This British Reality TV Show is Pure Evil
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@EccentricMoose330
Ай бұрын
Ok
@altogeorge2406
Ай бұрын
mullet
@arisp_
Ай бұрын
yippeee
@ismailegeatalan7518
Ай бұрын
23 likes in 16 hours? He fell off
@destroyaihardlyknowa
Ай бұрын
why are u canada
every choice the husband makes while planning the wedding makes me feel like he's playing episode irl with no gems
@torimattison7841
Ай бұрын
Makes sense to me🧐
@JBC352
Ай бұрын
The show made the questions, the guy created the choices. “You’re in charge of planning your wedding with your 7 month pregnant fiancée. Which wedding venue do you pick?” Airplane Aisle vs Prison Worst part is that he gave no thought about his partner’s wishes and then attempted to pin the blame on her as he hid the answers and made her pick one at random. At least Episode has the decency to show you your choices.
@dych33ss75
Ай бұрын
LMAOO like actually 😭😭😭
@mylittlebouquet3994
Ай бұрын
@@JBC352no fr😭 at least I can see what kinda shitty choice I’m making. THIS, this however is pure hell.
@demigreen6495
Ай бұрын
Lmaoo truuuuu😂😂😂
He's not dumb he's EVIL. He knew he was hurting her and thought it was funny
@thewhiterabbitchaser
Ай бұрын
the most valid comment
@demo2823
29 күн бұрын
Hurting her and then threatening to gaslight when he will eventually call it her fault and her choices.
@violetdawn7036
27 күн бұрын
He's very clearly a narcissist. Narcissists are fucking incapable of love, so of course he's evil and not empathetic. He's only thinking of himself
@stefanschulz6536
27 күн бұрын
just because he's evil doesn't mean he is not dumb...
@TheDreamingMyriad
26 күн бұрын
Right?! It didn't feel like he didn't know her; it felt like he was *trying* to hurt her. Malicious, imo
Him blaming her for her "choices" is a huge red flag.
@missymisanthrope40
22 күн бұрын
This is a perfect visual representation of the “make better choices!!!!” argument they make when blaming victims
@krikeydial3430
21 күн бұрын
Him being a total idiot is a red flag but women love idiots because they sometimes are easier to control. ..not in this case, she probably loved his big wang but so do the other kooks.
@SpikeTaunt
4 күн бұрын
That's clearly a joke, some of you need to understand a little more about relationships and basic human communication
@tengentoppagurrenlmao5907
2 күн бұрын
@@SpikeTaunt I scourge the internet to find any records of this series and this particular episode, and let me tell you, no, he's not joking, he literally guilt-tripped his wife. 💀
@SpikeTaunt
2 күн бұрын
@@tengentoppagurrenlmao5907 yeah sure dude
The age gap between these two, his liking of prisons, warehouses, planes, and going to Thailand are suspicious as hell
@ember9361
21 күн бұрын
he's also a pig, so there's that
@MasterShakeXYZ
21 күн бұрын
Yeah! Fuck Thailand!
@portpebble5097
19 күн бұрын
For the honeymoon, he will be shipped by plane to a warehouse in Thailand. 😍 (it is a prison.)
@user-ud1cd7qq4q
18 күн бұрын
Eh, my parents have a 9-year age gap.
@Icanhazacat
18 күн бұрын
Bruh its not the age gap that's the biggest problem. Its all things mentioned together that make this guy sus af.@user-ud1cd7qq4q
him spending $160 on her dress but $500 on his suit is actually so gross
@jorgedaniel9656
Ай бұрын
£, not $ (500£ is 635$). And that is a crazy amount to spend on the suit considering the budget. I have to attend two weddings this year so I bought a new suit for 180€ (154£), tailor fitted for me that I'm just going to straight up say looks way better than the one he got
@highoninfinity
Ай бұрын
@@jorgedaniel9656 i know its pounds im american and on a laptop so i dont have the symbol lol
@insederec
Ай бұрын
@@Jack-px8lfit's less about that and more about, there is a budget, you are in full control over what it gets used for, and you decided your part of it deserves more of that limited budget than the other person.
@futurehofer1564
Ай бұрын
@@jorgedaniel9656 $ means money in general, you are dense
@breathofsea
Ай бұрын
@@Jack-px8lf"i mean i hate to be the"- proceeds to be that person. Dude. If I got married and for whatever reason my husband really cared about his suit, the materials, cut etc then obviously there would be no problem with spending more money for that reason. I doubt this dude actually cares about that, but it's clear his wife did and honestly he should know that because most women do, I do too and I couldn't even tell you why exactly, but you can at least expect a woman to want to look the most beautiful she can on the day of her wedding. He made no efforts to make that desire come true. He had the choice of how much money went into what, and decided that *he* was more important than her on something that he doesn't care about and she does. Because, let's be honest, that man wouldn't know the difference between a designer tailored suit and a cheap suit from the thrift
Its so sad when the bride first sees her dress because she starts to realize how little he actually values her
@mushroomphrogs3941
Ай бұрын
I actually got emotionally distressed for her, she seems so sweet and hearing her voice crack when trying to remain rational on TV made me so sad actually because wow. Imagine knowing that your husband would value you so little and then clearly care more about himself, think selfishly, and be a foolish fucking idiot. I'm glad she left him
@yuiscene
Ай бұрын
"why play games with me now?" oh no girl I'm so sorry ☹️
@manashieldmedia
Ай бұрын
theyre both on a fucking SHOW getting their wedding PAID FOR this is just brainless fake media. what happened to the world? we went from knowing this was completely staged bullshit to using reality shows as a gauge for human beings. get real.
@PlanetBabylon
Ай бұрын
I think buying a teeny tiny dress to your 8 month pregnant wife is just evil
@manashieldmedia
Ай бұрын
@@PlanetBabylon Yeah how EVIL. No no no there is no responsibility on the woman in this at all. No sir! She married a literal terrorist after 9 months and let a tv show decide her "most important day(LMAO)" But yeah sexism is cool I guess
Brit here - while this dude is indeed an absolute 🔔end, the shown was also heavily led by the production team. There were some rules that weren't televised - like the groom had to pick a theme, and certain parts of the budget were dictated to make the grooms look more selfish. (For example they had to spend a certain amount on the dress vs the suit.) They also auditioned the couples, talking to each partner separately and deliberately chose those with the biggest differences in their ideas. It was basically rage bait TV... Like most of our tv shows were in the 00's 🙈
@olgagrigoreva2801
23 күн бұрын
This is so messed up. So the producers deliberately set up women for their feelings to be hurt by choosing the most inconsiderate, clueless men and encouraging men to ruin the experience for their brides - without women's informed consent to such appalling treatment. And it's worse than a simple rage bait like telling outrageous things, etc., because it involves actually hurting people's feelings and ruining families. What misogynistic bigotry this show is!
@scoopitywoop
22 күн бұрын
No I've seen this show and I've seen them spend way less on the suit before (once it was $0 on the groomsmen suits, causing the best man to drop out). Some of the bride dresses and bridesmaids dresses were alright. The man finds a way to mess up somewhere else
@Scott_Raynor
17 күн бұрын
@@olgagrigoreva2801 come on they´ve seen the program before, they know the wedding will be rubbish. If you want a proper wedding then don´t go on a reality show
@pound2loud
16 күн бұрын
If the girl isn't an idiot she'd know what she's in for. They know what's good TV (or was back then) they get a free wedding and 15 minutes of fame!
