1. He's strutting it 2. He's seriously quiet 3. You're his choice 4.PDA - Physical displays of affection- Territorial in public - 5. He baby's you. He wants to take care of you, fixes things. 6.You're his circle - you will meet his family and friends- 7. He's the middleman - he loosens up his schedule to be with you- does more things with you that you like too - 8. He's compromising to meet you in the middle 9.He wants more details. Asks questions about your day-to-day, as well as your history 10. It's a celebration. He's your cheerleader. 11. He's THAT GUY. You feel safe. You don't feel suspicious about him. 12. He knows he is not the sun. He knows you and the world does not revolve around him. 13. He has a love map about you. 14. Together is better. He's inclined to want to do more things with you than without you. 15. He starts locking it. He wants to makes things exclusive. He wants to make you the center of his life. 16. He leaves the buttons alone. He doesn't try to push your buttons - or test you and try to hurt your feelings 17. He will return your calls or texts - considerately

@CrystalDatingCoach

4 жыл бұрын

That's AMORE. You're happiness is their happiness.

@nancycortez1231

3 жыл бұрын

Or after a long day of work he still makes time for you and cooked a nice delicious meal

@lisadavid6471

3 жыл бұрын

You guys are right!!!

Well my man chased after me... I had no doubts! .......and NO... I didn't go in and have a drink. He must have asked me a hundred times... I knew we would get it on and the time wasnt right. lol Now we are married. ❤

@sanjeshnidevi982

4 жыл бұрын

Just curious how long did he chase you?

Thank you for this video... I feel so loved :) 1. He interviews me, hahaha! He asks about my childhood, family, exes, etc. 2. He babies me all the time (texts, cuddles). 3. He constantly communicates with me. He sends pictures / links / artwork, etc. 4. He treats me like a princess. Lets me relax and do my thing while he covers everything. 5. He willingly gets water for me, cooks for me, washes the dishes for me, cleans up for me, etc. 6. He lets me be myself; accepts my ADHD symptoms :D 7. He joins me when I sing and play the guitar. He secretly records me. He encourages me to make more music. 8. He shares with me things about his family, exes, etc. He happily answers all my questions. 9. He asks for my opinion about different things. 10. He makes plans to meet my friends. 11. He gives me loooong sweeeet kisses. ...and the list goes on, awww! Happy Valentines Day! :)

@priyankadash3538

2 жыл бұрын

Does that man exist??🤣🤣

I, as a guy, do believe what was in this presentation, I have gone through these emotions with a girl I really liked, it was really of a good experience with this girl but in the end she played me, I was so in love even with all the red flags I still wanted her by my side. Becareful when playing with fire or you’ll get burn, protect your heart or You will get played.

Thank you very much appreciated for the great information

Love this video. Makes sense

Whoa great video

I only watched this video because my husband had an emotional affair and I wanted to see what he was giving her that he was denying me.

I really enjoyed your details and examples of each point. Consider discussing Love for 50 and over.

@connectwithhim

5 жыл бұрын

All of my videos apply to women over 50. In fact - Shhhh - I make all my videos for women who are past their "party and hookup" days. So don't think that things change all that much with men (or women) past 30. The same principles apply.

@ChrisSmith-xh3yl

4 жыл бұрын

Trina Long ..I do enjoy it too though. But permit to ask if love at first site is for real..??

My father defined love as a comittment, intermingled with feelings. I felt relatively sure that the man I loved wanted a permanent committment when he asked me to go to the next FIFA tournament with him while the current one was being played out. I told him I thought it would be exiting to go to Dubai with him the next year. He then explained to me that FIFA championships only happen every 5 years. First time I had ever been asked on a date 5 years in advance!

@ChrisSmith-xh3yl

4 жыл бұрын

Terea Gonzalez Yes! It’s 5year interval.

@joankwamboka700

4 жыл бұрын

How did it go? This is a wonderful comment

@CrystalDatingCoach

4 жыл бұрын

What are your plans in the mean time??

@Meira750

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you said "bye." If a man can't commit in well under 5 years, he's not going to.

Finally someone called Bs on the stupid signs lol

I found my twin flame soulmate. It is devinely given.

Talk is cheap. 👍

I know this is hard to find out. Cause he brings me to nice dinner, bring me to my favorite place, cook for me. And until now being dating for almost 4months i fell in love with him but I’m not sure if he loves me too.

No such thing as love at first sight. Attraction at first sight is the truth.

@nofybn7794

4 жыл бұрын

Actually I believe there is. Although I didn't recognize it and feel it until much later.

@didilv2187

4 жыл бұрын

well if you are attractive enuff you actually live it. not everyone will experience it. it's like the shorty thinking no one can dunk the ball.

