Why Must I Say Goodbye & What Will Happen If I Do? Moving & Buying a Home

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WAIT! How do we say goodbye to the people we love and the things we love? As we age, saying goodbye is our contact companion. How can we handle it better? What does goodbye really mean? Has it ever led to something wonderful? Let's talk about how many times we have said goodbye and what did it lead to.
It was a busy week of getting things in order for the closing of my new home...organizing and packing, spending a wonderful day with Hal at the thrift store & dinner, and playing with Desi...preparing him for his very own backyard!
This is an intimate conversation honoring our friendship here on Easter.
Have you ever been brokenhearted in saying goodbye only to have it lead to something wonderful?
We all have dreams...and I talk about the one thing I was told as a child over and over again.
Don't Give Up. Perhaps I understand the passion my grandfather had to instill in me at such a young age. We can get knocked down so often in life and sometimes get discouraged and so weary.....but something inside us just can't give up...and we remind each other here, to keep going no matter what.
Please know I love you and I am so grateful you.
I am so thrilled you are all going on this move to a new city with me!
You are all such a light in my life.
We love you to the moon and back again....
Love always, Desi and Me
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People will come Ray...for it's money they have and peace, they lack. And they'll walk out to the bleachers; sit in shirtsleeves on a perfect afternoon. They'll find they have reserved seats somewhere along one of the baselines, where they sat when they were children and cheered their heroes. People will come Ray. This field, this game: it's a part of our past. It reminds us of all that once was good and it could be again.
if you build it...they will come...
It's up to you..it's all up to you
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  • @andreabenson2491
    @andreabenson2491 Жыл бұрын

    Your closing will be near the baseball field because grandpa is saying no matter where you live he will be there - he's passing the torch, it's your turn to be the grandparent - to talk with your grandchildren and to let them know that one day they can be anything they aspire to, so long as they don't give up 👍👏😊it's funny how life works! Wonderful experiences are ahead 💕 Blessings

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for these beautiful words, Andrea...it's such an emotional time and I feel such joy and peace....A Very Happy easter to you! xo Susan & Desi

  • @marysmyth8288

    @marysmyth8288

    Жыл бұрын

    Susan always a joy each week to listen to your Reflections, so love your story of your time with Your Grandfather. Yes I do relate to moving on to new beginnings, My dear husband of 51 yrs passed in 2016, Toronto I decided to retire to Vancouver, best decision As now my life is so wonderful , mostly because I am of Irish birth, so here out West ,living in a Small nautical village 30mins south of The Airport Is so very similar to my life on The Irish Coastal town Of Bangor Co.Down Ps iat age 14yrs and a schoolgirl, it was time to have a Bra As a very shy girl, I wandered into Woolworth's wooden floors Back then in Belfast, wandered to the To the Bra counter, all led out in rows.myself kept looking Around , then waiting for some customers to leave. Then grabbed a bra without checking the size Except guessing the smallest size. Home I go to try on..guess what ! First of all it was colour Black ! And then to My horror, 😳it was all sewed in a circular Pointed fashion , designed to really poke out 🙀 Ha ha Mary Canada 🇨🇦

  • @darlahkelley9800

    @darlahkelley9800

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely 💯

  • @mariac.gonzalez3041

    @mariac.gonzalez3041

    Жыл бұрын

    Not goodbye . HELLO

  • @Sandy-zr5hs

    @Sandy-zr5hs

    Жыл бұрын

    That was just lovely ❤️ and so is Hal he makes me chuckle! Goodbye us such a final word, change it to See You Later and it sounds so much better 🌈

  • @carolynsalmons1882
    @carolynsalmons1882 Жыл бұрын

    10 years ago I was 68 years old. My husband I made the decision to leave our home in West Virginia and move to Azle, Texas. We had lived in WV our entire lives. My daughter was in TX. My husband was not well and he passed away after only 15 months in Texas. It was very hard leaving my friends and family in WV and it took me about 2 years to❤ find my people here❤ I volunteered at the local animal shelter. But that wasn't my people. I finally joined a Red Hatters group, made a few friends there but joined another group and there were my people. Out of that group 6 of use are real friends and we are from all over the country. Massachusetts, Arizona, Iowa, and of course Tx. SO all that to say this. It was the best move I could have made, I have my daughter, son and grandkids close. We each live our separate lives, but always check on each other and come together quite often. Loving and living my best life. God bless and enjoy the new adventure.

  • @BlingyBea

    @BlingyBea

    Жыл бұрын

    How wonderful❤

  • @lisalowe7679
    @lisalowe7679 Жыл бұрын

    Try to remember how happy your sweet pup will be when he can run in his yard. A dogs DREAM!

  • @gl3875
    @gl3875 Жыл бұрын

    Your grandfather saw you as a person, who you were and he imparted his best knowledge to his favorite person. He wanted you to have a good life. ❤ You were a lucky little girl

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree with you...I was very lucky..he was such a great man...

  • @bettypecoraro8104
    @bettypecoraro8104 Жыл бұрын

    A good friend once said, and this is a quote from his grandmother. “Life is about losing things” …losing your 2 front teeth, saying goodbye to a friend moving away, losing a boyfriend or a good friend to an accident in high school and finally losing a spouse. There are many seasons in life.

  • @Lorena-dv9hr

    @Lorena-dv9hr

    Жыл бұрын

    so true! Losing those two front teeth. It starts right away doesn't it!

