10 Signs He Thinks About You A LOT! Have You Seen These?
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"Is He Thinking About Me?" - The Signs That Say YES!
By: Carlos Cavallo
It's kind of a cliché, but one of the questions every woman wants to ask is "Is he thinking about me?" And sometimes "What is he THINKING?"
Because if you can just get this guy to think good stuff about you, you know you've got him good and HOOKED on you!
You know YOU are thinking about him, but that's the part that's got you obsessing, right? You want to flip the tables and make him as obsessed about you as you are with him.
how do i know if boyfriend thinks about me Is He Thinking About Me? The Signs That Say YES!
You might be interested in him, thinking about him - and wondering if he's interested in you...
You might be dating him and wondering if he's feeling and thinking the same thing you are...
You might have broken up and now you want your ex back...
Whatever the situation, it's important to know where his head's at and what he's thinking when you're dating!
But how do you know if he's thinking about you?
Let's jump into it and talk about the signs that say YES - he is thinking about you...!
"Is He Thinking About Me?"
Sign #1: He's A Social Media Stud...
If this guy is thinking about you, he's going to find reasons to contact you and find out what's going on with you. Which means he's probably going to stalk you a little bit on social media.
And it doesn't matter if you're 21 or 101 years old - everyone's online these days.
Even if he's not on Pinterest or Snapchat (or whatever comes next) - you can bet he'll be out there making contact on at least Facebook. (One of my distant aunts is 80-something and she's crazy-posting all the time on Facebook.)
Dating tips: You're going to see this guy being much more visible. It will start out with friend and connection requests.
how do I know if he is thinking about me Is He Thinking About Me? The Signs That Say YES!
It might even start out innocently enough through some kind of professional connection, where he makes it a point to connect with you on Linked In about 2 minutes after you meet. (HINT: If he connects with you from his phone while you are together, that's a HUGE sign!)
But you'll see him make a big deal out of (sorta) cyber-stalking you on social media. This is part of his thinking about you and turning it into curiosity that makes him stay in contact. And even if he's your recent ex, you will still see him keeping up on you this way.
Sign #2: Likes Likes Everywhere...
You're also going to notice the activity on social networks start to pick up once you connect with him. He's going to be tagging, liking, and commenting quite a bit on posts and stuff related to you while he thinks about you.
When you wonder 'is he thinking about me,' one side is him wanting you to notice him. Another part will be him wanting to "stake a claim" with you as early as possible. Yeah, guys start getting territorial and possessive the second there's any interest on his part. He won't want to risk losing you the more thinks about you.
Sign #3: He's Foaming at the FOMO...
You might have heard of the term "FOMO." It's an acronym for:
Fear Of Missing Out
It was coined to describe how people behave these days with their smart phones. Now that we are all so darn connected online, we live in this weird state of being afraid of missing out on what's going on with other people.
I used to feel this way back in my 30s, when I got my first cell phone with chat and voice mail. I was always checking to see if I was missing out on messages about going out and hanging with my friends. I'd think "Oh no, I better not miss anything..."
This was especially true when dating.
Guys get this way when it comes to a woman they're interested in dating. In the beginning, you'll see him viewing, checking things, and even being REALLY responsive on texts that you send.
Which, unfortunately, sets you up for a false expectation later that he'll keep this texting frequency up. (He won't, sorry to tell you.) But enjoy it while it lasts!
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Signs He Thinks About You A LOT
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1. Double texts you 2. He’s curious about details of your life 3. He initiates 4. He’s ‘good’ stalking your social media 4b. he’s following you / retweets your social media 5. He’s NOT on his phone while with you 6. He remembers things about you 7. He asks you for advice 8. He mentions reminders ( I snide jokes , common interests , fun situations ) 9. He shows you 10. He’s trying to make you happy
@jessicarubymartinez2917
2 жыл бұрын
For somebody that gets this often, and finds it cringe... I highly advice people to be weary of people who are straight up going through this with someone else. Some people just do this to get into your bubble. Once someone gets into your bubble they can manage to control certain aspects of your life without you knowing. If you don't get this treatment often... these "signs." It's easy to think that person is being "true." This comment is just for precaution.
