бұрын

    Rock stars always get hot chicks. It doesn't matter what the guy looks like.

  • @laurahhh69

    @laurahhh69

    3 жыл бұрын

    Weren't we all!!!!

  • @latsnojokelee6434

    @latsnojokelee6434

    3 жыл бұрын

    She explained in another interview that Rick’s first wife had taken him to the cleaners years and years ago and when he got old he wasn’t entirely thinking clearly - kind of taking revenge on the wrong woman.

  • @Rose..

    @Rose..

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm confused too. She is so gorgeous and smart she could have gotten one of the best men out there and yet she chose him. He looks like he could be Olive Oyl's brother! I know it's not about looks but there should be at least a little compatibility in that regard! And to top it off, he ended up betraying her!

  • @naturalkinkycurlymarie7496

    @naturalkinkycurlymarie7496

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@latsnojokelee6434 He was thinking very clearly. Her Pride won't allow her to accept what he had done. He's gone so she will say anything. Especially so he won't look bad to the kids they shared.

  • @allysonturner7232
    @allysonturner72323 жыл бұрын

    Love her. She's so real. At her very best in life. Look forward to hearing/seeing more of her.

  • @aliasmarg8ta127
    @aliasmarg8ta1273 жыл бұрын

    I used to have a crush on Paulina when she was modelling. was floored when I heard she married Ric Ocasek. So much older etc. She is still a drop-dead gorgeous woman. It absolutely terrible how it tuned out. Whether it was Rick or his lawyers, it is terribly unfair to her. I hope it turns out well for her.

  • @manningviralmedia9256
    @manningviralmedia92563 жыл бұрын

    The Snake hired a Shark lawyer, so sad. I believe she will be fine moving forward.

  • @patrickprendergast9589

    @patrickprendergast9589

    3 жыл бұрын

    probably not how will she make it with 55 million look at her net worth

  • @pepper1188

    @pepper1188

    3 жыл бұрын

    Her Estee Lauder money couldn't hold her over..lol..how much money does a person need???

  • @shannon9155
    @shannon91552 жыл бұрын

    Ric Ocasek stated in the will she abandoned him. She was out yahoo-ing with another man as he was ailing at home. So he was ticked off and probably said I'll show you.

  • @Janine11155
    @Janine111553 жыл бұрын

    I think her choice regarding how the change in the will happened is quite reasonable. It's very, very sad. I know what it feels like to be cut out by someone you loved, and it becomes the "period" on the end of the sentence of a whole lifetime's relationship. It is very hard. And it's normal that people often don't have control at the end of their lives. I think she's very brave. I wish she would make her own cosmetics line or some other enterprise that is unique and distinctive to her. She is great.

  • @jbilotta
    @jbilotta3 жыл бұрын

    I've never been married and I truly understand how everyone goes into it hoping it will be forever. The more stories I see like this, the more I think sharing my heart with someone, esp. in marriage may not be the best thing, unless I get a pre-nup and do it that way.

  • @lindaellen808

    @lindaellen808

    2 жыл бұрын

    Back then never heard of such a thing as a pre-nup agreement ,like nowadays with people with fortunes .

  • @annmateaki2893

    @annmateaki2893

    2 жыл бұрын

    No, it's when you bring your past baggage into your men or women choices and don't include God and sacrifice. It's when you marry a man that you know deep inside doesn't love you. Funny thing is, SHE actually made him and his sons secure and safe. She used her savings. She cleaned and provided. She loved and cared for. She was her own caretaker. It's when you ignore your intuition and red flags 🚩🚩...for so many years. It's when you don't see your worth and see the bigger picture. The picture being that you are an example to so many others. You live your life as a beacon of light and see that your choices will affect how others choose. Most importantly, BOTH, YOU and HIM need to have clear set objectives and similar goals from the beginning. You need to have more in common then both being the same culture and one being older. He was brainwashed by outer jealous influences. He was not mature.