@didilv2187

4 жыл бұрын

@@mayaal9352 agreed

@CrystalDatingCoach

4 жыл бұрын

Love at first site exists. It's just not important if it's first site or after a month's.

@CrystalDatingCoach

4 жыл бұрын

@@mayaal9352 You cannot fall in love with anyone in time. Maximum 2 or three months. You can court a woman for a year... And she may never fall in love with you.

Yes he likes me.. only problem is we work together closely.. we are both being cautious as this has never happened before.

Loved Loved this it's so true..Carlos thanks

He gives his... Time.

You could have highlight certain points in red blue color...full black and white text is difficult to read

I liket your have vidio for sharing succes Alwys🙏👍

Good to know all these tips! Yes!!! He is in love with me ..😘🥰

what does it mean when a guy says he is too vested?

The guy is emotionally invested in me with just chats but we are thousands of miles apart. He's flying down to meet me soon. We've known each other for the past three months.

you have an amazing voice

Yes. until now that is my question..how to know they are in love or like you.

@CrystalDatingCoach

4 жыл бұрын

There present. You need them. They come. You want to see them. There available. No. If ands or maybe.

Awesome ! Thanks

I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more understanding, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do. Women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man. Women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way. Most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father. Most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers. The bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. The friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view. How can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, males and females are both mentally and physically different from each other, and that would effect the bonding between them.

4:17 - "if he does hold back from his feelings, he's probably psychologically unbalanced and probably more into stalking you" - or he's married.

What if he ties his shoe in front of you with his feet pointed @ you making strong eye contact.

@MyLady22

4 жыл бұрын

Then that means that he is looking out making sure that he doesn’t get run over by you while he is tying his shoes in the middle of the road like an idiot.

@mariahmaduro8215

4 жыл бұрын

@@MyLady22 🤣🤣why u got to be so mean?!😭💀‼️...

@tiyab3104

3 жыл бұрын

Then it's real love for sure!! 🤣🤣

In Africa, a guy can do all the positive things introduce you to all his relatives, and still dumb you, He will rather get in touch with a lady that plays hard to get!

I really love the fact that your upfront and truly appreciate how women feel and also to educate us on what we need to do . My thing is ,is that I see so many women having no morals and values . I personally am old fashion with morals and values in myself I keep in shape and work hard. I wonder if there really is a guy out there for me . I've delt with online date sites holy cow how scarey is that . My experience for me , the guy was claiming to be somone their not who they gain trust asking for money using all kinds of excuses and oh if they are military asking for money ladies ( all military pays and takes care of all needs for their soldiors ) if they make up excuses lying to you they are frauds hang up and block I've had that happen but I knew better cause( I have family members in military and I've reported the person in ) ok actually it any guy that really does that . Please in your video mention that to warm the ladies ,plus if it's not a face to face proving who he is and he won't do skyoe or video chat be careful he is hiding and is a lyer ok please I'm just going to focus on me and if it's ment to happen with a man to come on to my life than so be . I raised my 5 boys to respect and honor women . Now finding myself out there looking . Anyways I dol like your videos . There is hope that there is a man out there for me . I am upfront and to the point type of woman I'm very open honest and loyal, one thing I hate are game players and decieving men . Your videos are spot on I find thank you

@Kareena1988

5 жыл бұрын

1. how about judging other people? 2. you seem to be clueless and bitter...and paranoid

@ChrisSmith-xh3yl

4 жыл бұрын

Mary Vance I can hook you up with some one believe me there is a guy out there for you like you said. Permit me to introduce you to him.

How do older men show love like 45 + like your age??? When testosterone starts to lower?? Really R&B records??? For real??

@cn1976

4 жыл бұрын

Dell Chica they still want a connection and companion.

@Calidore1

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, if you love her lack of testosterone doesn’t apply!

@Meira750

3 жыл бұрын

Not all men have too low testosterone levels. Pablo Picasso fathered a child at 80. Well before the invention of Viagra. And here's a tip from an almost 74 year old woman, our hormones can still be just fine, thank you very much if we keep ourselves healthy, active, positive and engaged with life. Last year, when I was 72-3, I had a very attractive 57 year old man showing interest. I was still married but it inspired me to leave what had been a bad marriage for many years. The man and I did not connect for many reasons but I will be divorced in less than a month and starting a new life in Italy, my ancestral land. I'm hopeful.