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks! I need you to do my timecodes. :-D But you need the information, so watch the video! ;-)
@hodanbille
2 жыл бұрын
@@jessicarubymartinez2917 You are so fucking amazing.
@DBeauty82
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for listening them 🤩
@SuperShandy777
2 жыл бұрын
Lol in my dreams :( feel lonely
I would prefer if a man tells me straight up what he's thinking and feeling, especially if he's into me. 🌞🙏 It feels good to hear it.
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
I hear you - unfortunately, that's not human nature. We communicate very INdirectly, which is why you need to know how men hide their true needs.
@awmy3109
2 жыл бұрын
Then you take him as needy and take him for granted.
@patriciawesson1181
2 жыл бұрын
@@awmy3109 it's a double edge sword as the same goes for women too, one can't win sometimes
@chanthana7694
2 жыл бұрын
@@patriciawesson1181 that is so true!
@patriciawesson1181
2 жыл бұрын
Why is being "needy " such a bad thing though? At some level we all are. We all need something. And I agree it feels good to know what the other person is thinking.
If this guy tells me a bed time story I'd fall asleep before the end of the story,,,,What a soothing & charming voice,,,,Oh my goodness💜🥰⚘
I love this, i experienced all this signs in my relationship and i thank God for grace of fasting and prayer about him , i do appreciate.
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
Great!
@sirennem.6890
2 жыл бұрын
read 8 dates by Gottman. The best
Fantastic Stuff as usual, really need to know this stuff. Thank you!
Thank you for all these tips. I love watching you.
Nicely presented Carlos. I love your voice!
Thank you for the Great Advice 🙏🏻
This is such a great video. Honest, relatable, and inspiring. Thank you so much ❤️🙏
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
Men are complicated! They are all over you the first week, full of messages telling you how great you are, how beautiful etc.... Then by the third week of nothing but texting, you're left wondering, well, what happened to the date he was really keen to take me on??? So many times, we don't even end up meeting! What was the point of 3 weeks of solid conversation?!
@patriciamartin6756
2 жыл бұрын
Cheryl. You are lucky you are free to do what you want. If you know of a nursery school that will baby sit an adult ; 6 foot, 175 toddler that wants all my time let me know
Awesome as always Sir!! Thank you.
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
Awesome videos Carlos, thanks, I was missing a lot of clues, duhh!. Thanks.
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
For sure - thanks, Deb!
Thank you Carlos 💗💗💗 you have reassured me tonight 😊
I wish men should just simply tell they are not interested anymore.. atlst you will not expecting anything, well fellow Ladies just enjoy your day and have fun,, before I don't like hiking,hunting discovering things but now I really enjoyed it so find your happiness too☺️☺️☺️ don't get stressed with men😉
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
I hear you - As I said above - unfrotunately, that's not human nature. We communicate very INdirectly, which is why you need to know how men hide their true needs.
@junleypick8651
2 жыл бұрын
@@kristykreme2623 lol... One day someone will hunt you I mean love and care you😊
@leoniea138
2 жыл бұрын
Ja . Men are so complicated . Who has time for game playing and nonsense
@vienlastimoso1526
2 жыл бұрын
Very well said
@ingridkhajeh8982
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to say it but men leave ya hangin so they can come back and act like nothing happened If this happens then call him out and see what happens
I am so happy if I know he is thinking about me and about our future
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
It's validating, ,isn't it?
@ivanakunikova
2 жыл бұрын
@@connectwithhim what you mean?
@kristykreme2623
2 жыл бұрын
@@connectwithhim yes validating, a warm, happy feeling, if only we could know
Thanks Carlos
Great video, great advice Carlos✨❤
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@sandragreen5146
2 жыл бұрын
@@connectwithhim you more than welcome🙏❤
Thanks!
