With everything that is still happening in the world today, I thought we could have a bit of fun today 😀Here are some signs to look for!

@ivymiraculous-fan467

3 жыл бұрын

Lol love this! Great advice! Unfortunately I’m really bad at subtle signs, the guy will have to step up and do something a bit more than just follow my stories for me to think it means something 🤷🏻‍♀️

@cindycinn2724

3 жыл бұрын

No Mark I don't have anyone like that but hope to one day so thanks to you im taking notes

@SabrinaAngel

3 жыл бұрын

🙂👍 Thx Mark!

@LuanaLopesBR

3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful as always! By the way I just did what you mentioned in the last bit some days ago. I'm now walking away towards a better future. Lol Thanks Mark! X

@tsimoohmoi9541

3 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

6 secret signs he thinks about u more than u know 1. He watches ur stories and posts everytime... 2. U stood up for urself. 3. Talk to mutual friend about u... 4. Send stupid shit. 5. He yo-yo in and out in ur life. 6. He drunk text u.

@Jkstolz

3 жыл бұрын

Too funny!!

@angelataylor7799

3 жыл бұрын

aaaand all of them don't mean sh**, cuz he's probably too lame to do anything about it...lol.

@celineawad3946

3 жыл бұрын

He stares and I know he likes me, but has inappropriate pictures on his phone. Guys are dorks.

@sanghamitrapaul8395

3 жыл бұрын

@@angelataylor7799 it's right. There is a saying that people may like u but there will be very few who put the "effort"

"Walk the f*uck away if he doesn't" 😂 love it!

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

hahaha

@gailfagan7579

3 жыл бұрын

I’m not impressed with foul language, even as I sometimes use it myself in private when I’m angry. I’ve been a public speaker on many occasions, including internationally, and swearing just shows you to be illiterate at best (or trying to shock others), because you haven’t got any other better vocabulary you know. It may be fashionable but it turns off WAY more people than you know and makes them think less of your message. Just because ‘everyone’ does it doesn’t make it right. Manners matter. Just saying...

@airbubble.

3 жыл бұрын

@@gailfagan7579 What are you? His mother? Illiterate by definition means one is unable to read. Nothing to do with swearing. Studies actually show that people who swear have above average intelligence, an extensive vocabulary and a creative mind. They are also more open, honest and trustworthy, and have a good level of self-esteem and identity. For the record, even the Queen swears!

@anoukc6928

3 жыл бұрын

@@gailfagan7579 repetitive swearing can't put me off, but if it's occasional it doesn't. Also, the F word is somehow acceptable to non-English speakers (which I am).

@gailfagan7579

3 жыл бұрын

Air Bubble no, not his mother. Why are you so offended at my honest comment? There are much better, more respectful ways to communicate without using foul language using better, more interesting or fun words. Do you talk like that around people of faith or your grandmother, around children or your doctor? Low speech has always been considered vulgar. Mark is educated and has some pretty good thoughts and info about relationships but I’m finding the more frequent gratuitous f-bombs take away from his message. As many do, I’ve tried to ignore it but, I’m getting tired of it. Channel is sounding less like serious relationship channel and more about games for hooking up. Watching less and less.

I'm married but I'm not blind, your working out is paying off, nice guns! lol

When I lived in Brisbane I swear I've seen him. He is more gorgeous in real life 😉

When I was far less knowledgeable about dating, I was seeing a guy for 3 months. He then said he had met someone (not even someone "else") and we parted. He then popped back into my life without explanation, and just kept sending my funny memes. After a month I told him I didn't want to be a funny text friend because my feelings for him and desire to get to know him hadn't changed. He ghosted. That was 8 months ago. I'm glad I stood up for myself and I've learned so much since then!

@hae-lyunkang4060

3 жыл бұрын

Good for you!

@charlineverhelst2050

3 жыл бұрын

That was so brave of you!

@evelynpartridge7895

3 жыл бұрын

@@hae-lyunkang4060 .

@evelynpartridge7895

3 жыл бұрын

@@hae-lyunkang4060.

@hannahscott6604

3 жыл бұрын

I am seeing someone who takes me places like out to eat and on dates and doesn’t try to have sex with me or anything But he says he is not ready for something serious I guess it means nothing cause it’s only been a week I’m giving it a couple mos

imagine dating this guy and then you're uncertain how he feels about you, so come here and watch this video and nothing he says is matching up with what he does.... 😩

@gshantel2676

3 жыл бұрын

M Diaz stink 💔

@mdiaz4106

3 жыл бұрын

Shantel Gabriele I know right 😩🤣.

