What would you do if you were one of Ruby's children?

@yogadork_namaste

6 ай бұрын

They were all brainwashed by jodi and ruby. I hope if they win restitution from jodi that the money goes into a trust for Russell and Eve. Kevin does not deserve that money. Those little kids need it to heal.

@dizasteroid7

6 ай бұрын

I would take uncle Scar's advice and "run away and never return."

@Ash888Mohd

6 ай бұрын

good luck in school brother , hope to see another video soon

@valfletcher9285

6 ай бұрын

run

@mlembrant

6 ай бұрын

i don't know, i grew up in a good family ^^ I can't tell how i would think

dinner shouldn't be "privilege" under no circumstances

@valerieodonnell6764

6 ай бұрын

Totally agree with you on this. I would consider tv, video games, dessert, etc to be privileges. Dinner though? That’s a basic parenting responsibility to ensure the health and wellbeing of your child.

@leahflower9924

6 ай бұрын

She can skip dinner in prison

@india1422

6 ай бұрын

A privilege is getting a bar of chocolate but again you shouldn’t have to beg for it if it’s part of the normal family groceries

@AmyRuby

6 ай бұрын

@@leahflower9924can that be part of her prison sentence? I also said this like thirty minutes ago when we just figured out that our preschooler was still hungry before bed (he’s still getting over an illness). Our kids will NEVER be sent to bed without dinner as a punishment.

@saoirse_mavourneen

6 ай бұрын

I always hated when parents do this, there are so many effective ways to correct children, removing necessities is not one of them.

So many people saw her being sadistic and reported her. BUT the father is culpable as well. They should be charging him as well.

@Jollimorerebecca

6 ай бұрын

I agree with you but they have no proof for mew what was going on. I’m praying he does not get those kids back

@KimSearch865

6 ай бұрын

@@JollimorerebeccaThey do have proof!! He was right by her side punishing the kids on their channel!! There’s a plethora of evidence against that a-hole!!

@georgehenry76

6 ай бұрын

You a woman?

@wmdkitty

6 ай бұрын

@@Jollimorerebecca No proof? He's literally on video participating in and approving of the abuse!

@Jollimorerebecca

6 ай бұрын

@@KimSearch865 ruby is not on trial for what’s online she’s on trial for what they found in the house. There’s no proof he knew what was going on in the house.

That poor little kid must have been so scared/hungry/frightened when he dared to escape that crazy sadist!

@samsalamander8147

6 ай бұрын

What’s sad was he was still blaming himself and telling that neighbor it was his fault he had tape on his wrists and ankles, he was making exuses for his “jailers” when the neighbor asked “why” he said “because we were bad”. It made my stomach flip when I heard his voice on the 911 call.

@esthersiersema

6 ай бұрын

@@samsalamander8147😢 happy it finally has stopped 😢

This lady is like the modern day "mommy dearest"

@ItsAMissTree

6 ай бұрын

Forgot all about that book

@jeanieolahful

6 ай бұрын

The problems is she had thousands of followers who agreed with her methods. This isn’t isolated, and it’s always involved with religion. Just because a church is involved doesn’t mean that they’re immune from punishment, or, at least, they shouldn’t be.

@leahflower9924

6 ай бұрын

Yes Mormon Mommy Dearest

@alex-qd6of

6 ай бұрын

​@@jeanieolahfulreligion is such a thorn in humanity's side. It's used to justify everything from Wars and slavery, to the subjugation of women and child abuse.

It is disgusting that the father has not yet been charged with child abuse.

@trentevenson8988

Ай бұрын

" A woman is evil. Find a man to blame"

@aika1665

10 күн бұрын

Agree. I also want to understand what is going on with the dad.

Ruby is a narcissist and a sadist, and Jodi is a sadistic psychopath.

@blu4085

5 ай бұрын

Narcissism is a "branch" of Psychopathy

@HumanimalChannel

5 ай бұрын

​@@blu4085all psychopaths are narcassists but not all narcassists are psychopaths

@alishamisk

5 ай бұрын

It's ironic how Ruby fell for someone worse than her, getting a taste of her own medicine

@alishamisk

5 ай бұрын

@@blu4085 well, according to the DSM, narcissistic personality disorder is a diagnosis (cluster C) and anti-social personality disorder (commonly known as sociopathy and psychopathy) is another (cluster B). They share many traits but people with antisocial personality disorder show violent behavior. To give a good understanding, Kim Kardashian or Kris Jenner or many hollywood stars falls under the definition of narcissism (self-entitlement, grandiosity, reoccupation with unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love, belief that they are special and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people or institutions, need for excessive admiration, interpersonally exploitative behavior, lack of empathy, envy of others or belief that others are envious of them, arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes. BUT she wouldn't torture or kill. Antisocial personality disorder is more like those world leaders currently perpetuating massacres and g*nocides in the world (not giving name) and thinking they're in the right because these people deserve it for not agreeing with their worldview or wills.