@chickenlittle6756

3 жыл бұрын

Still the same they just aren't gonna get in a fight or jump off of a cliff to impress you they have learned to control the outbursts and instead of showing bravery and strength by doing something dangerous and impressive he will tell you his accomplishments tell you maybe that he owns his home or brag about his job stuff like that because at an older age he also realizes women are also looking for a partner to help provide and not someone to take care of he might try to fix your car or appliances to impress you its all the same stuff just more fine tuned and with the understanding of women more in his mindset you know

I am in a relationship four years now. We are in two different countries. All goes family know and likes me. We see each other often . But sometimes I wonder where we going from here. He would tell me he loves me but I don't see it in us actions. I asked myself all the time if he is the right one but I am confused most of the time . We text amd sometimes he doesn't replies until days after and would say he didn't hear from me . He plans to come back next year but sometimes my mind changes how o feel about him

@DatDyme980

4 жыл бұрын

Your mind SHouLd change. It sounds like you're being played. "I didn't get the call" is an easy, unprovable "out".

@meyliqg1774

4 жыл бұрын

Nikki Doe gaslighting

@fly89

4 жыл бұрын

how often did you see each other? does he always fly to you or you fly to him as well?

PLEASE BOOP BOOP EVERY SCRIPT MENTION!!!!! ♥️ ♥️ ♥️ 😆 😆 😆

We live on separate islands and sometimes Im a little confused. Sometimes he sends a text in the morning to say morning, with a rose picture Sometimes he sends a text saying goodnight He has definately texted me whilst with his friends having coffee and the last time he was in a bar with friends He is quite regular with messages and sends funny comments He asks how my day is going but never asks about my history or background He has asked for me to come and visit for a few days Do you think this is maybe not love but a serious interest? Because also once I decided to do the flirty text and he asked me to send a photo which I didnt, it kind of ruined it for me when he asked that, but he is on the whole very polite, funny and regular texter. Advice please....

@fly89

4 жыл бұрын

Rita P go meet him. but don’t sleep with him. then you know more about him.

Long distance relationship very good but very heart

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In my experience... Signs he is a player: Just because he texts you everyday does not mean he likes you. Strutting it is not always a sign he wants you for you. LUST MAKES MEN DO ALL THIS ALSO. He gets quiet when he wants one thing. Or he has anxiety. bedroom eyes..hmmm..lust in my case. All he does is what you like..kissing...he will do whatever it takes to get in your pants. He just wants validation. He will also do whatever he can to make you happy so you do not leave. or question his motives. Loosening his availability can also be lust. He will never ask about you. He may text how his day went but will only ask what you're doing for sx. drunk and call texting. player. he conditions you to feel comfortable to test boundaries. He will never do anything you like. He will store what he knows to keep you happy to trick you. manipulation. when a guy wants to be with you, only at his house, never in public, player. he will say he never wants to get married..run! He will disrespect you. run! There will be a pattern when he contacts you. yes i tested this theory. he skips those days he is at the bar.😮 He will make you feel amazing just to get what he wants. he gets along with your child just to smooth things. manipulation. too nice of a guy is not a good thing. no one is happy all the time. avoiding feelings when you ask them. i have known him for 7 years now. He is just a desperate peice of crap.

What if you have a long distance relationship how do you know if he's in love with you

@angelicamickova6657

4 жыл бұрын

if he always gives you his time and attention to talk, makes effort to come see you, makes plans .. etc

@fly89

4 жыл бұрын

you seriously should meet him as soon as you get the chance to have clearer view and save time.

@peggywood6215

4 жыл бұрын

You have to spend alot of time together and get to know their ugly side...

HE DONT DOUBT ME IF HE DID HE WOULDN'T BE ASKING AND TELLING ME HOW MUCH HE LOVES ME CALL ME BEAUTIFUL.. HE EVER LIES TO ME HE DOESNT MAYBE TO SOMEONE ELSE.

@CrystalDatingCoach

4 жыл бұрын

Actions. What do they do to Show you there Love Not just words. Actions.

I don't see him, since we are both 73 and 4....so we talk on the phone....he and I do not have a car....so how do we tell on the phone...he is chipper today...I think he only wants money...he loved me 10 years ago...but I made the mistake of helping him....

@erikaerika7788

5 жыл бұрын

Is he in another country?

@nofybn7794

5 жыл бұрын

73 and 4?

@lisamartin3346

5 жыл бұрын

Victoria....If he did it once, he’ll do it again. Go with your gut feeling. It’s usually right.

@ctrlwtf

4 жыл бұрын

nofy bn 73 and 74

what if you meet this wonderful guy online and he is in the military ,so he can't always text you but tells you he loves reading your messages and he loves it when you text him a lot to keep them coming and he loves you quirks and all is that a sign that he truly loves you?

@britneythao

4 жыл бұрын

Men can’t fall in love just by texting you. Men need physical contact to fall in love.

How about stuttering? He doesnt with everyone else.

@arxsyn

4 жыл бұрын

S Smith aww cute!

