The Shocking Story Of Aziza Kibibi

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Welcome back to Unfiltered Stories. Today we share the story of Aziza Kibibi, who has a very shocking story. She's a survivor of CSA, and now here to tell her life story to inspire others and help shining a light to this serious situation.
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  • @UnfilteredStoriesYT
    @UnfilteredStoriesYT Жыл бұрын

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  • @HelenahSian-hl5ue

    @HelenahSian-hl5ue

    Жыл бұрын

    Is this inspiring story?

  • @reemclaughlin4260

    @reemclaughlin4260

    Жыл бұрын

    Right?

  • @juniorramrop374

    @juniorramrop374

    Жыл бұрын

    My x relatives use to rape her, found out her family are snitches and are internationally connected child slavery rapist, I'm still dying and these folks so connected the children and American and international families are still dying

  • @818Dimples

    @818Dimples

    Жыл бұрын

    H D channel Evil Lives Here

  • @gogetter4622

    @gogetter4622

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@HelenahSian-hl5ue that me want know to kmt

  • @jayceecastelano6160
    @jayceecastelano6160 Жыл бұрын

    Your Mom, Your Dad, and His Girlfriends and Everyone who Harmed you NEED TO BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE AND BROUGHT TO JUSTICE.

  • @EmmaGodLovesTruth95

    @EmmaGodLovesTruth95

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah okay.. I get that ur upset to hear these types of stories but that's not always how it works, it's really really painful to sue ones family. Most survivors don't.. but since she has incest children with him yeah she probably should put him away.

  • @datpsychobytch

    @datpsychobytch

    Жыл бұрын

    Look up her iG her father is currently in jail doing time for this crime

  • @CH-px1fw

    @CH-px1fw

    Жыл бұрын

    @@EmmaGodLovesTruth95 I don’t think the comment was referring to a lawsuit. I believe it was in reference to every adult involved participating in child sexual abuse and incest which is illegal and so they all should go to prison.

  • @CH-px1fw

    @CH-px1fw

    Жыл бұрын

    @@EmmaGodLovesTruth95 and btw… it’s not her choice… you mentioned “she should probably put him away”… it is not up to her. It’s illegal. Period.

  • @EJ-xq6nd

    @EJ-xq6nd

    Жыл бұрын

    @@datpsychobytch yes her mom and the girlfriend should also be in jail

  • @carolinareyes4903
    @carolinareyes49034 ай бұрын

    I can never understand a mother not sacrificing herself for her child 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @ghostbansurvivor6229

    @ghostbansurvivor6229

    3 ай бұрын

    Pickmesha. They value men over children

  • @cal9112

    @cal9112

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@lilacgreens-er6huno excuse, my own mother deliberately favored my you gest sister for years, shunning me, kicking me out of the house while being extremely sweet to the other siblings g who made her life living hell and also charged her 400 euros a month to to take care of her while l was doing g it for free, they are evil people, enjoying causing harm because its "fun"

  • @JannyCKD

    @JannyCKD

    3 ай бұрын

    because not all birth givers are mothers

  • @NancyCronk

    @NancyCronk

    3 ай бұрын

    Interesting how the father was a monster but the mother is getting all the criticism here.

  • @jfm14

    @jfm14

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@NancyCronk I think it's because our expectations of mothers and women in general tend to be much higher than for fathers and men in general. People just assume any mother would risk her life for her child when that's simply not the case.

  • @emostar1122
    @emostar11224 ай бұрын

    I went to college with this woman, we took a screenwriting course together. She told her story to our class one day, and I was absolutely floored. Although we weren’t close, we were paired in group assignments and had casual conversation and I could not believe how jovial and lighthearted and sweet she was after living through years and years of horrific experiences. I randomly think about her all the time, I hope you’re doing well Aziza ❤

  • @AzizaKibibi

    @AzizaKibibi

    3 ай бұрын

  • @primrosendlovu1574

    @primrosendlovu1574

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@AzizaKibibi❤

  • @cookie246_

    @cookie246_

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@AzizaKibibi❤❤

  • @pennyanderson6987

    @pennyanderson6987

    2 ай бұрын

    I commend you for having the courage that you have exhibited I am proud of you for sharing I pray Gods strenght and Blessings in all you do❤

  • @rosalynlake8460

    @rosalynlake8460

    2 ай бұрын

    I wonder did her father get jail time

  • @jbcom2416
    @jbcom24164 ай бұрын

    Cannot imagine how many more kids are going through such horrors right now

  • @Ch3lRae

    @Ch3lRae

    3 ай бұрын

    THAT to me is always the worst thought of all when you hear these stories. It’s amazing she not only survived and is using her story for good but how many kids end their life due to this trauma without anyone knowing? How many are still in these situations right now as we speak with no way out? It’s too heartbreaking to even think of.

  • @user-dq6kq4oi2r

    @user-dq6kq4oi2r

    2 ай бұрын

    This is why pedophiles thrive because they con their own women into protecting them that leads to them allowing their children to get abused and severely hurt .

  • @ashtonlewis7332

    @ashtonlewis7332

    Ай бұрын

    Right. I think about this every day. 😢😢

  • @ashtonlewis7332

    @ashtonlewis7332

    Ай бұрын

    Lord Our Children

  • @Zxzzxxzv

    @Zxzzxxzv

    Ай бұрын

    About half, if not more. Not kidding.... this is unfortunately similar to my and my siblings story minus the pregnancy. And this happened to 5 whole other sections of my family. I have a huge family but that's a fucking lot of predators to navigate, and that's from home. I went to public school and also got sexually abused here too. It happens all the time, everywhere, to most of us. And I'm 26. It's DEFINITELY worse now because of the internet.

  • @human151
    @human151 Жыл бұрын

    This is sick. I can’t believe her mom didn’t go to the police. People are evil.

  • @blobmonster9494

    @blobmonster9494

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@TonyaMarihogwash. That evil woman knew what he was doing to her.

  • @blobmonster9494

    @blobmonster9494

    11 ай бұрын

    @@TonyaMari sorry girl. Worked in the court system for years. It is a crap shoot for sure, but this nonsense that it would always be ignored is wrong. I have seen horrible things happen to people and they got justice.

  • @blobmonster9494

    @blobmonster9494

    11 ай бұрын

    @@TonyaMari prosecuting attorney and public defender.

  • @fightfear3979

    @fightfear3979

    11 ай бұрын

    Love how you blame the mom when the dad was doing the horrible acts.

  • @blobmonster9494

    @blobmonster9494

    11 ай бұрын

    @@fightfear3979 Mom was allowing it. Quit taking up for monsters just because she is a woman.

  • @manestage5403
    @manestage540311 ай бұрын

    Every adult in this woman's life literally failed her. So many things to take from this. I'm proud of this woman because the strength it must've taken to tell this story.

  • @manestage5403

    @manestage5403

    11 ай бұрын

    @@LilithsCosmicLounge Define normal.

  • @jaylataylor6856

    @jaylataylor6856

    11 ай бұрын

    @@LilithsCosmicLounge??

  • @danisloombands

    @danisloombands

    11 ай бұрын

    A hero ❤

  • @lashauncarter78

    @lashauncarter78

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@lilithsmoon9863 for your information this is not normal for any woman to be molested by her Dad and bear his children this is incest and this is is a wicked act.

  • @evelynbrown600

    @evelynbrown600

    11 ай бұрын

    Indeed

  • @CashThat4U
    @CashThat4U5 ай бұрын

    The fact that she was home schooled, and had no real social skills, and still knew that something was off, speaks volume! She stopped her sister from further abuse from the very demon that occupied her “father’s” mindset, and made conscious efforts while at the hospital! He knew exactly what he was doing, or else he wouldn’t have used coercion and threats in the first place!

  • @forgetallyall810602

    @forgetallyall810602

    2 ай бұрын

    Kids know a lot

  • @foolishlyfoolhardy6004

    @foolishlyfoolhardy6004

    15 күн бұрын

    There wasn't a demon occupying her fathers mindset. Why are you trying to put a degree of seperation onto him like that? Was it her father, or a demon occupying his body? I'll answer. It was her father! it was him, he was in control of his own actions and his own mindset. No demons or other entity that he is allowed to blame. All him.

  • @EB-wl9st
    @EB-wl9st6 ай бұрын

    I was sexually, physically, verbally and emotionally abused my entire childhood. I got pregnant at 14. My mother beat me for it, and took me to have an abortion, which she pocketed 200 cash from, given to her to pay for the abortion, which was free. I got pregnant again at 15. This time she didn't make me have an abortion, but when the baby was born she kicked me out with the baby. I was 16, the baby was 1 week old. A church took us in and helped us. 43 years later - that baby is 43. I'm 59. It was a long journey, filled with abuse, but ultimately both myself and my daughter turned out fine. We're both scarred mentally. But we both have successful careers and live good lives. I disowned my entire family, including my abusive brother and sister.