@nikiyubari8410

3 жыл бұрын

Every time girl.

@kwp9270

Жыл бұрын

Why not ask him? The way he answers will tell you something.

I love it when you said that just because someone is thinking about you and even taking it to the next step where they make that clear and shower you with gifts and attention, does NOT mean that they are ready or even willing to be your partner. Some men just like to be on your mind and like the attention they get from a woman who they find attractive / powerful. Sadly even if us women are aware of this we can still fall for them and then wonder what’s wrong with us if they don’t want to commit... “Give them the opportunity to step up and walk the fuck away if they do not” - best thing I’ve heard on the Internet. Thank you Mark, this video has been eye-opening.

@Haanhthuuu143

4 ай бұрын

Damn thats deep tbh

Great advice. Echoes the book "He's Just Not That Into You". Saved my sanity. Basically explains the concept of guys being interested, but just not enough to step up & be a real b-friend. And this slight interest confuses a hell of a lot of women, unfortunately....

@kwp9270

Жыл бұрын

It's not confusing because it can only mean so many things: 1. He just wants sex. 2. He wants more than one woman. 3. You're in consideration among several women he's dealing with. 4. He's married but doesn't want you to know it.

Love your advice at the end!!! "Walk the F away".. so simple and so true.

The ending was the reality check I needed. Thanks Mark! 😊

Loved @ the end when you said, “Then walk the f**k away if he doesn’t.” 💯👍🏾

Mark, I think about you more than you know these days😂😂 I binge watch all of your videos

You are giving me strength. I have an in and out guy now. And yes. You are right I want a guy who is always in. This yoyo thing is extremely tiring.

Mark! The message is so clear, direct and simple. It hit me home. Thanks for making the video.

That advice is spot on with the yo yo guy and the stable guy so true! It’s loving yourself enough to filter out those guys when you need that stable relationship as I get older it only keeps ringing more true I wish I would have listened to this advice when I was younger. But I realized those experiences made me who I am today and I always have the choice to learn and make my relationships better 😄

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely, Jenna Lofsness! Thanks for sharing your thoughts. All the best to you! 🙂

Indeed the start and end are the most memorable. My relationship ended badly, and now I remember my ex in a very negative way and all the bad things he's done way more than the good things

@angelataylor7799

3 жыл бұрын

but do they ever end good? lol

You're so funny Mark I just love what you do for us and for me speaking for myself thanks so so much

Very cool advice.I so need to tell him to step up….Because I will walk away .Thank you!💫

This was both fun and informative. Thank you so much! 🙏

Hi Mark! I totally "dated" a man & would ALWAYS be there when he wasn't dating anyone. He did everything you mentioned in your video. Now he has a long term girlfriend & when he started that relationship I eventually said I was over it (after 4 years of accepting his BS)....wouldn't go back to allowing him to "breadcrumb" me anymore. Can't believe it took 4 years for me to finally call it quits!

@sjulita

3 жыл бұрын

My story :D Go girl :*

Mark, you're absolutely right! Thanks for the advise!

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much, Joanna Mario! xx

Your video helped me realize I am struggling in a similar situation with the yo yo effect. What you said is ths absolute truth, we have been on and off for more than ten years and I really need the solid guy. Im done with the games and shading. Importantly, I love the way you expain the concept. The green background was a very good choice, it kept me very relaxed during this video. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. Im definitely following you from now on. Greets, Ina from Holland ♥️👌

Great content Mark! And hey Congrats on your book :) To answer your question I want someone who steps up, no games, no yo-yo's. In the past, I had noticed at work how my bosses boss had me on his mind...he exhibited most of the behaviours you talk about. But As much as that was a huge boost to my ego, I was not going there (well, I allowed myself free reign, only in the day dreaming department ). Btw dude as you were speaking I remembered the Aussie movie( that I absolutely love) "Danny Deckchair". I want a relationship like Danny & Glenda have ( aka Rhys Ifans & Miranda Otto). Cheers dude, from Canada

Insta stories? Comeon thats bs. They do it as they scroll through many other stories while sitting on the toilet

@samiakiani7467

3 жыл бұрын

Lollll... so very true... 👍👍

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

hahaha also very plausable

@Ngan.marianguyen

3 жыл бұрын

So true 😂

@Swiss_Girl

3 жыл бұрын

naah my ex suddenly NEVER watched my whatsapp stories when we broke up lol

@marielou7588

3 жыл бұрын

@@Swiss_Girl cause he deleted you

🤣🤣 #4 Impersonation is fantastic!

