What My Family Wanted To Do To Me Because Of My Gender
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Nina Aouilk, our guest today on Unfiltered Stories, will share her tragic story with us. Nina was raised by a family that hated girls; as a result, she endured abuse, was sexually assaulted, and was nearly killed. She was subjected to brutality yet managed to escape death several times.
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@Sniffy0727
Жыл бұрын
Did she mention how old she was when this horrific thing happened?? If she did I'm sorry to ask again
@adlozi
Жыл бұрын
@@Sniffy0727 woman, don't be apologetic. You are free to ask anything as many times as you need.
@nancynahnigoh3550
Жыл бұрын
@@Sniffy0727 may be 9 years or more
@prasad9002
Жыл бұрын
So sad. Us indian girls lived in sexist homes. But this is horrible. Thanks for sharing
@liljade53
11 ай бұрын
@@prasad9002 is this a Hindu thing? doesn't Hinduism speak /teach against this behavior?
How do they think they got their boys? From a GIRL. This is beyond twisted and sick. What a strong girl she was and a strong, inspirational woman she has become.
@thorneeva5321
9 ай бұрын
Stupidity is often the breeding ground of evil
@T_r0525
8 ай бұрын
Mom was intimidated by her daughter. While the father was probably a perv.
@jultolentino7515
7 ай бұрын
Right strong woman,i appreciate fr. Telling her story to the free world where woman has right & freedom to live a normal life.alhamdulilla
@nicoleackerman205
7 ай бұрын
Like seriously how are you going to get the boys they desperately want if there are no woman to get pregnant with them.
@fefemyluv
5 ай бұрын
My exact thoughts. Like, are y’all just going to be gay? But that can’t fly either.
I refuse to call it a "culture" where this amount of abuse is considered normal life. My heart crumbled listening to this.
@lyndafaye6748
11 ай бұрын
ABUSE comes in all different religions. MY abuser was CATHOLIC! More than just love and prayers; I think she deserves to be put into a position whereupon she could FINANCIALLY help others too;I was thinking, that if each "independent and respected" mother in every country , could find a way to DONATE ONE DOLLAR to this lady's cause; SHE, of all "spokesmen" would know exactly what to do with those dollars ? At least American society has come to grips with providing safe havens and shelters; next job should be the protections of the street people, though ? SOME and MANY are females ? (Religion and Tradition?) Saudi Arabian women are still trying to escape abuse.! Make us wonder about that old attage "animals treat their young better than humans!?") I HOPE this channel continues to present believable "stories," . What a sweet lady; if all of this is true, she's quite brave, isn't she ? The "pace" t which she recollects these tragic experiences seems to add much to her sincerity. (Very believable.) Makes us wonder a bt about all of those trains that crashed in India recently, too. DID males not want to help injured females btw? Has NINA been given a lie detector test , also? Quite convincing, it does make some of us think twice about the concept of "not having control over what country" or "what culture " one is born in? There was one injured mother "featured" who said she watched her daughter die under a GIANT PIECE OF METAL. No men around to help with that ? Not to chivalrous? Yes, there's a song I always thought Reba should have never recorded; " Fancy", about the mother who sold her daughter into prostitution; For a Devout Christion, always seemed so hypocritical! MY ADVICE TO MEN IN GENERAL: And to male producers who said "you must change this to All Night Long" or people wont' listen to it...I SAY " You Missed THE POINT!" "Loving You All Day Long" by Ana Marie Ceuca, in French and Italian. LyndaFayeSmusic@yahoo. Global Women Against War and Abuse!
@totesmegoatscrystal9688
11 ай бұрын
This is why I don't believe it's wrong to not accept all cultures. Not all cultures should be accepted because of acts such as this. I can't stand people who say we must accept all cultures and when they see certain documentaries of tribes, they say, "Well it's their culture, so it's okay, we should respect it" NO
@deltastones6702
11 ай бұрын
@@totesmegoatscrystal9688what culture is that exactly?
@deltastones6702
11 ай бұрын
Your generalising a pedophile and his dysfunctional family and calling it a “culture”. The culture she is claiming to be from feeds homeless and are one of the kindest people on earth - Sikhs and Panjabis - look us up. I don’t know how true this girls account is - but when she says her culture- she seems to be playing the victim to ignorant people and I start to doubt her story. She can say my family was bad, I had a dysfunctional home…when is sexual abuse a part of any cultures and that to incest and rape? Sikhs are known to be proper…taking care of others - clearly she was born into a household that said they were Sikhs.
@golalehkamran9529
11 ай бұрын
What was wrong with your mother? Who are these people?
One of most terrifying stories I have ever heard. I knew that there are "cultures" who did not want daughters, but their mothers were daughters once - how is it possible that they participate in such horrible treatments of their own children...
@karimawatford269
10 ай бұрын
Exactly, it's the dumbest shit I've ever heard! It's extremely tragic that so many women go thru this in these different cultures all around the world. Those men need a taste of their own medicine. How can u not love ur children? I will never understand.
@ToriLynnH
10 ай бұрын
Abuse dues horrible things to your psyche.
@salimd7842
10 ай бұрын
Asian and African parents don't rape their daughters and don't treat them that way...This does not come from a culture, this comes from sick family... If we are talking about the number of fathers who rape their daughters, France and Europe are number one in this sh*t.
@feetpolice7135
10 ай бұрын
Theres actually a bollywood movie of that premise. I want to say the name of it is Angel Child or sometging like that, but its about a mother protecting her infant daughter from her family
@kaska1123
10 ай бұрын
Because she “rose to the top” and has established her place in a family. Some find more enjoyment into perpetuating a cycle than breaking it
The fact that she was deprived of the most basic love it's a wonder and a miracle to have turned out so well spoken. She deserves every bit of happiness she gets in this life
How can men do this??? How can anyone hate their daughter??? This woman is amazing.
@moonminimo4404
Жыл бұрын
My narc father hates me
@isacastillo6042
Жыл бұрын
It's not only men. Mothers perpetuate this...women really believe this is how it should be.
@theirishcailin333
Жыл бұрын
Remember her mother was no better!
@bluetickbeagles116
Жыл бұрын
Both men and women teach others that women are scum. It’s plastered everywhere in most religions. Women teach other women that they’re single purpose it to serve husbands, cook, clean, children and suck cocks. The 4 C’s. That’s all a woman is to societies. 😮
@solochica81
Жыл бұрын
Her mom was also beating her
This is one of the saddest and intense stories I've ever heard. How she overcame is absolutely incredible. What an amazing story and testimony. She is such a gift to humanity and so many women as she now helps so many. It's so inspiring. I'm so happy she somehow survived and is now able to tell her story.
@riaglo2472
Жыл бұрын
Your mother is a heartless witch. Omg
@londonslifecoach
Жыл бұрын
This is Nina thank you so much for your kind words I feel that my story needed to be told for awareness purposes. I have received so many messages from women from all around the world saying that this is the story thanking me for speaking out would really like as for everyone to look at what they can do themselves to make the world a better place, looking out for signs that I have pointed out, and for those who have suffered, and I’ll still suffering from any kind of trauma to know that there is light at the end of the tunnel . Sending love.
@ginnycee13
Жыл бұрын
Nina, you are so incredible brave and strong. This family of monsters didn't deserve you. I wish you all the luck and happiness in the world.
@GypsyGirl317
Жыл бұрын
@@londonslifecoach you are absolutely beautiful. 😍🌿 🙆🏻♀️ I'm so sorry for your experiences, and I'm so glad you have survived, and become the incredible woman you are today. ❤️ God bless you abundantly. 🥰
@londonslifecoach
Жыл бұрын
@@GypsyGirl317 we are all beautiful in our own unique ways. Never let anybody tell you anything different.
Her father is pure evil and her mother is just as bad, sickening!
@katierojas8066
Ай бұрын
Yes. That picture of her as a little girl, she was so precious!
She was born and raised in England and NOBODY noticed this kind of abuse??? really? i thought she was in India all the time?? what about the teachers, the neighbors anyone? So glad she told the world of her horrofic story! this woman is a warrior!! god bless her❤❤ to the disgusting people who did this to her- go and rot in hell, i hope they get what they deserve one day...
@Apryll.