  • @AzizaKibibi

    @AzizaKibibi

    3 ай бұрын

    🙏🏾❤️‍🩹 thank you for your bravery.

  • @mariangelicaq1623
    @mariangelicaq16237 ай бұрын

    This poor woman was raised by demons and knew them as mom and dad. 💔 Speechless.

  • @Lalis664

    @Lalis664

    3 ай бұрын

    Its so sad. 😢😢😢😢😢. Tbis is sick!!!!

  • @paullebuka

    @paullebuka

    3 ай бұрын

    Honestly

  • @thebestofeverything4756

    @thebestofeverything4756

    3 ай бұрын

    I absolutely agree with you 💔

  • @nicoleholley7049

    @nicoleholley7049

    2 ай бұрын

    He would be gone!!

  • @rasesvari

    @rasesvari

    2 ай бұрын

    😢

  • @MaddMelloo41
    @MaddMelloo41 Жыл бұрын

    The fact her mother knew but was only upset because his girlfriend was apart of it is astonishing!

  • @jadibdraws

    @jadibdraws

    11 ай бұрын

    The kinda shit that happens when a woman prizes a man any man above all else. Very common among older generations and there's a lot of push back going on today cause that is changing.

  • @acealohbey2213

    @acealohbey2213

    11 ай бұрын

    @@jadibdrawsmajority of not all of the people who had this position in my life died back to back within the last 10 years.

  • @burnyizland

    @burnyizland

    11 ай бұрын

    Happens more than you think. My mother was the same kind of garbage. When I told her at age 8 she said, "Well we're all going to have to make sacrifices for Mommy's new marriage."

  • @BF-xc2sk

    @BF-xc2sk

    11 ай бұрын

    @@jadibdraws this has nothing to do with “ older generations “ you are insulting all older generations. This is pure evil and psychopathy. Not acceptable behaviour in any generation! The guy was psycho and he trapped women and children. Pure trafficking.

  • @shay7515

    @shay7515

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@burnyizlandomg!😢 sorry you went through that 🫂

  • @jbestderulo45
    @jbestderulo45Ай бұрын

    This woman is beyond strong, to be able to share such a traumatic experience..

  • @donnabest2101
    @donnabest21014 ай бұрын

    I remember Aziza when she wS a little girl, my sister was Best friends with her aunt, her father was very strict she was about 4 or 5 years old at the time the furthest she could go was the side door, where they lived, I remember her mother was very afraid of her father, as a child I could tell the mother was abused because she was always jumpy when he came around and every one had to leave once he came, so sad this was going on in such a beautiful family he really isolated them, I'm just glad they made it out alive. Good luck to you and your family Aziza

  • @teresawanjiru3171

    @teresawanjiru3171

    2 ай бұрын

    Extremely narcissist father.

  • @joejoe107

    @joejoe107

    2 ай бұрын

    Random chance didn’t save this woman and that family, it was God, it was almost as if God was saying we are going this direction now…. The true test of love is giving the same love Jesus gave Judas to her dad… even God sent Jesus to die for that man doing this stuff, that’s the level of love All of Us should be at, I’m not saying no Justice, I’m saying temper Justice with Mercy and give that instead of harsh harsh harsh…. Who knows why that man turned out like that, but God can fix it if he is an open vessel

  • @carriebizz
    @carriebizz11 ай бұрын

    I wish KZread stopped censoring certain words now. RAPE, PEDOPHILE, SEXUAL ABUSE Should NOT be cut out

  • @enieniz

    @enieniz

    11 ай бұрын

    thank you! it s so stupid

  • @sigsin1

    @sigsin1

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you. This was BULLSHIT.

  • @thesciencehubskb

    @thesciencehubskb

    10 ай бұрын

    Exactly. It is a word!

  • @mermaidmoney2794

    @mermaidmoney2794

    10 ай бұрын

    Yea I don't get that

  • @user-wc5jc6ph8h

    @user-wc5jc6ph8h

    10 ай бұрын

    THE WORD WOMAN IS NEXT.......youTube is WACK

  • @factsonfacts9337
    @factsonfacts933711 ай бұрын

    Demonic !! That’s all I can say. What a beautiful & well spoken woman. She deserved a childhood, a real love story & a family from love…

  • @unknownperson5848

    @unknownperson5848

    10 ай бұрын

    I have lost all faith in Humanity. THESE ARE MONSTERS NOT HUMANS.

  • @deew2312

    @deew2312

    10 ай бұрын

    very demonic

  • @lareinelester685

    @lareinelester685

    10 ай бұрын

    Many families went through this. I'm convinced many men are the demonic savage monsters of earth.

  • @amyqb117

    @amyqb117

    7 ай бұрын

    Utterly demonic.

  • @p_nicole683

    @p_nicole683

    2 ай бұрын

    Straight up demonic and the MOM WAS JUST AS TRIFLIN AS THE DAD !

  • @mrsanderson3547
    @mrsanderson35475 ай бұрын

    OMG I just cried real tears 😭 I'm so happy to see she is focused on healing, and helping others.

  • @linnycupcakes7912
    @linnycupcakes79123 ай бұрын

    This is a lot more common in the Caribbean cultures than you think.That’s why mom says put on more clothes when uncle comes around or is nervous to send their daughters over for sleepovers.

  • @SUNROSE7878

    @SUNROSE7878

    Ай бұрын

    So true. All of a sudden is just a ton of cousins, sisters, half sisters, half uncles- is disgusting

  • @E1LTSaves

    @E1LTSaves

    19 күн бұрын

    In all households across this world. Her father is American. White children, Black children, Latino, etc... Men from all over are out of control.

  • @bwsenterprise2424

    @bwsenterprise2424

    4 күн бұрын

    Yes, incest is rife in the Caribbean and in the UK in the 70's,80's

  • @laneys2030
    @laneys203010 ай бұрын

    The fact the mom was not mad about what was happening is sickening, the pain this woman went through and can tell her story I cant even imagine, my heart goes out to her and her kids.

  • @karmencarmen1720

    @karmencarmen1720

    10 ай бұрын

    Fuck weak people that watch others be tried into a ball of trauma.

  • @jaswantsingh9287

    @jaswantsingh9287

    10 ай бұрын

    Mom was a zombie..

  • @jaedagray2566

    @jaedagray2566

    10 ай бұрын

    She confronted him and he hit her with a belt it said but she still wrong

  • @santanapage5044

    @santanapage5044

    9 ай бұрын

    She was probably so defeated and felt hopeless, just horrific

  • @jaswantsingh9287

    @jaswantsingh9287

    8 ай бұрын

    Satan exists, Allah don't,if he's there he won't let it happen....

  • @dazem8
    @dazem8 Жыл бұрын

    When she said her first child was a girl I immediately worried that he was going to continue his sickness with his grandchildren too. Thankfully she ended that insanity.

  • @Anonymous-gt1eq

    @Anonymous-gt1eq

    Жыл бұрын

    I did too!

  • @tcatladymoney6124

    @tcatladymoney6124

    Жыл бұрын

    me to

  • @eloisavillaminguan5523

    @eloisavillaminguan5523

    Жыл бұрын

    Not a grand child..but his own child by his own child.sick sick man.

  • @ProfessorMM

    @ProfessorMM

    Жыл бұрын

    @@eloisavillaminguan5523not even a man. A sick monster

  • @AnnaYAH5315

    @AnnaYAH5315

    Жыл бұрын

    It's a terrible knot this situation, they're his grandchildren and his children at the same time. I hope he's miserable for the rest of his days!

  • @calmo14
    @calmo1429 күн бұрын

    him not understanding or knowing that incest can cause disabilities or deformities shows his level of education, knowledge, and intellect, it seems. not saying that as an excuse by any means!!! it’s just so sad!

  • @E1LTSaves

    @E1LTSaves

    19 күн бұрын

    He knew, everyone knows. He didn't care!

  • @karashera2252
    @karashera22524 ай бұрын

    How can she be such a strong woman after all that happened to her? She has all my admiration for Who she has grown to be despite her past life. Her last words really touched me: You are not what happened to you.

  • @BeautifulSoul-zk6lo
    @BeautifulSoul-zk6lo Жыл бұрын

    No kids should be violated and when it’s a parent that has to be even worse. I am happy she didn’t go crazy or become evil and bitter.

  • @StarLight-sl9ok

    @StarLight-sl9ok

    Жыл бұрын

    Her resilience is unbelievable, she’s so inspiring.

  • @noticiasfaisca2685

    @noticiasfaisca2685

    Жыл бұрын

    @@StarLight-sl9ok that is called ...nastyness ahmed..not resilience 1 child ok.if in africa it is NORMAL in your continent.but this woman was in the USA,if she so wilt,she could have reported this monster and common? he now is a delivering man? or his a fker himself? wtf..in the usa.and give birth like africa! hahahahahah does not make any sense! i see nothing heroic in this women's comment.i see compliance and nastyness..DIRT! where were the mom? why haven't she gone with mom and killed that monster? this is a monster!

