We met in person. 3 years together and 6 trips starting in 2017. We were engaged 2019 and prepared for our wedding in 2020. Our wedding was supposed to be April 2020 but due to the crazy coof my flight was cancelled in March 2020. It was a tough pill to swallow. I starting to notice some warning signs, some odd behavior in late February early March. I found out in August that in January 2020, just a few months before we were to be married she was back with her ex. How does that even happen? It doesn’t matter if you meet someone online or in person. A bad person is a bad person. It didn’t take me long to move on and put it behind me. That is life. Pick up the pieces, move forward and don’t look back.

@Karma52

Жыл бұрын

Your so right; bad women are all around us, online, at the local 7 eleven. Etc. You just move on. She probably never broke up with the ex. In the 1st place 😉

@andresdeks

10 ай бұрын

You dodged a bullet

@brianandlynphilippines

9 ай бұрын

Why would a man marry? Bend over much?

@MobileGamingChronicles

5 ай бұрын

Yeah and it doesn't matter how careful we are, how much time we invest, and how much we do with our potential partner in person, and it also doesn't matter if you're married as well, we all take the same risk being with someone.

@Danbb-sc5oc

4 ай бұрын

Hello Sir im in a similar situation you were the first person i seen in a almost exact situation I thought all was good with my filipina i supported her through her annuelment thought all was fine since i worked with her godmother met her 3x in a year then im like i want to see you again shes like i have work as a nanny i cant make the time to see you...found out later she back with her ex. It feels good to feel im not the only one in this situation i am younger than most at 31 and the filipina older at 37

I've only watched a few of your videos, but have learned a lot. Learning about scammers is critical for western guys. I had a Filipina try to scam me claiming her mother died and they didn't have the money to bury her. I didn't have any previous experience with something like this but asked around and found out that she is nothing but serious trouble. Everything about her was a lie and she had no shame when I confronted her about it. Anyways, I learned quickly (thank God) but I know there are tons of guys who fall for these scams. Thanks so much for putting out info that could literally keep someone from being destroyed mentally and financially.

@tomlambert915

Жыл бұрын

A common one is where they conveniently kill off the man in the house when often he is right there just off camera.

This is a great video and all very true. This is not limited to just strangers. What she didn't mention is even your wife's "distant relatives" try to be your online friends and will try to get at your wallet in the Philippines. They will give you all kind of crazy excuses. My husband left me, my son needs medication, my house got hit by a typhoon, etc. I play along and flip the script on them by playing like I am going to help, but never send any money!! They start bugging me and bugging me, and eventually, they block me. 🤣😂

Scammers and gold diggers are in every country and not just the Philippines. It is best to just go slow and get to know the person well before thinking to get into a relationship with them. I've seen Filipinos who were very good at scamming guys. There are many sweet and honest Filipinas who do desire a husband and who would make a great wife. And it's also sad there are a lot of guys who just use Filipinas for fun and sex and break their hearts after they tell them how much they love them and then just leave them for the next pretty girl they see and want. Take your time to really know the person and don't get crazy in lust because she may be beautiful and sexy. That beautiful, sexy, sweet girl may have a husband and child and other boyfriends which I've seen here in the Philippines.

@knucklehoagies

2 жыл бұрын

Gold diggers happen in every country but they are much more common in the philippines. I have met countless Filipino women that do the whole "double agenda" thing.

@klopossa2

2 жыл бұрын

That's why you should ask for a Cenomar before you get serious. I did..if they couldn't or wouldn't..there's yr sign.

@lucwargnier5283

Жыл бұрын

Yeah they are expert on scamming and lying but not alll choose the right 1

@novembermission5626

Жыл бұрын

@@klopossa2 Good day! Still a foreigner should not be complacent when the Filipina in question present you her Cenomar. There are Filipina's who are into cohabitation (yes, she's not married yet) but have a partner and or a child/children. God bless 🙏

Scammers can only be successful if the guy is not using his brain. The key to avoid scammers is to think logically and sequentially. -Nils

Fortunately I didn't fall for any scams. Although being someone new to dating websites in February, I quickly learned there are so many scammers. I was able to pick up on clues (I even started a list of warning signs). I almost got pulled into investing in a piggery because it seemed real and she was able to quote the costs of things and send photos of an empty area where the pigs would be. The warning sign was how eager she was to talk about the business day and night. As soon as I asked for a video chat. She was gone.