  • @fargnbastage

    @fargnbastage

    2 жыл бұрын

    Do not let stories like this dissuade you from falling in love, getting married, and sharing your life with someone else. Marriage is not roses and tulips and sunshine 24/7. It is work. Both people have to be aware of this. Both people have to realize there is a give and take and there will be times you just want the other person to shut up and leave you alone. But when you really think about....you wouldn't want any other person to be mad at. You wouldn't want any other person to have an argument with and then make up with later. Life is a shitshow as it is, don't let other people's bad stories affect your life. That's their life. This is yours.

  • @tai.dewitte
    @tai.dewitte2 жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful person!! so grounded and strong, yet light and uplifted 🙏❤️💐

  • @maryuline2585
    @maryuline25852 жыл бұрын

    I have become interested in Paulina's story because I have recently re discovered The Cars. Ric Ocasek was always a strange, mysterious guy. He is the one who broke up the band and unfortunately subsequently Benjamin Orr who was a Co-Founder of The Cars was betrayed by him and never got over that after the demise of the group. But now it makes perfect sense, that's who Ric was. A person who would betray his closest friends and loved ones. How could he cut Paulina out of his will after 26 years of marriage and 2 children ! You can't even understand that.

  • @michaelidarecis

    @michaelidarecis

    Жыл бұрын

    You might understand it better if you realize that Rick was married to Suzanne and Paulina was the SIDE CHICK that was upgraded.

  • @priyanka1649

    @priyanka1649

    Жыл бұрын

    She abandoned him

  • @vambo13257

    @vambo13257

    8 ай бұрын

    There is another side to the story and Ric did not reveal what caused him to do this

  • @cate499
    @cate4993 жыл бұрын

    She gave him two sons and they were married for thirty-five years. I am appalled by what he did to her. It would be okay if he wanted the divorce but not her. If he couldn't own her, he would embarrass her and leave her with as little as possible. I wonder if he ever loved her. I doubt it. Or he would not have been so cruel.

  • @ladyjade6446

    @ladyjade6446

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes pretty vindictive

  • @angelumaya320

    @angelumaya320

    3 жыл бұрын

    Where did you get your story from? I had read before he died he let her go because she was much younger and healthier and he was not working and very sick. He let her go, and she left and got her own place. At that time there was no word or indication that this was anything but mutual and in fact she was ready to move on and did with his blessing.

  • @johnm249

    @johnm249

    2 жыл бұрын

    She got paid $6 million per year as a model in her younger days and shared that money with her family. So that is too bad she did not invest a lot of it herself. Ric was likely hurt and angry as she probably did not spend a lot of time with him at the end of the marriage. But Ric was an asshole for not taking care of his 2 sons from previous relationship.

  • @zebra.babes123

    @zebra.babes123

    2 жыл бұрын

    He's narcissistic, expect that from b

  • @minacerra

    @minacerra

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@angelumaya320 nope. In her words, he treated her like a piece of the furniture, didnt desire her, notice her etc. All emotional and mental abuse if you ask me. So she put it out there and said, well if you're wanting a divorce be cause you don't seem invested....and he pretty much said well it seems you've made your mind up. Didn't say no, didn't fight for her. This was in another interview she gave. I think due to her daddy issues she overlooked a lot in her marriage. He was a screwey and self loathing individual. A real dickhead, and if it wasn't for her own traumas, she would have ditched him years ago.

  • @Robin-no8cu
    @Robin-no8cu3 жыл бұрын

    I always thought she was cool. Now I also think she is gracious, intelligent and WAY cool.

  • @jennifergottliebel-azhari149
    @jennifergottliebel-azhari1493 жыл бұрын

    The age difference not the deal but the fact he literally paid no attention to the kids he had beforehand. Total destructive narcissist how can anyone treat their kids like this. She was ok with that?

  • @johnm249

    @johnm249

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have mixed feelings about the whole thing. Part of me thinks Ric is a dick for treating her badly. Then I think she is a bitch for abandoning Ric. But no dispute about how Ric is a total asshole for not taking care of 2 of his kids from a previous relationship. Ric is in a bad situation right now likely near the hot fire of hell for his life choices.