  • @BeautifulSoul-zk6lo

    @BeautifulSoul-zk6lo

    Жыл бұрын

    @@StarLight-sl9ok I agree 🥰🥰🥰

  • @illmeeillmee9373

    @illmeeillmee9373

    Жыл бұрын

    even though she has every reason to! al u can think of is thank God she aint bitter?? smh! anyone listening to this would be wanting to bludgeon these abusers to death

  • @rsc.1820

    @rsc.1820

    Жыл бұрын

    @@illmeeillmee9373 thank who again?

  • @aliciaboucher748
    @aliciaboucher748 Жыл бұрын

    This story is among one of the sickest I've heard, and I've heard quite a lot. I am so proud of her for not allowing herself to run into the ground. They would inevitably pay for what they did to those children.

  • @teresawester5770

    @teresawester5770

    Жыл бұрын

    God, I couldn’t agree with you more. This story is horrifying!!! It’s truly unimaginable. My heart and prayers go out to this courageous young lady. ♥️♥️♥️

  • @captainmorguen3431

    @captainmorguen3431

    Жыл бұрын

    Inevitably? I'm afraid not. To many of those sub-human child абusеrs escape punishment. It's only due to that woman's strength and courage that at least one of the perpetrators is in jail... But they all should be in jail! All adults that participated in this sickness!!! And there were at least three... maybe more...

  • @aliciaboucher748

    @aliciaboucher748

    Жыл бұрын

    @@captainmorguen3431 I absolutely agree with you...every man and woman that participated should pay. I only have some reservation about her mom, because when she spoke out, she was beaten...and it would appear that her mental abuse from that man was a lot.

  • @Kimico57

    @Kimico57

    Жыл бұрын

    You can barely form a proper sentence, much less understand the complicated sick world of an abuser...both sexual and physical. I'm sure, if you care to read up on the subject, you will be sorry you've left an ignorant, judgement filled rant.

  • @Kimico57

    @Kimico57

    Жыл бұрын

    To Notified Faisca: (sp?)

  • @fefemyluv
    @fefemyluv6 ай бұрын

    She is a beautiful woman. I pray for her and her family’s healing. ❤

  • @joselin2466
    @joselin24664 ай бұрын

    I worked with abused children many years. You are SO strong and it is so important for children to have back up, someone to talk to and who believes in them. The earlier they get help the better. Thanks for turning your nightmare into power ❤

  • @Chinaglo24
    @Chinaglo24 Жыл бұрын

    I would have absolutely HATED my mother for allowing this to happen to me and my siblings.

  • @CocoEmmet61

    @CocoEmmet61

    Жыл бұрын

    No you wouldn't. Abused children will put up with the unimaginable in the hope of love from parents. Believe me I KNOW, took 50 years before I finally kicked their asses to the kerb!

  • @Ifeanyi-su7lu

    @Ifeanyi-su7lu

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here Her mum just sat there and allowed that to happen

  • @Chinaglo24

    @Chinaglo24

    Жыл бұрын

    @@CocoEmmet61 Well I was never in a abused situation so you right but no one I mean no one will I ALLOW my parent or anyone else in that matter to treat me in that manner way it just inhuman.

  • @GodfreyTaiOyYong

    @GodfreyTaiOyYong

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Chinaglo24 Agree with you!!100%!!

  • @etoileshine1011

    @etoileshine1011

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@CocoEmmet61 Just because YOU did it doesn't mean others would people react to trauma differently you should know this.

  • @princess_ama
    @princess_ama Жыл бұрын

    This whole story is sick. But when she said she was thinking of My Little Ponies while her father was abusing her, my heart just shattered.

  • @leoqueen300

    @leoqueen300

    Жыл бұрын

    EVIL👹 is the word

  • @gwendolynwaldo9708

    @gwendolynwaldo9708

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank God

  • @carlyellisemarie

    @carlyellisemarie

    Жыл бұрын

    Same..😢

  • @MsFlamingFlamer

    @MsFlamingFlamer

    Жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭😭

  • @sybilblake-zd8gl
    @sybilblake-zd8gl2 ай бұрын

    Girl, thank you. You helped me to understand that I was not the bad person in all this mess. I thought you could smile now, so I could smile too. I was too ashamed to even talk about it. Thank you again for opening my eyes and making me understand what was happening to me. I still carries that hate.

  • @ayseguldemirkan9083

    @ayseguldemirkan9083

    26 күн бұрын

    Please stay strong! It's very normal to carry hate against such monsters. You are good and loved. Very sorry for you :(

  • @hudagillani8014

    @hudagillani8014

    20 күн бұрын

    May Allah bless n protect you

  • @jeffeena
    @jeffeena2 ай бұрын

    I thought my story was worst to tell , but urs, it’s unthinkable. U r a strong woman. Ur mother should protect u, but she didn’t know better either. 🙏

  • @monicagulden1296
    @monicagulden1296 Жыл бұрын

    Not sure why your mother didn’t get charge and a prison term. She knew what was going on and should have reported him.

  • @AmandaMitro

    @AmandaMitro

    Жыл бұрын

    She’s probably being treated for many various mental health issues. It is likely he groomed the mother.

  • @AmandaMitro

    @AmandaMitro

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s not to say she shouldn’t have a sentence. I’m wondering if she’s being held at all? (I’m also commenting while still watching so forgive me if it turns out she gets away Scott free!)

  • @thesun-N-moon8885

    @thesun-N-moon8885

    Жыл бұрын

    @@AmandaMitro was never mentioned that the gf and momma were held accountable! It happens a lot in the black community. Our children hold the momma to a lesser degree of accountability.

  • @jaj4706

    @jaj4706

    Жыл бұрын

    The mother was also a victim. She was isolated and scared. This is not uncommon for abused women to be unable to leave the abuser. It is infuriating but she did try to tell her husband it was wrong only to get beaten with a belt which probably scared her more. She probably thought she could die by his hands and lose her children and they’d lose whatver little protection she had been able to give

  • @marieo6567

    @marieo6567

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah I rather die then let the abuse continue under my nose. Disgusting from the mum

  • @OMGItsShea
    @OMGItsShea Жыл бұрын

    Her father is sick and needs to be under the prison. But I'm soooo proud of her for escaping and not letting what her father did stop her from living her life and achieving her goals. She is truly an inspiration ❤❤❤

  • @tracymaragh483

    @tracymaragh483

    Жыл бұрын

    I think they cut his dck off

  • @jupiterscorner5423

    @jupiterscorner5423

    Жыл бұрын

    He is already in prison...I think he got over 90 years in prison

  • @jubimathew3169

    @jubimathew3169

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jupiterscorner5423 he needs to be tortured in the worst possible way

  • @waontigo1234

    @waontigo1234

    Жыл бұрын

    Has America escaped LGBTQ+ shame on you

  • @HaniZucker

    @HaniZucker

    Жыл бұрын

    Sad, damaged and so preventable. Too many excuses for this to have gone on for so long.

  • @girumzemichael704
    @girumzemichael7046 ай бұрын

    I will never forget listening to this lady tell her life story on another (her own?) channel about a year ago… our inner strength is as astounding as how twisted our minds can get.. both facts constantly blow my mind whenever I hear of sub-animal behaviors and the fact that many who’ve been through such atrocities survive and some even thrive post freedom. It’s incredible!

  • @janice9230
    @janice92306 ай бұрын

    I am so incredibly proud of you!!! 👏 You came away from the horrible abuse to a mighty and courageous woman! I am so proud and happy for you! ❤

  • @DouglasvanderMooren
    @DouglasvanderMooren11 ай бұрын

    I admire your strength, I was sexually abused as a teenager by three different paedophiles and one gave me HIV when I was 16To speak out is so challenging and I am blown away with your strength and courage. I wish you and your children all the best for the future. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!

  • @angeladukes6321

    @angeladukes6321

    11 ай бұрын

    May God continue to bless you Douglas, and give you the strength to move on!