I don't see joy, I see rage/predatory laugh.

@middledog466

6 ай бұрын

yeah i see rage too, and her trying to ease the message by laughing and seeming light hearted

@gacktist00

6 ай бұрын

she said once that she started youtube to manage her anger problem. she said when she is recording, she somehow could manage her anger(cos everybody can see).. imagine how horrible she is behind the camera

@io5246

6 ай бұрын

It's pretty disgusting. I'm so glad she's going to prison. God bless those poor kids 😢

@joellenklemek138

4 ай бұрын

It’s so abhorant to us that we cannot recognize her emotions and expressions as joy. It’s truely frightening to see her pleasure in inflicting pain on those poor precious babies and we recognize the rage but we just can’t see any joy because it it the opposite to us. But she definitely if enjoying herself. She’s laughing. Giggling. She’s giddy and excited and aroused. It is truly horrifying the danger and the torchure the children were in. A lot of serial killers are sadistic. Just like her.

@MichaelDenmark

24 күн бұрын

Emotionally speaking, her rage is there. I missed the body language part where she revealed it.

I truly can’t believe that I just watched a video about my dad….I am in shock to realize how typical his behavior was. When I was 6, he handed me a loaded revolver with absolutely _no words,_ and when I naturally did what any kid would do when handed a toy gun, I pointed it at my step-mother thinking it was a game. He then blew up, screaming at me, saying that I was an evil child who obviously had murder in her heart. I was terrified, and so confused, and honestly believed him that I must be evil. I strongly remember his incredibly joyous and wide smile whenever it was “punishment time.” He would tell us well in advance that he was going to whip us, so we had quite a while to sit in terror. When he was coming to do it, he would first walk through the house with his leather belt, snapping the sides of it together in loud, terrifying cracks. He then had us pull down our pants and lay bent over the bed while he whipped us. One time, during a hand-off, my sister and I were bickering after being cooped up in a car for 10 hours. We hadn’t seen our dad in about a year at that point. The very first thing he said when he saw us get out of the car bickering was “Oh boy, I can tell I’m going to have to give A LOT of spankings this summer!” Another visit he asked us kids if we wanted to go get some Dairy Queen. Of course we were all ecstatic for this rare treat! The whole way driving there he was excitedly talking about the ice cream, and encouraging us all to talk about what we wanted to get. We pulled into the drive-through as he again asked us all what we wanted. Right as he was pulling up to the menu board, he just kept on driving and _very_ cheerfully said, “Never mind” and then took us all back home in tears. Or how starting at age 6, he would purposely direct my attention to something in a store before he would take off running to leave me behind. The first time he did it was at about 9pm at a rural farm store, and I noticed him running when he was halfway to the door. I took off after him yelling something like, “Daddy, wait for me,” but he was just so much faster. I got to the door of the store just in time to see his taillights disappearing down the road. He came back a few minutes later with that same gleeful smile when he saw the tears and panic on my face. Luckily, he started pulling that bit too often, so eventually whenever he would do that, my sister and I would just roll our eyes and wait for him to come back. I have so many other memories; but thankfully I only had about a month or two per year in which to make them. Sorry for the rambling, this whole video just kinda shook my world… 😳🤯 *EDIT:* Thank you all for your kind words! 🥲🫂 Rest assured, Jesus has done a _miraculous_ job of repairing my heart and mind. I have lived an extraordinarily blessed life! Even though I suffered in a large myriad of ways (until I could stop visitation at 18), I still had the incredible privilege to suffer _in America,_ the land of first-world problems. I had enough to eat when I was with my mom, and she was incredibly loving. I had medical care, health insurance, heat and air-conditioning. I had loving grandparents and a wonderfully supportive 5th grade teacher, Mrs. Pugh, who positively impacted the trajectory of my life. I live everyday loving and trusting in Jesus, and many of my wounds have healed. I still have some work to do for sure, but I’d like to think that through my suffering, I have learned valuable information, tips, and tricks, that I can pass on to others who are struggling like I did. Please know that I am praying for you all, especially those with the same types of memories. *It’s also so **_very_** important to pray for the children who experience all the same (and worse) types of abuse that I did, but have to undergo it all in poverty, or without at least a few loving people in their lives.* ✝️