  • @joykole1517
    @joykole15173 жыл бұрын

    that interviewer.....a bit harsh, don't you think???

  • @lilyotv9767
    @lilyotv97673 жыл бұрын

    I like this hair color on her. Hope this all works out very soon. She is unique and beautiful and and I think she'd do so well if she went back to school and used her smarts and amazing creativity to move onto the next thrilling chapter of her life.

  • @blue3381
    @blue33812 жыл бұрын

    Why aren't cosmetic companies knocking on her door for an ad campaign?? She epitomizes "growing old gracefully."

  • @karennaumann3408
    @karennaumann34083 жыл бұрын

    So sorry for your loss. He surly had plenty of time to take care of it. Like the day of your marriage. He was older, it should have been done immediately. I am so sorry. Paulina you are Amazing! I am so sorry for your loss.

  • @deenibeeniable
    @deenibeeniable3 жыл бұрын

    If you really want to write someone out of your will, you leave them a dollar. So they don't think you just "forgot."

  • @maryjaneerardfineartllc4979

    @maryjaneerardfineartllc4979

    3 жыл бұрын

    No. If you mention them they have a way in

  • @deenibeeniable

    @deenibeeniable

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@maryjaneerardfineartllc4979 good grief. another urban myth bites the dust.

  • @paulawhite2546

    @paulawhite2546

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes. This is what my biological dad did to me. I had only seen him a half dozen times. He never paid my Mother child support. Oddly enough, he wanted to see me when he was near death.

  • @deenibeeniable

    @deenibeeniable

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@paulawhite2546 That is so sad. I'm sorry to hear how he treated you but it's ...what's the word? poignant? that he wanted to see you before he died. He probably wished he had been in your life more.

  • @heidiferrazzifarnkopf7373
    @heidiferrazzifarnkopf73732 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful lady with a huge heart ❤️

  • @user-ls4vb6dq7z
    @user-ls4vb6dq7z3 жыл бұрын

    Paulina is a class act. There were never rumors of infidelity; they led a rather quiet life with no scandal. I also believe she will be fine.

  • @justlearning6371

    @justlearning6371

    3 жыл бұрын

    She had a boyfriend

  • @marlajacques6947

    @marlajacques6947

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@justlearning6371 ya and he knew about the boyfriend. They were separated as spouses 2 years before this but still remained close

  • @Calliegrls1
    @Calliegrls13 жыл бұрын

    She is such a class act!

  • @tinat5484
    @tinat54843 жыл бұрын

    This interviewer has no sympathy and looking for her to break. Shame

  • @gabbi_fnacct0172

    @gabbi_fnacct0172

    3 жыл бұрын

    damn exactly what i was thinking

  • @emalynicole1006

    @emalynicole1006

    3 жыл бұрын

    No.. she is empathizing with her

  • @angelumaya320

    @angelumaya320

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well,Ashley Banfield is a lawyer and TV Court analyst and she is actually very good and fact driven. I think she senses Paulina is not the super innocent little Church mouse. Paulina was clear before Rick died that she had moved out, they broke up, and she was living on her own and dating other people. Now he's gone and she wants everyone to forget those little details.

  • @halmcclain3322
    @halmcclain33223 жыл бұрын

    One of the world's most beautiful women for decades, still is!

  • @cleawox
    @cleawox2 жыл бұрын

    Love her. Ric was sadly classless in the end. Such a shame. The Cars were an incredible band.

  • @ur_favone
    @ur_favone2 жыл бұрын

    You can tell that she really loved him. Even after he betrayed her at the last moment, she still defends him.

  • @gerardburns1165
    @gerardburns11653 жыл бұрын

    She is intelligent and still beautiful. I hope she continues to prosper and blaze a trail as she has.