  • @user-gb7qb3rq8p

    @user-gb7qb3rq8p

    11 ай бұрын

    In Sorry 😔 this happened to you, but God can and WILL bless you to heal and be able to forgive those who hurt you and God will give you peace and joy to live a happy successful life. God bless you 🙏🏾

  • @toya3079

    @toya3079

    11 ай бұрын

    😢

  • @allthingsadella

    @allthingsadella

    11 ай бұрын

    Douglas, sorry to hear about your past. I thank God you’re here and made it this far. You’re proof that your light was far too bright to be diminished in what can be a dark and evil world. Take care and God bless you and all you love too x

  • @user-gb7qb3rq8p

    @user-gb7qb3rq8p

    11 ай бұрын

    @@allthingsadella im So sorry 😔 that you had to go through such a horrible , but I know that God has blessed you to be able to come through this. God has a plan for you...to give you a wonderful life and all the good things you deserve. He can heal ANY pains from the past and give you a beautiful, healthy new start. You are beautifully and wonderfully made, and trust in God to heal , and restore your health and your heart. He will NEVER betray you or leave you and he will provide ALL you need... May God in heaven bless you 🙏🏾 and keep you safe and happy and healthy. In Jesus name I pray, Amen

  • @EA-xp7hm
    @EA-xp7hm11 ай бұрын

    I wonder how her kids feel knowing they are a product of incest and abuse. I can’t even imagine how they come to terms with that. So heartbreaking. This woman is inspiring and her surviving all this is just amazing. I am in awe.

  • @Jenniferbluefire

    @Jenniferbluefire

    11 ай бұрын

    You're right, how will her children feel knowing this truth? I've heard and seen siblings incest having children who turned out to be low IQs and are mentally handicapped but I've never heard of conditions in children, birth from incest of father and daughter.

  • @1_star_reviews

    @1_star_reviews

    10 ай бұрын

    @@Jenniferbluefirebecause father daughter incest isn’t something that people talk about but happens every day all over the world and those kids (father,daughter incest) are usually born blind and sometimes nonverbal.

  • @Charlie-502

    @Charlie-502

    10 ай бұрын

    Probably with a lot of drug addiction

  • @Artliker1234

    @Artliker1234

    10 ай бұрын

    I hope they never find out.

  • @queendeedee2813

    @queendeedee2813

    10 ай бұрын

    They feel like their family ain't shit and wish they could get their hands on them. Speaking from experience

  • @natalielewis7193
    @natalielewis71935 ай бұрын

    You are courageous women with all that trauma and still do what you are doing i salute you i pray YAHUAH continues to strengthen you physically and spiritually and that you remain to be a light for others ❤❤❤

  • @leonied20

    @leonied20

    2 ай бұрын

    Yadah YaHUah

  • @karenkanyense8156
    @karenkanyense81562 ай бұрын

    You are definitely one of a kind. Your account of the experience you endured, how you grabbed the opportunity to bring the horrible situation to light, standing up to your father and how you have picked yourself up and moved on is such an inspiration, I salute you. May God grant you a far much more joyful life than your experiences.

  • @Charlotte66666
    @Charlotte66666 Жыл бұрын

    Sickening that the "Father" used religion as a way to justify his abuse.

  • @beastvader

    @beastvader

    Жыл бұрын

    He used skin condition as an excuse too. Clearly the man (or should I say animal) has no fear of God

  • @ashfire4378

    @ashfire4378

    Жыл бұрын

    Most ppl do

  • @DMRJ53

    @DMRJ53

    Жыл бұрын

    The whole thinking is so dysfunctional & sad

  • @dorisschneider-coutandin9965

    @dorisschneider-coutandin9965

    Жыл бұрын

    It's a frequent excuse, sadly.

  • @mary-ue3mr

    @mary-ue3mr

    Жыл бұрын

    That man obviously didn't really read Deuteronomy in the bible. You don't sleep with your wife's child he should've been stoned according to the bible.

  • @jannifersophiajackson1815
    @jannifersophiajackson1815 Жыл бұрын

    What a demon your dad was. I’m proud of your accomplishments!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💪🏽

  • @Invisibleman305

    @Invisibleman305

    Жыл бұрын

    He is/was evil

  • @girlinterrupted243

    @girlinterrupted243

    Жыл бұрын

    @Jannifer Sophia Jackson Far from a Demon, just another Human with a clear conscience

  • @dinozaurpickupline4221

    @dinozaurpickupline4221

    11 ай бұрын

    He had his sperm re impregnated

  • @elizabethsikabongo495

    @elizabethsikabongo495

    11 ай бұрын

    Why took so long to come out. Even having children.. I don't blame you but. Did you make effort to save guard you own kids. Bcz what he did you he is doing it to yours😮

  • @marlak4203

    @marlak4203

    11 ай бұрын

    he must have gotten involved with some to up and go polygamous and then start messing with his child. Something has seriously gone haywire in that family.

  • @kueunice1654
    @kueunice16542 ай бұрын

    So amazing she has the courage and strength to stand up against someone who has dominated and brainwashed her since childhood. Thank you for showing us that it is possible to move beyond such traumatic experiences and be a force for good.

  • @breebrendahowell366
    @breebrendahowell3667 ай бұрын

    I'm so very sorry that this happened to you.😢 Thank you so much for sharing your story. And if no one has ever told you this; from an older woman who has never had children, I'm so very proud of the woman you've become. I would have loved to have had you as my daughter.❤️ God bless you and your children! Continue to hold your head up high.

  • @lal0723
    @lal0723 Жыл бұрын

    I'm balling my eyes out listening to her story meanwhile she is so calm, poised, articulate. I don't know if there is enough therapy in the world for me to have reached the state she's reached in just 10 years. I wish I could give her a hug. What an amazing woman.

  • @Aelffwynn

    @Aelffwynn

    Жыл бұрын

    She probably dissociates somewhat when she's recalling these events. It is very common and doesn't necessarily mean that she's reached a state of peace with it. I agree she is an amazing woman though, and she deserves nothing but peace and love for her whole life.

  • @suzanpaul1881

    @suzanpaul1881

    Жыл бұрын

    I can still see some pain there.her healing will come with time I think her helping others like her will give her a sense of peace God bless u my sister Let's be vigilent parents.

  • @carolchritopher

    @carolchritopher

    Жыл бұрын

    Wish I could give you a hug GGG u Strong

  • @dorothycerio9525

    @dorothycerio9525

    11 ай бұрын

    I too had a sexually abusive dad from as far back as l can remember, from the age of three when he used to change my panties when I had an accident. It continued until the age of 16 when I had a nervous breakdown and told him I hated him and not to touch me ever again. He punched me in my face and knocked me out. When I came to he had me in his arms crying and I freaked out jumped away from him screaming don’t touch me, don’t touch me!! He had taken me out of school in the 10th grade so after that incident he padlocked my bedroom door and nailed down my windows.My mom was aware of this and gave me a large coffee can to do my business in. It stayed that way till I was 18 years old. One evening while he was working he forgot to lock me up and my oldest brothers friend came over to show us his new car and he also had a crush on me and had asked my dad if he could take me out because he used to come over for dinner. But my dad kept saying no,we don’t know you that well. This one time when he came to show us his new car,he asked me if I would like to take a ride in it and I accepted. We were gone probably for an hour as we went down to the beach. When I got home my dad was waiting with a sawed off shotgun and tried to pull me out of the car, but my friend who was into Marshall arts managed to take the gun from him and told me to run. I was so terrified because my father used to beat me like he was fighting a man. I only weighed about 85 lbs. once when he beat me you couldn’t even recognize me because my face was so mangled and bruised. My lip was cut up, my eyes were so puffed up, I barely could see, only out of one eye that was also just enough to squint out of. I looked like I came out of a horror movie. It took more than a month before I started looking half way normal again. With this in mind I was not going to let my dad get hold of me again. As I was running I could hear him chasing me and getting closer. I kept praying to God not to let him catch me. At one point he almost caught me. I felt the wind from his hand as he tried to grab me and with the fear in me I started picking up speed and then I was confronted with a six foot stone wall and petrified I asked God to please send his angels to lift me up and over the wall. I felt myself running and jumping and although I was scraped up a bit I made it over the wall and into freedom. I am a small person. Only 5 foot 3.It was about 8 o’clock at night and I fell over into an automobile junk yard. I ran into one of the abandoned cars and stayed there until morning. I went to one of my friends house and told her what happened and she took me in. Till this day I often see that brick wall in my thoughts and even went to see it later as an adult. I have no idea how I scaled that wall. Ever since that incident,it’s brought me closer to God and I also believe in Angels. I knew they helped me that day. I went on in life to have quite a few more adventures where I called upon my Angels. I am 78 years old now but the abuse from my father has affected my life in so many ways. He went on to abuse my sister and my daughter. And that’s another story. I am single to this day because this abuse has affected my relationships with men. I have been through counseling but I continue to have bad dreams about my dad. I even have dreams where I’m chopping him up with an axe and yelling in my dreams for him to die. When he did die I never attended his funeral. He didn’t deserve my acknowledgment even in death. When he died I felt a heavy weight lift off my shoulders. I hope if there is a hell,that’s where he went!! And I hope all you child predators end up in hell too. You only think of self gratification instead of a precious life you’re affected. You all should be castrated and shot to death.

  • @joeclarkist

    @joeclarkist

    11 ай бұрын

    Sorry, mom. This is so sad. I'm a dad and I have one by beautiful daughter, a no d 3 sons. I can't imagine dreaming about such an evil act. She's too sweet for such a punishment, and I always thank God for such a wonderful gift! May the same God continue to heal you, comfort you, and sustaining you.