@ladidaohoh3168

6 ай бұрын

I’m sorry your Dad was such a piece of garbage, I hope you’ve been able to heal!!!❤️

@MsDormy

6 ай бұрын

You poor kids… honestly, I can’t imagine a childhood like that - me and my four siblings knew nothing but love - we were pretty poor, but our parents made up for it in love. I get so angry with my siblings when they reflect on how they had a ‘hard time’ growing up; I just think about children who really do suffer. I hope and pray you can heal. 🙏

@rosamy2017

6 ай бұрын

How horrible! Sounds like your mom knew what she was doing moving 10 hours away from him. I’m sorry you had to go through that

@thecinnamonman2003

6 ай бұрын

My God, I am so sorry for your abuse. Your “father” was absolutely and completely a sadistic abuser with his children. What is so bad is that kids have such complicated feelings for an abusive parent. They want, more than anything to love and bond with them like any child with a foundational attachment to their parent, but every cell in their body is telling them to not trust or stop having a defense with the parent, in order to survive and protect themselves. It’s the ultimate emotional mind “f”. Your whole foundation for love and attachment is undermined and sabotaged. It does irreparable harm. I pray that your self knowledge, enlightenment and love grows and gets stronger and stronger. I send my love and empathy to you and your siblings and anyone else who was affected. I’m so sorry your father chose such darkness and evil. A great balancing of good and evil is taking place.

@christar9527

6 ай бұрын

My father was like that too. I always felt like a rug was being ripped out from under my feet throughout my life. He got other people, especially family, to join in. I can’t forget that sadistic laugh when he had really upset me. He ruined my life.

It really is scary how she uploaded evidence. She had no shame about it.

@AngelaNortonTyler

6 ай бұрын

Imagine what she DIDN'T upload.

@benjibatch

5 ай бұрын

Why would she have shame, she was so far gone into her sadism she couldn’t see what she was doing was wrong, it was normal for her 🤦🏽‍♂️

@TheJalesa1207

4 ай бұрын

I lived with a lady like this and what happens is overtime the abuse seems normal to them but to others it's shocking. That's why they will escalate the mean behavior over time

A parent documenting every moment of theirs and their family's for public view is a red flag.

The Turpin parents were also Sadists. The father would buy food and not let the kids have it. Same. Police found lots of unopened toys just to tease them. He hid behind his religious beliefs. Father had no remorse.

@Natty741

6 ай бұрын

The letter that Louise wrote her kids was delusional!

@hadbetterdays8118

4 ай бұрын

Yeah I heard somewhere that one time the mom baked a pie and she told her starving kids don't eat that pie

Amusing how easy it is for them to say they were manipulated by Jodi. It’s very clear here that Ruby was already on the path and it was in her personality.

I was so worried about these kids for years. She would laugh and smile every time she would punish them. The day she said that her six year old would have to starve because this poor child forgot her lunch made me so upset. I have a seven year old grandson that would have trouble remembering his lunch without reminding. The dad isn’t any better; he would also smile and laugh as well. I hope those kids get a great amount of help and love so they can recover.

@trishayamada807

6 ай бұрын

Can I ask you why you continued to watch her videos?

@patriciaschiro2659

6 ай бұрын

@@trishayamada807 I didn’t I just saw clips from their channel when other KZreadrs spoke on it. I never actually watched their channel.

@trishayamada807

6 ай бұрын

@@patriciaschiro2659 thanks. I just never understood the people who hated her but kept watching. It’s like supporting her! I didn’t know who she was until this whole thing became news and saw clips too and was truly flabbergasted. Yeah, I’ve never had to use that word before, but it sure fits how I felt. I couldn’t understand how anyone saw anything of value of her nonsense. It was horrifying.

@patriciaschiro2659

6 ай бұрын

@@trishayamada807 exactly my sentiments.

@shuffman8094

6 ай бұрын

And to think the young child was responsible for making her lunch. Insanity.

My mother was a sadist and confessed on her deathbed that knew she was hurting me and was afraid of going to hell but never said she was sorry. She also set me up one last time, from the grave she got me, she told me to ask dad about her jewelry, (which I knew nothing about prior to her mentioning it) and when I asked him, he laughed and said, your mom said you better not touch her F ing jewelry! Omg really?! From the grave a sadist strikes!

