He Never uses "um","well","ah","hmm" for 50mins. Incredible....

@jesseraymond2240

3 жыл бұрын

Yes he did. Check 16:06

@avac.1343

3 жыл бұрын

@@jesseraymond2240 You're one of those people loll... nice catch though 😂

@g3ff01

3 жыл бұрын

He rather uses "so" to make transitions between the thoughts/sentences, but it you cannot really notice it, because it can also mean "therefore".

@RobertMJohnson

3 жыл бұрын

not difficult to do...just make it a habit. I used to use these words and almost never do now. took me a long time. like years.

@RobertMJohnson

3 жыл бұрын

@douke turambi no he didn't.

Remind me iff you're watching this video in 2024

@sudanese_talk

Ай бұрын

me 😂

@sudanese_talk

Ай бұрын

me 😂

@andrewsboakyesarpong4037

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂 me

@oladipupookikiola

Ай бұрын

Me😅

@lucky_guy06

Ай бұрын

Me

I was brushing my teeth and this video popped up on my feed. Instantly, I recognized Matt’s face right away.. he was my speech professor in 2007! So happy to see him here all of these many years later!! Good memories came back right away cause he was one of the best teachers!

@Sekdkxjsjcnncq12

Ай бұрын

I’m sorry it’s maybe to personal but now are you like your own boss ?

@lifeatsg

Ай бұрын

his lecture is truly engaging. Thumb up!

"If you are striving for greatness, dare to be dull" Amazing advice!

Here's the notes I took, hope they are beneficial 1. Have Anxiety under control 1. Greeting Anxiety - Greet Anxiety, say hello to it, it's normal and natural, Take a deep breathe - Anxiety helps us, we just want to manage it 2. Reframing it as a conversation - Use conversational language (Inclusive language) - start with questions in your presentation - reframe presentation as conversation with audience - presenting isn't performing 3. Be in the present moment - bring yourself to present not the future - Be present Oriented - Walk out a building before talk - count number by back Audience should be comfortable 2. Ground Rules - Get yourself out of your own way, don't be perfectionist - See things as an opportunity not a threat - Improvise - Dare to be dull - "Yes and .. " make it always on your tongue 3. Slow down and listen - You should be in service of your audience 4. We have to tell a story - Never lose audience, you can hook them by a story - you have two structure : 1. Problem → Solution → Benefits 2. What → So what ? (Why) → Now what -Structure sets you free

@salokbbk5655

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@dingobat2389

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks 😊

@elaishain380

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 💙

@devilhell3044

2 жыл бұрын

👁👁 👃 👄💨

@mcatherinew4779

2 жыл бұрын

Bless you!

Notes, general ideas, and summary: Agenda of being an effective speaker regardless of it's being planned or spontaneous, depends on: 1. Anxiety management. 2. Ground rules. 3. Speaking spontaneously. - Anxiety management 85% of people are nervous when they speak in public. Anxiety isn't inherently a bad thing it can help you focus. However, excessive anxiety could impair our ability to speak spontaneously. The techniques used in anxiety management: - When anxiety symptoms kick in few minutes before public speaking (as in gurgly stomach, shaking limbs, etc.), just be mindful about them, acknowledge them and don't resist them "We simply greet our anxiety and say hey" Take a deep breath and don't let anxiety spiral out of control. - Re-framing public speaking as a conversation and not a performance. There is no "right" or "wrong" way of presenting (although there are certainly better or worse ways). there are multiple ways to make it as a conversation like: - Start with questions: they are dialogic in nature. They could be rhetorical, polling, or simply asking for information. - Using conversational language. Using an inclusive language and not distance the audience from ourselves and the speech, in addition to having a relaxed body language. - Be present oriented. Don't think about the far future. This in turn will clear your mind and make you less nervous. There are some ways of becoming present in the moment such as doing pushups, walking, listening to music, tongue twisters (they can help in warming up the voice as an added benefit) or it could be anything that brings the attention and use some cognitive resources. - Ground rules for being comfortable in speaking in spontaneous situations - Get out of your own way. Dare to be dull. Don't worry about being perfect or doing stuff flawlessly. Improvise, don't stockpile information, let your brain act spontaneously. Train the skill of improvisation. Because aiming at greatness could be in your way due to over evaluation, and over analyzation which leads to freezing up. - See things as opportunities and not as challenges or threats. Make it a conversation and don't make it an adversarial situation. Make it an opportunity to clarify and explain what's in your head, and understand what people are thinking. Take a "Yes, and.." approach instead of "No, but..". - Slow down and listen. "You need to understand the demands of the requirement you find yourself in, in order to respond appropriately". Don't jump to conclusions without gathering enough information. So, slow down and listen to understand and be in touch with the receiver to fulfill your obligation as a communicator. "Don't just do something, stand there." - Tell a story. Respond in a structured way. Having a structure is key to having a successful spontaneous, and planned speaking. It increases processing fluency which is how effective we process information. We process and retain structured information 40% more reliably and accurately than non-structured ones. For example to memorize a string of 10 numbers we structure them into 3,3, and 4 numbers. Structure helps us Remember. A couple of useful structures: - The "Problem > Solution > Benefit" Structure. You firstly start talking about what is the problem, then talk about a way/ways to solve the problem, and finally, talk about the benefit of solving it. Never lose your audience. Set expectations and provide a structure to keep the listener on track, and this structure helps with that. Could be re-framed as "Opportunity > Solution [steps to achieve it] > Benefit" - The "What? So what? Now what?" structure. Start firstly by talking about what the problem/idea is, why is it important, and then what the next steps are. This is a good formula for answering questions, and introducing people [Who they are? Why are they important? And what to do next with them (listening,drinking, etc..)]. In a spontaneous speaking situation we have to think about two things simultaneously; Figure out what to say and how to say it. Practicing these structures is a key skill for effective spontaneous thinking. "Structure sets you free." Sorry if there are any grammatical or spelling errors. I'm not a native English speaker. Edit: Spelling.

