I’m trying not to be scared as I’m going into the hospital Monday morning for a total knee replacement. I’m telling myself just like when I was younger and having babies that others do it, so can I. 😅

@LittlePoet

Жыл бұрын

Hello Sher!!! You got this!!! My best friend has been through that surgery and she was fine and shocked it wasn't half as bad as she had been told it would be!!! She just signed dup for dance classes this week!!!! My love to you and yours....and if you get a chance, give us an update on your surgery! xxoo Susan & Dez

@marpet765

Жыл бұрын

Marlene peters- sherjoy. Don't be afraid. I had a knee replacement on my right knee and then the left knee they were done a year apart. They do such marvelous surgery now. I had no pain. You sleep quite a bit. My surgeries were both done early morning and I was up walking the next morning. I wanted to share this experience with you. Take care. Let us and me know how you do. Food was good too. Like a seven course meal.

@jacquelinedonoghue2135

Жыл бұрын

Good luck to you sherjoy on your upcoming operation. I’m sure all will be well. Huge success with knee surgery nowdays. 🌸

@wanda4573

Жыл бұрын

Honestly you will be ok. It goes by fast.

@SusanPorterflseagrl

Жыл бұрын

Sherjoy, I'll pray that the doctor's hands that perform your surgery will be guided to give you a successful and safe outcome. It's okay to be nervous and scared (we're all that way with surgery), but know that we care, are thinking of you, and wishing you all the best. You'll get through this! Love and Hugs. ♥🙏

I have to add, last year I had a partial hysterectomy. They found a mass in my stomach also. Before I went into surgery I asked if I could say a prayer before they put me under. I said a prayer the anesthesiologist said thank you, and while they were administering the anesthesia, my surgeon came over and held my hand until I fell asleep… that kind gesture has stayed with me❤ I might also add I have a deep faith in Jesus Christ as my savior and at first I was uncomfortable asking to say a prayer but then I thought why would I be uncomfortable this is who I am in Christ🙏

@azamudio128

Жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏

@tomr.2907

Жыл бұрын

Faithy, i pray for you. You can be strong. I hope you are well. After being misdiagnosed for months with "women.s issues", the day before my wife turned 65, doctors found a tumor the size of a football, in my honey. Ovarian cancer stage 3-C. Five years later she became my Angel. Her symptoms few medical providers are trained to recognize. Ovarian cancer impacts 1 in 80 women, and kills a woman every 90 minutes. I hope to someone educate providers so it can be diagnosed early and no longer be the silent killer. 😇

@melrose795

Жыл бұрын

Amen!!

@emilymorris5988

Жыл бұрын

I had a hysterectomy a few years ago and had heart complications from anesthesia. I was out for quite a long time and an abnormal heart rhythms which scared my surgeon. When I partially woke a nurse was on one side and my surgeon on the other side with his hand upon me. I overheard them both praying for me. I will never forget that experience. It was a Catholic hospital I was in, but I would not think too many healthcare workers would pray for a patient undergoing complications. I was certainly blessed.

@suzanne296

Жыл бұрын

Amen twice!

Over half of my life I’ve been afraid. Afraid of what others think of me, afraid of saying the wrong thing at the wrong time,afraid of not being a good enough person…I was always fearful. In my mid 30’s I learned I was the problem. Allowing fear to rule me. Last year when my husband told me he had filed for a divorce, I became fearful again. At 69 I was going to be alone again and living on just social security. Oh hell, I passed fearful, I panicked! It took a little while, but once I really looked at everything I realized I would be ok…and I am!

@kimkelly9046

Жыл бұрын

You are a warrior!

@donnastephenson3865

Жыл бұрын

Good for you 👍 👏 ❤️

@jcool4358

Жыл бұрын

We are always stronger than we think. Being independent is so rewarding.

@bethyynelsonn5339

Жыл бұрын

I'm glad your good,We are always gonna be good❤️😁

@barbiec4312

Жыл бұрын

What a woman! A brave woman. ❤️

22yrs ago I was going through my divorce. I was so scared to walk into Court by myself in front of the Judge and face my ex husband. I was wishing my brother or any of my sisters to offer to come with me. They never did 😢. I’d mentally prepared myself days before and built the courage to walk in by myself and finalize that chapter of my life. It was incredible, surreal really. It didn’t take long at all for one person to Order an end to a marriage. Walking out of there I’d felt a painful heaviness lifted off my shoulders. I’d learned that day how STRONG I am by myself. ✨🌷🙏🌷✨

@suskelleykelley7241

Жыл бұрын

Alice at the same year I. Agreed to end a 25 yr terrible marriage. I was also terrified but a heavy burden was gone after it was over

@alicecastillo2352

Жыл бұрын

@@suskelleykelley7241 @Suskelley Kelly. I’m Sooo Proud of you! We are Survivors.! Everything, very struggle or achievement is now OURS Only !!!!! Sending Special Hugs. 💕🧸💕

@chrystalbazan2200

Жыл бұрын

I can relate my dear ❤, God holds our hand when we fear the unknown. Bless you. I am 62, was married 21 years and now 1 year later I still am recovering from narcissistic abuse. Live with mom but I am alive and grateful to know I am not alone as there are many women like us!