@wintermatherne2524

5 ай бұрын

Sick burn!

@user-cq5rl6dy1d

4 ай бұрын

Nah, that’s insane hope u doing good bro

After seeing so many clips of Ruby having unhinged power trips at the expense of her kids, its quite satisfying then seeing her pleading guilty multiple times in court. Also congrats on completing your masters Derek!🥳🎉

@mellie4174

6 ай бұрын

Except that she doesn't really believe it. And she only did it to make herself look as good as one can in this situation

@louwinters508

6 ай бұрын

​@@mellie4174 At least she's away from them.now so she can't hurt them. Although the scars will run deep for years.

@leahflower9924

6 ай бұрын

Even her saying to her son I noticed you've been hiding from me and he had that sullen face that was a red flag right there

@VelveteenRabbitinRedFern

5 ай бұрын

Especially the look on her face when she had to say GUILTY to the judge. And did you see the look on her face when she walked into the court room up and down eyeing that cop who opened the door for her.......... THAT was creepy too.

That woman is just like my sister in law. Should be in jail

@christar9527

6 ай бұрын

Can you report her? Ruby is like my father. He loved to watch children, the disabled, women ,and animals suffer. Anything that he felt he could overpower. I was relieved when he died. I was his primary victim, the family scapegoat.😢

@MrProwlr1

5 ай бұрын

@@christar9527 She’s been reported. The courts here. I think I’ll just stop right there.

Ruby Franke & Nicki Minaj's husband have one thing in common: neither of them can be around children anymore

@theabstract4936

6 ай бұрын

He’s around his son lmao what you yapping about mate 😂

@esaisrodriguez399

6 ай бұрын

Her brother dummy

@eurydicefiori865

6 ай бұрын

@@theabstract4936I MEANT OTHER KIDS, DUMMY 😭

@NikkiC777

6 ай бұрын

Ruby franke and Jody Hildebrandt not only shouldn't be around children ever again. They should both be in prison for a nice long a$$ stay. Imo. When they get out then they should be required to stay away from all children forever as a requirement of their parole, Forever. That is how I feel about it anyway. They're both trash.

@Greatflabbergasted

6 ай бұрын

PLEASE THAT IS SUCH A RANDOM COMPARISON 💀💀💀😭

I have an Uncle like you. In the same feild. Always taking classes. He's in his sixties. He says he's gonna take classes till theres none left.

@folkloreofbeing

6 ай бұрын

Reminds me of Sherlock Holmes who never quit studying in the pursuit of perfecting his field.

Yeah, this crazy person gets a kick out of abusing her children… It doesn’t take a lot to know someone is a complete piece of shit by observing how they treat children and animals. What a horrible person, those poor kids… they’ll forever be scarred by this evil mother. Actually, I hesitate to call her a mother. Just because she birthed these children, doesn’t make her a mother.

That woman gives me creeps 😨 her eyes radiate evil

Brilliant observation of the little girl, and her nervous terrified blink after answering the abuser’s question. I really hope for the best, for all of these children. Thank goodness the abusers were finally caught!

Kid looks miserable no wonder . Im glad he spoke up .

My older sister’s a sadistic bully. She would set up her younger brother & sister, play mean pranks, humiliation. It was like she was on a mission to tear us down. I thought she’d grow out of it and she seemed to as a teen & young mom, but I thought wrong. She just got more cunning & covert, destroying reputations & families with malicious gossip.

I hope that these kids are now well taken care off with loving extended family members! Hopefully they will be taken to an "All you can eat Restaurant " and never go hungry or without a bed again! Thank you for the video!

@therealz360z7

6 ай бұрын

The extended family exploits there kids for money too . Blanket training Bonnie and the others even those sorry parents their mission was is more important to them than their grandchildren people like you wncourage it by giving them views ! They wouldn't be allowed to film those kids they therefore aren't interested .

Ruby enjoys every second of making those kids miserable. You can see it in her actions. I hope her and Jodi both get at the very least 20 years.

Dont stress it derek. We understand that life can take up alot of time but no matter what your true fans will always tune in! God bless and shout out from Arizona 🙏

Please do more content on Ruby and Jodi’s psychology. They do all of those terrible things to gain power and control over a child? They are so grotesque. Birds of a feather really do flock together.

