Why Do Filipinas Fall for Older Partners? The Truth!

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  • @johnteill_
    @johnteill_8 ай бұрын

    I just can't wait to escape the western women 😅

  • @ronvanscooter5941

    @ronvanscooter5941

    8 ай бұрын

    I'm with I'm out of here

  • @ThePrince1608

    @ThePrince1608

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@ronvanscooter5941just remember it will cost a lot of money and many have boyfriend that they hide from you.

  • @Alakazzam09
    @Alakazzam098 ай бұрын

    Consenting adults should be free to do as they please as long as it's not hurting anyone. Anyone who doesn't like it can kick rocks and mind their own business. That sounds a bit spicy, but people deserve to be happy the world is bad enough. Be kind to each other.

  • @finalcountdown7658

    @finalcountdown7658

    6 ай бұрын

    The problem is that women l, especially younger women, are seen as victims, and men are seen as predators. Westernized women (and some feminist men) don't see them as "consenting adults."

  • @jondoe6926

    @jondoe6926

    4 ай бұрын

    This is something a loser who dates someone much younger would say. Because you can't get someone mature. Simple fact. You're a loser. yes, you're free to be a loser. Go right ahead.

  • @rolandmueller7218
    @rolandmueller72188 ай бұрын

    My mom is 9 years older than my Dad. My sister in-law was 15 years older than my brother. I am 21 years older than my Filipina girlfriend. Age gaps are a way of life in my family.

  • @secretagent86

    @secretagent86

    8 ай бұрын

    My wife is three years older than i am. Irrelevant.

  • @thelastgoodmaninjersey
    @thelastgoodmaninjersey8 ай бұрын

    My Filipina girlfriend was a homebody and she was 22 years younger than me. She'd go out with me to tourist attractions because I wanted to, but honestly she would have been find just going to a restaurant every now and again. It was easy-peasy. I just didn't know how difficult it was to bring a Filipina back to America. That, in my opinion, is the biggest concern for Westerners who visit the Philippines but don't plan to relocate there.

  • @waltgreen8759

    @waltgreen8759

    8 ай бұрын

    bringing them to the US is a huge mistake.

  • @thelastgoodmaninjersey

    @thelastgoodmaninjersey

    8 ай бұрын

    @@BigDave_Wannabe These are the important conversations guys need to have. If you want a Filipina there's a trade. You'll get a young beauty and she'll get a family and security. That seems fair to me.

  • @Danno_A_Jyd

    @Danno_A_Jyd

    8 ай бұрын

    You nailed it! Well done.

  • @thelastgoodmaninjersey

    @thelastgoodmaninjersey

    8 ай бұрын

    @@Danno_A_Jyd Thank you sir. I have a whole channel dedicated to having this conversations with Western men who are considering the Philippines.

  • @davidfitzgerald8065

    @davidfitzgerald8065

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@thelastgoodmaninjersey hey man in Jersey, what is the name of your channel? I am currently involved with a Filipina who is going through the immigration process to come here to the US. We have a very long history, she is 20 years my junior, and I have been to visit her in the Philippines 3 times.

  • @martypoll
    @martypoll8 ай бұрын

    I am 67 and my Thai wife is 26 years younger than me. We met 7 years ago and have been married for 4 1/2 years. The difference in cultures is a bigger issue than generational differences. Energetically we are about the same or I am more energetic. My age gap relationship is working out just fine. Other expats in the area have similar age gap relationships, some for decades, and it seems to be working out for them too.

  • @2000ViperGTSsubscribe

    @2000ViperGTSsubscribe

    8 ай бұрын

    Was with Thai 9 years, went to USA, all was good UNTIL other Thais talked to her. We were divorced in 2019 over it. They convinced her my money was ours, her was hers, she should have total freedom to do everything. We ended over it, they convinced her she should be with them partying and she should be free. We were 16.5 years apart, she is now remarried to a younger guy 10 years younger, so she upgraded. The GOOD NEWS is I am worth millions and she refused any money or alimony as she said I was so good to her. It was traumatic for her to leave me to be frank, but bringing one back to USA, not again-WAY too much risk with US divorce laws. I have a lot of time in and out of PH, but many are focused on money and will leave you quickly as their culture is not fix relaitonship, but break easily and communication for conflict resolution is anemic at best. In PH, they will lie and cheat MUCH faster than a Thai, not even close. I studied Thai a long time, basic reading and writing, intermediate speaking and Thailand is MUCH better all day long, but Thai is very hard to learn and I am an active linguist, so most men end up in Philippines for women. I also find the expat community a higher caliber in Thailand too for sure.

