The Messy Inbetween Podcast - Episode 6 - Unspoken rules of situationships

Episode 6!!!
Situationships!!
TThe gherro we all know!!!! He is not your man but you are in it like he is. You are not just friends but you're not in a relationship! Why do we even do this to ourselves?!!! We discussed the unspoken rules of this entanglements just in case you're thinking about getting into one or you are in one. Hopefully these save one of two babes from entering the RED ZONE aka catching feelings and wanting more when he doesn't! Let us know some other unspoken rules. Let's chat in the comments below and don’t forget to subscribe!
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  • @wanguigrace2957
    @wanguigrace29573 жыл бұрын

    Guys, use me as a button advocating for longer videos😭😭😭😭 because i meeeeannn.... This is so good💞💞💞

  • @rhodahmwende9741
    @rhodahmwende97413 жыл бұрын

    Who else feels like Murugi and Lydia are the big sisters we never have ? I mean we totally relate to these episodes.

  • @karennyongesa7006

    @karennyongesa7006

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very true 💯

  • @gathonimaina1332
    @gathonimaina13323 жыл бұрын

    Don’t let his boys (friends) lie or confuse you that the guys is really into you .

  • @stacybrenda157

    @stacybrenda157

    2 жыл бұрын

    girl because you are 100% right

  • @vanessajorgembanze8089
    @vanessajorgembanze80892 жыл бұрын

    I have watched this video before, but I came back to watch it again because now I am in a situationship 😂😂 I needed to revise all the rules. Absolutely love this podcast ❤️❤️❤️

  • @rebhoney6803
    @rebhoney68033 жыл бұрын

    Situashionships sound so stressful 😭😭😭 I think this can only work for people who can exercise healthy detachment easily. Sex with one person many times over will definitely lead to some attachment

  • @Kakwasi

    @Kakwasi

    2 жыл бұрын

    Especially for women. It's not possible to not have feelings. You better just be single

  • @maryannesspace5089
    @maryannesspace50893 жыл бұрын

    I broke all the rules of a situationship. The character development that came after having a situationship baby is unmatched. "I FEEL LIKE"😂the best thing is to avoid situationships altogether.

  • @DestinywithKanje
    @DestinywithKanje3 жыл бұрын

    I bought a suit worth 10k on a guy we were in a situationship only for him to post himself in that suit with his girlfriend on status,i died😅

  • @fkamonya

    @fkamonya

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂 wah

  • @emmah3486

    @emmah3486

    2 жыл бұрын

    Earth is hard😂😅

  • @hellenkamau2942

    @hellenkamau2942

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @winnytanui9367

    @winnytanui9367

    2 жыл бұрын

    ,😂😂😂😂😂

  • @joynjoki4353

    @joynjoki4353

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @AggieNonsizi
    @AggieNonsizi3 жыл бұрын

    Words that aren't "will you be my girlfriend?" no matter how romantic they sound don't mean SHIT. :)

  • @fkamonya

    @fkamonya

    3 жыл бұрын

    Louder!

  • @judithoweje7729
    @judithoweje77292 жыл бұрын

    In a situationship, the lady will always lose...ALWAYS! That's a fact that we probably deny..

  • @janenjoki500

    @janenjoki500

    Жыл бұрын

    FUCKING TRUTH HAHAH

  • @Muthonimwai
    @Muthonimwai3 жыл бұрын

    Mimi nimechoma kuchoma in all my situationships🤣🤣🤣kuforce issues 😳😳😳😳😳acha tu it's the gheeeerrrrroooo in me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @jowams9329
    @jowams93293 жыл бұрын

    Na leo mumeshout aaah! Mimi I broke the rule ya don't say I love you...the response I was given was, 'don't say such things' 😂😂 in my defense I was drunk but still #chestpains 😭

  • @jenniferkache4187

    @jenniferkache4187

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @terrywaithaka3587

    @terrywaithaka3587

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂 ooops!

