My sister left her narcissist. It was very stressful. Yelling, etc. He called her crying saying he was going to kill himself. We didn't know what to do so we went to his house. We found out he was having a good time playing golf, and he was happy to know that he had dropped another chaos bomb into our life to ruin our day.

@dididisun

6 ай бұрын

Typical Narc

@Amylyn..

4 ай бұрын

Yep my mother does the exact same thing

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

At the end of our relationship when my ex narc threatened that, I would say “go ahead and do everyone a favor”…and then I would smile. Not the reaction he wanted, lol.

This is why narcissists LOVE an empath for their supply..empaths will care in these types of situations, they will take the threat seriously. My ex used to threaten this, many times...Before and after we broke up. It's for the most part absolutely nothing but a manipulation tactic.

@nakanopey

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@giuliam508

11 ай бұрын

Yes! You're so right! One time a friend of him was so angry with me,she said that I was cruel and without a conscience . Simply I knew that he faked to kill himself.

I finally called the police on him after years of his threats. He was so embarrassed by being picked up and being evaluated by a professional that he stopped threatening. Expresses hate for me though for putting him through this.

@Mothermochi

Жыл бұрын

You did the right thing. I didn’t. I let him blackmail me for 3 years. Not calling the cops continues to be my biggest regret.

@Layp107

Жыл бұрын

👍👍 This is priceless 😂

@renukalogan1764

Жыл бұрын

this is so nice. I mean this is what we have to do to really expose the narcissistic personality type of person

@chrismarble9259

Жыл бұрын

I don't agree with calling the cops and incriminating yourself. Especially, if you know it's manipulation. Going no contact is the only thing that has worked for me.

@teresitaekim2565

Жыл бұрын

Good for you Lisa. You should have call the police much earlier. May be he's gone by now. The guy over here when I found out he's a narcissist. I told him. I will call the police if he gets rowdy or he threaten me. Narcissists are afraid of the police. They hate being exposed. Folks out there, don't hesitate to call the police. Let the police know the problem. If he do a stupid thing. At least they know what's going on.

"Would you prefer cremation or burial?"

@senadatabic197

Жыл бұрын

Let me pay for it

@marchsadness2444

Жыл бұрын

“oh never mind. i’ll surprise you.” 😊😊

@TheHornedDiva

11 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@pearlsdaughter2281

9 ай бұрын

😅😅😅

@doriannemosich232

8 ай бұрын

😂 Thank you everyone 😝

Someone suicidal is not going to broadcast it. At least not all the time....

@mekascorner9302

5 ай бұрын

Thats what I was thinking

A friend of my ex sent me a message on social media today stating she heard that he had died about a week ago, & wanted to confirm with me if this rumor was true. Hard to believe it since he just anonymously texted & harassed one of my good friends a couple of days ago; he said things to my friend that only he would know. 🙄 No ma’am, he’s very much alive & still stalking me like a demented creep. These people are truly sick.

@Gyle.3559

Жыл бұрын

Happy u got to know.

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

That sounds like the term ‘flying monkeys’…the narc sends out his minions to test the waters and try to convince you to go back to him. When my ex does this I give them a message “until the 12th of never” “when hell freezes over” those will be the 2 days I take him back. This happened 8 years after we broke up. Narcs will never quit trying to get you back, not because they love you, or have changed…nooooo they need to discard you and hurt you after conning you again. Stay strong…keep no contact. Don’t fall for their lies, block them from your thoughts.

Let him. I've done everything I possibly could to help this poor, unfortunate soul. He's on his own now.

I just ignored him…it was only a manipulation…if it isn’t, oh well, not my responsibility.

@mw87675

4 ай бұрын

True. I wish I was strong enough to believe it's not on me to save him. 😭

@milana2020

3 ай бұрын

​@@mw87675 same.. we got this tho

@krishan6331

3 ай бұрын

Absolutely

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

@@mw87675 I get that! It took me many years of research and counselling to learn I am not responsible for another person’s actions, only mine.

@magicsinglez

3 ай бұрын

Lol, are you my ex-girlfriend?

He use to torture me with pictures. He would take pictures on the train tracks with the train coming. He was a heroin addict and would send me pictures of his needles and say it was my fault he was about to die.

