as a brazilian im laughing SO hard at her saying men are coming here to find more “traditional” wives. Brazilian men are so submissive to their wives is actually funny, i love it

@carolinacoelho6984

20 күн бұрын

i’ll do anything my wife lets me is actually the most common joke in this whole country im not even joking

@Uiuiooo

20 күн бұрын

I need me Brazilian man

@sm1purplmurderedme583

20 күн бұрын

LMAOOO

@kat8295

20 күн бұрын

Same thing with Italy. lol A lot of Italian men I know will do anything to make their wives happy. She's in for a real surprise!

@MariaLaura-ov2vb

20 күн бұрын

Omg yes! Men are kind of scared their wifes lol (sou br tbm kk)

what i think is funny is that these women seem to think that feminists have to have full time jobs and hate all men. I'm a stay at home mom, i cook dinner every night, keep the house clean, and respect my husband. And i am 100% a feminist, loud and proud. The best part? My husband actually respects me back! crazy right?

@pinkartist8692

20 күн бұрын

WHAT?? GRR, IMPOSSIBLE! Jk, I’m extremely happy for you, stranger on the internet 💙‼️

@jackthejoke3298

20 күн бұрын

oh heavens!! you are a feminist AND a housewife? insaneeeee (i'm joking. My mom is just like you. Keep shining, lady. you rock.)

@chameleon25

20 күн бұрын

They’re probably mad that that’s not the case for them so this is how they cope and get validation online

@Aria__1700

20 күн бұрын

Yeah... Especially that one girl who said men want international women cuz they're more "traditional".... I've met plenty of foreign women who r haughty and bunch of rude women it doesn't matter where they're from! 😂

@abigabi9368

20 күн бұрын

Right!! The whole point of feminism is the freedom to choose the lifestyle you want. Whether that’s being a stay at home mom, a workaholic, or somewhere in between is all completely fine as long as you feel happy and fulfilled. It’s about equal opportunity for everyone!!

I did the trad wife thing. It was awful. He was also verbally and mentally abusive. I finally left for good and had zero marketable skills. None. I got laughed out of interviews because i didn't type fast enough to even be a an admin assistant. I had a college degree but guess what, a general studies diploma does absolutely nothing. I moved to a different state because I knew my ex would drag me back in if i was within 500 miles. My first job post divorce paid $11/hr and literally the only thing i could get because i had a massive gap in my work history, no employers did not care that the reason was raising kids and taking care of a household. It has taken me 9 years and 5 job changes but I finally have a job I love and pays me enough to support myself and my kids. I'm extremely proud of my progress and my ability to show my children that I did this on my own, for all of us. It's been an absolute battle to get here and it isn't over but I would much rather fight this battle and pay my own bills than ever go back to the 'trad' life I had.

@walking_on_sunshine1611

6 күн бұрын

You are awesome! You really are! Took care of yourself, so good ❤

@Afcour

6 күн бұрын

I’m so sorry it’s a struggle but have so much admiration for you! Xxx

@cawingcrows2072

6 күн бұрын

I'm so sorry you had to deal with a series of such awful events and I am so glad you are doing better, bless you and your family

@singing_silhouette

5 күн бұрын

You're a woman I would proudly look up to, any day ❤

@mj-rg9kp

3 күн бұрын

Idk why people keep equating trad wife to abusive marriage. Girl your husband was abusive, has nothing to do with trad or not. He would’ve still been abusive even if you lived a non trad life style.

I was raised in the south and Christian. I fell for the trad wife life. I married a man who also was about that life. It was horrible. Zero help with the house even though I worked 80hr a week, he took all my money because he was “investing for our future” and in the end I had to leave. I’m just starting to wake up from all the BS. Now I refuse to cook during dating because I don’t want a man to see me as a servant or “love” me for what I do for him

@lacigartman3353

15 күн бұрын

I was taught to center and serve men in my life and am just now untangling it

@dylpodhicks4713

14 күн бұрын

Im so sorry you had to go through that! I am a Christian as well, but my husband and I understand that neither of us are the center of the relationship, only God is. And we are BOTH called to serve one another as we have been served by Christ. Your ex husband was obviously not a Christian and I sincerely hope you don’t turn away from your faith from this experience!

@StarryWaters-gq1oj

13 күн бұрын

​@@lacigartman3353Me too. A few months of marriage cured that when I realized I was working my tail off doing everything around the house AND working a stressful job

@shiina29

12 күн бұрын

Yeah, it’s a total lie. Men that want a servant don’t really love you and will drop you instantly for a younger woman or if you get sick. There’s actually data that show men are likely to divorce women who need to get their breasts removed because of cancer. It’s disgusting.

@choycejoyce4699

12 күн бұрын

I was raised the opposite, by a mom who can’t cook and gets other people to do her chores (her boyfriends in her youth, maids as a successful career woman). She always drilled into me the importance of independence. Somehow I still ended up falling for trad wife life. I did all the cooking, cleaning, and let my partner be “the man of the house” but because I’m financially independent I also paid all the bills 🤦‍♀️ that’s not the full story, but went there for a bit. Yikes 🪤

I'm a single, cottage-core woman with a bunch of traditional interests; baking, cooking, gardening, homesteading, painting, I even do embroidery. And I attract a lot of men who want a trad-wife. And they are soooo nice at first. But then they realize I, today, also mow the lawn, do car maintenance, house repairs and even renovations, so they can't trick me into thinking that is equal to all of the housework. And then I tell them I will not be the main caretaker of any children and they will have to do their part. And then they want to bargain and I dump them because if we put the cards down and all your bringing is a good job, a 50s fetish, the easiest parts of house-owning and an ok personality I will not waste my time nor my homegrown strawberry desserts on you.

@aprameena7359

19 күн бұрын

As a girl interested in " traditional" hobbies I get conflicted that where I stand as a feminist because I don't want to do labour without being respected

@amylizard

19 күн бұрын

@@aprameena7359 With feminism you get to choose your hobbies, doesn't matter what they are. But you should demand respect for them. Anyone who doesn't respect your hobbies, labour or you isn't worth your time. Wanting to do something because you enjoy it, like cooking, is very different from having to do it because your husband refuses do a "woman's task".

@aprameena7359

19 күн бұрын

@@amylizard exactly that's what I realised that I enjoy trying new recipes when I want but when men in family ask to cook dinner I despise doing it so I trying to learn how to separate my hobbies from traditional duties

@AnnaAnna-vz6ly

19 күн бұрын

As someone wise said, being bi makes you realise men don't really like women because if I had a girlfriend like you I'd be doing anything to add to your life and keep you happy (so you have more time to make me that strawberry dessert). Good luck finding someone, they exist! But being an engineer I have easy filter, it intimidates the wrong people and being shy and blonde will not fool them into thinking I'm submissive

@purplehippo9540

19 күн бұрын

@@aprameena7359i dont rlly see feeding yourself as “traditional”

The "trend" of talking about having a traditional marriage is just weird to me 😭 like if you want one just have it, no need to put other women down

@Ssdgg8

20 күн бұрын

But they're trad wives!!😢😢 men want THAT not women with rights and feelings that's too much of a woman than a mom!!

@cathare4909

20 күн бұрын

That's classic projection behavior.

@Angelacarolinax.

20 күн бұрын

Literally this. I have also seen non traditional values also put women down and it's wrong but delulu ppl say that not true. I'm more a traditional girl but I'm not gonna be rude but will have opinions on non traditional things u can do both. Half the time idc tho and don't want trad or not trad in my face 24/7 it's annoying.

