What Goes on in a Narcissist's Mind When They Miss You

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00:00 introduction
00:38 what do you do when you miss some one ?
01:35 A thought in Narcissists head !
03:14 They expect you to give up on your pain
05:13 They may directly try to contact you !
05:55 How do I know this ?
06:49 The Narcissists brain is a brain of a Predator
07:46 NEVER BELIEVE THEIR WORDS

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  • @carparthero
    @carparthero2 ай бұрын

    narcissist: "i miss you". me: i don't blame you. i did more for you than you deserved, and more than i should have done. i gave you 120% and you gave me zero in return. i was so good to you despite all the bullshit you put me thru.... AND ALSO, i miss me too. i miss the "me" i used to be, before ever meeting you. so yah, if i were you, i would miss the f*ck out of me too. at least the power, control and benefits that you used to enjoy lol. cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁

  • @Sadbuttrue-ThatSwedishGirl

    @Sadbuttrue-ThatSwedishGirl

    2 ай бұрын

    That was great!!!!😂😂 and so true!💙💪🔥

  • @bean606

    @bean606

    2 ай бұрын

    Spot on! 100% Exactly what I've always wanted to say to "them" but choose not to! Especially the part about "I MISS ME TOO"!

  • @carparthero

    @carparthero

    2 ай бұрын

    @@Sadbuttrue-ThatSwedishGirl thanks. glad you found some benefit and enjoyment. 😉 -all the best, steven

  • @carparthero

    @carparthero

    2 ай бұрын

    @@bean606 it's nice if you can, but overall, let karma do the dirty work. rotten fruits eventually fall off by themselves. -cheers, steven

  • @IsabellaPiesch

    @IsabellaPiesch

    2 ай бұрын

    Zero is not the truth because they give you so much to stay on their tables. (Breadcrumbs...). But the fact is: You CAN (are able to) do much more than them. I would advise everyone here - don´t put in them put in you!

  • @xefirah8753
    @xefirah87532 ай бұрын

    They miss the Role you play in their game life 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @Bianca-sw5id

    @Bianca-sw5id

    2 ай бұрын

    Exactly they play games with you

  • @mallagecko6093

    @mallagecko6093

    2 ай бұрын

    Amen 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @yuu_miran

    @yuu_miran

    2 ай бұрын

    And they want the show to go on no matter what.

  • @tillysquire-hj6kk

    @tillysquire-hj6kk

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes , they call it " The narcissists playbook " !!

  • @RebuildingWithClarity
    @RebuildingWithClarity2 ай бұрын

    Thanks for confirming what I already knew. Never go back because they'll double down on your punishment.

  • @Tokolos

    @Tokolos

    2 ай бұрын

    Each time I took this person back, the devalue cycle came faster than the previous one. It’s really like they’re running a program.

  • @tjitjo

    @tjitjo

    Ай бұрын

    @@Tokolos They are. They have horrible pains and agonies inside that you are there to alleviate. But emotions like that aren't meant to be ignored, and they will pop up faster and faster and faster every time, and you will get the full punishment for them!

  • @ladyigimi8436
    @ladyigimi84362 ай бұрын

    The narcissists only miss the supply, for love forget about its.

  • @MeanEileen916
    @MeanEileen9162 ай бұрын

    Narcissistic abuse is wrong and the victims deserve justice and peace.

  • @brianf9615

    @brianf9615

    2 ай бұрын

    Narcissistic abuse should be considered a crime.

  • @yuu_miran

    @yuu_miran

    2 ай бұрын

    Perhaps peace is the main thing i want till the end of my life but having this simple thing seems just impossible

  • @brianf9615

    @brianf9615

    2 ай бұрын

    @@yuu_miran It’s possible if you go no contact. I’ve been no contact for twenty years and for twenty years I have had peace. However I do have a lot of bad memories.

  • @JesuisLord

    @JesuisLord

    2 ай бұрын

    Vengeance is the Lords Amen

  • @brianf9615

    @brianf9615

    2 ай бұрын

    @@JesuisLord Yes and I’m glad.

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes19152 ай бұрын

    He says hes still mourning! Over what!!!??? Treating me horrible

  • @Sadbuttrue-ThatSwedishGirl

    @Sadbuttrue-ThatSwedishGirl

    2 ай бұрын

    Exactly! They have selective memory

  • @seekerofgrace2058

    @seekerofgrace2058

    2 ай бұрын

    They gotta be ‘the victim’ even if they kill a puppy they’d play the victim ‘. I ruined my new clothes’ poor poor me ‘ sick sick twisted demonic self centered black holes.