@worldbestalways

9 ай бұрын

He doesn't say it is my fault but he said " you and everybody else will be happy after"

@miriamhavard7621

2 ай бұрын

😮

NO CONTACT. !!!! That and that alone ends the bull shit

One time my husband threatened to kill himself if I left him….he grabbed a sharp object and actually “jammed” it at his stomach…or so I thought! He made a ridiculous noise and facial expression as if he really did do it. All along he just “jammed” it to the space between his arm and flank. What a fool I was back then and still am because here I am almost 6 yrs later just now filing for divorce from this covert narc.

@alouise3557

7 ай бұрын

Holy crap. What did you do when he did that? Did you say something? Panic? What did he then do?

I cared. I called 911. He returned with a fresh batch of bullets, since the first batch wouldn't fire off as he clicked the gun in my face. He cheated for 16 years and when I had enough, he shot himself right in front of the cops. As awful as it was to live through that, the worst was yet to come. Our son went to live with the parents of my deceased.... they did such a number on him, that they had him convinced I was not his mother. 5 years after he lived by them he took his life right in front of them, nobody lifted a finger, 5 ppl watched my beautiful boy die. It is an evil thing, the narcissistic spirit, joined with jezebel. I am currently in a 22 year relationship with a covert narc that threatens to burn our house down and more, he has terrifying rage fits. From the outside it looks like we are doing great, from within me, I know I have to find a life of peace. Pray for me plz...The Lord will help me survive while I get the courage to walk away and live out my true destiny IN Christ. I have 2 more sons with my second husband, I feel like it's abandoning them if I go😢

@justreviewedForYou

11 ай бұрын

😢😢😢😢😢😭😭 my heart get broken after reading this!

@milana2020

3 ай бұрын

You gotta break this cycle immediately ❤😢God bless you

@PinaColada65

24 күн бұрын

You should not lose hope to find a safe place. I wish you loads of strength in your pursuit.

I’m not an expert by any means, but I’ve done some research. It can be very dangerous for you and your kids and other family members. Never agree to go to meet him or her and do not send any family members either. Call 911, and if you’re going through a separation or divorce, document his or her actions and call your attorney.

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

Good advice. The most dangerous time in an abuse victim’s life is when the relationship is breaking up.

5 years later after dealing with a narcissist, now dealing with another one again :'(

@nakanopey

Жыл бұрын

Same here

@damkina1111

10 ай бұрын

me too@@nakanopey

@ArtandKitchen_

9 ай бұрын

good thing I already know now the red flags, I broke up with him as early as two months, he keeps on coming back, became 6months, now I stop all contacts.. but he still try to hoover. @@obscurum6

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

Until I started to get counselling and reading everything on the subject of narcissism, I kept repeating the same mistakes. I married 2 narcs, one for 20 years (I was young and naive), and one for 7 years (I wised up a little). But it took a relationship with a toxic narcissistic personality disordered man (diagnosed by the military) to smarten me up. I am lucky to be alive! Once I started learning about what narcissism was and why I kept attracting them, I started to feel stronger and my self esteem started to improve. It takes a lot of work and honesty with yourself, but it is worth it to know you are worthy of a good and peaceful life. Please start learning about this…you can never fix the narcissist, but you CAN fix yourself so you stay far away from these monsters.

I knew nothing about what I was dealing with during the time. This video makes sense. He threatened suicide everytime I broke up with him. He would call crying, saying he was about to commit suicide. Then hang up. He would be unreachable. Go silent for a week. As if he had died. I did not know his family because he never introduced me to them. Contacting them was no option. He had painted his family as abusers and users from the time he and I started dating. After his suicide threats... eventually he would surface as if the break up nor suicide threats ever took place. He would brush it off as if I was being too dramatic and took it all too seriously.

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

Those of us who survived a narc were like innocent lambs. These monsters don’t behave rationally, or fairly. You never know what they will do next. You feel like you are the one responsible for their abusive behaviour. Until you get educated and informed on just how insidious and evil they are. Once you have identified someone is a narc…run in the opposite direction, never take them back, cut off all communication. No forgiveness, just get counselling and educate yourself on what to do to avoid these monsters in the future. I promise you there is something in your past that predisposed you to accept their abuse. Normal, emotionally healthy people do not accept abuse long term. Find out what to fix in yourself, because otherwise you will be doomed to repeat this cycle until you do. I am talking from personal experience…don’t be like me and take a lifetime to repair the damages from your childhood. I am stronger now, but I am 66, 🙁, I wasted my youth on monsters because I felt ‘less than’, I believed the untruths of my childhood.