@alicecastillo2352

Жыл бұрын

@@chrystalbazan2200 Hi Chrystal 💕. My heart goes out to you I completely understand your pain. Here’s my next story. After my divorce I’d met someone who was a narcissist, unfortunately I was blinded over heals in love with him. At the time I did not realize what being in a turbulent abusive relationship I was with this total narcissistic man. That was the hard part I know the pattern, everything is our fault, we don’t behave, we don’t deserve anything bcs of our behavior. He eventually cheated on me and I was told to read between the lines bcs I didn’t deserve an explanation. I am still recovering from that up to this date of ALL the residue he left inside of me. I held ON to God’s merciful Hand and moved on to create a new Peaceful life for me. Chrystal we Got this!!! 💕👊💕 NO man is worth enough to take ANYTHING, ANYTHING from US. Let them think they have 😂😂😂. Unknowingly THEY, themselves GAVE US the STRENGTH & POWER WITHIN US!!!! I Am at Peace. Create your own Happiness 🥰 We matter! We deserve it! Love Yourself and pamper Yourself daily. Sending warm Hugs 🧸🧸🧸. 💕🌷💕🌷💕🌷

@chrystalbazan2200

Жыл бұрын

@@alicecastillo2352 Alice, it’s so helpful knowing that we are not alone.

From a former nurse who left the field due to burnout, thank you for sharing your story. It's vulnerable moments like those that made me want to be a nurse and that I miss the most. A patient asking for that type of support is a true gift to a nurse, not the other way around. Thank you for another beautiful video!

@sjp4u338

Жыл бұрын

I’m a nurse, too and I totally agree. It makes us feel close to our patients. ❤️

@cathyandresiak1975

Жыл бұрын

I was a nurse for many years and those were the moments that made it all worthwhile plus many others.

@LG-dz9ss

Жыл бұрын

I’m not a nurse. Nurses are angels on earth. Thank you nurses past and present.❤

@carolcaruso6641

Жыл бұрын

40 years a nurse, retired in 2019 and its true. Even with the shortage and Covid I'm still hearing stories of caring and compassion about nurses, even from my own 90 year old mom who was in the hospital.18 days. Kudos to those nurses and all health care workers still out there, we do love our patients !!

@annamorreale9458

Жыл бұрын

I’m a retired nurse who left nursing due to the stresses of working during COVUD. I muss my patients so much that I cry sometimes. We as nurses strive to offer others comfort during stressful and sometimes painful times in our patients lives. Being a nurse is who I am. It was never a job to me.

I’m dealing with breast cancer. Just newly retired and thought I would be able to do all the things I put off when I worked for 50 years. Life has a way of sneaking up on you when you least expect it.

@trishkelly1721

Жыл бұрын

Awesome and colorful PJ’s!! ❤

@margoquintana2283

Жыл бұрын

Sending blessings to you. Many are praying for your recovery.

I had the most loving and caring nurse, Jackie at Lahey Clinic ICU in Burlington, MA. I will never ever forget her loving kindness toward a perfect stranger. What a beautiful human being she was! How blessed I felt.

My breast surgeon held my hand right before they put me under for breast cancer surgery. It meant so much to me. Fifteen years later, I'm still here. Thank you for this lovely video.

@suzanne296

Жыл бұрын

Amen and keep the faith!

The first medical procedure i had after my husband pass away i felt so alone and was afraid. The nurse asked me if i was okay and i told her he was always with me in the past and i felt so alone, she came over and held my hand during the whole procedure, it made all the difference. ❣️

@tomr.2907

Жыл бұрын

Mary, i felt the very same emotions, at the first couple medical procedures after my wife went to heaven. I expect i.ll be anxious at future medical events for a long time. My wife had been with me, at my side, for everything for decades. And i had been blessed to be with her, at her side, holding her hand, for her 100+ doses of chemo, a couple hundred medical appointments & tests, her last 5 years, fighting ovarian cancer. I now think i know the comfort & compsssion & love she felt from me by her side, and holding the hands of my honey, now my angel. 😇

Susan, I cried when you said you were alone giving birth! I was alone too when my son was born even though my husband was sitting right next to me! He had head phones on watching a ball game while I begged for someone to help me. He is my ex husband!

I used to be a dental assistant and I’ve held the hand of many patients. One lady I can remember was so terrified she dug her nails in my arm so hard making marks. I like to think I helped them through a terrifying experience for them.

@sunnyrlc4411

Жыл бұрын

May God bless you for your tender hearted kindness.

Susan .i just love how you show nature and fun, shopping & make up and then turn it over to Little Poet to sweetly lay down the profound story at the end. . its quite an art you make.

@janadickey4378

Жыл бұрын

Yes.

@danielnaimowicz9397

Жыл бұрын

She is so very special

believe it or not when you asked for help you healed part of the trauma for your 15 year old self....who, by the way, does still exist ❤

Sometimes when you feel overwhelmed with your life and you are sure there's nothing to hold on to.. A simple kindness from a stranger... Maybe that young woman wasn't sure if anyone needed her help... And you showed up

The story you told about the twenty something that held your hand…thank you for asking her and blessings to her that she offered. What a valuable life lesson for you both. You asked, and she learned to have empathy.

Susan, you don't know it, but you were holding my hand on Tuesday November 1st of this year. I was diagnosed a month ago with her two positive carcinoma in my breast. I had surgery to remove it and two lymph nodes. I start chemo soon and then radiation but they are sure they got it all during the surgery. My daughter set me up with little poet videos on a loop for me to listen to while I was in recovery because she knows how much I love you and how soothing your voice is to me. And it really did make me feel better and I woke up and my daughter was sitting with me and your voice was playing in my ear. I know it sounds silly but I thought you would understand. I wasn't going to say anything until I watched your video tonight and I just had to write and tell you how you held my hand on November 1st. Love you and Desi!