  • @recklessstaghomestead
    @recklessstaghomestead11 ай бұрын

    These crimes should be a death sentence! The amount of hate and sadism it takes to do this to a child, is not something you can repair.

  • @aojuri01

    @aojuri01

    11 ай бұрын

    That's true. It should be life in prison for all paedophiles

  • @recklessstaghomestead

    @recklessstaghomestead

    11 ай бұрын

    @@aojuri01 gen pop without police protection. Let them reap what they sow.

  • @regalynwilliams536

    @regalynwilliams536

    11 ай бұрын

    I'm sitting here appalled at the behavior of this dysfunctional so called family. He should be put to death. All these messed up children. Good thing the brother showed up to help her. Damn shame! Your baby having a dad and a grandson. BS! I'm not leaving the so called MOM, who did nothing to stop the bastard!! SICK, SICK and SICKER!!! Congratulations to you. Everyone has a story ❤❤

  • @sonja0707

    @sonja0707

    10 ай бұрын

    This IS SATANIC ACTIVITIES

  • @CathyLTate

    @CathyLTate

    10 ай бұрын

    @@aojuri01At Taxpayers Expense?

  • @user-dk5rq5pm8m
    @user-dk5rq5pm8m3 ай бұрын

    This is so sad by the grace of God this young lady is able to tell her story the pain and suffering she had to deal with the abuse may God continue to bless her .

  • @cubanuba
    @cubanuba4 ай бұрын

    You are a beautiful and strong woman. God bless you for all your work. Thank you for being so candid❤

  • @garyallen1473
    @garyallen1473 Жыл бұрын

    When I hear stories like this I get so angry and depressed at the same time. He had a wife and several girlfriends, why did he have to also violate his daughters.

  • @giftofYah7

    @giftofYah7

    Жыл бұрын

    I believe when we deviate from the template set by our creator it leaves room for deviance and immorality. The wicked mind just finds more and more ways to be wicked. It will never be enough.

  • @lizzieoluwaseyi5869

    @lizzieoluwaseyi5869

    Жыл бұрын

    @@giftofYah7 very correct! You stay away from God, the devil teaches you more ways to become evil

  • @sharlawilliamson9609

    @sharlawilliamson9609

    Жыл бұрын

    Rape is not about sex, it's about power. So he sees all females as objects for him to control, use and abuse as he pleases. There is no place in the world for monsters like this "man"

  • @lem1738

    @lem1738

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lizzieoluwaseyi5869you’re gay

  • @Bringmeariii

    @Bringmeariii

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lizzieoluwaseyi5869 You do realise that majority of people that sexually abuse children are religious. Which is why it’s sick.

  • @xxmarsii_diiicexx5141
    @xxmarsii_diiicexx5141 Жыл бұрын

    Crazy. Ain’t no way this could’ve been my child. Everybody involved getting buried. No lie. So sorry this happened to you, sis. ❤

  • @emilemarie3804

    @emilemarie3804

    Жыл бұрын

    True talk

  • @cinderella23queen37

    @cinderella23queen37

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly right

  • @ecunningham2062

    @ecunningham2062

    Жыл бұрын

    I would have been in jail for his murder

  • @cyyus804

    @cyyus804

    Жыл бұрын

    yes. that was time was for some hurting

  • @megarainbowluv1

    @megarainbowluv1

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen 💜🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @KennyG_757
    @KennyG_7575 ай бұрын

    I’m proud of you! Don’t know how I found this video but it started playing out of nowhere. Best revenge is healing and living a successful life

  • @fulloutcortland
    @fulloutcortland7 ай бұрын

    God bless you!!!!! You are a literal warrior. Cheers to taking complete control of your life

  • @nonodlamini
    @nonodlamini Жыл бұрын

    I can’t believe what I just heard 💔 her emotional awareness is just insane, how she’s managed to overcome this gross tragedy to help the rest of this world? She’s super inspiring

  • @Seadeddy

    @Seadeddy

    Жыл бұрын

    Praying for her 🙏❤

  • @darjijayantilal2735

    @darjijayantilal2735

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry for what you went through. May God Bless you and your siblings 🙏

  • @78musiksphere

    @78musiksphere

    2 ай бұрын

    @@darjijayantilal2735God is evil for allowing this to happen to a child

  • @jennifercuffy801
    @jennifercuffy801 Жыл бұрын

    Glad he got 90 years!!! Glad to hear you are helping others and shining the light on predators they can be close by also in the family so be careful out there ladies and gentlemen. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 To you and those children...

  • @D11r41k

    @D11r41k

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh I heard "9", yeah "90" is better!

  • @lakeniagaines45

    @lakeniagaines45

    Жыл бұрын

    Girl u something else you nasty to

  • @othersbyuri

    @othersbyuri

    11 ай бұрын

    It’s one the stories you hate to hear but love that is paying for it. Hope they make him really pay in there!

  • @shawnstancil6942

    @shawnstancil6942

    11 ай бұрын

    Inmates didn't show no mercy on him

  • @career5690

    @career5690

    11 ай бұрын

    His girlfriend and her mother should have got time.

  • @namkebanyanklariti
    @namkebanyanklariti4 ай бұрын

    Thank you for having the courage to tell your story and standing up to evil. Thank you for looking out for your siblings🙏

  • @Luz-jb3dq
    @Luz-jb3dq6 ай бұрын

    You’re a precious woman . Thank you for letting me know the world know that domestic violence is not acceptable that’s a crime.

  • @jlovesj3335
    @jlovesj3335 Жыл бұрын

    As a woman and as a mother. I spit on the mom for allowing this and on the dad for doing this.

  • @virgolove5119
    @virgolove511911 ай бұрын

    How she could tell her story without falling apart, my god. How absolutely disgusting her father was, what a sick monster!!! Her whole family failed her completely. What a strong woman that did not deserve any of this.

  • @lenejaia

    @lenejaia

    10 ай бұрын

    That’s not “her” story…..that story was given to her….I’m glad she detached from what happened to her, because it was not her fault

  • @goldsteinist

    @goldsteinist

    10 ай бұрын

    @@lenejaiaso well written. It was never her bag. So she left it behind. God bless her. She deserves nothing but happiness for the rest of her life. 🙏

  • @Josiecat80

    @Josiecat80

    10 ай бұрын

    I was wondering that as well.. she’s so calm no tears 😢

  • @madeinblue7237

    @madeinblue7237

    10 ай бұрын

    I don't know, I think a lot of victims kind of learn to accept it and feel like it's not 'that much of a big deal'. Like of course we feel hurt, confused and betrayed but at the same time we kind of just accept it. Maybe it's because no one around us reacted in an angry, protective, 'this is horrific and I'm gonna save you' way so we don't know how to feel those emotions for ourselves. We know it's wrong but don't register how wrong it really is because no one around us did.

  • @Athena6990

    @Athena6990

    10 ай бұрын

    Because shes had years to process

  • @Brett.Crealy-kh1sk
    @Brett.Crealy-kh1sk3 ай бұрын

    You are the hero of your own story! My total respect! You are a champion! 🏆🥇👍

  • @fbyahavasaraiyahigyah_made670
    @fbyahavasaraiyahigyah_made6705 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story. You and your children and siblings are strong and are healers. Continued to be a blessing

  • @Burnerbaby
    @Burnerbaby Жыл бұрын

    This made me ill. This is the stuff of nightmares. She was so young when this all started, a baby, and then to go on to have 4 CHILDREN with her own rapist of a father. She is so strong to still be standing, to be functional, to be willing to share these gut wrenching experiences with others… I hope she has an amazing, beautiful life now. ETA just made it to the end. 2 degrees and graduated magna cum laude?? What an amazing human being!

  • @dalia8518

    @dalia8518

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m so amazed by her wow

  • @deejayp9668

    @deejayp9668

    Жыл бұрын

    A man would RAPE the hole in Jesus' halo.

  • @angelstarr5509
    @angelstarr5509 Жыл бұрын

    Her father was sick and her mother was just as bad to encourage such act, she did nothing to defend her girls, but blatantly encourage it knowing fully well what he and his girlfriend was doing. Sick ppl

  • @niyawilliams2.021

    @niyawilliams2.021

    Жыл бұрын

    She did not encourage you NUT she was fearful of her husband and beat her did you not watch the video

  • @diahreea2022

    @diahreea2022

    Жыл бұрын

    Most mothers side with the man, and some even blame the daughter

  • @YouYou-sm8tf

    @YouYou-sm8tf

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@diahreea2022 It’s sad that women are doing that to their own kids

  • @RosieWilliamOlivia

    @RosieWilliamOlivia

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@YouYou-sm8tf mothers get away with a lot. People forgive or ignore. In many ways they are worse than the men. Animal mothers protect their children to the death, human mothers assist in abuse and kill their own children (more often than biological fathers, look it up).

