Heal yourself. Accept the fact you are alone. Live your life. Let them go.

@lingolady9330

11 ай бұрын

Thanks for saying this💝

@joseenoel8093

11 ай бұрын

Yes, release them, we can't say it enough! Free them and send them on their merry little ways!

@Rockstar_london

9 ай бұрын

Your words ❤ thanks 🙏 😊

@Lightboltmotivationofficial

8 ай бұрын

I’m very humiliated now it all happened behind my back 😢

I just don't understand how anyone can be like this..yet- I am experiencing ALL of this! It's horrible!

@umaadhish

3 жыл бұрын

Truly !

@sw224

2 жыл бұрын

Same me too. It's so hurtful most of the time.

@SkyePhoenix

Жыл бұрын

I deal with this currently in the workplace.

@Richard-vq7ud

Жыл бұрын

@@SkyePhoenix i walked off and retired. It is everywhere. I got the tee shirt.

@Richard-vq7ud

Жыл бұрын

Same here, been thru them all, soulmates, workplace, sibling, and even mother from the grave.

Whatever the kind of humiliation might be, respond with indifference. Treat them like they don't even exist.

It never ceases to amaze me how intelligently narcissists play their mind games. And none of them need a manual. They never went online to look up tips for manipulation. It just comes naturally.

@audreyshannon8709

11 ай бұрын

That's what gets me. 'Textbook' as they say. Sure is.

@cressiddabreo5683

10 ай бұрын

@@audreyshannon8709very true.. it’s like they all read the same handbook. It’s diabolical!

@clementineonami

5 ай бұрын

It's a spirit

@user-bt6qd8it1d

3 ай бұрын

Damn I had to look mine up the short time I was that families enslaved enabler lol and that’s no joke I used to have to research dirt first lol

1. Its not about you. Its their insecurity. 2. Do not react, you already know who you are ( opp of what they project) 3. Remove yourself from them

@DJBenito304

5 ай бұрын

💯

I believe that the root of narcissistic shame is made worse by the false self. They no deep down that they are living a lie.

I have learned to make fun of whatever they say😂 and they run away seeing my confidence.. It works

THANK YOU FOR SHARING . I WAS TORTURED BY THE NARCISSISTS IN TEXT MESSAGES THEY ARE HORRIBLY CRUEL.AND VERY ABUSIVE....

@MariyamFatima-pe1og

18 күн бұрын

Same

Really you are so right..they pretend that you are garbage but the fact is they are it by themselves☆

Yes,little jabs at my clothes,my spirituality basically my being. They would said under a soft tone that you could hardly hear but it did stop you and say "What did you say?" Of course,there wasn't any clarity and now your entering in something with someone who has no regard for you, let alone any morals or values that will build a solid relationship

Narcissistic humiliation rides on your insecurities and need of approval from others. But you don´t need others to approve your choices. Don´t look at how others value you; instead, learn to value yourself. If you value yourself, your value in eyes of others will actually increase - on its own. Learn to make your own decisions and opinions. You don´t have to match with others in order to get along.

@user-bt6qd8it1d

3 ай бұрын

Turn into stalkers and liars don’t they 😂 narc jealousy envy rage evil

Thank you for guiding so many of us who are narc abused🙏

We must not feel low when they abuse us with wrong accusations we must brush them aside

I've heard an ocean of "narc" videos and this one cut's to the chase more than any other I 've heard!!! It is very important that you observe how your own nerveous system has been thrown out of whack!!! I'm not kidding around!!!! Take a good look at how your own emotional state got "high jacked" by a dysfunctional adult in your life.

True, but the narcs don't stop until they get a reaction from you. That's their goal; something that they can use later against you.

@krislynmills3695

Жыл бұрын

During such times do your best to treat them with love

@prometaobiba2176

Жыл бұрын

@@krislynmills3695 That's exactly the opposite of what u need to do. They want exactly that, so they can get validation & keep draining you. You MUST just leave them.

@HeartFeltGesture

Жыл бұрын

Not true, they will go away when you show no response for long enough, they hate being ignored the most. You have to remove yourself from their company, there is no way to ignore while being in their company.

@jimmymatt6228

Жыл бұрын

@@prometaobiba2176 Thank you for thank you for speaking back to that NARC/troll

@p15209

Жыл бұрын

Yes, they provoke you to yell or do something similar, and blame you.