  • @sportycornelius6856
    @sportycornelius68562 жыл бұрын

    Maybe it was a mistake, maybe not. I had something similar happen to me and it was due to outside influences whispering in his ear. Very hurtful when you've spent most of your life with someone and had their children.

  • @GA-1st
    @GA-1st3 жыл бұрын

    Years ago, I went through an acrimonious divorce. It was the worst experience of my life. She was screwed and tattooed, no doubt. But for me, the death of my ex at that time wouldn't have been the worse thing - I'm just kidding! Ms.Porizkova has my total sympathy. That said, unlike her, I didn't have the proceeds from the sale of a 10 million dollar townhome to help me get through the financial straits and future uncertainty. Unless she had no major debt, all she need do is learn to downsize her lifestyle, and she'll be fine. I'd wager she's still in demand in the entertainment /fashion/ modeling/ luxury goods industry, and it's undoubtedly just a matter of time till she meets a new Mr. Right...

  • @mrenae6798
    @mrenae67982 жыл бұрын

    She is absolutely gorgeous and sweet, and strong in most areas. HOWEVER, there’s denial here regarding her husband. I hear the excuses. My heart goes out to her. I pray that she can break free from those areas that are robbing her of living in the present and be able to experience more joy.

  • @Iworkwithnitwits
    @Iworkwithnitwits3 жыл бұрын

    Cindy Crawford knew that modeling had a short shelf life and now she is a billionaire because she started her own skincare business.

  • @iwantthe80sback59

    @iwantthe80sback59

    2 жыл бұрын

    Before that, she married a billionaire. Stephanie Seymour (a model and the bride in the GnR vid November Rain) also married a billionaire. Neither of those 2 guys have anything in the looks department.

  • @kissmy_butt1302
    @kissmy_butt13023 жыл бұрын

    It was surprising this happened. I knew three people that either worked for The Cars in the studio, friends with the band or worked for SI. The two comments they all said is she was smart as a whip and very outspoken. It is odd to hear her lose her accent.

  • @Salard007
    @Salard0073 жыл бұрын

    PAULINA IS AN ANGEL!

  • @lukelee3
    @lukelee33 жыл бұрын

    Paulina looks human, beautiful human

  • @msgreat3648
    @msgreat36483 жыл бұрын

    she is a such beauty inside and outside

  • @carolannea7861
    @carolannea78613 жыл бұрын

    It was the Lawyers. Ashleigh- please do a quick video on your new hair! Love it!! 😻

  • @KS-hi8vi
    @KS-hi8vi3 жыл бұрын

    Best way to feel about it otherwise she wld be PISSED. But it’s a warning to not let anyone have financial control over you. Had they been divorced she wld be in worse financial stress. He spent all her $$$ during the marriage so I think her husband was bitter she was divorcing him. He knew what he was doing. She let him control all the finances and at one point made more $$$ than him. Don’t blame the lawyer her husband didn’t have her back.

  • @karenskultety233
    @karenskultety2333 жыл бұрын

    He knew what he was doing.

  • @naiadacreations
    @naiadacreations3 жыл бұрын

    IF YOU RESPECT YOURSELF YOU DONT GIVE EVETYTHING IN A RELATIOSHIP. IF YOU DO, IT IS NOT LOVE, IT IS AN ADDICTION.

  • @willardsteele4857

    @willardsteele4857

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good point. The sign of a good partner is they won’t demand everything of you.

  • @elizabethfaraone
    @elizabethfaraone3 жыл бұрын

    In NY, someone has to be at fault for a divorce to occur. So the fault was placed on her for abandonment even though she didn’t abandon him. Typical lawyer shenanigans.

  • @PaulaDarlington

    @PaulaDarlington

    3 жыл бұрын

    They just passed no fault a few years ago I believe.

  • @firenze5555
    @firenze55553 жыл бұрын

    She separated from Ric when he became old and ill and moved on with Ed Solomon. She DID abandon him when he needed her the most. She IS a wealthy woman - she's just greedy and wants more - like Ric's music royalties that he had before their marriage. It's normal that Ric left his personal fortune to his children and not his ex. If she really loved Ric she wouldn't constantly be complaining in the media about him.