I’m so in love with my bookie… even tho he’s a puppy 🐶 🤷🏾♀️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@SuperShandy777
2 жыл бұрын
Woof lol xxx aww iv got 2 dogs x
Thank you very good video
yes this is true really..thank you
I am in relationship for almost 3 years some it’s broke it off by his friends didn’t lot of damage toxic friendship it’s still working out a lot bonding he is want to be happy
Life is so weird. I know a guy who ticks almost all of these boxes, but still, he says he doesn't like me. He also unfollowed me on social media so that I wouldn't get hurt.
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
Not to put too fine a point on it, but it sounds like he might be telling you the truth. Not everyone is a match. The important thing is for you to move on quickly to a man who WILL like you!
@themoviefan6948
2 жыл бұрын
@@connectwithhim Thanks for the reply! 😊 I'm gonna keep that in mind.
Thanks Carlos - I have more of an understanding now x
A guy likes me and mentions reminders, I'm also passionate about plants and mushrooms so I talk about them a lot so when he (and others) see an interesting mushroom or plant, they think of me and always mention it. I have become who they think about when they're outside. Being passionate about something will have others think of you in everyday moments. It will change how they experience things because you will now be associated with those things and they'll want to talk to you about it. Then you're thought of everyday. I didn't know this would happen, it's interesting though, if you like someone, develop your hobbies and do things you love, when you talk about your passions, you will light up and give them something interesting to think about.
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
Great connection
@kristykreme2623
2 жыл бұрын
So true. Like muscle cars from the 60s, 70s. Antique architecture, and the craftsmanship of century old homes. Trying out a new recipe. A well maintained, (must have sun though) vegetable garden, beautiful plantings and flowers, landscaping a yard so it's welcoming and comfortable,. Hiking in the woods, chilling at our secret waterfall on a hot summer day. An spur of the moment Foxwoods getaway for the day and/or night. Giving each other a warmed, scented oil, full body massage....that's what I 💘 love doing with my lovable ,handsome, sexy, hot boyfriend.
I have experience real relationship and this I know from years ago
So true…
Just being single is the best way to be in 2021.Just new someone in,but what the meaning if someone asking you by keeping his number??
I know sign in relationship
This would help me because I am love with the boy told thousands already and he won’t
I love your videos Carlos.
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
Hi
Great insite. Just wish i had the $48 to learn more. Nice advertising.
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
I think you'll find that my programs are worth every dollar... Especially when you consider what I give away for free. ;-) Thanks, Natalie
Fazza yes I love you No crying crying Jesus Christ God bless him Amen
I guess he’s crazy about me then … I will never be able to work out what goes on in a man’s brain 🙄😂
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
You can work it out. That's what I teach you! :-) Keep watching these vids, and check out my programs.
Thinking about me, oh my god so loving, this afternoon just tell me he chose and selected others lady, what is going on now, I am confused
What if he does them all, including going m.i.a.?
What about if a guy don't have a social media page that's personal only a business page
What if he your guy best friend and he kinda shy. I have no clue if he like me or not.
I've let the woman I like know, I think anyone who's mature would. It took a while, because of wanting to see what's in the inside before doing anything. It's up to her now, she's got my number, and had an invitation for a walk. Wrote her a letter and gave it last week. Giving her space now, while I focus on my new job, so if it's right, it'll happen. If she's really not interested, she would have told me already. Just got to wait and see. That's my advice to everyone, be direct, it's not a race, so appreciate that, but it makes sense to let them know before too long. Have a great day.
@kristykreme2623
2 жыл бұрын
"Let a woman you like know" A letter. A walk. Phone number. I have no words. Only deep sorrow. "Are you crying again?"
@mw8142
2 жыл бұрын
MH I remember growing up dating was so easy. Someone liked you. Asked you on a date. Then more dates. Then he would ask do you want to be my girlfriend. Then you continue dating. If things we're still progressing, then the engagement and finally the 💑. From the time of the initial date to the wedding 2 1/2 years. I wish there were more men like you. There is no guessing how you feel about someone.