  • @balutduckegg9770

    @balutduckegg9770

    8 ай бұрын

    I am 62, and my Thai girlfriend is 23 ... we have been together 21 months ...and growing stronger in love

  • @George-ux6zz
    @George-ux6zz8 ай бұрын

    My mom and dad had 12 years difference in age. They did very well together ❤️

  • @lbj4993

    @lbj4993

    8 ай бұрын

    Wow, 12 years, that's like unbelievable...AND OH SO COMMON you numbskull...:):):)

  • @parabiology1014

    @parabiology1014

    8 ай бұрын

    Mine too! My parents have a 12 year age gap and they are still together 57 years later!

  • @williambreeze2659
    @williambreeze26598 ай бұрын

    As a older guy dating a younger woman, I think health and overall fitness should be a major focus point. Workout, exercise, good diet, strength train, and limit drugs. Alcohol and smoking are in the drug clas. Same with caffeine too.

  • @hitekcountry
    @hitekcountry8 ай бұрын

    Rubeauti, here’s a topic you might want to do a video on: What happens to the Young Filipina that marries an older wealthy foreigner and then the old guy dies, what typically happens after that? Of the few I know about, two just stayed in the US and never even went back to visit in the Philippines, one I know lives in the US and visits the Philippines maybe every other year. Another moved back to the Philippines and owns a large house and rents out an apartment as an Airbnb. Another is extremely wealthy and lives most of the time in the Philippines but goes back to the US to take care of various financial issues. I attended two large parties at her house there in the Philippines and I can assure you that she is quite well off. Of these few that I know of, none of them remarried, is that typical, I don’t know.

  • @Nordic_Sky

    @Nordic_Sky

    6 ай бұрын

    If you marry a young woman, you should take out life insurance that will support her if you pass on. Then she can decide what she wants to do, stay in your country or go back home.

  • @lorandmagyar

    @lorandmagyar

    3 ай бұрын

    That's the question I have. If she has kids, they marry, and he adopts those kids. Then the kids would receive survivor benefits (US) if he drops dead. If no kids and a 20-year age gap...what does she do to survive ? I would prefer to live in the US. I have sufficient resources that she would be able to live very comfortably for the rest for life in the Philippines. And possibly enough money that her kids would be okay too. But it wouldn't be all that easy to manage the properties, investments, etc from the Philippines. Are these old guys teaching their significant others how to access their assets should they die or become incapacitated ? There are many questions nobody really discusses with any seriousness.

  • @Nordic_Sky

    @Nordic_Sky

    3 ай бұрын

    Unless your Filipina is highly educated, it will not be possible for her to manage US investments, whether living in the USA or (even worse) in PI. You have to get a wealth advisor to do, essentially as a trustee, it and mail her the checks. @@lorandmagyar

  • @georgepower7
    @georgepower78 ай бұрын

    I think you definitely have to be adaptable in order for a large age gap relationship to work. Even at 40 I’ll probably have to adjust and adapt when I move to the Philippines in a few months and probably find a younger partner .

  • @Rubeauti

    @Rubeauti

    8 ай бұрын

    Yes I agree George

  • @rexmascarina2169

    @rexmascarina2169

    8 ай бұрын

    Visit us in Davao province if you looking for younger women.

  • @thelastgoodmaninjersey

    @thelastgoodmaninjersey

    8 ай бұрын

    Why did you decide to move to the Philippines?

  • @user-dy5pq7tp7g
    @user-dy5pq7tp7g8 ай бұрын

    It’s a case by case situation for age gap couple’s…Yes many don’t work but also many do work. I don’t drink or smoke and I exercise and I treat my girlfriend like a princess. All women around the world want security not just in the Philippines. There’s a big difference between a gold digger and a woman who just wants security with Food,housing, loyalty,and so on….

  • @johnlong3543

    @johnlong3543

    8 ай бұрын

    I enjoyed the positivity of your presentation. Your English speaking is admirable and appreciated. 😁👍

  • @user-dy5pq7tp7g

    @user-dy5pq7tp7g

    8 ай бұрын

    @@johnlong3543 Thank you Johnlong….

  • @martypoll

    @martypoll

    8 ай бұрын

    I totally agree. Look at what is being purchased with the money. Gold necklace = bad. Food, diapers, fertilizer for the farm is OK.