@alyssapinon9670

20 күн бұрын

@@Angelacarolinax.I agree that both types of people are annoying and need to mind their own business, but for the anti trad women, I at least understand that they are just overreacting to the pressure placed on women to be trad wives. And irregardless of the internet trad wife debates, being a stay at home mom is the norm in most cultures.

@vivalarazausarmyvet4453

20 күн бұрын

Never heard of the term trad wife before. We used to call them stepford wives.

You’re absolutely right about passport bros. My husband’s family matriarch is Asian. Her husband was American and was terrible to her. As a result, when my husband hears men talk about their attraction to Asian women, he always wonders whether they admire their beauty, or they want a woman from a culture that they see as submissive because they don’t like accountability or mutual respect.

@sparingharbor2600

5 күн бұрын

Too much dependence takes away your rights in a relationship as the power shifts to one person… too much independence also takes away from the relationship as some ppl might think I’m better off alone than with someone I’ve to put up with.. so generally someone who is middle of the spectrum is more suitable for committing themselves to a relationship while having n independent identity

@jerseybred732

3 күн бұрын

It would seem to me that the women that end up marrying an American because it's what they want have ambitious and go get her personalities. A submissive woman in an environment where they're expected to get married and care for a husband and children would have already been married and doing so. I know two men personally that married Thai mail order brides. (They didn't want anyone questioning there are extra curricular activities in this case) and were both successful New York businessman. Well, both of those women were some of the least passive women I've ever met! But boy were they taken care of! ... because they demanded so! Lol

I was a trad wife - because it was best for my kids. My husband made the money, I took care of the children. It wasn’t a statement, it wasn’t a flex, it was a choice for my kid’s development. I ended up divorcing that guy at 43 because he didn’t respect the contribution I was making, so be careful before entering into this type of situation. Make sure your partner respects your job as a care provider and housekeeper (it’s not a bad word) even though you don’t get a paycheck. Being a “trad” wife of fine as long as you’re being respected by everyone, especially your husband.

@TheSwordofTruth

Күн бұрын

That's not a good reason to divorce.

@user-yg8tq6cd1m

Күн бұрын

I hope you took him to the bank after cuz otherwise you just did 20 plus years of working for a room and board for you and the kids.

@user-yg8tq6cd1m

Күн бұрын

​@@TheSwordofTruth🎉 being unhappy & disrespected is absolutely reasons for divorce

@AmberDanae98

5 сағат бұрын

​@TheSwordofTruth your partner not valuing you or your contributions to the marriage and household is a very good reason to divorce? Tf 😂 I sure as hell wouldn't want to stay married to someone who took advantage of my contributions but couldn't recognize and appreciate them

"pick me, choose me and love me" is literally their number one motto 😂

@Kammiru

20 күн бұрын

You ain't wrong

@rengoku_stan

20 күн бұрын

FRRRR

@MadonnaRudolph

20 күн бұрын

baii

@Squigglesdrwing

20 күн бұрын

Bro frrr

@lydiaj7492

20 күн бұрын

It's insufferable and obnoxious, but it's so sad 😢

These people are always rambling about how feminism makes women work 9/5s when they aren’t built for it…girl that’s capitalism. No-one is meant to grind a 9/5; stop blaming your problems on feminists and wake up.

@zombieedrea

19 күн бұрын

I'M SAYING!!!!! But most of these women are conservative, or at least really lean that way, so they would just defend capitalism and keep the blame on other women. 🙄

@Binksteri

19 күн бұрын

So true! Preach girl!!

@tessajanem

19 күн бұрын

I was shouting this during the video😂

@artemisia4718

19 күн бұрын

There are many places where you don’t have to work 9/5 to survive, but that would require shoveling dung. I think these people like the comfort of a life capitalism can give them, but don’t like the price they have to pay in return. It’s a Faustian bargain all right.

@kiralange3820

19 күн бұрын

this is exactly what i was thinking-- like, i'm happy to also let my male coworker have a day off to rest when his body is in intense pain, he's miserable, and the doctor he may or may not have the capacity to go to won't take him seriously because he's experiencing that same level of pain every month consistently.

The second lady is reminding me of my high school teacher's wife who would sometimes come to the school and sit in class with us. She was a stay at home wife. I once commented on how I could never be a stay at home wife (not to her or in reference to her, just talking to other people) and she got sooo offended and literally threw a hissy fit for her husband to punish me for saying that because apparently I said "stay at home wives are useless" according to her. People like this just like to invent scenarios in their heads where they're the victims.

@autumnmusic22

15 күн бұрын

Holy projection batman! That's what SHE heard, because that's how she feels lol

@alexandraramirez9681

5 күн бұрын

So you did what you critized here, good.

Feminism is having the CHOICE. You can choose to be a SAHM, tradwife, whatever you're not forced to anymore.

My girlfriend is a feminist and she doesn't treat me wrong. She just wants to have a free will... But yeah, that's aaaaalmost the same as hate, isn't it?😂😂😂

@bambismiler

20 күн бұрын

Also, these women “hate feminism,” but they wouldn’t be able to even express their opinions in these videos without feminism

@SQUID0NKEY

20 күн бұрын

@bambismiler absolutely! If all these great women from the past and present wouldn't have fought for their rights (or what we would call it: be feminists) then she wouldn't even have a choice when it comes to if or if not she likes feminism...

@bambismiler

20 күн бұрын

@@SQUID0NKEY Men would beat up their wives for even having opinions, and it was considered acceptable. The men could just get away with abusing their wives. Even if they don’t agree with every aspect of feminism, I hate that they try to act like all feminism is suddenly horrible and just a way to hate on men.

@meganclow6959

20 күн бұрын

​@@SQUID0NKEY Exactly! They don't understand that them saying they CHOSE to be trad wives is feminism in action

@alyssapinon9670

20 күн бұрын

@@bambismilersometimes I wish we could temporalily revoke feminism from these anti feminists so they see how well they can fare without the thing they claim to hate so much.

As a Southeast Asian woman, "passport bros" make my skeleton eject itself into the stratosphere.

@vikki8699

17 күн бұрын

😂👏 Legend!!

@iwant2haveu

15 күн бұрын

Lmaooo

@ckhiker

15 күн бұрын

This analogy made me bust my spleen laughing 😂

@Carrot101

15 күн бұрын

They're so obvious too because they're mad disrespectful most of the time 😮‍💨

@user-fb2xy4od3p

14 күн бұрын

makes me wanna puke

I love how Cooper mixes in how much he loves his fiance and calls her his wife already. It's very cute. I'm so happy for them.

My mom had a point in my childhood where she was a stay at home mom for a few years. It didn't last bc bills are expensive, but even then she drilled it into my head that when or if I got married, I still needed to be able to support myself if something ever happened. It took her almost 15 years of being married to my dad before she took a break from work because before my dad, she was with a very abusive guy who wouldn't let her work and she had to sneak call her father and get money sent to her so she could pick it up and leave the state bc that was the only way she could get out. These trad wives don't really realize how the men who insist on having a submissive woman are a lot of times, going to be either mentally or physically abusive, or both. I don't want any woman to end up stuck in 10/20 years with an awful man and have no way of getting out bc they don't have money of their own and have been cut off from anyone who would've helped.

Feminism isn't supposed to be fun. Its activism. Activism isn't some fun activity to do on your day off, its a struggle. Its a fight. Of course feminists seem miserable, fighting for women's rights is difficult and even grueling in some countries. The fact that she doesn't understand that shows how unaware she is of her privilege.

@Idontknow-br6me

20 күн бұрын

So true , if it wasn't for feminism she wouldn't even have her tik tok account, and she wouldn't be able to voice her opinions . I hate people like her who want to romanticize countries where women have no rights and have to be submissive to their husbands when women who come from those countries truly suffer and aren't happy. But here you have some privileged and lucky women being like this...