How can you be so accurate.? Your every video just tells my story.. It's unfortunate I had not seen your vids then.. I went through all d way to hell.. I was left on street with nothing just the cloths I was wearing.. It's been 2 yrs..

I am so thankful to u sir.U made me see thru all the b.s.Thank u so much thank u for ur work in spreading narcissist awareness

You are right Danish. No one is our responsibility but our kids. Other people have the choice of seeking help if they are suicidal. Unfortunately though, most people that have not studied human behavior, do not see the NPD individual as they are. Education is priceless.

Great advice to warn family since they are most likely to blame you if the worse happens. They always need to blame someone

I had a friend who was married to a man who probably was a narcissist. She walked on eggshells (got to be an excellent actress with him). She decided No More. Fortunately, no children. Unfortunately their finances were intertwined. She was in charge of bill-paying. They were in debt. It took her a year of her paying off debt, closing accounts with both their nanes; she never used mutual cards to charge any of her own purchases. He had no idea she was positioning herself to leave him with as little turf as possible for legal wrangling. The day came when she made her exit. He was on a trip. She loaded up her moving truck, fairly halving their belongings. And she was gone. On top of this, she'd given notice to her employer, and arranged for a job in her hometown! She was brilliant and brave. And as i said - a great actress!

I was this and will never forgive myself for hurting Someone I thought I loved .

Prey it's true and wish them success...

I wish I had this video years ago when I decided to leave my moms house. I left without telling her. When she came home I was gone and my room was empty. She’s been playing the blame game ever since. Now I’m ready to go no contact without saying anything. I will be informing my uncle as I fear she may hurt herself or threaten to. I’ve tried everything I can to mend the relationship and I just can’t do it anymore.

@Dee-mj3pu

4 ай бұрын

Leave.

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

Anything your mother does or threatens to do is on her…not your responsibility. Narcs love to manipulate us.

When I was single in my early twenties and my narcissist mother was divorced from my father living alone she threatened to commit suicide. I of course was frantic and beside myself and communicating with my father. She did not do it. Maybe four or five months after that she threatened to commit suicide again and once again we were all set in a tizzy. Somehow my father had gotten some information during that time and when she threatened again for a third time he said okay. He told her if that's what she had decided she wanted to do that he was not going to try to stop her. He told me he told her it was her decision it's her life and it's between her and God. He told me she's not going to do it and just to stop getting all upset. He said she is only doing this to cause chaos and drama and everyone rally around her. He also told me that he told her we are going to go on with our lives and not feel guilty about her choice. She never did it again.

Realized even more my husband was a Bipolar/Covert Vulnerable Narcissist with over 20 years, he didn’t cheat, just saved him $ kept mine, no empathy, violent, gambled money away, alcoholic, but loyal as far as I know tried suicide kept me stuck 2 more years then went to Malignant Narcissist :/

@sigridbohne

8 ай бұрын

You've been through a lot, but I hope you're okay now. I also have a long history but luckily my husband hanged himself after 26 years of marriage

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

I never thought my narc of 20 years didn’t cheat…until I found out years after our divorce that he had. All narcs cheat. Period.

I called his bluff...he stopped but then the abuse got worse...we are divorced now.

Glad i still have the message threads ! I aksed the narc not to talk like that and it scares me. He pulled this trick twice ! Im going to screenshot the thread now.

Thank you so much for this

My boyfriend is doing this to me now. He said he has a pre-made letter set to be sent to everyone he knows about why he's unalived himself. It includes a screencap of an email I sent to him in anger when he ghosted me for the third time. I said I hope he d 1 3 $ and that people see him for the monster he is. He said that he would make sure to film it and include the reasons for doing it including our pictures. This person has done nothing but lie and promise me things for two years. I was struggling financially for two years and this guy would parade his shopping hauls in front of me, eat out at expensive places knowing I was struggling. He ghosted me three times for 1-2 months at a time. Has promised so many things but never made true any of them..now he's threatening to harm himself if I left and destroy my reputation in the process..this has just strengthened in me the idea that he does not actually care about me. And I blocked him from everything.