  • @nerifterafrnam4682

    @nerifterafrnam4682

    2 ай бұрын

    Mourning ? Isn´t that in context of burials ? Narcs can´t even get words right, they just test their effects like toddlers try buttons on a toy.

  • @djw8504
    @djw85042 ай бұрын

    Mine has contracted me telling me he is sorry and misses me every day. Said I was the best person he has ever known and wants to start over. I now no longer feel the same abt him, so he is very depressed, sleeping all day he says. Sorry, but I am enjoying being alone.

  • @QueenAlexis556

    @QueenAlexis556

    2 ай бұрын

    My ex narc had been trying to contact me every year around March/April since 2022. In 2022 he contacts me through LinkedIn. I vaguely remember the conversation, in 2023 he contacted me through Facebook and then showed up at my residence saying he would give me a ride to work (drunk as usual), I told him no because I knew he'd been drinking, March 2024, he sends me a photo of himself graduating from college (62 years old lol) and that's when I drew the line. Only contacts me every year around March and April for whatever reason? I told him if he contacts me one more time, a restraining order will be issued. Alcoholic sob and verbally abusive

  • @naveengulati7745

    @naveengulati7745

    2 ай бұрын

    My person after breakup does not feel like contacting or talking to me as we work toghter...I think I miss him but he has no feelings..

  • @irenenakasanjekawuma2606

    @irenenakasanjekawuma2606

    Ай бұрын

    😢

  • @stephbowler3141
    @stephbowler31412 ай бұрын

    Exactly! They miss using you and manipulating you! My own mother would say "I miss you" and I never understood why it sounded wrong when she said it but your video explained it very clearly.

  • @BLessed758
    @BLessed7582 ай бұрын

    you're so right. It's all a manipulative game. After i went no contact and the narcissist realized I was really done, he sent me a long text about how he went into a deep dark depression and was now coming out of it and feeling better. Of course an empath like me would typically fall for that and offer support. No more. I didn't respond. Depression doesn't make you mean and horrible to people for years like he was to me. Im done with this sick individual.

  • @lsubesteva
    @lsubesteva2 ай бұрын

    I didn’t know they had feelings! Who would’ve known🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes19152 ай бұрын

    This is a sick game

  • @nerifterafrnam4682
    @nerifterafrnam46822 ай бұрын

    "weaponize empathy" , "sympathy vampires" - you are so spot on Danish, I am impressed every time.

  • @tarey05
    @tarey052 ай бұрын

    Another ploy of theirs is that after years of no communication nor contact, they will email you "heartfelt" birthday greetings, remarking what an irreplaceable, amazing person you are! It's enough to turn ur stomach! Delete! Non sequiter: June 5 (tomorrow) is Danish's birthday!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY, DANISH! 🎉 Enjoy this special day and thank u for all you have gifted this community!! You have improved our lives beyond all expectations because of your rare and raw truth and authenticity! 100% genuine❤.

  • @narcabusecoach

    @narcabusecoach

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for remembering my birthday. It means a lot 🙂

  • @andreakeener6378

    @andreakeener6378

    2 ай бұрын

    Happy Birthday! Surviving our narcissists is another Birth’ing experience! Thanks Danish.

  • @tarey05

    @tarey05

    2 ай бұрын

    @@narcabusecoach 🎂

  • @jsundarraj2546

    @jsundarraj2546

    2 ай бұрын

    @@narcabusecoach - Many more happy returns of the day, This is SundarRaj from Southern part of India, your videos really enlighten me a lot, how i have suffered becoz of my narcissitic dad and grandma, Its so terrible experience with them,, my grandma died 10 years ago, i was younger at that time, but now my mind is recollecting all my trauma memories and healing.. Thanks a ton to you.. your videos must have helped a lot of souls.. Thanks a ton for ur teaching and all videos

  • @tillysquire-hj6kk

    @tillysquire-hj6kk

    2 ай бұрын

    @@narcabusecoach Happy Birthday Danish , 🎂🎂🎂 from one who finds your words validating , Thank-you 😊

  • @deebee4622
    @deebee46222 ай бұрын

    They miss seeing the pain they cause.

  • @tjitjo

    @tjitjo

    Ай бұрын

    They miss feeling important. Some people draw some sick sense of value from how much they can hurt others.

  • @lolabear6788
    @lolabear67882 ай бұрын

    They miss how you in their life made them have a good reputation in society.