@stub4958

2 жыл бұрын

Those site are full of scammers. I went on one to look around a few years ago, but didn't load a picture. I kept getting messages telling me how they liked my picture or how handsome I am. Really made me doubt anything on them.

@MrPassportKing

2 жыл бұрын

@@stub4958 Hahaha...now that's crazy. The scammers are looking for new profiles.

@vagmanis251

2 жыл бұрын

Always don't give any help to a person you haven't already meet . From my part i made this mistake because i was in love, they use many ways to ask for help and make you feel guilty and help your future Asawa ko. But at the end the truth will come in light. The only bad thing is that take time which is bad for your money and feelings. So for fast results don't send any help at all.

@davidbishop9067

2 жыл бұрын

I was in a LDR for 2 yrs , I used to laugh at people who would fall in love online ..Before I knew it I was in love online hahahaha..After 2 yrs I sold my properties and planned to move to the Philippines..I arrived in Manila and met my girlfriend, the problem is the girl was pregnant when I arrived 🤣😂🤣😂

@stub4958

2 жыл бұрын

@@davidbishop9067 WOW! It is difficult at best to filter through people on those sites. To get that far and and find out it wasn't true. Again, wow!

As soon as money enters the conversation, it's over.

I love your heart.... I can feel your emotions as you tell these very sad stories, even the one about yourself! I am coming to the Philippines soon and I can only hope to meet a beautiful lady with a pure soul such as yourself! Great video, and thanks for making us all aware!

Great video, Rubeauti - and some really sad stories in the comments. I am so glad you didn't give away any money! For western guys, there are many scam websites pretending to be Asian or Eastern European. I am so pleased that I have a Filipina gf I video chat with for an hour every day. There's also pig-baiting, where attractive (often 'Asian' - though you might never really know) ladies (are they really?) tempt you into investing into something generating amazing returns on a platform that does not really exist. You never get any money back: it's gone. I've had that tried on me a couple of times. This is such an important topic: well done for covering this. :)

Rubeauti you are a very well spoken young lady, who presence herself in a great manner. Keep up the good work.

Thanks young lady for speaking clearly and not beating around the bush.

Being scammed is voluntary. Immediately ditch anyone who asks for one peso. Don’t get involved with anyone who can’t pay their own phone bills

@CindysBisvlog

Жыл бұрын

Agree

@ShawnVanNinja

4 ай бұрын

Are you blaming people who were scammed for being tricked? That's what the scammers use as a defense in court and they still face justice!

@davidhaylett1810

4 ай бұрын

@@ShawnVanNinja It’s not about blaming the victim, the scammer is to blame. I’m just saying that if you don’t hand over money you can’t get scammed. I’m afraid it’s a case of there being ‘no fool like an old fool’

@ShawnVanNinja

4 ай бұрын

@davidhaylett1810 sometimes the homeless guy asking for change is because he really needs help to survive and sometimes it's someone just looking for drug money. If you don't know should we never try and help? Just walk by?

@frankcentofanti9317

Ай бұрын

well said 100% agree

Thank you for being so compassionate about the poor guys who have been scammed. And thank you for your advice.

@ivannovotny4552

2 жыл бұрын

@@Rubeauti I can...sad reality.

Another enjoyable and useful video Rubeauti, so thanks for that. You’re obviously a caring person and genuinely want to help people avoid scammers. I hope your channel continues to grow. Pretty little dress btw 😊 looks great.

Thank you lovely Rubeauti for covering the topic. Lots of great advise! There's lots of scammers out there!

Great video. It takes 2 to be scammed. Always meet the person face to face. Take your time knowing her/him.

Thank you for a timely and informative video. Seeing you is great to chase the rain clouds away on a gloomy day in Detroit. It is sad that there are so many ways to scam people but most prey upon the lonely and desperate who maybe don't socialize very well. I fell into a scam with an online app, they start out fine and sweet then after a while might ask for help with an emergency or some excuse. Then it is something else until you finally get suspicious. IF it is too good to be true then it probably is. All you can do is move on and don't be stupid twice. If it happens again then it is your own fault and not the other persons. Rubeauti have you considered setting up a Patreon account? Good luck and stay safe.

Very sad that there are so many scammers out there! Thanks for another fun video! Best regards from Ventura, CA

About 10 years ago I met a filipina on line and we began communicating. Anyway to make a long story short. We talked for a couple years fell in love and we now have been married for 8 years. Best thing that ever happened to me. Don't let this scare you.

