i couldnt agree more, however, when men are too slow they are probably trying to say that they are not interested and want us to give up instead of being direct and say that they dont want us. Their excessive slowness makes us lose interest...

*Once we recognize what it is we are feeling, once we recognize we can feel deeply, love deeply, can feel joy, then we will demand that all parts of our lives produce that kind of joy.*

Everyone is different. Some fall in love quick, some don't. Some want to move fast, some don't.

You're the first male coach, speaking to women, that I've listened to who actually makes sense. It feels as if you've brought together the reasons that both partners pace themselves when beginning a relationship. Thank you.

Thanks for this. It's a revelation. He's a bit broken from a previous so I'm not rushing him.

Great to see someone broaching the sex issue. Am not sure how people just jump in and out of bed so quickly. This must lessen the joy and perhaps numb the senses. Feel sorry for youngsters today.

Thanks for giving such great advice!

This is the video I needed to discover. Thank you !

I truly needed listen to this at this point in my life❤

Wish I heard this a month ago before I rushed it forward a bit too soon.

O Maaaan thank u !! u r just about to save my relationship

Such a good knowledge. Gave a good clearlity. Thanks

What about the older adults who are 40-50 plus? What’s our excuse for taking it slow besides traumatic experience

@madehoney5052

4 ай бұрын

Right! If you’re this age still trying to figure yourself out then just don’t date

Omg I had it all wrong 😢thx Carlos

More of this! 😊

Was asking myself this question a few seconds ago…

So true ❤

Until recently I never realized men take break ups worse than women do....

@MsTakiH

Жыл бұрын

Same!

@jessim4154

Жыл бұрын

Yea, I had no idea either… but it makes a ton of sense

@AngelReyes-mo9ef

Ай бұрын

It hurts deeply

@tundereinhardt4676

Ай бұрын

Not all of them do!! That’s not true at all!

beautiful

U wrong carlos is right not lack of confience

A guy that takes it slow is not confident... Fullstop...

Really, Interesting, this slow burn idea works? Ok, I always thought it was called wasting my time. I find when a woman is attracted, she wants to live in the moment, and want consistent interactions together. However in my experience this layer of slowness, just makes me bored, eventually I lose interest.. i find only women who are NOT truly attracted or really interested in me. "slow burn" just my humble opinion. And that goes for Men if I am practicing a "Slow burn" i am probably not interested and doing just the bare minimum usually out of boredom, which I know is bad. My therapist says I should have an abundance mindset.