7 ай бұрын
the teachers and the neighbors didnt care and its just as simple as that
@janetblanc7658
5 ай бұрын
I don't think she got to go to school and probably never saw the neighbours. She was more or less confined to her room.
@LauraQ17
5 ай бұрын
Yes it does happen! I worked and lived in London for a family from Sri Lanka and the father was beating his three sons every day so badly and from about 10 people who worked there only two of us stood for those boys! Others did not seem to care at all. It is a long story - police and social workers were called. I had to leave that job but I am so happy we managed to help these little boys.
@janetblanc7658
5 ай бұрын
@@LauraQ17 well done Laura. I don't understand people turning a blind eye to child abuse.
@marylooshiran4735
4 ай бұрын
I work with the children in France, teachers must report any négligence and abuse. There are psychologues at the schools and nurses. One night an immigrant child told me her parents killed her sisters before leaving the country. Then the pension and help of goverment gave many rights to the girls of thet family. Indian government must protect the girls and helping ladies.
Sometimes you think you’re struggling but when you hear a story like this, your struggling is nothing compared to this
@AotearoaAnge
Жыл бұрын
100%
@veroniquecastel9582
Жыл бұрын
Experiencing pain and suffering is not a competition 🙄
@eraldadevole
Жыл бұрын
@@veroniquecastel9582 it is not, pain and suffering isn’t something to compare HOWEVER it is eye opening and helpful to many because it is human nature to sometimes focus too much on the negative and forget what you do have that others don’t even have that.
@Me-wy5yc
Жыл бұрын
@@eraldadevole I totally agree. I felt the same way. Next time I’m feeling sorry for myself/circumstances I’ll remember this.
@Z.Nuriii
Жыл бұрын
@Veronique Castel It's not about competition, rather perspective! We hear these stories about amazing survivors that didn't give up and our own dont seem as bad compared but they also inspire us to also keep going.
The amount of pain this woman went through in her life is unbelievable 💔
@sandrabauer1037
Жыл бұрын
Not allowed friends keep to your self so everything he says you ave to believe. Men brain wash women.Even God being a man angers me. I won't be ruled by a man! My feelings are all men must pay for 1 man's abuse.Hell must be their destiny.
@sandrabauer1037
Жыл бұрын
I don't know how she survived except God must have had a mission in mind for her.Something good will come of this all. Wait for Carma in all directions big and small for all intended.
@AA-mg3xr
Жыл бұрын
@@sandrabauer1037 yes definitely, she will get her justice
How evil can some people be? How can families treat their child this way or any other human being? Slaves, organ harvesting, sex trafficking and honor killings? How can people exist that keep this going? 😡
@sb416
10 ай бұрын
Demons and the devil
@serenityssolace
10 ай бұрын
With the approval of Joe Biden and the US government protecting child sex trafficking circles and also funding them
@sapnameena9178
10 ай бұрын
This is India . As Indian mother to a girl . I know it still happening
@ashleyshim2078
9 ай бұрын
@@sapnameena9178Omg😮
@amishachaudhary6332
9 ай бұрын
@@sapnameena9178 no need to say this is India !! She's not even indian she did not grew up here in india ,, her parents' aren't indian or to be precise they aren't Punjabi....it happens everywhere dont just generalise it saying that this is India !! Rather say those are devils who let her down ....and as far as i know devils don't own any nationality and culture , they're just there for bad ........
Her parents do not deserve to be alive, and they certainly don't deserve such a powerful, strong, resilient woman to be their daughter. How someone who has been broken inside and out again and again can not only survive all the abuse but find the strenght to talk about it is beyond my understanding, but I am amazed by this beautiful woman. Nina, you're a true hero if ever I saw one. May the rest of your days be blessed with all the love you deserve.
I'll never understand how a 6yo who has only just gotten a good grasp on social and motor skills is expected to cook entire meals for a family of five. I'm so sorry for the way you were treated by your parents and brothers. My heart goes out to you ❤
@egwthe1
11 ай бұрын
Many of us had to cook and clean at that age. My sister and I were 6 and 7 and we were cooking and cleaning. If we did not have the house.cleaned we would get beat up. Plus there were 4 more kids to look after.
@MattyNelson-rs3ik
11 ай бұрын
Well ,,,think of slavery in America ,how young black children had to work the cotton fields at an early age,and do God alone knows what.
@salehakhatoon3338
11 ай бұрын
@avelina roman which country??
@Cherilen83
11 ай бұрын
@Matty Nelson think about any other color people that have had this going on. NOT JUST ONE COLOR HAS BEEN ABUSED OR ENSLAVED OR RAPED
@evelyncrouch1273
11 ай бұрын
Gender based violence to girls. How do they decide which ones to destroy. Wives, mothers, where do they get them. When do they get a education.
Her father's actions & hate defies any reason. How did he get into this world? A woman, a mother gave him life! Heartbreaking to the max! This gal is amazing to come out on the other side with so much love!
@carrier7399
10 ай бұрын
A DEMON!
@backintimealwyn5736
10 ай бұрын
it's a very common situation out of western paradise. Look it up. It's the norm.
@sherryhays8470
10 ай бұрын
@@backintimealwyn5736😢
@sherryhays8470
10 ай бұрын
😢😮😢 3:04
@morgan_w05
10 ай бұрын
He might get it from his fam culture too, i bet he and his parents were treating his sisters the same as he treated nina, that to be born become women is a curse, just listen when nina said her two brothers eventually beat her too and yelled "honor killing!". Nina's brothers will become just like her father too, its all circle chain until something/someone cut them off.
Never in my life have I been so full of rage as I am at your “parents.” My soul was shaken and I am so proud of you
@lindsayboykin
7 ай бұрын
yeh that's kind of where i'm at too is i'm struggling with anger toward some of the characters in this situation
May she be protected and covered. It’s disgusting how she’s still getting death threats.
@BridgetWalker-xu8sw
Ай бұрын
She needs protection from the god that allowed this to happen to her.
This is horrible. NO CHILD should have to go through this! Im disgusted. How she found strength to share is amazing!!
@londonslifecoach
Жыл бұрын
Kandi, I am thankful for your comment and appreciate you watching this interview which was created with the intention that we all deserve to be treated with basic human rights and dignity
@syzygy4365
Жыл бұрын
Correct that, no PERSON should ever have to suffer like this.
@wendyworsley2131
Жыл бұрын
Your an amazing lady,and a wonderful mother,be proud of yourself xx
@user-mf9gi5yx3j
Жыл бұрын
Omg I'm British & for you to gofru that in the UK but anywhere makes me feel sick to my core. I want to cuddled you & tell you how brave you are . This is horrible. ! God wtf is wrong with these people. 1 brave lady you are just fabulous & is end lots of love to you
@nickda1
Жыл бұрын
@@londonslifecoach Im so sorry you had to go through that and im so pleased you found a way out and your Children sound so lovely keep going your doing amazing
How can a father do this to his own child? Now the child they desperately wanted to kill has thrived and she is doing well. Nina, keep that spirit burning, go, go girl👏👏
@euphoria156
10 ай бұрын
🙁😠THIS WOMAN is a LIAR. SHAME on YOU. She says in most Asian n African countries are not allowed to this and that..... listen from here @45 this agenda AGAINST Indians and Africans could be a POLITICAL move against these countries as these countries are under LEASE (India NEVER got FREEDOM from BRITAIN, its under 100yrs of LEASE) of these TYRANT UK Royals. Because soon UK will rule India etc countries AGAIN after the least is over. and what to look good in front of them and world that its BETTER if Brits RULE them than India be on its on/Free. This woman's family was criminal and crazy who made her do all these things. Even when girls were considered lower than boys they were not kept inside home till age 6 etc. She is making all Indians look bad so that UK could look good that thank god UK culture saved her! Now many BOUGHT out ppl just like her will comment says its true , happened to me as well. Well, then YOUR parents are Criminals, they are NOT Normal and its NOT a Common thing to happen in India. Such parents are there in USA and other European countries also and they are called "child abusers" which could be a girl or a boy.
@GILLIANMOOR-ed9ii
10 ай бұрын
With out a woman there are no baby's.
@greenapple1039
10 ай бұрын
How can a mother do it to her own child she grew it?