  • @denizersoy6634

    @denizersoy6634

    2 ай бұрын

    That’s exactly what happened in my relation. He was getting respect because of me,because I had reputation, without me he is trash . Now after 9 months he wants me back 🤮🤮🤮

  • @tzipporah7635
    @tzipporah76352 ай бұрын

    I asked my ex fince a week.or so after discard if he missed me (i was still very much trauma bonded and felt i needed his validation that what we shared was real). His answer: "yes, I miss some things about you". Even while we were together it was clear he only appreciated, wanted, craved what I could GIVE him, not who I really AM. Im convinced, this is all the narc REALLY misses.

  • @Ediwow-nx8iy
    @Ediwow-nx8iyАй бұрын

    Months ago, my narc discarded me, no contact, blocked me and all. And just today, message me giving his new mobile number just in case "I miss him" he said, then I can contact him and reconnect to him 🥴 So, this content is very timely and on point!!!

  • @lesterstone8595
    @lesterstone85952 ай бұрын

    Narcs don't miss you. They miss what you used to do for them. If they could find someone to do the things that they made you do for free, they would never think twice about you.

  • @denizersoy6634

    @denizersoy6634

    2 ай бұрын

    Hundred percent true . After 9 months he wants me back. Because it didn’t work with the new supplier. If it did work he wouldn’t even care. Obviously he couldn’t control her or use her God knows. I am better without him still heeling 🤕🤒

  • @RebelsBestFriend
    @RebelsBestFriend2 ай бұрын

    After 12 years of no contact, my narc former sister sent me an e-mail complimenting me saying "everybody I know always thought you looked like Catherine Zeta Jones". I immediately deleted the e-mail and did not respond, nothing good could come of contact. If I respond with anger or with an insult (which I really WANT TO DO) she would love it. That's the supply she needs. I have no family because of her. You are spot on.

  • @nicholecornes1915

    @nicholecornes1915

    2 ай бұрын

    Wow she's beautiful though

  • @anacardinale5769

    @anacardinale5769

    2 ай бұрын

    I am in the same boat... a nasty heartless sister who feels entitled to destroy my reputation and my own family. It is nauseating to be sure!

  • @sage_forensics_2261

    @sage_forensics_2261

    2 ай бұрын

    Absolutely! ANY response at all = SUPPLY. If you are nice, then they can reel you in to discard you later. If you are not nice, then they can have a pity party and play the victim. I have a narc younger sister with whom I'm also No Contact. I would love to have an actual relationship with a real sister, but it's not her. My parents are/were narcs (my mother has passed), and I suppose she learned from them. The three of them Scapegoated me my entire life, and that would promptly restart if I reinitiated contact. I also have no family, including most, if not all, of my extended family. I really do understand you. It sucks sometimes, but I have to believe we are happier and healthier. We got out! Take care, my friend. 🙏💜

  • @TinLizzy1
    @TinLizzy12 ай бұрын

    I went No Contact a few months ago from a friend that has always been manipulative and controlling. She did the smear campaign and now she keeps trying to reach out to me in several ways, like nothing happened. It’s like they’re stalkers, obsessed with trying to get you back. They just can’t accept that you want them out of your life for good. Creepy.

  • @nerifterafrnam4682

    @nerifterafrnam4682

    2 ай бұрын

    Could narcs go so far as contacting you covertly on the internet ? Something like that happened me last week, I was chatting personally with some anonymous user on a forum. Then a second user turned up, as if trying to get to know me. After a few rounds of asking, she gave herself away, that we´ve met IRL. That´s all she said but I knew straight away who that meant and blocked. I told user 1 about this because I was confused at first not noticing the different username but all of a sudden user 1 became hostile alike and stopped talking. Not that this whole thing bothered me , I got things to do but could it all have been her doing ? pretending to be multiple people ?

  • @LukaChunda

    @LukaChunda

    Ай бұрын

    I went on no contact and she started using my own child to say it's your child who wants to talk to you not me.... Without an apology.

  • @TinLizzy1

    @TinLizzy1

    Ай бұрын

    @@LukaChunda these are some mental people. Always crossing the boundaries.

  • @pollocbone11
    @pollocbone112 ай бұрын

    My ex literally sat me down and told me she misses me and still loves me while in a relationship with someone else 🤦🏼‍♂️

  • @emmarae4322
    @emmarae4322Ай бұрын

    "I miss you and love you." Are empty words.