I am finally able to go into each situation/meeting with the narcissist aware of what the narcissist is probably going to say, or some variation of what will be said, and when it happens I keep a blank face and think to myself “what-ever🙄”. When it doesn’t happen, I am surprised, and as soon as the situation/meeting ends, I leave as quick as I can. It took me a long time to get here, because I couldn’t believe a person could treat people like that. 🤔

Spot on. Exactly what is happening these days

I refuse to be an Emotional & Spiritual PUNCHING BAG for an Evil Narcissist 😈 So they can suck off my suffering like a Incubus like they are. No just NO, IN JESUS NAME.

@jimmymatt6228

Жыл бұрын

Praise JESUS! He didn't just turn the other cheek as portrayed by some...he FOUGHT BACK TOO!!

@Platinumquotes-rb4wd

10 ай бұрын

@@jimmymatt6228yes

How true you are!!! I removed myself from that situation after 40+ years!! Thank you for your testimony and advice!! It is helping MANY people like me!!!!

I called out the narc at the moment of deception and he was beyond humiliation it was like how dare you and the consequences showed the trueself on what was reeeallllllly going on

@jimmymatt6228

Жыл бұрын

Yep! Ironically what they thought what would be our "loss" became THEIR loss and OUR gain! (They kept thinking they could keep messing with people like me or you...BIG MISTAKE...GAME OVER!!) THE END: kzread.info/dash/bejne/c2mI19dvhdGrlZs.html

@DJBenito304

5 ай бұрын

Wow 😯 that is what happened

@CoachK10190

5 ай бұрын

They’re cowards when you confront them. All they do is deny and project

Danish, you deserve to be honored for the help you share. What a fantastic counsellor.

Another great video from Danish. Expressed in a way that easy to understand. I will have to listen to this video many times to teach myself not to react when dealing with abusive people. When you react you get caught in their abusive net. Now I know the abuse has nothing to do with me. Reacting is feeding the monster. No more reacting . The abuser will go away its getting no supply and 😂😂😂no satisfaction.❤

They often have a history of multiple failed relationships. Long lines of EXs. Leaves a trail of destruction.

@user-bt6qd8it1d

3 ай бұрын

Then they Darvo stalk their victims fake family mk ultra slaves just mad others took their freedom from that fake ass mk ultra slave family 😂

I have listened to sooo many Narcissistic videos but I find your way of particularly accurate and easy to comprehend… thank you. ❤

They shame you for wanting normal things like intimacy and children. This is because they can't they are not human

You talking about that deep stuff that needs to get out! This is it right here. I’m understanding much better now!

Thank you so much Danish, you are a wonderful therapist

Oh my goodness, now I understand why there was allegedly always a „problem“ when we were eating at a restaurant as a family and why I as a child allegedly always ordered the „wrong dish“. It was only a mind game to humiliate me about my choices of food.

I love that your cat chimed in!🐱

Salute to your wisdom Danish 👏

My younger sister is a "my way or the highway girl" who was favored by our mother.After my mother's death she was uncompromising and arrogantly cancelled dates with my dad, who lived with me. He went to a lawyer and renamed my brother to be executor of their Will and she was furious. The Queen Bee discarded us all, refused family therapy and wouldn't partake in our family get-togethers with our dad, despite numerous attempts to include her. She fits the profile of a narcissist and has discarded us, so these videos help me understand that her anger and rejection is not personal. Still, it's a no win, frustrating sad ending that we can't hear each other out.

@jimmymatt6228

Жыл бұрын

It doesn't matter why and I'm NO LONGER listening to the excuses of WHY these narcissists act the way they do supposedly... All that matters is WHAT! You've had enough of the WHAT and so have I!! WE'RE JUST ANOTHER GROUP OF PEOPLE WALKING OUT OF THEIR LIVES BECAUSE OF THEIR NONSENSE... But AT least it's for a just reason (UNLIKE a narcissistic injury reason that they FALSELY portray themselves as IF otherwise.) "I am a REAL 'victim'... HEAR ME ROAR!!!" nonsense at their sycophant flying monkeys. You or I WIN AT 'THE END' at a game we never knew we were involved in the first place:

So true you help the survivors.. God bless you.

Thank you so much Sir. Honestly as painful and repetitive it is, you’re absolutely right. Thank you again and all the best to those going through the same ❤️

My on and off long distance relationship definitely has the traits. He keeps blocking and unblocking then coming back. Has a pattern of 2 days talking normally then looking for a fight or a request then telling me goodbye have a nice life then block again . Then tells me why aren’t I chasing and calling to make him happy? I just so ok bye. Then starts calling me names, insults accusations and wanting me to prove things. If I don’t I get rage and threatened with blocking. For some reason I have the urge to fly to his place just to end it face to face and tell him I’m not interested in such a rude person instead of just blocking him. Everything he accuses me of he is the one doing it.And tells me he is a king and everyone dies whatever he says and obeys him.