@halimasyambo5685
10 ай бұрын
@@greenapple1039 my question precisely
@empressoftheuniverse1312
8 ай бұрын
🎉Sat Nam Wahey Guru🙏🏻🧡🙏🏻🎉
I wonder how many women she’s saved with her message? She is such a beautiful woman. There are angels living amongst us.
@londonslifecoach
9 ай бұрын
It’s Nina, we have had 12k messages asking for help and then a further 2 -3k in the last few weeks. My message is that any victim or survivor isn’t alone ❤
This is the saddest thing ever omg. It’s disgusting how women are treated.. how we’ve always been treated throughout time. There would be no life without us!! We bring life into this world! We should be honored and respected not treated like an abomination. Breaks my heart what this woman (and many many MANY others) are treated discarded like trash!! DISGUSTING.
I just cant get my head around how your own family, parents can treat their own children like this!...Blows my mind! Evil! Uncivilised!
@backintimealwyn5736
10 ай бұрын
they can, very easyly actualy. you don't know how good you have it.
@lizs179
10 ай бұрын
Most part of the world IS uncivilised. Even within communities that consider themselves as such.
@faithahora
10 ай бұрын
satan and his demons rule most of the world. USA was founded by Christians who know Jesus and how to deal with satan's kingdom of darkness to keep such evil away.
@Cynfin55
10 ай бұрын
But in this culture, It’s the norm. In western It’s not!!! You go to jail for that!
As a south asian woman myself, I also went through some similar things and am still fighting against my "father" who is my abuser. He's a monster Edit: Thank you all so much for the support, I am away from him, It's a much longer story but I am safe
@nancynahnigoh3550
Жыл бұрын
Abuser without sexual abused is better to say even you can feel the pain for being beaten or get scolded by harsh words yet sexual abused is the worst among actions that worst itself
@ruby4751
Жыл бұрын
@@nancynahnigoh3550 I was sexually abused by him too
@kerriewithpurpose5722
Жыл бұрын
Wait a minute...he is still abusing you sexually????
@narengee6564
Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness pls seek help from someone whom you can trust i hope you will get the freedom you deserve
@barneyronnie
Жыл бұрын
Find somebody to 'handle the problem. '😮
She's so young looking, born in 1970. She's like 50 years old. This is crazy. Her story is wild. All of these men were doing a lot.Her mom was doing terribly.
@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327
7 ай бұрын
What? You’re kidding! I thought she was in her thirties!
@Marie-pb2zy
7 ай бұрын
She's using a filter. If you watch other videos you can see the wrinkles. She is still very beautiful -inside and out
How someone can reject their own child just because they're not the desired gender is beyond mind blowing. Some of us would do anything to have a child. My heart goes out to you miss. My ex who unfortunately took his life in 2016 was also Indian and he was abandoned by his parents in a train station in Calcutta and put in an orphanage where he was beaten, starved, and tied up like a dog. I just can't understand why someone can be so cruel to a helpless child
These individuals NEED to be charged, even if it is an historical crime. Names, names, names will protect OTHER women.
@jasminedemir7962
11 ай бұрын
100% agree. Sometimes it can feel like you're just gossiping about what someone did to you and maybe you should just keep quiet. But the thing is that if they do it to you, they probably will do it to other people too. I wish someone warned me about some of the people I let in my life.
@Mercmad
11 ай бұрын
The great Tommy Robinson has been working for years to expose this type of horror in England 😢
@celinebessem7684
11 ай бұрын
So sad can't hold my tears
@sicsempertyrannis4351
11 ай бұрын
It's Islam. I don't understand why so many of you people can't get this through your heads. So long as Islam exists in the world, women are in danger. It's Islam, not men, who are responsible for this. If you don't like her story, speak up against Islam.
@nickislade5533
11 ай бұрын
@@sicsempertyrannis4351 where’s the islam ? Her family is Indian probably hindu.
This brought my to tears, I’m 19. I’m sikh and my family hates me because I’m a girl ; all the things she said about the names she was called. I was aswell. I was often called a prostitute, bitch and so on. My father and my aunt strangled me; I ended up in foster care and now I’m estranged from my whole family.
@chaimomma9198
Жыл бұрын
When men want to have sex with you they call you names and strangely enough old abused survivor women turn on you too. This is common behavior in all cultures but in Biden’s world it’s very protected.
@LT-yx6nb
Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you suffered from such evil, horrible people. I’m glad you are away from them and are in safety. I hope for nothing but the best for you going forward, the trauma you lived through has only made you stronger. Stay focused, love yourself, build yourself up and live a life of purpose. I am certain that your life will be a happy and wonderful one from here on. My best wishes and if you ever need someone to talk to, you can reach out to me. We, women, should elevate and uplift one another, especially in times of trouble and need. Stay strong and resilient, you are a warrior ❤
@Jasmine_Bindra
Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear this story and yours. I’m also Sikh and this is utterly heartbreaking. You both deserved so much better than this. Nothing can change what happened as unfair as that is but please know that you have your entire life ahead of you. You will find people that will be family to you even if not by blood and you will heal and grow and I pray you will find a sense of peace and happiness. I went through a lot as a kid too, although nothing remotely as horrific as Nina but it reached a peak for me at 17 and I moved out of my family home. I’m almost 30 now and am 100% independent. As hard as everything must seem right now, I promise life moves forward if you allow it to. ♥️
@danarzechula3769
Жыл бұрын
Oh sweetheart you are better off without these evil people in your life. You have inherent worth. You are beautiful. You are loved.
@dianamathurin2661
Жыл бұрын
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Those men are beasts ,even those women who help abuse are beasts. Sister ,you are amazing ,you are great ,you are a priceless treasure.
This is one of the most horrific stories I’ve heard .This woman is an angel ❤❤❤
I wouldn't even call them family to be honest. Shame on everyone who let you down. There's no "honour" in any of this. Your a true survivor ❤❤❤
@aaishaaa76
7 ай бұрын
🥹
This woman is the epitome of courage. Her resilience from her experiences has earned her a crown of glory.
@Sthmohtwenty
Жыл бұрын
And how u know it's true....she look fab ...
@ssmythe61
Жыл бұрын
You are the Honor in this world! You are The Love in this world. You are an Earth Angel. You are true inspiration and I am Thanking you for All of your courage and strength. You are what it means to be a human being and Woman!! I Love you!! This feeling I have just listening to your story is what love is. Keep doing everything you are doing. Women matter, girls matter, and children matter. Thank you!
@suzannegaglie6146
Жыл бұрын
Everything she said
@sicsempertyrannis4351
11 ай бұрын
Then why doesn't she have the courage to name Islam, and instead blames men and patriarchy? This is ISLAM.
@deiov
10 ай бұрын
@@sicsempertyrannis4351 You're a crazy, horrible men and the women who enabled it are to blame. Blaming religion those justify those terrible behaviors is typical behavior. She never even mentioned Islam, which showcases your ignorance. And In fact, Islam directly condemns the killing of baby girls (just as she talked) Whenever one of them is given the good news of a baby girl, his face grows gloomy, as he suppresses his rage.(Quran 16:58) He hides from the people because of the bad news he has received. Should he keep her in disgrace, or bury her ˹alive˺ in the ground? Evil indeed is their judgment! (Quran 16:59) Quran 81:8-9): “When the female (infant), buried alive, is questioned, for what crime she was killed? May Allah ﷻ (The One and Only God) punish these wrenched beings to the deepest depths of hell.
That's why social workers should be hired to inspect every freaking household in every freaking neighborhood because these kids are isolated and don't know how to ask for help. No one deserves to come to this world just to suffer
What planet am I on? How can this possibly be happening in a western country? Where are the laws? We need to unite for the victims and see them, they exist, we need to see them and help them. What a testimony!
As horrifying as this story is, you’re helping us to understand that these atrocities are happening worldwide including the western world. Thank you for raising our awareness
@halroxdynasty8683
Жыл бұрын
For real. I'm so shocked and saddened hearing these stories...but not surprised, there are bad people in this world.
@Mrscarricom
Жыл бұрын
I'm glad you picked up on that. This behavior has men literally killing women daily. This is why women have a problem with men who want them to be submissive. A good man doesn't need you to submit a controlling man does.