@sheldonvardon1441

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@rwbyn9761

3 жыл бұрын

thanks for this

@Bitter_Biscuit

3 жыл бұрын

Happy to help

@aqilahkiwamuddin8178

3 жыл бұрын

bless you, thank you !

@PoPax186

3 жыл бұрын

Fantastic. Thanks a lot

Dare to be dull. I think this was speaking to me. I often find myself stuck trying to give the very best but end up not doing it at all. Thank you Matt Abraham, I'll allow myself to make mistakes and correct them as fast as I can.

i love his way of speaking, it feels like he is a father talking kindly to his own children (audience), it's comforting and easier to understand ♡

@Winter_Soldier_edit

Ай бұрын

Hi

I have studying to do. So I'm procrastinating productively by watching this video.

@Saoirse-ob2xy

3 жыл бұрын

same, same ik

@tobiaspolasek1711

3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha 😅

@glittery566

3 жыл бұрын

me tooo! i'm glad we're all in the same boat lol

@FritzMusicNow

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@lebamba1691

3 жыл бұрын

Why do you think I’m here 🤣🤣

Who's here learning to be a human after Covid

@thamer-403

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@jervypolistico3377

3 жыл бұрын

The comment that matters HAHAHHA

@LeandroHerpeto

3 жыл бұрын

hahahahha

@Nooooorm

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂💔meeeee!!

@Valentina-fr8yt

3 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭😭😭

Great video really but if someone wants an advice you need to read a book called revealing the mysteries of self love.. you can thank me later

@Ram-ig6hh

9 сағат бұрын

Author?

people listen to soft music to do their homework, but i find these hour long podcasts with speechless delivery more enticing and relaxing

@linaXiao-yi4nf

2 күн бұрын

excuse me,I want to know what is hour long podcasts with speechless "

Every family👨‍👩‍👦 has that one person who will break the family financial struggle, I hope you become the one🤝

@Lisaobrian

11 ай бұрын

I pray I be the one🙏

@ogeneezemili

11 ай бұрын

Successful people don't become that way overnight, what most people see at a glance wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life.

@brettwylie

11 ай бұрын

That's why we need to plan ourselves making extras in all we do because depending on paycheck that can give us our comfort and peace till we die is not guaranteed

@vasekmestka

11 ай бұрын

This is actually what most families are going through, tax and rents takes almost what they got monthly, leaving them with no savings...

@elisangellaborges

11 ай бұрын

I'm a nurse and I saw all this coming, so I've planned myself so I engaged in forex trading, little I know about the business though but so far so good, Forex trading has been my very means of savings lately while my salary goes for bills and utilities

First time in my whole life watching a video with 58min without getting bored even a second!!

@nancyzeibak97

3 жыл бұрын

TRUE!! same thought

@priyanshuranjandas9097

3 жыл бұрын

Same with me!

@allyssonvitorpinhofernande8378

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. Sometimes I start watching Ted talks and leave it off because it is boring! Those 58m was the most enjoyable moment I had watching a speech!

@stellamartins1854

2 жыл бұрын

Me too

@zlife9117

2 жыл бұрын

Same

I actually took the class he is referring to. It was a 12-week class held at the Stanford campus, a few hours a week. This is one of those "self improvement" classes that had a huge impact for me. It really helped me with public speaking inhibitions and freed myself to just speak and be in the moment. Highly recommended.