  • @user-df3eo9qx9p
    @user-df3eo9qx9p2 ай бұрын

    I couldn't figure out what was going on in his mind during all the time I was with him !!! They're stuck in their own head and sadly, that's about as far as it goes. Thank you, Danish

  • @irinakushnir8338
    @irinakushnir83382 ай бұрын

    Yes, just yesterday that person called, I answered bcse I believed if he called after 8 months, he suddenly became rude , mind games, this is when we were making plans together then he escaped and also manufacturing crises, I thought I'd hear an apology and a correction from him since he called, but he just called to find out what I do and where I stay and to see if he can come into my life again, I'm glad I'm not interested.

  • @annanderson1470
    @annanderson14702 ай бұрын

    Danish, aa I write this my daughter is trying yet again to pop right back in my life. She and my three beautiful granddaughters,8mths to 8yrs, showed up at my apartment yesterday after I had not text nor called her in a few months. Steering clear after she just took them away from me March before last. She got a car and no longer needed me. With her, stress left, confusion left. And I gained peace of mind, more money in my bank account and a new love in my life that was never expected nor looked for. God is so good and at 58, took 35 years of narcissist abuse I never knew I was experiencing. I knew I was above the limit on abuse, physical, mental, psychological and emotional but you put a name and all the other elements in place. I'm not stupid, I knew the word but I equated that with prideful and egotistical people. My daughter far exceeds her dad, my ex-husband. Bless you and thank you. You are a blessing and whether you know it or not.. you are a gift from God and He is pleased... Peace and Blessings to you, your family and All your subscribers 🙏🙏🙏💖😊🌞

  • @seekerofgrace2058
    @seekerofgrace20582 ай бұрын

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY DANISH YOU ARE A GIFT TO SO MANY SO GLAD GOD MADE WONDERFUL YOU ! THANK YOU SO MUCH ! 🤍🎂🌸🤍

  • @narcabusecoach

    @narcabusecoach

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much 😀

  • @User-vibes1523
    @User-vibes15232 ай бұрын

    I've cut off with him at least 5 times & he exactly did this kind of weird activities to come back! But this time I'd try my best leaving him forever. I know it’s difficult for a victim to run away from a narc partner but no other way to survive!

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes19152 ай бұрын

    I know! I went though all that shit!

  • @etaokha4164
    @etaokha41642 ай бұрын

    They miss abusing you and controlling you. My miss and their Miss is 2 different ways

  • @naturegirl4074
    @naturegirl4074Ай бұрын

    They miss you for what they could use you for and will lie, pretend to change, make all kind of promises to try to get you back

  • @joseenoel8093
    @joseenoel80932 ай бұрын

    🎉 Truly never gave that much thought, hope that's my sign I've healed, busy convincing myself not to be obsessed with them, I know it's to stay no contact keeping me free for better vibes!😊❤😅

  • @deelkasjones9052
    @deelkasjones90522 ай бұрын

    Thanks ❤you’re helping me getting through my pain 😢

  • @cammac2753

    @cammac2753

    Ай бұрын

    We will get thru it together, the person that I was dealing with has really disappointed me once I realized what was really going on.

  • @fatimaahmed445
    @fatimaahmed4452 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for your help. it help me to understand narcissist ❤.

  • @amylouise5867
    @amylouise58672 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge and experience 🙏🏻

  • @aldelgado9343
    @aldelgado93432 ай бұрын

    When i miss someone i get sad, but once i reach them i feel fine again, narcisist dont miss you, once i went 5 years with out seeing my oldest narcisist brother and when i got to see him he told that It was about 5 years the last time we saw each other, i didnt had a clue how much time had past.

  • @AugustusTiberius-tq1gw
    @AugustusTiberius-tq1gw2 ай бұрын

    My X questioned one time if I was breaking up with her. All I said was thank you for being with me all these years and making memorable moments, I appreciate you. In the end, she broke up with me in a text. I responded, "One day you will realize that you have down- graded and there is no coming back. Good luck." LOL

  • @hettykoster9447
    @hettykoster94472 ай бұрын

    Wow , That hit home …..

  • @Deam7666
    @Deam76662 ай бұрын

    I’m so sorry you had to go through that but also grateful for your videos. They’ve added pieces to my horrid puzzle making me realize I’ve been surrounded by such individuals my whole life. From father, ‘friend’🙄through my teenage years, and now I’m married to one-23 yrs together and it just keeps getting worse 😳

  • @bumblebee_ms
    @bumblebee_msАй бұрын

    Danish, you literally explained all the nasty narcs in my life.