@mandiblackwell4668
Жыл бұрын
I survived CSA since age 6 also and I grew up in the US in a mainly white upper middle class suburban area. Abuse happens everywhere, even behind white picket fences... and those perfect dads still punish girls like me for being abused/existing, too. I'm just thankful my dad never SA'd me, I dont think I would have survived to adulthood.
@BlindedNumen
Жыл бұрын
India is really a horrible place
@PinkSparklerToontown
11 ай бұрын
It's only happening in the west because these animals move there
This story enrages me - I can’t believe how any human being could participate in or cover up such abuse. Much less can I understand that multiple families could be so morally degenerate.
@sweetvictory5643
Жыл бұрын
Such ugly monsters from India and other countries where girls have no value are given visas to democratic societies. And they become citizens of such societies. It should never have happened. I was told another story about a family from India who emigrated to Canada. The mother wanted her son to marry a daughter of a wealthy family in India, but he married a beautiful young girl from a poor family there. So, his nasty mother mistreated her horribly, every day telling her son bad things about the girl and her son grew to hate that poor girl too. Awful people...
@zahras1492
Жыл бұрын
They denied her humanity and decided she was evil. Of course, whenever this happens, it's the people who think this way that loose their humanity and act evil. I stopped at the mention of rape. I feel sick, as if I was there and not doing anything. People must have known around that it wasn't alright. Why the heck they didn't stop it even before it started?!!!!
@amberlaplante6210
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely terrible!! ...how could her mom just let it happen...if they treated their daughter like that, why didn't they treat the mom like that!?
@katanasharp2866
Жыл бұрын
@@amberlaplante6210 She was brainwashed I believe, she likely grew up the same way as her daughter. Some who grow up that way end up becoming abusive to protect themselves from the pain they endured while growing up, as some kind of coping mechanism. It is weird but the brain can get really fucked up by trauma. also if you grow up in a community where everyone is doing it, you will see it as norm....
@deniseganey6890
Жыл бұрын
@@zahras1492It these cultures who hold onto barbaric traditions and are not help accountable. The Parents , Brothers, Male companions of the father should've been Prosecuted,put in Prison, and Deported. All property and Money Seized. Restitution made to the Girls harmed.
What on EARTH am I hearing, right now?! I don't understand this. Like, I just don't. There would be no men without women. And as a woman, your mother, mil, sil...no one could sympathize?! This is beyond horrible. Such a beautiful spirit.
Simply amazing how some men can hear about this woman's abuse and then think that they are going to be the next one to abuse her, as is the case with the man who became her ''partner'' later one...
@candlerosemint
7 ай бұрын
Narcissits and psychopaths can smell abuse victims from a mile away, similar to sharks swimming towards the scent of blood.
@joannajourneys
7 ай бұрын
Yes. Very sad but true...@@candlerosemint
I will never get how there are so many people out there, doing awful things like that. My heart goes out to all of those who suffer under such abuse.
@sicsempertyrannis4351
11 ай бұрын
Muslims.
This woman is proof… that we as women are stronger than we think… “No one should go through any of the abuse this woman was subjected too”
@nancygibson604
11 ай бұрын
Terrifying
@haydenandrews3694
11 ай бұрын
Not really a good take away from the story we just heard. This is just the opposite of “ women are stronger than we think”. with the exception of Nina, and maybe one other most of the women in the story are quite disgusting. The men are also atrocious but they have never been a little girl and can’t relate to that position. These women can totally relate to what it was like to be a little girl, and their disgusting fear and selfishness is so large that it would actually allow them to stand by and watch the abuse of a minor to this level. Everyone within a 20 mile radius of the story should be in jail for life or worse.
@ITALJUTE
11 ай бұрын
Women are stronger than men. Let me say that again. Women are stronger than men. This is why many men feel the need to control women. It is their fear of the woman's power. Especially when women form a group, say like sisters who are united, or strong female friends standing together. That terrifies many if not most men. This is why controlling men seek to isolate women from other women. All men have over women is our physical power. That's really it. We're not more intelligent. We're not wiser. We're not more spiritual. We're just (generally) physically stronger. And, do you know what? My acknowledgment of that, as a man, actually makes me stronger as a human. But, I'm a human who understands that I would be nowhere without the strong woman who holds my family together.
@ITALJUTE
11 ай бұрын
@@haydenandrews3694 No, what you're doing is blaming the victim. You're not seeing the big picture, which is that all of those women had also grown up in the same severely misogynistic patriarchy.
@SantanaCampbell
11 ай бұрын
No woman goes to Heaven WITHOUT being abused! The saints prove it!
I went thru domestic violence relationships.I was almost killed twice by abusive men.Thank God he delivered me.This young lady went through unimaginable abuse from family and the man in her life.I am just shocked by her story.Thank God she got out with her children and was able to rebuild her life.🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹
I’m so hurt watching this. You was literally a baby when this began !! I have a 5 year old child and the thought of anyone doing this to them makes my heart bleed and blood boil. You must’ve been so scared and confused. I’m so sorry you went through this. I wish I could hug you. You are an amazing person. Stay strong and never take shit from anyone!! Lots of hugs ❤
Her family should be prosecuted for their awful crimes. Didnt all this happen in London? How are her parents and brother(s) and the men who raped her as a child walking free??? And what about her "partner"? As much as I despise the men who abused her, its her mother who most sets my teeth on edge.
@Aleksamson
11 ай бұрын
"How could this happen in London?" Well it's happening allover UK. Honour killings, child brides or grooming gangs raping underage girls on industrial scale...because multiculturalism. Social services, police, institutions, authorities,...the whole society is ignoring, pretending, looking the other way -out of fear. Diversity, inclusion, anti racism is paralyzing. People are dreading being labeled as racist.
@eddiewood7573
11 ай бұрын
The mother and all those who harmed/abused this young woman are all the same, flooded in evil!!
@kasperorganics-organiccott6881
11 ай бұрын
The mother was probably similarly raised and abused and so it may have seemed normal to her. She was probably full of self hatred and had shame and hatred of her own gender. It's a cycle that repeats itself until someone breaks out of it.
@marilynhemming3429
11 ай бұрын
Why are these so called parents and their “ friends” who did this to this poor girl allowed to remain living in England ?????
@courtneyhawkins4072
11 ай бұрын
They create their own communities so they’re protected by each other.
What an incredible brave woman. When she said “ I looked down and saw a puddle of tears and thought I can dance or drown in that puddle” blew me away. I hope Nina has a fantastic life and other people in a similar situation hear her words and get help.
@MattyNelson-rs3ik
11 ай бұрын
I pray that s h e got the deep therapy she needs for healing
She spoke well sounds good education.born in seventies in 90 young women for me hard to believe that she stayed in a abused environment she is living in UK
A very good reminder that not all cultures are equal and that no matter how much time passes, how much effort is made for change, they will stay the same and never evolve.
The amount of pure evil that this woman endured deeply saddens and angers me!!! She's an incredible, strong, and beautiful woman and I hope she continues to share her story and it helps other girls that are being abused seek help! 😢
@AllUserNamesAreUsed
Жыл бұрын
It's not "pure evil" it's just men being men. It's not spiritual It's how men are allowed to act because rather than holding them accountable people blame "evil"
@aabracadavra
Жыл бұрын
@@AllUserNamesAreUsed You're right. Accountability is something that has been escaping men for centuries. I've noticed that it's now trendy among immature, self proclaimed alpha males to invert the truth by yet again taking the focus away from their lack of accountability and accusing women of it instead. Which is hilarious.
@Me-wy5yc
Жыл бұрын
It IS PURE EVIL. There are men who would never think nor would do this. They will get their reward. Sooner or later in some fashion.
@charleycleo
Жыл бұрын
I was so angry listening to her ordeal. I could not finish listening.
@sicsempertyrannis4351
11 ай бұрын
It's just average Islam.
I cant imagine how people are so cruel. How can people say women are "bad luck or cursed" when everyone is born from a FEMALE! Thank you so much for your story. You are a beautiful person. A true survivor. I was feeling down & decided to listen to your story. WoW! Omg! Still crying! I feel so much better! Keep telling your story! Thank you!
@shawnahall7246
Жыл бұрын
I know it makes no sense, but they know the universe is divine feminine and they can’t deal with it
@dontworryaboutit4255
Жыл бұрын
It's because the devil. They have been scared into it for so long by the evil in the world. If they don't do it then it will be done to them, like she said. If everyone stopped doing it all at once then it wouldn't happen anymore but that's not gonna happen until the Lord comes back.