  • @YouYou-sm8tf

    @YouYou-sm8tf

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RosieWilliamOlivia It remind me of a woman who lived near us. She had daughter with her ex somes years ago but broke up, then later married another man and got another daughter with him as well. She mistreated her 1st daughter like worse than slave/animal. She beated her for no reason, while treating the 2nd daugther like a princess. She treated her husband like a king while he cheated on her multiple times. If her husband didn't like their daughter, she would probably mistreat her as well. I think too many women lack self-esteem and would abuse/kill her own child for the love/approval of men. We need and should make more women accountable for those kind of things.... There are so many stories where step fathers abuse the kids and the mother never report to police.

  • @wendymuskal6516
    @wendymuskal65166 ай бұрын

    Ladies respect yourself enough to always have a voice. I WILL LISTEN. Ma’am thank you for sharing what you went through. I won’t pretend to not be horrified, but you are SO BRAVE, and I am so thankful I stopped at work, to listen to you🙏🏼

  • @dejarogers2576
    @dejarogers25766 ай бұрын

    Go girl!! We are all sooo proud of you!!!

  • @ihanakaunotar2741
    @ihanakaunotar2741 Жыл бұрын

    This is so sad, he stole her life basically. She’s so brave.

  • @helenchoe5970

    @helenchoe5970

    Жыл бұрын

    @@amandaobiorah I agree with you 100%

  • @helenchoe5970

    @helenchoe5970

    Жыл бұрын

    🥜 Families 😢 Unbelievable 😮 She knew that she was wrong! I left my family age 10 the same reason not father but brother! I said No and left 🎉

  • @sasshil4202

    @sasshil4202

    Жыл бұрын

    @@amandaobiorah wow. You are awful.

  • @helenchoe5970

    @helenchoe5970

    Жыл бұрын

    @@amandaobiorah God knows she was wrong! So does she!

  • @helenchoe5970

    @helenchoe5970

    Жыл бұрын

    @@emryadora I became a servant and worked like SLIVE! Been married to 1 man for more than 50 years & educated myself. Other sister who accepted sexual relationships for years is in mental institution and I have been financially assisting her. God bliss me with wisdom

  • @shawnatwood4653
    @shawnatwood4653 Жыл бұрын

    He told the mom. She did not get upset until she realized his girlfriend was in on it. That mom should be in prison.

  • @beelarehman5992

    @beelarehman5992

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed

  • @Passionfruitkisses15

    @Passionfruitkisses15

    Жыл бұрын

    I was angry from the start but the fact that it was ok before when it was just him but another woman gets involved now you wanna get big and bad about your child being ABUSED!!!!!!!!! I’m so mad right now! Disgusting!!!!!

  • @happybirthday8803

    @happybirthday8803

    Жыл бұрын

    He told her it was helping her allergies. I’m screaming in my soul some women want to be stupid and naive I’m convinced.

  • @lalababy9295
    @lalababy92955 ай бұрын

    What a beautiful story of triump. Your courage and tenacity is amazing. Not living with shame ober what you went through is even more inspiring. So many women go through SA situations, and still carry shame. Seeing you hold your head up high, with your college successes makes me feel that i can do the same. Thank you for sharing your story ❤

  • @PBTKaizen
    @PBTKaizenАй бұрын

    Omg who is this beautiful angel that maintains such positive outlook after such a horrific story ! God Bless this woman!

  • @eagledice2008
    @eagledice2008 Жыл бұрын

    This is satanic there's just no other explanation I'm glad she survived

  • @nikicarrie4071

    @nikicarrie4071

    Жыл бұрын

    This is man it happens a lot

  • @Christopher_J

    @Christopher_J

    Жыл бұрын

    ​​@@nikicarrie4071 Man is a horrible beast at times but this man is spiritually unclean and under the willful influence of demons. He is in prison and will be forever tormented by the depravity who lowered himself to and put his own child through. I would say the vast majority of the male population do not comitt incestuous abuse of children. 💔😒

  • @elliemichel7560

    @elliemichel7560

    Жыл бұрын

    This is absolutely satanic and demonic. All of that

  • @sunnyhunn9315

    @sunnyhunn9315

    Жыл бұрын

    Devilish indeed…there’s no way around it. A father is the first to protect their child from predators, not become the very nightmare he’s supposed to protect her from. This is why The Bible says we don’t wrestle against flesh and blood, the things people do are far from what it seems on the surface; this is demonic and this guy’s job is to keep renewing this demonic covenant through his filthy acts. Disgusting.

  • @MDMuppetBones

    @MDMuppetBones

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s not satanic. This was a normal human man that did this. Don’t blame it on something outside of him. HE did that.

  • @brandienichole7474
    @brandienichole7474 Жыл бұрын

    My ex hurt our daughter in similar ways. I had him arrested. He bonded out (shouldn’t even be allowed in my opinion) and him and his lawyer put off court for two years. When he ran out of time and the prosecutor wouldn’t go less than 45 he ran. Hoping he gets caught soon so he can go to prison and be where he belongs.

  • @Im_so_Retro85

    @Im_so_Retro85

    Жыл бұрын

    I would've killed him myself. Even if it meant me going to jail. I wouldn't care.

  • @elviacampos1858

    @elviacampos1858

    Жыл бұрын

    Publish his picture you can prevent other pote victims 🙏👏👏great job protecting your baby

  • @biaccagreen7157

    @biaccagreen7157

    11 ай бұрын

    Brandie I’m sorry for you and your daughter, I never understood how anyone could touch a child yet alone they’re on biological. I can relate to your ex being on the run, my abuser step-father skated retribution as well, he died. It took me years to get over the fact that he basically got away with what he did to me and my sister with the help of our mother sadly

  • @acealohbey2213

    @acealohbey2213

    11 ай бұрын

    @@biaccagreen7157 he ain’t getting away with shit. if you have the courage, (because ive never personally seen any of the older ones) HELLRAISER the most recent one, it shows the sadistic side to what we deal with in the physical world because people have money and abuse their powers and titles. there is a place for them after they are judged. the truth is being revealed on every level. 🫶🏾

  • @rebeccaallman1353
    @rebeccaallman13537 ай бұрын

    After such a horrific childhood you are amazing strong and inspiration thank god other victims have you to listen to and life can go on hopefully you your children have amazing lives from now on 🙏❤

  • @bunnyolson9484
    @bunnyolson94847 ай бұрын

    My prayers r with u..I'm a survivor also.from the frozen praire of South Dakota peace

  • @chloe7894561230
    @chloe7894561230 Жыл бұрын

    I truly can’t believe what I just heard. The fact that she can talk about her story is the most commendable thing I’ve ever seen. I am so sorry for you, nobody deserves to go through this trauma and violation. You are such a strong person, and a light in the darkness of this world. A testament of getting out the other side and of the cards we are dealt. Stay strong, you are seen for what you went through 🙏🏽🧡

  • @UnfilteredStoriesYT

    @UnfilteredStoriesYT

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for your support and kind words ❤

  • @lorainehinds

    @lorainehinds

    Жыл бұрын

    It is happening still today among us.its só sick

  • @miajohnson7508

    @miajohnson7508

    Жыл бұрын

    @@UnfilteredStoriesYT i want answers, how ur kids not deformed??

  • @tanagunda1368

    @tanagunda1368

    Жыл бұрын

    @@miajohnson7508 not all children born from incest get automatic deformities

  • @jackierubinstein3198

    @jackierubinstein3198

    Жыл бұрын

    You are an amazing inspiration to the whole world!

  • @michkaadan5045
    @michkaadan5045 Жыл бұрын

    Your story sounds similar to a cult. Your dad cutting you guys off from society, the abuse, not being able to leave the house and so on.

  • @manny3918

    @manny3918

    Жыл бұрын

    Yup, there's a TV show on netflix just like that

  • @germyw

    @germyw

    Жыл бұрын

    It was. There have been many family cults like this.

  • @candidaalex2007

    @candidaalex2007

    Жыл бұрын

    Definitely a cult. Just horrible.

  • @kellymurphy6667

    @kellymurphy6667

    Жыл бұрын

    Cults are high control groups and coercive controlling behaviours are part of family and domestic violence too

  • @chrissiepuriza3866

    @chrissiepuriza3866

    Жыл бұрын

    DEFINITELY

  • @ChristCM8843
    @ChristCM884311 күн бұрын

    Precious beautiful lady, I’m so sorry that you were not able to be protected by those who should have loved and not abused your trust. Thank you for sharing your story and raising awareness so others may hopefully be brave enough to be set free and the criminals be held accountable. So proud of the woman you have become and all that you have accomplished. God strength blessings love and joy be yours and your family’s always. 🙌🏼🌈🌸💕

  • @NickSandz-qe5te
    @NickSandz-qe5te7 ай бұрын

    Very sad and disgusting for someone to be a predator but to be a predator on your children is even worse, I’m sure it’s a nice warm spot waiting in hell for all predators, congratulations to this woman for being able to be a voice for others and surviving that horrible abuse

  • @neworleanzgrl
    @neworleanzgrl10 ай бұрын

    That Mother had sooo many demons,insecurities,and her own un-healed trauma. Nothing is remotely excusable for what she did, or allowed. This story is the main reason why it’s so important to seek healing/therapy from childhood trauma,before being a parent, or immediately upon learning/realizing your trauma.