@EmpressRetard

20 күн бұрын

Daduq are we fighting for? We have it easier than the men

@violetdanner

20 күн бұрын

This is my exact point with literally all politics, im constantly miserable and stressed but thats because im watching all the terrible stuff happening to women and people all around the world, these people dont know literally anything about the weird world and they twist everything people with different opinions say so that they are somehow victimized, its so tiring

@ClairDeLume

20 күн бұрын

thank you for writing this, 100% agree

@afirewasinmyhead

20 күн бұрын

Replying to boost 📢📢📢

I'm an 18 year old Latina and throughout my whole life, my mom has told me that I should never depend on a man because I'll never know what that man is thinking

@alexiiconner

16 күн бұрын

love that❤

@evapawlowska

15 күн бұрын

My Polish mom says the same. My theory is western women are just dumb and have never been taught how to properly deal with men, so they’re treated like garbage.

@JennyliP22

13 күн бұрын

Your mom it's the best tho, mine told me that too

@jessicaz7193

12 күн бұрын

My mom told me that too

@mikaelaavila9347

11 күн бұрын

My mom told me that too! She encourages me to be able to stand on my own feet!

My mom was a stay at home mom and she regrets it. My dad still has full control of all of the finances and he’s bad with money, so we’re always scrunting. She has to ask permission to buy anything, even gas. She wants to get a job but now she hasn’t had any work experience for 20 years, and has trouble even getting a minimum wage job. She wishes she had a career because it would give her more autonomy. Like Connor, I greatly appreciate my mom being there for me 24/7, but now I feel bad for her, and as a woman, I am working to have a successful career and be completely financially independent from any man.

I'm reading through the Bible this year, and it actually kind of put things into perspective. Women were in some ways better taken care of in Bible times than they were in the 50s. They had the state to fall back on if their husbands died, they did their own work to help the family make money. Obviously it was still a flawed system, but back then gender roles seemed to have a more practical use. Men's work was typically hard labor, and women spent more time making clothes and other resources both for their families and to make money. Meanwhile the 50s housewife was a direct result of the 1940s working women. They pushed the ideal so hard because men came back from war and felt threatened knowing women were incredibly capable in a corporate environment. Women have /always/ worked, especially in lower class environments. These women desperately need a history lesson.

i have a feeling these women are confusing capitalism with feminism because most of their complaints seem to be about working or corporate ladders etc. lol

@TvNetJunkie

20 күн бұрын

You are absolutely right; They do. These women would never last a day as a traditional housewife in a middle class or below home. Like the one who said that she can’t work during her period; does she think that traditional housewives took breaks during their periods?

@oztippetarius

20 күн бұрын

Oofta to both of you

@charliedeegan1598

20 күн бұрын

​@@oztippetarius Gonna explain or?

@Diahrrea_Jones

20 күн бұрын

​@@TvNetJunkieyeah totally. In the 50s, my grandma was married to an alcoholic who drank away all the money and beat his wife and kids. Grandma had to go door to door asking to do people's laundry for pennies just to be able to feed her kids. Back then she couldn't just take the kids and leave; everything they owned was in her husband's name. She had no savings and she didn't know how to drive. She was literally trapped. THATS the kind of tradional lifestyle these pickmes want to return to?!!!

@SweetPhantom

20 күн бұрын

@@Diahrrea_Jones Yes! Also back then, women weren’t even allowed to open a back account unless she had a man attached to it. The laws didn’t change until the late 1960’s, but didn’t go into affect until 1974! Women today would never be able to live like that! Never!

"I don't have the energy to do anything besides simply exist because i'm so sleepy?" I'm pretty sure you just described depression...

@mxttitude

19 күн бұрын

on god

@alexjones8843

19 күн бұрын

Or even an iron deficiency

@JessB08

18 күн бұрын

That is literally how I was when I was depressed... I was depressed because I was in a terribly abusive relationship

@racheld6338

18 күн бұрын

Haha you should have that checked 😅

@emmataylor4478

18 күн бұрын

no literally i related to what she said but like girl that’s depression not womanhood😭

As a Latina from Houston I can confirm that I will throw hands if my bf started to order me around

the notion of looking a tradwife in the eyes and just saying "please. just try to go on roblox." is so funny to me in a way I can't explain

Cooper accidentally calling his fiancé, wife already is so cute 😆

@certifiedmental1

20 күн бұрын

"Accidentally"

@aminatadiallo8197

20 күн бұрын

He is so ready to call her his wife. It's adorable

@madmouse1016

20 күн бұрын

He practically sees her as his wife already x333

@Aya_Chanail

20 күн бұрын

I love to see the passion in his voice when he talks about her… Love that for the both of them

@hollyjollyxmas

19 күн бұрын

Secret wedding??

My uncle met a woman from Thailand, they had kids, she hated his controlling behavior and generally thought it was weird her 5 siblings also said 🤨, so she sprung a quick divorce as soon as their youngest turned 18, took the house and also once she found another guy who treats her much more equal and cooks for her and helps her with everything. He really mellowed out after because he got humbled hard and realized he has to work on himself and his own attitude towards women. Especially since they have a strong feminist daughter. Anyways, he then went for an ultra feminist woman on the opposite side of the spectrum who was a bit too unstable but he actually liked how fun life got when he wasn’t pulling all the financial weight and helped her out with all the chores. He learned how to make food too. 10/10 a total turn around and thankful for that.

@bribro23

19 күн бұрын

We love the character building arc!

@StarlightSorrow88

19 күн бұрын

Ooh, that’s a great turn out. Im glad he learned and improved! I think that’s the best thing that can ever happen from an event, and it’s sad when there’s people who refuse to change. Best of luck to you and the rest of your family :))

@user-lt1jd1ye3v

19 күн бұрын

What a remarkable story lol, actually fascinating

@mishaa7263

19 күн бұрын

my uncle also married a woman from Thailand but he seems miserable af, I'm pretty sure she used him as a sperm donor, I don't feel bad for him lol

@aweshumandy

19 күн бұрын

yeah the whole passport bro thing is very stupid and has no foresight. as a Latino, I've seen so many immigrant women become Americanized. if you don't treat that woman right, it will not matter if she was raised in an another culture; she will inevitably cheat or leave you anyways. shit that can happen even if you aren't a complete asshole. if you aren't fulfilling them in every way, it will not change that most women will find a way out inevitably, native born or foreign. also, they don't just stay with a foreign mindset. they meet other woman and "get corrupted" aka learn how life can be better.

I just love the way you talk abt your fiance 😭 it’s so lovely and heartwarming, love you and your content Cooper and Sofia!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼

She’s clearly never seen 90 Day Fiancé 😂😂😂

My grandma couldn't even get a credit card in her own name, she literally had to get my grandpa to get it for her and it said "Mrs. (Grandpa's name)" this wasn't that long ago. There is nothing wrong with taking on Traditional values if that's your thing, but be grateful you have a CHOICE to do so.

@piperchristeson3394

19 күн бұрын

Ever since I was a child I got the ick from that ‘mrs. man’s full name’ like why is her identity immediately stripped to that extent.

@ashlee0039

19 күн бұрын

THISSS

@kellybroady6378

19 күн бұрын

@@piperchristeson3394 exactly! Same.

@caitlinavila5314

18 күн бұрын

Yeah.... it wasn't till the 70s that women could get a bankaccount without a man.....husband, father, son or brother. Absurd!!!

@jakegenocide

18 күн бұрын

​@@piperchristeson3394 I can agree with that to the fullest.

