The Myth Of Normal & The Trauma We Acquire | Gabor Maté | The Art of Charm
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In today’s episode, we cover the myth of normal with Gabor Mate. Gabor is a renowned physician and author who has dedicated his life to exploring the themes of health, normality, and mental health. With a background in medicine, Gabor challenges existing norms and values, advocating for a world in which our practices reflect the true needs of individuals and society. He has written a number of books, including his best-selling work The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture, in which he questions traditional ideas of what is normal and challenges readers to think critically about our assumptions.
Modern society is rewarding us for unhealthy behavior and punishing us for healthy behavior, but how did this come to be, how is it affecting you and everyone you care about, and what steps can you take to protect yourself and your loved ones?
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Gabor is very easy to listen to, no strain in his voice whatsoever, no ego no need for validation, so refreshing.
@ArtofCharmTV
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for listening, what was your favorite takeaway?
Mark Wolynn has written about trauma in his book IT DIDN'T START WITH YOU...he says that the child is born with epigenetic imprints from many generations of trauma. Gabor made reference to it in The Myth, btw. I highly recommend Mark's book.I'm reading it again and think i like it better than The Myth of Normal bc it gives you practical suggestions.
So very interesting! Thanks for putting this together!
Hello Gabor! I just got your new book!! I also just finished, "When the Body Says No."
@ArtofCharmTV
Жыл бұрын
Amazing!
Lovely interview Thank you
Thank you for this interview and conversation. I love Gabor's teaching's and how he shares his findings of the truth.
@ArtofCharmTV
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching! Any favorite takeaways?
@perfectauthenticme3443
Жыл бұрын
@@ArtofCharmTV how he's less of an idiot at 79 than he was at 78 (or something along those lines), ha ha. Joking aside, many beautiful things, such as the 5 R's. I know other versions, but it's good to be reminded, and how we work so hard to fix (ourselves) to compensate for believing we're not enough.
Love this episode ❤ so many insights
@ArtofCharmTV
Жыл бұрын
It was a fun conversation, gentle soul.
wonderful conversation, it's obvious you really care
"I'm only human", is a platitude. Each of us represents a unique point on the spectrum between Nazarene and Nazis. The question is: where on the spectrum are we? And, I don't think there is anyone occupying the real estate in Noman's land; no one sits on the fence between left and right. Stay safe and be well. Love from Edmonton. ♥
@ArtofCharmTV
Жыл бұрын
Interesting take. Thanks for watching!
Great interview! Thank you for such valuable insights. It made me stop many times and let the words sink in. A lot of reflections.
@ArtofCharmTV
3 ай бұрын
Thank you, Your favorite takeaway?
Thank you Dr Mate . Can you share with me any leads on videos focus on healing from institutional child abuse in primary & secondary education?
Loved this interview, new nuggets with every episode 🥰♥️🥰 Thank you!!
@ArtofCharmTV
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! What was your favorite takeaway?
@evaarnold5838
Жыл бұрын
@@ArtofCharmTV the belief and loop of thinking we are not good enough. Pinpointed a moment of clarity!!!
@ArtofCharmTV
Жыл бұрын
Wonderful to hear!
Szia nagyon jol interview. Magyarorsazagon is sok mental betesseg van. Alcohol Suicide. Minden van. Joszka Budapest Hungary
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is this your own real time interview with Gabor?
@ArtofCharmTV
Жыл бұрын
Yes, it’s a great interview.
@watereddown1s
Жыл бұрын
@@ArtofCharmTV I agree! He's a wonderful man. Thank you for replying. Best~
Sorry but gotta call BS on this "not being picked up while crying" and alot of other bubble boy philosophies this guy preaches. Trauma is NECESSARY for growth in every aspect of life. Just like tearing muscle tissue for muscle growth. Just like putting your hand in the fire and getting burned to understand that getting burned hurts. Just like getting slapped for grabbing a girls ass when youre a kid and dont know any better. Or getting slapped when you cuss as a kid and dont know any better. This guy is literally a walking contradiction. His "traumatic childhood" is the reason for his success today. Hes just too slow to see it.