@whiteraindrops

Ай бұрын

was she like helpless and always asking money even for daily expenses...?

@vidong1704

13 күн бұрын

A certain %% are scammers and another %% is not. You were lucky, but others were not.

I can tell that you really have a good heart and your very smart Ms.rube and they way how your teaching people out there it’s really a good person ❤

Thank you again for another informative video. Unfortunately with continuing Covid restrictions it is very easy for a scammer to make a number of excuses that sound so real as to why you cannot meet in person. God Bless.

Another excellent video! Thank you so much for being so honest and straightforward about everything about scammers!

Hello Lovely, yes I was living in Vietnam for 15 years and I agree it’s all over the world. If you don’t have common sense you will get ripped off. Great videos keep up the good work. I will be to Philippines in the next 4 or 5 months.

Hi Rubeaui. Very good topic and one guys should be paying attention too. Scammers come in many forms and will try anything to get what they want from you. I can't even begin to tell you how many I have come across in my time online chatting with people. Some are very bold and ask right up front on the first time chatting some wait a while to ask for help and in most cases you can see it coming before it happens if you are paying attention. I even had one try to get money from me using the Pandemic saying her brother was arrested for being out past curfew and needed money to get him out of jail. In the past I have sent money to some for a birthday or something like that but no great amount. Some never chatted after I sent them a few dollars some did for a while but suddenly disappeared and some asked for birthday money a second time in the same year. Needless to say they got no response. I have an ex there that was great till meeting in person and it never worked out cause I really felt like I was being used and some things happened when I was there that did not add up and after I returned home suddenly she needed help for everything even though she had a good job. Moral of the story is pay attention to the conversation and never promise anything and don't send money and most important meet in person and spend time 24/7 with them and see how things go. Keep up the good work with your videos Rubeauti. I always enjoy them a lot. You are very beautiful and any guy would be lucky to have you as his partner. Keep smiling and stay safe my dear

I think I’ve had just about every version of online dating scams that are currently out there. Ugh. Thanks for sharing truth!

Hello there , yeah ive experienced many of the things you have outlined , its very difficult to find someone who is honest loyal supportive and faithful , your comments are very real and helpful

im truly amazed by the clearest english you speak..so truly clear

Thank you for your honesty. Scammers are smart and know how to take advantage of others. Don't feel that way because that could happen to anyone. You are amazing and Beautiful inside and out. They have tried with me. Your information is spot on. Hope that you find the happiness that you deserve. Look forward seeing more of you and learning about the Philippines. Planning a trip there soon. 😊😍❤️💕😘

You seem to be a very sweet lady. I hope your life is filled with love and laughter. God Bless You!

You are a gem. I enjoy your video. Straight to the point.

Good job with this video just being real. Thanks for sharing helping people not become victims. Poverty will make a person do just about anything, and being a Filipino, and all the love they have for their families, its easy for them to justify taking money to feed their families, Understandable, but guys need to know whats really going on with some of the people that are very poor, iv'e been there before and made friends girls and guys and they never asked me for money or even wanted to. they didn't earn that much but were professionals in their occupations and i admired them, and i met very poor people offering me some food or a drink of beer walking down the street or just say hello. I've been moved by their lifestyle and how they interact with each other is almost like all brothers and sisters. The whole country for the most part has a serious bond in love which i find attractive . Many different cultures should learn from them. I Love The Philippines. Be cause of the people! Thank you all for your fine hospitality when i was visiting.

An American guy I know has had a long distance relationship with a much younger Filipino woman, for a number of years. He's been going to see her twice per year for a month at a time & sending her money every month in-between. It turns out that she's been married all along & her husband has been in on the scam of draining the American guys money. What gets me is, having a gf thousands of miles away for 10months of the year is no recipe for a good, healthy relationship anyhow. In my mind either commit 100% or not at all. By not doing so, he found out the hard way, she wanted his money & nothing else. Similar stories are rife for long distance relationships all over the world.

@henrymcmiller2527

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks. I found myself in the same situation, but I cut it off after 3 months. Again, thanks for your post.