@lizo1463
14 күн бұрын
@@Scott_Raynor truth
"if she loves you she will forgive you" works for, like, forgetting to hang the laundry or making a reservation at the wrong restaurant, not for intentionally making their wedding day the most disappointing wedding to ever grace the wedding world.
@tfordham13
14 күн бұрын
Nah she should
@wendypeeters3675
7 күн бұрын
@@tfordham13nah, she really should not, she should run fast
@tfordham13
7 күн бұрын
@@wendypeeters3675 weddings aren't important
@wendypeeters3675
6 күн бұрын
@@tfordham13 yea, it is but you spoken like a true man
@muffinman4544
6 күн бұрын
@@tfordham13well you should be pretty happy with nobody wanting to marry you then 😂
Honestly, having the bride pick her wedding from two anonymous envelopes could have been really cute….so long as the options were stuff like “ballroom reception” vs “garden reception” and NOT “shitty warehouse” vs “shitty prison” 💀💀
@jijitters
Ай бұрын
Totally agree. There absolutely are couples out there who would have fun gamifying their wedding and creating surprises for each other, but that working requires both partners to know each other well to anticipate their taste, and to CARE about how the wedding turns out. This man neither cared about the wedding nor did he know her well at all.
@Everglowxrvxsnsdx
Ай бұрын
So accurate 💯💯
@Jack-px8lf
Ай бұрын
@@jijittersyeah but do audiences actually watch that? or do audiences say they want to watch certain things, but then in reality decide to watch and devote their attention to something else? netflix changed their whole video recommendation system over it and y youtube algorithm tracks watch times and not likes, etc.
@jijitters
Ай бұрын
@@Jack-px8lf What? Who cares? No one said anything about audiences.
@CobraFat2000
Ай бұрын
To be fair - warehouse and prison themes are not bad in themselves (just like ballroom and garden receptions can be made into an absolute disaster by simply making the same choices for decor and ideas from the warehouse reception presented here) - you can go a long way by being imaginative and doing some research and maybe bouncing some ideas off of people who are capable of grounding some madness to a level. I can imagine how - given a 14K GBP budget and some 3 weeks of time one could do a makeshift prison wedding. Like stick to one venue (this could also work as confinement theme) - the dirty warehouse (or a cleaner one - there are probably plenty of places to find with the brutalist architecture in UK industrial area one could rent for cheap, which has a roof, plumbing and electricity), next - get a prison chaplain and put some protective riot gear he might be able to borrow from the actual prison, maybe cuff the newlyweds. One could probably rent park picnic tables with benches attached to the tables themselves - reminiscent of the jail. You find all sorts of signs from actual prisons saying which direction one needs to face, which line not to step over, caution signs and stuff like that - print and put those up, but don't overdo it and maybe even find ones appropriate for certain areas pointing to lavatories and what not. Hardware store - find chains. Buy several handcuffs at one of those military stores selling airsoft equipment and military uniforms - weld or just attach those to chains and attach to some walls. You can even let the guests arrive in regular non-themed attire and have a set of orange overalls (also from a hardware store - maybe get some print on them). Then do some research on chairs someone sells - maybe there is a big and sturdy one - one could dress up as an electric chair using a pasta strainer, old belt, a bunch of wires and maybe some dark varnish or wood stain, maybe get a an old switch somewhere. Now you have a photo corner where people can put on the provided overalls and pose as prisoner in the chair, the person who pulls the switch and maybe someone else who soaks the sponge or does the strapping in or just puts the hand on the shoulder and pretends to be executed as well. Check the budget - enough for a wedding band to dress up as prisoners or guards and play like top 20 songs about prisons lifted off a list somewhere or just put the same songs on the sound system and then play them without the band. Shivs instead of knives at the table, plastic cutlery... one could go all the way and buy a toilet and put punch there. Divide tables into gangs. Let people get tattoo-like face-paint on premises - like hire an artist who looks gruff enough for a day. Use friends and colleagues from prison who would be willing to come and pose as actual guards at the wedding. Maybe get overalls for caterers. Maybe rent some cages. Plan the layout. Could work.
husband plans the wedding, wife plans the divorce
@VanerSplaner
Ай бұрын
Ngl that warehouse is better suited for a divorce than a wedding
@enjicore
Ай бұрын
>,€|*}!~
@RupeshKumar-ni1vd
Ай бұрын
That's factually correct . Wives initates most of the divorces in heterosexual weddings.
@chocys_cosplays
Ай бұрын
@@VanerSplanerLMAOOOOO
@apebrainboy
Ай бұрын
"So I'm thinking for this divorce we're gonna need sand and tetanus"
The “getting married in a prison” option coming from him previously being a prison officer and not a prisoner really shocked me.
@shea5542
5 күн бұрын
Yeah that was really weird
@Crochetems
2 күн бұрын
to get all analytical about it… probably bc that’s where he was in control, a place w a system of authority and ppl w their agency taken away makes him feel at home.
@marshmellow1912
Күн бұрын
Lol
I saw one episode in which she said "I want a small intimate wedding, nothing football related". And he made her get married in a football game halftime in front of the entire stadium...
@chloep8808
14 күн бұрын
I wouldn’t go ahead with it. I don’t care if I’d have to pay the costs back..
@Sexgamer45
9 күн бұрын
It’s a fake show.
"If she loves you, she will forgive you" what a disgusting, manipulative thing to believe.
@Bakesuta
Ай бұрын
Oh yeah she can forgive. Doesn't mean she'll forget. OR STAY.
@Aldersnap
29 күн бұрын
Literally! How about: If he loves her, maybe he'll goddamn plan the wedding alongside her as a partnership!!
@DeviBuster
29 күн бұрын
That sort of saying is for mistakes like breaking a mug she gifted you, or buying the wrong thing at the store. Not ruining her dream wedding.
@ville__
29 күн бұрын
im better than kurtis, cry about it
@SR-zp4je
29 күн бұрын
Explains a lot about why he is the way he is …
i think any man who forces his pregnant partner to be on a plane and walk on sand in heels on her wedding day should be in jail
@elizalynn227
Ай бұрын
too bad that’s not where they had the wedding 😔
@wintervandy
Ай бұрын
Imagine if the prison themed wedding was picked and he just tasers her-
@ricksanchez7540
Ай бұрын
That's not even that bad though
@user-iy8tm7lh4w
Ай бұрын
@@ricksanchez7540 definitely shows his priorities and concerns tho
@M0urfeen
Ай бұрын
It is that bad @@ricksanchez7540
The fact that going on a plane when almost 9 months pregnant can also be dangerous for the woman and the fetus? The change in pressure can induce birth on the plane and increases the chance of blot clots!? Didn’t even think about anything to do with her just about what he wanted 🤦♀️
@leonie7754
19 күн бұрын
I am surprised the production team didn't say something and let it happen - they put her at risk too for the sake of TV! Should have been a health and safety concern, but maybe things were more lax in the early 00s. He was also willing to put her and the baby at risk inside a dodgy leaking warehouse. Definitely not good dad material and completely fails as a 'protector'. I feel so sorry for her as she was clearly young and naive and did not deserve such a trash, selfish husband. I'm glad she's free of him.
@meumnomen
13 күн бұрын
Flying in the 3rd trimester isn't the best thing to do, no
@crazyratlady3115
12 күн бұрын
Between the vows on the plane and that ghastly warehouse, he really said let's plan the deadliest wedding ever. He said I miss prison and I want to go back, forever.