@edee9093

6 ай бұрын

😊Glad to hear that you feel better now. I think I need the same kind of course. Could please share more information about this 12-week class. Thanks you!

@LaiDeshay

6 ай бұрын

Do you have the handout link?

@LaiDeshay

6 ай бұрын

Actually found it on his website. Nofreakingspeaking.com nofreakingspeaking.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Think-Fast-Talk-Smart-Hand-Outc.pdf

@user-uk7kt2wo4o

6 ай бұрын

The handout please

@personainstituteForenglish321

5 ай бұрын

Good

Who's watching in 2024 😊❤

@actiontime4203

Ай бұрын

Me

@sarvarhudayberdiyev8137

Ай бұрын

Me too

@user-zf6wz6gw6c

Ай бұрын

Me

@cabdiraxmankhalif683

Ай бұрын

Yhh here i amm👊

@user-zs5oj4xd1b

Ай бұрын

Hola

He is very confident, calm and knows exactly what he is doing. He has the pulse of the audience. Even as an online audience, I found it very interactive.

@theamberheardplaylist6768

Жыл бұрын

-Come over and see 'Rihanna Hires Racist Johnny Depp'

@meditation-tu8kx

Жыл бұрын

👍👍👍

@dana.j5105

Жыл бұрын

😊😊ъъ

@aadisupersonic

10 ай бұрын

thats my bruh right there

@nabotechtv2114

8 ай бұрын

0

Notes 7:58 manage anxiety - acknowledge your anxiety 9:22 reframe as a conversation, not as a performance. 9:52 ask questions -gets audience involved, frames a conversation. 10:12 note, should be questions -so you can answer, this is more helpful to remember 10:29 use conversational language -includes audience and can help manage anxiety 12:13 Be present-oriented -helps manage anxiety, helps bring you to the present 16:42 Get out of your own way -stop thinking you need to get it right -you over analyze, you over evaluate, all this can make you freeze up 24:41 make your challenging situations into opportunities -your approach affects the situation 32:51 co-create and share -helps feel less nervous and defensive -these traits can help you accomplish 33:32 slow down and listen -you need to fully understand the speaker in order to communicate 38:35 Don't just do something, stand there -listen and then respond 39:35 - 42:54 structures -structures in speaking helps you process information more effectively

@jalal_who

Жыл бұрын

Have nothing to do in life?

@Chicky-yy7nk

Жыл бұрын

@@jalal_who L

@ayooluwaoluwagbenga5561

Жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@jonathanjurecki3059

Жыл бұрын

I reply would be quit hindering me or my children they deserve better than they got so far

@prabhakarmmv8767

Жыл бұрын

You are suprb

I’ve been trying to find out why I some time freeze in the middle of a conversation and forget how to finish some of my sentences. This video right here has saved me from drowning with anxiety. I always knew I that I can communicate like no other when I’m full of confidence but when I crack under pressure, i become the most uncomfortable person to be around with. Day by day I’ll take everything on board from this video and will definitely revisit this in the near future

He seems so confortable talking in public that it also makes me more confortable to listen to him. Awesome video!

The one thing I noticed is that he used humor to relax and open up his audience, which in turn helps him to do the same. Secondly, he used opportunities to make it interactive, which helps them learn better and also keeps their attention.

@user-jo8wf5ko2s

Жыл бұрын

This is Hamid. I'm Sudanese

@shotttrayo3589

11 ай бұрын

great observation

@RichardDelvicoio

5 ай бұрын

Sending love ❤ ...Are you single? @sarahawkins

I'm happy to have come across this channel today. I battle a lot with anxiety hence it makes me paralyze when I'm doing a public speech or a presentation.

It's so rare to find a person with such exceptional EQ. His voice alone exudes such openness and joviality that I could not but relate. My heart is pounding right now.

20 million views... proves how much we're all learning to be human

@sumansouravbiswal5525

3 жыл бұрын

It's creepy, isn't it?

@VishalBhardwaj1143

3 жыл бұрын

Deep humour🤣

@pushkarraj6625

3 жыл бұрын

Dark😂😂

@rushbhkiduniyaa2148

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@Hellmuth4

3 жыл бұрын

blech. comments like that. maybe it's better you don't talk

What I learned from this talk 1) anxiety is very natural and don’t let anxiety overtake you . Learn to manage it. I personally use deep breathing and meditation to overcome anxiety . 2) Be inclusive in your communication. 3) First become a good listener by being focused 4) Treat every speaking occasion as an opportunity not as a challenge 5) Remove No- But with Yes -And attitude 6) public speaking should be like an inclusive conversation not as a performance. 7) Your body language counts a lot . 8) structured communication- problem -solution - benefit OR what -so what - now what

@abhishekpotadar1586

10 ай бұрын

❤

@Eshiyani67

9 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot

@baremysoul4u

9 ай бұрын

being inclusive with those around me always makes me feel better when I'm communicating. Definitely helps lower the anxiety.