  • @momLNC
    @momLNC Жыл бұрын

    Susan, this video couldn't have come at a better time, I just lost my mother three weeks ago and the story of your Grandfather really hit home. I felt the same way when I saw my Italian Mama, she was at peace with God.. Also , that same week, my daughter, who has been living and working in California and has been trying to transfer within her company to move over to an area nearer to me on the East Coat, got the transfer, so she's bringing her family and my two small Grandchildren to live near me, the timing could not have been better. I need them, I just lost my best friend, my Mom, who was a young mother so I got to spend 62 years with her and now that Goodbye will turn into a Hello with my new life with them.

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry for your loss...and so grateful you come here tonight and share your life...xxoo Susan & Desi

  • @momLNC

    @momLNC

    Жыл бұрын

    @@LittlePoet Thank you and I really wish you and Desi the best with your move

  • @Vicki1951

    @Vicki1951

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s my belief that our very loving Father had a hand in getting your daughter’s transfer approved. I’m sorry you had to say goodbye to your mom. I had to do the same. But I’m very happy that your daughter and grandchildren will live much closer to you.

  • @ashleybergstrom8934

    @ashleybergstrom8934

    Жыл бұрын

    What a blessing! Being near family is everything. My mother too, at peace with God. Another blessing and hope.

  • @susanross7430

    @susanross7430

    Жыл бұрын

    Congratulations on your new home Susan ! I know how it is to say goodbye to a place or to people and friends, that you’ve known a long time! I hope your Dear Friend Hal will be able to visit you. Does he live close by you where you’re living now? he’s sure going to miss you and Desi. well Susan, I wish you and cutie pie Desi, Good luck and Godspeed.!❤❤️🙏🙏

  • @patriciarussell756
    @patriciarussell756 Жыл бұрын

    Not having good friends, I can only imagine.Its a treasure to have one!

  • @SB-kg2is

    @SB-kg2is

    Жыл бұрын

    I could only imagine what it would be like. You aren’t alone.

  • @patriciarussell756

    @patriciarussell756

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SB-kg2is I did have a really good one we were work friends but then I retired. And it was hard for her to keep up the friendship I guess. But I think of her everyday, and I'm thankful that we had those years together.

  • @audreymo63

    @audreymo63

    Жыл бұрын

    Me either. @Patricia Russell

  • @doloresparker3582
    @doloresparker3582 Жыл бұрын

    Susan can’t wait to see Desi running free in his own backyard! You don’t have to say goodbye, just say “I’ll see you later” as I did when my husband drew his last breath on earth. I hope Hal will continue to be a part of your life. He appears to be a special part of your life. Love to you, Desi and Hal❤️❤️❤️

  • @bridget6890
    @bridget6890 Жыл бұрын

    Hal looks sad, he's gonna miss you, for sure! 💜

  • @maggiecamps6790

    @maggiecamps6790

    Жыл бұрын

    Hal should move close to you, too, if he doesn't have a family. You both are going to miss each other so much 😢

  • @susanwilliams1575
    @susanwilliams1575 Жыл бұрын

    Susan, it’s hard to leave “home”, but you will have so much joy being there with family. I’m 58, and 10 years ago I moved 1.5 hours north of where I had live 48 years. I’m still trying to find things around, but it’s good. It was very uncomfortable at first, but now-this is home. Your new house has so much character and you are going to have so much fun making it “home”.

  • @jgp8525
    @jgp8525 Жыл бұрын

    In Navajo, there is no word for good bye....it's, "until later!" We said later to a town we lived in in Arizona, for 16 years. My eldest son still lives there with his bride. We still consider that town our home and friends we made are still friends.

  • @janew4690
    @janew4690 Жыл бұрын

    At 75 it still amazes me that when someone passes you can tell they are not there. Their soul has gone to the Father. It is wonderful thing to know they are not in pain or suffering. They are gone but never forgotten if loved. And the great thing is we will see them again. This was lovely. Thank you for the best video you have done.

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh yes...yes!!!

  • @sephardishalom2693

    @sephardishalom2693

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Mollygurl29 Jesus loves you and your soul is priceless!

  • @natnielsen8472
    @natnielsen8472 Жыл бұрын

    I love Desi in his little pink bow! Ya' know what? Desi had to say good bye to his old life! Look at how fantastic his adventure is with his mom! He had no idea the joy of love, hugs, and kisses - along with wonderful treats, a soft bed, and fun walks! You and Desi have so much to look forward to - a new beautiful adventure awaits you! This is the joy of life, is it not?? With a love of Christ all things are possible - the old self dies continually, and the new self gets renewed in Him everyday!! Enjoy the joy of this new adventure and let Hal lift the heavy boxes!! Hugs!!

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU so much for your wonderful comment! A very Happy Easter to you! xo Susan & Desi

  • @kateg7298

    @kateg7298

    Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful comment. Happy Easter to you.