  • @mr.beastfanclub347
    @mr.beastfanclub3472 ай бұрын

    Danish in Pakistan every second person is NPD patient please give us the plan to survive married life with narcissistic husband. Coz we can't leave them.

  • @nicholecornes1915

    @nicholecornes1915

    2 ай бұрын

    My husband discarded me thank God

  • @mr.beastfanclub347

    @mr.beastfanclub347

    2 ай бұрын

    But our society is too conservative we can't be discarded. We need to survive with narcissistic husband. Please Danish help us

  • @razi_siddiq_

    @razi_siddiq_

    2 ай бұрын

    watch dr. Ramani too. She talks about such situations where it's difficult to leave them

  • @fatimaahmed445
    @fatimaahmed4452 ай бұрын

    I Daily waits for your video thank❤you

  • @pamela9148
    @pamela914821 күн бұрын

    This is so helpful Danish! Thank you for addressing this topic!

  • @lakaysue21
    @lakaysue2123 күн бұрын

    I went back so many times, every time the abuse just got worse. Now that I understand and have accepted that he will never change, this time I will never go back again.

  • @promo130

    @promo130

    9 күн бұрын

    narcs cant change, remember it has nothing to do with you. for the narc you dont even exist, the narc doesnt interact with you but with an internal object he made of you in his mind.

  • @ifishineushine
    @ifishineushine2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your videos! All these things are literally happening just like in your shares! This healing is a blessing! ❤

  • @Spunky072
    @Spunky0722 ай бұрын

    Hi Danish-I am new to your videos. I just want to thank you for taking the subject to a more critical thinking level. I’ve gained a lot of insight having listened /watched your videos. And additionally, I’m really sorry that you had to go through so much turmoil with both your Mother and Father. I share a similar story as yourself so I could relate 100%. Sending you healing energy and blessings for a brighter future.💖

  • @barbararoberts7082
    @barbararoberts70822 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this ❤

  • @bowiearcangeli11
    @bowiearcangeli112 ай бұрын

    Thank you. I needed to hear this

  • @americancountryboy6404
    @americancountryboy64042 ай бұрын

    Thank you well said 👍💯

  • @Lina_1517
    @Lina_15172 ай бұрын

    Your timing to create an episode about this topic can't be more appreciated! For the past few days, I've been facing a similar experience with a certain narcissistic relative and so I have been going in circles because of it, but now I finally have some answers, so thanks for explaining the mentality behind creating such chaos in people's lives. I mean, narcs are a really fascinating breed,don't you think? 😅

  • @LaTricia-tr1xm
    @LaTricia-tr1xm2 ай бұрын

    HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY DANISH🎉🎉🎉 certainly a blessing and a treasure you are, where would we be without you? Talk about confirmation! What am I doing that I keep drawing these ppl to me? ENOUGH!! I’m doin the work, all is well this too shall pass! Blessings on your special day Danish🙏🏾🙏🏾🎊🎉💕

  • @mridulrathi2664
    @mridulrathi2664Ай бұрын

    The fact that you opened about your mom in this video makes this page 10x more genuine. All your content is just amazing , soo helpful ,Thank you sooo much for sharing and spreading this info.

  • @Liselotte07
    @Liselotte072 ай бұрын

    I broke up with my ex 2 weeks ago because I realized he is a narc. I wonder why it took me almost 5 years to realize since my mother is the same way. Now there is a deep emptiness inside me, I have a heartache and daily crying attacks out of nowhere and find it hard to stop. My thoughts are circling, I miss him, it hurts but I won’t contact him. I just don’t know how to get through it. I think I need help. 💔

  • @naveengulati7745

    @naveengulati7745

    2 ай бұрын

    Let's talk .me in same condition

  • @iheart3dprinting951

    @iheart3dprinting951

    2 ай бұрын

    If you had a narcissistic parent or both, you will then last longer in relationships with narcs. 1. Because you are groomed for it to be normal. 2. Because you have no support assuming your parents were toxic. So you stay longer.

  • @mridulrathi2664

    @mridulrathi2664

    Ай бұрын

    You will get through this girl !

  • @yogalive4229

    @yogalive4229

    Ай бұрын

    Trust me I didn’t know for 5 years now with help of a therapist am over it so happy peaceful

  • @promo130

    @promo130

    9 күн бұрын

    if he was a real narc you would have figured that out in max a few months not 5 years

  • @IsabellaPiesch
    @IsabellaPiesch2 ай бұрын

    I can bet - they don´t miss you - they only miss what you provide them. Because they don´t even know you in person (they never cared)... And they will replace you very fast (even in the relationship they had other supplies on the side to use - not to care - to use).