  • @spincube5734
    @spincube57345 ай бұрын

    Another chat done well, Thanks Ru !!

  • @rjb346
    @rjb3468 ай бұрын

    Let's get this out of the way ... I am 77, my mate is 35. We are compatible in every way. Intellectually, sexually, socially, emotionally, and spiritually. We have one rule ... do everything possible to make the others' day the best possible day it can be.

  • @balutduckegg9770

    @balutduckegg9770

    8 ай бұрын

    YES !!! ... let ME get this one too ... I am 62, and my girlfriend is 23. We have been together for 21 months now. We too are compatible in every way. Intellectually, sexually, socially, emotionally, and spiritually. Everything between us feels timeless. We feel like we are long time soul-mates. It was never my goal to seek this large age gap. However ... I honestly do not care about it. I LOVE her !

  • @selohcin

    @selohcin

    4 ай бұрын

    If you're 77 and your wife is 35, then I hope you're exercising rigorously every day...or else you're not following your own rule.

  • @chadr4013

    @chadr4013

    3 ай бұрын

    You must be rich and she must be a good liar.

  • @Ray-dv3nz
    @Ray-dv3nz8 ай бұрын

    I have a Filipino girlfriend who is 31. I can’t believe........well that’s not quite true. It took a lot to believe that she is attracted to me because I’m 60. I’ve just returned home from visiting her in the Philippines to finish up work and then I’ll be going back to start my new life with her. She honestly has no problem being with me. I was a bit apprehensive at the start but now I’m happier than I’ve been in 20 years 😊

  • @northernbohemianrealist1412

    @northernbohemianrealist1412

    8 ай бұрын

    I'm not far behind you, buddy. Keeping my eyes on the prize!

  • @2000ViperGTSsubscribe

    @2000ViperGTSsubscribe

    8 ай бұрын

    Do not buy family home, do not loan any $ you want back and enjoy. Keep your money VERY close to you is my advice and HAVE FUN!

  • @Ray-dv3nz

    @Ray-dv3nz

    8 ай бұрын

    @@northernbohemianrealist1412 That’s the way mate. Why would you go anywhere else. My ex who I was married to for 37 years, says she doesn’t like me. Now I feel like I’ve won the lottery......TWICE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Ray-dv3nz

    @Ray-dv3nz

    8 ай бұрын

    @@2000ViperGTSsubscribe Good advice my friend. Duly noted 👍🏻

  • @farmerfox99

    @farmerfox99

    8 ай бұрын

    Is she a lot easier to be around and way more supportive than typical western woman?

  • @Niftynorm1
    @Niftynorm18 ай бұрын

    Good video and always timely. You have a great perspective and one both parties should think about. Take care.

  • @iainwolstencroft3764
    @iainwolstencroft37648 ай бұрын

    You hit the nail on the head. Mutual respect and communication can easily overcome most barriers in any relationship

  • @clydeallen8681
    @clydeallen86818 ай бұрын

    Good topic, Rubeauty. I see that you are still looking fit and fine. I hope that you are doing well and that your channel is doing well.

  • @Roadglide59
    @Roadglide598 ай бұрын

    Mathematically speaking, dating only the girls of the same age really narrows down the dating pool. Opening up to a 10 year age gap gives you 10 times the choices. It's easier to find someone with great qualities when you have more choices. We have a 29 year age gap. She's 35, I'm 64. Things couldn't get better. Life here in the Philippines 🇵🇭 🇺🇸 🌴 has been good also.

  • @fearnoevil65

    @fearnoevil65

    8 ай бұрын

    Stay there, if you married and bring her to the West, good luck

  • @2000ViperGTSsubscribe

    @2000ViperGTSsubscribe

    8 ай бұрын

    @@fearnoevil65 YES! Divorced in 2019 from Thai, took her to USA, 7.5 years later, divorced after other Thais got her.

  • @patrickmullane30
    @patrickmullane308 ай бұрын

    I married a woman 21 years younger than me (10 years now) after a marriage of 20 years with someone my own age. Best thing I ever did.

  • @bruceb7747
    @bruceb77478 ай бұрын

    Good video Rubeauti. With the exception of health issues, shared interests and outlook on life are more important than age

  • @ellimoemoe74
    @ellimoemoe743 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your great video… your prospective give me a better understanding of life in the Philippines.. thank you again for a great video

  • @fekaduasrat6791
    @fekaduasrat67918 ай бұрын

    Hi hi Rubeauti, love your analysis. Great video. Big respect. Stay blessed.