@connoraltier7081
11 күн бұрын
To be fair, how much does the average person actually know that specifically?
@morph3301
11 күн бұрын
@@connoraltier7081thats the absolute basics. Every adult should know
The first red flag is him travelling all the way to be with her when she said she was going away and didn't want a serious relationship. Then him asking her to marry him after only 9 months to lock her in? That literrally is sending narcissist love bombing vibes... Yikes.
@muskaan3711
15 күн бұрын
I wouldn't be suprised if he actually tricked her into pregnancy ☹️
@kezkezooie8595
7 күн бұрын
It's not "vibes", it was actual love bombing and literally cornering her into a relationship in the first place. If she'd said he shouldn't have followed her to join him and tried to carry on her travels without him, what's the chances that he would at first have just kept following her and, if she had still rejected him, would have turned nasty. Either of these would have ruined her holiday and perhaps have even put her in danger from him. I know this sounds to some like I'm being hyperbolic but, if you know how narcissists can react to rejection, it really isn't far fetched at all.
@mistywalker8337
Күн бұрын
I would never tell a guy I was casually dating where to find me in another country. That's just weird. Also weird - my husband proposed after we had known each other 6 weeks. Been married 28 years.
there was a kid's version of this where the children planned their parents wedding, and it was always so wholesome. they always really tried their best and knew their parents well.
@MeganGrace130513
Ай бұрын
this one was peak cbbc!! - I remember several where the kids made the decorations by hand, did the cake tastings (what kid wouldn't enjoy that) and made deals and shook hands with vendors like tiny business people!!!
@brittanyvogel7130
Ай бұрын
I watched that and it was so cute lol
@gsleazy1975
29 күн бұрын
! I would love to see the reaction to this series! After this video he owes us something not so damn sad.
@jessienotjessy6731
29 күн бұрын
what was this series called cause this sounds so cute
@DiscoTimelordASD
29 күн бұрын
Oh my gosh this sounds so adorable and wholesome🩷 I would love to see THIS show.
The whole "then it's Biancas fault" thing is a huge red flag
@ScoopMeisterGeneral
Ай бұрын
I mean sure, but it seems weird to single that out when literally everything he said and did in that episode was a huge red flag. The man is just one giant walking red flag.
@Beldarak
Ай бұрын
That guy is a walking red flag
@jumpinjoint
Ай бұрын
@@ScoopMeisterGeneralactually it’s extremely important to call out his specific actions of abuse. it shows that each action doesn’t go unnoticed and may help other survivors recognize abusive behavior in their own lives. being able to articulate to yourself the abuse and understand the tactic can be so important to deprogramming yourself from tolerating that behavior and helps you learn the signs to better avoid abusive people going forward. yes, he is an entire walking red flag. it’s important to talk about why
@michaelccozens
Ай бұрын
@@ScoopMeisterGeneral I mean, yeah, but the fact that his first concern is to reserve all power to himself and find the flimsiest reason to justify saddling her with all the responsibility (in his mind) on what is clearly an incredibly-important topic to her is approaching the Platonic ideal of "red flag". It's like the point at which a red flag is so red and such a flag that it collapses-in on itself and consumes reality.
@coderkat
Ай бұрын
I felt so bad for the woman. I mean, she must have seen the episode and heard him say these things, yet she didn't leave him till he went and cheated on her. And this was all on camera! How shitty did he treat her off camera? Probably why there was that 10 year age gap. He was taken advantage of her.
“If she loves you, she’ll forgive you” yeah for accidentally forgetting to unload the dishwasher not ruining her wedding day
You say this is an evil show, but my friend (Lucy) married David, they had a Pride and Prejudice themed wedding on this show and he literally gave her the dream wedding, everything she ever wanted. It's more about the guys ability to listen to his girlfriend, to understand her, to budget and to not be selfish.
@katierasburn9571
12 күн бұрын
yeah i have seen some really sweet ones, some where the groom knew what his bride wanted and some where he didn't plan what she wanted but when it came to it she ended up liking it because he actually put thought into it and went with things he liked or memories they had so it wasn't actually awful, like there was one where he did like a country themed one and she wanted a normal one i think but they met over something to do with horses so she was like aw thats cute actually iirc
@beththingineverhad
7 күн бұрын
That episode was so cute, they had to have her try on the wedding dress with a blindfold on so she wouldn't guess the theme and she was so happy in the end
@leann4265
2 күн бұрын
Because that’s a quality man who truly knows his finances wants and needs and takes those into consideration, as he should! 👏🏼
"if she loves you, she will forgive you." if YOU love HER, then YOU shouldn't willingly do something that will make you hope she's a forgiving person.
@meowJACK
28 күн бұрын
Right??! What a shitty attitude. You don't love her if you're willing to do shit that will upset her that she will need to "forgive you" for. It's also completely ass-backwards because being forgiven ideally involves you being SORRY... But you cannot possibly be sorry about something you INTENTIONALLY, UNAPOLOGETICALLY CHOSE TO DO knowing she would have to "forgive you". That phrase is actually lowkey giving abuser vibes... "Hey, this thing that I intentionally did, knowing it would hurt your feelings? Yeah, you HAVE to forgive me (despite the fact I'm not even sorry), or else you don't love me. and PS it's your fault"
@bilgeakaln6335
27 күн бұрын
what a nice version of this sentence
@bloodysweetzombiegirl
25 күн бұрын
Profound!!! And agreed.
@gemstar7286
24 күн бұрын
He's a complete A- Hole , and i'm not surprised he cheated on her . He put zero thought and zero care into that wedding , it was a big fat joke .
this is what people mean when they say "do men even like women?"
@androow1983
23 күн бұрын
Bro what? That is a weird thing to say lol. Pretty sure most do. Ohh I forgot this was Kurtis Conner, who has a community with a lot of deluded people... The replies just further proves my point lmao. It's actually sad.
@iop1898
23 күн бұрын
@@androow1983when people say that it refers to how men treat women. Like yes men may be attracted to women but do they even LIKE them. As in like them as people or respect them as people and treat them accordingly.
@fatcat1414
23 күн бұрын
@@androow1983 It's a hard thing to believe when a prevailing attitude among men is that women are uptight prudes when you can't have them, oppressive nags when you keep them, and crazy bitches when you lose them. Like if you honestly feel that way, just go after men and save you and half the human population the trouble.
@androow1983
23 күн бұрын
@@iop1898 Yeah and it's reasonable to say that most men do respect women. Sure there are loads of men who do not but there are loads of women who don't respect men either, and those are a minority, not most. It's just bad people.
@Ambivalent845
23 күн бұрын
lets play a game: spot the defensive man in the comment section
I saw this years ago and one dude basically had an extravagant stag (bachelor) party in Vegas, flew his fiance out by herself and they got married with just him and a couple of his friends, none of her family were present. Walked downt the isle in tears. It was messed up.
@user-dj5qi6fb6q
13 күн бұрын
But WHY did she go through with it? 🤦♀️
@kombuchas4684
10 күн бұрын
@@user-dj5qi6fb6qbecause she trusted him? It isnt like she knew. That is the point of the surprise
@nonameless2
5 күн бұрын
Crazy Dave! I love your profile picture
@lolalouise9503
2 күн бұрын
Believe it or not, they’re not all messed up. Some of the weddings have actually turned out to be really good. Some of the guys have done the complete opposite of what the bride had said she wanted but turned out to be even better than what She imagined. But the majority of them turned out to be complete disasters.