Guess he doesn't think
6.14 p.m.
Well, he doubled texted me the other day, he asked me how was I doing, after 20 minutes that passed without me responding back, he said, well bye, and he did that like another time the same day, threatening with a goodbye, of course I replied back after some minutes with a, hey what's up... and he responded, but he has me confused,,, why did he do that? He had not done that before, he usually waited for my response without reacting... hum, carlos can you help me interpret this behavior please??
I want the man to initiate!
Why is a guy on his phone like a woman a red flag? My x was always on phone. I often wondered if he had a problem.
My men when he we spent time together his not looking at it on his phone he turn off his phone so no one bother him especially his wife while we been together.
Ok Carlos Ya so what if he’s showing me finally, right? But what about if he’s a unicorn and works a lot has a kick ass Hobbie and is about a hour and a half away???? Hmmmm Let me just say I think he thinks I’m just as unicornish. What if he doesn’t know what to do about it until next year? (I’ve dropped hints) that I’m moving closer to him. I think he knows who I am for him finally……… he’s just waiting and so am I
Tamil translation
Sick of their blasted games!
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
Social and relationship "games" are simply the way we interact emotionally. Don't hate the game! Be a better player! :-D
I never respond because I'm not interested in them
I have a young admirer at work. I'm older he's 31. Has a gf. Don't worry I don't break people up. I've done nothing to encourage it just doing my job and being friendly to everyone he just stands out. He stares at me he chats to me he laughs with me he winds me up he gets me small snacks he does many things. We haven't said anything different about why u staring etc this is daily. I wave in the morning. He remembers things I said he never mentions his gf I never ask. He's a lovely guy easy on the eye too I'm flattered we get on. It's just lovely. I'll enjoy it and I'm sure he's liking my attention too x it's just in the day he doesn't do anything else and certainly not text me. I'm fine with that. He says im beautiful. I'm a patch above the previous receptionist they had it's a big building. Little things add up we just friends it's good x
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
He's flirting and may just not have a lot of excitement in his current relationship. Watch and see what happens. :-)
@ronnieg3398
2 жыл бұрын
@@connectwithhim I will thank you. I'm enjoying every minute x think he does too and it's sort of expected between us in day it's lovely. Today it was busy for us both not much interaction but I sensed his stare even without noticing. He has gorgeous eyes 👀. Cheers
And what the fuck I got by him thinking of me ya,, MAN up guys hahahah
@chanthana7694
2 жыл бұрын
Lol
Mine thought about me a lot. Made lots of fake accounts. Did all that. But....Everytime I talked to him, he wanted to do some funny stuff with money . So .....
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sure you're glad he's gone now. You don't need that kind of complication in your life
@Jeanninecomeau
2 жыл бұрын
@@connectwithhim I got stuck on analyzing him. Haha! Now he's posting on his fake pages that he did care about me and one day I will realize the pain I've caused him, etc ... But, he always wanted to do funny stuff with money. He drove me nuts and this is someone I know in real life.
@Jeanninecomeau
2 жыл бұрын
@@connectwithhim And he lives in a million dollar house and I'm working class.
@angelangelface
2 жыл бұрын
@@Jeanninecomeau he was using you and manipulating you move on .
My guy has Facebook but he’s not a big social media guy and he is awesome and loves me so some guys can be crazy about you but don’t show it on Facebook or social media cause maybe he’s really private about his relationships or just shy online!
women should also initiate not wait
Some men play hard to get just like women. Their just better at hiding feelings and emotions. We’re thinking he isn’t interested when all along he’s in love.
Love your man mind help!
Social media is a girl thing . Real men play sport
@connectwithhim
2 жыл бұрын
YES! And even girls need to spend more time WITH the girls!
@leoniea138
2 жыл бұрын
@@connectwithhim yup