7 Signs He Cares About You - Do You Know If He's For Real?

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7 Signs He Cares About You
By: Carlos Cavallo
In today's dating world, it's hard to know if a man truly feels for you. You may find yourself looking for signs he cares about you quite often.
The trickiest part is knowing for sure. We all want guarantees when it comes to relationships - especially when we're in love.
But even more important, you want to know if he feels for you genuinely. You want to know if these are honest feelings of love, and not just lust or a desire to get you into bed.
There are a few ways you can do this without going insane in the process. Men give off very clear signs of how they feel. They do this through body language, words they use, and of course their actions.
Before I talk about some of the signs, let's talk about one very important fact about men:
Men will typically not tell you how they feel unless they are extremely emotionally compromised.
What I mean by this is that he will only tell you how he feels when:
He has the words to explain it
He is absolutely sure he feels it
He loses all ability to stop himself from telling you about his feelings
Most men simply don't have very good emotional coping mechanisms. But on the other side of that, there is one mechanism that has served him well.
Silence.
Most men simply don't talk about their feelings with you to keep himself safe. We stay silent.
This is part of the nature of men. We are part born this way, and we are also nurtured to be this way.
Now you may think this means he doesn't care for you, if he can't talk about his feelings with you. But this is very far from the truth.
So when he is particularly quiet about his feelings, you can't project how he feels. Many women see men who are quiet and think this means he doesn't feel the same things you do. Not true at all.
He's just being as cautious as you are.
If he feels overwhelmed by his emotions for you, then he will break this Code of Silence and tell you how much he cares about you.
One of the big mistakes is to take any of these signs I’m going to show you and assume that if he doesn't show that sign, that means he doesn't care about you. That's not true either.
Here are a few quick reference signs for when a man does not care about you.
Let's look at some of the signs he isn’t The One for you first, before I get into the main list.
Signs He's Not The One For You:
No - or very little - trust: Without trust, your relationship is as good as dead...
You don't get a genuine Vibe of Desire from him. He should make you feel wanted and desired...
You never really feel like you're enough for him...
You're never his priority. He's always finding something more important...
He's not generous with you - whether that's buying you the occasional gift, or making you feel special from time to time...
He's cheated on you within the first several months of your relationship - this is a fatal mistake from Which you should NOT forgive him...
He's very clingy and needy, very insecure - this usually means he will have more emotional and control issues coming soon...
He's into putting you down and making you feel inadequate or less than him...
No one in his family or friends knows about you...
He's only into the physical side of your relationship...
He almost never asks you questions about you, your interests, or your life...
You feel a lot of familiar anxieties come up from your childhood when you're with him...
Of course there are a ton more than these but they are a great place to start when you're wondering if he might not be the one for you.
Now, let's move over into the positive signs. These are some of the best indicators that a man cares about you and wants only the best for you.
SIGN #1 He Cares About You: Time is of his essence
One of the most important and treasured resources in a man's life is his time. Men value time most of all as it translates directly into his income and his recreation.
One of the most significant signs that he cares for you is his willingness to spend his time with you. Even if a guy is working two jobs, taking care of his mom, going to night school, whatever, he will make time for you if he cares for you.
This is a rule of relationships that many people trick themselves about. They will start making excuses for why the other person can't see them.
The truth is that --
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  • @nkaosaro3653
    @nkaosaro36533 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Carlos. Your advices are always on point! 👌🏾 Grateful for the free ebook...💜

  • @nancysoukup6545
    @nancysoukup65453 жыл бұрын

    My so called best friend says he cares about me, but he's always deeply into his cellphone, he always talks over me, etc.

  • @ritamary6565
    @ritamary65653 жыл бұрын

    Good one

  • @jennifermartin4629
    @jennifermartin46293 жыл бұрын

    Great advice

  • @marbellamitchell817
    @marbellamitchell8173 жыл бұрын

    Wow so true

  • @AnonyMous-et5hp
    @AnonyMous-et5hp3 жыл бұрын

    congratulation. Be happy to the one she. Loves you.