  • @lemonhead162

    @lemonhead162

    2 жыл бұрын

    Were you in the marriage? If not....get outta here!

  • @saraheart2804

    @saraheart2804

    2 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with you.

  • @firenze5555

    @firenze5555

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lemonhead162 Why don't you read this article that was written by someone who knew Ric: "Ric Ocasek Was Diagnosed with Cancer Just Before His Death, Resented Estranged Wife Paulina Porizkova’s Boyfriend, Ed Solomon" www.showbiz411.com/2019/11/08/exclusive-ric-ocasek-was-diagnosed-with-cancer-just-before-his-death-resented-estranged-wife-paulina-porizkovas-boyfriend-ed-solomon Paulina is not some grieving widow! She had been separated for years from Ric and had boyfriends and now acts all shocked that Ric didn't leave her everything. Poor Ric. He left his personal fortune to his children which is normal.

  • @lemonhead162

    @lemonhead162

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@firenze5555 You don't know if that "article" is true. Only two people were in that marriage who know the truth and one of them isn't around anymore.

  • @firenze5555

    @firenze5555

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lemonhead162 The author of the article, Roger Friedman, has written for the NY Times, Washington Post and other famous media outlets. He has known Ric Ocasek for years and Ric confided in him. What we do know is that Paulina herself announced being separated and going through a divorce on social media. She was separated for years before Ric's death. She was seen in the media all dressed up with her boyfriend director Ed Soloman while Ric was ill. Now she's trying to become relevant again off her famous ex's death and complaining she didn't get everything. She is greedy and ghoulish.

  • @Gizmos457
    @Gizmos457 Жыл бұрын

    I've always admired Paulina.. and her hubby did that to her. My gut it hurt I felt betrayed by my husband and his family.. I was shocked as well all the lies exposure.. now I know the truth.. forgive past stays in past and yeah. Keep pushing forward. 🕊️

  • @freedomfighter319
    @freedomfighter3192 жыл бұрын

    I just love her

  • @tehilovely
    @tehilovely2 жыл бұрын

    Nice and kind person on top of her beauty

  • @ellenhaben1217
    @ellenhaben12173 жыл бұрын

    Poor woman; she clearly did not desert him! She wiped his ass as he recovered at their home after heart surgery!💩head lawyers worded the will that way.

  • @angelumaya320

    @angelumaya320

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well she did stop by to visit. But she has moved out and was dating someone else. She does leave that part out, conveniently. He had not moved on. She moved out and moved on

  • @subsubsubsub5413
    @subsubsubsub54133 жыл бұрын

    She has access to a lifestyle that many of us will never have.

  • @amandalynnsaucy6356
    @amandalynnsaucy63562 жыл бұрын

    She looks AMAZING 🥰

  • @sct4040
    @sct40402 жыл бұрын

    Never allow your husband to have total control of all your money, always have your own accounts.

  • @kingofthedots3835
    @kingofthedots38353 жыл бұрын

    Tortured geniuses often lash out at those who were close to them ....Then they are sure you'll remember them ....sad !

  • @Miztli3

    @Miztli3

    2 жыл бұрын

    Tortured genius, my ass. He was selfish man who let others dictate his wife's faith, not to mention his previous children. Any merit he might have as an artist goes down the drain after this

  • @aldenunion
    @aldenunion2 жыл бұрын

    Good lord God did right making her..Pleasure to admire..Even without make up on she is a gift..

  • @sburris65
    @sburris653 жыл бұрын

    I like Paula but enough is enough. The woe is me is getting a bit much. How many times is she going to continue to go on? There is 2 sides to every story and unfortunately he isn't here to tell his.