@truthbetold6496

2 жыл бұрын

some people are just that desperate its sad but true

@Karma52

Жыл бұрын

Every country has whores

Wow yes I was scammed big time before but never again. thank you for sharing Rubeauti

You are such a nice and beautiful young lady. It's hard to believe some guy would want to try and scam you. It's amazing how evil some people can be

I lived in Namibia in the 1990s as a teenager and my brother accidentally caused my parrot to escape. We posted notices with reward money. We were scammed with a long story that kept having more layers. We ended up in the slums and giving someone cash while waiting in a taxi. They said it was too dangerous as a white person… they never came back. My mother and I laughed at ourselves. We felt it was a scam but wanted the bird back. This was a small matter but I think I learned a bit about wishful thinking shaping judgments.

I was Engaged to a Filipino in Davao PH. Together over 4 years,almost 3 years was during Covid 19 , tough being apart. I fly Davao 4 times before Covid shut the whole world down. She broke me up. I feel every thing I did $$ wise better her life. Not angry, just heart broken, Love is powerful. Be safe 🙏🇺🇲💕

@CindysBisvlog

Жыл бұрын

Some women can't handle long distance , i also broke up with long distance boyfriend if i see no future of being physically together ... I will do the same if thats how long i will wait with my husband ... Good thing my husband fly after 9months ldr and got married in 2nd visit last 2019 ... and i was able to fly before the world shut down Im from davao too 😇

@EG-O

3 ай бұрын

maybe you take too long to have a life together, 4 years is alot of waiting for you to make up you mind. i personally wouldnt wait for you either

Great, sound advice Rubeauti. It is interesting seeing all these freshly and not so freshly scammed guys shooting their shot with you in their comments.. My comment is late but I think a part of the problem is many men, no matter where, tend to project their attraction on a woman, Filipina other otherwise, with even mere politeness or friendliness on the woman's part. Unfortunately because it is just projection, they think their target of their affection is as equally as enamored in them.. Especially when they do not notice signs, body language etc that the female really has no interest in them. But they move forward regardless. I used to do this too so I understand the behavior.

Interesting topic... thanks for addressing it.

Excellent video. Great information. Thanks for making it.

nice to see you again, I feel for you for how the stories upset you, it was brilliant vlog thank you, You are lovely, take care and stay safe 🙂😷

I had a lot of scammers on the dating sites...I can't believe a guy would scam you... Your such a (Ru)beauti....s but would be lucky to be with you... thanks for covering this topic

Another great video. I can't speak for everyone, but I think most of us are looking for a good woman who we can provide for and share our lives with. Most of us are too much in a hurry so we look online instead of waiting until we are there. Online scams happen online. Yes, I found mine online and it's been great. Thanks for the great video again.

@tombarnett8078

2 жыл бұрын

Cheryl Caballero wants to meet a good foreigner Send her a FB reguest

You are amazing & genuine. I hope there are more out there like you..

@CrownB78

2 жыл бұрын

@@Rubeauti My pleasure & thank you for all of the incite. Your BF is a lucky Man for sure ;) Oh & Christian Filipina seems much better, I am setting up an account now ( USER ID: 2174449 )💕 Sorry for the strange picture, this account is normally only used for business lol

You make GREAT helpful videos. Thank you! I've never dated online so your advice is welcome.

Thank you.. yes, I thought I found the right girl. Then I noticed her "working me" and I said something about it. I recall the first time, I said, "with the money I have sent you, I could have bought a ticket to PI.." She didn't comment. Later she ask for a reload on her phone of 2500 pesos and I thought, wow she is really playing me. Then the phone was broken yet we were talking on it. She took a picture of another phone and sent to me. LOL.. So I just quit talking and calling. Now she blocked me on Christain Philapina... I guess my observation was correct. I think her friends are trying to connect with me now. I just let the phone ring.. It hurt my feelings but it also reminded me, that I knew early on and so it was a good lesson, to be prepared for what can happened.. I appreciate your honesty. I will subscribe and be looking forward to hear from you again! Thank You! BW

Thank you Rubeauti. This was a very informative video and you seem like a wonderful person. It is a shame that you got scammed but I suppose we all need to be cautious and get to know people well before we develop deeper relationships. I just liked and subscribed so I'm looking forward to more visits to hear what you have to say. I hope to come to the Philippines as I'm from Florida USA and I love that tropical environment but also love the culture and people of the Philippines. Thank you so much.😂

Thank you for the great advice and warning signals. I came close to getting scammed but I watched enough videos with similar advice during the Pandemic (while waiting to travel there) that I was able to keep any money I sent to a minimum -- and I always considered it a donation, mostly to help KZreadrs who were just starting out and needed help with their new channels. As far as personal relationships, I will not send any money overseas and I will wait until I get there to try to meet someone to spend the rest of my life with.