  • @valentinanocross8677
    @valentinanocross86773 жыл бұрын

    I found this all out the hard way. Excellent video Carlos!

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    @judyjames729

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello I know of someone who can help you just as he did mine too recently, he helped me get my ex back

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    @judyjames729

    3 жыл бұрын

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @verycherry4459
    @verycherry4459 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I had a guy I was in a relationship with tell me that work was his Mistress. He had a lot of the qualities you listed except meeting his family after a year of knowing him and 10 months of making it official. I broke it off. Maybe I was wrong. I have been on a date here and there but I'm not looking and it's been 2 years. I've just been too busy to really care about it. I'm not pining after him. He is a really great guy, and we talk occasionally, but maybe eventually I will find the right one. I'm 48 and have been divorced since 2003. I'm enjoying working on myself. I figure if it was meant to be then we would be together and there is nothing to say maybe we won't be in the future but I'm not counting on it or pursuing it. I'm getting my life where I want it and by watching these I want to be ready for dating eventually too. Thanks for your content!

  • @chaitalisingha4598
    @chaitalisingha45983 жыл бұрын

    Hi! U r always good with practical theory.😊

  • @lucydelpilar7289
    @lucydelpilar72893 жыл бұрын

    cool

  • @judithordakowski2532
    @judithordakowski25323 жыл бұрын

    Thank-you for you’re valuable knowledge! I am enjoying these😊

  • @winniealbert5530
    @winniealbert55302 жыл бұрын

    Ohooo, l real like this video. I will like to know more pls🤔. I have same frågor??? I am not very good in wirting engelska 😅🙈

  • @songokuson1043
    @songokuson10433 жыл бұрын

    I have a question. He told me that he cares about me, but I don't really know what he means with this. He protects me, he's always there for me, he sometimes blushes when he sees me, etc. I asked a friend about her opinion about his words and she told me that it could mean that he really appreciates me as a friend, just a friend. So, I don't know if he sees me as a friend or if he's in love with me...I need help!

  • @rachelmulveen2314
    @rachelmulveen23143 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the video my boyfriend has a friendship ring 💍 he bought himself only i have never seen it before the ring before he me he is hiding it very well i never ask anything about the ring he has bought me only calling it a friendship ring sliver i am just wearing my claddgh ring on the left hand side of me now as my engagement ring now i am looking forward to seeing the the day he puts it on my finger i have no clue about the real one he went to jewellery shop himself only

  • @sachertorte9806
    @sachertorte98063 жыл бұрын

    Carlos, please could you either stop using the images that cover your text in thrse videos, or simply enable the subtitles. Some of us do not have our headphones ready when wanting to look at the video, and we must read. Thanks!

  • @lilliankillian7366
    @lilliankillian7366 Жыл бұрын

    Hi Carlos. I'm with my guy for two years now we are in our sixties and I care for him a lot he is great with his actions and alot for me and I do the same but I show him mor affection then he does and he is not verbal .can I assume he cares for me by his actions .he does not like questions but I do. He says I'm still here aren't I. Ty for anything you can help me with Carlos.

  • @miranjoyjoy3869
    @miranjoyjoy38693 жыл бұрын

    After all he deserves de best buh he still cheating thnx dia

  • @tintinpenaredondo6531
    @tintinpenaredondo65313 жыл бұрын

    Sad to say but for Dismissive Avoidant Attachment style they are emotionally Unavailable.

  • @wendylou072
    @wendylou0723 жыл бұрын

    Carlos... I took the bait 3 weeks ago and messed up!! He started talking proposals and I ran with it and he tightened up his lips now. What do I do to fix it since now I know he was just testing the water??😔😪

  • @lorieammons9370
    @lorieammons93703 жыл бұрын

    After 2 years I know he loves me but hasn’t asked me to completely move in??