@Crochetems
2 күн бұрын
i misread at first and it would be my dream wedding but then i read it again: she went ALONE with NONE of HER family/friends?? what an asshole…
The way I wanted an update on what happened, so I googled it right? "Don't Tell the Bride star who had disastrous wedding in a sand-filled warehouse recalls how she uncovered her husband's affair while he was in a COMA on follow-up series." What?? It was the first article I found.
@ARw275
24 күн бұрын
Holy fuck.
@indrimza
22 күн бұрын
That's one hell of a title
@chimppower2748
20 күн бұрын
Isn’t this in the video?
@capiest
16 күн бұрын
this is in the video tho
@minnie-ch3qc
5 күн бұрын
did you not watch the whole vid lmao
He had to be the one who planned the Glasgow Wonka experience 😭😭
@april-lemon
27 күн бұрын
the glasgow wonka experience was clearly more well planned anybody can see that
@vitoc8454
27 күн бұрын
The Glasgow Wonka experience sucked because of artificial intelligence This wedding blew because of natural stupidity
@hannah.shafer
27 күн бұрын
@@april-lemonokay Willy
@Fi6ment
25 күн бұрын
you mean *devised* :)
@octopus8978
23 күн бұрын
HAHAHHA
"the bridesmaids have their neon dresses, bianca's mom has her neon hair, bianca's gonna have her.... knee on adam's neck" killed me
@ErikaCartet
Ай бұрын
that line was excellent
@ScoopMeisterGeneral
Ай бұрын
One of Kurtboi's best ever lines tbh
@luccahg
Ай бұрын
Came to the comments to say this
@ville__
Ай бұрын
Don't translate... भवतः हृदयस्य धड़कनं कतिपयेषु घण्टेषु स्थगयिष्यति, अस्य शापस्य मुक्तिं प्राप्तुं एकमात्रं मार्ग मम चैनलस्य सदस्यतां कुर्वन्तु..,
@rabby1047
Ай бұрын
one of his best jokes ever
it isn't even that he didn't know her, he knew she wouldn't like things but just didn't care
As a British person, this was a guilty pleasure. I remember one episode where the guy booked a Vargas destination wedding but didn't book tickets for her whole family. She was a very family-oriented person and called him to say she wouldn't come to the wedding.
The fact that Adam’s brother cared more about Bianca’s comfort, especially as a pregnant woman, is extremely telling. All of it is really, but that one especially stood out to me
@blueismylove3128
Ай бұрын
And the fact that his response was "she has no choice/her fault she picked it (even tho she didn't, she picked a random envelope)" is heartbreaking.
@ImStarbyter
Ай бұрын
@@blueismylove3128 It made me see red I'm ngl, and cheating on her is the shitcherry on top. Glad she served him the papers
@joannegutteridge3843
Ай бұрын
Did they get divorced
@sohamsirohi5937
Ай бұрын
@@joannegutteridge3843 see the end part of the video
@catlmfaoo
Ай бұрын
@@joannegutteridge3843 yes they did
The difference in price between his suit and her dress says everything it needs to
@dektarey4024
Ай бұрын
Powerplay. The word is powerplay.
@a-noobis1689
26 күн бұрын
Or you know, the first every scene of them talking about each other and how they met and why they liked each other 😭
@Crochetems
2 күн бұрын
someone else commented that the… *devisers* of the show deliberately give the groom a higher budget for his suit and less for his wife’s wedding dress and things like that.
It always baffles me how a couple can get so deep into a relationship to the point of being engaged and they still apparently haven't once had a conversation about what kind of wedding the woman would like.
There's a new version of this show where the couples come back years later to react to the episode they were on, this couple got divorced because he cheated on her
@Selene_777
14 күн бұрын
wtf
@myralyra2404
8 күн бұрын
What’s it called
This is like the worst game of MASH ever. "Looks like you're getting married in.... A plane! You'll be wearing.... A burlap sack! You'll marry... An asshole! Hehehehe"
@sleepyote
Ай бұрын
I haven't heard of that game in years...
@Kiddzo.
Ай бұрын
holy crap.. yeah- it really is
@s_sunshower
Ай бұрын
the "hehehehe" is killing me 💀
@Sam-ue4uj
Ай бұрын
Oh my god I'd completely forgotten about that game. I'm not sure if I'm happy or upset with you for bringing back those memories
@ingtapoot
Ай бұрын
The reception will be...in a dilapidated warehouse! The bridesmaids will be...neon!! 😂
of COURSE the hopeless and abusive groom is an ex-prison guard 😭
@rayvamp000
Ай бұрын
wait i havent finished the video… how is he abusive??
@josiahshea3350
Ай бұрын
@@rayvamp000he genuinely doesn't love her and says it's her fault if she doesn't like it, also he cheated on her.
@wendycregan2147
Ай бұрын
My poppy was an outstanding ex- prison guard in England & been married 57 years to my Nana. Also the guy wasn't abusive more like didn't care about her. You can tell cause the first thing that he liked & was interested about her was he saw her photo & guessed she swats so probably had a big arse which is cringy AF!
@Audrey-tn2xs
Ай бұрын
I dated a guy who ended up being a creepy stalker who was also a prison guard. He technically treated me really well but was toxically jealous, had questionable morals/values and was desensitized to violence
@ville__
Ай бұрын
Don't translate... भवतः हृदयस्य धड़कनं कतिपयेषु घण्टेषु स्थगयिष्यति, अस्य शापस्य मुक्तिं प्राप्तुं एकमात्रं मार्ग मम चैनलस्य सदस्यतां कुर्वन्तु.
The real crime is how men like Adam are just allowed to be stupid and malicious, and then think women will still love them for it....tbh that guy is a super-sized red flag. I can see why he isn't with a 30yo woman, most would run away from this guy, so he goes for someone far younger and naive.
The best episode is where a they get married at a football match and the wife has thousands of drunk football fans singing 'does she take it up the arse' whilst she's getting married
@chloep8808
14 күн бұрын
No way?! Omg 😮😮😮
@aidandurkan15
3 күн бұрын
That's insane. What baffles me is how can a guy like that fool anyone into marrying them. I don't want to victim blame but at some point you have to realize this man is not only an idiot but doesn't actually care.
One of the worst ones was the groom who made it like a jacuzzi wedding with everyone in swimwear, and the worst part was the bride was allergic to chlorine 😭 how do you forget your wife's allergy??
@Izzywildflowerr
Ай бұрын
NO 😭
@2kjae789
Ай бұрын
I need to watch this show. This sounds like peak entertainment
@HiMyNameIsKim
Ай бұрын
Huhhhh????
@kookiekat3195
Ай бұрын
I was at that wedding
@Based_Gigachad_001
Ай бұрын
@@kookiekat3195 Press X to doubt
Weaponized incompetence: the series 💀
@ykook7000
29 күн бұрын
💯
@thesenate1448
29 күн бұрын
@@spectral-lauren-7 ?
@jonnnnniej
28 күн бұрын
Partially weaponized incompetence, partially egotistical stupidity :')
@konstance13
28 күн бұрын
@@spectral-lauren-7 It does mean be so for real, but people don't normally say that as a form of agreement
@mothyclothy849
28 күн бұрын
"Be so for real" does not mean you are agreeing with someone, it means you strongly disagree
The idea of just walking in and having my first dance as a married woman in a literal ton or more of sand (IN HEELS!) at my own surprise reception inside of a gross old warehouse made poorly to look like Thailand sounds like one of my fever dreams…like a nightmare really…. That’s an immediate annulment for me Bob.