@bubblesbhubzvlog4378

Жыл бұрын

Yes true it is better if you meet in person

1 common trend iv found, is they claim to not know their home address, or they have extreme problems 1 after the other. 1 claimed her mother was in the hospital with blood sugar over 500 but sent money to a "friend" then in the same few days they claim their phone isn't working and they need more money,can't get a job,contracted food posioning. Can't afford food. Won't video call, or promise to do things the next day but change the subject,lots of gaslighting.

I've been with my Filipina for three years, and this is what I've learned. #1. Never send any amount of money that you're not willing to lose by either giving it to her or investing in a house/Lot / buisness. Always Be prepared to cut your loses and walk away. #2. You don't need to tell her exactly how much money you make or how much wealth you have . Make a budget and agree that the amount in the budget is hers to spend and when it's gone it's gone. #3. Never ever bring her back home to the west. Make her live in the Philippines and visit once or twice a year until you're ready to relocate there.

@dono64

9 ай бұрын

Why #3? My Filipina wife has been here for 4 years now, life just keeps getting better!

@lilyjazel5258

9 ай бұрын

What advice would you give to an American man who settled with a financially destitute UGLY Filipina with crooked and buck teeth ( she can’t smile ) who desperately wants to move to this man’s house because she struggles to pay month to month for her rent . He pays for her airline tickets to visit him . He is old and lonely.

@Vibemastergaming

8 ай бұрын

Went on a dating app for filipinas and funny enough the entire app is a sham damn near every profile if not every prpfile wanted my email or wanted me to come to another website to Video chat

@michaelmerrill8467

8 ай бұрын

@dono64 Your wife is the exception to the rule sir. Most foreign women that come to the USA 🇺🇸 become poisoned by Feminism and all the garbage thinking that is in our country.

@michaelmerrill8467

8 ай бұрын

@dandy3425 I'm sure you can find a lot of good girls on dating apps. However there is risk involved. If u were you I would tall to several girls and be honest about it and then when you like one focus on that one. And then make the trip to Philippines 🇵🇭. You have to be there in person to decide the future you want etc...

Watching my brother go through this......his 3rd overseas wife!!.......just love your advice, which is almost like it was coming from my fathers voice for the last 30 years!!!..................scammers are here for sure! but I must sat, his 2nd wife was my best friend and was an amazing human! She died in childbirths 9 years ago as I was in the labor room with her......BUT he was online dating in less that 3-6 months, and YES she got him......3-4 engagment rings (got stolen, lost, down the drain etc) and then comes the fees for citizenship.....yeah....she IS STILL NOT a citizen, still on a marriage visa which runs out this year, ......BUT yes, he has been sick , hospitalized, etc.....and he's young.. but her visa is running out....and the clock is ticking....just my opinion...lol. Oh, but within 24 hours they bought a "condo rental" in the phillipines that "magically" has NEVER given them a monthly rent payment, nor ever 1 payment in 9 years!.......... OK THATS NORMAL She (his wife) now has 4-6 properties in HER name (cuz remember that they cannot hold real estate in her name unless he is a fillippine citizen) BUT SHE CAN! So go buy 5 or 6 more pieces of property. And a few more semi loads of RC Cola.....omg. My brother and MANY others are being used just like this!!

I met one of those scammers that were asking for private photos. The excuse she used was "I heard foreigners are bigger than Filipinos. Can you please show me?" I can't imagine anyone falling for this, but some have. I always tell everyone that the easiest and BEST way to meet a wonderful Filipina (like my wife) is to go to the Philippines. Spend some time there. Understand their culture and lifestyle. Meet them there. If you want a long term relationship and you want her to eventually come to your country, it will cost a lot of money to do it. So if you don't have the money to go spend a few weeks or more in the Philippines, you probably won't have the money for all the paperwork and everything else involved in bringing her to you. Also, in the USA, it is very rare for a visa to be given without the two of you meeting in person. So you'll need to go to the Philippines at some point anyway. So again, just plan on going to the Philippines. The longer the time you are there, the better.

@stub4958

2 жыл бұрын

I read a story a few years back about the PI government busting an organization that would use the picture guys sent like to blackmail them. They hard credit card numbers written on boards around the room and even had an employee of the month.

@macscotty9997

2 жыл бұрын

Just think! You could have been a star in a gay mens magazine!