As a Latina, I don't know what in the Stepford Wives bullsh*t she is talking about. Not one woman on my Mom's side of the family was/is/never would be like that. In fact, quite a few of my Latina relatives, here in Los Angeles and El Paso, Texas, were/still are part of the LULAC organization which is the League of United Latin American Citizens and specialize in the women group and advances women can make in the world. What an insult to all the women who fought, and many killed, for women to have freedom, voting rights and a voice. 🙄

@SaintShion

20 күн бұрын

I lived in Mexico for 6 years. Im like, girl, what are you smoking? Women run the whole house in Mexico.

@JustTanya.

20 күн бұрын

@@SaintShion LOL yep. Women and La Chancla have the houses on lock. 🩴😱

@britterthecritter4531

20 күн бұрын

Fr, I’m from a salvy family and we literally call mom “La Jefa” (The female boss). Every latino marriage i know, including my parents, has the wife being dominant and running the house 😂 The dad just has the last word. But if she doesn’t agree, then it’s not happening. My latina mother has a rough past from abusive men and has protected me by teaching me the importance of financial independence as a woman; and told me “The worst thing a woman can do is be 100% dependent on a man”

@Blue-pl5tk

20 күн бұрын

@@britterthecritter4531agreed! Latina here and every woman in my family who was a “tradwife” has constantly reinforced the idea that the best thing I can do is get my education and have a career. They know what it’s like to have no other options.

@SaltyMouse10

20 күн бұрын

The same 👱🏻‍♀️ women are the same to throw on hands maid tail cosplays at the slightest inconvenience. They're fine with misogyny and the patriarchy because they're comfortable in it.

There is a difference between being a pick me guy and a man who holds other men accountable. Thank you for being one of the few who dont accept bad behavior and bad mentality. Its crazy to me how many people miss the point and get so offended at the women who dont wanna be traditional. No one cares if a women wants to go the traditional route, its just harder cuz there are many men who are not trustworthy to have the financial power in the relationship without using it to be a dictator of his home. But if you dont wanna be traditional thats when people have to open their mouths and try to tear them down and change their minds. They take non traditional women as a challenge instead of understanding that not everyone wants the same thing. Men arent the only ones that have that want to pursue different things, women want to as well.. ya know.. cuz were people too, and not just objects to control and serve. We dont hate all men, we just want ones that show us mutual respect. I love and respect the men in my life who do.

i just sneezed a legendary double sneeze after spending an entire day being on the verge of a sneeze. life is glorious

@mirrorballinme744

7 күн бұрын

congrats!

@wistfulwriterthingy12

6 күн бұрын

@@mirrorballinme744 tyy

14:14 "I don't have the energy to do anything besides simply exist." Honey, I think that's called depression, not being a woman.

@Ren-jh3xb

20 күн бұрын

Funnily enough she was even onto something with the "taking our hormones into account" thing- because we really are at higher risk of getting depressed and burnt out thanks to society and the work system being based on the energy flow and output of the male 24h hormone cycle, without taking the female 30d hormone cycle into account at all. Feminism aims to change that too eventually, but wbk she's too shortsighted to figure that out ig

@hashtagmate

20 күн бұрын

Now hold up, it could be a myriad of health issues: autoimmune disease, chronic fatigue syndrome, neurological conditions, iron deficiency, vitamin d vitamin b deficiencies; and yes possibly psychiatric disorders. She should go to a fucking dr, urgently 💀

@SaintShion

20 күн бұрын

She was driving me nuts with the protein shake speech after. I was like, "I know she gives laziest bjs." Also, I lived in Mexico for 6 years, Im more "Latina" than her, and I'm Japanese.

@poramentatoes

20 күн бұрын

Also, all sleep studies have been done on men, and only apply it to women as "smaller men". It's only recently that sleep studies have been done on women, and it's been shown that women need MORE SLEEP than men. So women are probably more likely to get burnt out because they're not getting enough sleep which throws EVERYTHING off.

@destinyh3717

20 күн бұрын

​@@SaintShionthis comment made me laugh hahaha

dudeeee it makes me sad how these people think feminism is bad??? feminism supports people putting on makeup for their husband if they want or not having to wear makeup if they want damn

@angelicfrogsss87

20 күн бұрын

yeah like these women don’t understand that feminism is all about CHOICE

@AprilSparks

20 күн бұрын

👏👏👏💯

@sm1purplmurderedme583

20 күн бұрын

if it’s a choice why is everyone angry

@mercyfulfate666

20 күн бұрын

YES EXACLY! They need to live in Afghanistan for a month to understand what life REALLY is without feminism.

@draco1811

20 күн бұрын

I once read that feminism not only set women free, it set men free as well. If staying at home, taking care of the kids, keeping house for you spouse is what you want to do with your life; I support your choice. As long as that choice is open to all parties. If you want to conquer the corporate world or be the best stay at home parent, your gender shouldn't matter.

These women know that they couldn’t have a credit card under their own name until the 1970s, right? Also, their complaint is about capitalism, not feminism.

She horrifies me, as an actual traditional wife. She's gross and pandering to these creep dudes. I am at home with 4 kids and a farm while my husband works super hard to provide for us financially. I manage the finances, he leads the family. It's all very normal and chill. Not fetishized.

The first one really said: "Men like their women without rights🗣!" Without realizing it💀

@lovelyisabelle2028

16 күн бұрын

And her thinking they can find these women in Italy is just laughable

@roxyglow9670

6 күн бұрын

​@@lovelyisabelle2028i m italian . Say it girl!😂😂

I’m the biggest feminist, if a woman wants to be a trad wife, girl go for it!! The issue with that comes when some trad wives hate on other women for not being “traditional” and want to work, and have big goals for themselves. If your goal is to have a big family, be a stay at home mom, etc, go for it! Those are your goals and you should achieve that, but you can’t hate on women who want to be independently successful, who want to build a career, maybe who make more than their male spouses. That goes vice versa as well, you can’t be a “feminist” and then get mad at women who want to be trad wives. The whole point of feminism is for women to be able to do what THEY want.

@NicoleGillianHopkins

20 күн бұрын

Facts!

@astro_funky13

19 күн бұрын

Sing it baby! 🗣️

@DawnKellyMedia

19 күн бұрын

Agree. When I was getting married, I told my female boss at the time (quit that job and opened my own business) I wanted to stay home with our future kids to raise them. She got pissed and went off on me, "You're a wimp. You're weak. You're a pussy," etc etc. She put her newborn baby in daycare as soon as possible. He called his babysitter Mom and called my boss by the babysitter's name. She worked out in the morning and if one of her kids walked in the garage while she was working out, she would scream at them to leave her alone because it was "her" time. She spent two hours a day with her kids on weekdays. And I was a weak pussy for not wanting to work full time when I had kids.

@Astara_star

19 күн бұрын

I agree 💯 👏

@tanushaprakash4335

19 күн бұрын

Beautifully said❤

As an Italian girl, if passport bros come here they will absolutely be catching these hands

Loving how Cooper is so ready to say “my wife”, him and Sophia are just the cutest 💕

Old lady here….our grandmothers and mothers tried to explain to us that women need to be able to take care of themselves financially so as not to be trapped in an abusive relationship or destitute if your husband leaves you or dies. Simple.

@DestineXoXo

19 күн бұрын

My whole family embedded this in my head when I was younger haha

@animangle

18 күн бұрын

yes, in a perfect world if i grow up and get married i would be able to trust my husband 100%. but, i've seen so many women including my mother let down their guard financially once married, their husband doesn't allow them to work, and then they're trapped in an awful relationship they can't afford to leave right away.