  • @mrs.andersson2854

    @mrs.andersson2854

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ata mimi nilisema I love you nikaambiwa "I suggest you don't do that". I sobered up real fast! 😂😂😂😂

  • @rosierosita.7235

    @rosierosita.7235

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mr. Andersson🤣🤣🤣

  • @dr.ohuruc.1511

    @dr.ohuruc.1511

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @jacquemutethya5816
    @jacquemutethya58163 жыл бұрын

    Another rule: NEVER invest your (silly) emotions in a situationship! NEVER!

  • @tinanm18

    @tinanm18

    2 жыл бұрын

    What are silly emotions ? 😣😅

  • @mercybucci9766
    @mercybucci97663 жыл бұрын

    Lydia's man must really feel good when he listens to these podcasts 😊

  • @shammahnzaana214
    @shammahnzaana2142 жыл бұрын

    I burst into uncontrollable laughter when she said "Use appropriate terminologies" 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭

  • @joymburu0273
    @joymburu02733 жыл бұрын

    Am bringing all my girls here.., am done spending my hang out time talking about their boy drama... Its definitely TMI

  • @tino_chihwayi

    @tino_chihwayi

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂girl!!!

  • @msndabi1763
    @msndabi17633 жыл бұрын

    Imagine I've watched all the episodes today all at once. You girls r ze best 👌

  • @hidelakhonya2374
    @hidelakhonya23742 жыл бұрын

    All my love! Getting to know Joan's personality from on here, I FEEL LIKE Tana and Keni are so lucky to have such a cool and funny mom and Zack, wife. ❤

  • @DiamondQuality1
    @DiamondQuality13 жыл бұрын

    Situationships are too much WORK. I can't.

  • @kathy3651
    @kathy36513 жыл бұрын

    '....And you got the stuff didn't you?' This line by Lydia took me TF out

  • @carolinejeptoo7252

    @carolinejeptoo7252

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂I know!

  • @AggieNonsizi
    @AggieNonsizi3 жыл бұрын

    Murugi woke up and chose violence today!! I LOVED this episode so much!

  • @salomekamau5380

    @salomekamau5380

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @joymburu0273
    @joymburu02733 жыл бұрын

    My all time rule: you cant call whenever.. i also feeeuu like they have to match your energy.. like Lydia said don't take disrespect not everyone in your life needs to fit in a box. some people will embarrass you in public girrls.. hit him up when you from a date indoors.. Joan and Lydia...you are the best big sisters ever

  • @paulinewachira8563
    @paulinewachira85633 жыл бұрын

    You got me watching all the episodes pamoja..... I want more❤️❤️

  • @RosaliaShiweva
    @RosaliaShiweva3 жыл бұрын

    Yasss Ladies we are gathering here one more time.. You are killing 💝💝💝💝💝

  • @annlaurita2280
    @annlaurita22803 жыл бұрын

    Here cause Time invested with You is GROWTH❤️❤️🥰

  • @AnysieIshimwe
    @AnysieIshimwe3 жыл бұрын

    This is Wilberforce. 😂😂😂😂 Someone come and get me from the floor.

  • @uwerajuliet
    @uwerajuliet3 жыл бұрын

    Loving loving this channel💃🏽the honesty🙌🏽 thank God I have discovered this channel🥳

  • @RosaliaShiweva
    @RosaliaShiweva3 жыл бұрын

    I wish TMI Podcast came earlier I could be saved the 3 years I stayed in that situationship 😂😂😂😂

  • @jackiemwangi8963

    @jackiemwangi8963

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂 this was so hilarious but pole 😀

  • @shammahnzaana214

    @shammahnzaana214

    2 жыл бұрын

    Baby 3 years😭 aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

  • @__mwesh__
    @__mwesh__3 жыл бұрын

    I also FEEL LIKE, you guys using "FEEEEUUU LIKE" is actually cute because that's how you guys share your thoughts as feelings 🥰

  • @catemaza8876
    @catemaza88763 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂🤣 ati Wilberforce I'll just stick to "this is will" Wilberforce is between me, him, his parents and the government

