I resonate with Murugi regarding my place. I don't want random strangers knowing where I live (or work) plus who knows whether he'll even earn a second date???

Topic Ideas for the next episode ladies. Can you give us a guide on how to single and content and dating casually without getting anxious or desperate about getting about finding a life partner. So far seeing anything titled ‘how…husband’ triggers me. Ninakosa amani.

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Interesting topic! Thank you

@dianawaithira4757

2 жыл бұрын

The first time losing your virginities

I wouldn’t want any sort of intimacy on the first date I don’t care if we vibe or not I actually expect you to drop me home or offer to get me a cab.

I didn't know about Murugi until Hudda. Through her I learnt about TMI. And honestly!!! What a babe!!! I'm glued. I followed her Instagram and Lydia's too. What a wholesome Person!

I am 22 and u guysss ,by the time I'm in my 30's I'll be so wise thanks to you big sisters 😂❤️

@Lavvvvvyyyyy

Жыл бұрын

Same sis♥️🥺21

Lydia with her pearls of wisdom... " You don't want to change the ending, change the beginning. " Joan, do more of that style, it suits you so beautifully 😍

Went for a date with this guy and when I asked him his views about spoiling a lady. Like random acts of service. And he said things like paying for your nails, hair or fueling a car is a no! He said he’s not your father to be doing all that. Best believe as he was talking I blocked him.

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Weh!!

@barnettedavids7653

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂he really deserved it 💯🚮

@nairobikenya_

2 жыл бұрын

He was right though🤷🏾‍♀️ if you are the wife then yes. But dating? Come on. Let everybody handle their needs, too much pressure on the boy child!

@geraldinenyawira9293

2 жыл бұрын

@@nairobikenya_ Kindly read what I wrote carefully. He said he’s not your father to be doing all that. The narrative wouldn’t change regardless of marriage

@GTX260M

2 жыл бұрын

Looool

Since dating nowdays is like acquiring a PhD.I made it simple.Make many friends at workplace, school,church,and all social places and make it deep that you know much about them for a period and by the time you are dating one of them you will not even realise things will be flowing and it worked 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Love that!

My first date etiquette is DO NOT GET DRUNK! Beer googles and tequile deafness are real!

For me first date ,a hug is good enough.

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

😄 yessss! And that’s just right. Whatever feels right, go for it

Since I found this podcast like just a week ago I’ve been binge watching episodes just like I do in Netflix. Love the great content ladies. Happy to be an in-betweener 🥂

You are now giving them a mwakenya ....we will never know who they are on the first date since they will come prepared with tips from this video...... good thing Stephen won't Keep up the act for long 😊

Couldn't wait to come see what you gorgeous ladies have in store for us this new year.❤️

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Bigger and better sis!

Murugi you just said it right that first smash says it all gosh!

It's the honesty for me, can't wait for more content this year I'm all yours.

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Content coming!

I remember this guy, he was driving us with his siblings for lunch and we alighted, stood for a second but whatever he said...it was a turn off and it was over..the way you talk portrays who you're are

I love this , the year just got better TMI FOR LIFE

Great topic in betweeners🥳🥳its been a while. I feel like if you have a health issue and it might stay for long they should know like the cancer thing, so they can make a decision of staying or leaving or the gherroooo ghosting😂. Health is crucial like are they willing to stay and support you or not it feels like its part if the honest convos for me. Always an in-betweener❤💫

Yaaaaay!!! I'm always looking forward to new episodes.... Lakini the 🍰 we saw on IG 😋😋😋😋😋 We love you

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Love you right back

I’m learning this is great 👍 keep teaching us moreee big sis 🥰❤

It’s the twinning hair styles for mee❤️

Wow 💙.Wise words here 👏 🙌. Getting back into the pool after 2 years 😌. Taking notes 📝 aki .

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Good luck hun

Lydia's sense of humour is A1...hahha. bye Stephen

I love how the we growing as a channel from the intro to the liking of our comments woooow guys I love you🥰🥰

The video was bomb as always however the sound is not as great as when using mics like in other videos

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the feedback.

I genuinely feel creeped out when a man tries to touch ,kiss or just do anything to me.its super weird unless we've known each other for a long time or If I intiate it.

I really laughed on this one and i bet I have to start on the right foot once again. Mob loooooooove.

Bill paying!!! Heeeeeh I have paid for many a dates!!!! And never again! I used to actually get anxiety if going out or invited anywhere. Kweli the way it starts is the way it continues!!!