  • @deborahpellerito6117

    @deborahpellerito6117

    Жыл бұрын

    Beautifully said

  • @conniesdiamondlinexpress5366
    @conniesdiamondlinexpress5366 Жыл бұрын

    My husband and I used to never say goodbye. He said it sounded like forever so we said,” I’ll see ya soon”. So, I’ll see ya soon Susan. 🙏🏻🙏🏻😊❤

  • @maxinebaskerville6020
    @maxinebaskerville6020 Жыл бұрын

    There are no coincidences in life are there? 😊 Your Grandfather will be right there when you're signing and SO very proud that YOU never gave up! ❤

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh how you make me tear up! Thank you so much for being here and very Happy Easter! Susan & Desi

  • @creilly3728
    @creilly3728 Жыл бұрын

    When you said the closing is going to be right next to the field your grandfather loved so much, I took that as a sign that he's with you and telling you that you've done well and this is the right move for you. I belive the universe gives us signs and that this is one. ❤🙏🤗

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU so much for your wonderful comment! A very Happy Easter to you! xo Susan & Desi

  • @rosemaryburford7607
    @rosemaryburford7607 Жыл бұрын

    Susan, you are entering a new chapter in your life and it’s an amazing one at that. You will make new friends and fall in love with your new town. I am so happy for you and Desi and I can’t wait to see what’s ahead for you two. Love to you and Desi ❤

  • @margaretrose8105
    @margaretrose8105 Жыл бұрын

    2 yrs ago..I said goodbye to my hometown of 74 years and moved two and a half hours NW to be close to my son and his family. I have never regretted it.. I have great neighbors and have made alot of new friends.

  • @cherylpinter2134
    @cherylpinter2134 Жыл бұрын

    I have said goodbye to my mom,my two aunts and my sister all within the last ten years. It is comforting to know they are with the Lord and this is only a temporary goodbye and I will be with them. My heart warmed when you said that you were signing the papers right across the street from the Field of dreams you and your grandpa used to walk through. That was a gift from God to remind you of your grandpa telling you not to give up on your dreams and now here you are finally moving into your new home by your children and your grandchildren! Many blessings to you and Desi on your next chapter in life 🙏

  • @mitzismith2382
    @mitzismith2382 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been a subscriber for 5 months & just love your channel. Your so uplifting❤️. 17 years ago I said goodbye to dealing with a verbally & emotionally abusive husband by drinking & becoming reclusive. I rose up, found my voice again & said hello to the rest of my life. This new chapter in your life is going to be fabulous & I can’t wait to see your & Desi’s new home. Thank you Susan for the beautiful heartfelt videos❤️

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for being here and very Happy Easter! Susan & Desi

  • @kathylibby3676

    @kathylibby3676

    Жыл бұрын

    Brava for the strength to rebuild and redefine you life.

  • @zelmajex3957

    @zelmajex3957

    Жыл бұрын

    I said goodbye two years ago to a beach location and returned to the main city. My best friend was caring for his dying mother and my older brother was aging fast and alone. To be here with and for them has been true loving purpose. My little Xiaoy and I have fami.y now. That goodbye brought me home.

  • @rhonies9229
    @rhonies9229 Жыл бұрын

    We were military and we said lots of goodbyes and hello to new locations/adventures. I have been blessed to have been able to revisit many locations from my past childhood and adult life. I have a belief that goodbye is closing a chapter but not ending the memories. My heart holds them close. I look at the closing being across from the ball field is saying it is okay and time to move to your next adventure. Your count down is underway - you have a week - hold your memories fondly and lovingly. Have a great week.

  • @barbfrank917
    @barbfrank917 Жыл бұрын

    Just think of all the grandma walks with your grand babies ❤

  • @MsHendrix5
    @MsHendrix5 Жыл бұрын

    Goodbye Grandfather, Hello God ❤ what a beautiful thought!

  • @carriedavis9675
    @carriedavis9675 Жыл бұрын

    Goodbye to one house and hello to a new house and new beginnings, new street, new part of town and new neighbors and neighborhood!!! 🥰👵🏽🙏🏾 Blessings to you and Desi and Happy resurrection Day, for He lives!! tfs

  • @debbiechaney6607
    @debbiechaney6607 Жыл бұрын

    My beloved father "Des" who was a door to door mailman for 32 years lived with only me one of his four children before his passing at 89.. What a treasured gift that he picked me to live with during his final years. Those glorious years made me feel like an "only" child. Our conversations were so wonderful. He learned all about me and I learned all about him. Treasured times I will never forget. Best of good times with your new house adventure. You too are a true treasure to all of us. Happy Easter. Sincerely, Debbie and Dexter-Dog my sweet silly rescued tiny Chihuahua companion living a quiet crafty great grandma life in southern California. 💞🏠🏠🐾🐾👍👍🙏🙏🇺🇸✝️

  • @donnam4612
    @donnam4612 Жыл бұрын

    Oh Susan, what an emotional video. I was in tears when you were describing where you will sign the closing papers on your house. It's not merely a coincidence, he told you never give up...and you didn't. You saved, and now you get to start a new chapter of your life in your new little house.

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so os much for saying these words to me! I so feel this is a sign!! And it feels so good!!!

  • @franzone70
    @franzone70 Жыл бұрын

    This was a sad but happy video. I also went through this ten years ago when we moved from our home of 39 years and the area that I grew up in, to a place two hours north. away from friends and family. My husband wanted to retire by a lake which we did, but then he passed away six months later. So I was left in an area were I had to make new friends and get used to new surroundings. But I've made new friends, and I love my new surroundings.

  • @LadyBug1967
    @LadyBug1967 Жыл бұрын

    Susan, it's🌅 Easter -- a time of new beginnings. As the Irish blessing says: MAY THE ROAD RISE TO MEET YOU MAY THE WIND ALWAYS BE AT YOUR BACK MAY THE ☀️ SHINE ON YOUR FACE. May the rain fall softly upon your field And until we meet again May the Lord hold you safely in the 🤌palm of his Hand 🧚

  • @nancylang4294
    @nancylang4294 Жыл бұрын

    I was fortunate that my parents let me know that I could do and be anything in this life. I was born in 1954. My parents were ahead of their time. I was also surrounded by my friends whose parents had the same beliefs. Lucky little girl I was who worked on cars with my Dad and baked cakes with my Mom as my older brother did. Still working as a biochemist at 69 and taking care of my own home. Thanks Mom and Dad for your values. Susan we are very fortunate to have had people who believed in us.