@Theshadythrifter

Жыл бұрын

this sounds like we might were dating the same narc! is his name Andre ? kind of weird how similar your experience is with mines!

@krislynmills3695

Жыл бұрын

I had this problem with my father. He needed to get angry and fight. When I wouldn’t he would become more and more depressed. I’ve heard that depression is anger turned inward. Please don’t let anyone change you.

@kumari6004

Жыл бұрын

I am no expert but maybe take control dont add them back, leave them to it..

A the time I met him, I was not in a good financial situation and when he found out, he humiliated me!

I removed myself from the situation. He died alone 3 yrs later in a fly ridden midden. Flat hadn’t been cleaned in 3 years. They wore biohazard suits to clean up the mess.

@user-bt6qd8it1d

3 ай бұрын

Lol jealous liars and projecting slave stalkers lol

The humilliation comes from my mother, I've been enduring this all my life, she tried to break my spirit every chance she got, but now I'm finally fighting back as much as I can while trying to keep my sanity at the same time. I still live under her roof, as she made me believe I would be no one without her, would go nowhere without her, couldn't to anything right. I'm just now trying to find the strength to break the chains, to muster the courage to move out, but I feel so alone in all this, no one to support me and it makes the process so so hard.

Now you’re talking about where I’m at in my marriage. Awesome advice and information!!! Thank you

This is so hard especially as it is my sisters! I have lost my childhood 😢

Thanks once again. Gives me lessons from you to live my life in a better way.

Started hearing his words I felt I'm relieving some experiences and feeling uneasy and sad like I'm about to open up a wound. Tired of feeling the pain ready to be free.

It is everywhere and escalating quickly. I think Gabriel is practicing his horn and getting ready.

Honestly I wish I could record my father and then we could use it as a training video. We could pause and point at each bulletin point and circle the action you described

@thehotcoffeehouse6081

Жыл бұрын

We could use my narc mother's insane conduct as a training video as well, lots of circling the abuse points; but I'm no contact with her, thankfully.. Hope you are with your narc as well.

Fantastic explanation!!! But, what do you do if it happens in public?

Very accurate!

It's horrible! I definitely need to pay attention and listen to your valuable words. Thank you.

I'm going to be honest the thing I'm having the hardest time dealing with is the thought of the humiliation of the triangulation the looking around at other people after I've told you how uncomfortable it made me and you continue to do it knowing that you sitting with a beautiful person.

This is so helpful, just listening to your counsel. However, I cannot leave now, so I hope you have more counsel on how to help my nervous system, because I have a lot of stomach issues that I'm sure are from dealing with my husband.

@lalalad4536

Жыл бұрын

Omg me too, It’s so exhausting living with a narc. It seems like it comes in waves, there are times when he is doing fine, but recently he is in a wave of humiliating people, getting in discussions at work. It’s a everyday thing since fall started 😤 I have a very social job, thats whats keeping me sane.

He ran out of insults i suppose when he said I'm a bad cook smh the list of things wrong with me surpasses the length of a CVS receipt

How do we "regulate" our "nervous system" in order to tolerate this abuse? Sometimes it's impossible to just "leave" a situation.

@p15209

Жыл бұрын

That means the narcissist has achieved complete control over you, and you are fully his victim. Try your best.

This was helpful to get some idea as to what I can do to protect myself

❤ Love You Danish . I truly appreciate you and all your helpful videos. You understand what we have been through . You are a blessing to me. 💜

Thank you Danish for all the great video!

People can publicly humiliate you merely with a dismissive tone or glance; it doesn’t take a comment to do this. This is what my brother did to me at my dad’s funeral. I hadn’t done or said a thing to provoke him; I had just asked him where our other brother was. People who happened to be within the vicinity looked at him, took his cue, and stayed away from me for the rest of the time. This has happened a thousand times throughout my life with my family, and with their unwillingness to acknowledge, explain, or apologize for their behavior, let alone change, I let them be “superior” without me.

Very insightful content by you bro. Thank you so much. I have been hearing a lot of content from your videos. It’s so useful. Thank you once again and love from India ❤

I entered an old relationship with a Narcisse, l thought he was older less of a Narc. But now l notice he humiliated a few times, l fill with angry rages

Thanks so much your so wise and on point with your information. Your education has equipped me and saved me from a lot of heart ache

Thank you for great information 🙏

Thanks 😊 very helpful information 😊❤️💙 on healing and moving forward ❤️💙

They are horrible. Your videos help me to open my eyes and my knowledge now is incredible.

