For everyone that is watching this video. Your time for greatness is coming!

@yarugirl

4 күн бұрын

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

@dianacao4431

2 күн бұрын

I appreciate this, thank you. Right back atcha!

Key titles #1. Tame the Anxiety Beast. #2. Maximise Mediocrity. (So you can achieve greatness) - Reduce cognitive load. #3. Mind Your Mindset. - i) Not yet ii) Yes, and. iii) Next play iv) Missed take #4. Don't just do something... stand there - Listen; Pace. Space. Grace #5. STRUCTURE Your Spontaneity - What? So What? Now What? #6. The F-word: FOCUS - Have a Goal: Know, Feel, Do. (What do I want the audience to Know, How do I want them to Feel, What do I want them to Do) - Sentence starters, pitch (structure): What if you could... So that... For example... That's not all...

Excellent video. The best tips for better speech I have ever heard include 1. Be knowledgeable on many topics and be a subject matter expert in your area. 2. Prepare your speech. Think about what you are going to say. There is no shame in writing your speech out. 3. Read out loud every day. Just as a singer will not improve with mouthing the words silently an orator needs to practice saying words. 4. Speak slow. 5. Smile and look very comfortable. 6. Concentrate fully on your speech to get in the zone. Don't get distracted and don't lose focus. 7. Role model a great speaking. Watch videos from Obama, Jay Leno, Josh Hawley and other great speakers. Watch their head, hands and other body movement. 8. Practice giving speeches preferrable out loud or at very least in your mind. 9. If you are given a tough question, answer it in frameworks rather than being potentially wrong with the answer. 10. Ask clarifying questions before you give your answer.

@cocoarecords

2 ай бұрын

Thx sir

@Phileas_40

2 ай бұрын

It's funny because your advices may work but are very rigid and prepared in advance. But the video was about improvisation, being in the present, truly listening to your audience 😅

@davidr4523

2 ай бұрын

@@Phileas_40 except for my #2 all of the guidance I gave prepares you advance for when you have improvise . Other guidance gave like smiling and focusing helps you during your speech.

@muel6294

23 күн бұрын

😅😊

@lesleymhlanga4324

16 күн бұрын

exceptional advice....I appreciate 🎉

I always try to remind myself that I’m just trying to help the people I’m presenting to. If you’re just there to help, and focus on that, you can take yourself out of the equation.

@SCharlesS

Ай бұрын

Yes that is his step 3.

@adventurist86

Ай бұрын

Absolutely, agreed!

This is God sent. I blush and perspire and it has really destroyed my life. I am 38 years old now and still faces this issue. Somehow as a younger person I thought, that it would go away as I grow older, but it never did. I just came home after having dinner at a friends place and while socializing my anxiety kicked in and I blushed and started perspiring again. Went home dejected, fired up my P.C and decided, my time's better spent learning Japanese then wallowing in self pity, but for some reason the app won't open. So opened KZread and this was in my recommendation. I will use this knowledge and better myself from this day onward. Thank You

@mrjohncrumpton

Ай бұрын

Came here to say I blush over my face and neck too. And the sweat from my armpits drenches my shirt lol.

@Nic03187

15 күн бұрын

The symptoms you describe are actually an indication of your intelligence. Only frauds and really stupid people are convinced they´re smart.

I found you in KZread by amazing accident, and I have been watching three videos on a road, I'm going to give a class for medical interpreters in Montana, and all your videos that I watched help me to feel more confident and get more ideas for my next class in March 2024. God bless your knowledge 🙏

@salimjamal7985

2 ай бұрын

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@user-ps6wr9fi8s

2 ай бұрын

Yah! You are the One of greatest speakers I have ever heard.

@PriyankaRay-ng8bu

2 ай бұрын

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@bhineshwartidke4249

2 ай бұрын

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@juanalonsocobarrubiasverdu5087

2 ай бұрын

Cool Thanks...

Step 1. Manage Anxiety, Step 2. Get out of our own way, Step 3. See it as an Opportunity Step 4. Listen Well Step 5. Messaging

It always surprises me how many people have a hard time with small talk. This info is necessary!

“I’m still a Work in Progress” love your openness here. 😂

To this day, i didn't know what small talk means. I am glad i have searched it on here and came across this treasure of communication skills.

I really love the way he narrated I'm like when I have to talk I go freeze so it's really good for me to exercise this to reduce my condition

I believe I’ve seen him do this lecture before and still amazing.

One of the rare time I open my note book to study a talk. Thanks for the content. It’s so valuable

I’m brand new to sales and struggle with social anxiety. I really appreciate your videos. They are very helpful!