@jesschan7240

9 ай бұрын

thank you for being so helpful👍

@ozilyamato1786

8 ай бұрын

@@jesschan7240 👌👌

i saw this lecture and now i realised (again) how important Drama/ Theater lessons were to me. It changed me so much, mu communications and freedom of expression changed a lot. I really hope to get back to it one day, and well, i hope more people have the same oportunities. Its a new world of undertanding art, comunications and people.

"What I have learned from this video is that listening is the key to being a good speaker. We should greet anxiety. If we get the opportunity to talk, just speak (get out of your own way) without worrying about whether you are right or wrong. Everyone gets anxious; it's normal. Speak confidently. Always use structured conversations when conveying the message. Thanks for the video."

Dear unkhown person whoever reads this we don't know each other yet I wish you all the luck afterward from this moment 💫❤️ you are a blessing you don't know that yet , don't blame your self or else loose yourself in the dessert of uncertainty, ur smile is precious keep that up🥰

If you wanna be successful, you most take responsibility for your emotions, not place the blame on others. In addition to make you feel more guilty about your faults, pointing the finger at others will only serve to increase your sense of personal accountability. There's always a risk in every investment, yet people still invest and succeed. You must look outward if you wanna be successful in life.

@smithhall9597

Жыл бұрын

Please I need someone to help me trade or invest the forex or crypto market because I'm tired of trading in losses myself. I've blown my account twice and it's frustrating.

@bellmike4373

Жыл бұрын

the market is profiting if you are using a good broker or account manager to help out with trades or provide signals

@tonyrichards1476

Жыл бұрын

I'm a living testimony of expert Naomi, she has been trading for me for months now

@smithhall9597

Жыл бұрын

Do you happen to know her contact info and /or willing to pass on her info? I'd really appreciate it.

@tonyrichards1476

Жыл бұрын

She's on watap 👇

This video is never going to be die. My grandson will learn mostly everything about presentation by this video

@bruceolga3644

2 жыл бұрын

"Die"="The" in Deutsch/German

It's a trail of an excellent teacher to able to express ideas and concepts in a clear and concise manner. Mr. Abrahams is, definitely, one of the best couch you can find on the Internet on this touched nerve topic.

The lecturer is super humble and funny! What an exquisit style of speech delivering!

It amazes me greatly how I go from living an average lifestyle to making over 63k per month I've learned a lot over the past few years that there are plenty of opportunities in the financial markets; all it takes is just to focus on the right thing. Credits to Zach Micah Demers

@Jorgmiller

Жыл бұрын

I looked up his name on Google and was impressed by his resume; I consider myself lucky to have found this comment section.

@andreasvankur3735

Жыл бұрын

That's a lot of money you're making. How do you do this on a regular basis? You have to be a trading genius.

@carolsitsons443

Жыл бұрын

You can certainly earn well with a good start-up capital. I take profits every week, and I've made a lot of money investing with Sir Zach Micah Demers, but your results are dependent on your investment capital.

@teddy.bisson.411

Жыл бұрын

Search his full name

@teddy.bisson.411

Жыл бұрын

Zach Micah Demers

He's a great communicator because he had me, a 15 years old teen watching this 58 minutes video without stopping

@aki6704

3 жыл бұрын

ah yes, the average 15 year old

@rimaaouadi9092

3 жыл бұрын

@@arandomlemon6707 I mean... yeah (: i'm kinda too outgoing so i hope i don't scare you ! Thank you for the compliment though, that's nice

@aki6704

3 жыл бұрын

@@rimaaouadi9092 famous last words lol

@rimaaouadi9092

3 жыл бұрын

@Kevin Mejia Oh well i mean...sure

@crypticcoding9680

3 жыл бұрын

Same for me.

"in spontaneous speaking situations. The very first thing we have to do is manage our anxiety. Because you can't be an effective speaker if you don't have your anxiety under control. And we talked about how you can do that by greeting your anxiety, reframing as a conversation, and being in the present moment" I love the beginning and ending with words

Finally KZread Recommended something good

@muhammadabrar4233

3 жыл бұрын

I agree

@catherinea.frazier6438

3 жыл бұрын

Same yup 💯

@kibatikibe665

3 жыл бұрын

Truely something that is educative.a

@epicengineer0074

3 жыл бұрын

KZread has adaptive algorithm . Which has only one job to make sure user doesn't gets distracted and stop using KZread application! Maybe we have started watching something for ourselves and then it's job is to recommend us something good to watch! 🐱

@furbabylover1532

3 жыл бұрын

yeah im so glad lol I've had so many unmeaningful random vids on my feed

""Presenting" is not a performance" Bro..tht line...will forever be engrained in my mind..