@LittlePoet

Жыл бұрын

Oh Stacy...how you made me cry! Thank God you made it through and if I had known, Desi and I would fly out and give you a big hug in person!!! My love to you always and always....and if you get time, please let me know how you are doing! xxoo Sues & Dez

@Elizabeth-arb22

Жыл бұрын

Stacy, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I think it's wonderful that Susan "held your hand" while you were in recovery. I don't think that's silly at all. May you heal quickly and completely!

@stacyterry3791

Жыл бұрын

@@Elizabeth-arb22 thank you so much!

@BedfordFalls7

Жыл бұрын

Stacy, you have a wonderful caring daughter. What she did for you speaks volumes of how much insight she has and how loving she is. Too put those Little Poet videos together so you would feel comforted. And they did help you! Please hug your daughter for me and every women who wishes they had that love in their life. She is special. Get well, Blessings to you ~

@diamondhair11

Жыл бұрын

I started crying over this too.... Sometimes others don't know the nice feelings we are feeling towards them. When I hit 50, 52 I started saying what I was thinking...If I see a beautiful woman and I'm near her, I say, "I just wanted to tell you how pretty I think you are". If someone smells good, I tell them and ask what they are wearing..... It's little things which make us feel good .

Thank you Susan. in 2019 my husband was going through Chemotherapy for Leukemia. it was the most difficult time of our lives. Fast forward a couple of months to his Stem Cell Transplant. I worked in Home Support for over 20 years and was a support for many families during challenging times, but always refused any offers of help because I always felt I could manage and didn't want to bother anyone. I reached out to my brother. sister and his cousin and said I needed them and could they come. They all said yes. and staggered their times to be with me. I had someone with me for almost a month. The best thing I ever did was say I needed them and please help me. He's gone almost 8 months now, and I've been able to reach out when I needed someone.

@countrysister700

Жыл бұрын

I'm not sure if it's adulthood or our American Protestant work ethic or just pride, but "help!" is something we are far too slow to cry out. God made us for each other. The helper is often blessed even more than the sister in need. Prayers for you as you walk out these days without his physical presence.

@Drycreek995

Жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you were able to go though the surgery you needed and best of all had a hand to hold. Loved the dress It looks beautiful on you. I’m not a Target dress fan either, but what a winner! Loved the watches and the ottoman. I have a bench at the end of the bed for my two little fur babies. Hugs, Caroline

@queens6583

Жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss Lee. That had to be a difficult journey. By asking for help you also gave your family the gift of helping to care for your husband and having that time with him.

@leeleroux9092

Жыл бұрын

@@maryspangler4557 Thank you Mary. Im praying for you. I had him 2 years longer as a Dr. said he wouldn't live past July '20. Many blessings to you on this tough road.

@kimkelly9046

Жыл бұрын

God bless you

Little Poet, you just struck so many chords in my life. I was a dental assistant for over thirty years, in the same office. I have held so many hands over the years. I've had people tell me that if not for me they could not have had such and such procedure done! But, until now, hearing you say that about your young assistant did I really take those words to heart. To me my heart was already wanting to help or do whatever it was to make that patient feel comfortable, to feel like they were all that mattered at that time. I could write a book on this subject. Thank you, Susan, for letting me see that I did make a difference. I've thought many times if I really did or were patients just being nice. This was for me. Take my hand and I'll take yours. God bless you and your sweet Desi!

You did it again! You sent me back in time to a dentist appointment that started out like yours, but the ending to mine might make you laugh. I was around 35, my husband had left me for another woman, and I had an abscessed tooth. Although the antibiotics seemed to have done their work, the dental surgeon still wanted to put in a drainage tube. I was in no pain the day I went to the office, but I opted for the laughing gas, my first time having it. I started to think about there I was, a grown ass woman whose father took her to the dentist because her husband was gone. The tears started, the tech became alarmed and squeezed my hands. They ended up giving me enough gas that I didn't remember anything... until I came around in the recovery area with the worst pain of my life. This poor older woman timidly approached me with a single rose in her hand. She offered it to me saying, "The doctor likes all his patients to have a rose." I was SO PISSED at being in pain, and probably still loopy. I took the rose and shook it at her. "Do you know what he can do with this rose?" My highly amused father retrieved me and hauled me outta there before I could make any suggestions. Just think of that next time you go to the dentist and remind yourself how much better behaved you are than I was. :)

I worked in dental offices for nine years and I’ve held many a hand or talked or reassured the patient whether they were three years old or 80 ... it’s a really good feeling when you can help someone else just a little ❤️

I'm sorry you had a rough week. I'm glad you are feeling better now. It's not easy to confront our fears. When I have, I almost always realized after that it wasn't as bad as I imagined it was going to be. Desi looks very happy with his new ottoman. I adore that little guy so much 🥰

Desi is so cute and smart. I remember a nurse holding my hand right before delivery of my oldest daughter. I was 19 and I will never forget her kindness, even 42 years later! She just knew to comfort me.

Both you and Desi are adorable! His little face makes my heart smile!

I cried at the "holding my hand" story. Such a simple gesture but so beautiful! :)

@janadickey4378

Жыл бұрын

Me too!

@sheronmechelle8672

Жыл бұрын

me too!

@suzanne296

Жыл бұрын

It helps, me too

@melindalabombard804

Жыл бұрын

Me too..

Tonight you made me cry in recognition of how there is love available in the most unexpected places, if we are brave enough to ask for it. I have grown so fond of you and Desi and your videos! Someday I will send you an email with photos of how you have inspired me to decorate my little one-bedroom apartment. Thank you for your work -- it has given me courage in some dark times p.s. i LOVE your ottoman!