@aweshumandy

18 күн бұрын

my dad has both great and not so great qualities, I learned a lot from those that were great qualities and had to unlearn those that weren't. my mother often told me to date around when I was young, not to get to caught up the idea of marriage and kids with my first love. it was very telling when you really think about the underlying reasons as to why she felt that way and I'm a male. she was telling me things she wish she knew at a young age. I learned a lot from her as well.

@MissHellybaybee

18 күн бұрын

Exactly

PETITION FOR COOPER TO GO GHOST HUNTING WITH SAM AND COLBY ✨✨:

@Wooble_Deathnote

20 күн бұрын

Yess!!

@Kammiru

20 күн бұрын

That would DEFINITELY be a sight to see

@Hunterofartemischildofhades

20 күн бұрын

SIGNED

@Aryat51

20 күн бұрын

YES OMG

@Noa_days

20 күн бұрын

YESS THAT WOULD BE SO COOL

“ did you do this make up for your husband….or the tik tok?” HIT SO HARD 15:15

I'm a SAHW (about to be mom!) and I am 100% still a feminist. My husband appreciates and understands the value I add to our family and his own life. I even have my own retirement plan that my "husbands" paycheck helps support. Its sad that these women think that if they WANT to be a SAHW/M they must give up their own rights in order to "earn" their way of life- like their husband is doing THEM a favor. Girl, you are also doing HIM a favor

@user-yg8tq6cd1m

Күн бұрын

Yay! Yes, there are Roth IRA accounts & others that he can have established in your name and part of his income will go into that account and it's just for you. It's a very good protection. Also, if he owns his own business, you can start paying your children about $12,500 a year into an account and so they could have about a million dollars by the time they're 35.

The Tradwife to single mom MLM pipeline is real.

@NicoleGillianHopkins

20 күн бұрын

So true!!

@bananashaman8902

20 күн бұрын

wanna bet on what happens when one of these tiktok "Tradwives" get divorced and left with nothing? I bet 10 [KROMER] that they blame it on themselves and try again.

@BlasianLynn

19 күн бұрын

Please 😅😅😅 im a tradwife. I think about that all the time. Like at any minute i could be on the streets. Dont ever give up your power ladies. If you do become a tradwife make sure your husband gives you half his check

@Annimations

19 күн бұрын

@@BlasianLynntargets return policy is a game changer ;)

@zombieedrea

19 күн бұрын

@@BlasianLynn Secure your bag, queen!!

As a woman from Ukraine (where the war is) it is so painful to watch. There is a particular type of Americans that come here “to help” but what they really do is prey on vulnerable women who lost their homes and who are the “submissive” type because they are Slavic

@pm0899

16 күн бұрын

First of all, I am truly sorry to hear that. But also, the concept of "Slavic" + "submissive" is too funny to me, because gosh Slavic women are so freaking strong and independent 😂 Sometimes more than in more Western European countries. (Source: Half Polish) So I really don't know where that notion that those men have comes from. Wishing you strength and health! ♡

@sp4get

16 күн бұрын

Hello, Im Russian and I just hope that this war ends, Russians are not against Ukraine, Putin is. I pray you and your family are blessed and stay safe

@carlycrays2831

15 күн бұрын

We saw this a lot on Reddit. Guys would go onto the news subs and ask how they could "help" the women fleeing Ukraine. And some of them would post about how "annoying" it was that the local Catholic charities in their area weren't just letting the incoming Ukrainians stay with them

@roxyglow9670

14 күн бұрын

reject them fr !!

@jlawsl

13 күн бұрын

Cute story, but it isn't the type of "American" as reported by the UN- "The UN refugee agency has called on the UK government to intervene to stop single British men from being matched up with lone Ukrainian women seeking refuge from war because of fears of sexual exploitation. Following claims that predatory men are using the Homes for Ukraine scheme to target the vulnerable, the United Nations high commissioner for refugees (UNHCR) told the Guardian “a more appropriate matching process” could be put in place to ensure women and women with children are matched with families or couples." (The Guardian- 2 years ago). So, nobody goes over there, they USED to go onto a Facebook group in order to be predatory toward women in Ukraine. The matching would sometimes pair the single men, many British and other Europeans, with Ukrainian women. The fact that you didn't know that this is predominantly happening in Europe, by European men and traffickers, then blaming it on Americans is pretty toxic and an outright lie.

My mom was a trad wife, my dad was abusive and creepy towards her and me. He used to give her $1 just to go to the nearest city by bus and go back (we were living on countryside), when she asked for money for shopping. She had to steal from him, to buy clothes for us, he would make us get clothes from rubbish. Not to mention SA on our mom, and on me. I'm glad I survived.

@hollyroseXOX

8 сағат бұрын

😢

If a man deserves a partner that ‘submits’ to him, then he should be a leader. I’m a feminist, very loud and proud and solid in my beliefs. My boyfriend, supports that and also listens to me when i educate him. On top of that, ig you could say i ‘submit’ to him, because i trust him to still treat me as an equal and not lead me down a damn cliff 😂 i appreciate him and he appreciates me and i swear this is the best relationship I’ve ever been in 🤭🥺

I am a feminist woman, been in a relationship for 12 years with a ✨️feminist man✨️ It's not that hard to respect your partner as an equal, we enjoy and respect each other. Gender roles are a non-issue in a healthy relationship 🫡

@dodi-wankenobi

19 күн бұрын

THIS! Gender roles should be a non issue peeeeeriod 👏

@TheRandompaint

19 күн бұрын

Everyone's a feminist but no one can tell me what a woman is

@Dgbattta

18 күн бұрын

@TheRandompaint A female human 🧐

@steisishain7888

18 күн бұрын

Everyones a feminist until there is a spider around ✨✨✨

@sallymeli7723

18 күн бұрын

​@@steisishain7888is that all your argument? How does wanting to be treated with respect and having your capabilities acknowledged equate having no fear or weackness at all. Are aware men also have fears and weaknesses? Tho most prefer to bluff it out just to prove a point that fear and weakness is just a 'femelle thing'😂 I havr seen men shedding a tear because of a needle's pin. That doesn't make them less of a man or cause me to lose respect for them.

The bottom line is that women should have the right to choose what to do. And if being a tradwife is something a woman wants to do, she should be able. But if a woman wants to "boss babe" and be a career woman, or live a transient lifestyle, or anything else, she should be able to do that to. What's wrong is people who judge others solely on how they choose to live.

@pastelcatnip

20 күн бұрын

Yoooo Caitlin! Love your videos

@lpsvideot2427

20 күн бұрын

Thank you for saying this!!! Thay is literally the point of feminism

@jessicalukram74

20 күн бұрын

Exactly

@Arcadian-Nova

20 күн бұрын

i literally had this convo with another girl who said she hated feminism bc she wanted to be an housewife later in life. like girl, the option to have that choice at all is feminist. we want you to be ABLE to make that choice.

@user-xr7ci8tf3e

20 күн бұрын

This is actually choice feminism, which is a type of feminism.

AS A LATINA, hell no. She making us look bad 💀

As a Mexican with a traditional Mexican mother, she always made it a point to teach me to have my own money and not ever be financially dependent on a man or anyone. I can see why now; i will be damned if I can’t ever just leave when I need to.

"The oldest lifestyle in the world" would probably actually be the hunting-gathering lifestyle. Fun fact about hunter-gatherer societies: we've been finding out that in most of them, women actually went out and hunted about as much as men did. Women and men haven't always been stuck in such strict gender roles as she promotes.