  • @timlee5260
    @timlee52608 ай бұрын

    What matters most in a relationship is that both people want to be with each other. If each person desires what the other gives then they will be motivated to continue. Age could be important to some but not others. Social standing can also be important to some.

  • @Shattered65
    @Shattered658 ай бұрын

    A fair and unbiased take well done Ruby, especially given your personal dislike for large age gaps. As I said in chat I think that the age gap between you and your parents often contributes to how you feel about an older partner. My mother was over 40 when I was born and as a result for me having had a relationship with both a woman 14 years older than me and a woman 24 years younger than me was never an issue for me but I understand that for people who's parents were in their 20's when they were born they can be uncomfortable with a partner that is around the same age as their parents.

  • @philipmasie
    @philipmasie8 ай бұрын

    Thanks 🙏 for sharing your experience and knowledge with us lovely 🥰 Rubeauti!

  • @brendan5539
    @brendan55397 ай бұрын

    I have been dating a Ph 'gal for years. I have forwarded your video to her. Only 12 year age difference. Newly subscribed, and agree with the vast majority of your views!

  • @PassportBrosBusinessClass
    @PassportBrosBusinessClass8 ай бұрын

    Older men offer more stability than younger men. Apparently a lot of Filipino boys are going MGTOW or practicing: PINA ANGKAN

  • @jonathanleach1050
    @jonathanleach10508 ай бұрын

    Abraham became a widower at age 137 when Sarah, ten years his junior, died. He then married Keturah, who bore him six children. THERE was an age gap!

  • @neolee8206
    @neolee82068 ай бұрын

    Thanks for the video. You're a lovely young woman. Every relationship has challenges. And most of the challenges are relative to it's dynamics. That's why total openness and honestly is vital. You can't beat a challenge if you can't trust each other. Filipina's penchant for tampo (ending all communication) and misrepresenting (lying) themselves is highly destructive. Really old guys are more likely to be tolerant of these behaviors if they are being cared for. Filipina are more likely to tolerate age if they and their family are financially cared for.

  • @edwinthomas6301
    @edwinthomas63018 ай бұрын

    I must admit that you have a very broadcast ready voice. Very articulate and sounds like a subject matter expert and credible. Keep up the great work!❤

  • @williammoore6953
    @williammoore69534 ай бұрын

    Financial security can certainly be one point. Emotional security is another. Older men have less to prove ego wise, they are more mature emotionally. According to my wife, she finds that I am less focused on myself and moreso on her emotional needs. She also values my opinions and decision making. Young men also tend to have more risk of... we will say "wanderlust".

  • @chrisneehler2287
    @chrisneehler22878 ай бұрын

    Great video. Thank you. My wife is 30 years younger. Oddly enough I enjoy sky diving, scuba diving etc. I'm definitely more active then she is lol. Cudoes to her for agreeing to join me. I know I'll slow down some day. Just not today lol.

  • @godfreyvonnordeck2056
    @godfreyvonnordeck20567 ай бұрын

    Another great video if you didn’t have an accent people would think that you were raised in the United States you speak very well easily understood. Again a great job 🌹🌹

  • @elkan115
    @elkan1154 ай бұрын

    I Live Here In New York City, I Just Ran Across Your Ch. I Love It!Im Learning alot About Your Culture,Thanks

  • @BrianBaileyedtech
    @BrianBaileyedtech8 ай бұрын

    Love your videos. You are a lovely person in the true sense.

  • @spike141962
    @spike1419628 ай бұрын

    I agree what’s more important than age is treating your partner with dignity and respect.

  • @kaikrist
    @kaikrist8 ай бұрын

    Hi Rubeauti. In my relationship, I am about 25 years older than my partner, but I am the energetic one who loves exercise and adventure. So it is not always the younger one that is more outgoing and active.

  • @2000ViperGTSsubscribe

    @2000ViperGTSsubscribe

    8 ай бұрын

    HEHE Me too, I can walk 20Km, no issues, hike climb, young ones are like WTF to me-hehe. Super active in other ways too, they are in disbelief but like that aspect.

  • @kristallmenschkristallwolf1969
    @kristallmenschkristallwolf19698 ай бұрын

    thats right the Interests in Life must be the same and the Fitness

  • @lorandmagyar
    @lorandmagyar3 ай бұрын

    What's also important is what happens financially to the young woman when the old goat drops dead. Nobody really discusses this.

