Boutta be the first second channel with 20,000 subscribers and still no videos😭 Should I do a "The Button" reaction or Dress to Impress Roblox lets play first? Yes these are the only 2 options😠

@tatayakka285

23 күн бұрын

dress to impress

@FilmCooper

23 күн бұрын

first second? That sentence feels like a stroke, strokin my--

@raysolame

23 күн бұрын

DRESS TO IMPRESS PLEASE U WOULD SLAY SO HARD😻

@lynnbeacham

23 күн бұрын

dress to impress

@tzy_

23 күн бұрын

dress to impress little boy

"all he has to do is be a good husband" Truly the hardest story quest imaginable

@noratsuki42

23 күн бұрын

It doesn't feel right to see one of your comments before it has blown up

@HAVENTYOUPPLEVERHEARDOF

23 күн бұрын

you put the guacamole song in my head

@smoofur

23 күн бұрын

for some men, I guess it is ??? 💀

@firefliesinthesky384

23 күн бұрын

i literally never liked him. i remember watching their videos and just thinking about how fake it is, and all the comments were “omg matt is husband goals!!” like no, hon. all of this is staged and fake. the camera wasn’t there on coincidence. he set up the camera, hit record so he could play the FACADE of a good husband to look good to an audience. he once filmed himself cleaning up abby’s vomit, and everyone in the comments was praising him. like, wtf??? why would he whip out a camera and record himself filming his wife’s vomit instead of just CLEANING IT UP in the first place???

@withcharmtospare

23 күн бұрын

But but but how is he supposed to be a husband when he wants to siiiiing 😂😂 singers never have families lmao

abby eats double the amount matt eats because she cleans and cooks and takes care of two children while he does nothing. she actually burns it off

@DawnKellyMedia

22 күн бұрын

And breastfeeding burns SO MANY calories.

@caseyw.6550

22 күн бұрын

THAT PART. I wish she had said, "It's because I actually WORK up an appetite."

@jayannakelley9051

22 күн бұрын

Including him adds up to 3 kids!

@ST-rj8iu

22 күн бұрын

@@DawnKellyMedia yes. about 800 calories extra a day.

@beanybabyrabie

22 күн бұрын

And she DOES NOT eat double what he does. That’s just not true. Even with breastfeeding

That poor girl is so brainwashed. This is emotional abuse.

@ritupawar314

7 күн бұрын

It is!!!

@carnevalmefisto

7 күн бұрын

Yep, she's with him because she is unaware she can get a FAR better partner.

@Olivia_thegoldenretriver

7 күн бұрын

​@@carnevalmefisto it's not about just him,.it's her tooo

@rav0nn

7 күн бұрын

@@carnevalmefistoshe’s been with him since she was like 14. So she’s not been with anyone else, is married and has 2 kids. It’s all so rushed she wasn’t able to process what was going on

@CherylAshley-th8sb

7 күн бұрын

​@@rav0nnAgree

Abby could piovt SO HARD into “single mom” content and we’d all be so supportive

@CherylAshley-th8sb

7 күн бұрын

Yes

@baguettegurl

6 күн бұрын

Real

@CapricornEquestrian

6 күн бұрын

Got that right

@tinyhoneybun

5 күн бұрын

I hope to see it.

@Anna-1937

4 күн бұрын

@@shannongarrety6105 If they ever split up, I hope she goes into teaching. It’s what she wanted to do anyway. Those kids are going to get older and be less dependent, what will she do then?

It’s not a “favor” to watch your own kids. That’s just what you signed up for when becoming a parent

@user-eb6sr3iw7l

22 күн бұрын

Yeah my absent dad called looking after his own kids babysitting 😂

@TheGong00zler

22 күн бұрын

I noticed that language too🚩

@DelaneyB.444.77

22 күн бұрын

@@user-eb6sr3iw7lyikes… dads that say this aren’t it

@Itsjustjazzduh

22 күн бұрын

That’s what you sign up for the moment you have sex. Young people need to understand that.

@user-eb6sr3iw7l

22 күн бұрын

@@DelaneyB.444.77 yeah and I’m one of his kids that he was absent for lol. Popped up to try and steal money from me though

This is why I roll my eyes when people say “children need fathers!” No, they need *good* fathers. This guy is not one of them.

@ashlles86

21 күн бұрын

100% I think of the father of my niece and nephew. That man was not a good father. Best decision my sister ever made was leaving him. It allowed her to find her now husband who is a fantastic father to 2 children who aren't biologically his. Their actual father hasn't made contact or seen the kids for 7 years now in spite of multiple family members trying to make contact with him. It's not what you are, it's who you are that matters.

@UniDocs_Mahapushpa_Cyavana

21 күн бұрын

Children just need their basic needs (including mental stimulation e.g. 📚) and to occasionally be physically restrained for their own safety. Children are not fancy pieces of chinaware 🫖 meant to just sit there are look pretty. They are supposed to live. If children were so needy with hyper-specific demands, humanity would have gone extinct in the Stone 🪨 Age.

@kalinaribic6383

21 күн бұрын

Exactly! With fathers like that, a child is better off fatherless.

@notyouraveragegirl5553

21 күн бұрын

Exactly! I grew up without a father and i grew up perfectly fine. My mother did honestly such a good job filling the two roles.

@southernmama7606

21 күн бұрын

He could run off and abandon them like 60-70% of father's these days. Smh. The internet is so ridiculously judgemental. This generation needs Jesus so much.

The fact that Abby is literally his only partner ever and he wrote a song about toxic exes. 💀💀💀

@fire6450

6 күн бұрын

WHATTTTT

@fruitytarian

4 күн бұрын

Whaaat??!! What a loser 😂😂💀 (not the only having one partner, it's the faking a past that's ridiculous 😂😂)

@bixie_boo

3 күн бұрын

not surprised lol 😭

@Food00

3 күн бұрын

you can have a wild imagination

@sswanheart

Күн бұрын

what’s his song called?

One thing I noticed is how it’s always Matt filming Abby in these incredibly personal and vulnerable moments, never the other way round. He always brings up the most degrading topics to make her feel bad. There was no need to comment on how she ate the same amount as him, there’s no need to comment and say sex feels different after she’s had two kids. It’s all made deliberately to degrade her and beat her down until she has little self worth.

@-KMA-

5 күн бұрын

Typical narcissist trying to break someone down who is confident and beautiful.

@glitterworld3886

5 күн бұрын

I just commented same,he enjoys to record her in her most vulnerable moments,when she sick,vomits,after surgery,what is wrong with him,leave a wife to rest,why shoving camera in her face while she vomits🤬🤬🤬🤬

@eilish-bf5bx

4 күн бұрын

I remember a video where Abby threw up for some reason and he proceeded to set up his tripod on the floor to film himself cleaning it up like what 💀💀💀

@evat514

4 күн бұрын

The fact that she is with him and defends him when he’s called out is indicative that she already has very low self-worth.

@rav0nn

4 күн бұрын

@@evat514 this. She’s never had anyone else so thinks this is normal. She’s been manipulated into defending him even if she knows deep down that it’s not exactly right

Matt is the type to insist they should try being polyamorous, and would be quickly humbled by how few people are interested in him, and how many people would be lined up to get with his wife.

@ZombieKayla

21 күн бұрын

Yeah and then suddenly be opposed/offended/mad when anyone’s into her. And flip it on her in some way.

@nica7747

21 күн бұрын

FRR

@GrimzyShake

20 күн бұрын

This is so fucking true omg

@wellsaidgoodheadfred9843

20 күн бұрын

@@GrimzyShake The average woman has a 'marriage value' and 'one night of fun value.' All women have more 'one night of fun value' than men. Women who sleep around a lot are highly undesirable as partners and are not marriage material though. Even if the guy is the more attractive person in the relationship, there's still a chance his wife would have more 'one night of fun' people. One thing that's absolutely bonkers is that 'top chads' are using both average women and the more desirable women , but when the 'top chad' settles down he always chooses the most desirable woman he has access too. It's absolutely laughable that average woman, who were simply used by a chad, estimate their relationship worth based on the fact they were able to get a 'top chad' to USE them. Like, no, being able to get used by a guy you consider top dog doesn't make your marriage value at the top. And the more men who use you, the more men will gravitate to younger women with less baggage once those men reach the top. Some women need to stop sleeping around and focus on being better quality partners, instead of deluding themselves and inflating their worth while dismissing a lot of good men's worth.