"We're not gonna get a better space than this are we." With £14 grand, and the ACTUAL Thailand never crossed his mind? Thick as mince.
The fact that she stayed with him after that terrible wedding and HE STILL cheated on her is BAFFLING shoulda had the wedding in the prison so this man could be swiftly arrested for these absolute crimes against humanity
@Casey5693
Ай бұрын
That means she divorced him, right? Thank God!
@abaofifsz
Ай бұрын
Yeah something tells me she is not the sharpest either
@Tomato-ripe
Ай бұрын
Bcz baby
@blue1584
Ай бұрын
Ikr what a total dirtbag. I feel bad for her and their kid
@cats2796
Ай бұрын
she’s kinda dumb for staying with him though let’s face it
Can we talk about how he missed the perfect opportunity to dress the bridesmaids up as flight attendants
@OppositeofHATE7
Ай бұрын
Working out too hard put him in a coma, imagine what thinking too hard would do to him!
@ville__
Ай бұрын
im exploding like a volcano right now kurtis has stolen my content for money+views and never has given me any credit!!
@OrgaNik_Music
Ай бұрын
@@ville__ stop spamming your pointless comment all over the place
@Lydynthmn
Ай бұрын
@@ville__ He did no such thing
@acornautumn9927
Ай бұрын
He missed a lot of opportunities…
25:35 “This is a show that only could’ve been DIVISED, kay? It was not created.” 😭😭
@user-ne1zc8mv3q
5 күн бұрын
That is indeed what he said in the video!
@Cielphantomm
4 күн бұрын
@@user-ne1zc8mv3q I made the time stamp so in the future if I ever come across this video and forget all about it, I will see and can click this and have a laugh.
I think the only way you can go into this show as a couple is with the understanding that the producers want you to have something "quirky" for your wedding, but the important thing is that you're not having to pay for it
@t-and-p
10 күн бұрын
Agreed. The only way this show will not end in divorce is if you plan a crazy wedding together beforehand, then apply and have the bride tell production "no, I hate crazy!". So the couple get their craziness and the TV company pays for it! Play them at their own game 😉😎
I’m British and grew up watching this. When I was a kid, I didn’t want to get married because I thought this is how all weddings were planned, and I was NOT about to have an ugly ass wedding
@nva6833
Ай бұрын
omg that so funny 😂
@Based_Gigachad_001
Ай бұрын
You were dum.
@adyaparamitaputripratama2786
Ай бұрын
Youre so real for this
@Based_Gigachad_001
Ай бұрын
You weren't a smart kid, eh?
@BEngelbrecht97
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
“men shouldn’t be in charge of large decisions” isn’t the right conclusion here. that’s further putting the responsibility on women for their partner’s lack of care or thoughtfulness. men are perfectly capable of making big decisions, many of them just don’t care enough to.
@rebeccahicks2392
Ай бұрын
Yeah, and Kurtis's commentary makes it clear he would make better decisions. The guy in the show was just a bad person.
@jadasilvers5236
Ай бұрын
I think he was just joking when he said that it was meant to be taken ironically because most large decisions are ruled by men
@cee8ch
Ай бұрын
i still do think the takeaway could’ve been phrased differently. maybe “ladies, find a thoughtful partner who puts in effort” or something other than just “men are incapable.”
@Random-sk6hm
Ай бұрын
As a Brit who grew up watching this, the show was wild. The show specifically picked husbands who had the craziest ideas then presented it as if it was typical of all men. The show had insanely sexist undertones, implying that all men are incapable of planning weddings and that women all behave the same.
@kardelenkoc9746
Ай бұрын
i think we should realize that not every adult male human is a man they're just huge kids and you don't let a kid be in charge of anything serious or important
That warehouse is genuinely the most South Welsh thing I’ve ever seen 😭😭
You could literally do another vid on the golden dude who officiated the wedding. He has made so much money playing darts he had a mansion in the shape of a dart board. I love him!
He probably gave her an envelope that said "have an affair" on it, so it was clearly Bianca's fault 🤷♂️
@Rachely24
23 күн бұрын
He gave her two envelopes each with a different woman's name inside
@winterwitch8914
22 күн бұрын
@@Rachely24💀💀💀
@AdriansArt
21 күн бұрын
@@Rachely24Yep, no good choice for her, but somehow still 'her fault'
@narjissmihraje3835
16 күн бұрын
His logic is scary and his lack of intelligence and empathy he doesn’t know how to take care of someone he loves , how to budget how to please her …. So many things aren’t right at all or maybe do something cheap but keep the money for the babie so many good ideas but he only had the worst ones
@mr.turtle6838
16 күн бұрын
best thing about this comment is bianca divorced him for having an affair
"She hasn't got a choice, this is the situation I've left her in" applies to both the pregnancy and the wedding, I guess. This guy is just *so* classy.
@lid2966
Ай бұрын
Yuup
@ville__
Ай бұрын
didnt ask+ im exploding like a volcano right now kurtis has stolen my content for money+views and never has given me any credit!!
@user-oc4hm3jz9t
Ай бұрын
It also applies to the cheating….
@Kiddzo.
Ай бұрын
and he cheated on her sooo
@kryscopeland2556
Ай бұрын
@@Kiddzo. yup saw that after i posted this comment. Smh.
24:06 Literally thinking to myself it looked like the Willy's Chocolate Experience fiasco just before the Unknown popped up :D
“Oh this episode of Snapped, pregnant bride beats up husband at party city warehouse themed wedding”
Guys aren't dumb. It's a rampant selfishness and weaponized incompetence. He didn't even seem to really care about the wedding, as they usually don't and certainly didn't care about her feelings. Chalking it up to "men being dumb," perpetuates this existing stereotype hurting men and women further.
@tubiescubie
Ай бұрын
agreed and glad you pointed this out. otherwise loved the video but this was a surprising takeaway to hear from kurtis. it reinforces the notion that wedding planning is "women's work" and that we are expected to take on that labor when it 100% needs to be collaborative. anyone who truly loves and knows their partner could plan a dream wedding. this episode specifically showcased an inconsiderate person planning a wedding for someone he didn't really care about. he made no attempt to make her feel special, and all of her humiliation was intentional, not bc he was some dumb clueless clown.
@itzerinn2489
Ай бұрын
100% agree this is just a representation of the lack of love and respect some men have for their partners
@itzerinn2489
Ай бұрын
@@tubiescubieright i was kinda shocked to hear that take from himmm anyone can plan a wedding for their partner with love
@duck-ew5zs
Ай бұрын
Yeah, no matter how small the guy's brain is there's no way he thought neon dresses and a warehouse full of sand with one teeny tiny sky backdrop is in any way ingredients for a good wedding. Dude just wanted to get it over with and thought it was funny.
@Baer99Z
Ай бұрын
THANK YOU, Also cause as a dude who absolutely loves planning (not sure if I ever plan to get married myself but I've considered going into wedding planning as a job) I hate it when people see men like this and go "Ah well, men are just bad at planning" literally the only thing this even has to do with gender is reinforced stereotypes, so if we were to actually stop viewing behaviour like this as expected then it would be a lot less of an issue.
It's not "guys shouldn't be in charge of large decisions" it's men are capable adults and shouldn't act like immature children.