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Well-balanced! Not many people talk about the dark side of those signs. Refreshing for that stuff to be acknowledged! I would like to know more about how to set that boundary in a classy, memorable way. Not too hostile or accusatory.

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Aww thanks again, Yuki! Have you seen these kzread.info/dash/bejne/mp-EktF7dKbZXbg.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/kaiCmcqlfqS7ctY.html Hope these answer your question.

You’re smart. Everything you said makes sense.

Keep rockin' Mark😊😊 Always point blank...👌🏼

Solid and secure relationships is the best, if really want relationships with someone it's the way for many reasons.

So timely.. I want to have a solid secure man.

I'm in interracial long distance relationship , he is gentle but he is too shy to express his love directly but we are always in touch and he doesn't forget good night kissess every day at bed time .we planned to move to his place and even decided to have two kids but he's not doing what you mentioned but he shares with me all his secret and we use the same email and he told me he feels strong when he thinks of me

My boyfriend has never sent me stupid shit 😭😂 it’s understandable,he’s busy and we already see each other almost every night at work,he’s also not a conversing type since he hasn’t dated in a few years. He tries though to have conversations with me and I appreciate it so much he’s so good to me.

Blooming awesome I love the frank way you put your message across and absolutely love the last message. If he’s a zero not a hero - does my bum look big as I walk away LOL

Awesome .. Your so great why aren't people all like you

Love the flamingo shirt, Mark. Everyone should aspire to be a flamingo...

I always have to watch your videos over and over because I constantly get distract by your cuteness and adorable smile

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Hahahah sorry about that, Thai Blanch. I hope you still get something from the videos. Thanks for the compliment!

So relevant right now 😂 thanks Mark 👌🏼

Then he's also putting lots of hearts on our conversation and saying he likes this or that always saying he is with his family

Nice video Mark.. I'm sure it will help a lot, specially to those who seek good partner.

I recently came across your channel and I really value your videos. Currently been in a new relationship for a little over a month. This is my first real relationship. My new man is complicated and I have a million questions. These videos get my questions answered and calm my crazy mind down. Thank you 🤣

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Awww it's great to hear the videos helped, Carli! This is what this channel is for. Thanks so much for your lovely comment! All the best to you! xx

@kwp9270

Жыл бұрын

How is he complicated? If he's not operating off of common sense and simplicity then something isn't right. Is it possible that you're overthinking and overcomplicating things?

Thank you for this one I was about to give in to a guy that is half stepping. He wants my body but not me (no relationship) and I want more.

@Babyluv_

3 жыл бұрын

Xen Coop what end up happening? I’m curious to know lol

I really want man who appreciates me.. With me when I'm happy or sad.. Always make me laugh..

Watching you from India but your logic works everywhere 👌....means men are men it doesn't matter from which country they belong to

@axelashu

3 жыл бұрын

Hi...am from India too... And I too have been trying to figure out how much does it work for India men tooo 😀

Thank you for sharing this video 🙂👍

Great advice. Kind of already knew what I should do with the in and out behavior. I’m just having a very hard time doing it. Advice? Book that would help? Know it’s a codependency type situation. I’m 62 and show know better. Haven’t dated much at all, 30 years divorced and too busy raising kids and helping with grandkids. I now want a person that’s right for me. Thanks.

I am listening because I find it helpful and interesting.In other words a positive knowledge gain

I'm lesbian ... And I'm watching this for I have no idea why😂

@raymondmorrow9824

Жыл бұрын

Cool. I watch them to see what men think of me..😊❤

@AJ-lu7fx

Жыл бұрын

😂

@nunnallyai

Жыл бұрын

Cuz he’s cute 😅

@hollynewland2568

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@daniellegutowski382

Жыл бұрын

😂

Great video, Mark! Thank you. 🌦☺ ✔✔✔✔✔✔

It's funny, I can apply all of this to a friend of mine. We're just friends but it's nice to think my friend is thinking of me. 😊

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Awww thanks for sharing, Steph! 🙏

Looks like you brush your hair, hit the beach and respect women. And I am here for it!

I’m missing the message because I’m distracted by the tight shirt hugging your biceps 🤔😏. Maybe a baggy one next time lol.