@michaelbowden7695

2 жыл бұрын

I went to Philippines 6 times , each time was 4-5 weeks stay The first time. I met my girl , the whole family , everyone Was there at the airport, I was amazed The second time , I asked her father for her her hand in marriage We stayed engaged for 1year, them had a big wedding in the Philippines It’s 8 years now, we have a daughter 6 years old. We have never argued We live in America, she is now a citizen. I’m in love with her as the day I met her I’m so blessed ! We are blessed Yes it cost much money, but worth every penny It took me 1 year, and meeting many girls online . Yes , they all ask for money My wife never, not once, asked for money

@macscotty9997

2 жыл бұрын

@@michaelbowden7695 Smart Man! When they ask for money, don't even say goodbye! Just disappear!

@KickAndTicks

2 жыл бұрын

thanks for the advice

Thank you for your being honest with all info. You're honest and good girl and your also beautiful. I did have a baby with a girl there but it turned out that she's married and her husband using her to trick me. It so sad and I'm so sorry to talk about it on public platform. I learned a lot after that incident. I'm from tiny country in the Pacific

When someone ask you about your work right away, then you know...

Good video.....100 percent agree! Moral of the story is don't buy into her BS and don't be afraid to say NO!

Thanks for the video! And I also wanna say that you look great 🙂

Real Beauty thank you for your informative video. Your intelligence on this subject is a blessing to many who watch this. You are a very gifted young lady very beautiful, intelligent with very caring voice. Thank you again for your good work

Hey there Rubeauti! Scary episode! 😂 You know, dating site scam is all over the place. 5 years ago as a 50yr old I spent 6 months on a regional European dating site. Besides the embarrassing moments and interrogations I met 3 scammers. Blablabla... I reported them. Bye bye! 😂 It was nice to see you tell about your experiences too. Very brave yet vulnerable. 😊 I feel like I met you a little better in this episode. 😉

Keep up the great work. I love your channel.

great video and good luck with your channel!

Thanks for the info!! Love you lots!

Good info, Rubeauti. The trouble with us humans is that the brain is mostly a servant of the emotions. It works out ways to get what the emotions want. So if love, an emotion, gets you before your reason does, it will be real hard to see the red flags.

Great video & well spoken

The scam stories are like Dating Horror Stories- Early on in my first trip to Philippines- I got scammed by a single mother in serious poverty. I figured it out after a while and dropped my communication immediately.

There is nothing more attractive than a woman who adorns a dress ,and Rubeauti are extremely attractive. Good video ,good communicator ,very informative..

Have an amazing day and God bless you Rebeauti 🙏🌹

Good video. It makes you wonder if you can trust anyone anymore. Which is sad.

I like the way you found a nice quiet place to record your video. 👍🏽

True Rube, Many scammers in the world in different countries, I can understand in some countries it is not easy to survive and especially hard for mothers with siblings, I also have had a girlfriend that i adored for 5 years and found out she was living with another guy for 14 months, Fully supported her and her 3 kids with everything even a sari store, I have 3 sponsor kids i support in the Philippines and have a lot ask for money over the years, Some have scammed me and some are genuine who need help putting food on the table and paying bills, Nobody is better than anyone else, We all need to find a way to survive in this world, But i believe that you are genuine i can tell by your observation and tone in your voice, One day you will find a good man that will cherish your heart to make you happy in life

💥ONLY DESPERATE MEN GET SCAMMED💯 The indicators are always clear. These men just chose to ignore them

If a man never ever send any money to a woman, he can have the choice of walking away if ever she becomes rude or nasty to him. But if he had already sent money to her, he is now stuck and he need to become obedient to the woman and behave like her pet dog, for fear that she will leave him after he had already sent her so much money. This type of foolish man become so worried that the woman will leave him, before he can get back any benefits. The more money the man already sent to a woman, the more vulnerable he become, and the more frightened he is that the woman will leave him .