Thank you for the video

Had this from a Narcissistic parent in a colossal way, and couldn't respond the way I wanted to due to a complex situation. Did communicate it to the authorities.

I had this guy try to pull this on me and we weren't even that close. I called 911 on him and told them what he said and that he was driving recklessly and maybe drinking since that is what he said and he had left the phone on while making weird choking noises. It was upsetting because I have an ex who did follow through with that and departed this world. We weren't together at all at the time though. This other guy didn't try to actually follow through but next time maybe he'll think twice before using that manipulation tactic since the cops showed up at his house. Lol Don't mess with me, I don't f around.

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

Good for you! I wish I had been strong like you when I was young.

@E.C.Animation

3 ай бұрын

@@Katrn30 it takes time to learn, I was 41 at the time so old enough to recognize the manipulation.

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

@@E.C.Animation when you know you know…otherwise you assume they are normal…in hindsight a big mistake. I didn’t know what it was until in my late 50s. All I knew is it felt bad, but who was I to want more? And with my history of a mother who made sure I felt badly about myself, I never felt worthy of a good man. I attracted troubled men who reinforced my low opinion of myself.

@E.C.Animation

3 ай бұрын

@@Katrn30 lets both remember that we are worthy of being treated well and being respected. I have spent over 10 years living alone and not dating with very few friends and little contact so I had a long time to reflect and now there is so much great information out there to learn from. I'm still working on remembering I'm worthy of my desires, dreams and being happy. Best of luck to you! 🍀

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

@@E.C.Animation yes, thank you, I agree. I am in a good space right now…finally. I wish you well!

Pull out a lawn chair and sit with some popcorn Narcissists are not the kind to die that easy and only come back worse than before .

My husband after 39 years of marriage I started shutting down about 8 years prior to our 39 years of Marriage because I couldn't handle always building him up puffing him up making him feel good him getting whatever he wanted and he treated me like I didn't deserve anything so I started shutting down I fell into a black depression and he ended up finding a girlfriend which was married she was also married excuse me he had me falsely arrested remove from my home within a month and a 1/2 she broke up with him and he committed suicide beside crazy and I'm just really learning about narcissism but his brother and sister are narcissists really bad

@angelsbackgroundsounds

Жыл бұрын

smh the conscience can never have peace knowing it betray pure bliss

Uber to his house he was gone to another girl house phone on dnd after him saying he was suicidial i didn't know suicidual meant a cheater😂😂

Dont stop them! Just walk out. Only contact others if you are protecting yourself of being involved in something that you dont want.

That’s not a narcissist, that’s a borderline. It’s a control mechanism to avoid abandonment, and a terribly cruel one at that. But borderlines are not playing games. Their fear of abandonment and emotional dysregulation are insanely destabilising. They suffer. 11% actually do commit suicide. The mistake people make, however, is believing it is their responsibility to protect the borderline from this. So they stay due to the guilt.

@keekeekahler2149

11 ай бұрын

Can you change the situation without leaving .

@sharrk_34

11 ай бұрын

@@keekeekahler2149 If they are willing to undergo DBT therapy, there might be a chance. But it is a long road. And it is their responsibility, not yours.

@belindaalderson7209

11 ай бұрын

Walk away, if not walk away Run - I have been through this crap with a narc parent as a child

@alghurraba

6 ай бұрын

Oh no. This is exactly my mom

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

Until you said your last line, I was pissed. You are 100% right…you are not responsible for another person’s s#icide, especially in an abusive relationship.

Just because someone is in distress at the end of a relationship and threatens SH because of that severe emotional pain, does not make them a narcissist.. And just because you’re not responsible for someone else’s pain or for them making a decision to end their life doesn’t mean we can’t care and try and direct somebody towards help..especially someone whom we said I love you too and were most likely intimate with..

What to do? Encourage them of course! Ask if you can film it! Most narcissist victims whish the problem would solve itself so easily and so satisfying! NEVER have the slightest bit of empathy for a narcissist! Never!

@DrPhilGoode

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣 the first couple times she said it I fell for it head over heels. However, now when she says that or something similar I will ask when should I pencil it in. I don’t have time to stop everything to witness a suicide. I need to put it on the calendar. 🤣

@luluah1198

Жыл бұрын

That’s so dark I love it 😂

@Layp107

Жыл бұрын

I offered to buy the rope…

@swizzelz-_-5912

Жыл бұрын

I wouldnt wish this on my worst enemy

@hereisayana8207

10 ай бұрын

​@swizzelz-_-5912 you didn't meet a person mean enough to you yet

What to do? Offer to kick away their stool.