  • @clintonnagy1662

    @clintonnagy1662

    2 ай бұрын

    Absolutely true. Same happened to me. Days after discard she reached out to her ex boyfriend and saw them at a local concert. Meanwhile telling me she would stay alone after the break up. The look on her face when I exposed her that night was priceless. The thing that's hurts the most, I was doing the right steps to heal, and excepting the break up. I thought she was too....WRONG !! Stupid me for believing a w**re. Damn, I'm dumb !!!!

  • @IsabellaPiesch

    @IsabellaPiesch

    2 ай бұрын

    @@clintonnagy1662 Those people are totally different than you. You can´t trust nor believe them (sadly). And they walk on fast because they never created a deep bound with you (in fact it was never you in person they liked - it was what they can get out of you what they liked and loved...). You just have to accept that and move on (it is hard but with time it gets easier). The sadest thing is: In fact it is no loss to lose such people...

  • @SheldonBrown567
    @SheldonBrown5672 ай бұрын

    Don’t forget “but calls.” I would get them constantly from my covert mother and her new husband. Even before I went no contact. But calls are when them pretend that the phone called you on accident, so when you answer, all you hear is people talking or interacting in the background. Usually it at a gathering of people you know. No matter how many times you loudly say hello, no one will respond. Sometimes I get several in one week. They continued even after two years of no contact. Thank you.

  • @NO.Hard-Turd-Only.
    @NO.Hard-Turd-Only.2 ай бұрын

    Thank you Danish. I really appreciate the knowledge you share in your videos.. this one was particularly informative. ✌🏽❤️ 🇦🇺

  • @Lyrielonwind
    @Lyrielonwind2 ай бұрын

    That's why my family won't send me an email (they are blocked and can't call me) not even in Christmas or New Year. They also sent me an sms telling me my mother had a stroke but I didn't showed up. Still, a few days later I ended up in the emergency room due to intestinal spasms... that's how the induced guilt and their abuse showed in my body. Then you know you need to leave if you care the bare minimum about yourself because they won't ever care. It's so sad when it's your family the origen of all of your misery in life and you look back seeing how you spoiled your life and soul feeding their black holes. Still, I don't agree I'm a "chosen one". I could have been better to the world if I weren't preyed upon over and over again.

  • @danielstone4247
    @danielstone42472 ай бұрын

    Bang on ! Cheers

  • @susancampbell7335
    @susancampbell73352 ай бұрын

    Your expertise, delivery credentials precede you .excellent

  • @Brandileadiane
    @Brandileadiane2 ай бұрын

    Danish you are always 100% accurate in every way! I couldn't help but laugh when you said they manufacture a crisis. All of a sudden they will have had an accident, broken bones, illness, etcetera. I have even been lied to about actual deaths in the family that didn't even occur!!!! It would be comical if it wasn't so pathetic. Thank You for being such a Blessing!!!

  • @clintlandrum9498
    @clintlandrum9498Ай бұрын

    This is such a good video. It is correct on every level.

  • @EteruVatu
    @EteruVatuАй бұрын

    Makes perfect sense. Thank you.

  • @rebeccaglaze3707
    @rebeccaglaze3707Ай бұрын

    I’m really thankful for your videos! I don’t know for sure that a dear friend is a narcissist. Mainly because he is a long time alcoholic who is drinking a lot now. He certainly shows symptoms of many things. He, from past drug use that he stopped and drinking, has had either auditory hallucinations, delusions and thinks I and others played mean, cruel tricks or jokes on him. I know he can just take a word and twist it so he can make me so angry and evil. I’m hoping he will get help by detoxing. I thought he was, but, today over the phone (again) he gives it the F*** everybody. And people who try to still try to play games to hurt me like…. And of course he is talking about me. I’m grounded in who I am and know I have never treated anyone like he describes. I’ve learned not to get emotional or so angry like I have been in the past. Sorry so long. I don’t think I will ever know how he is unless he gets medical help to stop drinking. Thank you ❤

  • @anumolvs1083
    @anumolvs1083Ай бұрын

    That was a life saving msg sir.......thank you so much

  • @baigner25
    @baigner252 ай бұрын

    Happy Birthday for tomorrow! You’re a great person!