@briannaaaaa

20 күн бұрын

@@wellsaidgoodheadfred9843that’s an incel take if i’ve ever heard one, holy shit lmao. body count has no inherent value at all and it doesn’t determine if someone is “marriage material,” being a good person does. abby could easily sleep around and STILL find a good husband after, matt is not likely to accomplish either of those easily, if at all.

if he isnt already, he is absolutely going to cheat on that woman

@Thathestiadevotee

19 күн бұрын

And then he’s going to say “well she wasn’t taking care of my sexual needs🥺” like Abby doesn’t take care of EVERYTHING without any relaxation.

@daniellewilliams2831

19 күн бұрын

I heard a psychologist say that men who have a damaged or spoiled relationship with their mom seek out women who will mother them. Then after they feel secure (sometimes post honey moon stage, marriage, baby, etc..) they cheat on the mother figure/gf/wife with the woman they actually want.

@karinarodriguez4582

19 күн бұрын

​@@daniellewilliams2831If this happens I hope she divorces but it's worrying because they have literally said "Divorce isn't an option for us" he was the one majorly saying its worrying people that say that end up on the news

@cosmicmuffin322

19 күн бұрын

​@@daniellewilliams2831men with narcissistic personality disorder often cheat when their wife has a young baby because they are pathologically jealous of the baby abd resent the fact that they aren't the centre of their wife's attention

@NotesNNotes

19 күн бұрын

@@daniellewilliams2831 idk I feel like it's more nuanced than that. men also cheat because their friends won't judge them for it or actively support it, etc etc etc. some of them had tough moms but enabler dads.

"I failed you im so sorry" i feel so bad for that woman.

@iiHoneyyy

Күн бұрын

AND HE DIDNT DENY IT?!?

@DracotheF3rret

Күн бұрын

@@iiHoneyyyLITERALLY HE DIDN’T THAT ACTUALLY MADE ME SO MAD

He’s definitely trying to humiliate his wife by making her feel insecure and guilty on camera, recording and posting her emotional breakdown about feeling lazy and bloated, and passive aggressively shaming her for her body. All these things together in a pattern of behavior shows abuse

@coffinmannequin

9 күн бұрын

Agreed, he is so awful

@arabelladerenee

9 күн бұрын

Even their podcast pfp (it’s somewhere in this vid) has her looking distressed and him looking “great”

@SouthernCoastal

4 күн бұрын

I honestly think he’s too immature to even realize how his words impact her. I don’t think he’s doing it on purpose. That’s just his maturity level at this time.

@dahliacheung6020

3 күн бұрын

Seriously. Very abusive. Clearly has a massive ego, meanwhile he's balding and still making dollar tree version Disney channel pop music videos to upload to tiktok. He really would have NOTHING without her.

@feyzaen3176

10 сағат бұрын

What the heck?! He ALWAYS throws compliments on her body! „whoah you‘re so ripped“ „you look soo good, Abby“…. I could count a ton of videos in which he is so sweet. I literally don‘t understand why people comment on other people‘s lives, if they don‘t even know their whole content. Lame DUDES

You left out one of the worst things about Matt 😭😭 he has flat out admitted that he IGNORED his wife the first couple of days after she gave birth - because he was mad that having a family was “interfering with his music career” like?!

@ItsJC-gu3jz

23 күн бұрын

barely a "music career" at that 🙂

@caseyw.6550

23 күн бұрын

Haha what music career?

@helovesstarr

23 күн бұрын

he doesn’t even have a music career. bet he isn’t signed into a record label

@ellsbyy

23 күн бұрын

i truly love when talentless losers think they can actually enter the music industry successfully

@ellsbyy

23 күн бұрын

also did he not willingly participate in creating that child like 💀

I want Abby to divorce him and find a new man that’s over 6 foot who never makes her feel insecure about herself, but he constantly makes Matt feel insignificant just by existing.

@Anna.T.

22 күн бұрын

How tall is Matt? 😂

@valatrix711

22 күн бұрын

​@@Anna.T. He has short energy, idc how tall he actually is

@laffin_out_loud

21 күн бұрын

He's 5'7" completely Napoleon syndrome. The poor girl always looks like she's crying or wanting to cry. At any given moment she looks like shes on the verge of crying. ​@@Anna.T.

@laffin_out_loud

21 күн бұрын

​@@valatrix711completely Napoleon syndrome 😂 he's 5'7" the exact same height of Napoleon.

@wtfamiwatching3650

21 күн бұрын

⁠@@laffin_out_loudnapoleon syndrome is such a perfect way to describe him 😭

i threw a surprise birthday for my boyfriend, invited a few of our friends. it was nothing big or fancy. But after the reveal, he pulled me aside into an empty room, hugged me and cried into my shoulder. He was so happy because he had spent his last birthday completely alone (i hadn't met him yet). I am so glad that i have someone who is grateful for the little things. my fella matt needs to work on some things

@ritupawar314

7 күн бұрын

Happy for you ❤❤❤❤❤

@Reina-lu5vn

6 күн бұрын

U guys r so cute ☹❤❤

@kathrynmaclennan3371

5 күн бұрын

That's adorable

@fruitytarian

4 күн бұрын

Aww, that's so sweet ❤️😍

@brutalhonesty6742

3 күн бұрын

The way you use dude in the vid to lift yourself up telling. There's no other reason for you to share that story.

Bros room is actually majestic

@brutalhonesty6742

3 күн бұрын

Not remotely. Nor is all the Victorian costume jewelry he's got on.

@brunod07

2 күн бұрын

@@brutalhonesty6742I’m gonna go with epic sarcasm for you on this one

@tr1ty665

Күн бұрын

@@brunod07I don’t think he’s being sarcastic

@merusotajio2222

Күн бұрын

The paintings on the back are amazing choices

Matt acts like he is the popular jock who ended up with the sweet nerdy girl and that's why he's entitled to her taking on a more submissive role. But she is literally so much prettier and overall out of his league. Edit: Just to add, he is also balding. Toxicity karma

@okkelly6207

23 күн бұрын

it’s ironic cuz he was a theatre kid in high school i’m pretty sure 😭

@piffba

23 күн бұрын

@@okkelly6207dear god that’s worse he has a complex about being inferior😭 saying this as a former theatre kid some of the WORST guys I’ve met have been theatre dudes

@beanman9936

23 күн бұрын

@@piffba probs 1 of those theatre kids with the superiority complex

@piffba

23 күн бұрын

@@beanman9936 oh god I suppressed those memories, had a guy LITERALLY pitch about directing a play based on women’s mistreatment from their boyfriends because “well I can learn from the women in my cast” despite abusing our classmate (his ex girlfriend) for a year💀 he had both complexes and I fear coming across him everyday

@user-br4tc6zr5t

23 күн бұрын

@@piffba as an ex professional theatre kid who went AEA and had multiple in the room auditions for Bway I can confirm I got worse and worse as a human the older I got and the more I performed; there is an epidemic of self-inferiority for theatre men and im not sure we're ready to face it.

Complaining about the s*x after childbirth is actually the most heinous thing he's done. She literally gave birth to his child, and he has the audacity to state/imply that the s*x is worse because of it, intentionally trying to break down her self esteem and make her feel insecure after she had a literal baby come out of her.

@rcg224

22 күн бұрын

Yeah and she even shared that she ripped badly too. Like she's been through enough. He's so mean.

@SiesVE

22 күн бұрын

Didn’t she get pregnant again shortly after her son was born?

@lorelei_edits

22 күн бұрын

@@rcg224EXACTLY

@caresseheitzman9715

22 күн бұрын

It brings to mind the quote from Look Who's Talking "You trying pushing something something the size of a watermelon, out of an opening the size of a lemon and see how hot you look!"

@DelaneyB.444.77

22 күн бұрын

@@SiesVEyes she did. It was an unexpected pregnancy and sooner than doctors recommended to have another pregnancy due to recovery time. This is why recovery could potentially be prolonged . It takes a while for the muscles to fully tighten back up and heal and be toned again after childbirth, doctors say several weeks but it may still feel different especially when there is tearing. Healing takes time

She's apologizing the whole time and that's when you know he's a BAD husband

I once called Matt narcissist in their comment section and got called out for it on their podcast but I mean I've been surrounded by narcissists my whole entire life I can spot one from miles away.... they didn't handle it well at all am I crazy? He gives narcissist

@kahm3d

4 күн бұрын

I’m with you girl

@dywfam

4 күн бұрын

you're not crazy hun. i noticed he seems worse after they have kids

@confidenceiskey477

2 күн бұрын

yes he is such a narcissist!

@flutenanyidk1806

Күн бұрын

Narcissistic personality disorder is a clinical diagnosis, so while I do agree that he could show narcissistic traits, diagnosing someone on the Internet (I don’t know your credentials. You may or may not be a mental health professional) is usually kind of counterproductive.