A few months into dating a guy and he’s already showing narcissistic tendencies. He Said this once before and I let it slide. Said it again today (I think because I broke up with him) so I called the crisis line and had them intervene. He hasn’t reached out to me since.

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

Please, stay no contact. I wish I knew then what I know now. He is showing you bit by bit what your future place in hell will be like. Run.

I’m laying in bed after he put a gun to his head and in his mouth and I kept trying to take it. He told me if I called the cops he would kill himself. I called the cops and he told them I lied and they let him spend the night at a friends… I was so scared I didn’t know what to do he was yelling at me and we work at the same place too.. I feel dead inside now

@Dee-mj3pu

4 ай бұрын

Get help to make a plan. Leave.

Cool. TY

This is good advice. Wish I knew this when I tried to leave him. He threatened suicide. And actually swallowed pills -- my slimming pills. Why slimming pills and not real poison if he really wanted to kill himself? Even the doctor asked me that. But he punished me for trying to leave him by making me pay for his hospitalisation. He had to have his stomach pumped.

@Dee-mj3pu

4 ай бұрын

Leave him at the hospital.

Vulnerable covert narc does it: mostly it's an empty threat it can happen until he is completely exposed and there's no mask, and that's not your responsibility that's their choice drama, don't tell them if you leave so they don't create drama and contact police or authority how they are controlling you through threat and how they might kill themselves and can also tell their friends or family members who can understand, if they show they're harming themselves in messages or somewhere take those as a evidence do these strategically

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

The police are zero help. You need to have a better plan. Have a support system…narcs bully you when you are vulnerable.

Kill themselves??? I'mma go buy out all the balloons,hats,dolla tree has, buy a 🍾, 🎉 and turn up the music and have a one Woman party, light me a candle, thank GOD, burn me some incense, and Burn and bury a every negative moment I've endured with their picture... etc... Ding dong the narc is dead will be the theme of the day...

Report a threat of suicide to the police.

my x has threatened it twice and he's still alive 15yrs later. thanks for this.

@nakanopey

Жыл бұрын

😭 why are men like this

What to do? Clap!

“I’m going to end it.” - Narc “Promise?” - Me

I wished I watched this before I did called for welfare check on my mother this past thanksgiving. After I did so she made it like I was accusing her of being on drugs and she spread defamation of character of myself and other people close to me to the whole town so things have gotten worst. But I guess it’s good it has cause shown me her true colors

Never had this one. My covert has too much ego I believe. Overt it wasn't an issue either. I guess exposure would do it.

Please do a talk about how narcissists bully you so much till your suicide?

Ask "What is your weapon of choice?" Then ask for a moment to get it.

I went no contact, my narc threatened suicide. I ignored them. They went through with it.

@Dee-mj3pu

4 ай бұрын

Their choice.

Let them let go…

My narcissist husband asked me if I wanted him to kill himself during an argument about him telling me he is LUSTING at church women..I said go outside in the field and kill yourself don't mess up my house.

Good advice. Notify the authorities that crazy is threatening suicide. Don't they Baker Act suicidals in every state? 👉mental institution?

My brother threatens to kill himself for over 30ys now. He abuses my mother who is also a narcissist. My mother, him and his girlfriend are a toxic dysfunctional trio. I have never met so much disfunction in my entire life.

Hi Danish! Could you please give me an advice how to handle a situation like that with my wife? The problem here is that a year ago we moved to another country because of my job. And the problem is that my wife does not speak local language nor English. We also do not have any relatives here or close enough friends. What can I do to leave her if she can not possible survive in this country by her own? I was thinking of sending her back to to our home country somehow then cut off any communications. But she gets really angry any time I mention her going for vacation there.

@Dee-mj3pu

4 ай бұрын

Get another job.

@SavagioTs

4 ай бұрын

@@Dee-mj3pu what exactly would that achieve?