  • @wbooker5723
    @wbooker5723Ай бұрын

    I love the sweetness about you Danish. You explained that one so well. My ex narc boyfriend called me and said isn’t that amazing? I didn’t realize I called you. I said I don’t think it’s amazing at all and I will never ever go out with you again. He started to cry so I said , you There? And I hung up. He called back but I did not answer.

  • @QueenAlexis556
    @QueenAlexis5562 ай бұрын

    Yes! When I told him to leave me alone since he's nothing but trouble, he goes on to say "all of those personalities you have were trouble". Lol! Really? If that's the case, why do you keep on contacting me every year, only once a year? That goes to show you he's up to no good. 62 years old trying to hoover me. I'm 55 years old and I ain't falling for it

  • @lisawells9905
    @lisawells99052 ай бұрын

    Have a neighbor narcissist trying to wiggle her way back in to my life right now. I am unable to move right now but I have her blocked from calling me. She walks around the corner and tries to talk to me. I calmly answer basic questions but no real information. I know she wants me to open up and let her back in or get angry and yell. She would be happy either way. When she talks all I hear are nails on a chalkboard.

  • @robinpresleywoodward
    @robinpresleywoodward2 ай бұрын

    They miss you as their tool.

  • @leonoroliveira4644

    @leonoroliveira4644

    Ай бұрын

    💯

  • @jacksavage279
    @jacksavage279Ай бұрын

    Tremendously accurate 💯

  • @raindrops-z4w
    @raindrops-z4w2 ай бұрын

    So true try the sick hospital game calling my daughter Neverrrrr again

  • @risikasalifu6885
    @risikasalifu68852 ай бұрын

    Show up to the hospital yeah right!😂😂😂😂

  • @mariegalang5350
    @mariegalang53507 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this valuable lesson and video that helps people who suffer to deal witn demonic and evillness of Narcissis behavior.❤

  • @stephaniebacak3928
    @stephaniebacak3928Ай бұрын

    This is absolutely 110% true absolutely experienced it too with a BF thank you

  • @anithag161
    @anithag1612 ай бұрын

    Thank you Angel Danish❤❤

  • @user-me5td6nh2e
    @user-me5td6nh2eАй бұрын

    Very nice 👍 respected Sir!

  • @jioji3560
    @jioji35602 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much sir

  • @margaretaklemming2492
    @margaretaklemming24922 ай бұрын

    I do recognize that part of making strategic plans, instead of the obvious just to call and say they missed you or ask for your help. Instead everyone must be outsmarted and outplayed all the time so the simpliest task cannot be executed directly, it has to be thought over for days and then presented in such a way it is known that your cousins, her neighbours, friends and distant relatives are in line for helping her out. You may have said for years you want to help her with the heater and also have done for years, but every time you do it she brings up that all of these persons all want to help her with the heater. Every conversation is like that. When I am helping out, all I hear is this and this person also offered their help. What is going on?

  • @theresaelizabethelijah117
    @theresaelizabethelijah1172 ай бұрын

    I have a narcissistic step mother we are fighting every now and then we've been on off for years but 2022 she did it again after a fight she weaponized my step siblings against me they all blocked me! One of the sibling then unblocked me and i told her i know what's going on..she apologized but my heart was brocken 💔 i forgave her but then i blocked her ! The other siblings they suddenly keeping popping up on my WhatsApp with new phone numbers but this time around i knew it's my narcissistic step mother behind want to contact with me through my siblings, so this time i didn't fall for it i blocked them again and changed my phone number!

  • @new_earth_2024
    @new_earth_20242 ай бұрын

    Omg! So true🧘💯🙏

  • @MeCynthiaAnn
    @MeCynthiaAnn2 ай бұрын

    Thank you Danish From JANESVILLE, WISCONSIN USA

  • @daljitkaur5559
    @daljitkaur5559Ай бұрын

    You are so accurate

  • @coleenbenemerito8389
    @coleenbenemerito8389Ай бұрын

    Perfectly describe sir

  • @USAMAGATrump
    @USAMAGATrumpАй бұрын

    I'm low and lonely without her 💔 I cried a thousand tears when she said goodbye 👋 💔 I'm balling my eyeballs out, and one of my eyes 👀 fell out from all the crying I have done since she said goodbye 👋 💔 😢

  • @denizersoy6634
    @denizersoy66342 ай бұрын

    After 9 months he indirectly contacted me to be with him again . He is really sick. Life is better without him no going back .