I am not a native English speaker, yet your ideas was clear and concise. It has helped me in my endeavor to get over anxiety in speaking and in maximizing mediocrity to achieve greatness. i wish you the best in your book and lectures. Your lectures and methodology will help millions of folks.

If you wanna be successful, you must take responsibility for your emotions, not place the blame on others. In addition to making you feel more guilty about your faults, pointing the finger at others will only serve to increase your sense of personal accountability. There's always a risk in every investment, yet people still invest and succeed. You must look outward if you wanna be successful in life...

@Effiong94

5 ай бұрын

Absolutely. Market success requires emotional maturity

@danielisah9065

5 ай бұрын

The first step to successful investing is figuring out your goals and risk tolerance either on your own or with the help of a financial professional but is very advisable you make use of a professional

@Jabir937

5 ай бұрын

I trade as a side hustle while keeping my job. I'm tired of trading in losses myself. I've blown my account twice and it's frustrating. I see people making a living out of trading and I want to do the same. Please I need help can someone teach me how to trade?

@samem.washington5136

5 ай бұрын

the market is profiting if you are using a good broker or account manager to help out with trades or provide signals

@besttime647

5 ай бұрын

I'll recommend Expert Mrs. Theresa Walton to you. She's the best I've seen. She trades my fx account and makes me good profits weekly

“See, I’m having a conversation with 100 people” ...22M views later

@BuddyMac69

2 жыл бұрын

That “+” has gone a long way

@galinaantonov4574

2 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/famnrLKhoNfNhMo.html

@stephenadams5334

Жыл бұрын

26Mil

We read news in the media that doom and gloom is coming and we just accept it, doom and gloom doesn’t always have to be coming, I’ve read numerous success stories of people that are pulling off tremendous gains of up to $250K within weeks in this crazy market and I just want to learn how to achieve such figures.

@lipglosskitten2610

Жыл бұрын

With this crash I'll say it wont be too easy to pick the right stock, Jim Cramer said there are still huge opportunities despite the crash, and I overheard someone talk about making $250k from about $110k since the crash. How do I make these kind of returns Nate?

@Walter_hill_

Жыл бұрын

There are actually a lot of ways to make high yields in a crisis, but such trades are best done under the supervision of Financial advisor.

@lipglosskitten2610

Жыл бұрын

@Dan Brooks Impressive can you share more info?

@lipglosskitten2610

Жыл бұрын

@Dan Brooks She appears to be well-educated and well-read. I ran a Google search on her name and came across her website; thank you for sharing.

@echedeking

Жыл бұрын

@Dan Brooks scammers

Damn, I’m half way through the video and it opened my eyes. I already had seen some tips and textbook advice but the way he presented everything was so easy to understand and apply in real life. I went to an interview and I felt so good after watching this - one of the best (if not the best) performances I’ve had for an interview LOL. I’m definitely going to finish the rest of the video and apply as much as I can because it is legit advice. Especially managing anxiety. What works best for me is slowing down. Never starting at 1000 words per minute! It helps sooo much to not have anxiety. You’d be surprised how well you can speak when you let what you’ve learned come out instead of your anxiety.

I have no idea how I am just now blessed enough to discover Matt Abrahams but he has a new fan! I have been meaning to watch this for while but as I was talking my morning meditation walk I tuned in to his Grit & Growth Podcast episode and just had to finally watch this.

I love the fact that this is the first video that I can focus on and not getting bored. I'm the introvert, like I always feel nervous and scared to present in front of my friends when that happens I tend to forgot about the topic that I'm going to talk about 😭 I really can't take that anxiety off

This is absolutely brilliant and I am so grateful that knowledge, wisdom, and guidance like this is readily available AND FREE on KZread. thank you so much!

just planned the best surprise party for my mom and gave the best speech i've ever given because of this video, thanks for your help sir! the best way to start progressing in life is by saving money, i promise nothing brings the confidence level up like a a good finance believe me!! i'm taking her to hawaii afterwards will tell you how the trip went

@donaldlocher2537

3 жыл бұрын

how did you get to this level of success if you don't mind giving a few pointers?

@taylorgreen5908

3 жыл бұрын

@@donaldlocher2537 1)Never let anyone bother you, you can make your own decisions and 2) I use a Financial adviser who handles my savings. she's the best in the business

@feliciasherbert989

3 жыл бұрын

@@taylorgreen5908 how do i get to this advisor pls i would like to build my dividend portfolio?