  • @patticakesintexas
    @patticakesintexas Жыл бұрын

    I don't know if you know it or not but Hal loves you! It shows. And we ❤ you too!!!

  • @evie7845
    @evie7845 Жыл бұрын

    Great video!!!You are going to be okay!!!You will be making new memories!!!! I’m 72 and recently I moved to my own home from a house I had rented for 15 years and I said to my son,it’s going to be sad when I move out of our house with so many memories of the grandchildren and everyone and he said you will make NEW memories!!!Bless you!!!

  • @annetindall7793
    @annetindall7793 Жыл бұрын

    Dear Susan, Have you thought about writing a book?, i believe it would be wonderful. Adelaide Australia❤

  • @kentuckylady7344
    @kentuckylady7344 Жыл бұрын

    Oh sweet Susan, thank you for sharing your memories of your grandfather. What a wonderful time you had with him. Now it is your turn to make wonderful memories with your grandchildren. Just as you remember your grandfather, your grandchildren will remember you. I'm so happy for you. God Bless

  • @ellenhaben1217
    @ellenhaben1217 Жыл бұрын

    Hal was made for you; your great friends and loving companions!!!💖💖

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    He's a pill....I love him..but he's a pill!!!

  • @ellenhaben1217

    @ellenhaben1217

    Жыл бұрын

    That's love,😂👍💖

  • @georgiajones8966
    @georgiajones8966 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing how God answers our prayers. So excited and really thrilled for you and Desi!

  • @karinbara4537
    @karinbara4537 Жыл бұрын

    So happy for you! Please take Hal with you ✨🌷

  • @sharonhardy7187
    @sharonhardy7187 Жыл бұрын

    Hal is such a nice man. Will he still join you on videos when you move? I hope so.

  • @doloresparker3582

    @doloresparker3582

    Жыл бұрын

    The thrifting will not be the same without the bantering back and forth between you and Hal

  • @margaretgreen2826
    @margaretgreen2826 Жыл бұрын

    Happy Easter Susan and Desi, I loved that as you said goodbye to your Grand Father you said hello to our Saviour gave me goosebumps I love hearing how GOD draws other’s into HIS presence . GOD bless you 🙏🏻💕 I be praying for safe packing and moving for you . Look forward to seeing you next week. 💕

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for being here and very Happy Easter! Susan & Desi

  • @mlstroh7
    @mlstroh7 Жыл бұрын

    I can resonate so many of your feelings . I was a tomboy and could out run my whole class, picture in baseball and climbed trees singing " Zippity-DoDa " . You show soo much love for your grandpa and it's sweet/sad , just remember that he wasn't in that casket but in your heart . Take some dirt from the ball diamond field and maybe something there that you hold dear and put it in your new home. In a frame or vase or whatever you want. God bless you and taking us on all your journeys in life . Yes, there are a lot of good-byes in life but the new will someday be another cherished place with lovely memories that we hang onto . So glad you will be with your family , that's a true blessing ! Happy Easter to you ...

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh what a wonderful idea...I am going to do just that!

  • @bettypecoraro8104

    @bettypecoraro8104

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s a great idea!!

  • @annmeeks9273
    @annmeeks9273 Жыл бұрын

    Susan, my grandfather raised me also. He taught me the value of hard work and protecting your family. I went through a really hard time just after he died, even considered death for me as well. One night as I lay crying in my bed, he was suddenly there sitting on the side of the bed, I could feel not only his love but actually smell his pipe smoke!! His message…never give up. That’s been decades ago and I know he is still with me as is the Lord. I’ve had to say goodby so many times in my 74 year life and it seems that each time it is growth and opportunity. I am so happy that you are getting your house. I had to say goodbye to Colorado and moved to the coast of NC but just LOVE it and have more friends than ever in the past. I’m so looking forward to seeing your new home and enjoying putting it together with you. Happy and Blessed Easter

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh Ann....I am so happy to see you...you have always been with me so kind and so supportive....saying good-bye to Colorado must have been so tough....but you thrived!! I am excited to start hanging the new curtains!!!! And new flowers for a backyard I have dreamed of for over a decade.....

  • @cindygarrison6338
    @cindygarrison63389 ай бұрын

    Beautiful story of faith. Your grandfather was surely smiling in heaven. And I bet God laughed. ❤

  • @Cookingforacrowd
    @Cookingforacrowd Жыл бұрын

    When my last child left home ( we have 5) I said hello to my hubby. Empty nesting is actually kinda fun! We go out in dates more, watch mindless TV shows just because without interruptions…. We miss our kids, but it’s like we are dating again. It is good!

  • @sandrag.mcalister3308
    @sandrag.mcalister3308 Жыл бұрын

    I'm so happy for you and Desi. Have a wonderful upcoming week! God bless!

