“You’re not there to make someone feel better, but to make them better at feeling.” Boom 🙌🏻

@mariobragaiii4763

4 жыл бұрын

That is a great way to put it !

@jarijansma2207

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad of this western-eastern cocktail that is brewing within our collective hearts and minds. Everywhere I look I see interesting synthesizing of all levels of truth, kick-started by the katalysator of technology.. I have faith

@saskiazieltjens

3 жыл бұрын

Well said..! And so true..!

I love to listen to Gabor and his honesty and ability to just be real. Many in our society have lost this.

@michaelboyd8933

4 ай бұрын

The more real we allow ourselves to be the more real people we happen to meet.

@tesskennedy4959

2 ай бұрын

That’s often true. Being real enables being real

This is brilliant!!! First time hearing about this. Love Dr Mate!!!!

Dr. Mate's voice is also relaxing! He is amazing!! Thank you 🙏

I listen to Dr. Matė, it's like someone turning up the dimmer switch. TY.

A brilliant compassionate man. Thank God I came across his work

@Anna-us8og

3 жыл бұрын

Ditto~

I’m glad I discovered dr mate’ on you tube he is a great person and doctor

you are there to help someone see the truth of self, and that migt come w pain but you have to pace yourself by listening to cues of patient.... he's great and hope his personal life is in peace after figuring out his own workacholism etc

19:51 “Fierce compassion means that you’re not afraid of the pain that comes up….” 25:09 “There’s a reason for everything…” Being able to compassionately reconnect with my childhood pain has helped me immensely to understand myself and to love my inner child, one who always felt abandoned and put down. I am finally letting go…. Thanks, Dr Maté!

@jameswarrren2545

3 ай бұрын

Good for you. Don't stop loving that sweet little kid!

He is just so lovely 🫶

24:07 Compassionate listening vs. compassionate inquiry. 25:30 How to respond to "the tragic communication of a need" : see the need underneath the words and the behavior, see them more clearly than they see themselves. [Next edit: .25 GAB-or]

I'm so glad of this western-eastern cocktail that is brewing within our collective hearts and minds. Everywhere I look I see interesting synthesizing of all levels of truth, kick-started by the katalysator of technology.. I have faith

@aceslizeski1882

3 жыл бұрын

Well said. I've been feeling something similar.

An incredible man. But with such pain in his eyes.

@fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138

5 жыл бұрын

life experience. our society is truly savage (gain wealth forget all but self) and inflicts misery on millions of people

@lorenzovillegas2457

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah… it takes one to know one… so to speak.🙏🏾

@Jyeah89

2 жыл бұрын

his dad was in a concentration camp and his grandparents were killed by nazism.

@jameswarrren2545

3 ай бұрын

The "Wounded Healer." Look it up!

@tesskennedy4959

2 ай бұрын

Unfortunately and sadly

Lovely Gabor.

I love listening to him. His accent is so soothing!

You are the Best of The Best 👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️, thank you soooo much for your help and your wonderful work !!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏

Love this guy. Clearly he’s on the beam

I Love The Host 💚 & A Student of Dr Gabor .. Such Generous Ray of Genuine Compassion Educating Us In A Very Powerful Beneficial to Me.. Also The Blend of Intellectual & Spiritual Human Nature Observations... I Love It. It's Beneficial for Any Age With Different Ethnic Background. Seeking Growth.. Thanks ☀️

"Not to feel better, but make better with feeling"

Yay!

Thanks for the upload, good interview.

I saw the jump cut near 'what revolves around what?' 😊

hey! love to know all the facts... why was the video edited at 11:52? does the lady believe the sun revolved around the earth? that's alright ;)

What does it mean being held emotionally? Being connected through feelings right?

Volume!!

Anyone know what it means to "Mirror back to someone their true self" like was mentioned in the video? Please respond with a Mate' quote or video so I can learn more about that. I found that interesting and wanted to follow up on that.

@denise2169

2 жыл бұрын

16:30 “Compassion simply means the willingness to accept someone for exactly as they are.” And I would add that this includes compassion for ourselves and what we have been living. Such warmth and understanding in a world that sometimes seems so devoid of these.

@lorenzovillegas2457

2 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/f41-07lpYJWYYM4.html

16:20