@taylorgreen5908

3 жыл бұрын

@@feliciasherbert989 i can't actually leave details on here, you could do that yourself her name is Lucy Maria Koss, she's quite known ,you can search and connect with her on her website

@junebogan7171

3 жыл бұрын

If monetary or financial status is credited with boosting confidence then it would just as easily be blamed for low confidence levels if assessts/finances were lost. This creates opportunity to be unaccountable and detracts from our true potential. Also this mindset is giving unworthy credit to a worthless fiat currency for amazing abilities that we possess as human beings. The amount of potential we have is infinitely greater than any amount of money>

shoutout to the people that are aged in this workshop yet actively learning at that stage.

This is a great speaker to the core, and I have listened to this video for more than 5 times. As a podcaster, I see “Active Listening” as a fundamental communication skill. This is a great skill because it helps for full concentration, understanding, responding. In business, this technique is vital for building strong relationships with colleagues, clients, and stakeholders.

Listened to literally every podcast episode. First time seeing Matt visually. As always, great stuff. He’s my mentor and doesn’t even know it lol

A good talk that deserves the speaker's name on the title- Matt Abrahams, and a completed intro in the brief.

He is an incredible speaker and he knows how to efficiently get his point across I am a high school sophomore and I watched this entire video no issues its understandable and easy to learn from and take into your own life.

who is here 2024 to ur self

@bini217

Ай бұрын

me ☺

@Sportcafe01

Ай бұрын

@@bini217 🕶

@Nightmareuu

Ай бұрын

​@@Sportcafe01🕶️👍🏻

I just stumbled into this video and couldn't stop watching. Too good. I loved it.

I'm glad I ran into this one. It's almost like the internet is monitoring me and had youtube say "this is the video for you".. I had a nervous session in class after running on zero hours of sleep, I really thought I was going to be able to do it but it was terrible. Will never do that again. Get your sleep before class. There... I used the structure and I think it worked pretty well.

@jeronymkristof12345

3 жыл бұрын

plot twist: the internet is actually monitoring you :D

what is outstanding for me is, many old people want to hear and attend the seminar, and frequently ask the speaker how to talk effectively in order to talk without creating an altercation and ambiguity. Because I often see and feel, some of them are always feeling "I have been living in this world for a long time and you don't have the right to teach me how I live, specifically how to communicate with each other". But, amazingly, they're trying to listen and learn about it. I really appreciate those old people, furthermore, shout out to the speaker who gives a stunning presentation and education.

@edithbannerman4

Жыл бұрын

@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

I swear, its the best presentation and speech ive ever heard

1. Manage anxiety 1. “Greet” anxiety. “This is me feeling nervous” 2. Reframe as a conversation not a performance 1. Start with questions (rhetorical, polling, etc.) 2. Use conversational language (“this is important to you” vs. “one must consider”, “step 1” vs. “The first thing for you to consider..”) 3. Be in present moment to eliminate anxiety (orientation to time influences reaction). 1. How: 100 pushups, tongue twisters, walk around building, focus on song, count backwards from 100 by tough numbers. Tongue twister: I slit a sheet. A sheet I slit and on that slitted sheet I sit. 2. Warm up your voice 2. Practice Steps to Speak Spontaneously 1. Get out of own way (remove expectations) Activity: Point and shout wrong name, without pre-planning 2. See interactions as opportunities not challenges Activity: Surprise gift challenge. Giver: “I knew you’d like it because...” 3. Take time to listen Activity: Spell letters of conversation 3. Use a useful structure 1. Problem/opportunity-> solution -> benefit 2. What?-> so what? (Why important) -> now what? Book: “Speaking up without freaking out”

@atishay4859

3 жыл бұрын

thanks dear

@blessingukaegbu6318

3 жыл бұрын

Nice breakdown.

@raivoadsvalue6878

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Your notes saved my life this evening. ;dd

@monaalei1917

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@alysaterre885

3 жыл бұрын

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Great video. I interviewed for a job that requires public speaking and just the thought of even getting hired and preparing to speak has me shook. This video is full of great tips.

Steve Martin really did his research into this. I'm so grateful he took time away from his busy movie career for this.

One of the best video on Communication skill I've ever watched. Thanks Stanford Business for uploading this.

"dare to be dull" is the best advice i think for working at a call center lol

Wonderful lecture to advance my knowledge of commutation skills. Im starting my journey to self improvement, who else is here with me?

he is very calm and confident and know how he doing and he is very interactive when he talk his speech is very interesting for audience even they are online, so he is vary good speaker.