@AndromedasLight17

20 күн бұрын

Absolutely. I have a friend who hunts, gathers, uses all parts of the animal. She uses the hide, cleans the bones, etc. Truly one of the most bad-ass women I've met & oops...she's a feminist

@rengenevv

19 күн бұрын

@@AndromedasLight17 she sounds so cool

@liaspring7

16 күн бұрын

This is probably not an extremely viable source but I own a book where it is stated how for example in ancient hunter-gatherer societies in the Philippines even pregnant woman participated in hunts with bows and arrows and if that isn't badass I don't know what is

@dollytanwar4918

15 күн бұрын

Things for women began to go downhill when men discovered farming and since then nothing good ever happened to us women

@kristinatodorovic2398

3 күн бұрын

@@liaspring7 right!!! and again, both the male and female do their part in the relationship. Being a single female, I get both sides of the spectrum from people. I always say to them, I just want my equal/balance,; a person that contributes as much as I do, and at times when one of us is not at our best the other picks up (I think it's also known as the 80/20 rule)

My husband is a stay at home dad and he changed his last name to mine. The modern woman is not the problem, it is the perpetuity of unhealthy relationship dynamics and the putting down of people who don't conform to antiquated standards.

@KhadidjaKhadouj-ur4ke

20 күн бұрын

Where are you from

@PeacefulSushi-jo4fo

19 күн бұрын

That sounds very unattractive hahaha sorry not sorry. As a woman I am hard wired to only be attracted to men who leave the house to work hard 😅

@purplehippo9540

19 күн бұрын

@@KhadidjaKhadouj-ur4keWhat the hell does that matter have young never heard of INTERNET SAFETY

I have never found a youtuber that I truly enjoyed listening to, this would be a first for me. His points are always valid and logical and are never presented in a biased manner. It's awsome.

genuinely i just wanna marry you man. i found ur channel through matt and abby vid and honestly I'VE NEVER SEEN A GUY AS FUNNY, KIND AND LOGICAL AS YOU. MARRY ME.

I genuinly can't understand these pick-me's, why are you so against having a choice? Cause that's what it's about. Wanna be a stay at home wife? You can choose that! Wanna work? You can choose that! It's not that difficult

@chameleon25

20 күн бұрын

Seriously! Well said.

@sm1purplmurderedme583

20 күн бұрын

it’s probably bc feminists are saying women shouldn’t strive for these bc it’s oppressive. bc it can br

@ObscureTimez

20 күн бұрын

Seriously…!

@moodymargaret1995

20 күн бұрын

funny thing is trad wife influencers have picked both of those and STILL turn around and bite the hand that feeds them

@ms.x1669

20 күн бұрын

No, their whole mentality is: " if I participate in dragging other women down, I will be exempt from their mistreatment."

Never understood the appeal of tradwivery tbh. Like why would you willingly choose to be your boyfriend/husband's second mother and be okay with that?

@SQUID0NKEY

20 күн бұрын

Yes and from the other perspective: Why the f would I want to be with someone that has no ambition themslefs and whoe does not challenge what I want or do. Equality in a relationship is basically the best thing ever. And knowing that someone is there with you because they WANT to and not because they HAVE to, is the greatest feeling EVER!

@Ren-jh3xb

20 күн бұрын

Literally like you can be a modern housewife just fine. Barely anyone is against that. But these women are just SO desperate for male validation they renounce feminism too and put their own asses at risk by doing that. All for validation. It's sad as hell

@ANME1rocker

20 күн бұрын

​@@SQUID0NKEYthey're not looking for an equal. They're looking for a bangmaid.

@lmcneillify

20 күн бұрын

Why do you care enough to try to dictate what another woman does in her home? I thought women were free to choose what they wanted to do. If she wants to be traditional, that's her business not yours

@Aroundtheuniverse-

20 күн бұрын

I wholeheartedly believe that people should do whatever they want with their lives and their marriage, but for me personally I have a really deep desire to take care of my future husband in any way I can. I do want to have a job until kids and after they’re older but I’ve always found it nice as long as I’m not treated like shiT in the process

my mother is a trad wife and my parents have been separated for years bc my mom can’t afford to divorce him bc there isn’t that essential equal footing

bro you just made me rethink my life choices now im living much happier and much more caring for my mom, thank you.

The worst part about this is the only kind of men who would be interested in this are those who would absolutely abuse their power in the relationship. This woman has to seriously be careful because she is attracting potential abusive men and she could put herself in danger of an abusive relationship.

@oskittybangtan1517

19 күн бұрын

Agreed! I went to Thailand actually for a trip to see my long-distance fiancé last year, and the number of old men I saw with young Thai women was INSANE. IT was terrifying actually. The way they are expected to act all loving and sweet and the man yells at them and abuses them is terrible. These types of men just want a woman who won't stand up to his abuse. My fiancé noticed it too and was really weirded out. He even told me that is the only reason why men come to Thailand.

@maggielandrey7232

18 күн бұрын

​@oskittybangtan1517 Ewwww!!! A thousand times ewwww!!!🤮🤮🤮 Those poor women.

@marzipanmango

18 күн бұрын

​@@oskittybangtan1517 Oof, that's so gross. I've heard pedos go there too to find young girls 🤢🤮

@treesoul00

18 күн бұрын

Some go for the car culture 🤷🏼‍♀️ I think it’s fine as long as they’re getting paid. And it is another country lol so who knows what can happen if they are too much of an *ss don’t p*ss off truly trad women. They know herbs.

@ghoot

18 күн бұрын

at this point the only explanation is that they actually want and like this. these women have access to the internet, to information, to feminism, and they insist that their opinions are right and functional. so I don't think they care.

11:30 "Wi-fiancee-girl-fiancee" is so cute 😭

@tamiausten873

20 күн бұрын

Like ❤ I almost crying here. Especially since this week I'm Nigeria, we've been bombarded with celebrity weddings, especially Davido's wedding. Being single is so hard this time of the year. Love is on the air❤❤

@fairygrl999

20 күн бұрын

@@tamiausten873right 😢❤❤ i hope to find a man that treats me right like cooper seems to treat his fiancée :)

@Micasaidwhat

12 күн бұрын

fr i love watching cooper and seeing how happy he is w his girl

My mom is a teacher just like my dad. And my dad was the only person who supported her and helped her built her career after marriage when his family opposed the idea. My dad is the only reason I think arrange marriages can be good.

My girlfriend (as a Latina) does not like when her husband tells her what to do (because we are lesbians) and my girlfriend (as a Latina) does not like to be bossed around (as a Latina)

@kitty9374

14 күн бұрын

What

@TheSkilledGamePlayer

13 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂huh

HIM TALKING ABT SOPHIA REPEATEDLY IS ADORABLE...😭😭😭😭

Something I never understand about this kind of women is that they say they don’t like feminists even tho feminists literally gave them the right to express their opinion

My husband and I have "traditional" roles but that doesn't equate to playing baby or mommy 😂 We both work very hard to keep our multi-generational household running.

The woman at 21:00 cant stop looking at herself in the mirror lol

Her equating stay at home mom with trad wife is SO wrong. My mom stayed at home to raise us, but she also ran the finances and lead the household decisions, and wasn’t a passive and submissive member in the family.

@ursa8400

14 күн бұрын

Exactly, these people cannot understand a balance of ideals. Everything is black and white, either one form of extremity or the other.

@Curlysmurph

10 күн бұрын

My mum and dad married in 1960. My mum and dad shared the financial decisions and my mum gave my dad an allowance every pay day; despite him being the one with the ‘job’. Was that way until he died. He was happy if he had enough in his wallet for a beer and some chewing gum.

@marinegd7834

6 күн бұрын

This is so true ! Trad wives are performing/cosplaying as SAHM.