It's crazy because her kids laugh, too, when their mom is laughing while disciplining them 😢 I know this is a trauma response, but I do wonder if it made Rubi more angry when they'd be giggling instead of cowering in fear. I can imagine their laughter was one way they felt safe to do in rebellion of their mom. Ooooof.😢

@patriciaschiro2659

6 ай бұрын

Actually in the clip where she talks about taking her oldest son’s bed away for eight months he laughed along with everyone else and she made an angry face and asked him if he needed his bed taken away for longer. It was sickening.

@Faesharlyn

6 ай бұрын

I laughed along with my abuser because if I didn't agree with his assessment of my punishment it would escalate. I always agreed that I was stupid, lazy and a burden on the family anyways, because he would know. He was an adult and he was following god's rules so he must be right. But I couldn't agree too hard or I was being disrespectful and obviously needed more correction.

@mellie4174

6 ай бұрын

It's a friking survival skill!

@klz9500

6 ай бұрын

Man if I laughed, even if was nervous laughter out of terror, it would enrage my parents. If I didn't cry it would only provoke me mom to beat me harder until she won and made me cry. I think they laughed on camera because she is trying to make light of the abuse in front of an audience so people don't take it seriously. If the kids acted scared or upset on camera that would enrage her more because they would be exposing how serious it actually was.

@POCKBA

23 күн бұрын

Is a very typical trauma response. Is alsow used to not let someone have the plesure of hurting them. Or not letting them have right or win in a way.

That poor boy who escaped and ran to the neighbor (who was losing control of his emotions by the end of his 911 clip). If that was the boy at :51, we could see in his eyes the hell that was his life at that time. I am gutted for these little humans. I hope they are now connected to people who can start them on their journey to healing.

@RMBlake007

3 ай бұрын

Yes, that's him only he is a few years younger in that clip. There are vids & pics of him where he has dark circles under his eyes. And the sister that was with him during those months is the little girl, (again she's a few years younger here), at 6:51.

I'm pretty sure my mom dropped me in a cemetery one night and drove off, because I had bad grades or something like that. The memory is blurry and yet distinct. I can't be sure that it actually happened. Anyways, this video is very depressing.

@Plethorality

6 ай бұрын

You did not deserve that.

@christar9527

6 ай бұрын

Sometimes you have a blurry memory or no memory because what you went through was so traumatic.

@bumbaladardioshombot

6 ай бұрын

@@christar9527 don't think it's that. It was just really long ago.

@rubberbiscuit99

6 ай бұрын

She probably gaslighted you after to convince you she never did it.

@bumbaladardioshombot

6 ай бұрын

@@rubberbiscuit99 lol that's mama

They always look so normal: Ted Bundy, Chris Watts, Ruby Franke but behind closed doors.............

My wife heard your voice and I told her your last name and she told me she dated your older brother in Bergen county Nj back in highschool. I was like ‘no shot it’s the same guy he lives in Colorado’.

She was like this before Jodie that’s why they got on so well! Rot ruby in jail

If she was my mom, I would love to say that I would be strong and fight back at her.... But I think the truth is, I would terrified and scared all the time and try and try to be perfect at every moment. I feel sick thinking about it. Also-congratulations on your Masters work! 🤗

@lulumoon6942

6 ай бұрын

Can tell you from experience, you are correct. 😮‍💨

@FantabulousFail

6 ай бұрын

The older kids very much wanted to fight back, but that would mean leaving the younger ones with their monstrous parents. Sherry, their oldest daughter became estranged from the family before all of this and has talked about how she feels some of the blame for leaving her younger siblings there.

He looks so sad and dark circles under his eyes. It's so terribly sad. Ruby really immediately seemed sadistic to me.

That haircut at the end is criminal 😭

The way that she says, "un-comf-ortable" sends chills down my spine.

Derek is forever one of my favourite KZreadrs. His videos are always polished, purposeful and fascinating with some lightheartedness along the way, thanks for making such great content! 🙏🏻

@abemudokon9497

6 ай бұрын

He scares me

@rnbsteenstar

6 ай бұрын

Humor, too!

Happy to see you again! Honestly, I'd be happy to see all "family vlogger"channels completely done away with. Majority are just toxic and i believe it's cause irreparable damage to the children.

@moonlightstargem1006

6 ай бұрын

I’d rather they stay up so the parents get arrested & we can save the kids! Let them keep being idiots!