I’ve been dealing with this for about 3 months. Thankfully I’m home with my parents. My anxiety is bad but I am not able to be there for him I took him to psychiatrist and he didn’t want to continue once we broke up bc of abuse

My elderly father began blatantly devaluing the family years ago and has been living a double life for a long time. My mom confronted him about his affair with a low class woman younger than me for the second time. He went full victim mode blaming my mom for everything and threatening suicide while visiting friends in another state. Its like dealing with a rebellious teen and has been for years. He feels no guilt and is lying about everything. Is this dementia as well?

@queenwinning

10 ай бұрын

Only sharing my opinion. I'm not saying my thoughts/experience is right. Does not sound like signs of dementia at all. Dementia patients of any kind cannot fully articulate, function, or plan strategically. I'm speaking only from working in that medical field for over 23 years. Not saying your dad is immune from dementia. He simply fits pure narcissistic personality. Especially, being able to juggle a double life.

After awhile I stopped trying to save her. I just left her alone to do it. She never did.

We broke up and she claimed she was 8 months pregnant, despite never had symptoms or look pregnant. I never accepted she was pregnant, and started to isolate from her as I couldnt stand all Things she said: the baby will ruin her life, this baby is yours and what are you gonna do, her family will suffer a heart attack when they realize... She did not make a direct threat, she sent me suicidal notes and told me she would prefer to be dead. She suddenly stopped sending me texts. Honestly I thought she took her life. I felt super guilty and tried to contact her desperately. Few days later i received a call from his mother. My ex had a nervous crisis in front of her family and they took her to therapy. They blamed me for her crisis. I felt so bad, I got depression, anxiety. I wanted to talk to her and clarify everything, but she cut all contact. She wasnt pregnant, and three months later she seems to be happy on social media. I still feel bad, thinking about her and what i did wrong.

What is offering support? Speaking on the phone? Every night? This is bad too

Do narcs have delusions of grandeur to the point where they pretend to be and act as an important person, even dressing in the high status uniform and attends military events as a high ranking officer when really hes a self employed estate agent and tells his colleagues hes going to kill himself when hes having a bad day? I was married to this imposter and i cant get rid totally because of these threats 😮

Once I had a girfriend who said she would delete herself with rat poison if I left. I said "It's on the top shelf on the right, knock yourself out".

Suggest a very effective method to ensure they are successful, and be gone when they do it. 😂

She’s done this several times. It’s really manipulative.

It's their life, so pray for them because you can't stop them from doing what they want anyway

@amyj.4992

Ай бұрын

They already felt that way about themselves before announcing anything

yes he has told me three times now

I can’t see the subscribe option ? X

The first time was because I had enough his parents were in my home and watching me tell him after a very violent fight. I was told I was the issue . And I said no your son is the issue he is his own issue . Because I let out he had sexual abused me. My own family didn’t recognize me . When I first moved back home I took care of the baby and had like a set day and I didn’t sleep I didn’t eat . He told me he was going to end his life . And it would be my fault. I showed his parents who to this dad I have no clue how they go into my damn house. And he kept going . Leaving clues , telling me everything. His dad saw how exhausted I was and told me to turn my phone on silent and get some sleep. It was a normal night for me as a new mom my son for once slept very well and I got up left my son to snooze .and went outside to smoke . And I looked at my phone. Missed calls Fb messages. All of that again his parents showed up no clue how they got into my damn home . And told me he was in the ICU . And they did know how he was alive . He took 8 bottles of pills . I said “you really think this was me ? No this was him. As you can see I have been here all night and have been going about my day. They said I was toxic . I rebutted with if I’m toxic then why did you cheat on your husband 20 times. I’ve had no one on the side I’ve been a single mother since our son was born. That her and his fathers blames didn’t work . He did come see me after he got out . Child support check. And idk how but we got back together the next time I knew the bs …. He again downed a bottle of pills I was on a date . I had to take my date to lead the police to his house …. Because we all knew what he would do . He has 2 stays in the grippy sock club .

2 family members committed suicide I attempted 3X There's a murder spirit involved. A covert psychological murderer, using menticidal methodology causes suicide 😮 I know many people who committed suicide and I know exactly how and who pushed them to it.

He's been suicidal, twice. The first time was a few months after we married. The second time was recently; he said his mental health was very bad and he was "frightened." I followed up in a few ways and he poo-pooed it. Next time, I will just wait to see if anything happens, I guess. We live seperately, anyway, although I own his house.

