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24 Signs He's Secretly In Love With You
Wouldn't it be great if there were secret signals that a guy likes you? Are there signs he's secretly in love with you?
Well, the answer to that question is yes. No secret there.
And I'm going to cover some of those secret signs here for you.
The guy you're curious about might be working with you, or you're friends, or even the barista at your favorite coffee shop. Whatever the situation is, there are signs that guys give off that they are in love with you. All you have to do is know what to look for.
And the truth of the matter is that it's always so easy for us to tell if someone we know is in love with a friend. But when it comes to us figuring out if someone loves us, it's always difficult. Or we just have our doubts...
One of the best ways to figure this out is of course body language signals. The reason that body language is so reliable is that it's how we express our emotions without even knowing it.
For example, do you know that you store your emotions in your body?
In the actual cells of your body?
Scientists have known this for many many years, and it's been proven by science. You may have even known someone with extreme emotional problems who was always suffering from some kind of disease or chronic ailment.
The reason that disease shows up like this is because of the emotional issues they're struggling with. This relationship between emotions and wellness is documented and proven by science.
So it only stands to reason that his interest in you will appear in his body language. We'll look at both the body signals he gives you that he's in love with you as well as the BEHAVIOR signals that he's falling in love.
Before You Go Looking For Signs He's In Love With You...
However, before you go looking for signs that he is in love with you, ask yourself this important question:
Why are you looking for signs from him?
The truth of the matter is that, YES - you should look for some signs of interest from him. And don't give up too much of your game early on by showing him how much YOU are into him.
But very often what I see out there is women who are really trying to avoid being vulnerable. The whole reason she's looking for signs is because she's deathly afraid of being rejected.
She wants to be absolutely sure before she shows any hint that she might like him. Which is really a self-protecting stance.
Most of us have been taught from an early age to play it safe. Maybe it was our parents, maybe it was our childhood, but somehow we let this idea fester in our brain that if we take a risk, we could "lose it all."
And that's one of the most dangerous lies we tell ourselves.
Now of course, the idea that we could lose it all is extreme. But that's how our mind and our anxieties ramp up the hidden meaning behind rejection. We blow it completely out of proportion.
Ask yourself:
Are you afraid to start conversations?
Are you afraid to reveal your true thoughts?
Are you afraid people will reject you?
Are you afraid you're not enough?
All of these are normal fears for most people. But they don't have to be there at all!
"No one can reject you without your permission..." - Carlos Cavallo
When you realize you cannot be truly "rejected" without your permission - you will stop fearing this irrational outcome.
In fact, the fear of rejection actually traces its way back through evolutionary psychology. People feared rejection because it usually meant they were cast out of the tribe.
So just keep in mind that when you hold yourself back into a position of looking for signs and signals rather than acting, you are embracing your fearful state.
Be willing to step up and be vulnerable. You don't have to lose yourself or compromise yourself. But if you want to connect with a man in this day and age you're going to have to do better than women in the past.
Now let's take a look at Signs He's Secretly In Love With You:
SIGN #1: He's Johnny on the spot...
When a guy shows up when he says he will and where he says he will, there's a good chance he's really interested in you.
It all comes down to consideration and motivation.
You can read somebody's level of respect for you in how they treat you. It's not in their words, because anybody can say any words. (and most will...)
For the rest - Be sure to watch the video!
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If you've been hurt, it's hard to tell intuition from insecurity. I wish more coaches would recognize this.
@chekkygurl182
Жыл бұрын
Interesting point. I always thought your gut/intuition is always right for you no matter what reason -as they are more based on primary instincts for safety. Identifying insecurities are just opportunities for you to work out how you can get to that safer feeling.
Wow. So much pertinent information in a 16 minute video. Thank you so much Carlos.
Where was this information 18 months ago. Found out that the guy who I thought was in a relationship was seeing someone else more than 6 months ago. Devastated, crushed you name it. So much investment. He said he loved me, made us exclusive but I didn't know that apparently I was in a friends with benefits situation . Another guy came along but at that time I was still getting over that break up and as much as I tried to be strong I was still falling apart . He was so sweet but I believe that even though he told me I could confide in him my heart break pushed him away.
You are very informative Carlos!!!🎉
Wen i woke up this morning , i immed started thinking of someone from Work who i think may like me, i was reaLLy surprised i was thinking of him. Lolo ! Hmm what is going On here. Thats why im listening to this..😅😅
Wow Carlo's law alone is by far the most resonating sign alone. Says it all.
Hi Carlos. Carol from Canada. Wow. Interested topic. Wow. So much I learn in as of a short time listening to this. 👍
3:44
Like this
You skipped Sign #20.
Carlos even when your married will he still ask questions? Cause my husband does do that.
Sometimes you look like Rowan atkinson
@UrielAvalosjr
Жыл бұрын
you mean bean? lol
@user-mx1gm3ki7h
Жыл бұрын
@@UrielAvalosjr yes..bean is handsome tho lol
Well this is interesting I've recently started seeing someone after being Single and celebate for 5 years, And he is much younger so there is age gap of over 20 years that in itself is interesting, he does most of this except ask me questions about me, We do talk and text sometimes he text me at night to say good night or how is your day which sometimes I find kind of odd but after hearing what you said OK, and we have also talked on the phone for quite 3 hours and found out a lot of things about him and his past but like I said this is new ground for me so, And I'm listening to this today August 1st 2020 which is my birthday cheers to sixty 60 years. 🥳
@ingridramsaran5497
4 жыл бұрын
Good luck, I am in a similar situation!