@chickenfoot2423
Ай бұрын
and they should probably not marry a woman they clearly already hate. although i suppose that would narrow down their prospects quite a bit
@ville__
Ай бұрын
im exploding like a volcano right now kurtis has stolen my content for money+views and never has given me any credit!!
@sfigataa.69
Ай бұрын
@@chickenfoot2423exactly 🙏 they only marry for the perks, aka: a stable source of sex and the status that being married and having kids gives men.. thats pretty much it. they dont marry women because they actually like them loll thats LAME 💀🗿💪😎🔥🔥
@dektarey4024
Ай бұрын
@@ville__ Are people really dense enough for these obvious clickbait comments to have any positive impact on your viewer count? Wouldnt it be easier to channel all this wasted energy into actually making passable content? Anyone falling for this clickbait will immediately leave and block your channel, because you're obviously dishonest and have to resort to underhanded tactics because your content is lacking.
@essielecl
Ай бұрын
I agree. love kurtis but he was wrong for saying that at the end
This just perfectly incapsulates the phrase: are the straights okay?
The way I was CHEERING when you said Bianca left him
“if she loves you, she’ll forgive you” how did i immediately know this guy was a cheater solely based on that sentence. if he’s applying it to ruining her wedding, you better believe he’s applying to everything else he does
@inconspicuous-mammal
20 күн бұрын
"Mk. Well I'm not forgiving you so I guess I don't love you anymore!" Is the response this dude deserves.
@merfyngriffiths245
16 күн бұрын
And he did!
@infectedp9419
15 күн бұрын
yeah, like, if you’re knowingly doing something your partner will have to forgive you for it’s more of a question if you truly love them or not 😭
@niraxlevi9930
15 күн бұрын
He doesn't understand that you can love someone and not forgive them because forgiveness is earned and not given out of entitlement
@miiju86
13 күн бұрын
Bet he would NEVER think about it the other way 'round - if HE really loved her, he would never do this to her and abuse her love to him... Edit: "loved", not "lived" :)
Ive seen a fair bit of this show and only remember one thoughtful husband, They were both larpers so he planned it in the woods, with all the guests coming in medieval/fantasy dress, custom designed her a beautiful fairy inspired wedding dress and had a blueberry muffin tower cake as that's what he brought to their first date It was so lovely
@ducktelepathy8352
Ай бұрын
I know that most reality tv is meant for shock value to trigger emotional responses and hook viewers. But tbh, I would LOVE a version of this show that’s just wholesome partners going above and beyond to give their betrothed the wedding of their dreams.
@ClumsyM00se
Ай бұрын
@@ducktelepathy8352 100% I'm such a sap! Why can't I just watch people be nice to each other and express genuine feelings?! Grrr
@sentientsquid7069
Ай бұрын
“Say I Do” on Netflix is kind of like that. It’s really sweet :)
@bassetts1899
Ай бұрын
I remember this one, such a breath of fresh air!
@ducktelepathy8352
Ай бұрын
@@sentientsquid7069 I’m gonna add this to my queue!! :)
Holy CRAP the update article on what happened to them a year after the wedding is CRAZY
Kurtis, I want to say the most honest thank you for being you. Your videos always make me feel better, and I have rewatched them so many times that I know them by heart now. My depression has been going for some painful years now, and I do have psychological and psychiatric help. But in my lowest, when I am all alone in my tiny apartment, trying to calm down after crying until my head hurts and my eyes are all swollen, nothing can make me feel more relaxed that seeing you talking shit about something completely random. Thank you so much for being there for me even if you are not actually here (?), and helping me get through my lowest with your hilarious videos. I wish you came to europe so i could watch your show live. If you come anywhere near portugal i will travel just to get the honour of seeing you live
If he treats the wedding like a joke, I think the wedding just doesn’t count, the entire marriage is a joke
@natas3301
Ай бұрын
*Laughts painfully in british*
@ThatSharkGirl
Ай бұрын
The entire relationship* is a joke
@ville__
Ай бұрын
didnt ask+ im exploding like a volcano right now kurtis has stolen my content for money+views and never has given me any credit!!
@polarbear9232
Ай бұрын
I would have gotten the marriage annulled after he married me on the plane with no cows or anything, ESPECIALLY if I was pregnant like wtf why would he do that
@ThatSharkGirl
Ай бұрын
@@polarbear9232 I’m sorry, but did you say you wants cows 🐄 🐮 at your wedding?
He literally planned a themed rave as the reception. The abandoned warehouse, buckets, no food, the lights, the neon dresses- that’s a rave, babe.
@MissVanHelsing
27 күн бұрын
Peak of around, what, late 2000's early 2010's full moon and rave warehouse parties with fish bowls of booze and neon. Aviici, David Guetta, Lonely Island Boys. I'm sure I've mixed my eras but you get me 😭
This show is the reality tv equivalent of those grooms on TikTok being absolute pigs in their vows. Also, I knew the warehouse was gonna look bad, but I didn’t expect to be THAT bad 😰
FUN FACT ABOUT THIS ONE! He started having a 5 month affair a year into their marriage, and they're now divorced 😳😳😳 she discovered it when he got admitted into hospital suddenly and it was on his phone. Crazy.
Weaponized incompetence is literal spousal abuse.. I can't imagine what her life is like trying to raise children with this dingus, he would probably put the diaper on the baby head and be like idk babe what you want from me you deal with it until it can go to the gym
@lexypatrick7942
28 күн бұрын
Read an article where she was interviewed about the affair and she mentions that he never learned how to put a diaper on right. Good job with that prediction!
@deusexmachina9776
24 күн бұрын
if it was abuse professionals in mental health and the law would agree. having an immature spouse doesnt turn someone into a victim, they chose poorly and that is on them.
@ejing_
24 күн бұрын
@@deusexmachina9776 “and that is on them” no it isn’t. this is literal victim blaming. everyone can learn to be better. him choosing not to is on him
@deusexmachina9776
24 күн бұрын
@@ejing_ show me any law or ethics scholarly debate that frames women in such a situation as victims
@ejing_
24 күн бұрын
@@deusexmachina9776 omg use your common sense and human empathy. the people in such situations are victims, due to the fact that another person is treating them horribly. loads of people choose to marry or stay with abusive partners for many reasons, but that doesn’t mean the abuse is justified or deserved.
The thing is- men are COMPLETELY capable of planning elaborate and big things. Men are not inherently dumb, they are willfully making selfish and mean choices because they do not care for their spouses/women in general. Guarantee you that he could do most other things with reason if he cared.
@xandermin
Ай бұрын
it's weaponized incompetence at its worst
@kimmyyy1164
Ай бұрын
Yeah that's the one thing I didn't like about this episode. This isn't happening because men can't plan good weddings. This is happening because that guy is an asshole.
@coderkat
Ай бұрын
I bet it's the kinda men who would participate in a reality show like this. The kinds of men who could plan a good wedding would never do so without involving their partner. It's a diabolic plan from the show creators. I bet they knew that only the dumbest of idiots would sign up to be on such a show (and they probably further filtered to make sure they got the worst people).
@kinseylise8595
Ай бұрын
Yep. I had an ex who could figure out complex physics but not how to plan a date. He mysteriously figured out how to respond to my concerns seriously when I broke up with him, but experience with him told me it was a temporary enlightenment so I didn't stick around any longer. Now I have a wonderful boyfriend who came "out of the box" knowing how to pick things based on my interests and make plans to make me happy. Men can do it if they want to, watch a man play Arma and just try tell me they can't coordinate, plan, and remember details.