@kimkelly9046

Жыл бұрын

May God bless you!

@territina5365

Жыл бұрын

Lori Yearwood, Thank you for sharing your heartfelt words...What you said about finding love in unexpected places is oh so true and it made me tear up...I am not a techie person but the one thing I do enjoy and appreciate about social media is how it has the power to connect like minded Souls whom we may otherwise never meet...I was raised by my Granny & Granpa, so I am somewhat partial to old fashioned values and stuck in my ways of wanting to still write letters and send baked goods via snail mail...I just feel like the smallest & simplest of things are the most comforting & valuable...If you're on fb and would like a new Friend just look me up and send a request...Know that you are never alone in this sometimes scary world and that good folks like our Friend Susan do exist and truly care...Wishing you a BEAUTIFUL weekend~~~ 🤗KINDNESS🙏MATTERS❤

Susan, I am so glad I stumbled on to your KZread channel. You make me laugh, cry, reflect, dream, envision a better me. You are like the embodiment of the kind of open, honest friend we all want as we become more mature women in our 60's.

I worked for a periodontist for 23 years as a surgical assistant and you are not the only person who has fear. I had a male patient about 6’4 250lbs who cried when he saw the needle coming. Many patients asked to hold our hands and of course we complied till we needed the hand back. Laughing gas can also work as a truth serum. The things I once said under gas, oh my lol

I am so glad to see that Dezi is using his new stool. ❤ When I was in college, my parents' dachsund jumped off of their bed and hurt her back. My father massaged her back and legs for months, and she was able to walk again. Your black dress is so pretty; looks like Dezi approves too. I am so glad that your oral surgery went well and someone was there to hold your hand. The human touch is so important, no matter what age.

You’re such a wonderful story teller. Please never stop because you’re a true inspiration to so many. Be well and know you are wanted and needed 🙏🏻😇

I'm a nurse, working in birthing center. I bond with almost all my patients during the long time of labor and delivery and when it get to the most difficult time of delivery, I'm always on their side offer them if holding my hand can help them. Believe me at that time they try their best, they feel the energy and they squeeze super hard. No matter how much it hurts, it makes me feel helpful and happy and be part of their unforgettable moment. And I'm sure they will have good memory about a nurse who empowered them by holding their hands. Love all your beautiful dishes in thus video

@deborahpellerito6117

Жыл бұрын

God bless you

This video touched my heart. I'm needing help now and don't know where to turn. I'm 60 and still working but need help cleaning and organizing. I'm only 60. I'm not scared, I'm wore out from my hard life. Reading the comments is like therapy for me. Thankyou susan and desi.

@LittlePoet

Жыл бұрын

sending you lots of love!!!! We women are mighty!!!!

@barbiec4312

Жыл бұрын

Do you have a friend that you can ask? Lots of people are willing to help if we can find the courage to ask. Sending you strength to get through this. Be good to yourself.

Seeing that beautiful boy Desi on his fancy ottoman, reminded me of something a work colleague said to me the other day. I was telling her that I have to get up in the night sometimes because my cat, Shirley 😄, scratches at the door to be let in or out. My colleague said "what a naughty cat." I replied "No, she isn't at all, she just can't open doors by herself." My colleague rolled her eyes 😂 but it's true isn't it...they are helpless in many ways and I think it must be hard to want to do something but not be equipped to do it and therefore we help those we love, be they human or fur babies. You look extra beautiful today Susan. Love to you and Desi from Shirley and me. 💕💕

When a person is willing to show vulnerability, or fear, the response can be surprising, but it shouldn't be. Who has not felt alone, fearful, needing reassurance? We're all connected, a lesson that young woman now knows, because of you☘

I love how warm and inviting your home is. The love that you put into choosing everything...shows.

I’m in tears right now! You and I could be soul sisters! You are so sweet and thoughtful! I put everybody ahead of me in life, and I know the reaction to rejection in my life. You asking that nurse to hold your hand was so brave. I’m happy she did that for you. I had breast cancer, a hysterectomy and a bacterial infection and total knee replacement this last year and I. Worn out and I need grace in my life right now! Thank you for being so sweet! ❤️

@daisyy99

Жыл бұрын

You are strong and brave, too. You made it through! I hope you rewarded yourself. And I recommend a treat every week! I go to the library and read new magazines, or find a book to take home. Sometimes a dvd. Sometimes I treat myself to a cookie or a donut. Take my lunch to the park. Go to the thrift store.

@LittlePoet

Жыл бұрын

My love ot you Neta..my Sista!!!! :) xxoo Happy Sunday!

@ehpeachylove

Жыл бұрын

Praying you feel up to full health before you know it. You’ve got this in the bag. ❤

@lorraine739

Жыл бұрын

What a year! Hope you are well now x

@donnapecoraro3126

Жыл бұрын

Neta, i wish you a speedy recovery, how very brave you’ve been!

I was on the other side of the request for support for 40 years as a bedside nurse in a hospital. Dont ever be afraid to ask when going through something like a health issue. Many of us go into health care for just that reason--- to make a difference when someone is sad, uncertain or scared.