  • @roziebaybe1626

    @roziebaybe1626

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @kimmiesonie

    @kimmiesonie

    3 жыл бұрын

    This comment took me out 😅🤣

  • @paulinemartina2819

    @paulinemartina2819

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @victoria_ac

    @victoria_ac

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @SafariByHal
    @SafariByHal3 жыл бұрын

    Yaass!! My every Wednesday dose!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @anafula1963
    @anafula19633 жыл бұрын

    Taking notes for my current situation before a girl messes up

  • @DestinywithKanje
    @DestinywithKanje3 жыл бұрын

    Your videos got recommended to me by youtube and i found myself watching all of them back to back for the whole day🥰

  • @dianamuringo3998
    @dianamuringo39983 жыл бұрын

    You guys are so honest it's amazing

  • @mwethya
    @mwethya3 жыл бұрын

    Came back after episode 7 ....and yeah I told him I love him and he said he was not drunk enough to say it back....

  • @BreeBossy

    @BreeBossy

    2 жыл бұрын

    A hanky for your tears

  • @maryben9655

    @maryben9655

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @deborahrose4774
    @deborahrose47742 жыл бұрын

    I am so thrilled I found you guys again after you exited from Ebru tv. The best thing I found this weekend. Joan and Lydia are always a very good vibe. You guyysss areeee bbbooooommmmm😚

  • @Sunflower__Queen
    @Sunflower__Queen3 жыл бұрын

    05:15 "To conduct sexual intercourse" 🤣🤣...I had to pause the dishes and re-wind. I love you guys.

  • @itsyourgirlgraceawi8362
    @itsyourgirlgraceawi83623 жыл бұрын

    Where was this episode 6 months ago🥺🥺???I wouldnt have broken so many rules i swear😂😂😂.Lydia,especially that Valentine part(I can relate{In Murugi's Voice})😂😂😂😂

  • @YemiAyodeji
    @YemiAyodeji3 жыл бұрын

    I've never been in a situationship but these rules definitely make sense. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @puritywaigwa9038
    @puritywaigwa90383 жыл бұрын

    I'm always looking forward to Wednesdays...vibes on vibes

  • @_risingphoenix
    @_risingphoenix3 жыл бұрын

    Loved it as always!!!!!

  • @Eveandran
    @Eveandran3 жыл бұрын

    You are shouting babes....😂😂This is the most interesting content I have listened to in a while. .... Reasonates alot.

  • @marykanzy513
    @marykanzy5133 жыл бұрын

    Have never been in any kind situationship but I love it here 👏👏

  • @nkinyori
    @nkinyori3 жыл бұрын

    Your chemistry!!!!!!!!✨✨✨

  • @h_w_f254
    @h_w_f2543 жыл бұрын

    Ya'll just brought my thoughts, dilemma to life😅😅😅

  • @annewacuka
    @annewacuka3 жыл бұрын

    The smash or pass game was🔥🔥🔥. I mean, I loved the rules for situationships but the gaaaaaammeee!! I'm with you on Betty Kyalo and Njugush🤗🤗

  • @lizbymutheu

    @lizbymutheu

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too.. definitely we marrying njugush.ohw yeah and Betty.

  • @Sloune_jemutai
    @Sloune_jemutai3 жыл бұрын

    It's always the smash or pass for me 😂😂😂❤️❤️

  • @wambuikinyanjui8482
    @wambuikinyanjui84823 жыл бұрын

    Love this content ❤️

  • @lisajarrold2290
    @lisajarrold22903 жыл бұрын

    The way I'm listening to you, not even half way through and I've broken most of these rules, realizing I was actually in a situationship that just ended. Hahahah. Wueh

  • @plenteoussoul9657
    @plenteoussoul96572 жыл бұрын

    I should have watched this way earlier.. I have broken several of those rules.. You girls rock

  • @saumualmas4448
    @saumualmas44483 жыл бұрын

    Watching it from work....eishhhhhhhhhhhhh....I lOVE THIS

  • @abbydoeskenyaobufu
    @abbydoeskenyaobufu3 жыл бұрын

    Teaching her to swim??? That that there...... I'm still laughing 😂😂😂

  • @njugipatty6923
    @njugipatty69233 жыл бұрын

    The "Craziest lie" segment just made my day 🤣🤣

  • @zeitunhassan5555
    @zeitunhassan55553 жыл бұрын

    I should be sleeping when baby sleeps,but whomst am to miss this? WHOMST🤣🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @santhy9963
    @santhy99632 жыл бұрын

    I’m happy mine ended up working and I’ve never been this happy 😭😭

  • @o.n

    @o.n

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mine too😂😂.