@suez9553

Күн бұрын

My father is a diagnosed narcissistic sociopath. Matt reminds me of him. It’s the sneaky, passive aggressive way that he abuses Abby - such as commenting that natural childbirth had lessened his pleasure in having sex with her… but then, when she got a C-section for their second baby, he said that she had “cheated” the process. She can’t win. The ground is always shifting under her. Or when he punished Abby by not speaking to her for a week after the birth of the second baby! He then ran off to another part of the country to record music… and left her all alone, with a newborn, and not recovered from a C-section. It’s textbook devaluation, that her and the baby’s needs are less important. But how could she stop him? How could she ask him to stay home and care for her? He was raging that the baby had ruined his life and career. She needs to wake up to him. It’s going to be hard because she’s empathic. The children are the cement around her because she’ll never want to break their home and hearts.

The fact that she knew more about paying the bills than him shows that she really does do everything, and then he tried to defend himself...

@mahumansari

23 күн бұрын

are u alive after what happened last night at the eras tour

@wanderingseth

23 күн бұрын

It's giving me flashbacks to my narcissistic ex who really just needed a parent

@justagirlwholovesmusic

23 күн бұрын

@@mahumansari barely

@mahumansari

23 күн бұрын

@@justagirlwholovesmusic real

@mildlifecrysis

23 күн бұрын

​@@mahumansariwait what happened at the eras tour???

It’s so sad too cause Abby genuinely tries to be the best mom ever and he’s over over here like “you’re not sexy enough”

@_rat_5758

23 күн бұрын

THIS

@SamRK-1000

23 күн бұрын

There’s many times I’ve heard, both in fictional and non-fictional media, that a married couple with kids still have intense feelings and attraction, and sexual chemistry with each other, so it’s not necessarily the rule but the average outcome of a married child-having heterosexual household. My HYPOTHESIS WHICH IS VERY SCIENTIFIC TOTALLY TESTED AND PROVEN is that the guy of this couple Cooper is talking about has lost attraction to his wife BECAUSE she gave birth. Have you seen people talking about that guy who was freaking out about his wife breastfeeding their son, Huntyr (freaky a*s name for a kid btw)? I have an inkling feeling that the man in this tiktok couple might go down that route. Traditional marriages do not include shoving all the house tasks, childrearing, cleaning, and family management responsibilities onto the mom/woman; I LIVE IN ONE OF THOSE HOUSEHOLDS that is “traditional” but is really “mom knows how to pay bills, also works, also I remember her as my main parent, also my dad was an alchoholic, also he doesn’t know how to use a computer, all he knows is go to work at 4:00 AM, work himself to the bone, and come home, sit on the couch forever, drink a whole fucking six pack of beer, and then get angry when my mom evens TRIES to talk about chores or other responsibilities to him.” I mean that devolved into me revealing my trauma, but that kind of imbalance where the dad is “soooo tired” he can’t or won’t or WILL GET ANGRY when he is asked to do household chores. BOTH PARENTS/PARTNERS NEED TO PITCH IN.

@Kiasae

22 күн бұрын

@@SamRK-1000aw dude I feel you. I’m in the same situation as you. My father’s the same and my mom is doing EVERYTHING and of course she works.

@UnicornsPoopRainbows

22 күн бұрын

​@@Kiasae Damn, this thread is like my childhood but my mom ALSO had cancer. Dad admitted later that he wanted a divorce but then she got sick and he didn't want to leave her while sick. And never left. He got so much praise for just physically being there and driving her to some doctors appointments so he decided to just never leave. Ya know, until 20 years later and she was actually dying. He must have gotten tired of hiding the cheating. Financially irresponsible af too. Like how did we NOT have a working furnace but 2 Harley Davidsons in pretty good condition? I lived near Chicago. It gets COLD in the winter.

@-Koshi-Sugawara-

22 күн бұрын

Exactly!! I feel so bad for her!!😭😭❤️❤️❤️

He said after vag deliver her vag was not the same n sex was better before, May be that's y she opted for c section for 2nd baby n then the while time he was like, "do u feel like u cheated in pregnancy by not having natural birth" Abby can't win with this man. So gross.

@MC_cyjh

3 күн бұрын

Oh my god he’s horrible

@awombatsworld3298

2 күн бұрын

She opted for c section because she had things go really wrong with Griffin’s birth and the doctors recommended a c section to avoid similar issues with August

@big_ted2295

18 сағат бұрын

@@awombatsworld3298either way, still goes to show that either way she’ll get shit for it

@cheyswags

10 сағат бұрын

I mean didn't she ask him if it was the same? Like idk I feel like these are questions people do have, I rather have someone tell the truth or their thoughts then lie.

@lemonywater2979

9 сағат бұрын

​@@cheyswags He says it in such a disgusting way though. Like a disrespectful snotty child.

I hate that he just told her that sex after childbirth is different (worse). I had a baby in 2022 and now twins four weeks ago. It even makes ME feel insecure now. Now I think my husband feels the same way as Matt but wouldn’t tell me because he is an awesome guy who don’t want to hurt my feelings. Idk just made me more insecure…

@zoiladeleon9978

10 күн бұрын

I think you should communicate that concern with him :/ because keeping that fear alive will build resentment

@dhritiarora8626

9 күн бұрын

Baby your brain and body changed shape to birth his babies , your internal wounds will take months if not years to heal. He on the other hand will see you be a nurturer more than a sexy wife and will fall in love with you on another level everyday. Every-time the kids call you mom every-time you kiss your babies . Romanticise adulthood 😘matt is an immature child abby got trapped way too young 🤗also men are always lusting over older women when they are younger then they don't think about how tight they are its a myth

@Tattletales402

8 күн бұрын

You are projecting she asked him he answered he didn’t even say worse just different

@ericaspruill8461

8 күн бұрын

Just talk to him. Honestly your body changed but that doesn't mean being intimate isn't enjoyable.

@Stanx

7 күн бұрын

@@zoiladeleon9978 I already did. And I believe him that everything is fine, but there still is a little spark of insecurity in me 🙈 But that’s okay. I think over time my feelings will get better. ☺️

Wanting to have sex is the worst reason to get married.

@Thathorsegirl113

22 күн бұрын

So outta pocket but true 😭👍

@beanybabyrabie

22 күн бұрын

Nah, some people have values and respect their bodies.

@mirimariana

22 күн бұрын

​@@beanybabyrabie You're aren't exactly respecting your body if you married someone you barely know just to have sex with that person that you barely know.

@shelby6

22 күн бұрын

​@@beanybabyrabie I think you misunderstood the comment, the reason you get married is because you love that person and want to spend your life with them. To do it because of hormones is crazy.

@shelby6

22 күн бұрын

​@@beanybabyrabieI think you misunderstood the comment, the reason you get married is because you love that person and want to spend your life with them. To do it because of hormones is crazy.

the fact she is so defensive about it shows that she knows everyone is right.. he is a horrible husband.

@Thathorsegirl113

22 күн бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking

@cookiedoe6068

22 күн бұрын

Been there, it’s rough. There’s not much else you can do to keep your family together. Can’t force him to be a Man and if you leave it feels like you’re the one messing up your children’s lives. For me, I thought it would get better but it got worse with the years until he left me for his side pieces Weird that we also got married young due to religion

@MavonEast

22 күн бұрын

He is. But she isn't great either. They're both arrogant and insufferable.

@Lemana28021989

22 күн бұрын

​@@MavonEastshe is in a trauma bond

@MavonEast

22 күн бұрын

@@Lemana28021989 It's possible to be a victim and also not be a good person.

Me tryna figure out how they went SEVEN months without paying the water bill 💀

@Trans4ma1

6 күн бұрын

Same 😂 I was like “the water didn’t get cut off all that time?” Sheesh

@haydenlaurenbennett8853

6 күн бұрын

They live in Arizona 😂 our water companies are very forgiving it’s wild. They will try and send you emails and mail and finally the snapping point no water. It’s happen to me we didn’t realize the card on file was expired and we were told the water hasn’t been paid in 6 months

@Trans4ma1

6 күн бұрын

@@haydenlaurenbennett8853 wow 😮

@paddypaddy2834

3 күн бұрын

Typically you would be getting notices in the mail. It’s so weird.

Grown ass adults making a big deal about birthdays is so funny it makes me want to throw up

@Makai-mq2uv

5 күн бұрын

Why? I think it’s a big deal. I adore celebrating the day my husband was born. Best day ever

@hy.a.cinthh

3 күн бұрын

​​​@@Makai-mq2uvpretty sure they more so meant people like Matt, who throw a fit when it doesnt go their way, like a toddler.