  • @kyki8512
    @kyki85122 ай бұрын

    I believe that BOTH the narcissist and the survivor of the narcissist miss each other for the wrong reasons! I agree that the narcissist ONLY misses whatever supply that they were receiving, BUT when a survivor of the narcissist says that they are missing the narcissist, what are "THEY" missing? Are they missing the abuse? Are they missing being treated badly? Are they missing the narcissist crazy behavior and ways? Are they missing the gaslighting? Are they missing being with an evil sadistic person? You say that the narcissist doesn't miss the REAL YOU, and I agree...BUT there is no way that a survivor of the narcissist can miss the REAL THEM either since they only fell in love with the narcissist FASLE SELF!

  • @naleeniboodhoo3069
    @naleeniboodhoo3069Ай бұрын

    They feel and think NOTHING!!!! Just move onto the next supply. And they don't care

  • @marinakhanferova3699
    @marinakhanferova3699Ай бұрын

    This is so true Hopefully after watching your videos, survivors won't go to this trap

  • @chhatrapatiIngale-ct9gz
    @chhatrapatiIngale-ct9gz2 ай бұрын

    Hello danish ... I m female...my husband have npd I left my home ...he beat me so hard...by belt Your video's help me a lot to understand the narcissist And stay away from him Can please make video in Hindi language plz .....it will help other women/men .... those who does not understand English..... mostly the female plz

  • @lauraantic1384
    @lauraantic13842 ай бұрын

    I was reading it is your birthday today wish you only great things for you God bless you every day for your wisdom and helping happy birthday

  • @TheSmiler23
    @TheSmiler232 ай бұрын

    So...narcs don't just manipulate for the good you give, but to also torture you? Yikes......D:

  • @leonoroliveira4644

    @leonoroliveira4644

    Ай бұрын

    You're so right ✅️

  • @promo130

    @promo130

    9 күн бұрын

    depends what kind of narc, some need sadistic supply but not all

  • @TheSmiler23

    @TheSmiler23

    9 күн бұрын

    @@promo130 oh...but still....

  • @promo130

    @promo130

    9 күн бұрын

    @@TheSmiler23 a real narc is not human, its a dark entity, there is nobody there, just a blackhole, if we could take a peak in the mind of a narc we would all be screaming and run for the hills

  • @TheSmiler23

    @TheSmiler23

    9 күн бұрын

    @promo130 agreed....

  • @punkrockgirl5473
    @punkrockgirl5473Ай бұрын

    They only miss the control they had over you. They think they own you for life. If they truly cared they’d have never miss treated you to begin with. I know from experience it only gets worse if you take them back. They will want to punish you for keeping them at bay. Just block and delete them and their attempts if you don’t have children with them!

  • @lenaleong4894
    @lenaleong48942 ай бұрын

    Backfire to narcissist, I love God thank God Amen 💖

  • @EricPollarrd
    @EricPollarrd2 ай бұрын

    My ex used to send a text after days asking what that series was we were watching again? Or what’s the name of that park we went to im gonna take the kids there? Of course prompting me to say ok I’ll come and the next thing we’re back together with no apologies or any resolving of the reason we split.

  • @user-o6ue45hz8nr2ap
    @user-o6ue45hz8nr2ap2 ай бұрын

    I don't miss the narc-mother

  • @clintonnagy1662

    @clintonnagy1662

    2 ай бұрын

    The narc mother is another issue. Not only was i dealing with her, her narc son, narc ex boyfriend, now her narc mother. I was in hell from all sides. It eventually ended but it haunts me, and still hurts.

  • @user-dn7pc4ew8y
    @user-dn7pc4ew8yАй бұрын

    Everything. Their minds go everywhere.

  • @loriw1189
    @loriw11892 ай бұрын

    My ex husband had an outburst at my sons game and I know it was directed at me

  • @cammac2753
    @cammac2753Ай бұрын

    I am going thru this now. I feel like I can just kick myself for believing this person was soo sweet in the beginning. ... the entire time it was an act to win me over, once I figured out how fake this person is, then this person run and hide and don't want to face me. 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @khavita2309
    @khavita2309Ай бұрын

    Another piece of great insight from Danish Bashir 🌹....fantastic delivery as always 👌🏽. Sounds like these sympathy vampires need a rehab facility built for them!

  • @charmee4045
    @charmee4045Ай бұрын

    Yes, mine sent me an email "where is ?" I didn't answer. Yes I have the narcissistic mother, thank God I have a sister and we can go back and forth about it. Nobody else would believe it, you have to live it and I have for 70 years, still living it.

  • @Goofy_Clown
    @Goofy_ClownАй бұрын

    It’s uncomfortable how accurate this is to her actions