The most challenging part really is retaining audience's engagement. This is very helpful!

As a proud member of AA, I have over 6 yrs public speaking experience. I prefer spontaneous vs planned, so not to give myself time to overthink or to seem scripted. I don't usually get very anxious and it gets easier every time.

@ainnsufiaa

Жыл бұрын

what is AA ?

@iiiRollSushiii

10 ай бұрын

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You know why u kept watching this till the 58th min and the 20th second? becoz of one thing.. He was talking spontaneously!! He wasn't distant from his audience and he used an understandable vocabulary. Am going to read his book and look for other "conversations" of him. Worth watching 👍

I'd love to be in the this institution listening to him guided by him. I'm indeed blessed to have searched about communicating. I have picked out more vocabulary than what I've received.❤😊

It's 2024 , guuuuuys 🙂❤️❤️ and I'm still learning from this video 🎉

The most inspiring thing about this video for me is his confidence while speaking and teaching The flow is smooth and worth emulating

"A Q&A session is an opportunity to clarify, to understand what people are saying"- Seeing it as an opportunity rather than a challenge and a threat. That whole sentence changed my life

Matt is gorgeous and super skilled podcast producer and an excellent lecturer/mentor. I really improved my listening and speaking strategies throughout his lectures.

🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 🎤 Effective spontaneous speaking is the focus of this workshop. 02:34 🗣️ Spontaneous speaking, like cold calls, introductions, and Q&A sessions, is more common than planned speaking. 04:39 😰 Managing anxiety is crucial for effective communication, and techniques like mindfulness can help. 08:15 💬 Speaking spontaneously should be seen as a conversation rather than a performance. 16:45 🚫 Don't overthink; get yourself out of the way when speaking spontaneously. 21:41 🧠 Get out of your own way to improve spontaneous speaking. It takes practice to overcome mental barriers. 24:43 🤝 See speaking opportunities as chances to clarify and connect, not just challenges. It changes your perspective. 37:57 🚀 Listening is crucial. Focus and listen to truly understand the other person before responding. 40:08 📜 Effective spontaneous speaking benefits from structured communication, like problem-solution-benefit or what-so-what-now-what. 42:58 🎯 Use structured approaches to convey your message effectively in spontaneous speaking situations. It helps you focus and deliver clear responses. 45:39 🗣️ Practice using structures in spontaneous speaking situations to reduce cognitive load and improve communication. 46:37 🧠 Managing anxiety, practicing a series of steps, including using structures, can make you a more confident and connected speaker. 51:16 🌐 When speaking to remote audiences, be mindful, use engagement techniques, and consider their cultural expectations to connect effectively. 52:40 💡 Handling hostile cross-examination: Identify key themes, paraphrase questions, and use concrete evidence to respond effectively. 57:34 🤔 When interviewing people who've had media training, ask "why" questions and invite them to provide advice to elicit more authentic and detailed responses. Made with HARPA AI

This seminar is the best example of what he taught us.

@Animator22538

2 жыл бұрын

CR7 unt

@ahmedkhan-fj9md

2 жыл бұрын

CR7 for life

@Animator22538

2 жыл бұрын

@@ahmedkhan-fj9md CR7 for life

@ahmedkhan-fj9md

2 жыл бұрын

@@Animator22538 gg

This video was amazing I’m glad it came into my recommended, I think now I can overcome the confidence and anxiety to toast and appreciate my family when we eat at the table together

Watching this video in 2024❤

@shanaianehzlmarie1051

Ай бұрын

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I can't believe I just watched a 58-minute video in one sitting. Recently, I have turned to KZread to broaden my knowledge and deepen my thinking process. However, this is the first video where I learned practical and applicable knowledge that'll stick. Good stuff, Matt!

This is amazing advice. Spontaneous speaking, off the cuff/in the moment, is a skill all professional service founders must master, and also teach their teams. Will be sharing this!

Amazing lecture. I wish you all the best with coping with your anxieties and becoming effective comunicators

I dident really thought about spontanious speaking as problem to be solved altough it is some of the biggest barriers. My mind was almost of reborn as i listened to this lecture cant discribe the feeling. We have been tought by our schools our hole life ro think in a certain partern i really felt i was out of that trap listening to this 😊🙌🙌

This was amazing.. watching it 9 years after it was released

Younger audience is just looking awkwardly at each other. The aged audience are the real learners they are taking the activities more seriously. Just loved their hunger for acquiring new knowledge!