  • @wanderlust2202

    @wanderlust2202

    5 ай бұрын

    How do you still blame the victim( a woman as always) while not saying a single word about the perpetrator, a man? The guy was clearly abusing and manipulating every woman in his life!!! As a woman yourself, you should stop blaming every single wrong thing happening to everyone on another woman and call out men for their evil

  • @serlingcruz2905

    @serlingcruz2905

    5 ай бұрын

    @@wanderlust2202the guy deserves to rotten in jail and he surely got what he deserved. However, that doesn’t take away the mom’s responsibility in all of the abuse, she was a responsible adult and let this man abuse her children for years on end. Nothing excuses the behaviour of those two animals

  • @queend2748

    @queend2748

    5 ай бұрын

    This is the MOST DEPLORABLE AND DESPICABLE DEMONIC BEHAVIORS A CHILD COULD EVER ENDURE AT THE HANDS OF A DESPICABLE DEMONIC CREATURE PEDOPHILE. THIS YOUNG WOMAN HAS TO LIVE WITH THIS FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE STARING HER IN THE FACE EVERY SINGLE DAY. DAMN THIS IS SO SAD.

  • @SRBOMBONICA86

    @SRBOMBONICA86

    5 ай бұрын

    No no , she should have protected her kids​@@wanderlust2202

  • @clob3896

    @clob3896

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@wanderlust2202true

  • @bellah8393
    @bellah839311 ай бұрын

    As a survivor of repeated incest by my only sibling, I feel your pain. I also admire your strength and courage. I didn’t go through even a fraction of what you did though. I couldn’t tell my mother until I was 21. She didn’t believe me. When I was 32, my niece told her father, that this same abuser, had been molesting her. My parents refused to believe that was true. I told my father why I felt my niece was telling the truth, because of what he’d done to me. I did this through a letter. He never said a word about it. My sibling was convicted in two different counties for molesting my niece. He got nearly a total of twenty years in prison. My mother believed in his innocence to the day she died. My father and I discussed it briefly, since my mother died, and he says he believes me. I haven’t had contact with my brother, except in the ICU when our mother was dying, for nearly thirty years. I’m still not sure if my dad really believes me or not. Thank you for your very personal story. May you have peace and happiness.

  • @AnniePannanie

    @AnniePannanie

    10 ай бұрын

    I am sorry that you had to go through this. I hope both and your niece are now safe and had/have all the help you need. I really hope your father believes you and is just to embarrassed that he couldn't protect you to talk about it. I'm also so sad for you, that your mother couldn't stand up for you. I'm sure deep down she knew you weren't lying, but it is easier to say lair than to see your own mistakes (not noticing/ protecting you). Still, it is awful what she put you through and it's your strength that let you live and that's amazing and impressive tbh

  • @TheGloomyTuesday

    @TheGloomyTuesday

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm sorry love. 😞

  • @caramileelliott1719

    @caramileelliott1719

    10 ай бұрын

    You should have poison him!! That is so disgusting on so many level!

  • @bellah8393

    @bellah8393

    10 ай бұрын

    @@caramileelliott1719 While going through it, I was so young, he made it all seem like a game, until I got old enough to know better and I found my voice and I made it stop. As much as I detest him, it’s not my job to seek vengeance, it’s God’s. My dad, unfortunately, tells me things about my brother often and I’m happy to say, his life is a constant shit hole. While my life, is quite nice with a husband who treats me like a queen, children and grandchildren. God has blessed me profusely.

  • @fayemijumoke

    @fayemijumoke

    10 ай бұрын

    Thank God you were able to find your voice. I just can't imagine all that you went through all those years. Thank God for blessing you with a family of your own. Love and light!!

  • @charitydetoro9591
    @charitydetoro95915 ай бұрын

    I want to hug you. I’m speechless! Sending you love. God bless you!

  • @rosieglows
    @rosieglows6 ай бұрын

    What a beautiful, strong woman ✊🏾

  • @andreal5947
    @andreal5947 Жыл бұрын

    As women we need to do better to protect our daughters and family members from this kind of abuse. Abuse could not continue if family members would stand up against it.

  • @bellachannell777

    @bellachannell777

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @megamoneyk

    @megamoneyk

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg this crazy I'm so upset

  • @Maz-zb9uf

    @Maz-zb9uf

    Жыл бұрын

    No what need to hold men accountable as well instead of instant everything on the women

  • @zawagift9361

    @zawagift9361

    Жыл бұрын

    The dangers of extended family, the best family is nuclear and the worst is a polygamous one.

  • @jennhypp5367

    @jennhypp5367

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Maz-zb9uf we can have that conversation a trillion times, but the reality is that they’re not held accountable. At a certain point it’s up to you to take precautions to protect Urself and ur children. A lot of women also turn a blind eye to the sexual abuse of children bc of what they benefiting from it , it’s very common

  • @moodmusic2495
    @moodmusic2495 Жыл бұрын

    This woman is so brave. She did what her mother could not do

  • @littlecatfeet9064

    @littlecatfeet9064

    9 ай бұрын

    Would not do

  • @learnwithfun8731
    @learnwithfun87312 ай бұрын

    You are such a strong woman to share personal story and start supporting women.. I really appreciate that 🙏

  • @Coco_Love
    @Coco_Love5 ай бұрын

    This brought tears to my eyes.. I’m so sorry this happened to you. Like I’m so sorry. You’re so strong and beautiful.

  • @angorachic
    @angorachic10 ай бұрын

    This is probably the worst case of abuse I have ever heard. How did all of these adults (including the mom) allow this to happen? I grew up near this area and cannot believe this happened in NJ. All of those adults should be in jail for life. This is heartbreaking. I still cannot believe this.

  • @aramakuypers1693

    @aramakuypers1693

    8 ай бұрын

    Right?! Like HOW, 4 dang kids with a pedofile rapist. This is SO scary

  • @nidhia6925

    @nidhia6925

    7 ай бұрын

    The hardest part is she seems so opinionated....where was her voice at that time? May be she was too Young....

  • @tiahnarodriguez3809

    @tiahnarodriguez3809

    7 ай бұрын

    @@nidhia6925 That, and depending on how violent and abusive her dad was, and the lack of support and protection from the other adults around her, she probably was heavily restricted in what she could say and do. I was a quiet and scared child due to my abusive father. I was constantly walking on egg shells regarding what I said and did, and I had zero support from my mom who would also partake in the abuse. It wasn’t until I worked on healing and wanting better for myself that I found my voice, and am less scared to speak and share my opinion.

  • @puffymuffin9064

    @puffymuffin9064

    5 ай бұрын

    Oh no this poor lady and what she went through with her father very sad

  • @Candice144

    @Candice144

    3 ай бұрын

    @@nidhia6925she was abused since she could remember until adulthood. Children who are abused learn to be quiet and learn not to upset their abuser. Remember the same abuser is the one they have to depend on for their daily needs. They usually scare them and if they are vocal they are harshly punished until their will is broken. Abusers do anything to make them comply very early in life. If they do stand up it takes a very long time for them to.

  • @ladyl22
    @ladyl22 Жыл бұрын

    Every time I watch these videos i be thankful for my dad for being a good man and wasn’t a monster smh I rather have my future kids have absent father than have a monster father

  • @jeanprinsloo2834

    @jeanprinsloo2834

    Жыл бұрын

    Very true ❣️

  • @haileyt857

    @haileyt857

    Жыл бұрын

    Hearing how common this is, I'm gonna just go to the sperm bank and be a single mother should I decide on a bio child. 😔

  • @nlandburg2332
    @nlandburg23323 ай бұрын

    I’m so sorry you and your siblings went thought this ! Thank you for having a courage to share your story. My heart hurts for you. I hope your mental health is doing well. Such a brave soul!

  • @nancyjohnson1739
    @nancyjohnson17393 ай бұрын

    Your life is a miracle, and you're helping to transform the lives of others. More blessings

  • @ninnny5659
    @ninnny565911 ай бұрын

    I will never understand ,,mothers " allowing someone to harm their children.

  • @Mary-zd6ow
    @Mary-zd6ow Жыл бұрын

    I wish your mother was charged with something as well. This is absolutely horrible and I commend you for your strength, perseverance and sharing your testimony.