@HunnysPlaylists

Ай бұрын

two childless women wanting all Families gone, SHOCK.

@JPX7NGD

Ай бұрын

@@moonlightstargem1006 why are you lot so typical?

@JPX7NGD

Ай бұрын

Could you explain why they are damaging?

@JPX7NGD

Ай бұрын

I suppose some are using people for clicks, but is that really your only concern?

Glad you are back. I was just wondering a couple days ago how you were doing.

Oh my gosh this was so eye opening! My parents, particularly my mother, enjoyed punishment and ridicule, and depriving me of sleep. When my mom would try to do it in small ways to my kids, I would intervene and eventually had to limit contact. My kids are adults now and they can make the decisions they want to make, but I had to get her out of my life because she continued to enjoy my suffering as an adult. I pray for Ruby Franke’s children, and I hope that they can recover both mentally and physically from her sadistic cruel behavior. It’s going to take some time, but I believe they can make it through.

@dorothypettijohn1037

6 ай бұрын

My mom too was a bit of a sadist. I was one of 7. Us kids would get together and vent often pretend planning to poison her or how great life could be if my parents divorced. Wrong sick thoughts follow wrong sick abuse. I'm sorry for you growing up similarly, nobody deserves that.

I was so happy when this video popped up, thank you! I swear people like her terrify me. I spent a lot of my 20s nannying and there was this one family where the mother and father were exactly like this. I only lasted there about 4 months and it was because I started noticing disturbing marks on the 4 year old and disturbing behavior from the 8 year old. I wasn't going to stay quiet and I was promptly fired. I still think about those kids.

@alex-qd6of

6 ай бұрын

Did you ever call cps?

@klz9500

6 ай бұрын

Did you report them?

Derek, do psychopaths and/or sadists know that they are ill? Would they ever seek help for themselves? Or do they just live in their delusion?

@klz9500

6 ай бұрын

They don't have empathy, why would they feel bad enough to think they need to change?

@Trammiliin_nr2

6 ай бұрын

I don't know how science would answer the question, but my father was a psychopath and sadist. He definitely knew what he was doing was wrong, as he always tried to blame his victims and show himself as the good guy and at the beginning, he tried to hide his actions. I also know he was a deeply miserable person. He was a piece of shit- alcoholic, unemployed, violent, no friends, everybody hated him, dirty, was looking for scrap metal and deposit bottles from dumpsters. But in his words, he was like the overlord of the universe. I think this contrast was one of the things that made him unhappy. The only thing he enjoyed in his life was mentally torturing and beating his kids. I knew that I was going to get beaten up when I saw this sparkle in his eyes. I think he knew he was a piece of shit, but I think he blamed everybody else for his situation. But I'm not sure he understood he was mentally ill. Maybe deep down, he knew, but it made him even more miserable and more violent.

@BlackSeranna

5 ай бұрын

@@Trammiliin_nr2My dad also had the sparkle in his eye and the little smile as he was getting ready to punish us. You know what my dad is all about now? Saying that people shouldn’t gossip and talk about each other, and staying positive, never concentrating on the negative. To this day, I’m fearful when the door unexpectedly opens and I hear steps. When someone makes a loud noise in my house, I get absolutely triggered. When people get aggressive and I feel danger, I want to know where all my pets are so I can protect them from harm. As a kid, I didn’t have the power to block off my parent. There is no civilized way to stop a monster. You almost have to become a monster to combat them.

@mariawhite7337

5 ай бұрын

To quote: "Crazy people don't know they're crazy" as in the insane, do now know that they are insane.

@klz9500

5 ай бұрын

@@mariawhite7337 psychopaths aren't "crazy". And yes many do know they're a psychopath and some downright revel in it.

This is so messed up. Almost makes me cry those poor children😢

It makes you wonder how common, deep rooted in the family/community and esp the therapy group-this is. It seems like it’s so normalised and entrenched, these types of people find each other in their own community.

good to see you still movin and Schaikin .... from Australia.. x

Dissociation is a key coping mechanism for kids with troubled families.

If you want to fairly punish your kids, limit luxuries like games or tv NOT basics like love, food and a BED! Also showing mercy is critical to stand out from random strangers which will be less forgiving to them. And it’s NEVER a pleasure! It’s a huge responsibility being a parent due to the kids inherently looking up to you. So the consequences should be big for abusive parents. I’d rather some form of extreme monitoring and rehabilitation rather than separating the mom from her children. It’s just my opinion.