  • @missrutto587
    @missrutto587 Жыл бұрын

    The podcast I been looking for at the moment 😩

  • @njokindungu6770
    @njokindungu67703 жыл бұрын

    I love this channel

  • @wangarinjeri2340
    @wangarinjeri23402 жыл бұрын

    I laughed so hard the whole episode 😂

  • @dolphineakoth
    @dolphineakoth3 жыл бұрын

    Yeeei another one

  • @mirembepraise4926
    @mirembepraise4926 Жыл бұрын

    I love you guys, you are a real guide to love

  • @salomekamau5380
    @salomekamau53802 жыл бұрын

    ROFL...but you're not... Saying it simultaneously, verbatim....I like how it came out...such congruence...I love it! I love you gals!

  • @ruthdede2555
    @ruthdede25553 жыл бұрын

    Yaani 001 is short? Noooo😭😭😭😭my heart is broken in 5,000 litu pieces

  • @mschelahvlogs
    @mschelahvlogs3 жыл бұрын

    Imagne celestine(wakavinye) watching them say "i feel like njugush would be so kind,ask me are you ok" and maybe pale hes a 😈😈....the laughter guys...😅😅i loved the episode....the mama fua part...#clowningalltheway😅😅

  • @nellychege3672
    @nellychege36723 жыл бұрын

    Love this episode ❤

  • @njerikimani648
    @njerikimani6483 жыл бұрын

    Broke all.the rules😂😂 character development still ongoing chest pwainnsss tu

  • @stacybrenda157
    @stacybrenda1572 жыл бұрын

    if you know you get attached easily story na situationships achana nazo,chile you gotta be on another level of gangster to be in this kind of situation

  • @JacintanjeriMukuria
    @JacintanjeriMukuria11 ай бұрын

    😂😂I said I love you twice the guy was just quite fugg it...I was so embarrassed kumbe the dude was having a long term distant gf... situationships are just the worst I hope to get from it asap 😂😂😂

  • @shamim3368
    @shamim33683 жыл бұрын

    Ive laughed my ass offf throughout this whole episode🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ruwabs
    @ruwabs3 жыл бұрын

    Ooh..God 😂😂😂...it's the Lies segment for me. ...I am dieng 😂😂😂😂

  • @acenvicky5425
    @acenvicky54253 жыл бұрын

    I love u ladies, learning alot from u

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I'm rolling in the floor because I was guilty but now I look back and still laugh. I'm glad I grew up

  • @vanessakithei
    @vanessakithei3 жыл бұрын

    such relatable content....loved this episode

  • @nancygathu1052
    @nancygathu10523 жыл бұрын

    Who is Nyambura?? Mama wa maboxer😂😂😂 Geez! The rules sound so simple but I like that there is emphasis on not taking disrespect 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @YemiAyodeji
    @YemiAyodeji3 жыл бұрын

    Definitely here for juicier TMI😁😅

  • @winnienjeri7425
    @winnienjeri74253 жыл бұрын

    I FEEL LIKE on the lies part we should immediately start looking for new ones.Like i have heard that sir,give me something new 😂😂😂

  • @annenafula1
    @annenafula13 жыл бұрын

    "It's definitely TMI!" Am I the only one who says that with kina Joan and Lydia??? ☺️