@kristinatodorovic2398

3 күн бұрын

right, my cousin is a stay at home mom, and she's amazing, granted thankfully her husband also does his part too and it's not one sided; she does the regular stuff but she also homeschools their children (she has a teaching degree) and takes them to fun interactive things and is an awesome fun mom and wife.

@Cherrypi393

3 күн бұрын

My mom always ran the finances because my dad was bad with money. Even during the 8 years she was a stay at home mom when I was young. And yeah, she wasn’t the submissive type.

0:12 “people said it about nara smith” bruh that was you 😭😭😭

@wartygourd

20 күн бұрын

and others

@FilmCooper

20 күн бұрын

“A lot of people are saying” - a man who JUST said it

@Q1x.exe.

20 күн бұрын

@@FilmCooperlmao

@olievu

20 күн бұрын

@@FilmCooper coop out for blood we love it

My husband supports whatever makes me happy, work or not. He was so proud of me when I was thriving bartending before COVID (he's a very successful computer scientist). I'm in between jobs and can't go back to bartending due to health reasons. He has told me to take my time and find something that would make me happy but only if I want to. Support whatever makes another person's relationship work without judgement. I was judged when I was bartending and I'm judged now for not working lol

Your parents did a wonderful job. I don't even know you and I'm proud of you and your emotional intelligence. Keep it up!

I SCREAMED WHEN SHE SAID LATINA As a Mexican, my man won’t ever even dare to tell me what to do 😂

@kateemma22

16 күн бұрын

You, your mom, your aunts, all your sisters, your grandmothers, and every woman in a five mile radius would come down on him SO HARD lol

@VanessaLoveCounselor

8 күн бұрын

Yeah, I've heard that Mexican women are "firey" and definitely not submissive.

@Wcuelover-z7j

7 күн бұрын

Ikr my mom is Costa Rican and is an immigrant, my dad would NEVER disrespect or yell at her. I love my mom, she’s so powerful and is honestly my idol

My parents had a traditional marriage, my father worked full-time, and my mother took care of the kids. My father was a marriage and family counselor for 30 years. He worked for the court system. He strongly encouraged all of his daughters to get their college education because, he saw what happened to traditional women when their husband left them and they slipped under the poverty level and both them and their children really begin to suffer. Because back in the day, the courts didn’t enforce alimony and or child support. He saw it so often he definitely didn’t want it to happen to his daughters if anything should happen to their marriages. My sisters and I all got our masters a good 40 years ago. My dab was right. It was a very good decision.

@younev3rkn0w

17 күн бұрын

your dad is amazing father, i think every child deserves one like that tbh.

@soho6435

16 күн бұрын

yes!! People need to realize this more

Cry laughing 😂 your so funny and raw love it - the girl who said allow and your impersonation on her is hilarious to me lol

As a European, I always cringe when Americans talk about non-American women. The ignorance is LOUD.

As woman construction worker that always cooks because I like to and loves makeup and has a broad collection of it, it’s just annoying how these anti feminist ppl have to lie to be “right.” I literally love all 3 things and don’t look down on women that cook/ clean/ like to look good because not everyone that’s a feminist goes around wearing a potato sack and not owning mirrors, eating tv dinners, it’s just so made up.

@terra__incognita

20 күн бұрын

Right? I'm a feminist and I love cooking and baking, playing around with makeup, and thrifting for vintage clothes. I also love screaming during baseball games, organizing my comic book collection, and rewatching my favorite terrible horror movies. People are capable of being more than one attribute at a time. I coo over babies and prefer being alone 99% of the time. I think women should have the final say over their own bodies and still think flowers are pretty. Let women be multifaceted already, society!

@neliasparty

20 күн бұрын

you sound so cool you go girl💕

@britterthecritter4531

20 күн бұрын

Fr! I have a degree and a decent paying full time job in a career I love. I also love to cook and do my makeup. I don’t always love cleaning (who does tbh) but I still do it consistently. Regardless of those things, I still consider myself very feminine. These “tradwives” act like having a job = ur a man now

@purplelove3666

20 күн бұрын

Shannon,listen,cooking and cleaning is not a character trait in women,it's basic life skills,it's not a choice,it is if you have money,but if you want to eat and be clean then you are going to have to do that, including men

@randomlyswatching9481

20 күн бұрын

I think she was making that point😮​@@purplelove3666

She wouldn’t be able to say any of this without feminism

that 12:49 ‘latina’ post made me question humanity. HOW CAN YOU POST THAT UNIRONICALLY??? AHHH 💀💀💀

You couldn’t be more correct. Your fiancé is a lucky woman.

I’m Asian, I hope they know most foreigns are very family oriented but also the relationship can be very transactional most of the time. You will not just be taking care of her, but also her family.

@gaslightgamergf2.0

19 күн бұрын

as an African, i agree

How do people not understand that feminism is all about choice??? It really baffles me. Like its been made clear plenty of times, but they just dont get it?

@user-xr7ci8tf3e

20 күн бұрын

…feminism is not about choice. There is a type of feminism about choice (“choice feminism”), but feminism is about women’s liberation. Choice feminism is a type of liberal feminism.

@tokki5585

20 күн бұрын

​@@user-xr7ci8tf3e100%

@jellosquid8096

20 күн бұрын

@@user-xr7ci8tf3efeminism is for liberation..aka the right to choose what you want to do.. so ‘choice’

@onefourthhuman

20 күн бұрын

The same way pro-lifers think that pro-choice = pro-abortion. Closed mindedness and no brain cells. Lol

@eo0-g9j

20 күн бұрын

Feminism is the reason why men aren’t allowed to marry kids. Imagine being against that

UR HAIR IS GROWING BACK YAYY it actually looks so good like that

3:32 my jaw dropped once he said blue hair and watch the boys as someone WHO HAS BLUE HAIR AND WATCHES THE BOYS ON YT SOME TIMES 😭😨

@hollyroseXOX

8 сағат бұрын

🎉😂

I am a housewife, following in the footsteps of my mother, who stayed home to raise my sister and I. I love cooking and cleaning and supporting my husband, it is a genuine passion of mine. So it should go without saying that I understand and greatly respect this occupation. And that also means I know better than anyone that a lot of stars need to align for it to work; these trad influencers never so much as acknowledge any of the things that could go wrong, in fact many of them explicitly say to not have any backup plan, not go to college, get married and start having children as young as possible, which puts women in extremely vulnerable situations, vulnerable to abuse, vulnerable to divorce that will leave them and their children greatly economically disadvantaged, etc. And a lot of the types of men who are attracted to a dynamic like this are very often not the kind of people I would trust to not have such a situation arise. Take it from a feminist housewife, if you want to be one, more power to you. Heck you can totally do the whole 1950s period accurate LARPing if you're into it, I don't care what you do with your life and I don't think the majority of feminists do either. But trying to sell it to others without encouraging any safety measures is irresponsible at best. Compound that with the fact that a lot of these trad people overlap with far right fundamentalism and Christian nationalism, and support the politicians who overturned Roe and want to do even worse things to women's rights, and you have a big ol' cocktail of awfulness. As a homemaker I feel no kinship with these people.

@cookiedoe6068

19 күн бұрын

Well said

@LuxeMindsetVibes

19 күн бұрын

Very well said, cheers 💕

@kai0tfoool

19 күн бұрын

Just say you have no hobbies or dreams other than being a mans broodmares and bang maid.