@hauntedshadowslegacy2826

6 ай бұрын

I'm just waiting for the day individuals can be held accountable for violating the thirty basic human rights. Try Ruby before the Hague. As for the extreme monitoring and rehabilitating, there's just no way. She's too far gone for any of that to truly do good. Those kids need safety and love, not more time around their abuser. If they're gonna have any chance at a relatively normal life, they need to spend it far away from Ruby, Kevin, Jodi, and the rest of their pro-abuse network of 'adults'. Not all parents deserve to be parents. Not all deserving parents are biologically related to the kids. Fck biology. Not having a mother would be better than having Ruby as a mother, even with 24/7 monitoring. Especially after how long DCFS bungled this case.

@auggiet8380

6 ай бұрын

Yeah, no…you literally just advocated for keeping children with their abusers. The utmost care and concern should be for the safety and comfort of the child, and keeping the child far away from their abuser(s), and the “rehabilitation” of the parent should be secondary, if that is even possible. I understand that false reports are made and investigations must occur, but cases like this are pretty cut and dry. I’m sorry but on this one, your opinion is wrong.

@klz9500

6 ай бұрын

NO NO NO. As a child of a sadistic mother I WISH someone took me away and never let her near me again. Why would you hope for her to continue to have access to those kids?

My yelling at children and animals consists of “HEY!”. It quickly gets their attention so I can speak to them or correct them at a normal volume.

@MsDormy

6 ай бұрын

I’m thinking of Francis McDormand playing William’s mother in ‘Almost Famous’ when her daughter uses the ‘F’ word! She does a great, indignant ‘Hey’! It’s a great film.

Happy new year and welcome back!

In my home growing up being sent to bed with out chow was always only a thing if we refused good food because we wanted something else. Not as a punishment. Kitchen was not a diner is all, we had a budget. But this is not that.

@trishayamada807

6 ай бұрын

If we didn’t want what was made, we had the option to make a bowl of cereal (we weren’t allowed sugar cereal) or a pb&j sandwich. I hated fish anything so it was cereal. We weren’t punished for not liking something.

@stacijohnson9575

6 ай бұрын

We would have to sit at the table until we finished everything. So I'd get around that by falling alseep

@gjheintzman

6 ай бұрын

@@trishayamada807 I know it seems harsh but we were poor. One time I refused to eat a bowl of tomato soup because the bowl had an onion on it. I hate onions. I was being unreasonable. I was taught discipline, not punished. When you live on the edge of survival the rules change. Some poors steal, some tighten it up.

@trishayamada807

6 ай бұрын

@@gjheintzman I grew up poor with only a mother. Single income 3 children. I get it and I still think it’s ridiculous to expect children to like what adults like. We know their tastes change. It’s normal development.

@gjheintzman

6 ай бұрын

@@trishayamada807 I disagree. I see the results of soft parenting in society everywhere.

And a lot of Jodi's teachings come from a book called How to Train Up a Child which has been responsible for at least three children dying. If someone suggests "blanket training" to you red flags should be going up.

She was so visibly a sadist. People did complain about her and those complaints were ignored.

So awesome to see you back. I’ll take any capacity of Derek in my life. lol

I went to bed last night thinking how her son didn't have his bed for months for doing one prank on a sibling....None of these children will be ok. With a ton of support and therapies and time they will move out of this mindset but when it's been drilled into you from birth, that's impossible to remove. We can only help and show real love.

Miss seeing your more long-form content like this!

Always good to see you again, this was fun to watch, thank goodness her kids are safe now. I hope the cops investigated the families that were following her channel or more importantly the ones who knew what they were watching and enjoyed it for that purpose.

Man, the caller sounds distressed, it must have been so sad too see a child in sych a state. So glad they were able to escape, who knows how long this would have lasted. I hope her fellow immates give her a little taste of her own medicine.

Your education comes first, don’t apologize….. everything you learn makes you better on here and in life. However, we appreciate your videos very much.

Food should never be used as a punishment or a reward. It’s just a necessity everybody needs it.

I'm stunned that children are so under protected. This woman gleefully shows her abuse and it takes how long for them to get help?

Best of luck to you Derek!

Welcome back D! Always love your content. Your absence was felt...

Ruby reminds me of a great white shark when she smiles

I felt guilty. Every time I raised my voice to my daughter. And most times I apologized I lost control. That was my fault not hers.

Youre the man Derek!! Been a fan for years! Will always be a Schaiker!!