  • @tonihendrix6652
    @tonihendrix6652 Жыл бұрын

    Oh my, dear Susan! I have a huge lump in my throat, and tears of happiness with you! I absolutely LOVE your story of saying “Hello” to God🥰 and as just a little girl knowing the peace of God with you❣️ 14:59 Thank you for sharing this more than anything you’ve ever shared! I can not believe how this video came through precisely as I finished an amazing book about goodbyes written by Luda Terqeurst! I had just closed the book and you sealed it to my heart ❤️ I’ve had so many hard good byes as well as a few good ones. She told the word goodbye is a strange one as goodbyes are usually difficult. She explained it is actually a contraction of “God be with ye”! I love that, don’t you? Thank you again, dear Susan!! And have a very Happy Easter ❤ I send you lots of love, Toni

  • @tonihendrix6652

    @tonihendrix6652

    Жыл бұрын

    *Lysa*

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh dear, I am crying reading your words!!! You have always been in my corner and cheering me on...I just adore you so much! A very Happy Easter Toni....-

  • @tonihendrix6652

    @tonihendrix6652

    Жыл бұрын

    I love you so much❣️

  • @judivandeveer207

    @judivandeveer207

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing this!!

  • @roxanneelsey6266
    @roxanneelsey6266 Жыл бұрын

    I'm going to miss Hal so much!

  • @lisa8990
    @lisa8990 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the beautiful story of your grandfather. You are beginning a new chapter in your life, and I'm excited for you and Desi. Happy Easter Susan. ❤

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for being here and very Happy Easter! Susan & Desi

  • @jillhickey6036
    @jillhickey6036 Жыл бұрын

    I hope you see Hal a lot too!

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    You will!!!

  • @marypucci6814
    @marypucci6814 Жыл бұрын

    Said goodbye to my hometown after my divorce, but I made a new life not too far. It seemed like a world away, but that new world brought growth and contentment. Embrace your new world. Happy Easter ❤

  • @dianecelento4974
    @dianecelento4974 Жыл бұрын

    Hal is so witty with his answers about the picture and the salad. Love him in your videos.

  • @kathyphifer7546
    @kathyphifer7546 Жыл бұрын

    Closings are also openings. Walk through the door with joy in your heart ❤️

  • @rosettaroper3317
    @rosettaroper3317 Жыл бұрын

    Oh Susan, this video is so special. It brought me to tears, as I remembered the day I said goodbye to my wonderful Mother as she took her last breath. As she took her last breath her facial expression changed and I knew her soul and spirit was with Jesus. I knew then I would not have to say goodbye to her and that before long I would see her again. Thank you Susan❤

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh what a beautiful story of saying goodbye to your Mother....that feeling is so powerful when you know they are gone...but still there in spirit! Thank you so much for telling me this....xxoo

  • @gjuran3494
    @gjuran3494 Жыл бұрын

    I also had a loving and treasured grandfather. He was very witty but, a quiet man. He too loved the Lord and I know we will see each other again! He made me homemade ice cream and always called me “kitten.” Thank you for this lovely memory! Happy Easter! 💌

  • @ivybonanno2050
    @ivybonanno2050 Жыл бұрын

    Dear Susy, I know how you feel, I left Miami in November to move to another state. The moved was terrible ! After living there since 1965 , I had to say good bye to all my friends , family, only house I knew since I got married. It's been 7 months now and still I have not gotten used to my new place. I am closer to my husband's family and they are wonderful, but I find myself feeling like my body is here but my mind is back in Miami. Everything is so different here. So, I'll be praying for you to make a smooth transition into your new home, and will be watching you decorate your new home. I am still trying to get mine organized. So proud of your acomplishments. Best of luck and blessings. I will be watching you. ❤️.

  • @laruehundemer-jones3118
    @laruehundemer-jones3118 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for including me on your journey. It's quite a fun ride.

  • @kathylibby3676
    @kathylibby3676 Жыл бұрын

    You bring such joy each week. Why is it that every week, your message hits home? In 1984 I reacquainted with a high school friend after not seeing him for 18 years. We fell in love. Marriage would meaning leaving family, friends, a church community and a teaching job in a community I loved. That was my whole life! But marry we did! I moved to another state to be with him far from what I had ever known. Many thought I was foolish to give up so much to embark on the unknown. Yet after 38 years of marriage, I declare that he is a princely man, well worth the risk. Never in my wildest dream, just one year before seeing him again, did I imagine such a worthy a transition. Risking meant loss, but the gain was stronger than the loss.

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    This is so beautiful......you took a change...you went the distance...and look at you now....so happy! IYou give me hope!

  • @dee_ewell_pierce
    @dee_ewell_pierce Жыл бұрын

    That little Desi is just precious! You too LittlePoet!

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! You too!

  • @kathleen4433
    @kathleen4433 Жыл бұрын

    I’m going to miss seeing Hal when you move. I’ll bet you’re going to miss him too and him you and Desi. This is hard but your new life is going to be so wonderful. I’m looking forward to following you on your new journey.

  • @aidaguzman2624
    @aidaguzman2624 Жыл бұрын

    Happy Easter Day, Susan and Desi.