  • @viduraweerasinghe1929
    @viduraweerasinghe19295 ай бұрын

    Im from Sri Lanka and my philipina girlfriend 19 years younger than me,and im 52 now. i met her before few months ago. I do really happy with her and planning to visit her middle of this year..Shes really a hard working person, and she wishes to relocate in my country.Your videos are very important and helping us to know much about philipino girls, traditions and more .Thank you so much.

  • @davidbraxton6600
    @davidbraxton66008 ай бұрын

    GOOD JOB RUBEAUTI ❤

  • @pietromora2297
    @pietromora22978 ай бұрын

    So incredibly graceful and your beauty is unmatched lady.

  • @patrickc113
    @patrickc1138 ай бұрын

    You are absolutely right. My Wife and I have a 15 year age gap. However we are very compatible in every way. We enjoy doing many of the same things and I am still physically fit enough to do many of the things that she wants to do. My Wife and I have always made sure that we are doing everything that we can to make each day enjoyable.

  • @ThomasAdams-ek8cc
    @ThomasAdams-ek8cc8 ай бұрын

    Philippine Pea is in Manila, Wish you two would interview each other. Wow what a beautiful thought.

  • @cathoderay305
    @cathoderay3056 ай бұрын

    The older man/younger woman thing was the rule for any number of cultures for centuries, because men were expected to establish themselves in society (house, property, etc.) before they sought a bride. In ancient Rome, a man typically married in his late 20's or early 30's to a teenage bride, because he had to have made something of himself before doing so. For some, like legionnaires, they couldn't marry until they'd fulfilled their obligation and received a parcel of land to cultivate at the end of their service and the money that had been set aside for savings - meaning that most didn't marry until their 40's or 50's. We mustn't forget that men, for the most part, also remarried after they'd lost their wives to age, illness, or death in childbirth, so their were many old men with young wives and wealthy men with younger wives throughout history.

  • @smferreiro2610
    @smferreiro26108 ай бұрын

    When there is true care and respect, everything can work. Because when you care and respect, you are taking care of his/her body and feelings.

  • @andyreiben
    @andyreiben6 ай бұрын

    Since I was 22 y.o, I had always women older than me...The small gap was 6 years, the more one 24 ! Now, I'm 54 and I will choose a woman less 15 years younger or 10 years older than me.

  • @fcruz43215
    @fcruz432158 ай бұрын

    You look stunning 😊

  • @thomasraywood679
    @thomasraywood6798 ай бұрын

    I think the answer is 'acquired beauty', or, if you want to tone it down, acquired appeal ...and I just think that stability, as a sure footedness, is a significant component of that appeal.

  • @joestuddley
    @joestuddley8 ай бұрын

    Age Gap = Gold Digger.

  • @AdamKidd1972
    @AdamKidd19728 ай бұрын

    Who am I to judge another person happiness? Enjoy life letting others do the same. A relationship overseas becomes a blending of cultures creating a wonderful life together. You don't have to please society expectations to be happy with your life choices. Try to live each day that makes yesterday jealous. Have the courage to explore your happiness regardless of what others think.

  • @lamontejh
    @lamontejh8 ай бұрын

    I was stationed in subic Bay and my teens. I'm 56 years old and I'll be going back to the Philippines early next year. I don't have a problem with a woman younger than me. I have the meetings to raise a family. hopefully, with a woman who is willing to be in a family. age is immaterial.

  • @waltgreen8759
    @waltgreen87598 ай бұрын

    very balanced take on AGRs. thank you!

  • @blackups__6554
    @blackups__65548 ай бұрын

    There is no secret as to why women go for older men. Older men are usually more financially stable women want men who can protect and provide for them and the family.

  • @hardmtnbiker
    @hardmtnbiker7 ай бұрын

    If the man is 30 plus years older than the girl, sure understanding and respect, just like any relationship. The difference is when that man is 67 and she’s 23. She’s just going to have to understand that he’s going to be dead when she’s in her 40’s. Especially if he has bad habits and medical conditions.

  • @shaunmckenna1923
    @shaunmckenna19238 ай бұрын

    Hello Rubeauti, over the years i have seen many couples in the Philippines with the the 30 to 40 year age gabs , I often wonder if they do stay together , I have to admit they do look happy . I think in many cases the older man is hoping for companionship and if the lady in question is taking care of him thats wonderful , I cant think of a better country to end your days in with a loving and caring Filipina , lets face it if you live in North America and you are a single man the chances are you will be lonely and end your days in a Care Home . Rubeauti maybe you could do a video and interview a few couples look for a lower income couple and some higher income couples . Thank you enjoy your weekend take care .