@finno3677
Ай бұрын
But not all men 🙄
To be fair, I saw a warehouse like that in Thailand. It was a crime scene, but it was in Thailand. Same Same!
Oh that plot twist after the episode was so satisfying 10/10
This show is basically about weaponised incompetence. That's why I hated Kurtis' conclusion "guys shouldn't be in charge of big decisions". I know it was half joking, but still: please don't perpetuate the opinion that man don't have do X because they are not capable. They are. They are capable of remembering the kids' medical info, they are capable of planning the family trip, they are capable of knowing what to clean in the house without having a list made by their wife and they sure as hell are capable of talking to their fiancée about their wedding plans & taking active part in executing them. They can do all that stuff, they just choose not to because it's easier. But this is not partnership is about. A woman in a relationship needs a partner, not another child.
@simplydree
27 күн бұрын
!!!!!
@emilyninabrown
24 күн бұрын
I also get Kurtis’ joke but this is so important!
@jeremyross9698
23 күн бұрын
It's obvious the producers purposely picked guys they knew would make poor decisions. Basically rage bait.
@lmnopopsicle
23 күн бұрын
Preach
@Ruddline
23 күн бұрын
Thank you its everyone on the internet who tries to put an entire gender down 24/7 Also if he feels that way did he just hand his wife 100K and say do whatever?
Obviously the wedding is terrible. But the guy did it that way on purpose in order to humiliate his bride. He followed her across the world and made her trauma bond with him and trapped her with the big gestures and pregnancy. He WANTS her to be upset. That's the point. Because he is a shitty and abusive skid mark.
@emilyslicer2843
Ай бұрын
I hate him so much
@zomystar
Ай бұрын
Completely agree, this all just made me so upset for her. Everything he says/does SCREAMS abusive.
@makemesmile1839
Ай бұрын
@@zomystarthe dude worked in prison, im not very surprised hes an asshole
@keenan9595
Ай бұрын
He genuinely makes me so insanely mad
@sholem_bond
Ай бұрын
I was also getting abuser/manipulator vibes off him (from hearing how they met and his vacation antics, plus how quickly he proposed and how quickly she got pregnant); glad I'm not the only one getting that impression.
I worked at Alcatraz (as a tour guide) for 16 years, and I can’t even count the number of times I saw engagements happen on the island. Bleh.
The fact this is not even the meanest British reality show of that era is insanse
Getting married and having to walk around in the sand sounds like a literal nightmare. Any shoes you wear? Ruined. Dress? Ruined. Food? Extra crunchy and ruined.
@ChewyTwee
Ай бұрын
I mean ideally if you’re planning the marriage around a beach you’d choose a dress without a train and simple shoes you could take off imo
@happyswife427
Ай бұрын
Perfect for those crunchy parents, truly connect with nature
@alo2285
Ай бұрын
@@ChewyTwee they're not one the beach that sand is being mixed with grime and rust and oil 🤢🤢 that is getting into your food. Not the sand that's being pushed and pulling into the water.
@lizzielewis2572
Ай бұрын
@alo2285 not to mention some sand is chewed up corral. Literally shiet sand.
@Doodle_Head
Ай бұрын
i know that literally anyone can agree with this but my star wars brainrot cannot stop me from claiming that only anakin skywalker has made this comment
the fact he could've easily made the reception a beach instead of making this hell warehouse barely look like one is so annoying wtf
@redwiltshire1816
Ай бұрын
Especially considering beach wedding in wales are actually pretty cheap too
@Blck_Ch3rry
Ай бұрын
Like he literally could have flown everyone to the beach with a reception set up for their arrival. Instead he chose to create this chaos
@grace-ef9mj
Ай бұрын
im still so confused why a warehouse was the first idea before an actual beach like what 😭
@sineadscholl7088
Ай бұрын
The UK has SO much coastline
@kempoficht
Ай бұрын
@@sineadscholl7088and so little sand beach
You totally should do a series reacting to this show. I would definitely watch!
6:39 what girl wants to be married in a prison???
@lily-if8ir
16 күн бұрын
What sane person wants to get married in a jail unless they the inmates because they might not have a choice
They’re now divorced after Bianca found out he was having an affair a year after they got married. He was in a WhatsApp group with his married friends who bragged about cheating on their wives. I’m glad she divorced him
@edward8380
29 күн бұрын
Hope the friends also got divorced
@DRAGONFOOT
29 күн бұрын
IF YOU ACTUALLY WATCHED THE VIDEO HE SAYS THAT.
@loggingfire1
29 күн бұрын
What an absolute douche
@DeviBuster
29 күн бұрын
They shouldn't have ever gotten married in my opinion, but I'm glad she's free of that guy now
@CoffeeaddictWriting
29 күн бұрын
@@DRAGONFOOT lol calm down
I feel like the Bear would’ve planned a better wedding than Adam
@jnx63256
Ай бұрын
HAHAHHAHA
@lee_hester_scoresby
Ай бұрын
you're so right
@OddlyOddy
Ай бұрын
This is flipping hilarious but also. I'm imagining a cake in a honey glaze. It would be in the woods of course. Likely salmon as one of the food choices.. with berry fruit salad? He would do the beary best he could.
@ville__
Ай бұрын
im exploding like a volcano right now kurtis has stolen my content for money+views and never has given me any credit!!
@knuckleteeth
Ай бұрын
At first I thought you meant the dude from the cooking show and I was thinking, “Well, yes!”
dude really said food $200 wedding dress $150 venue $800 sand $3,600 suit $150 someone who is good at the economy please help me budget this. my wedding is crumbling
I really hope this was staged and the producers just offered him money to do the most out of pocket outlandish shit he could on tv.
I used to binge watch this and one moment that sticks out in my memory is the bridesmaids telling the groom that the bride won’t like the dresses he’s chosen for them to wear, and he responds with “well it’s not about her, is it?” There was only a few eps I ever saw where the groom was super dedicated to making it a special day for both of them, those were sweet
@kreissthekeeper
Ай бұрын
Oml. That actually makes me want to throw up.
@lavaboatcubesupportsukrain7539
22 күн бұрын
That’s probably because they WANT bad weddings
@kg3522
4 күн бұрын
I would have called off the wedding the second I found out if I was the bride
Fortunately for Bianca, the embarrassment of the wedding is overshadowed by the embarrassment of marrying Adam.
Just an important note: in England, as of right now, you actually can’t get married at a park unless the park is connected to a venue. There’s some really antiquated laws about how a marriage needs to take place in a legally approved or religious building to be valid, which makes park weddings impossible. On that note, I have no idea how they got a plane approved for a wedding 😂
@Mulbert
8 күн бұрын
They probably had to also go to the registry office as well, I think that's the case for a lot of Don't Tell The Bride episodes
@27:28 UGGGGGHGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH POOR BIANCA ARE U KIDDING ME??!!?!?!!? why'd he survive that coma........ SO GLAD SHE LEFT IS SORRY ASS!!!!
Why couldn't he just have the reception at an actual beach???? WHY rent out a dirty warehouse, fill it with sand and pretend its a beach when you could just go to a beach!? I mean even if they dont live near one, its not like they didn't already have access to a private plane or anything where they could just fly everyone to an actual beach!!