  • @TheFarkhondeh
    @TheFarkhondeh3 жыл бұрын

    I am so curious to know could she have done anything legally. They were still married , she had made money in her time what ever they had it was both of them , so how can any judge not give her anything. She had worked and made a lot of money, really I can't stop thinking about her suffering. I'm sorry to say that but he knew what he was doing by signing you out of the will He was retaliating, because you were divorcing him. My best wishes to you and your kids .

  • @capassoluigi7387

    @capassoluigi7387

    3 жыл бұрын

    This happens to 97%of woman!!!

  • @michaelanthony8192
    @michaelanthony81922 жыл бұрын

    Theres no one as beautiful as paulina ...

  • @amandalynnsaucy6356
    @amandalynnsaucy63562 жыл бұрын

    Her and Ric REALLY we're a part of each other....I never think of one without the other....

  • @RawOlympia
    @RawOlympia3 жыл бұрын

    Super lovely, wow. Now, who DID get the money, and if it is her children, why are they not coughing up a dime?!

  • @russellbrown1068
    @russellbrown10683 жыл бұрын

    Old Soul in a Beautiful Package.

  • @mdweinberg60
    @mdweinberg603 жыл бұрын

    A really insensitive interview style, sorry to say.

  • @michellec2899
    @michellec28992 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your truth,my dear, so sorry for you.It’s obvious you two still loved each other, and yes the greed of the lawyer was in play . I think sometimes when we argue, we think,( I’ll fix them ) and when we wake up in the morning,we don’t expect them to have died. All the best, and remember to share your truths with other women, we’re all watching.Cuddles from Canada 🌸🌸🌸🌸🇬🇧🇨🇦M

  • @jamasp1951
    @jamasp19512 жыл бұрын

    You are way to gracious Paulina!!!

  • @sourensontumandal7452
    @sourensontumandal74522 жыл бұрын

    She is still beautiful ❤️❤️🔥

  • @RS-ov2st
    @RS-ov2st2 жыл бұрын

    It sounds like she was married to a narcissist. When she asked him for a divorce it took away his control over her, so taking her out of the will was his way of punishing her. She was also, obviously way better looking than him. He knew this and felt intimidated by her beauty and independent success and was jealous. Some men can’t handle that kind of competition. They can’t deal with the attention, because they want it all for themselves, so he wanted to discredit her publicly . He was determined to be on top of her and everything else. He probably manipulated her into handing over her income. More control. She got played by her husband and it sounds like he was doing this from go for years. He saw how vulnerable she was and didn’t believe in herself and needed attention and love and he probably love bombed her in the beginning to gain her trust, then control of her. That’s why he lost interest in the end, because she grew wise and tired of his games and in turn he discarded her . He needed a new source for his narcissistic supply because she wasn’t taking it anymore. So he made sure he punished her even from beyond the grave. Narcissist can’t stand to loose.

  • @amrose4214
    @amrose42143 жыл бұрын

    She still pretty.

  • @debibarrington4697
    @debibarrington46973 жыл бұрын

    You have to see the truth its not healthy to be in denial ..feel the pain and move on ..

  • @ladyjade6446
    @ladyjade64463 жыл бұрын

    Awww 🥰

  • @TheBizzle1984
    @TheBizzle19843 жыл бұрын

    A gorgeous 19 year old marrying a gross looking 40 year old? She was manipulated from the start. And she still doesn't seem to realize it. That's super sad.

  • @angelumaya320

    @angelumaya320

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hmm let's see super talented musician creates a band and a career and creates rick songs he sells for millions. Marries and woman who, well took some pictures when she was 20. Yeah I'd say he had a bit more talent and put in a bit more work into his 30 year career. I love when women call men a creep because he's not well, sitting on a stool looking pretty.

  • @firenze5555

    @firenze5555

    3 жыл бұрын

    She was twenty four when she got married - well old enough to know what she was doing. Marrying a rock star raised her modeling career a lot. Then when Ric got old and ill, she dumped him for Ed Solomon. She's not some grieving widow.