@SynthoidSounds
Жыл бұрын
It's a function of idiotic, primitive "traditional" culture, immersed in pseudo-religion to escape any responsibility for such cruel behaviors, being an acceptable norm. This is the sort of predatory lunacy that many of the "developing" world immigrants bring with them into the civilized world they try to establish themselves in. And people wonder why there might be some push back against such immigration influx on a perpetually massive scale. She has managed to survive an unimaginable ordeal, and come out strong and thriving, infinite respect.
@IkesPimpHand
Жыл бұрын
@@shawnahall7246"divine feminine" 🤣🤣🤣 oh my god the insane cope
@triciakekana
Жыл бұрын
Dude talk about cruelty
This woman is so beautiful and pure. Protect her at all costs. She is so resilient and strong. Keep speaking up and never give up. We love you Nina!
I’m astonished that you survived this appalling ordeal. I hope the rest of your life is blessed. Thank you for telling the world your story.
As a mom it seems natural to protect your children- I can’t comprehend an entire culture of women not protecting their children from abuse( rape, arranged marriage, slaves,physical and emotional abuse.) This is one of the most horrific stories I’ve heard! The strength and determination of this woman is beyond amazing! Through her pain she has even found a way to help other girls! May she and her children continue to heal and live a life of happiness moving forward!
@londonslifecoach
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words
@thedinnerparty4795
Жыл бұрын
It is those very men who have been coming into our country without passports who do this sort of thing as it is accepted in their society.
@Rosierx1
Жыл бұрын
I do not understand this either. They all deserve to rot in hell
@binhmach9397
Жыл бұрын
Understand those females themselves probably go through the same thing that Nina has went through, so how can they know better?
@surgeryjenny9533
Жыл бұрын
Isn't it crazy that her father hated her for being a girl, when it's the male that chooses the sex of the child.
Dear Nina, I can't even comprehend how you went through so much horror. I'm a Nigerian and on behalf of Nigerians, I sincerely apologize for the way that monster treated you. I'm so sorry ma'am. ❤
@gp2455
11 ай бұрын
You are a very kind human being ❤
@MetaKnight964
11 ай бұрын
Kuyet Nina: First you don't speak for Nigerians, second being nigerian isn't a reason to apologize.
@Kuyetgaiya
11 ай бұрын
@@MetaKnight964 Ok. I've heard you. However I'm sure you'd realize the apology is for what she went through not because of the nationality.
@luciaconn6788
11 ай бұрын
She seems this beautiful, strong woman then her story, that would've driven most women mad. The love in her heart is so special, may God protect and keep her always.
@Tigra59
11 ай бұрын
I think it's lovely what you said.. of course it's not the fault of all Nigerians... but to think that one of your countrymen behaved in such a way is embarrassing. Some behaviour is cultural...especially men being aggressive to women just because of their gender.
If your reading this, please say a prayer now over her and all those suffering at the hands of men like her father and x. 🙏💞
The mom’s friend quickly telling her to ask security for help at the airport gave me chills…it’s like she knew what was happening was wrong and wanted to help, but didn’t want to be victimized by those horrible people as well. Nina you’re an amazing and inspiring person, the horror you overcame is heartbreaking and saying that you’re incredibly strong is an understatement. Nothing but love and healing to you and your children ❤️ They’re so lucky to have a warrior as a mother
Im a guy and I'm really disgusted with her father and brothers, that I wish I was there to beat these Coward to a pulp. Nonetheless, this woman has become a lot stronger and more wise. I embrace her story and support her and Women's right. 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💞💓💓💓💓💓💓
@dynogamergurl
11 ай бұрын
I’d be right there with you to help lend a hand,fist or foot 🤟🏼💖
@lyndafaye6748
11 ай бұрын
@@dynogamergurl btw. ABUSE comes in all different religions. MY abuser was CATHOLIC! More than just love and prayers; I think she deserves to be put into a position whereupon she could FINANCIALLY help others too;I was thinking, that if each "independent and respected" mother in every country , could find a way to DONATE ONE DOLLAR to this lady's cause; SHE, of all "spokesmen" would know exactly what to do with those dollars ? At least American society has come to grips with providing safe havens and shelters; next job should be the protections of the street people, though ? SOME and MANY are females ? (Religion and Tradition?) Saudi Arabian women are still trying to escape abuse.! Make us wonder about that old attage "animals treat their young better than humans!?") I HOPE this channel continues to present believable "stories," . What a sweet lady; if all of this is true, she's quite brave, isn't she ? The "pace" t which she recollects these tragic experiences seems to add much to her sincerity. (Very believable.) Makes us wonder a bt about all of those trains that crashed in India recently, too. DID males not want to help injured females btw? Has NINA been given a lie detector test , also? Quite convincing, it does make some of us think twice about the concept of "not having control over what country" or "what culture " one is born in? There was one injured mother "featured" who said she watched her daughter die under a GIANT PIECE OF METAL. No men around to help with that ? Not to chivalrous? Yes, there's a song I always thought Reba should have never recorded; " Fancy", about the mother who sold her daughter into prostitution; For a Devout Christion, always seemed so hypocritical! MY ADVICE TO MEN IN GENERAL: And to male producers who said "you must change this to All Night Long" or people wont' listen to it...I SAY " You Missed THE POINT!" "Loving You All Day Long" by Ana Marie Ceuca, in French and Italian. LyndaFayeSmusic@yahoo. Global Women Against War and Abuse!
"I was not born into love, but I was love itself" hit me like a mac truck. Nina's the definition of a survivor
@eeeeks
11 ай бұрын
I absolutely don’t know how she survived. What a strong woman. She truly is incredible 💪👏👏👏❤️
@jeannalalchan
10 ай бұрын
You too. may. have. an inspiring story or. ebook to. write.
@geraldinebrewington1739
10 ай бұрын
An amazing young woman. May God our creator uplift and sustain her ability in ministering to hearts who areneed to experience the amazing touch others who are in desperate need of a loving and merciful Savior.
My heart is truly breaking for this young lady. How horrific she has lived through a living nightmare. May you find eternal peace. And you will. Thank you for being so brave
Her family was absolutely vile. The culture behind it is absolutely horrific.
@southernpaganprincess7739
10 ай бұрын
The people not the culture. It’s not a culture who rapes their children. It’s horrific people who rape and abuse their children.
@valeriezack8986
10 ай бұрын
God Bless you & your children Nina! What an over comer. May God use you mightily? 🙏
@sonicajindal8685
10 ай бұрын
These things still happen in India. When you'll come here you'll find out what a pathetic and despicable country it really is. In many regards, it is even worse than African countries.
@jodiegillespie1679
10 ай бұрын
How are people this evil??? And that many people?
@southernpaganprincess7739
10 ай бұрын
@@jodiegillespie1679 the real problem here is that these kind of people don’t get challenged. Can you imagine how many men were turned onto this child before even one of them said no or even thought to do anything about it? Let alone how many other children are out there being treated like this?
I can’t believe Nina survived these horrible monsters. I pray that her future is full of love, health, fortune, freedom and joy.
@paulineyoung1710
Жыл бұрын
Thanks God for you
@pilarq7886
11 ай бұрын
You mean demons
@sicsempertyrannis4351
11 ай бұрын
Believe it, it's Islam. And it happens every day everywhere Muslims are not held to account. Particularly in the UK. Look up Rotherham and how they've been turning kids into street vendor meat for over half a century and the police are too afraid to be called racist to do anything, despite the overwhelming proof. Literally covering it up. It's Islam.
That’s just horrific 😮 How could a parent do this and allow this to happen?!?
This is one of the most upsetting things I have ever listened to. Nina, you are one of the most beautiful, intelligent and inspiring women I have ever had the pleasure of coming across and I wish you all the success in the world for you and your children. You are so brave and I am so proud of you for sharing this story. Nobody should feel ashamed because of the way that they are and how they were born.
What a sick family 😢 so sorry for the abuse you faced and thank you for telling your story.