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Sis!!!! Stay woke

Yes be who you are 💯💯💯

I love listening in…. Keep it going . I got my to go place after work … 🏃‍♀️😅😅😅

I really love your dress code 😍 you guys look amazing

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks girl

Watching you twinning has made me remember how i thought you look alike in the very first episodes!!P

loving the channel

Aty are my kids here,no it's just Lydia 😂😂😂 I love y'all❣️

Joan the hairstyle makes you look 21❤️

murugi thank you for that point, that whether I invite him or he invite me a man should always pay,

2022 is about to be awesome here @TMI

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Yaassssss

Comminicate the results of the date. If you didn’t feel the date let them know. If you don’t wanna see them again be straight about it. You don’t need to explain your decision, but communicate it so as not to lead someone on. Also, don’t ghost if you didn’t feel the date

@Tata-bd9nx

2 жыл бұрын

Ouch..i can imagibe someone telling me they didnt feel me on the date😩...honestly i would prefer they pretend to be busy and i would get the hint😓😂

Yes, what you meet face to face is usually different from what is shared online.

@Tata-bd9nx

2 жыл бұрын

I'm dreading that because i've been chatting someone online and its awesome and i'm afraid when we finally get to meet we wont have the same vibe or they wont like me that much.😩😩😓

@justinelove7816

2 жыл бұрын

@@Tata-bd9nx just try and meet and see .. More strength to you

You ask me out for a first date? You are the one paying. We plan together for a date,we are planning for everything together. I'll pay the Uber to and fro you are paying for the food, who's got the drink and who got the waiter's tip?Such things...😂😂😂📍

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

😅😅 sawa Deborah!

Hey fellow -in-betweeners 😹. A topic suggestion: The importance of regular ladies reproductive checks,fibroids ( they actually affect 70% women of reproductive age) and how to manage/treat, endo etc.

Thanks 😊 sharing

I think the physical attributions or like the HIV one is a second date thing. Unless you were chatting online before for a while then your first physical date that should be something you bring up.

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Makes sense

@bernicemunanu2738

2 жыл бұрын

A

Steve was just chilling lmaoo

Hey babes-I absolutely love you ladies. My favorite podcast in the whole world!!❤❤ But if you ain't gonna see someone again please let them know. Ghosting should be so 2021 aki.

Hey i'm lucy ,new subscriber love your content alot

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Steve is my new favorite phrase

Rewatching 😂😂😂😂

Murugi: Smelling nice is different for different people. Lydia: NO 😭😭😂😂😂😂

Milly was just chilling🤣🤣🤣🤣

Steve was just chilling then bam! TMI happened 😄😄😄😄😄

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

😅😅😅😅

@maryannwekesa7552

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@stevenowen9631

2 жыл бұрын

Why is this happening...?

@betty541

2 жыл бұрын

@@stevenowen9631 😂😂

I soo love this episode. Am also never paying for a bill on a first date. This year inbetweeners should focus on paying attention.

Not the Milly WaJesus laugh🤣🤣

This was so much fun ......loving the energy I want to be a better version of myself and with the tips I fetch here weekly definitely I will ......I always feel lke I know you so closely hii mwaka meet and greet ikam.

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Inakam babe 😄

This was a fantastic episode!

My word from the year is self

Good tips 👍

...not a thong on the second date 😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀 Lydia is a clown and we love her!!!!!❤😂

@Tata-bd9nx

2 жыл бұрын

I died when she said his Murderous friends emerging from the seats and then put her hands up like a monster😂😂

Sex on a first date...nah.I also believe there's a reason premarital sex is discouraged.

Yeeeeiy today's episode was epic.. the sound was a bit low 😭😭

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the feedback

@catherinetheuri2346

2 жыл бұрын

@@tmipodcastke Your welcome.. You are guys are mean't for our time💯♨️

Miss the games though 🥲

Joanne Munyi. That make up was made for u. So natural and blends with your skin. Wish all black gals cld emulate this.

@Tata-bd9nx

2 жыл бұрын

Wish all men would mind their business regarding womens makeup,especially women that are not theirs😩😂

@ckarani17

2 жыл бұрын

@@Tata-bd9nx Its was a complement 🤦🏿‍♂️ all i meant was that you are proud of ur skin color thats why u never applied a brighter shed unlike a lot of ladies who apply makeup. 🙄

Ati when your real laugh is for Milly was Jesus 😂😂😂😂😂

A good one as usual ..who did you mention? Melissa who?

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Marissa Peer

I'm going on my my first date with this new guy today... Hahaha nimefurahia kuona hii 😂

Is it just me or the sound in this episode is kinda low

TMI 2022

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Yessss

My word is Thrive

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

And may your year reflect that!