  • @carsi7282

    @carsi7282

    9 ай бұрын

    @@firenze5555 If a middle aged man leaves his wife to marry a much younger woman, he has to realize that young woman when she is in her 40s will have needs than he in his 60s and 70s he will not be able to do. So her having another man to fulfill her needs in her 40 shoudl be accepted. Milkmen have another meaning, this is common.

  • @junepagan8715
    @junepagan87152 жыл бұрын

    Respect

  • @BrockLanders
    @BrockLanders3 жыл бұрын

    The Wall defeats them all

  • @stanleycoleman
    @stanleycoleman10 ай бұрын

    Both women look great.

  • @Gizmos457
    @Gizmos457 Жыл бұрын

    She's so beautiful I love her in My Alibi,. I know how she feels my hubby's family no help and promise not kept . I was shocked being cut out to after I did everything he wanted. At least I paid back my mum what he borrowed. Me nothing had to start again. But push forward I forgive him but never forget.. I still love him as a friend.

  • @j.dtruths5577
    @j.dtruths55773 жыл бұрын

    I Love her, I don't think Ric did this to her, I think this was Divorce Lawyers ! God Bless! J...

  • @j.dtruths5577

    @j.dtruths5577

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pufipie2290 His Health was Failing and he was VERY MEDICATED, he wasn't well ! He wouldn't of done this to her, he made a MISTAKE ! THE LAWYER WAS THE CULPRIT !

  • @j.dtruths5577

    @j.dtruths5577

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pufipie2290 You are correct , I do worry about her ! God Bless ! J...

  • @cate499

    @cate499

    3 жыл бұрын

    He did it to her. She is disinherited.

  • @j.dtruths5577

    @j.dtruths5577

    3 жыл бұрын

    @mama T He was very sick and not in his right mind !

  • @CloudyShinobi
    @CloudyShinobi2 жыл бұрын

    Wow still gorgeous

  • @randolphpinkle4482
    @randolphpinkle44823 жыл бұрын

    It is easy to demonize Ocasek, but Paulina makes it clear that she even doesn't have all the facts. Rather than putting words in her mouth as this journalist was trying to do, let's wait and see.

  • @capassoluigi7387
    @capassoluigi73873 жыл бұрын

    100000000 like her! Welcome to the club paulina!!!!

  • @debbiepinkerton9583
    @debbiepinkerton95833 жыл бұрын

    I’d like to know why they were divorcing anyway. If they were living together and they were gonna live close and all that why divorce?

  • @tajtandoori9076

    @tajtandoori9076

    3 жыл бұрын

    She recently said he wanted close companionship only

  • @joanannewallace
    @joanannewallace2 жыл бұрын

    I think it’s because she was divorcing him he realised how beautiful and younger she was and she’d find someone else and they’d spend his money. I’d say he did it out of spite.

  • @naokoasami2026
    @naokoasami20263 жыл бұрын

    I am with Paulina

  • @Iworkwithnitwits
    @Iworkwithnitwits3 жыл бұрын

    What happened to the Estee Lauder money? She had a contract with them for many years.

  • @amrose4214
    @amrose42143 жыл бұрын

    She probably loved him but kind a slap from the grave that she still living with him but they were getting a divorce but he cut her out but she was still watching out for him. She seems like nice person but he probably a genouis but maybe narristic qualities so he left to there kids.

  • @pepper1188
    @pepper11883 жыл бұрын

    He was 40 and married btw....

  • @carolhewett3756

    @carolhewett3756

    3 жыл бұрын

    She was a very smart and beautiful and ambitious immigrant when he left his wife and other children for her while old enough to be her father. Sorry, but I'm not shedding any tears.