  • @2000ViperGTSsubscribe

    @2000ViperGTSsubscribe

    8 ай бұрын

    I have seen both succeed in PH with my own eyes, but that is a contrast normally.

  • @1JJONES
    @1JJONES8 ай бұрын

    You are a very snappy dresser! Great video!

  • @magnuswayne7002
    @magnuswayne70023 ай бұрын

    It is difficult for me to find a good woman in the USA because of my religious beliefs. I am seventh-day Adventist. We don't drink we don't smoke and we also take good care of ourselves. I don't eat certain foods so that can present a problem when I try to date. I'm planning on moving to the Philippines or Thailand hopefully I'll have better luck 🤞❤😊

  • @user-tm6nq3ou1v
    @user-tm6nq3ou1v5 ай бұрын

    I am 28 years older than my wife . Younger girls want older guys because we know how to treat a girl most likely more faithful . These things are not for all but for those of us older guys it can be a good way to go .

  • @certaintngs2000
    @certaintngs20008 ай бұрын

    Rubeauti, interesting video with a lot of good points to ponder. An as always you looking so beautiful. A crucial point in age gape relationships you and every one else seem to have missed? I'm surprised you didn't mention this..... When 'YOUR' mom says, she does not want 'YOU' to marry any body older then she is, so your age limit is 59 or 60? Enquiring Minds want to know? Just to show, I do watch your, video's and enjoy them:)

  • @jamalgreen3056
    @jamalgreen30568 ай бұрын

    I thought u covered this before but unfortunately,he he I still don’t understand becoming it’s like there automatically passing up the younger foreigners and just purposely going straight to the older guys.However I do currently have a Filipina and do plan on meeting her in the Philippines I guess I’m blessed to have her 😅.

  • @paulsaulnier9228
    @paulsaulnier92288 ай бұрын

    I had a relationship with a girl from Mandaluyong (I'm Canadian). She was 20 years younger. Age was never an issue in any way.

  • @ChrisB-sv1gz
    @ChrisB-sv1gz6 ай бұрын

    I am 64, and my OFW filipina is 50. We have known each other for 5 years, and after the pandemic and my parents passed away, we recently got together. I'm the one who wants to explore, hike, and see the philippines! I can see that after all her years of work, she is content on staying home and taking care of plants, lol.

  • @patrickfreeman8257
    @patrickfreeman82578 ай бұрын

    Michael Douglas - Catherine Zeta-Jones. 25 year (exactly - to the day) age difference. No one ever thought she was a gold digger or that he was a dirty old man. I guess celebrities get a pass on such things

  • @TheHelixballerone
    @TheHelixballerone8 ай бұрын

    Hi Rubeauti Nice cactus plants.

  • @haroldmann3303
    @haroldmann33035 ай бұрын

    Love that outfit on you! I would like to meet you Rubeauti.

  • @danielhay184
    @danielhay1848 ай бұрын

    My 51 my girl is 37 and at my stage in life i dont care what other people think etc most are just jealous and arnt happy with there own life

  • @vincentfranklin4186
    @vincentfranklin41863 ай бұрын

    You are brilliant.

  • @brianscovern68
    @brianscovern688 ай бұрын

    Great video. If both people in the relationship are ok with the age gap then thats all the matters. I didn't hear how you personally feel about it and would you date an older guy? 🤔

  • @tonykennedy1615
    @tonykennedy16158 ай бұрын

    Money. Old men have resources. Women want resources.

  • @BischannelYT

    @BischannelYT

    5 ай бұрын

    True especially if the women is not from a wealthy nations

  • @jondoe6926

    @jondoe6926

    4 ай бұрын

    Sad part is, many people mistake a transaction as 'true love' and act like they're in a relationship. Nope, you're in a transaction.

  • @DrDlane

    @DrDlane

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@jondoe6926EVERY relationship with a woman is a transaction. Don't kid yourself. It has nothing to do with Filipinas. It's the nature and biology of females.

  • @francoisrochat2625
    @francoisrochat26258 ай бұрын

    Well done, Rubeauti ! Know what? A study has revealed that children from older parents with pronounced age gap tend to be brighter and get along better in life. Look maybe at your own family! All the best and keep safe, François

  • @robertl2227

    @robertl2227

    8 ай бұрын

    That is not surprising given the maturity of older parents

  • @BP7BlackPearl
    @BP7BlackPearl8 ай бұрын

    Modern society doesnt value experience. We think of new and exciting. It is pushed on us by the media and culture. For something to be good, it has to be young and new. Hence we shuffle our old people off to rest homes never to be heard from again. Philippines values experience. That is why they are family oriented, the older ones instill that value into their lives. There might be alot of poor filipinos, but how are those riches working out for Americans with high crime rates, drug addiction, divorce rates, abortions, homelesness. Now on the other hand, my experience in the Phil is that even the poor are happy, as long as they have each other.