@merusotajio2222

Күн бұрын

​@@Makai-mq2uvwho cares about birthdays honestly, it's not that big of a deal when you're an actual adult

Abby’s mom hates Matt. He says it because they’ve been together since they were kids. But I think because he has no ambition or drive to work hard.

@carlycrays2831

23 күн бұрын

Didn't her mom move in with them? I thought maybe it was money problems, but now I wonder if it wasn't because Abby was so overwhelmed

@UlexiteTVStoneLexite

23 күн бұрын

That is just sad. It's not going to get any better

@hairgeek95

23 күн бұрын

@@carlycrays2831 like he said he doesn’t take care of his kids, I can imagine her being overwhelmed with 2 kids under 2.

@theoutsiderjess4869

23 күн бұрын

It might just be both she knows matt since she was a kid and knew what type of person he is and clearly wants better for her

@cskline100

23 күн бұрын

But his music!!! 🙄

The worst part is, she’s loyal and protects his public image in hopes he’ll wake up and appreciate her effort , and he just makes her look like an idiot. She needs to leave him.

@NotesNNotes

21 күн бұрын

Wasn’t a public figure but literally did this shit for my ex-husband and I will never fucking do it again I saved his ass from getting dishonorably discharged from the military in a way I can’t even legally say out loud and he thanked me by cheating on me with multiple people while I was pregnant and after etc., and came home once with genital warts He’s also an alcoholic to this day… thank God, my mother got me Gardasil 😂

@southernmama7606

21 күн бұрын

Yeah, a young wife and mother of two needs to leave her not-so-perfect husband (and btw, we're all imperfect, in case anyone forgot that!), so she can become yet another sad statistic and leave her marriage, why? All because the internet told her to?! No. News flash! That is not your marriage and he is not your husband! Leave them alone! Misery loves company. This backwards generation just loves to see marriages and families end, tear down men and women who enjoy and embrace "traiditional" gender roles, and demonize the smallest imperfections in people all because they're miserable themselves. Put your phones down, youngin's, and go enjoy your lives in the real world. Wake up. Find Jesus. Touch grass!!

@NotesNNotes

21 күн бұрын

@@southernmama7606 he treats her like shit. Obviously you didn’t follow the story, because he doesn’t even have a traditional job, they literally both are influencers and he fails to pay the bills lol - and even if he did, “traditional men” did so little to support their families outside of 9-5. Not to mention, the majority of Americans have two-parent-working households - not even because they want to, but because they literally have to due to the cost of living… and you’re telling me that women should still carry the entire burden of raising their kids and taking care of the home? Unhinged. The statistics are what they are for a reason. Men like him and women like you support tolerating this and for what? For weak praise? For the approval of the pastor who takes your money and lobbies for child marriage and against women’s health legislation? Girl get a grip.

@NotesNNotes

21 күн бұрын

@@southernmama7606 he treats her like shit. Obviously you didn't follow the story, because he doesn't even have a traditional job, they literally both are influencers and he fails to pay the bills lol - and even if he did, "traditional men" did so little to support their families outside of 9-5. Not to mention, the majority of Americans have two-parent-working households - not even because they want to, but because they literally have to due to the cost of living... and you're telling me that women should still carry the entire burden of raising their kids and taking care of the home? Unhinged. The statistics are what they are for a reason. Men like him and women like you support tolerating this and for what? For weak praise? For the approval of the pastor who takes your money and lobbies for child marriage and against women's health legislation? Girl get a grip.

@purrfectlypeach

20 күн бұрын

@@NotesNNotes SAME i talked sooo good about him and protected his image and his reputation (he only had a good one because of me..). i regret it so much. thank god for divorce and birth control.

I’m convinced that Colleen Hoover got inspiration from couples like them

@Eman-rb2hc

10 күн бұрын

@@tumblr_gurl2010s real 😭

@THNDERHDS

4 күн бұрын

Hoover?

@roboticgays

4 күн бұрын

@@THNDERHDSwriter who writes often about like toxic relationships my friends rlly obsessed with her

@Sara-uk5eg

3 күн бұрын

You haven't read her books and it shows. Keep jumping on every hate train wagon it's very obvious

@Eman-rb2hc

2 күн бұрын

@@Sara-uk5eg lol I literally read 4 ?????

The fact that I share a birthday with this man is slowly crushing my soul

@Shreya_Tiwari03

11 күн бұрын

Hey literally ignore the f of that man existence and celebrate yourself 😉 DON'T YOU DARE LET THAT SOUL GET CRUSHED BECAUSE OF SOME NARCISSISTIC

@BriDupre

11 күн бұрын

@@Shreya_Tiwari03 you're right!!

@i_have_no_fucks_to_give7761

11 күн бұрын

Remember that you're the better version

@hopeflamee862

7 күн бұрын

Ditto 😅

@Worm.soup666

7 күн бұрын

That's kinda a bummer bro :(

The way she says, "I grew your baby everyday" and he immediately goes "but fathers day and my birthday were the same exact day--" AS IF THAT'S MORE IMPORTANT/MORE DIFFICULT THAN HIS WIFE LITERALLY GROWING HIS CHILD

@Idiotbox186

23 күн бұрын

THAT IRKED ME TOO!! as if him having to not have a celebration up to his own standards for ONE YEAR is on par with dealing with the absolute nightmare that pregnancy can be

@caseyw.6550

22 күн бұрын

I truly don't get it. BOTH holidays are for him! He just MUST have two whole days where he's told he's a special boy? Lmao! So embarrassing.

@beanybabyrabie

22 күн бұрын

I mean…. Our bodies naturally do it but I get what you mean.

@withmymindandmyimagination844

22 күн бұрын

​@beanybabyrabie naturally does not constitute for the many hardships of child birth. It completely changes your body and is a very long and painful process.

@sweetsbwrry

22 күн бұрын

Factss

This is the type of dude who eventually gets dumped and goes around telling everyone "love is a lie" and "women these days give up on marriage too quickly"

@gromplin

20 күн бұрын

“And now here’s a song about it!” 👨‍🎤 “Youre so out of pockeeet 🎵”

@Livelaughandluvjesus

19 күн бұрын

Red pill content coming up SOOOON

@mfc3553

19 күн бұрын

And they will for sure tell everyone and anyone he can that she's crazy and not "the women he thought he married"

@yyg4632

19 күн бұрын

damn... thats so true

@deadgirlwalking4354

7 күн бұрын

"It came out of nowhere:((("

I listened to a therapist talk about marriage and finances. Marriage is not half is mine and half is yours, its what is mine is yours and what is yours is mine.

A baby moon is a vacation to celebrate the coming of a new child. The fact that she set up a party the same day they returned from a vacation is crazy. If anyone has taken a vacation, you know that day back is literally re-adjusting to life and prepping for the next day. It’s hardly ever relaxing, so her throwing a party is a feat in itself.

A “traditional man” wouldn’t even EXPECT his wife to throw him a party for his birthday, let alone father’s day 🤣. A “traditional man” wouldn’t let his water bill not be paid for 7 months. He is so self centered and egotistical.

@Alex47631

22 күн бұрын

REAL like how do you not pay the water bill for 7 MONTHS!! Like he had one job lol

@Jaysennx3

21 күн бұрын

Everyone claims they’re a “traditional man/woman” when the only “tradition” they follow is “my husband works & pays the bills while I take care of the kids and clean” that’s not traditional.

@misvee5455

21 күн бұрын

@@Alex47631 this blew my mind! how did they not receive ONE bill or reminder?! if they're only receiving electronic mail then he's failing on checking that too.

@minaryeon9259

20 күн бұрын

He had one job can't even do it right

@annarosen9706

20 күн бұрын

And such a baby. Who tf? 🙄

17:25 PSA! Breastfeeding burns HUGE amounts of calories, so often women who breastfeed indeed require the same caloric intake as a man who is much larger than them. But instead of spreading useful information, this dude just used it to make some strange point about his wife eating a suspiciously large amount. It shows he didn't bother to learn anything about pregnancy and breastfeeding. Sigh.

@imaneclair4836

23 күн бұрын

true, also ppl can have different metabolisms and hunger levels anyways. overall very weird to be commenting about how much food your wife eats in general ugh

@s.l.l.3324

23 күн бұрын

This is so obvious and yet I hadn't even thought about that when Matt was talking about her weight. I've seen other ppl say that they're both a bit clueless about reproduction and contraception in general cause they seemed so shocked they could even get pregnant 5 months after the 1st kid was born (and she also had major surgery in between then??)

