Kingbetweeners👑 in the building 😎🤝🏾🤝🏾. Notifications🔔 On ✅

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

We love to see it… 🤩🤩🤩

@carolinemumbe8465

Жыл бұрын

this is so nice to a guy that craves for knowledge so attractive ❤️❤️❤️

One of the things that turn me off are the clingy type. I love my space sometimes. Not all the time with the same friend🙄

@halimaaden5188

Жыл бұрын

I agree with this 100%😭😭😭

I'm turned off by women who shut their social lives the minute they get into relationships. I don't like ladies who tag their boyfriend's to our girlie events and vice versa. Or even worse fail to show up simply because they are in a relationship. You can still exist in separation and have fun without your partner's presence.

@foodandvibeswithkoi1013

Жыл бұрын

Aki mimi I turn off my social life once I give birth,gor a full year,I try to fight it but mum guilt gets the best of me

@cikanyoro

Жыл бұрын

Me and you both Matilda

@sharonjepchumba2547

Жыл бұрын

Especially first time mom... when you have to balance between work, motherhood and maybe wife duties

@FayKay348

Жыл бұрын

@@sharonjepchumba2547 motherhood is completely different because you literally are your baby’s lifeline for the first few years of their lives.

@matildatimpiyian1325

Жыл бұрын

@@foodandvibeswithkoi1013 That's understandable. Here I meant intimate relationships.

My biggest turn off,, women who think not keeping time is a flex🤦 and then they go ahead to laugh it out like "aki mini and time" Like I don't get what's funny here Jane!!

@kezmaina-doktari

Жыл бұрын

😂😂 Jane was just resting...

@GrahamGakara2009

Жыл бұрын

Jane🤣🤣🤣 wooi

@linahwangari2595

Жыл бұрын

😂 😂

@linahwangari2595

Жыл бұрын

Those women are a turn off to me too🤦‍♀️

​listening to TMI is like compensating for the mature conversations that we never had with our elders ( mothers, big sisters, aunties, shosh, etc.....) merci beaucoup mes grandes Soeurs je Vous aime 🥰

@allthingswamuyu

Жыл бұрын

So true sis😂😂

@maman_moon

Жыл бұрын

Thanks to The TMI

@Molly-dw1ft

Жыл бұрын

Most definitely

@yvonneivy3494

Жыл бұрын

@@Molly-dw1ft channel ci

@bettymukolwe6600

Жыл бұрын

well said ...

A lot of people get woke so that they can fall asleep in a different way -Lydia, 2022

I am not a fan of women who totally lose their identity once they get into a relationship. A relationship is not the be-all-end-all of life. I don’t always have to hang with your man just to hang with you.

@aokookello5564

Жыл бұрын

I Know, it's not interesting at sll

Women that think that everything is about you.... seriously siz....you is not world.. world is not you

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Shout louder sis!

And THEEEEEN there are these daughters of Delilah 🙄they can never let a compliment end in a positive way,,,ati "heyy babes today you're killing 🤗but imagine hiyo lipstick ingekuwa ya orange,,🙄ati "your shoes are cute but sizingekuwa tu na heel ya 1inch,,,, just burry me,💔such a turn off🚮🚮

Hi ladies , love your podcast On the flip side of victim mentality , it's also paramount to encourage ladies not to downplay their own side of the story / their own truth because they don't want to appear as victims . Own your truth , do take some time back to evaluate your part in a situation but never dismiss how you felt concerning the same 🤗

@ruthkiruki2083

Жыл бұрын

This is true. if you search deeper you will realize some of them were never heard or didnt have a voice mostly out of trauma.

@joycenyawira7841

Жыл бұрын

I love this comment..so true. Thank you for sharing that.

My biggest turn off In women is self centeredness, those who think the world revolves around them. They want everyone to listen to them as they go about their problems and everything, they think others don't have issues so they never listen to others, they have no empathy.

@julietmwale2883

Жыл бұрын

I currently have this friend and every single time we meet it's her about her goals, plans, and problems and I sit there and just listen almost all the time.

@priscillah4831

Жыл бұрын

@@julietmwale2883 this is exactly what I'm saying. I have such friends and it's really exhausting 🤦

@hellenben39

Жыл бұрын

my mother in law is exactly this... every time wwe meet she is always ranting about how so and so did things to her..how she does not like this and that..waah its tiring to sit for almost 2 hours listening to someone complain about everything

I love the advice y'all gave during TMI Talk. I've been there. I did just that and i don't regret completing my undergraduate courses even though I'd never want to be a teacher. I've made peace with that. Lydia, your wardrobe this year has been serving me goals. I'm in love. Joan, i love your body. Damn girl.