@londonslifecoach
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Linda, I hope people will watch and see that they themselves can make a difference even just by being kind to another person
@sweetvictory5643
Жыл бұрын
@@londonslifecoach Nina, I feel like I would kill all those monsters who were cruel to you, including your mother. Sorry that you had all those monsters in your life...
@deanf7086
Жыл бұрын
@@londonslifecoach Hello Nina! My mind is struggling to a actually comprehend the nightmare I just heard. How you have any sanity left is a miracle. I have profound feeling of helplessness that is unquenchable. I know I’m not alone in saying I love you and pray for you and yours joy and peace for all your days. May God bless you and your mission.
@lyndafaye6748
11 ай бұрын
@@londonslifecoach btw. ABUSE comes in all different religions. MY abuser was CATHOLIC! More than just love and prayers; I think she deserves to be put into a position whereupon she could FINANCIALLY help others too;I was thinking, that if each "independent and respected" mother in every country , could find a way to DONATE ONE DOLLAR to this lady's cause; SHE, of all "spokesmen" would know exactly what to do with those dollars ? At least American society has come to grips with providing safe havens and shelters; next job should be the protections of the street people, though ? SOME and MANY are females ? (Religion and Tradition?) Saudi Arabian women are still trying to escape abuse.! Make us wonder about that old attage "animals treat their young better than humans!?") I HOPE this channel continues to present believable "stories," . What a sweet lady; if all of this is true, she's quite brave, isn't she ? The "pace" t which she recollects these tragic experiences seems to add much to her sincerity. (Very believable.) Makes us wonder a bt about all of those trains that crashed in India recently, too. DID males not want to help injured females btw? Has NINA been given a lie detector test , also? Quite convincing, it does make some of us think twice about the concept of "not having control over what country" or "what culture " one is born in? There was one injured mother "featured" who said she watched her daughter die under a GIANT PIECE OF METAL. No men around to help with that ? Not to chivalrous? Yes, there's a song I always thought Reba should have never recorded; " Fancy", about the mother who sold her daughter into prostitution; For a Devout Christion, always seemed so hypocritical! MY ADVICE TO MEN IN GENERAL: And to male producers who said "you must change this to All Night Long" or people wont' listen to it...I SAY " You Missed THE POINT!" "Loving You All Day Long" by Ana Marie Ceuca, in French and Italian. LyndaFayeSmusic@yahoo. Global Women Against War and Abuse!
This is so beyond evil.. wow how could a culture do this to an innocent girl.. sending you love ❤️
@londonslifecoach
Жыл бұрын
I receive the love you kindly shared. Thank you
@sladkydevotchka
Жыл бұрын
I'd just say, don't lump an entire country with MULTIPLE cultures into one. Her story is valid and heartbreaking, but please don't apply it to the culture itself. That's racist and unfair. She's speaking her truth, but her experience is not the experience of every Indian female, and we need to remember that violence and evil of this kind is not limited to any one culture.
@GameChanger597
Жыл бұрын
@@sladkydevotchkaYou are ignoring the point she made. It IS part of that culture to disregard girls as worthless- that's not racist, it's a fact. Obviously it doesn't mean that every one within that culture feels that way but yes, it is part of their culture and it's not racist to state facts. China does the same thing. They have murdered so many baby girls over several decades that this generation is in a crisis right now and doesn't even have enough women to marry the men available. Chinese men are literally marrying dead women( yes look it up) and shipping women in from surrounding countries so the Chinese men can get married. So please don't lump in facts with racism as though they are the same thing, just bc those facts are tied to a culture. Racism is when someone believes their race is above another race. No one is saying that here. Only facts were shared and if you think that's "racist" then you aren't making the connection and don't understand what's really being said here. What happened to this woman happened BECAUSE of her CULTURE and the way they view women; not because of racism.
@londonslifecoach
Жыл бұрын
@@sladkydevotchka many people think I am saying bad things about all Indians. What I am saying is that with in Indian communities and other communities that practice such cultural believes there is a stigma and shame of speaking out the girls are being treated badly just for the gender that they are born, so please note the purpose is awareness. Please note that you yourself can save a life if you take action having heard what I’ve been through. Thank you
@elizabethrose1766
Жыл бұрын
May I just say you are a beautiful woman and I’m so sorry you had to go through this… stay strong and know there are people out there that value you !
I'm so sorry you had to endure such abuse. I can't find words for all this cruelty. Don't stop telling your story. Lots of love for you!
You were such a beautiful innocent child. I'm so sorry that you were born into such evil ignorance & thank you for surviving and being so brave and coming out to tell us your story. God bless you 🙏🏻
I was repeatedly sexually abused for years as a child and subject to physical and emotional abuse on account of being born disabled. I was often referred to as a 'mistake' or a 'lost cause'. Recovery from this kind of torture is a long, long road, and no one in my life as an adult knew my history until recently. We can never know what people have been through.
@imarigee6715
Жыл бұрын
God bless you Bo and heal your heart/soul wounds in the Name of Jesus. sO sad what happened to you.
@MorningOnMars
Жыл бұрын
@@imarigee6715 that's sweet, thank you. I've done a lot of work, and these days are much better.
@imarigee6715
Жыл бұрын
I will keep you in prayer.
@bibletriviaforchildren
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. May God continue to heal you of pain that might still be there. Just know that Jesus loves you so much ❤️ and I love you too. God bless
@bushrafarooqi6354
Жыл бұрын
Iam sorry and sad you went through all that. May Allah make ot easy for you. Stay strong girl...
This is one of the hardest stories ive ever listened to. What an incredibly strong and kind person she is.
@sicsempertyrannis4351
11 ай бұрын
Not strong enough to name Islam, though. She blames men when it was ISLAM.
@nawwaf__
11 ай бұрын
She is a liar baby don’t believe her . She said she was beaten to death and had to stay in the hospital for two months. She has had no problem living with a Nigerian guy and she know she has no money. so how the heck she was going to pay him .
@shmisarah1
11 ай бұрын
@@nawwaf__ you should here the story again. I think you did not listen very well.
@mitzoss
11 ай бұрын
@@nawwaf__ Paying with money after she would have gotten healthy again. She had already proved that she could earn money. Why would you consider paying with sex if you are a good and normal man??
@lulu_Lm
11 ай бұрын
@@nawwaf__ WTF is wrong with you? like actually? are you part of her horrendous family?
This beautiful woman is the epitome of triumph over adversity. Thank you for stepping up for others that are being abused by these monsters masquerading as family.
I'm very troubled the Father is not in Jail. He is a hazard to society and abusers of this caliber don't just stop. Can't she put him prison for all he has done to her?
What I can’t understand is how a ‘father’ can sexually assault his own daughter and then let other men do the same and torture her as well. What sort of human being is this? I’m just so heartbroken listening to the story from this beautiful lady. Bless you, you are a very strong lady. ❤🙏🏻
@iloveschicken6527
Жыл бұрын
It happens all day everyday somewhere! Has for mega years! It's sick and sad!
@ustand2186
Жыл бұрын
What about that pitiful mother....
@vuksgitau
Жыл бұрын
He's a demon from hell an evil psychopath a piece of garbage this story infuriates me.
@normaesquillo5463
Жыл бұрын
He is not a human being but a devil in disguise. He must go to he'll with his advocates. They are a shame in the whole universe.
@shahidaakram9949
Жыл бұрын
A sick scyco one 🤬🤬
I'm shocked listening to this story. It's so unbelievable that people can be so cruel. Esspecially your own parents and family. That no one even stepped in and helped you out when you where so young. They must have seen it and still did nothing. You are a strong woman.
@londonslifecoach
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words. The problem is that lots of people could have helped me along the line of my journey but didn’t step up or step forward to do so so by speaking out for awareness I hope to educate those working as teachers working in schools as Dinnerladies, so within the environment that they two can make a difference to a child’s life with the hope to save somebody from suffering in the way I did
@lorettaposey3327
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry that you were treated like this growing up, any family that treat's any young girl like this should be in my opinion shot. Listening to your story is breaking my heart.
@kaysmith5495
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately Indians have a long history of devaluing girls and women and abusing them. Indian culture is bad for women and in India, there are few laws to protect women and they’re not typically enforced. The U.S is much better now but it used to pretty bad for women here too. In general, the world is a dangerous place for girls.
@thesehandsart
Жыл бұрын
There are far too many of us.