@zandershutterhandmishra6770

Жыл бұрын

So you are the narcissist

@sitascott8446

Жыл бұрын

@@zandershutterhandmishra6770 There's a lot you don't know. It's possible that we both are, I suppose. But he definitely is one.

@zandershutterhandmishra6770

Жыл бұрын

@@sitascott8446 your spouse converted from victim to BPD. As I know narcissist never leave their prey for a minuite. And as you say he is frightened and lived separately by leaving his own home. It is the clear sign that he is trying to escape from you. You are trying to control him.

@sitascott8446

Жыл бұрын

@@zandershutterhandmishra6770 I was the one who moved out, about halfway through our marriage. He was frightened early in the marriage by the thought that he might actually kill himself. As I said, you don't know all what transpired between him and me, only a few details, and it's easy to jump to conclusions if that's all you know. Also, he has never owned a house. If you knew him as I do, you would understand that he is highly manipulative and controlling. He was frightened again recently because he had resumed taking a medication which had the side effect of inducing suicidal thoughts. He knew this, and had started taking it again anyway.

@zandershutterhandmishra6770

Жыл бұрын

@@sitascott8446 in your early statement you said ( we lived separately. Although I owned his house) and now you are saying he has no house on his own. Two different statement. Don't try to fool me narc. Narc exposed.

What happens when a narc threatens suicide? Let them do it or eg them on

Just ask them how they want their funeral service and who to invite

what if im actually just threatening suicide?

Danish, thank you. You have an incredible skill for articulating and analogizing. I have a question for you: Would you say people with poor self knowledge and esteem are more likely to attract narcissists?

Let them do it.

why do the narcissist enjoy eating in the wash room sitting on the toilet flush.

Can you tell me why my husband after he had an affair with another married woman after we were married for 39 years and then she broke up with him a month and a 1/2 later why he took his life why would he do that?

@lindafriesz955

Жыл бұрын

Also he left a suicide note with my grandson that has autism 22 years old and he also had a gun underneath his arm which my grandson was very set back from that try to stop him and he told him if he didn't get out of his way he would do it right there he called me we all called him me all his friends my family his children and all they could do was cry feel sorry for herself said that his girlfriend broke up with him as when he told the police and then Told our oldest son that he had been a liar all his life and hes done things he can't come back from what could that mean I have no closure in this

@kerrytaggart8206

Жыл бұрын

Sounds really messed up. You poor woman. So much turmoil. Look up Penny Myers on KZread. She has suicide survivor support. She is excellent.

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

@@lindafriesz955 narcissists are mostly very insecure people and profoundly weak and jealous. They often had minimal or no maternal love before the age of 4…also this tends to run in families, but it isn’t clear whether it is genetic or familial. Suffice it to say, your husband had issues no one on this earth could help him with. You should not feel guilty that you could have done something…it was never about you, you were just a warm body to hurt for their narcissistic supply. You do need counselling, because this kind of abuse often leaves the victim with PTSD, and low self esteem. Get help for your own sanity, you are worth knowing you deserve better than you had.

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

@@lindafriesz955 we often have to realize that we will never get closure from our narcs. Just know it started long before you came in the picture, and you did not cause him to be the way he was, nor could you stop it. Your responsibility here is to get help, heal yourself, and to be there for yourself and your kids. You can do this, and you are worth it.

Please make a video...if they hv any evidence against us.. will they reveal it then and there or will they save it for later/ right time?

@ashuaurora

2 жыл бұрын

There are almost zero percent chances that they will reveal any evidence against you, as it is going to open a pandora box of their wrong doings with lots of other people. You are not the only victim of theirs, you are just one of them. The narcissist fears of getting exposed. So no need to worry, don't let them take advantage of your goodness.

@PoojaSingh-pt3sw

2 жыл бұрын

@@ashuaurora Thanks a lot for replying

@PoojaSingh-pt3sw

2 жыл бұрын

@@ashuaurora Do they only threaten us or they actually mean it

@walid334

Жыл бұрын

It depends on the narcissist, from my experience, if we show fear that they will do this then they will do it.