@katiekuchen9694

23 күн бұрын

I thought the same!!! I lost a ton of weight breast feeding and going on long walks but eating more than I ever had before

@aurora8749

23 күн бұрын

That's actually not fully true. I've spoken to two different doctors about this as a breastfeeding person who has struggled with anorexia in the past. You only need an additional 3-500 calories. Which most people eat over 500 calories in a single small meal. If you don't believe me actually measure out the calories at dinner. So you really only need like two extra small snacks. Not to eat 4 meals a day or as much as a man twice your size. I'm only making this comment to help any women who are concerned about packing on weight during breastfeeding.

@Ariel-lol

23 күн бұрын

And in fact, you need even more calories while breastfeeding, compared to the 3rd trimester!!! Crazy!

It’s the fact abby was so pregnant during the father’s day/ birthday thing, she said that the pregnancy was hard bc she was so sick so often, and still gave matt a huge party was so sweet. but then matt had to come in and make HER feel bad as if she isn’t carrying HIS baby 😭😭

You know what I noticed too? The way she acted when she was coming off the Anesthesia, constantly saying “ please don’t be mad at me, please be nice to me”, over & over again. . . How the hell does he treat her, that in her scrambled mind, she still has to ask him to treat her kindly? Idk. It was a huge red flag for me. Like , clearly she’s asking him to be kind for a reason. 😳

I think one of the most messed up things this guy has said was that his wife "cheated childbirth" by having a c-section. Y'know, a c-section.... where you get cut open while you're awake (edit to add: this being after getting a needle inserted into your spine). Absolutely wild and horrible of him to think let alone say.

@katiekuchen9694

23 күн бұрын

That’s absolutely horrific he would say that!

@haleydarko2989

23 күн бұрын

I had 2 "natural" births and honestly my friends that has c sections had it harder! C section moms are the real troopers. Pushing a baby out IMO is easier than major abdominal surgery.

@Anrd0meda

23 күн бұрын

wAIT YOURE AWAKE FOR THOSE???

@katyyyie

23 күн бұрын

And she had hernia surgery right after her first birth and wasn’t supposed to get pregnant for a year.. and they got pregnant again within months.. It truly seems like he doesn’t value her life.

@jlwhite159

23 күн бұрын

@@Anrd0meda Yes! They give the pregnant person an injection (known as a "spinal") to numb everything from the waist down. There's a curtain put up so the person giving birth can't see what's happening, though.

Karma is that hairline. Every time he’s a trash husband, he loses a hair.

@rochelle9168

16 күн бұрын

Dead 💀🤣

@tessaeapen9949

16 күн бұрын

Omg underrated comment 😂

@somebody-fz6zm

16 күн бұрын

He's gonna be bald by tomorrow

@hanna_wtr

15 күн бұрын

no logic in your comment, because why he not bald yet?

@crazyfirebender15

14 күн бұрын

I was thinking the same thing, the second this dude isn’t hot is when Abby will get a self esteem and leave him

Filming a real argument about not paying the bills while zooming in on your wife’s face and then posting it on social media is wild

My seven year old sister’s boyfriend could probably do better than him

@coco_and_shawn

10 күн бұрын

LMAO PREACH!!

@eliRodriguez-gg5ei

6 күн бұрын

LMFAO!😭😭

@eunicesedinamhormeku1697

2 күн бұрын

Fr but like how does a seven-year old HAVE MORE GAME THAN ME😭😭😭😭💀

Tbh I find it weird that the husband was upset that he grilled on his birthday, like my dad loves grilling even if it isn’t a holiday 😭

@carlycrays2831

23 күн бұрын

I think part of the problem is that he is used to sharing Father's Day and doesn't like it. Which is fair, but it's all the other stuff

@ppbeetle_

23 күн бұрын

ong, my birthday I made dinner because I know no one would make it the way I want. I don’t expect people to do it for me either cuz im an adult?? like this is quite entitled

@jimmiesavage437

23 күн бұрын

Same

@caseyw.6550

23 күн бұрын

He's just a brat. He would have found something wrong with anything, I'm sure.

@tamiausten873

23 күн бұрын

​@@carlycrays2831 especially since there was an actual child coming 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ he should have been excited but I guess it was a bummer 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️. My cousin had his first child born on Father's Day in 2022, I and the rest of the family were so happy, it was a big deal ❤😂 and I haven't forgotten about it since, so cute. But some people are bummed out 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

“Did you guys wait until marriage?” “Yeah! Why do you think we got married so quick!” Literally the exact problem with purity culture. It’s so backwards.

@theguilloriousmind5832

22 күн бұрын

100%

@HazZzel-

21 күн бұрын

I never understood it. I view sex as something intimate. Like, if I can't trust you in bed, why would I get married to you?

@Z_ayy

21 күн бұрын

⁠​⁠@@HazZzel- completely agree it can really bring a couple together, offer a feeling of safety, and make people realize if they are truly compatible or not. Sex isn't a shameful thing and it's unfortunate that people think it is. Waiting for marriage just makes people rush into getting married for the sex, instead of taking years to get to know that person and understand the commitment being made.

@ashlles86

21 күн бұрын

Couldn't agree more. To me, marriage is a huge commitment and really means something. It's saying you love someone so much that you want to devote your whole life to them. Going into that just so you can do the deed, honestly, makes a mockery of marriage.

@Jaysennx3

21 күн бұрын

Marrying just to be able to fck is wild. Marriage is more than just sex.

i’ve said it once and ill say it again, once you start making excuses for the man you’re with you need to leave. it means they now have the power over you and you start apologizing for things you haven’t done and internalizing their shit.

@danielleelizabeth9417

Күн бұрын

Truth

The RAGE i felt when he was talking about her weight, right after giving BIRTH?? this man needs to be stopped bro i really hope abby is okay

no joke my friend saw them at disney and matt was ignoring abby while she was trying to eat dinner and wouldn’t help her at all with their baby😭

@carlycrays2831

23 күн бұрын

God, why not just hire a nanny for the trip? But nope, he would complain about that too

@zoey24420

23 күн бұрын

@@carlycrays2831facts!

@Icelandic_fart-sc9up

23 күн бұрын

Reminder that this comment could be lying before you take this as fact

@SamRK-1000

23 күн бұрын

⁠​⁠@@carlycrays2831”Abby you’re a not SPENDING TIME WITH THE KID YOU NEED TO BRING HIM OUT INTO THE WORLD AND TAKE CARE OF HIM WHAT IF THE BABYSITTER KIDNAPS HIM???????” And she’s just caught in this idiotic man crossfire.

@lmnk2798

23 күн бұрын

It literally feels like he's her kid too.

Let's not forget, when he booked a horse riding lesson, the SAME DAY, Abby was getting her IUD put in, and refused to cancel it.

@larahavenga6862

16 күн бұрын

WHAT?damn

@awilliams7796

15 күн бұрын

Oh god I remember that...that was fucking awful

@ServantOfYHWH

14 күн бұрын

Are these stories real? I almost can’t believe this person exists.

@JewelO3411

14 күн бұрын

​@@Alixir1228 I think she just didn't want Matt to do what he did when she gave birth to their second, which was the silent treatment during the most vulnerable times. Whenever they post her breakdowns, she always says to Matt, "don't get mad at me." I get your point, she chose to go and to not baby her. But she seems too much of a people pleaser and doesn't want Matt to be mad at her. It is scary sometimes when the one person she chose to spend the rest of her life can get mad over a simple no.

@TinaTomassen

14 күн бұрын

@@JewelO3411I sometimes thank my fiancé for not getting mad at me when I express certain emotions. it’s due to childhood trauma in my case. My fiancé has NEVER gotten mad at me for expressing myself or abused my trust. But I am afraid to think what would have happened if a controller / abuser had gotten his claws into me when I was younger. I was so vulnerable. Abbey might be in a similar situation. Yes, she is an adult and has the right to make choices. But the reality is sometimes different for people in controlling relationships.

HES WORRIED ABOUT FATHERS DAY ON HIS BIRTHDAY!!??? My FRICKING BIRTHDAY IS ON CHRISTMAS

@nico_ricoo-fk1mw

4 күн бұрын

A fellow Capricorn hi! 😁

@paddypaddy2834

3 күн бұрын

Exactly! A grown man complaining about this is ridiculous.