I was so happy to see this notification! Great video, Derek. Wishing you the best of luck on your continued education and with future videos!

Love your videos and happy to watch them. Please keep sharing!

I hope you're well Derek, I've missed your content for some time now, was wondering if all was alright. Good to see you back and congrats on the masters!

Very grateful for what you are able to give us ❤

We appreciate the videos you're able to give us. This is a great one.

Love your videos Derek! Always fascinating and informative. Looking forward to the next one!

The father was in the house and he allowed it. I don’t understand why he isn’t charged as well.

Omg been waiting for the next video

Great to see a vid from you. Best of luck in finishing school.

Ur back. I love it!!! Thank you

Awesome one, thanks Derek, any are appreciated! Salute!

You have never showed up on my KZread feed until now! I am so thankful that I came across your video! I am now a subscriber.

my fav channel when it comes to this type of content. im a nurse and always interested in learning about people psychology

Excellent video. It was actually terrifying the way you put it together and provided all the examples. I can barely stand to look at her face with that laugh. Just so glad those kids can finally start the journey to heal.

I honestly dont care at all how often you post videos as long as you keep producing quality ones like this. I really enjoy your break down of everything we are seeing. I have a real issue in life in seeing the bad in people, I suppose because I would never want to hurt or use another person I just assume everyone feels that way. I never saw it coming when I was younger and I was often used and abused by people. Having this broken down for me helps me so much. For instance seeing Ruby's smile after saying those awful things, well to me it always just seemed like a nervous laugh. Now that you have pointed out how she is relishing her own sadistic behavior I can see it but I never noticed it for what it was in all the other clips from others covering this topic.

Great video, appreciate your hard work.

Fire video my guy, keep it up. Super descriptive and informative.

This is an Excellent, Informative, and Fascinating video! Thank You!

What's especially sad, but also fascinating, is how content the kids appear some of the time. The teen is talking about sleeping with no bed for months like it's something to laugh off. They're all chuckling getting knives for Christmas. It's destroying them, but they have been raised to see it as normal.

Yes, she's a sadist 100% you're the only one to say this- thank you! You're still my #1, thanks for always having such great content and welcome back!

Good to see you back. Great video as ever.

Video suggestion : the Turpin family

I'm so glad you did this because I have read about the case but have never seen videos!!😊

Missed your videos glad your back making them

Derek, you've got to do a video on Johnathan Majors' interview, good sir!

The moment she asked the school not to feed her daughter lunch and hoped the teacher didn’t feed her. All because she forgot to make lunch, she’s ten!!

@hadbetterdays8118

4 ай бұрын

At the time her daughter was six but that's messed up i remember times when I was a kid and plenty of times forgetting my lunch yet my mom was kind enough to bring it

Glad to have you back, Derek. Godspeed and blessings!

Thanks Derek. Always enjoy your work. You’re very good at what you do. Hope you are managing your classes and work load ok.

All good, Derek. I imagine studying in your field is quite extensive. Take all the time you need!

Love your videos. Thank you!

Wish you posted more often, 😢😢 love your videos ❤❤

I'd bet her husband is even worse. He certainly gives that impression.

@slatwang2033

6 ай бұрын

3:30 did you watch the video?

@evelynniemeyer1119

6 ай бұрын

He is in those 8 passengers videos. They had two million viewers who liked this way of parenting. Ken agreed everything she did. He was proud of his perfect family. The children were isolated. They were trapped in this family without the hope of help. Every step in that home was filmed and showed on the channel. For example this talk about the school. Their classmates could watch it. They had no privacy. Ruby told them she has to know everything. It is her home and everything belongs to her. Their home was too far away from those of their classmates. They were not allowed or punished to have a mobile. They could not walk to them. They had no friends and no chance to play with other children.

@gratefulguy4130

6 ай бұрын

​@@slatwang2033 She's the one they're allowed to talk about because she got caught. I'm sure they're all still intimidated by him.

@mellie4174

6 ай бұрын

I don't understand why he is not being punished too. He let it happen!

@giuliamorrell4466

6 ай бұрын

Let's hope he's not worse as he has 3 of the 4 kids. Ruby threw the young boy who escaped under the bus when she claimed he SA siblings and other kids and stated he was addicted to porn starting at age 3, so he is being kept away from other kids

The fact that Ruby's husband has not been arrested is beyond me. He is and was just as culpable as she is. He is on camera doing the same shit.