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My son had returned to my area. My boyfriend invited us over to bring him some beer” or he was going to bang himself from his tree outside by a chain. There was a dinner invitation for us, and we were invited to stay the night. My son on the couch in the living room right next to a curtain ONLY to the boyfriend’s room for me and him! Well, WE had to make a fire outside on the ground, for some reason, and heat up some Too Ramen for our “ dinner” Later, my son noted to me that Jesse kept “ bumping into him”, creepy-sexually? After “ dinner”, as we “ hung out” inside the living room, my son and I exchanged glances, and decided not to stay there for the night. We were SHOT AT, as we walked to our car about 25 yards across the yard, BB’s flying past us as we left. I’m pretty sure that was my last date with this young man.

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

Sounds like a trailer park episode…smh

It's for attention = Why? Contact someone who knows them - copy paste their threatening message = Don't contact them ever. That is what they want. (This is my opinion. Haven't finished watching this)

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Because I fear God, I wouldn't say how i really feel to them.... but would just call the police and leave them completely alone after that.

I had breakdown before our wedding. I didn't offend him, it was over my insecurity. My then fiancé didn't even try to comfort me but, threatened me with suicide. It went on for hours. I didn't understand why. He stopped after threatening me not to stop the wedding (I wasn't). Next day, I was depleted emotionally and he appeared super joyful . It's gonna be 2 yrs now, he humiliates me every single day and avoids talking to me for days to teach me a lesson. Now, he even stated that, it would be better for me to be dead.

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

Speaking from a lifetime of experience…he will only get worse, and you will get more and more depleted. Please consider saving yourself…get help, and try to get away. Don’t be like me and waste your youth trying to please a narcissistic man who lives only to hurt you. You are worth more. You deserve peace.

@TheLesleegirl

3 ай бұрын

Believe me when I say YOU can’t change him…..say bye bye, LIVE just LIVE your life! Get rid of what things you have in common, they’re just things. Life is so short, ENJOY yes YES YES you can start ANEW NOW right now….. it will just get worse, not better. 🙏🏽❤️🇨🇦

guys suicide isn’t real says bashir we can all go home now

*Please I am on the verge of giving up this is too much for me... please help* So the story is my ex and I broke up she told me everything ended in her life and there is nothing for her to leave for. She has attempted before at least what I've heard. Now she is indirectly telling me that she'll commit s*****. Please help me know what to do and how to deal with it.

@indranilsarkar6029

Жыл бұрын

I beg anyone please help me 😭 She'll destroy me man

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

You are not responsible for her actions. You are responsible for healing yourself. If she is a narcissist, there is no help for her, certainly nothing you can do. You must accept that. Often s#icide threats are fake threats to manipulate you into doing what they want. If you must help her, call 911 and let professionals help her. I am a long time RN, and believe me when I say, anyone who is serious about s#icide will do it, not threaten to do it. Regardless, you are the victim here, and you need help to see why you must look after yourself.

What to do when narcisit thretens to kill themselves.. the creater will tell in next video. Not in this😂

Not to be Harsh but in order to keep your sanity you do absolutely nothing

I am in a relationship with a guy in secret but as time goes by I have noticed that he may be emotionally dependant on me and in some situations i feel guilty for expressing some kind of discomfort with him and he just says we need communication but when I tried it always ends up in suicidal topics. He has harm himself before and he hasn't showed medirecly but i noticed that was his goal. We go to the same school so is hard for me to deal with it every day. I am a teenager I don't know what to do because he always tells me his problems and i know he has had a hard life. (sorry for my english it is not my first language)

@Me-mn4nw

2 ай бұрын

Tell your school counselor while cutting off all contact with him. He IS abusing you! Never are you to have secret friendships!

Its not so easy when its your own child unfortunately 😔 far more complicated 😕

@Dee-mj3pu

4 ай бұрын

Juvenile or adult?

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

That is a tough one for sure.

Ur ads too long bro

narcissistic are humans too

@Katrn30

3 ай бұрын

Actually, only barely. They are unredeemable

@kathygildea2025

2 ай бұрын

True, they are human, only the shell of one. but try to get out from under one!!!!

Yup record it for evidence of thier statement as they will deny deny deny to the cops. Then report it and get them locked up for a 6week assessment. You can escape while they are under psychiatric care.

Encourage them or help to facilitate?

If they do it again THEN offer to buy bullets( ps: be in public and whisper it in thier ear) so when the rage erupts it's witnessed and you also have witnesses to safeguard yourself