In campus , I has a friend who was the same skin tone and body size, everytime we go out clubbing she borrows my clothes and uses my make up, I has no problem at first until it became consistent, Make up is expensive,she didn't get that,I had to keep on buying foundation frequently, until I decided its enough, I set a boundary and the friendship changed

@cess-thelight3492

Жыл бұрын

She was a user...i hate such people being around me

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

Ooh giiirl! It was important to set that boundary sis… expect relationships to change when someone who was taking advantage is not allowed to anymore! Go you. ❤️

Everytime I finish a TMI episode i feel like I have just finished a masterclass. I learn alot from you and I'm growing and evolving so as a person. Thank you so much. An Inbetweener for ever❤️

A word both Lydia and Murugi say a lot is "FANTASTIC"🤣 apart from 'problematic' of course🤣🤣🤣

My biggest turn off is this chics who dig at you indirectly, like 'how can that chic be that fat' and the chic she is talking about is maybe smaller than you

Hey ladies, I like the topics you discuss it's definitely TMI. Lydia's word "however" Murugi's word " I feel like"

@legalcafe

Жыл бұрын

Hahahaha so true. Or Lydia "right?"

@justmyworld2542

Жыл бұрын

Actually when TMI started, Lydia was always like "I feel like". Lol

I'm a new subscriber and I enjoyed this discussion, thanks ladies!

Ladies thanks so much for the topic and I just like the way you two bond and flow and share knowledge.. one of the turn offs I have is calling this particular friend , especially when I haven't heard from here in a bit ,but boi oh boi when I do she takes over the call and then all the drama comes flowing ,if she got all this madness going on then call ,but no she waits for me to call and takes over the call ,all I could say is ok ,oh really ok well am oh ,so sorry and blah blah blah .that's a great big turn off for me . Like Lydia I think I attract broken birds 🤫

I had to screen record the section and boundaries and share it with someone. This sums up I have been trying to tell the people who just don't understand that "My things are MY things" 😂 I feel so validated because I have been called selfish alot. I am saving that video and will use it to communicate going forward.

It's definitely TMI😍😍 Looking beautiful ladies I enjoyed watching this🌹

So true on finishing what you start! great advice...

I love it when you share your inside jokes with us.....alot of love from TZ 💕💕

I can't believe I am awake past midnight watching this... its so good... I know how it feels to have those compliments that feel like a slap and a hug at the same time. YUCK!! .. they leave you confused 😕😕

I get that one of it's always about Brian....been there. I also get that one of women treating our women friends time like it doesn't matter. If we make a plan show up. I look forward to this show every week now. Thank you for airing this

Another great topic. I look forward to watching you both deliver great content.🖤🖤

Can we just appreciate the quality of this video 🏋️🏋️🏋️it even gives one psyche to watch .

Murugi says she lost old friends after she set boundaries..i totally relate..i have lost several as well. Its uncomfortable mwanzo but it gets better. My biggest turn off are women who rely on men to feed them. I just cant.

I think my one biggest turn off might be.....women that get confrontational or violent...with other women. especially over a grown man that has made mistakes by himself. Like the moment you have the time to fight another girl and not let your man take responsibility for his own actions....girl bye😅

Enyewe I have paused and subscribed, mmenishoutia vile inafaa. Constant watcher who always forgets to subscribe(tabia mbaya🙄)..love your content and you guys!!❤️

“Sally” must be chocking 😂😂😂😂. The advise in regards to pursuing education 🙌🏽, it contributes majorly to how you articulate yourself( principles as you said), I agree.

Murungi love your hair,,,Lydia KM your accent is ok ..your are fluent and eloquent..

Its Friday... just discovered this bomb ass channel and am on a TMI watch marathon sipin' my wine.

"Alot of people get woke only to fall asleep in a different way" 🙌 Lyd said it. This is such a turn off for me. Thank you Sisters, waiting for the special something😂 🥳💃. #TMI!

Mean girl energy is all my paternal cousins with an exception of a couple😂… all family functions with them feel like a highschool reunion🤢🤮

That moment when Joe said she tops Lyd's best friends list and Lyd tickled Joe and they both laughed 😍😍 I wanted to add more on what Joan said about women who you've just met and they start over sharing their details, most of the time these are the type that give out your information to other people when you become friends,they barely can't keep things to themselves.

I love this topic. If you don't deal with the victim mentality it haunts you for the rest of your life. Deal with daddy's wounds. Kia Stephens has written a book on that, she runs ablog&podcast. Thank you Lyds for talking about putting boundaries on frequencies. I stopped bending backwards late in life, otherwise I really hurt myself on several occassions. I'm work in progress in respecting people's stuff.

Lydia...I feel... about that matusi and compliment...ah, ah, it was needed.

I love that face you guys make when you say "No" and sit back - it's giving " I am not boarding vibes" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

New here. Loved loved and loved this. I was about to give a compliment that would be seen as backhanded. You ladies are awesome. The first 52 minute KZread conversation video that I finished. I have subscribed and I will keep coming back for more.