Hi Susan, I remember 33 years ago when I was in labour with my second child and I was in hospital waiting for my husband to arrive. I was very scared because I knew what was coming and I asked the nurse if I could hold her hand and she held my hand until he got there. We need the loving touch of another human being when we are afraid. I'm 70 now but I've never forgotten her kindness. Take care till next week xxx

Oh, Susan, thank you so much for this video. It was heart wrenching! I hope you feel better and I'm so glad you got to hold her hand. When I had my eye surgery to remove a portion of my eyelid, because of cancer, Dennis was allowed to come in, and he held my toe. He couldn't get any closer. But that brought me the comfort and courage that I needed for that moment. I'll never forget it. And when he was in ICU for his bypass surgery, I didn't dare get close to him because of all the wires and machines, but I held his toe. I guess we are toe holders! And in December, on the 2nd, we will be married for 50 years. Are we going anywhere? No, we want to stay home. Maybe out to dinner, but we just want to be alone, with each other. Thank you again for such a beautiful, peaceful video. Give my love to Dezi, and Darcy, and Lyla send theirs. Jeanie xxooo

The awesome power of physical touch is so very grounding. It doesn't need to sensual or sexual. I have found myself over the past 4 or 5 years kind of closing myself off from physical contact... not sure why, but it happened. So when the occasional touch of a hand or a hug happens, it feels so intense. And sometimes, I just kind of melt into it... the warm embrace of someone, the little touch of a hand on mine. It can be terrifying and at the same time it can be so comforting. I am so happy you had that positive experience, and I'm fairly certain that the tech will remember you for a very long time. Loved this video, as I do all of them. Hugs, Penny Sue

You will look beautiful on your date and at Thanksgiving in your new dress! I had to laugh when you said you didn’t want to learn anything more about appliances!😊 When did everything get so complicated??🤷‍♀️ I am glad that your surgery is behind you.

Human-kindness can’t be beat, you both benefitted from that touching moment. Glad you are feeling better and faced your fear of teeth removal.

You get in life what you have the courage to ask for.

I cried listening to you say you asked someone hold your hand and that they did. I have always been afraid to ask for what I need. I'm working on it and you made my day. You are so brave sharing the bad along with the good.

Thank you for sharing with us, I look forward to seeing you and Desi every week.

Susan, you are an inspiration. Thank you for sharing your life and wisdom with us

Susan, You, have changed that young lady’s life and you can bet that she will never forget you. ❣️ What an awesome experience 🤗💕👏

I have always had a problem with asking for help. When I was in the hospital and my doctor was telling me that I was going to need to undergo emergency surgery, I had the most compassionate nurse that I am certain God placed in my room at that time. She was working on me and as the doctor talked, I felt her squeezing my hand and I wondered what she was doing. As soon as the doctor left, she looked at me as I was fighting back a major cry and she said that was a lot for anyone to hear and asked me if she could hug me. I cried in her arms and was so moved by her compassion......I will never forget how God had the right person with me at the right time! Glad your surgery is over; teeth work is NO fun. Love the ottoman and it seems Desi does as well!! Here's to a much better week ahead for you Susan. Love you lots, Debbie 😘❤

Aunt Susan we know how tough it’s to go through such surgery and sickness but we also know how strong you are so stay hopeful and feel better soon keeping you in our prayers happy thanksgiving in advance best wishes for you your family friends

I turned 60 last March. I'm so grateful to find your channel. I seem at a crossroads emotionally. Do I buy the "My best days are behind me"? Isn't that what our culture tells women? No, your channel affirms the hope welling within my heart, "The best is yet to come!" Oh and I just think Desi is scrumptious! I would love to hear his bio! BTW, when I had my wisdom taken out at 40, I started singing the soft rock piped throughout the clinic...so they told me! LOL🐾🦷

@dianaschoen4485

Жыл бұрын

Hi friend! I just turned 60 and feel the same way you do. 😊

@patriciavandevelde5469

Жыл бұрын

I m 61 and boy it sucks! Getting invisible, loneliness pffffffffffffffft!!!!!and the whole body falling apart!

@traceytansley1659

Жыл бұрын

Hi Laura, I also turned 60 this past March. It's been a rough year. My husband had a major heart attack at Easter, only the 2nd person to survive this severe of a one, in the heart surgeons 26 years of practice. I am still dealing with the fears. I have anxiety and during Covid it got worse, finally turning into Fibromyalgia. Of course, after my husband's heart attack at 55 years, this flared worse. It was also a challenge to even go into hospitals with my fear of Covid and fibro flared up with so much pain, secondary to his situation of course. I kept having full on panic attacks, and could barely breathe, but for him I faced my fears. Sitting alone in Emerg having my 5th panic attack, a young women sitting behind me recognized it, she sat with me and showed me a technique she uses to deal with her panic attacks. We both had our mandatory masks on, but her eyes were warm, understanding and kind. Eventually, my husband came home, how blessed! I felt like I won the lottery jackpot, but recovery was slow and while I kept up with most things, there were just somethings I couldn't manage. A few neighbours, after I finding out what happened, stepped up and helped. Another neighbour that I mostly only waved to and didn't really know helped me the most. She even drove me to pick my husband up when he was released a day early and family couldn't be reached. She purchased last minute needed items for him that I had only found out about the night before. She sent me photos of the items to choose from by text message so I felt like I was shopping..sooo sweet!!! She even refused to take money for these things claiming she would have spent more on a fruit basket. Turns out she is a fellow Pisces! Pisces are so giving and caring and can be trusted, so then I knew it came from her heart. I had to learn to accept help and face my fears. While my husband was still in serious condition (in medical coma on life support) my step daughter arrived to help, instead she did nothing and caused drama, ve4bally attacking me because I was vulnerable. I didn't understand at the time, but as time past, I realized she has been jealous of me the whole time I raised her, her brother alongside my own two since her mother hasn't ever been good parent..my step daughter therefore needed double attention from my husband and was jealous of our closeness and felt deprived anytime he didn't spend with her, or gave to me. Anyhow, she took this horrible traumatic time to take advantage of my weakness. It has been a nightmare. The kindness of strangers and neighbours are what got me through, that and faith.