Amazing presentation again from Matt!! I've been trying to follow him since the presentation 9 years ago and it really helps me

These are really good advices. "Structure is a tool", I love this.

I am not a native English speaker, yet your ideas was clear and concise. It has helped me in my endeavor to get over anxiety in speaking and in maximizing mediocrity to achieve greatness. i wish you the best in your book and lectures. Your lectures and methodology will help millions of folks.

Outstanding lecture! I wish Matt had been my professor in college. Very engaging to the very end and extremely useful. There are clear applications across my life communicating with my family, in my roles in business development and in podcasting. Thanks, Matt!

🎉 Thank you KZread and Stanford Alumni for this free lecture and class... I've learned what was much-needed for my success in the future ❤. #thinktillyousweat

Purchased the audio book. Thank you.

I really appreciate for sharing this great lecture.

Thank you Matt. I hope to one day come back and repeat, reflect and seek feedback, from others and myself. Anyone else what like to share there feedback?

Matt thanks a lot for this conference and video resource. It's super useful, loved the pitching framework... I'll practice practice practice!

This was also a wonderful video to learn from. I get real tense when attempting to "say the right things"; so thank you for uploading this content for others to evolve from

Thank you for sharing!

thank you Steve Martin!

@amirahaidary4187

2 ай бұрын

😂 lol he does look like him

@jycegaming8530

2 ай бұрын

This is Matt Abrahams

@aN0nyMas

2 ай бұрын

@@jycegaming8530 Hi Matt Abrahams! This is dad!

@sickofya

Ай бұрын

Steve martin without jokes

@LiveForeverFitness

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

Thank you so much sir 🙏

Structure mindset and messaging..thanks

This was useful-thank you.

I have been listening to your podcast on spotify for 2 years...now i get to see you :) thank you for the show...and love your voice and pace!

Love this guy! He's like a serious Steve Martin, very engaging speaker!

@JayhawkGuitar

Ай бұрын

Well said! 100% agree.

Thank you! Appreciated.

It’s dificult to gasp the fact that we as a society need a “ how to have a conversation” course. It’s like teaching droids how to behave. Makes me sad. I appreciate the content nonetheles

@jamalperry4281

2 ай бұрын

I was thing this??? Why is it a class to talk. Everyone is different and every situation is subtly different… I feeel like he’s teaching how to be deceptive!!!

@JoelTanSG

Ай бұрын

@kadutho because being able to communicate under high stress situation is a important skill set that should have been taught when we were kids but unfortunately was not. It’s not about “how to have a conversation “ but how to effectively bring across what’s in my mind to someone different from me and be able to connect with him through words

Very helpful! Thank you!

When i was teaching HS Drama 1, i was not teaching acting... i was teaching "how to speak publicly" and "make friends". Sure, we did it through games and scene work, but i think it helped.

Love is a gift that comes to my mind 🤔

🎉 thanks for the advice, as we speak I have a problem my mind just shut especially presenting sermon

Knowledge is power

1)What? So what? Now what?. 2)Tell me the time, don’t make me a clock. 3) Structure/focus. pitching: what if you could, so that, for example, and that’s not all

Thanks more for this tips ,thanks again you faced me to the right way

I found you in KZread by amazing accident, and I have been watching three videos on a road, I'm going to give a class for medical interpreters in Montana, and all your videos that I watched help me to feel more confident and get more ideas for my next class in March 2024. God bless your knowledge

Remember to do the following six things each time someone puts you in the spot. Brilliant. Edit: Okay most of this stuff is actually pretty good.

Wish I had this lecture fifty years ago.

@uuyy5993

2 ай бұрын

Hopefully u may have 50 years after this.. So 🥂

Seriously, pretty fantastic! 🎉

Great Teacher ❤

I have heard many talks on this talk and this is the best so far, it makes the sense straight away. I have already watched it multiple times and will listen to it again and again. Thanks a lot for such a life changing coaching on communication skills

@BrainMartian

Ай бұрын

27:55

@BrainMartian

Ай бұрын

30:52

@BrainMartian

Ай бұрын

p 43:53

His pitch was awesome 👌

I watched his video 9 years ago, and still good till this day

@rocketcal6326

Ай бұрын

Sick ass time traveler lol

Absolutely need to slow things down!

This was so good thank you

It,s First english vedio i ever completed

Amazing❤

I love Steve Martin

Speaking in the moment - is something that I struggle the most. I’m frozen all the time 😢 And I am in my 30s

Next play ❤️

- manage anxiety - get out of Our Own Way - see it as an opportunity - listen well - structure your responses

I love Steve Martin.