Well you really have a sincere wise way of discussing and explaining alot of important aspects of your country. I have listened to a few of your culture videos. I have a friend in canada who just married a Filipina woman. She is working in a solid profession and has no children. He is a big macho healthy kind man about 45 yrs old. He agrees with alot of your cunning insights Rubeauty. My friend lets call him 'Dolf' say you present an honest wise perspective tive that is much needed. Yes many foreigners are looking for the read deal, not rip and run. So keep doing what you are doing and kudos to you for your inter cultural videos. All the best in 2023 from myself and mi amigo 'Mr. Hickler' friend and colleague too! Cheers chica

Hi Rubeati, you are correct, these scams can happen so easily because people can fall in love without meeting in person nowadays... as a matter of fact, i already fell in love with you💘when i was watching this video🤣Charot.... Thankyou for the information and as usual you look very maganda😍

I had a filipina who was very good in her scam. A single mom who always brought out a chaperon with us for one year. After one year I found out the chaperon was the father of her baby. She gave a plausible excuse for him to come along. I also met her lola tito tatay and ate. The ate often came out with us. It was not the traditional meet with the lola which I thought was odd. just a quick hi and rush me off to the other room. So when she asked for me to go for the home run I declined. Two years later I finally met the lola without her there and everything was in the open. The lola told me to leave her as she was scamming. one year later Karma got her and she took a OFW job where she thought it was a hotel job but she became a bar girl.

@DC-cz2sr

2 жыл бұрын

damn

@Bunny.lovley

Жыл бұрын

Oops

Great video as always! This is off topic but have you ever considered doing a video on STI/STDs in the PH? What are the most common ones, attitudes, how to bring up a discussion with your (future) partner and avoid stigmas, where a couple could get tested, costs involved, and how to handle a situation where it turns out a test returns positive. What people consider an STD. For example here in the US a lot of people are in denial that HSV is an STI ( I think it's likely that those people may have it and want to dismiss it as an issue). Even medical professionals down play it (HSV). The older I get the more I run into this issue. It's a hard issue to deal with when one person has it and the other does not. It's a hard decision to step back. I have tried to think about how my partner would handle the situation if the roles were reversed and base my decision to proceed on that. This topic gets very little attention on the PH vlogs I watch so I am suggesting it to vloggers I watch. Thanks!

@bobbruce4135

2 жыл бұрын

Great topic. Might need medical / hospital / health department records to achieve accurate results as saving face and lack of medical knowledge are rampant. But, I do believe there a lot of HPV and other diseases that are under-reported. Peace.

@klopossa2

2 жыл бұрын

@@Rubeautiyes

@jbtransport64

Жыл бұрын

Thats my concern as well.

My advice is to look for alternate Facebook accounts. Surprisingly, people have multiple accounts for multiple boyfriends, anywhere, and is the easiest way to catch lies. If they post in Filipino languages, they usually assume that you don't understand or won't interpret it.. Kids accounts will tell on mom too. I am lucky to be married to a wonderful and honest Filipino lady, and never met as fine a lady in the states.

Very Nice and True information, God Bless You

Watched quite a few of you video Rube, hope calling you Rube is ok. Live the contents oc this video, brilliant dear. You so knowable in knowing scammer, some foreigner think with other head 🤣 you get me? All been there dine that. Although there is scammers, there and around the world, it important to remain patient, listen, abserve behaviour when entertaining a filpina. Thanks again video, new subscriber here Glenn. Stay safe gwapa, BTW, you beautiful 😉😍 Cheers from Australia 🇦🇺

I Appreciate Your Channel and Your Honesty

You can only get scammed if you press the send button

Don't loose you kindness. I refuse to loose minds

Great segment lots of great information thank you

I really like the dress. Very feminine.

Good advices!

I adore your pronunciation and accent 😊. Enjoying your vlogs also .

I loved this video and I am hoping a really good guy finds you and makes an excel partner for you.

Before this video, I had never heard the terms "catfish" or "catfishing". Thank you, Rubeauti, for the heads up.

@user-nr5ut2hc9y

2 жыл бұрын

Really, there is a show about it , called catfish and it is an old term.

@neilgunns8391

2 жыл бұрын

It's only around 10 years old. That's not that long.

@everyonehasadream

2 жыл бұрын

@@neilgunns8391 Unless you're counting in dog years!

@everyonehasadream

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-nr5ut2hc9y I don't watch tv but I'm checking out the show here on KZread. It looks like a time-waster.

@neilgunns8391

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah Google says it started around 2010.

Great info . Great english . And great girl .. well done

Your own experience is very relevant and shows you what the problem is? You can get so involved that you ignore all the red flags and just don't want to admit you made a mistake.