  • @muthonimaina7998

    @muthonimaina7998

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right!!😂😂😂😂🤦‍♀️

  • @lynnettekangethe3293

    @lynnettekangethe3293

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nopeee😅

  • @carolinemumbe8465

    @carolinemumbe8465

    2 жыл бұрын

    No sis I Do to

  • @christabellanaku
    @christabellanaku3 жыл бұрын

    Just have terms, conditions, boundaries, and be frank when things are changing. Also be sure each of you is mature and understand ur situation, in short just Hit, panda and Run!🤣

  • @pete7289
    @pete72892 жыл бұрын

    KZread suggested this video, any way you left out, never meeting on the weekends, weekends are for family and real relationships keep your shady dealings on the weekdays and if you can, limit it to only once a week, you also don't necessarily have to meet every week you are trying to happily live a double life here discretion is everything.

  • @esthermumbi3598
    @esthermumbi35983 жыл бұрын

    🤣 🤣 Men with their lies... I love yu gals

  • @diananyambura2182
    @diananyambura21823 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂 I'm enjoying this

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz28212 жыл бұрын

    Wueh! Ati "You might not even be a friend!" #Murugi chose violence💯. "Rwandanese" took me out😂😂.

  • @lindawairegi
    @lindawairegi2 жыл бұрын

    Ati if you're new to situationships then you're a good candidate for this conversation 😃 😂 🤣 Loving this TMI Episode ❤ 💜

  • @maryk8738
    @maryk87383 жыл бұрын

    Much Love girls❤️

  • @ceciliakamundia1174
    @ceciliakamundia11742 жыл бұрын

    😅😅😅😅 I love it here

  • @justinelove7816
    @justinelove78162 жыл бұрын

    So much truth being shared

  • @ruthkiruki7333
    @ruthkiruki73333 жыл бұрын

    Weeee.....situationship is too much wooork its better i just wait for a relationship in patience. Hizo don't zimekuwa mingi...

  • @taniahlumbu9216
    @taniahlumbu92163 жыл бұрын

    Lydia just laughing as Joan is shouting 😂😂😂😂

  • @gracemwangi2104
    @gracemwangi21043 жыл бұрын

    Situationship is alot of work, i broke most of the rules and weeh!! I was heart broken. Now i am wiser.

  • @wanja1403
    @wanja14033 жыл бұрын

    Ghai aki mnashout 😆😆😆

  • @iamtinagypsy
    @iamtinagypsy3 жыл бұрын

    Me in my clowning stage I'll be relistening this situation ship rules till I dieeeeeee😂😂😂😂😂❤

  • @njerikimani648

    @njerikimani648

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me three mbikoss

  • @h_w_f254
    @h_w_f2543 жыл бұрын

    Can we bind situationships , allow me take notes......😂😂😂

  • @linetwambui7658
    @linetwambui76583 жыл бұрын

    You two are obviously talking to me😅😅

  • @Muthonimwai
    @Muthonimwai3 жыл бұрын

    It has been bomb 💣💣💣💣💣💣 since Ep1 Lydia and Murugi you're moving masses and educating us to style up in life 💯you girls are going big very soon 👌

  • @roselynewanjikuofficial5491
    @roselynewanjikuofficial54913 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂lyiiiiiin-G 🙄🤦 I have no words for how I see it

  • @deborahblessings5367
    @deborahblessings53673 жыл бұрын

    This episode was loud 😅😅😅.Loved it though

  • @sugarbobo4868
    @sugarbobo48683 жыл бұрын

    Don’t surprise your situationship partner .. in public …. At work… etc

  • @aliwamwami9985
    @aliwamwami99853 жыл бұрын

    Wish there was a new episode everyday🥺🥺💗

  • @irenekasonga7970
    @irenekasonga79703 жыл бұрын

    Yummy mummy I honestly enjoy watching you.you are always happy and open.

  • @hyzelwanja6726
    @hyzelwanja67262 жыл бұрын

    I'm new to this and I've broken like 3 rules already. 😂 😂

  • @matylynn656
    @matylynn6562 жыл бұрын

    I got all this rules😂I am proud😂😂

  • @tino_chihwayi
    @tino_chihwayi2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂it's definitely TMI😭