@anonymousone9699
Жыл бұрын
@@thesehandsart are you okay?
Yours was the most horrific story that I’ve ever heard. 😤 I am so thankful that you survived! ❤ To think parents could treat their children the way you were treated is heartbreaking 💔. You are a survivor. 🫂
My dear Sister, I was so shaken and shocked to tears when I heard your story. Thank you for being the person you are now helping those in terrible situations. No one who has hurt others will ever go unpunished. They will face the result of their actions one day. I'm praying that God may bless your organization in a mighty way. ❤❤❤❤❤
She was a gorgeous little girl. I'd have been so proud of her being my daughter
@shesomadeline
Жыл бұрын
What does gorgeous have to do with being proud to have her?! When will beauty of a child stop being the top value?! No matter what a child looks like, they are worth keeping & loving.
@bellaapple2166
Жыл бұрын
@@shesomadeline Every little girl deserves to know their beautiful. It's nothing wrong with giving a compliment you never know who may need to hear it.
@AA-mg3xr
Жыл бұрын
@@shesomadeline I get your point but I think she means she would have appreciated her and seen her beauty, unlike her ugly, demonic, trash family.
@jolan630
Жыл бұрын
They are monsters. They should be in prison. So sad!
Omg, how could anyone treat their child so horrifically… my prayers goes out to this young lady and any other children that endures such atrocities!🙏🏿
@sicsempertyrannis4351
11 ай бұрын
Islam. It was commanded by Muhammad in the Hadith. It's Islam. Same god you probably prayed to. Yeah. You prayed to the god worshipped by the people who did this. And you do nothing to stop them, even now that you've seen and heard and know. It's Islam.
@lyndafaye6748
11 ай бұрын
(Religion and Tradition?) Saudi Arabian women are still trying to escape abuse.! Make us wonder about that old attage "animals treat their young better than humans!?") I HOPE this channel continues to present believable "stories," . What a sweet lady; if all of this is true, she's quite brave, isn't she ? The "pace" t which she recollects these tragic experiences seems to add much to her sincerity. (Very believable.) Makes us wonder a bt about all of those trains that crashed in India recently, too. DID males not want to help injured females btw? Has NINA been given a lie detector test , also? Quite convincing, it does make some of us think twice about the concept of "not having control over what country" or "what culture " one is born in? There was one injured mother "featured" who said she watched her daughter die under a GIANT PIECE OF METAL. No men around to help with that ? Not to chivalrous? Yes, there's a song I always thought Reba should have never recorded; " Fancy", about the mother who sold her daughter into prostitution; For a Devout Christion, always seemed so hypocritical! MY ADVICE TO MEN IN GENERAL: And to male producers who said "you must change this to All Night Long" or people wont' listen to it...I SAY " You Missed THE POINT!" "Loving You All Day Long" by Ana Marie Ceuca, in French and Italian. LyndaFayeSmusic@yahoo.
@Ayattl
11 ай бұрын
@@sicsempertyrannis4351 Meanwhile in Islam: The Prophet Muhammad صل الله على وسلم forbade the killing of daughters not to mention it is haram. If your going to lie tell people because research exists. Going around blaming Islam for everything is what let’s criminals like these men get away with things. Direct your energy to fighting injustice, not a religion that promotes justice
@sicsempertyrannis4351
11 ай бұрын
@@Ayattl And god forbade mixing your fabrics, didn't stop Christians. Hasn't stopped Muslims, either. Nice try, take your taqiyya elsewhere. I'm the seditionist your books warned you about; I am learned in the ways of Islam and I defy it's tyranny and slavery. I am the unbeliever you are ordered to (unalive) because I know your secrets and I will tell the world of them.
@allanmason3201
11 ай бұрын
@@Ayattl Yeah, yeah, yeah. Islam is a religion of peace and one where women are respected. We've all heard *that* line before. Meanwhile, stories just like this one continue to play out in the privacy of households of people who undoubtedly consider themselves very good Muslims, where the men all have permanent bruises and bumps on their foreheads to show how holy they are. If you want Islam to be considered a positive force, you should spend more time cleaning your own house and less accusing objective outsiders of lying.
I was not accepted by my mother either because i am a female. But my father was kind to me. But what you have gone through is insane.
I cant even watch this entire video. Imagine what she went thru. Her parents, in laws and father's friends must all be held accountable. 😢😢
this is one of the saddest and most upsetting stories I have ever heard. her parents and in laws are monsters. they should be brought to justice
@londonslifecoach
Жыл бұрын
I am taking steps to hold them accountant in the court of law
@margaretgarana911
Жыл бұрын
@@londonslifecoach wonderful!!!
@Shalome_
Жыл бұрын
So glad you are seeking justice! They should not be allowed free to hurt others. Thank you for your bravery ❤
@MethodiousMind
Жыл бұрын
ikr. can’t write this stuff. Truth is stranger than fiction. It’s just so crazy.
@Ohhheyy
Жыл бұрын
@@londonslifecoach I am sorry about what happened to you, I hope you heal to the best of your ability. And I am glad you are holding those horrible people accountable.
I was really shocked by this story and I’m rarely shocked. I was abused at a young age. I was even raped as an infant by my father. I was kept in my crib for the first three years of my life because my mother didn’t want to deal with a child. It was easier to keep me in a room. I remember jumping in my crib a lot for fun because there was nothing else to do. I remember jumping so high and one day I accidentally jumped out onto the floor. I remember being more shocked that my family, hearing the thud, came in to see what happened than the fact that I fell on the floor. I didn’t know how to communicate with others because of the isolation. When I was fourty years old I learned how to talk freely by talking to strangers at the grocery store. God bless this lady, Nina, she has so much love in her heart and I hope her children appreciate her. There’s not enough love in this world
@meganlumley3719
Жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you. Your story is so painful. I hope that you will find love in your life and be able to love others in return. What a brave strong person you must be. God bless you.
@isabellac1117
Жыл бұрын
You, too are a survivor. And, wherever you are right now, I 🙏🏻 that you’re finding a healing journey to overcome that trauma.
@miovicdina7706
Жыл бұрын
You speak, i.e. write, really well. You're an amazing human being. ♥️
@lorimav
Жыл бұрын
I don't want to downplay your trauma in anyway. I have 3 boys that I adopted as older children that suffered extreme neglect and it's not easy for them Nevertheless, I believe that someone must have interacted with you, perhaps a grandparent or sibling? I say that because for that level of extreme neglect your communication skills are excellent.
@adinabareiro9344
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you had to experience such evil! My heart hurts for you!
This woman is an angel on earth❤ how a mother can let something like that happen to her own daughter😡 I really hope she gets what’s coming to her they all get what’s coming to them for what they did to this beautiful soul.
I am so angry and crying from this. This woman is strong. So strong. I can’t handle her biological parents, her family. Trash. They called her a witch as an innocent child but they were a family of demons to hurt her so All the love to you, Nina. I can’t rn. So painful so painful. edit: If reincarnation is real, I hope your “family” especially the father will be reincarnated into an ant forever and ever.
I can't even explain the amount of rage that this video has given me.
@heatheryearwood9199
11 ай бұрын
Leaves me cold I'm unable to find sense in this women's torture ....it's really outright murderous torture behaviour like this warrants a sentence of death. It's the ultimate attempt to kill a human soul.
@sicsempertyrannis4351
11 ай бұрын
Direct it towards Islam.
@sicsempertyrannis4351
11 ай бұрын
@@heatheryearwood9199 Because there is no sense in Islam, only "submission." The fact she blamed men instead of Islam cost her all sympathy from me. She made enemies of all men instead of naming Islam.
@heatherlivingstone
11 ай бұрын
@@sicsempertyrannis4351 You do realize that Indians are typically Hindu, do you not? Perhaps you should get your facts straight before you try to comment on people's videos.