  • @Leonard369C
    @Leonard369C8 ай бұрын

    Money,,,money,,,money it's not that complicated, some may call it survival or security but the bottom line is when you have money you can have young women period, when the truth is too hard to handle people come up with these complicated justifications for these missmatch relationships. Yes there are exceptions but in most of these relationships there is a huge come up for the woman and a man willing to pay for it.

  • @rabidfarmer9765
    @rabidfarmer97654 ай бұрын

    Old horses will always need young grass...to make honey. LOL!

  • @helmut-g.9651
    @helmut-g.96513 ай бұрын

    It can be about money with no age gap and it can be deep honest love with huge age gap! Love dont care about age gap, skin colour or gender! Love is the most precious thing in life! People recognize too late. At the hour of dying, you dont ask to see your bank account statement, you ask for the ones you love! Poorest are those who never loved!

  • @davidcadman4468
    @davidcadman44688 ай бұрын

    Yesterday I answered a question on a social media question platform. What would you like to be doing in 20 years. "Breathing, fornicating with a 20 something Asian University girl, Enjoying the proceeds from my Tesla stock. That good enough for starters." I'm 76 in 2 months so 96 in 20 years. With medical tech not out of the question. But seriously, which comes to your video, how likely is it that the age difference (70) would be possible. Even given the medical changes that could help me keep up with a woman that young. Just a thought. What do you think...

  • @Greycat590
    @Greycat5902 ай бұрын

    The truth is what it has always been: money versus goods. Moreover, the product here is not only the Filipino woman herself, but also the self-perception of the poor old man, that he is still worth something, and that life is not over yet. And around this you can tell any fairy tales to yourself and others. The goods, however, quickly deteriorate, but money remains money. On the other hand, in these cases the buyer himself may deteriorate even faster than the goods.

  • @michaelwelch4338
    @michaelwelch43388 ай бұрын

    Rubeauti, The Peach color is so Very Pretty that you are wearing. Maganda

  • @brandoncomer6492
    @brandoncomer64928 ай бұрын

    from my observations large age gap relationships actually seem to be a bit more stable as long term relationships.

  • @labandonaldhock80
    @labandonaldhock808 ай бұрын

    Yes it is about money, everything is about money and always has been.

  • @2000ViperGTSsubscribe

    @2000ViperGTSsubscribe

    8 ай бұрын

    Not all the case there, if that was the case, I am worth millions USD and in USA do I have women chasing me down? No, it is the culture in USA for women to be men now.

  • @kalasatwater2224
    @kalasatwater22248 ай бұрын

    In my country this was the norm but not anymore

  • @George-ux6zz
    @George-ux6zz8 ай бұрын

    Hi Ruby. You look very nice today 😊

  • @TropicShade
    @TropicShade3 ай бұрын

    Age gaps will only be a hindrance if you allow them to be. Cultural differences can be a bigger factor in having a successful relationship. If a westerner struggles with or cannot fully accept his partner's [Filipino] culture, age gaps will not matter. 🙄

  • @fernstv3138
    @fernstv31388 ай бұрын

    My Niece is married to a man 30 years older she is in love with this man, he earns a normal income and they live a modest life, but he lives just to make her happy and so much respect, nothing in comparison to her previous same age relationships. She found a man that truly loves her. She gets the snake eyes stare and younger guys bully her that she's in it for the money they both work earn almost same salary Society is cruel.

  • @theguyshepassedupfortyrone
    @theguyshepassedupfortyrone5 ай бұрын

    The number one reason for large age gaps is money 💰. A much older foreigner is just viewed as a meal ticket 99% of the time. The older the better because if he's near death, the Pinay won't have long to endure the 'relationship' and inherit the foreiner's wealth from matrimony. Also, a much older guy probably can't 'rise' to the occasion, which relieves the Pinay of much sexual pressure.

