Thank you. These are great to know to be able to read others, but also to be aware of our own gestures to avoid miscommunications. Especially in negotiation situations where we need to remain in control of our emotions.

@alexanderlyon

3 жыл бұрын

Good point of view, Eva. Thank you.

It goes so well with my English Reading class. There is a chapter in Academic Encounters Human Behavior4 pp.13-15. The text lasts 3 pages and loaded your video helped my students understand the topic in 2 mns. Thanx

great video, clear, to the point, concise, great examples

@alexanderlyon

Күн бұрын

Much appreciated. Thank you.

thanks a lot sir... the quiz at end helped a lot in understanding the all gestures.... very helpful video

Hi sir, Thanks for the great explanatory video on gestures, could you also make a video on head movement/gestures while presentation/public speaking, or could you please share a link for reference? Keenly waiting for your reply.

This is a great information! Thank you so much for sharing.

Yes they are valuable and good to know.. thank you

@alexanderlyon

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them!

thank you. Is good to understand non verbal communication in others

@alexanderlyon

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Andres. :-)

Thank you sir for making me understand

Great video! Thank you, Alex! 👍

@alexanderlyon

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it, Christian. I hope it was helpful.

brief but informative. Thanks!

@alexanderlyon

2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

God bless!

Thank you ❤

i should be intentional in my gesture because i think non verbal communication convey a message to the person i am speaking to

I WOULD STUDY AND USE THE GESTURES

Great video as usual Alex!

@alexanderlyon

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks again, Brenden. Good to hear from you.

Your content is so fun. I’m gonna hit the bell - I should have hit the bell before 🤷‍♂️

@alexanderlyon

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Joel (and/or Katelyn?). Ha. I appreciate it.

Hello, thank you for the video! Would you consider placing the finger on the lip for shushing an emblem? or is it just an illustrator?

@alexanderlyon

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like an emblem. I think that gesture has a pretty well known specific meaning.

good job. thank you

Thanks for informations

amazing, thanks man.

@alexanderlyon

2 жыл бұрын

Happy to help!

Normal people: I mostly already forgot what I just watched. Sociopaths and robots: This has been extremely informative.

Response to the Question of the Day: Having this information in our mental repository rings in the bell at PRICELESS. These are essential to the fluid and coherent interactions that we have with strangers on the street, acquaintances, friends, and our intimate relationships with significant others as well as family. Countless interactions that we have every single day. I do hold that children should be taught about communication at an earlier time, such as in elementary, a specific class which covers it (why the first time we have the ability to really delve into it in most school systems... usually in high school or college when it occurs every single day, is something in the realm of a let down of the education system). To answer your question a bit more thoroughly, I do think that this information is practical. Rather that might be communication as a whole because anyone who is able to hold themselves and function in society and in the daily interactions they have without severe backlash or incoherence, inevitably has picked up on these hand gestures. While many may notice the hand gestures, and others still oblivious on the conscious level, people will utilize them in situations which call for them. This, as you mentioned, occurs subconsciously. The specific SYSTEM/CATEGORIES and the classification of these hand gestures cleans them up in our conceptualization of gestures. Offering a bit of clarity as well as internally organizing. Will the majority of the population require this system/category? Honestly, probably not. Unless you are of the percentage of the population in which cares and pays acute attention to the many facets of communication. So it falls into a situational thing on if this information is practical or not. Personally, I found it helpful, as intuitively I knew what these were, just have never come across this linguistic conceptualization of the categories. (ie... I had not refine or sharpened my internal when it came to hand gestures in day to day communication) Anyone who would be looking to better themselves, to improve their own awareness of how they are presenting and expressing themselves, and conversely how others may be perceiving them, would benefit from this knowledge. We can go our entire lives never paying attention to our interactions with others, but that might not best serve us in our productivity or effectiveness in life (for, when it comes to interacting with others, in an interdependent society, when are we not communicating and interacting? VERY RARELY). Improve our clarity of communication and accuracy of that which we aim to convey. Perhaps it comes down to whether a fixed, or a growth mindset is applied. Thank you for these videos, thank you for the question, and as well if you took the time to read this (whomever reads this).

@alexanderlyon

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Miles. I read all comments on my channel and I respond when I can. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and thinking it all through. I'm glad the information in the video is helpful on a variety of levels.

@milesjarvis2057

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexanderlyon YES! Thank you for responding and for the question which gave me a bit of clarity to my stance, as well as an outlet for a passionate stance

Great stuff!

@alexanderlyon

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Mark Anthony. Hey, congrats on breaking the 1k sub mark. That's a big milestone.

@MAMP

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexanderlyon Thanks! I went out and celebrated the day that it happened. Drinks on the town!

thanks

@alexanderlyon

3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

God bless

It would be great if we let this happen naturally in the private space but we should be careful in the public place or meetings.

I believe non verbal is very important in communication

Where does The Finger fit into it, aka Flipping off, The Bird, Middle Finger Salute

@alexanderlyon

11 ай бұрын

Emblem. But this is a PG-rated channel. :-)

100%on quiz

@alexanderlyon

3 жыл бұрын

Good job, Kyle! :-)

how does communication become detrimental?

@alexanderlyon

3 жыл бұрын

Hm. Interesting question. I suppose communication detrimental if it is abusive and/or hostile. It communication is used for personally putting people down and insulting people.

Hi

It's better not to gesticulate

@alexanderlyon

3 жыл бұрын

I'm not so sure about that. About 95% of listeners/viewers prefer a good amount of gestures. The remaining 5% don't like gestures at all in almost any amount. In other words, it is much better to use gestures. When communicators do not gesture, they get labeled low energy. I love this quotation from Abraham Lincoln about using gestures and a speaker's energy level, "When I hear a man preach, I like to see him act as if he were fighting bees."

@aminaz1778

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexanderlyon thank you Mr Lyon , I totally agree with you, really wanted to have a clarification on a total lack of gestures