@blindfire3167

2 жыл бұрын

??? The older audience is probably protesting covid and taking Ivermectin lol

"Make your audience feel comfortable." Wow. This changed my perspective all over the place! 😱

As an ESL teacher , the tongue twister and the games are really fun and so active . Hope to attend your seminar one day

I wanted to watch this video 2 yrs back but I was postponing it due to some work But now I have watched it completely it is an amazing video with helpful techniques for communication Thank you

Communication is AMAZING. It's ART all by itself. COMMUNICATION IS NOT ONLY VERBAL. Obviously, BODY LANGUAGE is essential as well. Not to mention. It's the SIMPLICITY for me. This Gentleman is literally having a conversation about CONVERSATION which equals, communication. Effective communication! ~ LISTENING. ✨

@TheCommunicationCoach

2 жыл бұрын

Only part of it, learn it ALL HERE: kzread.info/dron/61eUxiCdhCfrbPVy266cQw.html

I just received a call from a company I am applying to. They emailed me already that I didn't pass hence I didn't expect their call but someone called and I got so nervous that I had a hard time understanding what he is asking me, I think he got pissed off 😅 that's why after that call I searched immediately for this. Since I am an introvert speaking spontaneously to anyone is a hard job for me but I'll try harder to develop my speaking skills from now on 😣✊

@wesleytyler9599

2 жыл бұрын

NEVER GIVE UP ON YOURSELF . LEVEL UP 📚 POWER UP 🫀 TOUGHEN UP🏋‍♂️ AND CASE 🌎🏃‍♂️ A BETTER LIFE IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY . REALITY CHECK TIME ⌛WASTED IS LIFE WASTED .

@danieljohansen142

Жыл бұрын

Hello there how are you doing today 👋👋👋

I just discovered this today and I’m glad i chanced on this. I have battled anxiety for years as a very intelligent students and people’s choice for leadership yet anxiety has pulled me back. I hope to practice these to be confident in my delivery.

Communication is definitely a skill that everyone can benefit from improving, and I'm especially interested in learning more about how to speak with greater confidence and clarity in interviews and meetings.

Brilliant video for self-development. We overanalyse and evaluate when we think I want to give a great performance but if we dare to be boring , dare to face rejection therefore dare to be imperfect. Don’t use “No but…” (this is defensive), use “Yes and..” ( you can encourage someone to share more of whatever they say is strange to you).

Am really grateful for this presentation. I have always been nervous to ask my customers when they are paying their debts but now I feel able with structuring

General ideas that has been put forward by Mr Matt Abraham here will be really helpful for me in longrun. Accepting our anxiety and avoiding stock pilings of our brains makes us more creative. Matt abraham's way of communicating with his audience is exceptional. He acquired his audience attention with his confident and brilliant communicative skills. Anyone Struggling with focus or communication , Matt Abraham is the man you can approach.

This is a beautiful message! Easy to digest and quick to the point

Great talks indeed from communication expert Matt ABRAHAM. Thank you very much sir for your training online...

haha, this has been in my recommendation from 2 years now. just because of the length of the video, I always just dropped it. And today after enough of procrastination, I can really say that youtube recommendations should seldom be neglected.

AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My life has literally changed.

What I learnt through the video is 1) Engaging in the conversation is important 2) Diverting your Mind is Important 3) problem ,Solution Benefit Method 4) What ,So What , Now What 5) Sign gestures make an effect , 6) Dare to be dull Just add more to it what you learnt out of it wonderful video btw

List: Anxiety management: • Anxiety isn’t bad, it gives us drive to continue speaking. • Make your audience comfortable. • When your nervous try greeting your anxiety. • There are no mistakes in presenting. • List questions that you’re going to answer while presenting. • Use conversational language. • Don’t worry about the future consequences. • Try being in the moment. • Warm up your voice. Ground rules: • Speak more spontaneously. • Don’t be afraid to get things wrong. • Don’t fallow patterns. • Train your brain to get it out of the way. • See things as an opportunity. • Say more yes than no. • Slow down, focus and listen. • Respond with structure. • Never lose your audience. • Have ideas and themes. • Paraphrase questions. • Try figuring out who is your audience and what are their expectations. • If you’re asking a question, ask for some advice.

@lawanyaarvind2810

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this summary

@Tiandesta

Жыл бұрын

Thanks!!!

@M9lsnik

6 ай бұрын

How i can copy the text

@thembicibane5572

2 ай бұрын

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The fact that this video was uploaded way back 2014 and is still relevant until this day is 👌🏻✨

@MrRand0mGamer

3 жыл бұрын

It's increasingly more important every year as in person communication becomes less frequent in every day life

Now that's what you call a professional speaker! 🙂

I never comment on videos but goddamn. Only 15 minutes in and I’ve learned some absolute gold. I’m an actor and get performance anxiety aswell, some social anxiety and also public speaking anxiety. KZread/TedTalks are the GOAT 🥇