  • @kristallmenschkristallwolf1969
    @kristallmenschkristallwolf19698 ай бұрын

    well thanx for that Video i am myself have aan fell in Love witz an 30 Years Filippina and i am 54 passing January til 55 but be still young and Fit - i am different than many German People cause i dont think that already 5 Years would be like feeling 20 Years - thats Crazy thinking - but i would never going under 29 or 28 cause the Difference is to much - an younger Woman have mostly absolute different Imagine of Life and my natural Instinct goes against it - i say an Affair with an 20 or 25 Years Girl OK but never an Relationship (no i never had one) cause in Germany you must pay Online Portals to find someone for that - it is absolutely different to Philippines

  • @relaxbecalm5574
    @relaxbecalm55748 ай бұрын

    I guess my question is if Rebeauti is not ready to mingle how so where does she get all this knowledge to give about relationships. I would think having relationships, failures ,successes would better qualify person above anyone to give advice

  • @Dutchy-1168
    @Dutchy-11684 ай бұрын

    Myself ,,,, I have mixed feeling about the whole deal ! ‼️‼️🇨🇦🇨🇦

  • @JenGioPhilippineJourney
    @JenGioPhilippineJourney8 ай бұрын

    Question for you Dai. Would you date a older guy and what's your view on this.?

  • @johnpiccard8193
    @johnpiccard81938 ай бұрын

    My Asawa is 38 years youger than me. Been together 6 years and we are happy. Neither of us cares what others think. No ones business. Her family are happy we are together.

  • @chadr4013
    @chadr40133 ай бұрын

    Money. No woman finds great grandpa Simpson attractive.

  • @Patrik777_
    @Patrik777_8 ай бұрын

    To get a wife from Philippines to Europe, expect to spend about 10-20 000 euros. Philippines is very expensive country.

  • @fugu4163
    @fugu41638 ай бұрын

    It seems rather normal that the man are older than the woman in most asian countries. For instance thai people rarely or never consider that age difference but rather our beauty standards. Many times western men prefer that curvy girl with a tan working in the convenient store rather than whats are considered beautiful in ie Thailand.

  • @jasonlinnell1575
    @jasonlinnell15758 ай бұрын

    Hey Ru. It's mr_copperdaddy. Well presented. Looking professional ❤️✌️😎

  • @user-yn8nc6iq5q
    @user-yn8nc6iq5q8 ай бұрын

    It's just natural. Men have always sought younger women. I'm American and I usually date younger girls. In fact, none of my friends have older wives or girlfriends.

  • @elprofesor3643
    @elprofesor36438 ай бұрын

    Look lovely today,Ruby.This subject is so worn out and is something people know naturally.It''s like what you get when you put a belt and a clock together.☺

  • @VintageStereoCollector
    @VintageStereoCollectorАй бұрын

    You look so elegant very slim wowwww you look great

  • @Ron-rk6iz
    @Ron-rk6iz7 ай бұрын

    The answer is: Social security, Asian people are very pragmatic, and Money is needed to survive.... It is not bad, it is sad and caused by the socioeconomic differences in our world.

  • @bobbyb4171
    @bobbyb41718 ай бұрын

    Filipinas can debate this subject until their teeth fall out. Whether in the PH or in Western countries young women only date older men 20-40 years older than them mainly for financial reasons NOTHING else! Their love for that man comes later down. TRUTH is… IF that older man has nothing (financially) to offer her he stands NO chance even if he looks like Brad Pitt. Love CANNOT put food on the table or a roof over her head even if she’s a western woman. Talking about “EXPERIENCE” from an older man, what are those exactly? Money management and sexual experience? He sure knows nothing about cleaning a house, washing clothes with his hands and cooking most men can’t do, so what wealth of experience are you talking about? This young woman is the one doing the chores (as it’s customary to in some cultures) and what does he do? Pay the bills, keep a roof over her head, take her on vacations, dine out and sex. It’s tit for tat and both wins. Even in the west, a young guy dating an older woman is not out of pure love UNLESS he’s reeling in dough. He wants a woman who is accomplished and can finance him. A Filipina in her 20’s is NOT going to date a Filipino in his 60’s period! It’s 2023, let’s stop fabricating stories about why younger Filipinas date older WESTERN men.

  • @DrDlane

    @DrDlane

    4 ай бұрын

    This has nothing to do with Filipinas. It's the nature of women everywhere to seek financial security and stability. It's a tale as old as time.

  • @erictews6270
    @erictews62708 ай бұрын

    Rubeauti You are so beautiful That it’s wonderful listening to you

  • @robertotero7155
    @robertotero71558 ай бұрын

    You are a very beautiful girl ! God bless you always