That was my problem in my last job interview, I felt so embarrassed 😢

Our internal thought processes may not always align perfectly with external communication. We might have a clear understanding of our thoughts internally, but conveying them to others requires translating them into a format that may not capture all the nuances of our internal experience.

That's good conversation

This is really great. But i fell asleep really fast also xD.

be present oriented

Ss matter of Fact: The Best Tool...

00:00:01:How to speak better in the moment if you have recently had to 00:01:34:6 Steps to Be Better at Talking in the Moment 00:04:10:How do you feel when you watch a nervous speaker present now I 00:06:29:Thermo Regulators for Your Body 00:07:28:How to manage anxiety if I didn't talk about a 00:09:44:How to maximize mediocrity in the moment we get in our own 00:11:32:When I am evaluating and judging everything I'm saying as 00:12:57:How to play a simple improvisation game with me 00:15:10:Step How we want to do well and we want to make sure we 00:17:01:How to see things opportunities the first comes from this notion of growth mindset 00:19:57:How to move to the next play if you're an athlete 00:22:56:Listening most of us are not good listeners we listen just enough 00:24:51:Three Things Pace Space Grace to listen well you have to give yourself 00:26:19:How to listen better if you don't respond right away 00:28:43:Why I was teased mercilessly because Matt rhymes with everything okay 00:31:17:This is a yes thumbs up yes thumbs down no no 00:34:04:Where are we going do I have the right shoes on should I go 00:35:14:3 simple questions what so what now what the what is your idea your 00:37:19:Structure is incredibly helpful in spontaneous communication in the new book 00:38:40:It is much better to be Compact and concise in what you're 00:40:48:How to speak more effectively in the moment what if you could feel 00:42:24:Do you see how easy that was do you see how the structure helped

6:00 manage anxiety 8:00 find sources of anxiety

exhale, cold bottle, be present with walking, song, counting backwards, and tongue twister (i slip a sheet), be mediocre, what, so what, now what

Buddy made me feel like an idiot right off the bat with that Fs question

I am that person Dr Siamak Baghai Arassi

3:45 Tame the anxiety beast

Executive summary: be present, be present, mistakes are the main way to learn, be more present.

Me in the toilet cubicle: “I slit a sheet…” My colleague in the next one: 👀👀👀

Think faster , talk smarter

Anyone can explain to me about the 6F?

@eduvidio

2 ай бұрын

Nvm I got it in my fifth replay 😂😂

@munmundey3768

2 ай бұрын

Here you go - Finished Files are the result oF years oF scientiFic study combined with the experience oF many years

Despite the title talk faster I feel like this video is 2hrs long , may because I'm a slow listner 🙂

Abhi 2024 meh aa video dak raha hoo

Instructions unclear, I failed the interrogation for the triple homicide

👍

I am seeing this and I think they are actually 5 Fs in there

are those his...?😂 btw it's a really nice lecture..ill apply this in my work😊

@Chrisjavier2604

2 ай бұрын

“Of” los of OF

MQU❤

Good morning sir

still findinf only 5 "f"s

More then 44 minutes without using mmm, hmm, aaand , incredible🎉

How did he find 6 Fs in that "quote"?

@asararulhaque8391

Ай бұрын

Search again it's 6F Count "of" also contacted F

I freeze 🥶 ?????

Takeaway tongue twister : I slit a sheet , a sheet I slit , and on that slitted sheet I sit 😅

there are 5 f’s tho

9/10 Indian telephone scammers agree

Pretty good stuff, I just realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's crazy! Although what he previously talked about was pretty decent, it was difficult to follow, I just go'ogled the latest in Mario's Thunderous Erections, it's so much simpler and potent now!

Am I the only one? But I can only find 3 Fs not 6😢

@fene241

Ай бұрын

you probably skipped over the word “of” it was in the sentence 3 times

👍🐝🦷🌹🍻

Speak* smarter.

Don’t think about it…

You can find Ariana grande's music here - yes, and? 😂

How many fs?

@noeltellsall

Ай бұрын

Just 1, Me. I did not pass the intro quiz.

maybe a tip on keeping nips from getting piercing hard... 🤣

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This is useless. This is why the US is not what it used to be. I always run into people who love to talk but are lazy as hell when it comes to actual delivery. I prefer nervous presenters over car salesmen.

@myles5158

Ай бұрын

Really?

Bro did not name his kids right lmao

Wait there aren’t more than 3 F’s? Dafuq is he talking about ?! 😅😂

@munmundey3768

2 ай бұрын

If that helps - Finished Files are the result oF years oF scientiFic study combined with the experience oF many years