  • @leebay6093
    @leebay6093 Жыл бұрын

    I just love Hal’s sense of humour- he’s a treasure, such a memorable video Susan, good luck with the move and looking forward to seeing your new home and surrounding area, love to Desi❤

  • @annmarie3520
    @annmarie3520 Жыл бұрын

    I take that as a sign to a happy beginning from your grandfather! Your dream finally came to fruition and he’s giving you his blessings! You see he’s never left you. I wish you and Desi the happiest of times in your new home!😘❤🙏🏻✨

  • @Erika-Coach
    @Erika-Coach Жыл бұрын

    God Bless on this new “journey’! ! 🙏💔❤️😍

  • @rebeccaasher9124
    @rebeccaasher9124 Жыл бұрын

    Susan, In my mind I see you as a woman of great wealth. You have been blessed with people, opportunities, talent, and the most perfect dog with the most imperfect teeth! I’ve followed you for a few years and have always admired your ability to stand up to opposition with grace. I believe in God and recognize that you do too. It is undoubtedly “Divine Intervention” that you are realizing in the alignment of a home to move to, your son’s open arms, and going to settlement across from the “field of dreams.” You have accomplished so much! I’ll never forget the time you said you didn’t know how to work a camera when you bought your first one!😅 You’re right Susan, you are Movin On Up !!! Go in peace and love.

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    What a gift you gave me tonight....I am sending you such love and good wishes for a wonderful life...xxoo

  • @dorothyjones6274
    @dorothyjones6274 Жыл бұрын

    I moved Oct, 1, 2021 from living 47 years in one County. I was 73 then and needed to be closer my daughter and her family. You can and you will. There will be an adjustment, but you will be fine. God Bless you.

  • @aujkalenic4203
    @aujkalenic4203 Жыл бұрын

    This day of Easter is all about new Life and growth in a Kingdom not made by hands..... Celebrate Life Always🎉🩷🐦💙🦜💜🎉

  • @startingovaries
    @startingovaries Жыл бұрын

    😊 Congrats on your brave at 68 move! You inspire the rest of us. ❤

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    I just adore you..thank you for your kindness!!! xo Susan & Dez

  • @angelfirelite
    @angelfirelite Жыл бұрын

    That little fellow of yours is the sweetest and loving little thing I ever seen. He takes after his mommy for sure. I always try to creep in and take a peek at your videos! Very inspirational videos as I am fighting cancer now at 75, but there is always a new tomorrow and people like you to make the day fun and interesting......bless you yet, in another new adventure in your life~

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    You are so kind and it means so much you are here and left such a beautiful comment! Thank you so much and I hope you have a wonderful week! xxoo Love always, Susan & Desi

  • @monabarber2335

    @monabarber2335

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry to hear about Your Diagnosis, I will tell You that there’s a Tea called Essiac Tea 🍵 and it cures Cancer ♋️ it literally destroys Tumors ! I’ll keep you in My Prayers 🙏❣️

  • @BlingyBea

    @BlingyBea

    Жыл бұрын

    @angelfirelite. Praying for you🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

  • @ssaah59ify
    @ssaah59ify Жыл бұрын

    Your videos always leave me with something to thing about. My cousin and his wife are dear friends. Growing up, they'd always be at my home on Friday night for coffee with my parents.. Over the years my relationship with them has frown...they truly are dear to me. When they retired, they decided to sell their home (5minutes away from mine) to move closer to their kids/grandkids. I was devastated...if they left I'd have no family left around me. I was so sad I couldn't bear visiting their home...the home that held so many memories. I had to move past this. So, I wrote a goodbye letter to their house...thanking it for being such a good protector and host to so many important events. The biths, the deaths, the anniversaries and graduations, the long chats about life, love, reconciliation... It was a love letter to a place that held precious memries. The hello to their new home was difficult at first, but, we have all adjusted and creating new memories.

  • @sharonproctor4079
    @sharonproctor4079 Жыл бұрын

    Your Grandfathers spirit had gone to God. I lost my Grandfather at 13. I missed his laughter his stories and jokes, his playing his fiddle, harmonica and organ. I felt his absense when I visited my Grandmothers house.

  • @elizabethbryan3821
    @elizabethbryan3821 Жыл бұрын

    Such a lovely vlog…one door closes but another opens 😍

  • @beulahbenade4098
    @beulahbenade4098 Жыл бұрын

    Hal has an answer for everything 😊 hunting dog.... I'm happy for you that the place where you're signing papers for your new beginning is linked to Grandpa. That's no coincidence. I'm happy for you that you've come so far, since those bleak days at the start of your KZread. God bless xx

  • @MaryEllenAfter60
    @MaryEllenAfter60 Жыл бұрын

    Loved having coffee this morning with you, and The Dez! I am so excited for you that I am just over the moon happy. I have a feeling you'll be back to beautiful Grand Rapids, and the Field of Dreams! I know you had a very blessed, and Happy Easter. God is so Good!! I know your Grandfather is smiling down at you Susie. Love you, and Backyard Desi...Mimi

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    I am so thankful for you being in my life Mimi!!!! I am dancing today!!!

  • @virleneprice9848
    @virleneprice9848 Жыл бұрын

    You have the most beautiful memories of your grandfather. He would be so happy for you to now make your own memories with your grandchildren. Say hello to your new journey and experiences that are waiting for you.

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for these beautiful words... what a kind heart you have...

  • @1218kimber
    @1218kimber Жыл бұрын

    I lost my Daddy at just before 11 yrs. and it was devastating. I’m 60 now, but I’ll never forget how after his funeral, people were eating and visiting and I was angry. I couldn’t understand how they could eat when my Dad was dead. To this day I hate funerals and I’ve only been to just a few, one being my Moms which was in 2011.