@deborahhanna9126

2 күн бұрын

If i gave him a pass on anything, it would be that. My birthday was a prime example: Dec 21, my dad on the 22nd, baby niece on the 23rd, and Aunt on the 24th. Everyone wants to feel special on their birthday- but when you're a kid, it becomes obvious that people forgot in all the Christmas bustle, or they didn't budget so you get that sad old excuse, "I got you ONE present for BOTH!" But in my family the days just kept churning along to the next person So I couldn't even complain about not having a cake or a special dinner. "Ugh, we're going to have so many desserts for the Holidays why do you need ANOTHER!?" It got easier to have no expectations as I got older, but my job also made it clear they just didn't believe me so even asking for the day off became a hassle. Not even being able to take a day off for my dad sucked. And we couldn't fake-share because I was Sagg he was Cap. At this point if anyone mentions my birthday it causes me actual physical pain. Birthdays are personal and some people handle them different, not to mention you are aware of aging and being mortal- some people have a break down every year with seasonal affective disorder too. Making fun of people instead of celebrating their birthday is very unkind; it immediately shows up people who took birthdays for granted. Or those who are so miserable they can't stand anyone else to have a special day for any reason. On everything else yeah, Matt's the worst.

@Quinn_Brown

2 күн бұрын

My Birthday is much the same as his but instead it’s on Mother’s Day. You know what I did Instead of complaining? I hung out with all the women in my family and we got pedicures. We celebrated both and it was fun! No need for complaining.

@Lisa-kf4iu

2 күн бұрын

Yeah and it sucks!

she's throwing a party for him & getting a "it's ok" reaction is giving "i know my love should be celebrated, but you tolerate it"

The fact that he made her feel bad about her postpartum body right after having the kid! "They said it would go back to normal, but it hasn't." Dude, you have to give it time! It can take years for your parts to heal. She just gave you a child, and you're upset that she didn't return to "normal" overnight? He's gross!

@admar6934

23 күн бұрын

She asked is not like he brought it upb,shes always asking questions and gets mad at the answers

@tamiausten873

23 күн бұрын

Talk about a trainwreck 😮😮😮

@katiekuchen9694

23 күн бұрын

@@admar6934but there’s a way to answer that’s not awful. Years ago Kourtney Kardashian asked Scott Disick the same question, he by no means was a great partner but his answer was something along the lines of “it’s basically the same and I’d do anything to get back in there you’re still the hottest woman alive to me”. That’s the way you answer the question

@tamiausten873

23 күн бұрын

​@@admar6934 that's the problem with these people. They want to seem open, like they communicate but definitely this is going to crash. It may not happen that soon but it's not going to be good or cute for long. She definitely sees videos like this dissecting their content/marriage and truth hurts

@aurora8749

23 күн бұрын

That's how you know someone doesn't love you. My kids Dad made comments about me being chunky and I was already at a lower weight than before I got pregnant at 110 pounds and I was the healthiest I've ever been. It really pissed me off

what’s insane is that in the video where she’s on anesthesia, she’s constantly saying “you’re mad at me” as if that’s the expectation. how often does he have to be mad at her where she can expect that under anesthesia, when you’re typically being your most simple version of yourself???

@carlycrays2831

23 күн бұрын

Someone else pointed that out and I can't unsee it. She is afraid and that has to come from somewhere.

@TroX30540

23 күн бұрын

Some people have traumas and no matter how nice you can be to them, they will still fear rejection, it doesn't prove anything

@Lillyparkernewsom

23 күн бұрын

OK I totally see what you’re saying, but I would be that way no matter what, because of my past

@admar6934

23 күн бұрын

Yeah but she also seems very needy and whiny why no one talks about that? Everyone wants to just go all on the guy but she is very clingy and consyanly needs validation, I have seen their vid3os to say she asks him questions wants thectruth and when she gets it does not like it​@carlycrays2831

@caseyw.6550

23 күн бұрын

Yeah, I absolutely noticed that. It was really freaking sad...and telling.

Matt is the kind of person who is always honest, especially when it gives him an excuse to be brutal.

She had to have felt bad because that’s the way she was taught, she was taught to be guilty and feel bad for things she shouldn’t.

“Don’t be fooled by me taking care of my son” *bro what* how are you just gonna casually drop the fact that you don’t take care of your baby and then not expect backlash

@kesia872

23 күн бұрын

And then she calls him an involved and good father

@Idiotbox186

23 күн бұрын

Exactly 💀💀 and what's worse is dad's like this will do the absolute bare minimum and still expect to get praise for *checks notes* taking care of a child they helped make..huh

@moonniieee

23 күн бұрын

How did you make the text smaller Edit: I spelled it wrong 🤦‍♀️

@tamiausten873

23 күн бұрын

​@@kesia872 my dad right now feels like my opps every other day, but I know he was involved when I was a baby. Not only was I told, I actually saw pictures 😅 and we are African, It's actually normal that in 2001, a Nigerian dad hardly held his baby, not like the millennial parents trying to change that, but my dad was even the one at home with me, Mom was working in a bank at the time

@kesia872

23 күн бұрын

@tamiausten873 that's different from framing it as "this is my wife's duty, I'm just doing it as a favor to her." Being involved isn't just holding your baby, and I'm glad your dad was involved in your life. We need parents/parental figures to be involved in how children are raised. These two are mostly influencers, and most of the influence came from her. He's a musician who ignored his wife after she gave birth because he felt having a family was in the way of his music.

Their podcast feels like I’m watching their marriage counseling and it’s so uncomfortable.

@peachssteas

19 күн бұрын

Omg I genuinely can’t unheard that now 😭

@madelineasmr926

19 күн бұрын

That’s why I clicked once and I don’t watch them. Spilling way too much info online is not a good look.

@kayleesmith2011

18 күн бұрын

That’s exactly what I thought when listening to it for the first time

@stellamariefanboy.6768

18 күн бұрын

More like we are watching a passive aggressive argument. As if we are kids watching our parents fight/

@leahgray141

18 күн бұрын

Yes!

Traditional roles are fine but he’s not the breadwinner. Absolutely wild.

i’m gonna defend abby and say, she’s so emotionally manipulated by this man i don’t think she ignores it i legit think she’s stuck 😭😭

Being this bad of a husband is one thing but showing it is another. Like if this is what they show how bad is he irl 😭

@arynxxx

23 күн бұрын

fr like is this the highlights of his kindness

@theoutsiderjess4869

23 күн бұрын

Him also exposing himself as a bad father is worse

@jijijijibaby

23 күн бұрын

exactly. we’re only seeing bits and pieces. imagine how much worse he is behind doors.

@Windprinceinfiresman

23 күн бұрын

Yeah he can’t even lie enough to convince the internet he has redeeming qualities

@gracengabire7356

22 күн бұрын

it gotta be worse, poor her

Matt is absolutely the type of person to have a "birthday week" and expect everyone around him to drop everything and celebrate him.

@bidhatridas

17 күн бұрын

Reminds me of some people back in school 😂

@superbabymia1

17 күн бұрын

More like a birthday month

@undreyuhh

17 күн бұрын

he def looks like he would cheat during a bachelors party

@bidhatridas

17 күн бұрын

@@undreyuhh omg 💀

@ellewoodsoffical

16 күн бұрын

@@undreyuhhREAL

Him weight shaming her is INSANE. I am very nearly Underweight for my age/biology/build, and I’m

i’m an emancipated 16yo girl and even i can figure out how to pay my bills lmao

@salamander6014

3 күн бұрын

damn

@Harpsypookie

Күн бұрын

hope your doing well!!

@angel_aubree

Күн бұрын

@@Harpsypookie i’m doing great!! hella poor, hungry sometimes, but it’s so worth it considering what i left behind❤️‍🩹

@Harpsypookie

23 сағат бұрын

@@angel_aubree im so happy for you! :)

@Harpsypookie

23 сағат бұрын

@@angel_aubree im happy you are great!

Lets not forget him storming out of her delivery room to go get food when he got pissed off during their lactation consultation. Hes absolute trash

@Kimmie9553

22 күн бұрын

What did he get pissed off about?

@ashmac87

22 күн бұрын

He's pathetic.

@beccaquesnel2806

22 күн бұрын

@@Kimmie9553”she was starving the baby” she was just struggling to lactate… cause you know- it’s literally biological - it’s not like babies even need that much milk upon birth, but he essentially just wouldn’t let her be a mom then stonewalled her for days because a baby was going to disrupt his “music career” that doesn’t even exist

@YW2324

22 күн бұрын

​@@beccaquesnel2806 that's crazy 😧

@RochelleLong924

21 күн бұрын

WHATTTTT

1:18 The fact that Abby kept repeating "Don't be mad at me" is a HUGE red flag. In healthy relationships, you don't have to worry about the other person getting mad at you for needing help.

@jaxorisit1447

21 күн бұрын

i fully get what you're saying and i do think what you're saying applies here; however consider that people with trauma and anxiety around relationships can have that as it can ve a major fear of setting someone off when growing up or being used to walking on eggshells

@Kit-Kat16

21 күн бұрын

​@@jaxorisit1447true.. I think he's just always been shitty to her..she's anxious..