Oh, Susan - love the hand holding story so much! How wonderful to be supported through a scary time. I also adore Desi on his maroon throne! Love to you and heal well!❤️

Oh Susan. How beautiful it is!!! Desi is loving his yard, too. I'm so HAPPY for you two!!

You never know who you are helping. I have been putting off getting a tooth pulled for a very long time. I'm afraid. I'm on blood thinners and I feel anxiety about going off of them for a bit so I can get this stupid tooth pulled. Listening to you, I feel like I CAN do this, so THANK YOU!

I absolutely love your visits with us, Susan! You have such a gift and you generously share it each week. You make us laugh, you make us cry and you inspire us. Thank you for being a blessing to so many!! Love you and Desi! XOXO

She was willing to help you because she, at her age, is already a compassionate soul, and is fortunate enough to understand the reciprocity of extending one's self. Lucky her. Lucky you. Happy Holidays to you and yours.

HI Sues....I am glad someone held your hand. God send His Angels to help us all the time.... You take care...........blessings.....MINDY

I had surgery to put a Stent in my heart one day after my husband passed from cancer. I was alone, except I knew God was with me, and so was my husband that day. I had a nurse who hugged me before and after surgery, that physical touch meant so very much. God bless her.

@LittlePoet

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Thank you Karen for sharing that part of your life...humans touch has so much power...I pray everyday noone in this world goes without love....xxoo

I love that I found you. It has been tough for me, entering the mid 60s alone. Your video about the elephant bridge really got to me. Elephants are now my spirit animal. This video just blew my mind. This week for me: oral surgery for one infected tooth to be removed; I bought a new 4 quart crockpot; and I bought a new ottoman, the main color being burgundy. Your story about hand holding, I too was a 15 year old having a baby all alone. Wow. Well all I have to say is if elephants are now my spirit animal, you are my spirit guide. Unreal. Thank you for being. Edit: You asked about needing something and being afraid to ask for it. Well, that would be right now. I feel so alone and need some guidance to help me navigate these deep waters of being a woman of a certain age. And also - I would love a hug. It has been painfully long since I was wrapped up in a hug by anyone. I forget almost what that feels like. It's okay, I am finding my "inner elephant" lol and I will figure it all out. Thank you for being here and sharing. .

Susan your hair looks extra fabulous today. Loved your "holding hand" story. It made me cry. It reminds me of when my two daughters and I went to a haunted house about 8 years ago...I was 52 and they were 30 and 15 respectively. My daughters were going on and on about how Mom is never afraid of anything, she's going to laugh at everybody being scared...well, I was scared. I was at the front of the line and there were more people (strangers) with us going through this haunted house. I couldn't make myself go forward and my daughters were egging me on to keep going so when I looked back at them and they seen the fear in me, they both yelled out "mommy!", they ran to me and put me between them and held my hands and wouldn't let me go. I felt like a child and I felt they were treating me like one, but it was so sweet the way they wanted to get me through that. I know it's not the same as going through what you went through but I can relate to your point on how you felt like a scared child...I felt that too. It was so weird for me, so unexpected. TFS

Never underestimate the power of holding a hand or giving a hug. ❤ Dress looks fab! Desi looking gorgeous as ever….😊

Dez is living the life👏 I think you need a smaller black dress. Fools that we are we thought that was king Desi's step stool when clearly it's his throne 😂

Ms. LittlePoet, you are wonderful in every sense of the meaning. You're not alone, you video's have brought inspiration to me and many others with graceful and laughter. No. you don't have 'permission' to leave us all for weeks. Your health will be healed quickly and your charm, elegance, inner beautiful self will BE OKAY. Let Go and allow to be and heal. ❤❤✝✝🌺🌺

Every week is such a treat to tune into your channel! There is humor, beautiful things to see in such well curated videos and above all; always inspiring thoughts and life lessons! Asking for help

@francesjoubert8842

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Is never easy but is necessary too!

As a person who worked in a hospital I held a lot of hands, Very small hands, Right along with their parents, Never be afraid to ask❤️

@LittlePoet

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Susie for being an angle to the world!

It is a strength, not a weakness, to ask for help when we need it. As a RN/ARNP of 50+ years, I always felt that the human caring side of nursing was most rewarding. A tender touch and an empathetic attitude is what's most needed in our high-tech world. And now a question--what is the brand and shade of the lovely lipstick you are wearing in this video? I'd love to get one for myself. Thank you Susan, I always look forward to seeing you and Desi every week.

Great story Susan about your oral surgery experience. I too have feared that chair for years. Making appointments would cause such anxiety it would take me weeks and months to make an appointment. That claustrophobic feeling whilst a person's hand is in my mouth or touching my face. Ugh!! Our stories aren't the same but like so many others I'm sure we can relate to that fear and anxiety while alone or not for an array of reasons. Thank you for being so so open and vulnerable with your life and making people like me feel normal and uplifted. How brave of you to ask for help. I struggle with that so much from childhood. Your right that young girl will always remember the connection she had with you. You touched her heart😊❤🇨🇦

@LittlePoet

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You touch my heart Susan!

This made me teary eyed we’ve all had those very fearful moments in our lives. I held the hand of my anesthesiology person when I went in for a d&c after a miscarriage at 23. That young girl had empathy and that’s a wonderful trait to have. I am glad you are ok❤

The young woman got tears in her eyes because of your very basic human need, and she had the honor to help you. You are very brave.