@rozmccann3626
29 күн бұрын
Not solicited but it's a well known saying that in the UK you're never more than 70miles from the coast, so like yeah they definitely could have made it lol
@AKwong-sh8zf
28 күн бұрын
The worst part is that the theme of the reception was LITERALLY THAI BEACH PARTY😭
@AFiasco
28 күн бұрын
So in the UK you can't get married in any location. You have to have a licensed venue.
@robinrye9717
28 күн бұрын
@@AFiasco Wait, but they get MARRIED on the plane itself, which is definitely not a licensed venue? And there's no way the warehouse is a licensed venue. Which it doesn't need to be, anyway- they're already married by the reception, the reception is just a party.
@MichealRealman
27 күн бұрын
Yeah considering they live in the uk they wouldn’t even need to get a flight to a beach they could just drive
The kurtlings have awoken from their slumber
@ville__
Ай бұрын
Don't translate... भवतः हृदयस्य धड़कनं कतिपयेषु घण्टेषु स्थगयिष्यति, अस्य शापस्य मुक्तिं प्राप्तुं एकमात्रं मार्ग मम चैनलस्य सदस्यतां कुर्वन्तु..
@yaoifreak
Ай бұрын
yay
@arcadiaslay
Ай бұрын
fr i thought we were going into hibernation again
@BeepBeepBeepBEEPSBXGG
Ай бұрын
@@ville__ Wow my favourite bot is here :D
@angelicart.6
Ай бұрын
awaken, my kurtlings
“Wanna know how I got this wedding ring?” took me out 😂
PLEASE MAKE THIS A SERIES AHHH
There’s a famous episode of this where the wedding idea and execution is so bad that he runs out of money and can’t afford to fly any of her family out etc. She then refuses to get on the plane arguing with the film crew, her entire family is in floods of tears while she’s having a breakdown, her sister goes mental at him to the point of near violence. It is unbelievable.
@theautisticacademic5927
Ай бұрын
The vegas one!
@seerum
Ай бұрын
no way what episode
@G3NZEE
Ай бұрын
tell us the episode pls!!
@michaelccozens
Ай бұрын
This is 100% the kind of ending the producers envisioned for every episode.
@aeddiefarmer
Ай бұрын
@@michaelccozens I honestly think the Vegas episode was the one that made the producers realise that train wreck was the way to go. The season with that episode and the one before it is pretty normal, the biggest drama is that the dress isn't quite what the bride would have picked herself but she still really likes it. But after the Vegas episode, it's not an immediate change but things start to go...weird in the seasons following, getting worse and worse before eventually arriving at stuff like this episode. You can just tell applicants that say they will do crazy themes and have a total disregard for what their wife to be would like are the ones they snap up to produce.
10:39 this conversation legit went like “Oi mate, do you think your heavily pregnant bride-to-be is going to be happy, comfortable, and having a good time at the wedding you’re planning for the two of you?” “Lmao I literally do not care, who said I was doing any of this with her happiness or comfort in mind?” What a wretched stain.
@user-gv4mi9cd2y
Ай бұрын
@UTTP-142you have no friends at school so you have to say dumb things for attention online?
@crispychickentenders8039
29 күн бұрын
@UTTP-142okay 𝒻𝓇ℯ𝒶𝓀
@prettyxbonez96
29 күн бұрын
@UTTP-142 Somebody's triggered, you're a 🤡 😂😂
@kemma_
29 күн бұрын
@UTTP-142 I'm gonna touch you lil bro
@charlieleseman7847
28 күн бұрын
She ends up leaving him bc he cheated on her
Adam as a prison guard would be that one key and peele sketch
I watched one episode of this and it was when I was in the hospital waiting because I'd cracked my sternum. Reall thought I dreamed it up.
Thats actually so sad how it ended. The fact she stuck it out after having her wedding destroyed. But then to find out her husband was having an affair. Ew. And his friends knew. Ewwww. And now she has to deal with him for the next 18 years because she has a child with him. I hope she gets full custody because that man is not capable of raising a child. I feel for that woman.
@tawanadaniels2072
Ай бұрын
With men like that guy the red flags are waving on day one. She's obviously overlooked EVERYTHING as to not destroy the illusion of a "perfect" relationship. He knew her for only a little bit before INVITING HIMSELF on HER trip. Pretty sure we can assume who paid for his ticket and accommodations too. The reality of an affair is enough to lift the fog for any of us.
@lulufan100
Ай бұрын
Divorce is never easy, even if you're completely right to get one. I guess the only good thing is she and her son are away from that idiot's nonsense. He was a walking red flag from the start but at least they no longer have to live with him. Also anyone else conned into marrying him can see this episode and the outcome and run. I hope she and her kid are doing better
@ypp0p
Ай бұрын
@@tawanadaniels2072 are you seriously blaming her for being cheated on? People can easily misrepresent themselves to manipulate people until its too late, how is it her fault that he's a piece of shit?
@aidanspencer2721
Ай бұрын
This is the type of guy who mysteriously died of poison in Victorian times
@SkiddlyBink
Ай бұрын
@@ypp0p i think we can find a compromise between these two opinions... he was def waving red flags from day one, and i'm incredibly sad for this woman that she didn''t see them. like lulu said above, at least she's free of him now!!
Weaponized incompetence at it's best. I'm so glad she left him, but also so surprised she didn't leave as soon as he purposely ruined their entire wedding and blamed it all on her, wtf 😭
@asdkfljlksdafuioasdf
Ай бұрын
Well she was 8 months pregnant. She probably wanted to save the relationship for the sake of the baby. Guys like this always know how to put women under pressure so they can do whatever they want. It's honestly gross.
@QueerCoral
Ай бұрын
EXACTLY!!
One of the worst was a hot tub wedding where the ‘dress’ he chose for her was a bikini! And then she couldn’t even get in it anyway because she was allergic to one of the chemicals. Which he was aware of And all the guests had hot tubs instead of seats. Some of which weren’t heated No one wanted it and it was so awkward
I was so shocked he would even consider the first warehouse as a wedding venue let alone actually want to hold it there
There was one genuinely upsetting episode where the groom spent almost the entire budget on his bachelor party in Vegas and then didn’t even have enough money left after to fly out the brides entire family. The groom was a selfish pos and they eventually divorced.
@Magikalic
27 күн бұрын
they didn't even make it a year into the marriage if I remember correctly
@Rosa5311
24 күн бұрын
I remember that one! That's also a common theme in this show where the husbands spend way too much money on their bachelor party and don't have enough left for the wedding
@Luminescent100
22 күн бұрын
Not surprised they divorced a year after, bet she was left doing everything with the baby too while he was off being a useless scrote.
@MariAnKenobi
22 күн бұрын
I wouldn’t go through with the wedding in the first place. Or if there’s a “completion clause” to get the money, head straight to the courthouse for an annulment right after the ceremony.
@BecxyBoo
19 күн бұрын
I remember this episode she cried in the airport after only her mum and dad arrived but no other family did, not even her brother. She phoned the groom in tears saying "You've ripped my whole family apart". It was genuinely heartbreaking...
21:00 Imagine *not* having a passport, being told that you need one, jumping through hoops for 3 months to get one and then finding out you don't actually need it. Jfc
@sturmfrei5853
Ай бұрын
and it costs like 40-60€ in my country to get one...
@Helena-vf1xp
Ай бұрын
my thoughts too!!!
@andrearodriguez8003
Ай бұрын
HAHAHAHAH😂😂😂
@imuttx
28 күн бұрын
@@sturmfrei5853u have no idea
I need to see more of these please do another video on this!!