@St0ned_Fluttershy

21 күн бұрын

I get that. But ptsd can affect relationships. I have ptsd from my past relationship so it effects my current relationship, even if I have no reason to be scared I still am as a defense mechanism

@lajourdanne

21 күн бұрын

@@jaxorisit1447 I agree. Neurodivergent people can get caught up in wondering if people are mad at them. There are t-shirts aimed at people with ADHD that say “Are you mad at me?”

@Phoenix_Ash30

21 күн бұрын

​@@jaxorisit1447 this makes sense til you remember she's never had a past relationship 💀 so it's all trauma from... Him??

omg and the fact that abby is always apologizing and being scared that he'll be mad at her might be a joke, but might also be a sign that he could be manipulating her or abusing her :(

I’m in love with your filming room!! The paintings are gorgeous!

@To2A_206

11 күн бұрын

Same im literally in LOVE 😊

the amount of shitty husbands cooper talk about is crazy

@SiLLyLiL_GuY

23 күн бұрын

it’s crazy how may people marry someone, like a woman and not valuing her???

@smoofur

23 күн бұрын

@@SiLLyLiL_GuYThey probably hadn’t been valued before / were gaslit into thinking “oh, yeah, this is normal”

@UlexiteTVStoneLexite

23 күн бұрын

He is calling out the crap. We need to point this crap out

@UlexiteTVStoneLexite

23 күн бұрын

​@@SiLLyLiL_GuYit really is

@purrrrrrrple

23 күн бұрын

He's taking notes on what NOT TO DO

NOT TO MENTION he also gave his wife SILENT TREATMENT for 48 hours AFTER GIVING BIRTH because he was mad at her because they had another child. After all, he was upset that he wouldn't be able to pursue his CAREER as much.

@juliannap6878

22 күн бұрын

Wait what ?!?!

@juliannap6878

22 күн бұрын

Are you being serious ?

@bear9295

22 күн бұрын

They had the child together tho. Like he contributed while making of the child. How??? How can you be mad at your wife???

@sari9645

22 күн бұрын

@@bear9295and he also knew she was obviously pregnant for MONTHS prior? Why wait so long to be mad 😭

@zombieedrea

22 күн бұрын

@@juliannap6878 Kiki Chanel did a long video on them and she shows the video where he talks about this. I recommend watching that. Cooper's video is a good introduction but Kiki shows even more wild shit. 😬

I used to see SO many comments about how he is the sweetest guy ever and how beautiful this couple is, "best on the internet" even, and I was just there like.....really?.......how?.... Im glad people aren't blind to this anymore

@danielleelizabeth9417

Күн бұрын

Right as soon as I saw that first Tik Tok it seemed so fake. Like it was all an act, he gave me the ick and then I looked at how many followers he had. I was amazed so many people bought into his bullshit, what a terrible man

@fouziya18

Күн бұрын

@@danielleelizabeth9417 I am just a brainless person then. You know I even believed his good husband drama and jealous of Abby having such a husband. She abby literally made me believe that.

Abby is such a good wife and mom. She deserves better. I feel so sorry for her because she does everything and he doesn’t appreciate her. Hope she finds someone who is worthy of her

The way she talks so bad about herself whenever she’s breaking down and apologizes to him is SO sad

@_abby_g

20 күн бұрын

Makes you wonder if he breaks her down whenever the camera is off...

@ProdigySexyAbs

20 күн бұрын

@@_abby_g thats the vibe i always got from them! especially the video of her on the couch after pain meds or whatever. how quick she is to think its her fault for things that she isnt even doing wrong. and you know if she ever tries to say anything about him being stupid lol like lack of brains for the bill situation hes gonna say some dumb shit.

@nazareth_02

20 күн бұрын

His tone did not help. Or the body language

@ambiva-kun

20 күн бұрын

made it 1k 🔥

@Thathestiadevotee

20 күн бұрын

@@_abby_gOh he definitely does. If this is what he feels comfortable with saying in front of millions of people, imagine what he feels comfortable with saying in private.

He's gonna be that father who wonders why his kids barely talk to him when they're older.... cause they were only close with mom. What a clown 🤡

@duchess2412

12 күн бұрын

He’ll also be one of those dads that doesn’t know his kids birthdays, their eye colour and their allergies

@SincerelyYours_Rebekah

7 күн бұрын

You literally just explained my whole life in one sentence😭

@ojs5988

7 күн бұрын

​@@SincerelyYours_Rebekahexcept people think I'm ungrateful because "at least I have a dad". They don't understand that with fathers like Matt it's better off if you just didn't have 1

@SincerelyYours_Rebekah

7 күн бұрын

@@ojs5988 Factsss

@maggiepp7997

7 күн бұрын

He’s insufferable!

Around the 21:33 mark, you're talking about what the ulterior motive might be with what Matt says about his curiosity about kissing someone before Abby. Here's my theory: Matt has written music that suggests he holds resentment towards Abby and his kids. He clearly has an "Oh, pity me" mentality and blames his family for something, whatever that may be. I think he's saying in this clip that he's wondered what his life would be like if he'd kissed someone before he and Abby got together because they got together young and have stayed exclusive since. I honestly think he fantasizes about a different life, where he and Abby had never gotten together, and the likelihood of that being the case had he kissed someone else before her. In conclusion, Matt sucks! Abby, free yourself queen. Divorce can and should be an option when you're a victim to your own husband.

The more you played the "same" clip the more I realized how excited he sounded to say he thought she was unattractive

if i was violently breaking down, and my man was standing there filming me???? i think i would become violent

@ninipanini11

18 күн бұрын

I would be a widow that’s for sure

@leahgray141

18 күн бұрын

He's always filming Abby's meltdowns and posting it you can hear him laugh too. I feel so bad for the kids.

@Herzbloem

18 күн бұрын

Ick, I would slap his phone away if that's me

@soude85

17 күн бұрын

@@ninipanini11 😂

@jennyrebecca7243

17 күн бұрын

She chose this. HE isn’t a content creator THEY are content creatorS!!!!! It’s how they make money on top of doing AIRBNBS. Smh it’s really a joke how everyone is pretending she’s a victim or abused or something. Y’all crazy Brittany spears crazy but Abby a victim 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 weirdos

This is the guy who said he gave his wife the silent treatment after she gave birth because he felt resentful about their baby. Like truly an awful father and husband.

@lizzayy-cg2ec

22 күн бұрын

100% true! Weirdo!

@Ms.delusional_x

8 күн бұрын

I did that to when my brother was born. I was two years old. I gave up ignoring my mother and brother after about 5 hours anyway

@ERENSTITAN

7 күн бұрын

@@Ms.delusional_xbc you were two, this man is prolly in his 30’s or somethin, and doesn’t even know how to take care of the house bills💀

@harvestcheddar0

5 күн бұрын

⁠@@Ms.delusional_xnow imagine having a spouse with the emotional maturity of a two year old? And the two year old got over it before this grown man who apparently fumed for 2 days. Tragic.

I feel like 'Please Please Please' by Sabrina Carpenter really applies to Abby rn

I feel sorry for Abby. She’s trying to play clean up and make excuses for his behavior because she can’t fathom the world seeing Matt for the crusty donut he is.

The victim will ALWAYS try to protect and make excuses for the abuser

@peytonsalt

17 күн бұрын

excactly its so sad

@solsticemeows

17 күн бұрын

ALWAYS. And this is coming from someone that experienced this exact thing for several years.

@Bella-q9j

16 күн бұрын

what about if she actually belives in what she is saying though??

@peytonsalt

16 күн бұрын

@@Bella-q9j thats what makes it even more sad

@Popcornspiller3Layla

16 күн бұрын

@@Bella-q9ji think she does believe that matt is really being a good husband and father other wise she wouldn’t defend and apologize for him but u think matts probably manipulating her to think that way

"He pays the bills" is so funny when they literally share an income from their shared social media account.

@icespiceate

12 күн бұрын

Hmmm

@itiscinnamoncafe

10 күн бұрын

Lol yeah

@nuuget6996

10 күн бұрын

They also had a YT short where Matt literally did not pay their bills and their water got turned off

@thethe4665

9 күн бұрын

Plus you pay the bills once a month and taking care of the kids and cleaning is every second of the day every day

We also can’t forgot Abby keeps having to dye her hair Blonde because Matt doesn’t like it brown. Like it’s getting damaged from so much bleaching. It’s sad that he won’t like her any other way😭

He 100% filmed that water bill video so they couldn’t argue freely

wouldn’t his birthday being on father’s day just make it more of his day? why is he crying about that 😭

@TiphaineBoulanger

16 күн бұрын

I think it's because it means he only gets one day of the year being about him instead of 2 😅

@krugel17

15 күн бұрын

I will say in his defense, my dad’s birthday tends to fall on or within days of Father’s Day. He’s almost always been jipped into combo presents (one present for both). It’s kinda like the people who’s born so close to Christmas not getting birthday presents because Christmas is 2 days later so they get a combo birthday/Christmas present.