Oh Susan, you are so so beautiful. overcoming any fear is enormous. The beauty that radiates from you with your videos is striking. You leave such an impression on me, and give tremendous inspiration. Thankyou so very much. I am in a bad marriage at the moment and can not leave due to the economy at this time. I was threatened to be thrown out two times in the past five weeks. I have no where to go and it is terrifying to me. I am not used to this kind of living and now at 64 years old. I had a beautiful marriage for twenty years until he passed away, and now this.. So yes, I am filled with fear. I know some day I will get out of here and I know that it will take a lot of courage to go and make a way for myself like you did. Thank you for your honesty and caring to share yourself with us all... love to you...💜

Im so glad you reached out and the young lady reached back. Im sorry you went through that. I needed to hear this tonight being so sick for 3 weeks. Its gonna be alright. Just one day at a time. I pray a speedy recovery for you.

My heart is touched by all you endured as a teenager, I'm not surprised that memory surfaced, and I truly hope you will feel lightened emotionally as you continue to heal physically. Many Blessings, Joy

Oh the crockpot and yes, I too am so tired of studying “how to use” new appliances…your casserole looks delicious like the perfect comfort food. Still watching, ok so I’m slow lol…

Thirty -eight years ago today I gave birth to my 2nd child, my son. They took me back to the labor room and told my husband to wait by the reception desk and somebody would be out to get him shorty. Well, things happened very quickly and they are rushing me down the hallway on a stretcher yelling don't push! And I'm yelling where's my husband?!! A nurse said somebody will go get him now. And I said, Can I hold your hand? And she said absolutely! I can still see her face leaning over me and the powerful way she held my hand. I think about her when its his birthday, like today. The worst fear of having any surgery are the days leading up to it. So glad you took care of yourself, we need you happy and healthy!

@LittlePoet

Жыл бұрын

this was so beautiful to read....I thank you so much, Barb for being here....

I had an mri lying on my stomach. One of the nurses held my hand the entire time. It was so kind of her and allowed me to feel more at ease in the machine.

You brought tears t my eyes with your surgery story. I had my gallbladder out and was pretty scared the nurse came in and told me it was all about me today and they were going to take very good care of me. It really helped to ease my fear. I'm glad you have that behind you and the nurse was there for you. I wish you a speedy recovery. Also, you looked very nice, I do like your dress!

How beautiful of the nurse to hold your hand. It brought tears to my eyes if there is such good people out there.

What a sweet thing that tech did for you. I'm glad you've gotten that procedure behind you. ❤️

Thank you for sharing your dental story. It was touching. I'm glad you asked for help. Our mind plays horrible tricks on us. Half the time what we worry about is not that bad. Love the pj's, they're beautiful on you. That ottoman is fantastic! Desi looks like he loves it. Hope your week is better than the last 😊

When I see Dezi’s face it just makes me smile.😘

It's hard learning to be an adult on my own for the first time in 64 years. I keep thinking that it must be important in my life lessons to go through this too. No more drama to be involved in now. Very quiet and peaceful yet very lonely. It's been a year now since I became a widow. My children are grown with children and full time jobs. I keep thinking that I will figure out who I am without all my daily familiar life experiences but nothing yet. The day after my husband died I had a tooth break. I know what you mean about feeling so alone at the dentist. Somehow I just don't feel as brave as I did when I was taking care of my family. Now there is no one to take of but myself. I find it interesting that this is so hard for me. It's the little human interactions that can mean so much. Thank you for sharing yourself with us. It's interesting to have this type of platform, one of the good things about the internet that I'm thankful for.

Susan, the content you share… it is simple and comforting. It warms my heart as if you’re saying, “relax, it will be ok; you will be ok.” Thank you.❤

I had a small procedure in my doctors office a few years ago and the doctor asked a nurse come in the room. She held my hand the whole time, maybe about 6 minutes or so. I was so grateful because I was afraid. I will never forget that. That small gesture meant so very much to me! I love watching your videos! I can relate to many things that you talk about. 💗

I love your content, Susan, but I also love your sense of humor. Your delivery is so deadpan and so funny, it gives me such a lift. Have a good week! ❤️

I thought back to my childhood. When I was a very sensitive and shy child, scared of everything. I would worry so much and I had a permanent frown. Mum said I would end up with worry lines if I didn’t stop frowning. One day before I went to school, I started to get anxious and worry about the day ahead. I asked my Dad for help. He told me to repeat a phrase that his Mum taught him. As I walked to school I repeated over and over “Don’t worry, it may never happen!” Well it worked. I would hear my Dads voice saying it to me and it calmed me. Even to this day, I still repeat it in my head when I am worried or anxious. I remember my Dads voice and it still calms me. 😂.

Susan, I have found so much courage in your videos. I lost my husband to cancer this year and we were married for 40 years. I am 61 years old and feeling lost and trying to decided where do i go from here. Not by choice but we never had children and I find that i am looking for a new identity. Who am I without the love of my life. I love watching you and hearing your stories and it gives me such courage and motivation to find who I am without him. Thank you so much for sharing with us all.

i'm so sorry to hear you had a rough time this week with the dental surgery. Thank God for that young woman who held your hand and helped you through. Any medical procedure can be very anxiety filled and she showed that there is some humanity left in the world. On a lighter note , have fun on your upcoming date, and give Desi a milk bone for me lol, he is so cute.