.and as much as possible, ignore the humiliation, because it's not real, and is just a predictable manifestation of the mechanisms that drive them - in a word, it has nothing to do with you

Thank you for sharing the information it's difficult when you care about people and are emotional they love bipolar trying to deal and heal the info is very helpful ❤️❤️☘️🙏🙏 prayers for anyone who has to deal with that

Yes, let the healing begin

Great video!

Next time if any Narcissist humillate i will just say oh thank you useless Narcissist. And then walk away. That's how i do in the past according to my experiance, they can't never comeback if you give nothing to them. Watch signs and as soon as you realised that they are Narcissist stop giving and run for your life as much as you can, it may be hard for you but stay strong and love youself more and do anything that makes you happy. Don't give them even 0%.

Thank you. Key information

@oscarwilliamson1128

Жыл бұрын

Cindy Louwho,You look cute 🥰,Hope you are not with a narcissist….

Interesting! I did wonder this.

I literally stood in silence and then she was like that’s not abusive is it???

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

Narcissists are bullies.

Bodyshaming is one way.

Thank you.

5:30 you made me cry bro i learned.

I was raised up in it, everybody laughs at everybody lol 😂 they just look for a reaction, it s hilarious

My narc humiliated in front of my co workers. I really think he thought that made him look good. Lucky I had great co workers and we never lived together for our 18 yr abuse relationship

4:38: Meow! MEOW! MEEEOW! MWOW!!! I think your cat agrees with you :D

The person I was with last 6 years was a narcissist according to all the videos or other videos and many other articles and books I have read in all these years. But now he has completely discarded me and is in a new relationship for last 2 months And have completely changed. He is really very sweet and caring and everything I even wanted With the other girl Is it possible that someone be narcissistic with one and completely normal In fact better than normal with other person?!

@heatherlynn3438

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely NOT! While the Narc is devaluing you they are Love bombing and mirroring the new victim. Remember how awesome it was for you guys at first? That’s all that’s happening now with the new target. They will be devalued and discarded. But they will have to fall madly in love with the Narc in order for it to do the right damage!

@narcabusecoach

3 жыл бұрын

It is a temporary facade.

@Unherd_Of

Жыл бұрын

No they aren't . She's seeing the fake out so she will fall into the web.

Thankyou.

I was at the local park playing tennis and a narcissist kept saying the word menace it was talking about my tennis racquet secretly They just never stop do they gotta have that narcissistic supply?

I'm so glad I left they are toxic!!!!

@narcabusecoach

2 жыл бұрын

happy that you left

I hv such monster called my husband who is a nightmare

They have to feed their demons legions they are many praying 🙏 blessed by this message praying 🙏 ❤

That is why l got in a relationship after watching many due alone.....now l have anxiety everyday

Why is no one talking about the poor cat waiting on her daddy? 4:42

It's Memorial Day. I'm sitting next to the Narc....wants me to be all lovey dovey😊

In public, in front of our kids, then it’s a joke or your to sensitive

Tot de punt, niet om de hete brei gewoon recht voor zijn raap. De waarde van Deen is hoog. Zeer goed vanuit de holte der narcist omhoog getrokken deze rechte uitleg.

Everybody is like that lol 😂😆 💕

My dead mother did it prior her death, during her death and after her death…I do not miss her she was a vile narcissist who made my life hell!

Why are they doing all this?

@applebottomjeans247

3 жыл бұрын

Ego booster

@robbiea1482

2 жыл бұрын

Feed the false self. They can’t get energy internally because you cannot regulate a pretend personality. It must have external validation

Hi I enjoy your vids

02:33 03:39 05:50 06:30 07:43

Drop the mic !!

I lived with one for 2 years and it was horrible

It is more difficult to handle narcts who r aging , and when they r prnts. V can see . favouritsm and ill treatment in such families and some chldren suffr

I live with a mental narc, I have mental narc neighbors, I had/have narc Frienemies (Not anymore) and my family is full of narcs, it's not unlike living in Hell on Earth. I've had to greyrock and discard them all.

My ex stalks me (30 years+). The last time (2017) he tried to bring his flying monkeys to harass me at my own home so I would fear him, I went got my steel bat and told him I already have 😅 his balls. Because I took them from him 30 years ago I told him that I would smash up the vehicle that wants to pull up in my driveway and the one that he came in. And told him not to ever Come back because he don't belong here with me.

It is a way to get high

@4:38 I taut I heard a putty tat. I did, I did hear a putty tat!

Bro didn't you find cats voice irritating while shooting your video..