@oskittybangtan1517

19 күн бұрын

Omg this reminds me of a girl I knew who hadn't even graduated high school and there was an older guy who was 30 that she was dating. He basically was pushing her into a marriage. She wanted to go to art school and he kept tell her only after they marry she can. She got married to this guy. It felt very hurried and controlling to me. I know women too that had gotten married after only a few months of knowing a guy and got a child right away. Its kinda giving me abuse vibes and their marriage will not exactly be happy if that is their end goal with no thought process of concerns about how hurried and rushed they were pushed into the marriage.

@melanie_meanders

18 күн бұрын

yes!!! to all of this. you sound like you’d be a great friend. it’s hard to find homestead vibe people that aren’t far right 😭

"did we ever think about our energy and how we're sleepy all the time" girl you sound anemic

@DireBeastRexYT

13 күн бұрын

given she seems to only be getting her protein from her man's 'special juice' and how worryingly skinny she is she might well be-

😂 I am dying at the pick-me guy part. So amusing.

What I don't get is, you never see an "alpha male" with a "trade wife." Or at least I don't. What's up with that? Wouldn't a big "macho man" love a woman who already belittles herself?

@shannonclarke656

20 күн бұрын

No, they want to break an independant woman. They want to force women into submission- it's power. If a woman is willingly submitting without first having her spirit broken its not fun for them. The challenge is what appeals to them. They enjoy breaking us.

@Melissa-sx9vh

20 күн бұрын

These men don't want already submissive wives, they want independent women they can break and mold into the specific brand of tradwive they prefer. That's why Tate and the other alpha bros are always surrounded by "promiscuous" looking women, to use them and degrade them in front of their audience, they don't consider them as people, they are objects to signify their status but they also don't want to date Pearl or any tradwife who tries to appeal to them because there is no challenge to prove their "male strength"

@anjiwhatever5644

20 күн бұрын

No. They prefer to pick women with any self worth and then break them down using their insecurities...

@northstar2621

20 күн бұрын

​@@anjiwhatever5644 Breaking people down makes them feel like conquerors

@hashtagmate

20 күн бұрын

Nope they want an exotic bird to cage against its will. What good is a boring colorless bird that goes into the cage willingly? Then he wouldn't have "conquered" her 🤢🤢🤢

UNDER A HOUR GANG❗️❗️❗️❗️ 🤫🧏‍♂️

@Blackflower-siggy

20 күн бұрын

Here!!

@Madi4ever358

20 күн бұрын

Yessir

@Lunniah

20 күн бұрын

here!

@Grace-yh1mf

20 күн бұрын

YEAAHHHH

@panic39

20 күн бұрын

YUHH‼️

If you are a trad wife, you don’t TELL anybody you’re a trad wife, you just simply are one💀

11:54 This is the funniest shit to me because it reads like a child who's mad about his friend hogging the ball and not respecting the pretend scenario he came up with. Dude saw his wife nail some SICK free throws while she was tossing dirty laundry in the hamper and had flashbacks.

I learned that lesson in my early twenties because of my teenage bride Christian marriage. When the man wants the woman to take over all of his basic life support tasks at the cost of her ability to have her own interests and hobbies, it’s only a matter of time before she figures out that her life is dramatically easier without him. Then the men have to go to greater lengths to find someone to con into filling that role for 5 years or so, until she knows better. And eventually, they’re just an unattractive man in his 40s-50s who can’t clean up after himself or do his own laundry, still trying to find a young girl inexperienced enough for him to bully into caretaking for him.

@thethe4665

20 күн бұрын

My life

@thethe4665

20 күн бұрын

I hope you’re okay

@shamedgeeky

20 күн бұрын

@@thethe4665 I’m in a much better place now!

@Hello-hello-hello456

19 күн бұрын

They want mommy

@flzrin

19 күн бұрын

what “Christian” marriage? what you had was not a Christian marriage lmao. I’d suggest you read the bible on marriage.

Cooper looks like he smells like either: 1. Vanilla 2. Lavender 3. Orange 4. Coconut (This is a compliment)

@impulseclown

20 күн бұрын

i think he smells like orange, he gives me citrus vibes

@Ed_she_ran

20 күн бұрын

orange blossom hand sanitizer (with hints of vanilla) from bath and body works is what I think

@boyfailure69

20 күн бұрын

coconut and orange DEFINITELY

@boyfailure69

20 күн бұрын

@@Ed_she_ran OMG YES

@KDiamond666

20 күн бұрын

Vanilla or coconut ❤😂

Spot on analysis. Whip smart delivery ✨

I love your content! I checked out some of your other vids and I'd *love* to see you do more "The Button" episodes,they're so funny!!!

Something that drives me crazy about this whole movement is that women like this are completely blind to the reality of most people in the world. I am sure there are a lot of parents who would love to stay at home and raise kids, keep their homes orderly, and cook meals for their families. The issue is not feminism, but the fact that many can't afford to. It is rarer these days for a household to survive on one income comfortably, so most families have both parents working to make ends meet. It literally is a privilege now.

@piperchristeson3394

19 күн бұрын

Yeah the issue is capitalism not feminism!

@louhortonsculpture

18 күн бұрын

It wasn’t feasible for most people, even many white people back then either. Poor women always had to work.

Theres nothing wrong with wanting a traditional marriage, BUT. She seems to be basically putting the blame on American women saying theyre not "traditional" like its a bad thing? No! Its fine if people aren't traditional and are independent! Why cant people just understand that?!?!

@Idontknow-br6me

20 күн бұрын

Fr , also there are a lot of of non Americans women who don't follow the traditional wife thingy. Plus some women are stay at home mom/wife and aren't the traditional beliefs of what a women should be . It's so stupid

@hashtagmate

20 күн бұрын

Right? Like How is my feminism stopping HER from being married and cooking 😂

@n0tchqn_.

20 күн бұрын

@@Idontknow-br6me exactly, someone can be traditional aswell but still be independent too ykk

@n0tchqn_.

20 күн бұрын

@@hashtagmate EXACTLY LMAO, besides feminism isnt abt not wanting women to be house wives, its about equality and having a choice to be one or not!!

As a Latina, my entire family has so many girlbosses if that makes any sense, when my grandma got fed up with my grandpa she left him and became a mariachi singer to diss him, Latina woman are strong so if people ever say they’re submissive, they're wrong, also race doesn’t mean anything, stereotypes exist but people are people, everyone has their personality, you can be submissive, you can be dominant or anything, as long as you give yourself respect and respect your partner, you deserve to love and love deserves to be spread, but never let people walk over you and be kind♡ idk what this was supposed to achieve but have a nice day and stay hydrated:)

@user-zw6lw7qh1o

6 күн бұрын

My son’s fiancé is from Mexico and she is very strong and independent.

These people drive me insane. I WANT to be a stay at home mom- like Cooper’s mom, I have degrees that involve child development and education. I WANT to stay home to give them what I think is the best chance. HOWEVER, there is no way in hell I’m doing it with some misogynistic man who doesn’t see the value and work SAHM moms have. Equal partners or I’m not doing it

there’s a reason we have tried for centuries to try and grow feminism and help women do things like get jobs. it’s because women’s lives back then were not good. if life back then (when practically every single woman was a trad wife) was as good for women as it was for men, then women would never have fought to change things.

@bananashaman8902

20 күн бұрын

PREACH!

@randomlyswatching9481

20 күн бұрын

In some countries like my native country it still is 😢

@no.8952

19 күн бұрын

As a traditional person, i think it DOES work. However, like you said, we deserve the RIGHT to do otherwise because not every situation is the same and not every person wants the same thing.

@lany1534

19 күн бұрын

@@randomlyswatching9481 i’m also in a 3rd world and traditional country lol

@lany1534

19 күн бұрын

@@no.8952 exactly!