  • @tarahill308

    @tarahill308

    11 ай бұрын

    The mom was a victim as well. Many victims grow to be adult victim who Dnt know as well.

  • @kiaq1153

    @kiaq1153

    10 ай бұрын

    @@tarahill308 she started off as a victim , but became an enabler.

  • @tarahill308

    @tarahill308

    10 ай бұрын

    @@kiaq1153 most never grow up. Never put your learnt lessons in life on the next person. Just be thankful with the time you learned yours.

  • @1_star_reviews

    @1_star_reviews

    10 ай бұрын

    The grandparents too. How the hell was he able to do these things while living in his in laws house? 😡😡😡

  • @fifthlegendfifthlegends6501

    @fifthlegendfifthlegends6501

    10 ай бұрын

    You can’t blame the mum when she’s scared of her life. Considering how he beats her and how controlling he his. However, she could’ve raised an alarm and end the marriage or whatever was going on between her and the monster.

  • @allthingsme641
    @allthingsme6416 ай бұрын

    Thank you for having the strength.

  • @slatouche6089
    @slatouche60892 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story.... So glad justice has been served & you managed to escape from your father when he was away. Hope your children are thankful for you. God bless you & Keep on Keeping on!!

  • @missdesireindependance5194
    @missdesireindependance5194 Жыл бұрын

    I personally feel the mother could have stopped this man behavior by going to the police. I hope this family can heal.

  • @cal9112

    @cal9112

    Жыл бұрын

    Mothers arethe worst

  • @prislaem3838

    @prislaem3838

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cal9112 don't generalize all mothers please. And you don't know what he threatened her with. He might have told her he would kill all the children if she said anything. He used to beat her and who knows what else. We only heard about him for the most part, she might not have willingly gone along with it.

  • @siobhanofarrell4646

    @siobhanofarrell4646

    Жыл бұрын

    @@prislaem3838Some mothers are just shitty. My own older sister is a narcissistic sociopath. She knew our dad emotionally and physically abused me (as well as allowing one of his brothers to get away with molesting me), that he emotionally and physically abused our mother. My mom and I both warned her not to leave her daughters alone around him (he’s a narcissistic sociopath too) but because she was daddy’s little princess she arrogantly assumed he’d never do anything to one of HER kids. When she found out he molested one of her daughters, she blamed him, her husband, but, to this day has refused to accept one ounce of responsibility for what was done to her child. Needless to say, her husband finally got fed up with her ass and left her

  • @prislaem3838

    @prislaem3838

    Жыл бұрын

    @@siobhanofarrell4646 yes, SOME not all. I agree you you on that. Also, my heart goes out to you. I hope you are healing from your trauma. The memories never go away, and the emotional pain comes and goes like the tides. So cry when you need to, be angry when you must, but don't let any of it consume you. Don't lose yourself in the murky darkness. It's not, nor was it ever, your fault. I also hope your brother-in-law took his children with him when he left. It would be sad if the cycle was repeated on them.

  • @missdesireindependance5194

    @missdesireindependance5194

    7 ай бұрын

    @@kaya856 both are to blame. The mother could have called the cops.

  • @annavenson3893
    @annavenson3893 Жыл бұрын

    This is one of the most heart-wrenching stories I've heard. I became emotionally distressed and wept as Aziza continued to tell her story. Her mother is just as guilty as her disgraceful, sick and evil father for allowing this to happen. Domestic violence and fear should not have stopped the mother from protecting her children. She could have stopped this heinous abuse from the beginning. Aziza's courage and strength in speaking out is one of the paths towards healing.

  • @evelynfidler6285

    @evelynfidler6285

    11 ай бұрын

    I agree

  • @izzydeadyet7336

    @izzydeadyet7336

    11 ай бұрын

    My grandfather molested my mother and her sisters growing up, my mum always said my grandmother didn't step in because he used to beat the crap out of her .. but as a mother myself, a man would have to kill me to get to my kids! This is a big part of why I was a single mom their whole lives, refusing to leave them with babysitters and day cares .. I would absolutely kill a man !

  • @annavenson3893

    @annavenson3893

    11 ай бұрын

    @@izzydeadyet7336 God bless you my love. ❤ You are truly inspirational and I admire your profound affection and concern for your children. They are so lucky to have a mother like you. Take care and I wish you all the very best. ❤

  • @CHARITOBERMEJO-lv3sx

    @CHARITOBERMEJO-lv3sx

    11 ай бұрын

    I want to hug this woman. I admire her a lot

  • @SUNROSE7878
    @SUNROSE7878Ай бұрын

    I bow and salute you for having survived the hell that you've been through. I salute you for your strength, your compassion, your passion to help others, to give other females of voice and that it is not okay. What happened to you and to them. May your abuser live every day of those 90 years behind bars. I'm sure there's a lot of inmates that will help him survive it.

  • @zt6309
    @zt63094 ай бұрын

    Your story is both painful and shocking to hear, but I admire your courage to share it with the world. Your strength and resilience are an inspiration to us all. Thank you for sharing your story and for helping to raise awareness of this important issue.

  • @weirdarthistorian
    @weirdarthistorian Жыл бұрын

    The cruelty and danger this woman went through is just beyond words. 💔 She is so strong and I wish her only the best for her future!

  • @mayanthigaragoda9638
    @mayanthigaragoda963811 ай бұрын

    Her mom knew what her father was doing to her 😢 It's unbelivable.A mom let her husband to abuse her own daughter 😡

  • @fakihdarusi4385

    @fakihdarusi4385

    11 ай бұрын

    Did go to hospital for labor

  • @lasheemaford8318

    @lasheemaford8318

    11 ай бұрын

    Black women do it all the time, this is nothing new. Most black girls have been molested or raped by their father, step father or someone close to her. Black men have been violating children for forever

  • @tastesweet9027

    @tastesweet9027

    11 ай бұрын

    @@fakihdarusi4385 no had them at home

  • @kubolor1234

    @kubolor1234

    10 ай бұрын

    She was probably also brainwashed

  • @audlovgodbland8153

    @audlovgodbland8153

    10 ай бұрын

    Maybe mom's could be scared and ashamed! But! Mee I will always protect my daughter's! I can't be a dumb mom!

  • @lisaferguson4266
    @lisaferguson42662 ай бұрын

    Simply Beautiful! Both the young lady, and her story telling. 💜💜💜 courage comes in all shapes and sizes

  • @bquickhun59
    @bquickhun595 ай бұрын

    Am at awed after hearing your life story 🧐😳‼️to see the outcome of an intelligent black women with so much integrity 🙏🏽👍🏽from all that's in me I send blessings upon blessings in all you do🙏🏽‼️you shine bright 🌞❤ for your purpose in this life amen ❤️🙏🏽 much love ❤️ thank you for sharing this 🙏🏽‼️

  • @locs_bjuicy6397
    @locs_bjuicy6397 Жыл бұрын

    I remember this story. It was on the I.D. channel (Evil lives here) the most horrific story of child abuse by her own father. His own seed. May GOD bless you, you’re truly a SHERO in my book to survive all this and be able to talk about it.💐💐💐🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @yvonnewilson2242

    @yvonnewilson2242

    Жыл бұрын

    Shero? Is that a combination of "she" and "hero"?

  • @RegentDeMarquis005

    @RegentDeMarquis005

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@yvonnewilson2242 child ! Byeeee

  • @beastvader

    @beastvader

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@yvonnewilson2242 Yeah I think she means a heroine haha

  • @germyw

    @germyw

    Жыл бұрын

    @@yvonnewilson2242 Yes! Where have you been that you’ve never heard that term?

  • @yvonnewilson2242

    @yvonnewilson2242

    Жыл бұрын

    @@germyw Never heard of it because I'm not around in circles that use it. In normal reality, we have a term for that---heroine. I guess I'm not around foolishness enough🤷

  • @wasanyihenry5099
    @wasanyihenry50997 ай бұрын

    I used to complain about my childhood because we were always broke and I believed my parents were not doing enough for us to have a happy life, now am grateful to them for actually being parents and doing the right thing even in poverty. Listening to this feels like a fiction story, but the word incest does exist so clearly these things happen and it’s sad to know how bad they mess up people’s lives

  • @tiahnarodriguez3809

    @tiahnarodriguez3809

    7 ай бұрын

    Trust there are so many strange, disgusting stories out there that fiction has nothing on reality. I’ve heard things that make me perpetually disgusted with human beings.

  • @stacey4u2luv

    @stacey4u2luv

    3 ай бұрын

    As they say money cannot buy love. With love comes protection, nurturing and care. Not spoiled children that think the world owes them material things. When you have real love you have parents that will sacrifice and put thier children first even if they cannot give them everything. Health and food come before buying the latest toys etc..

  • @cheryleaston6820
    @cheryleaston68204 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story. What you are doing for others is remarkable and brave.

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