I am in a long distance relationship with a Filipino she's part Portuguese too I'm going to try the video calling that was a good idea hopefully it'll work I enjoy your videos keep up the good work you are a very beautiful woman and people are scamming you that's pretty bad

I loved this video. I signed up for a one month period on a dating site and within 2 days had over 1000 likes and hundreds of wanting to chats. I selected 4 ladies to chat with and one by one started marking them off due to many of the signs you mentioned here. Way too many compliments (oh, I liked them but there were a lot), one wanted to call the first day and when I called her she let me know how hard her life was to get me to feel. As and send her money, one after two days of talking let asked me for money. Because her mom was in hospital for an emergency, another wanted money to start a buisness so she would be financially set for when I come to visit, the fourth I had hopes for until she told me she couldn’t send me any photos of herself or video chat because her phone was to old. So I stopped the dating site. I am planning on buy the Philippines next summer and possibly moving there in two years. Was hoping to getting to know someone as a tour guide and friend before I come over next summer but now just plan on winging it. Lol

@bobbruce4135

2 жыл бұрын

I was in the PH years back just out of Uni. The ladies were getting many hundreds to thousands of old fashioned pen-pal letters. Some put shoe boxes of them outside their boarding houses, etc. But, the ladies I met IRL shocked me with photos of old men they were courting by mail. They needed money for a better life for their their entire extended family. These same ladies would ask me if I'd be the father of their child, but didn't love me. Also, after professing love, they could just ghost me (light switch suddenly goes out when they can't get money). You have to be able to stomach the poverty and crimes you will encounter IRL. You see the posts of guys saying they have a great wife and dozens of kids, but I'd say there are 99 more who got badly burned. Bottom line, just don't get your hopes up too high. Initially, it will seem like you can find true love (happy). Later on you realize it's not. Peace.

@davidgreer7890

2 жыл бұрын

@@bobbruce4135 I’m not going in hopes of finding true love or love at all for that matter. I did the dating thing as an experiment due to the fact I follow several KZreadrs who have had guests on their shows. The guest talk about how badly they got burned or went broke quickly by giving their money to their “love” and then their love moved on. Each guest said they met their “girlfriends on the dating sites and were soon sending them money without ever meeting them. So out of curiosity (because I like to see things for myself) I signed up for Filipino Cupid. And I was shocked, not fooled, by how many ladies thought I was all that and a bag of chips. As each one made their way to asking for money I wished them a good life and deleted them. I will have to admit the last one lasted two weeks before getting around to it. I feel bad for guys that truly fall for this and go over thinking they are meeting the love of their life to find out they’ve been a little careless with their finances. I’ve simply been playing with the idea of moving abroad to help retirement go further and this is one of the areas that are suggested. I’ve got several I’m going to visit in the next couple years.

@Ddog785

2 жыл бұрын

what was the dating site so i never use it ???

@bobbruce4135

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ddog785 They are all like that. See Wheat Waffles channel on overall dating and geo-maxing to get the stats. Geo max is money max is fake love. Peace.

@bubblesbhubzvlog4378

Жыл бұрын

First thing you need to do is don't trust easily and try to get to know them first because not all girls are scammers. Theirs alot of woman that they have a good and nice attitude.

One of the first Filipinas that I talked to on a dating site last year lied on her profile saying that she was not married and had no kids. Turned out that she is married to a guy that left her to go work in Dubai and she has two children with him. The legal problems that can arise from being with a woman like that are dangerous for a foreign guy. Not to mention that if she was willing to lie like that, there’s no way to trust her about anything else.

Thank you for sharing this info rubeauti I appreciate it very much it was helpful 🙏🏾

@prescottosegie

2 жыл бұрын

@@Rubeauti 😊🌺

Good video. The scammers are everywhere. Buyer beware

@rogershapiro

Жыл бұрын

I spoke to 100 women on line and 100 women asked for money. They always start in with the feel sorry for me hard luck sob story. And that's when you block them

Another great video, thanks for information.

You are a beautiful honest woman

Great video, lovely personality and very beautiful

Hi Ms Rubeauti. I am your new subscriber here. So far I love your videos that I watched.😊 anyway I've been in dating site and I can say that yes your right some of there are scammers not only girls but also a man.. Why is it hard to find a true love in dating site? Until now I'm still searching a nice and honest man in dating site but unluckily not found yet.

I think I experienced every one of the scams you mentioned.

thanks dear… good information 😉

Nice and informative video. I've had women try to scam me. However, I learned not to continue communication unless we did a video call. These were women that I met online. Also, you seem like a very nice person, I'd love to find out more about you. I live in the US and I am semi retired. Let me know if you're interested and I will make sure you get some pictures as well as a video call if you like.