@lyndafaye6748
11 ай бұрын
@@sicsempertyrannis4351 (Religion and Tradition?) Saudi Arabian women are still trying to escape abuse.! Make us wonder about that old attage "animals treat their young better than humans!?") I HOPE this channel continues to present believable "stories," . What a sweet lady; if all of this is true, she's quite brave, isn't she ? The "pace" t which she recollects these tragic experiences seems to add much to her sincerity. (Very believable.) Makes us wonder a bt about all of those trains that crashed in India recently, too. DID males not want to help injured females btw? Ha NINA been given a lie detector test , also? Quite convincing, it does make some of us think twice about the concept of "not having control over what country" or "what culture " is born in? There was one injured mother "featured" who said she watched her daughter die under a GIANT PIECE OF METAL. No men around to help with that ? Not to chivalrous? Yes, there's a song I always thought Reba should have never recorded; " Fancy", about the mother who sold her daughter into prostitution; For a Devout Christion, always seemed so hypocritical!MY ADVICE TO MEN IN GENERAL: And to male producers who said "you must change this to All Night Long" or people wont' listen to it...I SAY " You Missed THE POINT!" "Loving You All Day Long" by Ana Marie Ceuca, in French and Italian. LyndaFayeSmusic@yahoo.
What a miracle, that she survived such a horrific childhood and grew into such an amazing, loving woman.
The thing I don’t understand is why there are any childhood photographs of the speaker, when they didn’t value her at all.
All this happened in Britain??? I really can't believe the system failed this sweet lady SO VERY MUCH!
Her father was an absolute monster, where was the protection from her mother? Did this all happen in England? The things children have to go through, no words 😢 ❤️
@marriellenpeachynyaabbagit6089
Жыл бұрын
Why did her mother need help ????? She didn't protect her daughter
@danarzechula3769
Жыл бұрын
The mother also was likely abused for failing by having a daughter
@kkelly7313
Жыл бұрын
@@marriellenpeachynyaabbagit6089 I didn't say her mother needed help, I said she should have protected her child.
@kkelly7313
Жыл бұрын
@@danarzechula3769 yes agree, it's such a tragedy when the cycle of abuse is passed down to a new generation.
@isabellewhite3505
Жыл бұрын
yes this happened in England
i started SOBBING, when she got to the part of where her dog told her to leave. I've got a story like hers, I can't bring myself to tell it all. So this women's ability is staggering me. My heart goes out to her. xo I love you, sister. We're different cultures.. my story has to do with human trafficking and sex trafficking. I"m Indigenous from the territory of Canada.
@SetCCC
Жыл бұрын
❤
@gmltruth
Жыл бұрын
I pray for your safety and may God, in Heaven send Waring Angels with Flaming Swords to deliver out and bring you to safety. In Jesus Name...
@tobedownloaded6277
Жыл бұрын
@@SetCCC Journal Keetah, it's so therapeutic and when you are ready to tell your story it will come forth from those pages ❤
@PAMELAPORTER-ci7mr
11 ай бұрын
I'm so very sorry for you both. I hope that those experiences are over and that you may heal.
@rb5325
11 ай бұрын
What an inspiration you are to go through all that and still be a force for good. 🙏
Oh Nina, you’re so beautiful and strong. Nothing but appreciation for your courage. ❤
I have great respect for you having the courage to share your past and for wanting to help other abused women.
I absolutely hate child abuse and my "parents", if you can call them that, treated me badly and blamed me for sexual things I'd never thought about doing. I ended up not shedding a single tear when they died. I suspect you felt the same. I am so sorry that you had to endure all of this, and I pray that you now have a much better life filled with love and kindness.
@charlieangel9705
10 ай бұрын
No single tear, indeed.
@shea1219
10 ай бұрын
Not one tear.
@ami_ags5269
10 ай бұрын
Wishing you the best in life and to heal ❤
@lindsayboykin
7 ай бұрын
yeh I'm really sorry they blamed you or even thought to speak about sexual things with you in a way that wasn't kind
I’m black and have several Indian friends and Arab friends who told me that they were raped by their fathers. I was a young teen when I learned of this from my friends. I was shocked and saddened hearing their stories.
She’s so beautiful! I hate what they did to her, but I am so glad she made it out and was, not just a survivor, but a champion. May God bless her and protect her!
Words cannot describe how angry I was hearing this story. How can someone be so vile?
There are no words for this level of wickedness. This woman is STRENGTH itself, period.
"I was not born into Love ...I was Love itself" such a powerful story
This has been going on for decades! Stop clutching your pearls and being shocked!! Get ANGRY and speak up like this beautiful woman. Tolerance and not speaking up for this bs is our world pandemic…..
I'm sorry, u had to suffer from your family. BUT God truly bless u to make it through everything 🙏 the have done to u!
I’m a 52 yo female who had a good upbringing. I’ve been married 35 years to the most loving loyal man. I’m so grateful for all I have ….all I want to do is hug and hold this woman. Her story is heartbreaking. No one, NO ONE deserves what she went through. The men in her life deserve horrible long lasting pain. Maybe they should go through all Nina did…every little thing. Nina, you matter. You are so strong, intelligent, and beautiful inside and out. If we ever meet, expect a big bear hug!
@deanf7086
Жыл бұрын
They will for sure one day stand before Our Lord and be judged…………
@nahalymtl9445
Жыл бұрын
I just can't believe all this. Absolutely no disrespect meant. I've just been lucky enough to be myself surrounded by loving people. So, I just can't believe that people who birth you can be this mean to you, then in-laws this mean and then I can't believe that your partner will be this mean. What a world we are living in sharing neighbourhoods with victims abused daily and their perpetrators, pure heartless monsters. What makes them this evil. I have probably watched 90% of Law and order svu episodes and still can't believe the level of hate Nina has been subjected too. Then again human history is full of genocides and unspeakable crimes. The most beautiful thing is that despite all, Nina kept rising and is full of love.
@vgil1278
Жыл бұрын
@@nahalymtl9445 When I see people like Nina's family, I know that satan is real, and he's alive!
@seaofflowers.
Жыл бұрын
This comment is so... Who listens to a tragic story being told by a victim & thinks to say "I had a good upbringing and I have an incredible husband. I want to hug you though." I can kind of see what you were trying to express but this is so, so tone deaf.
@nahalymtl9445
Жыл бұрын
@@seaofflowers. Tone deaf to you maybe. I hear empathy, despite a different life experience, and a message that life can be different, so I hear positivity and hope.
This is horrific and it is imaginable that your own parents would do such a crime. Wow, evil is real. This is an amazing woman for having the courage to tell her story. God bless you lady.
@sicsempertyrannis4351
11 ай бұрын
It's just Islam.
@lyndafaye6748
11 ай бұрын
(Religion and Tradition?) Saudi Arabian women are still trying to escape abuse.! Make us wonder about that old attage "animals treat their young better than humans!?") I HOPE this channel continues to present believable "stories," . What a sweet lady; if all of this is true, she's quite brave, isn't she ? The "pace" t which she recollects these tragic experiences seems to add much to her sincerity. (Very believable.) Makes us wonder a bt about all of those trains that crashed in India recently, too. DID males not want to help injured females btw? Ha NINA been given a lie detector test , also? Quite convincing, it does make some of us think twice about the concept of "not having control over what country" or "what culture " is born in? There was one injured mother "featured" who said she watched her daughter die under a GIANT PIECE OF METAL. No men around to help with that ? Not to chivalrous? MY ADVICE TO MEN IN GENERAL: And to male producers who said "you must change this to All Night Long" or people wont' listen to it...I SAY " You Missed THE POINT!" "Loving You All Day Long" by Ana Marie Ceuca, in French and Italian. LyndaFayeSmusic@yahoo.
@cguzman4340
11 ай бұрын
@@sicsempertyrannis4351 It doesn’t make it right.
@allanmason3201
11 ай бұрын
@@sicsempertyrannis4351 Not _just_ Islam. This story is about a particular version of Islam that exists amongst the uneducated, violent, lowest class of people from rural Punjab. Why such things are allowed to go on in Britain is beyond me.
@sicsempertyrannis4351
11 ай бұрын
@@allanmason3201 Agreed. Take the 40 year history of Rotherham, for instance. The police have known for 4 decades that not only are children being R'd to unalive by these groups, but then being sold as kebab meat on the streets. Yet the 'authorities' do nothing. Anybody who takes Islam more seriously than Pastafarianism needs to be admitted into an asylum for the insane.
It's so incredible when someone can go through this type of shit and still having such a pure, hopeful heart
I hope more people start sharing their stories from all countries and races. Thank you for sharing. I’m happy to see she is doing well and letting go of the trauma and focusing on love and healing ❤