@108latte

3 жыл бұрын

Too small shirt. It gaps at the chest when he talks with his hands. I get rid of my tops that I outgrow.

@karinadelossantos8653

3 жыл бұрын

Hahahhahahahah thanks god im not the only one i keep re-watching the video coz i couldn't concentrate 😂😂

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

hah yeah I definitely need to go shopping

@laepitt821

3 жыл бұрын

Mark Rosenfeld I wasn’t complaining 😏

@ewoxmaiden1611

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking!!!This is so distracting, Mark😛😅

Love ya mark😍especially in the flamingo shirt 😂. But i think you're right if you set boundaries...men understand..but make sure you stick to them to ladies!

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely, Jasmine ray! Set boundaries and stick to them. ☝ Thanks for the compliment!

Hi Mark, about a year ago I told you my story of the ex husband who grew up here in So Calif then just after our one year marriage desolved moved to So Australia to farm his families newly bought 200 acres in cirtus and wine grapes. He married, had 3 kids, 8 grandkids and lost his wife of 46 years to cancer in the fall of 2017. I heard from him that he was coming here to visit his siblings and me in May 2018. After 7 weeks here he invited me to Australia and I went in August for a month to meet his family and friends. He returned here in Dec 2018 for 3 months in my home but I had just put my dog down and wasn't in the best of moods to entertain him. He traveled around to see friends and family here then I was supposed to meet him back in Australia in July after his total knee operation. Somewhere in the ensuing months he met someone else, pulled away from me and finally broke it off in May 2019 just after his operation. He offered "friendship" which I tried but eventually told him it was too hard and not to call until I could heal and let him go as he has let me go. Our final conversation (didn't now it at the time) was in August last year. He was in a terrible mood, finally admitted (I had to ask) that he was interested in someone else, wouldn't talk about things that I needed clearing up so I just said "ok then, bye." I told him months earlier that if he wanted to stay in contact he would have to call me as he was the one to end things I would not be calling him. Sine then he hasn't called and neither have I. I'm still in touch with his brother's wive one city over and the last time we talked she told me that Jim had asked about me (I've not mentioned him to her at all not even that final conversation). He didn't ask how I was just if she had seen me. He told her that I had asked him not to call any more and that he was "honoring my request." That is an absolute lie. I am so angry with him for making me the bad guy here. what should I do about it? He already told her last year that we "mutually agreed to end the relationship." Also a lie. He can't seem to take responsibility for his actions. Would really appreciate your input.

Love your content Mark😊😊

Hi Mark!! I lovee your shirt, it looks good on you! Keep up with your amazing videos, i needed this. Lots of love from the Philippines! 💓🇵🇭

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the sweet comment, J O! Made my day! 😊

Two thumbs up this is great info

Positive word Mark👍

Hi Mark blessed love I want the second stage ,someone I can be sure of security, I always feel I have chosen the wrong guy's, thanks Mark I will try the stepping up, lol I'll let you know stay safe much love 🙏🙏

Haha tnx mark😁 another great video...my husband is not that vocal but everytime he always see my stories or like my post in facebook...thats the time I think he always think of me😅😆lol..

Mark, this video has the perfect amount of swear words. Nice work lol.

Great video as usual!

I can say- I have that one “yo-yo” ing. I really can’t tell what he wants from me.

Been online dating this guy, he seems consistent with his communication and is fond of sending his photos on a regular basis just to let me know what he is up to. I do the same and it has been fun. Been honest and transparent since day 1. He is too. But the real deal breaker here is when we meet up.

@granmisticoful

3 жыл бұрын

so did you guys meet up?

@ami2763

Жыл бұрын

Tell me you are married now:))

You're looking Handsome Mark..you are on my mind Mark

Hey Mark, I am a great fan of your videos! I have followed your advice and now I am with this guy and we adore each other. However, I think our relationship has overgrown every youtube dating and relationship video there is :D It is clear we are getting more and more comfortable with each other, which doesn't serve my anxiety very well.. I would like him to let me know more often how much he appreciates me (he isnt into social media). He is sweet, but I am a very insecure gal..

💞🍀 thank you so much Mark and Team🤗💞🙏🍀

Truth, thank you legend 👊

Thanks for the video

I needed this. Thank you! 🙏🏻

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Happy to help, Diane Lopez. Thanks for watching!

SO needed to hear this tonight! Thank you! And I will walk the fuck away! A good guy is waiting for me and I need to stick with him.