  • @pstansell18

    @pstansell18

    Жыл бұрын

    K J, I can relate to your message so keenly! I remember first my Dad, then my Mom and then my only sibling sister, whom I adored predeceasing me before I was 40. I remember feeling angry at how the world just “went on as usual” when I was crushed, devastated and in deepest despair! It seemed cruel and unfair and frankly, made me feel more alone/lonely. Then came the realization that everyone has these seasons to go through; it just wasn’t their time, or they have already had their turn at desolation and brokenness. Life can be so darned difficult, but we’re all in it together, for better or worse, kinda like marriage!! 😂

  • @cuddlemuff6632

    @cuddlemuff6632

    Жыл бұрын

    I empathise with how you must've felt as an 11 year old losing your Daddy. I thought it was offensive when people were eating after the funeral of my best friend's father at 14. I've learned that it's a social convention after funerals.

  • @TinaGardner-sj1bu
    @TinaGardner-sj1bu Жыл бұрын

    Can’t wait to see Desi in his backyard and you enjoying your home!

  • @elainap3
    @elainap3 Жыл бұрын

    What beautiful memories of your grandfather. God is bringing you into a new season and you will take all of the precious memories from your present city to your new city and your new lovely home and you will begin to make new memories. I’m looking forward to seeing videos of your new home with Desi and watch you transform it into your own. Many beautiful moments are ahead! Thanks for sharing.💐

  • @sandien.9084
    @sandien.9084 Жыл бұрын

    You were so lucky to have had your Grandfather for 10 years. You do realize he is going with you, right? That wonderful part of him is also the wonderful part of you, too. Your new home is so lovely! I can't wait to see how you decorate it. Did you ever wonder why they say you are "closing" on your new home? They should call it "opening" on it. 🙂 Have a wonderful Easter and give Desi a hug from me, will you? xoxo Sandie

  • @laurisims-alaimo3491
    @laurisims-alaimo3491 Жыл бұрын

    Your video today had me in tears of happiness. My grandpa was the most wonderful man. He taught me how to drive, he helped me start a business. Since his death I have researched his life from the beginning. He was adopted somewhere between 1912 and 1917 in NYC. He never knew his biological parents but his adoptive parents were wonderful. We called him a social butterfly because everywhere he went he made friends. He taught me so much. Best of luck in your new city near family! ❤

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    You are so kind and it means so much you are here and left such a beautiful comment! Thank you so much and I hope you have a wonderful week! xxoo Love always, Susan & Desi

  • @dianemoser2457
    @dianemoser2457 Жыл бұрын

    Best of luck to you, I lived in Grand Rapids for 64 yrs & now live in California. Hears to new adventures!

  • @claireoconor7986
    @claireoconor7986 Жыл бұрын

    LITTLE POET, YOU ARE SO VERY SPECIAL!! I KNOW YOUR BELOVED GRANDFATHER IS YOUR GUARDIAN ANGEL, IS ALWAYS BY YOUR SIDE, AND VERY, VERY PROUD OF YOU!!!!🙏💚❤️💚

  • @barbchrisman5066
    @barbchrisman5066 Жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad you said hello to the Lord! I look forward to meeting your grandfather when we get Home! Happy Resurrection Day! He is risen, just as He said! Yea Jesus!

  • @tonihendrix6652

    @tonihendrix6652

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too❣️

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for being here and very Happy Easter! Susan & Desi

  • @melapost9207
    @melapost9207 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for taking us with you! Hugs 🤗 and prayers 🙏🙏🙏

  • @mandiejayne4892
    @mandiejayne48928 ай бұрын

    I'm 57 years old and in two weeks I will move in to a cute little home that will, for the first time in my life, be entirely my own. I am so nervous as it is in a new town, 1500km away from the city that has been my home for 25 years. Your reflections have helped me to accept the change with hope for the future and I'm ever so grateful for the timing of your message. It is one sign, of I'm sure many more to come, that I am on the right path. Your words and attitude are true gifts in this uncertain time for me. Thank you, and all blessings to you!

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    8 ай бұрын

    Your words tocuh my heart becasue I was scared just like you! There were some days I would wake up and just feel I wanted to run! But everything went so smoothly! Nothing went wrong...nothing...and after my move was all over here I was in a little house by my family...and I thanked God I made it...I asked myself, is htis Heaven? And I heard a voice " No....it's Big Rapids" !!!!! Welcome! I am sending love and prayers your way!!! xo Susan & Desi

  • @mandiejayne4892

    @mandiejayne4892

    4 ай бұрын

    @@LittlePoet It's 3 months on and that's a quarter of a year! It's been a time of newness and learning all over again at this age. Hesitancy has truly and authentically been replaced by hopefulness, so I thank you for your prayers and your example, both of which are powerful and so full of magic 🌈 💕(the big heart is for you, and the little one is, of course, for Desi)

  • @dianegriffith3006
    @dianegriffith3006 Жыл бұрын

    Same here, climbed trees as a little kid. Playing down in the woods and skipping down along the country roads. Such freedom then.

  • @barbg1012
    @barbg1012 Жыл бұрын

    My grandad raised me as well. I loved him sooo much. He was a wonderful man. The last time I saw him he said to me that he couldn’t wait to see my grandma again & that she was the prettiest little thing he ever did see. At his graveside service I felt an overwhelming joy pour down on me & bewildered the other relatives with a smile. I knew he was with Jesus & my grandma. 💕💕💕🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💕💕💕

  • @HelenVaughn-un6de
    @HelenVaughn-un6de Жыл бұрын

    I wish Hal was moving too. 😢

  • @shirlynb148
    @shirlynb148 Жыл бұрын

    Susan, I’m so excited for you on your new adventure. I’ve lived in GR for nearly 30 yrs and moved to Kalamazoo 5 years ago after getting married in my late 50’s. Your new city, a thriving college town is only 45 minutes away from GR. Decorating, landscaping, exploring is on your agenda!