I worked as an RN in labor and delivery/NICU for 25 Years out of 42. I think you were a very brave girl to have gone thru all that at 15. Yes that’s truly something! This retired nurse commends you! I also think your courage formed you into the fabulous person you are today. Feel better Susan! I had an implant done on the right upper back tooth last year. I know the feeling it was miserable!

@tomr.2907

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Joanne, you are so nice. Nursing is a calling, a way of life. A nightengale. My wife was an ICU nurse for 35+ years. She held so many many hands. Sometimes the last hand a patient felt in life. Holding hands may be the most important, set simple, way to comfort and love someone. My wife became an angel a few months ago. I miss holding her hand more than anything we shared in 45 years together.

@fridperon3670

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thank you for sharing this you look so beautiful in those outfits..you look so young

Susan, I am so grateful for this share...and for your assured healing path! Sorry the last few months have been so challenging for you. Brighter days and months ahead! You give us all courage to do our best, whether its showing up looking "sassy" for my 50th HS class reunion, or taking on health challenges with courage, grace and "asking" for help when we need it. Bless you !

Excuse me while I get a tissue. Your talk today was so touching Susan, you brought tears to my eyes. Your presentations are so professionally edited. You really lift thus 77 year olds' spirits. Just love the ottoman you got for your sweet companion. He does too! Thanks for sharing your intimacy with us. Enjoy your date.

Oh Susan, you made me cry with your story at the hospital and feeling alone. So many times I feel like I am alone in this world and need to face my challenges without anyone.. It is so scary at first, but then after it is all over and done I feel stronger, and “yeah, I can do it again “… Being alone is such though lesson for us, but I think our lives prepared us for it from the very beginning..

I still have tears in my eyes from your story at the end. I am so happy she held your hand & you had your procedure. This was a beautiful video. Thank you. I love your new dress and pj's.

I had a bridge on my upper right side done, a permanent one put in and it does take a long time😮 a lot of appointments but I have a great dentist and he did a fantastic job. One of my teeth came loose that I had a crown put in so that had to come out and he put a false tooth with bridge. I absolutely am so glad I had that done. There are so many people that are poor that go hungry that have things a lot worse than I do. I am so grateful for what I have… it’s a good reminded to give back also to those less fortunate❤Giving is good for the soul❤.. Oh let me know how you make out with your Italian gentleman. I am 1/2 Sicilian, 1/2 Abbruzzese🇮🇹🇮🇹 I did buy the ottoman for Otis. I’ll let you know how that works out. I have a bench in front of my bed that he jumps on the bed to get to but he won’t use it to get off. If it is a fail I have something beautiful.

Your story brought tears to my eyes. I find your life extraordinary when you share your lovely fashions and very delicious casserole meals. You truly are a kind caring sole and show us it’s okay to show vulnerable feelings of true humanity. Sometimes I wonder why we work so hard hiding that fact. It’s a joy to visit you and I look forward to more of your stories and that darling Desi. He’s so cute sitting on his new ottoman. Blessings to you both.

@LittlePoet

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Thank you Sarah so much for such a thought brilliant observation....why do we as humans at times want to hide our vulnerability....so afraid to ask what we so desperately need....thank you for a wonderous question....xxoo happy Sunday to you! xxoo Sues & Dez

@sarahswan2182

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@@LittlePoet It’s truly a joy to get to know you and learn the true experiences we all as women share. Thanks for brightening my world.

Glad you are feeling better. It is so hard to ask because we doubt that someone cares or we are worthy. I would gladly help another I don't know why I would think no one would help me. Lovely dress and the pajamas look so glam. Sending love to you and Desi. - Sue in GR

I get a ottoman for my "Buddy" to make sure he can make it on my bed. It is an antique and it too high to jump up to it. He is too old to jump that high. Thank Susan for suggesting this. God Bless You and Desi❤️

@LittlePoet

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oh that is so sweet Rosemary! Happy Weekend to you!!! xxoo

I’m glad you got through the procedure and that the young lady was able to help. When I have had some procedures done I just walk in and flat out tell them I am scared and nervous! Most people have been so kind and helpful! Desi is adorable on his little red throne! 💙

@LittlePoet

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Oh wow! Mary!!! You are right..that is Desi's throne!!!! So cute!!! Happy Sunday to You!!!

I always have nitrous oxide in the dental office when I’m having a procedure and it makes such a difference. It is scary to be in any medical situation by yourself. I gave birth to my oldest son by C-section by myself in Washington DC. I was there in an internship for my masters. I remember it is a very lonely and scary time but also a very beautiful time. I am now 64 years old and that son of mine is one of the three jewels in my Mother crown❤❤❤

Oh, Susan, you remind me so much of myself because I have dental phobia and get so anxious. The power of touch is calming and healing. I've learned from experience that there are so many good people out there that have empathy and good hearts. That young girl in the dental office that held your hand cried because she thought to herself, "I can help and be a godsend to someone today," and she went home after work knowing that she made a difference. So you both were blessed. So happy everything went well and you're gonna be fine. ❤

@LittlePoet

Жыл бұрын

Oh Suan..my Sista!!!!!

Thank you ! Simply a powerful and beautiful expression of vulnerability and strength. You are an awesome lady!

I recently found your videos, and immediately started relating to them. I often get tears in my eyes from the emotions which come up for me. As far as dental, I experienced such anxiety that I would have uncontrollable shaking. A few years ago, I found a wonderful dentist, however I still procrastinate in getting in there. Thank you so much for your videos. I am finding myself again at age 69, and your videos are helping me so much!

As they say, “If you don’t ask, the answer is always no”. I’m glad you asked. 🌸💗