@julia-kk9im

15 күн бұрын

that is exactly what i am thinking smh

@samanthabutterfield5172

14 күн бұрын

My moms birthday and Mother’s Day are within a week and she somehow has never complained it’s crazy

@thecreatedvoid117

13 күн бұрын

@@krugel17I am one of those Christmas people but I never complain! There is no need to imo. It’s an unchangeable thing and I am accepting of the fact that most are stressing about holiday shopping and celebrations. ♥️ I think people get a little too weird about birthdays anyways lol

Let's remember, she was pregnant, like, five months after giving birth the first time. She was taking care of the home, working, doing everything while also taking care of one baby while breastfeeding and pregnant with the next. That would be too much for anyone

@Idiotbox186

23 күн бұрын

That sounds like an actual nightmare. I cant fathom myself having a baby, let alone finding out I'm pregnant again only FIVE MONTHS after

@alien_liwil

23 күн бұрын

She was pregnant FIVE MONTHS AFTER THE FIRST BABY!??!?!?!

@brandeeddcom

22 күн бұрын

And had double hernia surgery shortly after her first birth

@Atlasintokyo

22 күн бұрын

And she had a hernia surgery around there as well!!!! He barely did shit!

@bennettcurrya

22 күн бұрын

And he said she let him down for merging Father’s Day and his birthday celebration whilst 8 months pregnant 🤯 “you let me down”

The random SAME all throughout the video was EVERYTHING 😂

She says she is not good with finances, insurance, cars, etc because that's what she was made to believe.

The way he’s ALWAYS talking over her/interrupting her is so freaking aggravating

@Depressed_Stressed_LemonZest

20 күн бұрын

OMG IT GIVES ME THE FRIGGIN ICK WHENEVER HE DOES THAT BECAUSE IT'S LEGIT SO ANNOYING

@LindokuhleJele

9 күн бұрын

Ya he talks over her... reminds me of female friend i used to have.. She was so self centered.i have met so many self centered individuals and yes exactly like matt

Him recording every single bad moment she has just to convince people he’s “sweet” really irks me. It’s like he’s being defensive in a way.

@leximcmurry221

20 күн бұрын

He’s not even sweet to her when she’s having bad days. Even while acting he doesn’t do a good job at being supportive or thinking of her first for once…

@tinaferr

20 күн бұрын

Textbook abuser move actually. Trying to show he's the normal one. When you have no idea what his behavior is like behind the scenes.

@akemiasuna8231

20 күн бұрын

Imagine if she recorded him lmao he would be soooo pissed

@cheyennemccoy4444

20 күн бұрын

Every time I see a video of her emotionally breaking down and crying, I wish I knew where they lived just so I could go yell "PUT THE DANG PHONE DOWN AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR WIFE PROPERLY!!!😡" at him. Seriously, since when is it ok to film your partner like that instead of comforting them PRIVATELY?!

@user-ik3js4jg4z

19 күн бұрын

Ik like if my mom was crying and my dad’s reaction was to take out his phone and start recording and patting her on the back in a fake sweet tone, i would be so concerned.

I mean who celebrates Father’s Day…. Like you give him a little present and say happy Father’s Day. My father wouldn’t even know it was Father’s Day 😭

I remember watching the clip where she was crying on the couch and thought to myself “why is he filming this?” So sad, but she obviously allows it. 🤷‍♀️

This “man” don’t wanna be a husband and a father, he just wanted a wife and a child to claim. This guy sucks

@grumpycat2092

21 күн бұрын

Not even sure about the latter, I think he just wanted to kiss/bang someone and sadly he apparently needed to get married to do so.

@PreMal2023

20 күн бұрын

He just wants to potray an image that he is such a good husband and father. His image is all he cares about. Typical covert narcissist.

@JesusLightsYourPath

20 күн бұрын

Exactly. He uses them as trophies.

@JesusLightsYourPath

20 күн бұрын

​@@PreMal2023Agreed

@user-gg3os5dj5g

20 күн бұрын

She said that he takes care of bills but he has admitted to not paying them for 7 months before. Then complained when they piled up.

Her thinking she didn't have to worry about the bills and then realizing she couldn't rely on him for it was craaazzzzyyy 💀

@plamenapetrova9672

14 күн бұрын

She was thinking she had a husband but she is actually alone in this relationship.

@NamesAida.

10 күн бұрын

​@@plamenapetrova9672 lmao yes she does EVERYTHING herself😭

@AltOurCumrade

8 күн бұрын

@@NamesAida.idk man I fell people are projecting. I never follow these guys as I don’t even use TikTok. Might have seen there KZread shorts one or two randomly. But you can’t really judge a relationship from few seconds of TikTok.

@AltOurCumrade

8 күн бұрын

But at the same time even I don’t like people who flim person life for views then actually living it

another thing is that whenever they have guests on the podcast he often puts her in a bad light in front of the guests. Or there was this one time when she was hinting that she didn't want to disclose something and he kept talking about it anyways... Also I find it emotionally abusive how he makes her insecure about herself and her body

I could see matt swinging for the same team and she is there to keep up the persona.

@hy.a.cinthh

3 күн бұрын

I mean... he was a theatre kid

FINALLY someone is talking about him. His attitude toward his wife has always made me so uncomfortable and made me unfollow them initially. Him posting his music to monetize his family really disgusts me.

@destineerose3254

23 күн бұрын

My exact thought

@greenbananas12378

23 күн бұрын

I mean other KZreadrs have too

@UlexiteTVStoneLexite

23 күн бұрын

So many problems here. So much dysfunction

@abbielindell

23 күн бұрын

Kiki Chanel did a good video on this wild ride a couple of weeks ago! So insane!!

@luckylouden1008

23 күн бұрын

Yeah idk where you've been cuz like every youtuber has made a video about them in the last few weeks

My husband works 40+ hours every week. I am not employed. I'm nine months pregnant. I have been expected to do *very little* in my household during my pregnancy. I doubt I'll lift a finger around here for at least two weeks after I have the baby, with the exception of breastfeeding which my husband physically could not do for me. Women, please don't think these people are normal and that this is acceptable treatment. It is not. You deserve better.

@southerngraceglamour

19 күн бұрын

You sound like me, minus 9 mos pregnant. Happy for you ♥️

@n.alianovna

19 күн бұрын

you got lucky with your husband! prayers for a safe delivery and a beautiful baby!❤️❤️

@KAKTUS_1991Son

19 күн бұрын

Everyone knows we deserve better but where do you find such husbands lol I have no one because I refuse to deal with a drop kick like this 😅

@user-zj3st9lu8j

19 күн бұрын

​@@KAKTUS_1991SonMy husband wasn't like this AT ALL when we first met, but he learned! It took a lot of patience. I had to remind myself that a man-child probably doesn't want to be that way either. There's a reason man-children seem frustrated and immature all the time, humans have innate need to care for themselves and when that need isn't met they throw tantrums, ignore other's issues just like they ignore their own issues (expecting someone else to fix it for them), and act selfishly because that's all they were taught to think about. People (man or woman) are robbed of the skills to cope with life when they're raised in a mysognistic environment. Spending time, patience, and willingness to break free from that is an accomplishment within itself and I commend anyone who puts in the effort to unlearn and relearn those basic life skills. That's their responsibility to grow up and their journey to take. The only reason I was so patient with my husband is because I saw he was willing to accept that responsibility of relearning through his actions. Even if some of those dishes were crusty af in the beginning... 😂 That being said, this dude in the video is too far gone. I would launch myself out a window if I had to teach him how to wipe his own ass.

@KAKTUS_1991Son

19 күн бұрын

@@user-zj3st9lu8j yeah I mean it comes down to being considerate.. if someone doesn’t respect you there’s no way they’re ‘learning’ how to help out around the house my 11 year old son does almost as much as I do age appropriate and doesn’t complain at all.. reasonings being he will make someone else’s life extremely miserable if he doesn’t step up & I’ve taught him to not settle either.. it goes both ways..

I think that if you’re ever feeling down in the dumps just remember that you’re not Matt.

@ritupawar314

7 күн бұрын

Mannnn😂😂😂