  • @carencassidy2359
    @carencassidy2359 Жыл бұрын

    Dear beautiful Susan, First of all, I am so happy for you in seeing your dream of owning a home come true! I just turned 66 and have for the last few years a rumbling in my soul to make a big change in my life. It's not that I dream for a better life, but to live a different life. I am in the last quarter of my years, and I have been here in the mountains of southern California for 40 years. My interior design business has been my work for just as long and even though I have been blessed to love my work, I feel that I need a change to go back into my one of my great passions of returning to the world of antiquities and obtain my appraisers' license. I also have had this burning desire to go back and live my remaining years in England as I am a British citizen and I want to be closer to my family. One may ask so why haven't I made the leap? It isn't as much of facing the unknown or change, but the fear of failure that paralyzes me . At my age, it isn't like I can start all over again. And yet, I think of my friend who moved to France at 75 not knowing the language and never regretting it! And too, I think of you and how brave you are leaving all that you have known and loved to dare to dream of a different life! God bless and and keep you. Give Desi a sweet kiss upon his furred head for me!

  • @maurinegovey4365
    @maurinegovey4365 Жыл бұрын

    Saying goodbye and hello to new adventures is our way of continuing to grow! Embrace every moment!

  • @abbeyshell23
    @abbeyshell23 Жыл бұрын

    No matter where you live, your grandfather is with you. He is the essence of you, your heart, your very being. Now it’s you turn to impart his wisdom to your grandchildren ❤ Happy 🐣 Easter. Stay safe. Safe travels. ❤ your channel. You link us back to our very essence ❤️🇦🇺🦘🐨

  • @LittlePoet

    @LittlePoet

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow, thank you so much for kindness! ! A very Happy Easter to you! xo Susan & Desi

  • @pamelakeyser5965
    @pamelakeyser5965 Жыл бұрын

    You are an artist. I am 66 yrs old and your videos have a touch to them that harkens to days gone by. I wish you and Desi the best new life possible.

  • @donnamclaughlin9215
    @donnamclaughlin9215 Жыл бұрын

    All the best to you with your new journey. My grandmother always said to take the bitter with the sweet. I think about that a lot. take care, Susan!

  • @FaithyandOtis..Massachusetts
    @FaithyandOtis..Massachusetts Жыл бұрын

    Have a blessed Resurrection Sunday, but for the grace of God, we are saved on the blood of Jesus Christ our Savior🩸🩸 so looking forward to your new beginnings. It’s going to be an exciting and blessed journey. I will be along for the ride.. loves and hugs to you and the Dapper Des from me and Otis🐶 Massachusetts p.s. I was a tomboy also, I love hanging out with the guys.

  • @tonihendrix6652

    @tonihendrix6652

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for posting this beautiful truth, Faith!❤

  • @FaithyandOtis..Massachusetts

    @FaithyandOtis..Massachusetts

    Жыл бұрын

    @@tonihendrix6652 you are quite welcome Toni🌺🌺 Have a blessed night, and a joyful Resurrection Sunday🙏🙏

  • @vonalaird1883
    @vonalaird1883 Жыл бұрын

    Happy Easter to you and Desi!! What an exciting time for you with your move.

  • @roses1941
    @roses1941 Жыл бұрын

    I'm of Italian descent and know the close bond with grandparents. I wish you God's Abundant Blessings for a whole new beginning filled with good health and happiness. Half seems sad that you're leaving. It's hard to find a good man like him. Take him with you! Happy and Blessed Easter, Roselle

  • @roses1941

    @roses1941

    Жыл бұрын

    Hal(sp)

  • @barbarawhite3217
    @barbarawhite32179 ай бұрын

    What a sign from Grandpa. You didn’t give up. He is smiling!

  • @myalightseeker
    @myalightseeker Жыл бұрын

    You have such a beautiful way with words that I tear up. I’ll always take with me “Sometimes saying goodbye is saying hello”. I love that! You give us a peaceful few minutes break in life with your videos. It’s thoughtful, it’s happy, it’s sad, it’s funny, it’s heartwarming, it’s real. It’s love. Thank you for sharing your life with us. I’ve been watching you for years. I’m so happy for you and sweet little Desi going forward to the next chapter in your new house and new life! 😊

  • @tinagoh7429
    @tinagoh7429 Жыл бұрын

    This is so touching and beautiful. By GOD's grace, walk towards your new tomorrows with lots of sunshine and a little rain ... and don't forget to bring all those beautiful memories and us with you! A Blessed Easter to you and yours, Susan. ❤

  • @rosepetal9748
    @rosepetal9748 Жыл бұрын

    What a special way God revealed Himself to you❤

  • @BrendaKay2024
    @BrendaKay2024 Жыл бұрын

    You did it again you made me cry ,sweet girl...

  • @raventyson
    @raventyson Жыл бұрын

    Goodbye to Grand Rapids and Hello to your new beginning! It is SO EXCITING! 😀 I moved away from my beautiful California at age 50, to finally begin my Northwest dream! I began a new life, near Seattle when a strange turn of events in life made it easier to go begin anew. For nearly 10 years, I have built a life here, and I love it! Amazing, because I never could imagine really moving away from my home. I did it! I am SO thankful for that new beginning, and I bet that you and Desi will transition into what you have been dreaming of and working for! ENJOY every minute Susan...all of us are cheering you on. ❤

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