@Calidore1

4 жыл бұрын

Stress, it’s either he likes you or doesn’t.

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Non verbal communication is 🗝️.🍿🍫📺 2nd. Verbal.

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Honestly let them chase. Don't be so repetitive and annoying and be in ther bubble...... once they talk to you ask for a date and talk to you and ask. Then yes. Keep it going. But know you're worth!!!

What if he shows several of these signs, tells you he misses and loves you but he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship?

@susannegraf2519

5 жыл бұрын

Dump him! He is an idiot

@insightstory5933

5 жыл бұрын

He doesnt truly love u .dump him

@DatDyme980

4 жыл бұрын

It means he's a world class player. He probably watch these videos more than even you do.

@Calidore1

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe not yet, but he needs to grow up. One day you have to choose.

@kaebaegotsnax1907

4 жыл бұрын

He’s not the one honey

I guy I'm dating for 2 years now ALWAYS pressures ME ABOUT Sex, I have some health ISSUES and he knows this and SOMETIMES I just don't FEEL like it. Then he'll SAY He's Tired of Me not doing it EVERYTIME he WANTS. What's the PROBLEM

@insightstory5933

5 жыл бұрын

Dump him . He is selfish . He only wants his sexual needs met . He is only using u for sex. He ďoesnt love u

@kaebaegotsnax1907

4 жыл бұрын

He’s not the one honey

@lucianewell6084

4 жыл бұрын

Guys need sex... maybe ur not into him

Using you. He lives me he's going to remarry me no joke honey.

I'm 10 and I'm watching this😅😅

Or he's holding back because he has cancer....

Hahahaha 😆👄👀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@kittykat3able

3 жыл бұрын

😺😂😂😂

Other relationship coaches are hot winded idiots & I only love your videos!

There are no loyal guys...see guys flirt who have a long term relationship. I see no guy that would qualify for me.

@KatyCupcakes

5 жыл бұрын

Shasha8674 There are loyal men but you won’t find them with that attitude. I’ve got one

@Shasha8674

5 жыл бұрын

@@KatyCupcakes I heard this many times, but there is no one right for me in my area and I don't want to do internet dating. I have not seen a loyal guy.

@connectwithhim

5 жыл бұрын

Beware absolutes "always/never/none" - they speak to the frustration in your emotions, not the reality around you. Of COURSE there are loyal guys. You're angry because you don't have one yet. And who could blame you? Let the past go and get back to finding one who is. Peace...

@laremi3577

4 жыл бұрын

The woman is the one who makes a guy loyal. A loyal guy is an addicted guy : of her attitude, of her looks, of her smell, of her cooking, of her co*king, of her everything. Happy men are always loyal. Unhappy men are still looking for a little happiness wherever they hope to find some.

I love a man who always wants money. But he is so loving. .and sweet I just don't know

@dawnbaynes788

4 жыл бұрын

He is using you. He is feeding your need for affection at a cost to you. Look at the big picture. Stop giving him money, watch his attitude towards you change. Him asking for money is a HUGE RED FLAG!

This guy is the master of stealing content from other youtubers lol

@nonni139

4 жыл бұрын

Althea Robinson I disagree

@lenjoplus

2 жыл бұрын

Who specifically?? I listen to a lot of dating coaches (Bern Mendez and Mathew Hussey are two of my faves) and I don't see it. It's easy to throw out an negative opinion not back it up.

he lives away with a girlfriend beeing exclusive to her but he wants to "play " with me. I said no for the last 3 years. Known him for over 33 years. He's still around every 3 months he takes me out to dinner.

@cuarajhyrojayju4397

4 жыл бұрын

Why would you go out with a men who has girlfriend

I like the " emotionally logical " bit - 🎨 it seems a valid argument. 🖼 Also the testosterone tiger teddy bear titbit.🐅🧩🧸🐅🧩🐅🧸

Thank you for this video... I feel so loved :) 1. He interviews me, hahaha! He asks about my childhood, family, exes, etc. 2. He babies me all the time (texts, cuddles). 3. He constantly communicates with me. He sends pictures / links / artwork, etc. 4. He treats me like a princess. Lets me relax and do my thing while he covers everything. 5. He willingly gets water for me, cooks for me, washes the dishes for me, cleans up for me, etc. 6. He lets me be myself; accepts my ADHD symptoms :D 7. He joins me when I sing and play the guitar. He secretly records me. He encourages me to make more music. 8. He shares with me things about his family, exes, etc. He happily answers all my questions. 9. He asks for my opinion about different things. 10. He makes plans to meet my friends. 11. He gives me loooong sweeeet kisses. ...and the list goes on, awww! Happy Valentines Day! :)