@riemed1st
4 жыл бұрын
@@ingridramsaran5497 men 🤦🏽♀️
@lilytoh3580
3 жыл бұрын
Why is he not really asking things about u? Not that interested in knowing things about u, and u gut feelings tell u so, but u blindly give him the benefit of the doubt. If therebis someone else to attract him in the future, he will leave u, that is why he does not ask too many questions about u so that when he does decide to leave u, he does not have to fight against all the emotion he has for knowing u. He is definitely making it easier for himself should the desire to leave u for someone else comes in the future
@evelynaolaira2752
3 жыл бұрын
I have my LDR relationship but he does not asking me ,,he always great me and saying I love you, he's showing me his love but I'm the one to offer or asking what he wants and interested for him....
I guess is time to move on.. was making illusion and stuff.. I would like To know. How To forget a one sided relationship..?
@Professional_Nobody
3 жыл бұрын
Bint Issa try hypnosis forget someone on KZread
Came across your channel a few days ago. Question... when is it safe to share a traumatic experience that has lead to PTSD without scaring him?, though one finds it extremely uncomfortable & painful to allow another one in the situation. I doubt I can share it, I don't even want to discuss it with myself. Over the years I have developed tools that have allowed me to function quite well. ALWAYS BUSY! Mindful meditation helps immensely, Work from 9 to 3, my down time is devoted to all the things I am passionate about (meaning I actually schedule what I want to do or where I want to go). I am a flamenco dancer, started training when I was three, I schedule dancing every other day knowing that it is very likely I may end up dancing even if for only 40 mins before going to sleep. I like to be completely exhausted both physically and mentally, I will say something odd, but the elephant in my room is completely muted. After a long day of work, volunteering, studying, gym and/or dancing, perhaps includes a trip to the theater, a stand up comedy bar, , I very much drop dead on my bed within a second or two of crash landing. Five hours of sleep and ready to start all over again. Occasionally if my business needs it, I can go straight for over 48 hrs without sleep. ... please don't suggest I visit a therapist, tried that several times always storming out angry. I abhor anyone who thinks he/she knows how I should handle my experience when they were NOT part of the situation, (frankly wouldn't want satan to go through something like it) but only a person who has actually experienced the same thing can come close to comprehending exactly how one feels. Anyone out of that 'club' is wasting my time. This has become one of my worst secrets, been carrying my cross since 1983. I also keep silent because I don't want to be seen as a victim, I am anything but a victim. I am stronger than nails and in silence I can help up others dealing with any sort of loss. SILENCE IS LIKE THE AIR, YOU CAN'T SEE IT BUT IT CAN BE EXTREMELY POWERFUL.
@northstar4851
2 жыл бұрын
How will you tell him about something you can't share with ppl trained to help you? Getting angry and saying no one understands is expected by therapists. If you just show up again, you can avoid going through this over and over. It's making it harder on you if you start from scratch ever time it bothers you enough to seek help. It happened in 1983? Almost 40 years ago. Time to work through it. Keeping secrets takes its toll on you. Also, why do you want to tell this guy about it? Do you want him to understand something about you now? You don't even understand, if you haven't done the work. Do you want him to feel bad for you? That is playing the victim. You were the victim--once upon a time. Examine your motivations. I'd be interested to know what you decided to do. Best wishes.
Carlos? Can you talk about men being cheated on and how they react towards their potential future relationships? I wanna know how it is like to facing such men?
@Jesuslover296
Жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Me too!!
@Jesuslover296
Жыл бұрын
Her idea is great!! Really need this info!! Thx
I liked this video, have a question.. what if a man is somehow showing many of these signs and is trying to spend time with me, but at the same time he told me he has a girlfriend!!
@lilytoh3580
3 жыл бұрын
He wants both hands in the honey-pot. He has no intention of being committed, he is just a playboy. A sex adventurer, he would love tp have a harem if more girls will fall into his honey/pot. He has to show the right signs to entice girls, he knows how to do it, and hopeful girls will think they can be the one he will choose but it is just a game to him. At least he lets u know he has others to play with.
@iveyterriful
2 жыл бұрын
If he cheats on his girlfriend, he will cheat on you. I’d run.
I trust my intuition. I told a guy I’m sort of seeing that I trust my intuition last night by phone. I’m not certain I want to be with him. He rarely asks about me. Lol he just texted asking about me. Wired. We are long distance by two hours. I’ve had time to reflect on our experiences and communications to have a much clearer understanding of him. I’ve noticed great insecurity in him more than he wishes to reveal. I’ll tell you he’ll feel really sad if I’m not in the picture.
Soooo yeah, he's not interested 🤣🤣🤣
People say good nite in texts to friends etc etc
But, if we can't be physically together, body language IS impossible to decode. I'm in an LDR and have never physically been with him. How do I navigate through his love? And we have a great age gap of 22 years and cultural differences, he's North European and I'm Sourheast Asian. We communicate only through a dating site. So many questions, no doubt about that.
It's NOT a lie. Your quote is BS. That isn't love, it's lust. Maybe he is just a very helpful person, a talker.
How to know an engaged co worker loves you but has not express it?
But if women are better at relationships than men, they wouldn’t make those mistakes.. pretty sure we both are bad at it
What to dyif you realize the person is a narcissist
@goddessshella664
4 жыл бұрын
Hello I know of someone who can help you he helped me get my ex back just as he did mine he can also help you too
@goddessshella664
4 жыл бұрын
Text his WhatsApp
@goddessshella664
4 жыл бұрын
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@dizasadorableanimals6554
3 жыл бұрын
@@goddessshella664 Scammer. Same exact comments as Judy James on above comment!
@dizasadorableanimals6554
3 жыл бұрын
Run as fast as you can. A narcissist cannot be helped and will destroy you slowly.