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely, Cindy Robertson! Just be patient, you'll get there! 😉 Thanks for sharing!

This has really helped me was in a dilemma ,Thank you Mark

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Really glad the video helped, Nyasha! This is what this channel is about. Thanks so much! 😊

Awesome facts! Thank you!

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much, exitname! 🙂

What is with all the ridiculously handsome relationship coaches on KZread? There is him and two other guys both named Mat and Matthew that I could watch all day. Only they aren’t giving me advice on how to stop loving them ❤😂

Great, almost all the signs are there, but you are right; this is not what I want.

4:09 Oh my god... Thank you for this one. Eye opener Yet he's the one in and out...

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Helena! Glad the video helped! x

Thank you for a progressive approach. Great job

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching and writing in, Paree! 🙏

Mark: Thank you for the well-crafted and inspirational video. We are truly blessed by you!!

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Awww this is absolutely a beautiful comment, Brynn Dockstader. Thank you so much! Means a lot! 😊

Fantastic.... love the weakness of this video. Say it as it is. 👍x

4'24'' so funny!! :-D Thank you for this video and the basic question with tips at the end!!

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed the video, nottambula79. Thanks for watching! 😊

I wish I’d seen this video before! So true!

@Markrosenfeld

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🙏

Love your shirt!

Thank you Mark That was awesome ❤️

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it, Saba Arfaee. Thanks so much! 😊

This is spot on!! There’s this guy that literally does ALL of them except the drunk texting

What do u say when u can’t decide between passion and security? Passion might fizzle out but security might feel to safe.

Gah, so frustrating! Yes, he is doing this. But the yo-yoing keeps me invested, while he is not stepping up. It’s exhausting. So I think this is when I just walk the f*** away! Thanks Mark!

*Learn to be quiet enough to hear the genuine in yourself, so that you can hear it in others.*

"Do you want the guy, who is in and out?!" - Well... Ähm...

I have been really liking your shirt game these last couple videos! Like the color and style of your shirt in this video and the ask mark from a couple days ago. Great video and solid advice! Thanks! lots of love xoxo 😚!

Will get your book next year will meet youn fam in Oz

1 like❤️💜 thanks for this informative video it's great. Love your videos and enjoy following you, keep up the good work😉 Have a nice day♥️

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Aww thanks so much, Hanne Persøy! Glad you're loving the videos. Hope you get heaps from them! 😊

Yo yo is a great analogy.

What I got from this is you dont settle for anything less than what makes me happy, dont let him slack in showing me he cares or he will get comfortable and think it's ok not to show me he cares when I need him. And nice muscles 😉

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Nice, Carmen Bess! Really glad you got something from the video. And thanks for the compliment! 😊

Your biceps are literally popping out of that shirt! 😃 new subscriber here!

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha Thanks, Barbara! Great to have you on here. Hope you got something from the video. 😊

@barbaramay3539

3 жыл бұрын

@@Markrosenfeld yes of course. Your videos are always interesting.

I’m ready to walk away if he doesn’t want to step up 🙂

A man from down under! Ausie Ausie Ausie👍💕

U always tell me onther guy!

I feel like guys (or girls) watch her or his IG stories and it could be that he’s thinking about you OR he is just doing that to everyone. I’ll just never know .. I am not good at telling just nice guys and someone who’s actually into me 😬 (some guys are just really nice! Without having any feelings)

1) He reads your posts on social media. 2) Poignant last interaction. 3) People tell you he’s mentioned you. 4) He sends you stupid shit. 🤣 5) He yo-yos in and out of your life. 6) He drunk-texts you.

@Markrosenfeld

3 жыл бұрын

Appreciate this, Panda! Thaaank you! x

@KA-ub4rc

Жыл бұрын

Drunk text is a turn off. Shows he can't control his emotions

@EllaBella-76

5 ай бұрын

@@KA-ub4rc•Yeah means he is lonely!I told him I can’t fix him ?That personally I don’t know if I am friend zoned ?He keeps telling me I am amazing but sure is not making me feel amazing that he doesn’t know what he what he going to do with his life ?Well do any of us ?Trouble is he isn’t (Yo -Yo )One minute it’s love songs ,next he is stressed about work?This is daily asking me advice about his work.I don’t even do his work!Then he says I am amazing?I have super powers ,he asked if he could come see me soon so I said “Is that a date ?”He said “Your my bestie?Well W.T.F I am more confused than ever ?

Excellent!!!