Milly wa jesus was just chilling🤣

Hahaha... whatever Steve did😂😂😂

The sound/volume is somehow low ama is it just me? Thanks for the upload though 😊

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the feedback

@winniekaranja407

2 жыл бұрын

True was struggling to hear in some sections

It's always, the honesty and energies for me 😊😊😊😊😊

Poor Steve 🤣🤣🤣

Murugi, today I disagree with you. Please dont have sex on the 1st date, even if it feels like the right thing to do and the dude is good. It tends to cloud your judgement going forward, about the person you're dating because you are hardly able to make an objective judgement of him/her. Unless ofcourse you're just dating with no end purpose and doing so just for the sake of, which in that case, you're just 'scratching an itch'

@catherinemwinuka9734

2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with this. I wouldn’t advice at all! A lot of girls out here are confused with what they want because of habits like this. I can count girls who can really do that without being emotionally attached👐🏾 most of us are not built like that, we lie to ourselves that we can handle it but we can’t.👐🏾

@sanitationEng

2 жыл бұрын

Today I've also disagreed with some things around sex. Bt I guess we are different

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

A solid point because we are all different. There are women who feel confident and in control even after having sex while some feel overwhelmed emotionally. The point is hold space for everyone’s way of doing things in order to empower us all in our decision making.

@gracethuku4555

2 жыл бұрын

I disagree with you..saying that sex clouds your judgment is an excuse i feel. No matter how good sex is, allowing it inform your judgement is actually a red flag on your side

@catherinemwinuka9734

2 жыл бұрын

@@gracethuku4555 Hey girl, personally I don’t think it’s a red flag. There’s so much that happens during sex, it’s not just an exchange of physical pleasure. Some people are very in-tuned with their emotions, like tmi said, some feel empowered I suppose but yeah some do feel emotionally overwhelmed and doesn’t mean there’s something to fix about themselves. I mean there’s reasons why premarital sex is not encouraged, coz of the possible dysfunction it may bring. Why is adultery so hurtful? If it was just about the physical? It’s cause emotions and energies are getting mixed up, I don’t think that’s something we can avoid.

Amazing content here. Is it possible to include story time in your segments where one can draw lessons.?

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Our own story time ama?

🤣🤣🤣

🤣 if we are having sex coz the "vibe is right" we'll be bed hopping 🤣

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

😅😅

@brendakipchoge5784

Жыл бұрын

Coz the vibe damn right most times🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Hey ghurls,, loving your content as always,, suggestion for a future topic,, could y'all maybe discuss sexual harassment,, I've experienced it so often lately,, I'm almost going nuts,,like two months ago I had about 6 incidents and it has reached a point where I don't know how to react, I'm actually avoiding going out at all,, it happened in Eldoret,, please shed some light on how to go about it because I'm getting traumatized to the point that I'm almost getting panic attacks when I'm in public,, more info on the assault,, all happened in broad daylight, 99% of the time I was in jeans, so let nobody come at me for dressing, it involved groping, spanking, grabbing, and also I wasn't actually walking alone, let's talk about this please 🙏,, thanks in advance,, I love y'all ♥️😘🥰

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

A great topic!

@betty541

2 жыл бұрын

Oh my God! What? By complete strangers?

@wambuikamau5918

Жыл бұрын

Sending love and light your way🤍 . I hope you are healing 💓.

@barnettedavids7653

Жыл бұрын

@@wambuikamau5918 Thank you so much ❣️,, I'm at a much better place now,, I relocated from that neighborhood

@barnettedavids7653

Жыл бұрын

@@betty541 yeah, from men across all ages, youngest was a teenager, oldest was about 35

I remember this guy who insisted on meeting me then when I went he said I pay like tf...then he had the audacity to tell me to go home with him to have sex

Hey Ladies, the volume was low, I struggled to hear.

@cellestongere7371

2 жыл бұрын

True

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the feedback guys. We’ll work on it

Thank you ladies for such an amazing podcast ❤ 👏 💙 I learn so much from this sessions..more like therapy😊😊

Steve amesema niwaambie atasue 😭😂😂😂

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

if both you both invited yourselves, you pay your own bills💁

Men.. stay woke.

I miss the vibrant background

Great episode! Sound is rather low though

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the feedback

Nice conversation

Steve didn't deserve this😂

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

😅😅

Where did the games go😩

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

We loved games too but we removed them for upcoming segments. We promise you’ll love them

I got here late.. I feel like having sex on first date could crowd you judgement. What if the sex was a bomb? Now you're drooling for the second date, just because...

BUT YOU GUYS ARE NO LONGER PLAYING GAMES😊

@tmipodcastke

2 жыл бұрын

We are not guys! We promise we are bringing more segments you’ll love

Washing dishes😂😂😂not in 2022

He should pay on the 1st date

Joan is sometimes too judgemental towards Lydia.

Guys consider using mics , I feel that you not audible enough

Talk about a woman need to have on a first date , eg in her handbang.

I think the bill should be shared from Day 1 until you have shared way of financing! it allows for NOT gender roles.

Guys stop complaining hakuna body image issues like the LGBTQ

I left him because of the way he chewed....his mouth was curved weirdly and his teeth were disgustingly brown...he was a single dad and I loved his daughter *only saw her pictures" didn't even like him😂😂. Khae I almost puked at that sight