  • @gabrielmedinacrespo1975
    @gabrielmedinacrespo19752 жыл бұрын

    She is still so beautiful I don't understand why no one is putting her on the covers of magazines smh I think its a bad look and a bad business move not to because I think they're is still so much potential they're too be had and it's really a shame no one is jumping at this but I promise you they will regret it one day and it will be too late but let's hope I'm wrong and someone will scoop this beautiful woman up and take this opportunity because what one person might think is old can be new to another

  • @justlearning6371
    @justlearning63713 жыл бұрын

    She had a boyfriend while still married to Rick his name was David Solomon this unit interview is quite biased she has an angle to thisShe wants the money now she’s blaming the lawyer to make it look like Rick wasn’t in his right mind marriage is some sickness and in health and when he got sick she was already dating somebody else His dying wish was not to leave or anything because he abandoned him notice how her kids don’t come to her defense very shady

  • @patrickprendergast9589

    @patrickprendergast9589

    3 жыл бұрын

    so true

  • @vs52217

    @vs52217

    3 жыл бұрын

    Her boyfriend is Ed Solomon. What else did you get wrong?

  • @justlearning6371

    @justlearning6371

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@vs52217 thank you

  • @justlearning6371

    @justlearning6371

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pufipie2290 fresh meat would be nice but he was is older man

  • @justlearning6371

    @justlearning6371

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pufipie2290 yes he left his part to their sons but they had to get a lawyer to protect them self’s

  • @kenblair6622
    @kenblair66223 жыл бұрын

    Maybe he had his reasons. Nobody will know

  • @annt7384
    @annt73843 жыл бұрын

    All you have is your integrity, and Paulina has it in spades imho. My guess is the divorce settlement was supposed to divide their assets so there was no need to recognize each other in the will once they were divorced. I've just recently lost my mom& beyond all the grief and heartache, there's a lot of time-sensitive stuff about the estate you need to settle. Definitely a worse-before-better situation.

  • @crystalship9900

    @crystalship9900

    3 жыл бұрын

    In reality, she has zero integrity. She’s a liar. She had a side piece, and that’s what she doesn’t want anyone to know.

  • @lisakaler4121
    @lisakaler41213 жыл бұрын

    He was a covert narcissist. There is no other reason for him to treat her like that. I wish she would speak more about what really went on in their relationship to help women. What he did is so cruel. And for what just to hurt her. He was envious of her.

  • @TheEndOfTheMoon

    @TheEndOfTheMoon

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol I didn't know you knew Ric personally? tell me more about him lmao you're just taking sides here when you have no idea what actually went on, Ric can't speak anymore and what he did say was that she abandoned him and that's why he changed his will, why are you ignoring that? why is her word worth more than his? also he has every right to change his will and I don't think he would have changed his will at the last minute for no reason, there must have been a reason, whether his wife thinks it was justified or not. Also "what he did was so cruel" lol you all acting like she is now a pauper, she sold their house for 10 million and she is still out here looking like a super model so spare me the violin. Of course there may be truth in her side too, she may have been wrongfully removed but moral is you just don't know so stop acting like you do, I don't know what went on either but I am definitely taking Ric's side into account, when celebrities leave a will that someone in their family is unhappy about it always show true colours, if she was being truthful then she shouldn't want any of his will, if he wrongly took her out then she should want none of it, I know I wouldn't but yet she is trying to make the will invalid, and what does Ric's sons have to say about this? notice how none of them are speaking constantly about this like she is. She just keeps victimizing herself but I have to understand she is a feminist so that's to be expected. Also you think she should speak to help women? apparently you think only women are victims in relationship when in reality men are victims of bad relationships just as much as women are, but this is irrelevant since she claims to love him and to have had a good marriage so there is nothing to tell, she got written out of the will because Ric felt like she abandoned him and maybe she did or maybe he just thought she did either way both those are valid, she was dating someone else while still being married to him so again no one knows but those involved so maybe stop demonizing Ric when you don't know what made him do it.

  • @carolhewett3756

    @carolhewett3756

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheEndOfTheMoon thx for your wise response. I feel the same way. This has to be her 10th such interview.

  • @lisakaler4121

    @lisakaler4121

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TheEndOfTheMoon narcissists have abandonment issues. The abandonment wasn't real, he perceived the abandonment in his head. She was younger and healthy, he was sickly and older. He couldn't handle that so he felt abandoned in his mind.

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