@julieomwanda1312

Жыл бұрын

welcome nyamin....they are dope....bring that backhanded compliment we are here for it

Just love the open mindedness in your episodes :>

It sucks that I have to wait an entire week for the next episode! Yani a whole seven days☹☹☹. Keep up serving great stuff😊😊

Lydia:guess what Murugi:good night

The mean girl energy point was just screaming Christineeee from selling sunset.....that girllllll 😂😂😂😂mean girl award

@Sally-ym9ex

Жыл бұрын

That's where my mind immediately went. And those who put others down had me thinking of Colony from selling Tampa

@magalienia6958

Жыл бұрын

Christine's mean gal persona is just a cover for the insecure, miserable little gal within who hides behind all those designer clothes.

@valleryapiyo9836

Жыл бұрын

@@magalienia6958 I felt like it was more of an excuse She could have worked on her toxicity and not use her childhood traumas as a free ticket to make people around her miserable. She could have done better

@valleryapiyo9836

Жыл бұрын

@@Sally-ym9ex mean ass humans those ones🤣

My biggest issue with some women is those who talk about things that don't improve our lives. Talking about clubbing and partying, eating chips and chicken, being taken out by so and so. Now what is that?can we for once talk about saving to buy land or starting small buisnesses. Not everyday is party time.

@lynnieeve

Жыл бұрын

You know...

@muriithimumbi370

Жыл бұрын

Lol! Or the ever cheating partner, pls new news pls

I was waiting for this.Love you both😍

Whooooa lets talk about negative comments on people's channels and pages - I always tell myself that you envy that person, why bother leave a comment if you hate the person/their content. This episode is fire. Luv you ladies. Eish sorry, i comment as I watch.

Hey girls, you both look gorgeous!!! Joan I’m not hating but I feel like that food money thing goes both way, when you say that your friend didn’t offer to split the bill, did you offer to split it yourself? When she said she paid for food, maybe if you did offer to split the bill then she would have probably mentioned that she took money from your bag. N/B don’t get it twisted, it’s so wrong to get into someone’s bag, I wouldn’t myself. But then again there’s a double standard in you saying that she didn’t offer to split the bill whereas you went home knowing that she paid for food using her money but you also didn’t offer to split up at that time.

Lydia I love your accent!!! Also the word that reminds me of you is Yack!!! And both of yall is D for done! 😂

Lydia’s word is “Goodnight!”😂 I just love it when she says it😂

Its definitely TMI thats what am here for that intro Child!!!

I have been called out!! Haha. Some things I've done thinking it was okay! Weeeh!

I really love watching y'all❤❤ and yeah can't wait to watch Murugi on Unpopular Opinion UG!!!

Lydia's make up and outfit is on flick 🔥

With VICTIM MENTALITY I hope women can understand that they are not making it up or fantasizing about it IT IS REAL their are many social constructs that are made to work against you ... COLOURISM SEXISM EQUITY but at the end of the day you either wallow in that and live in if's and regrets or do something about it and make it easy for women for other coming generations...THATS THE POWER IN OUR PAIN

Murugi says " i personally feel like".. alot🤣

Murugi and goodnight...it is a brand on its own🤣🤣🤣

The both of you would be "Goodnight" but I love it soo much i started using too interchangably with "curtains or its gates"

"I feel like ..."Joan's words that I associate with

I enjoyed this!!

D for Done lmao 🤣 😂 but I love when you say that. Please don't stop

I can't believe there was a time I wasn't watching and listening to TMI podcast.

And i really love what you guys do,,its so inspiring

Relating to everything... Love you girls❤️

Today na today🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Women who meet you today and immediately feel like you're besties, no sisss we r not.

Yess the friends who postpone your plans coz of their boyfriends last minute call it's so rude I got bored of a friend coz of always turning down our meetings coz 'Nani ' called we should do better.

Lydia's word of the day is GUESS WHAT! PROBLEMATIC 😝

It's definitely TMI🔥🔥💯

Am always in love with ladies who supports each...TMI content is full of positivity and authenticity. 💗💗💗

Thanks for recognizing us the kingbetweeners😊😊

Love the quote from your mother

Lydia-It feels like Murugi-I feel like You women are hilarious❤️

@ivonna7916

Жыл бұрын

True true💯

@emmakanana7612

Жыл бұрын

I have watched these episodes so much it has rubbed on me 😂

Lovely Conversation..!!

I really love the energy here ❤️

Much love gals my God bless I learn alot

This is so informative....n so so real......i never miss ur videos....n i would really like to feature in one of ur videos.....i really looooove u gals....from the deepest part of my heart......❤❤❤❤

That career dillema was handled the BEST way. I agree 💯

I’m a new follower and I ❤️ you two!!! I love your accent and I find myself saying things in y’all’s accent…lol….you all are beautiful!!

One thing that turns me off about women... Are the ones that are nice to other women that are pretty meaning if you not pretty they won't respect you like seriously

Love this.🤎

Lydia I love your hair! 💖

Lydia 😂😂😂 you love the word 'encroaching' too much

hey,there are this group of women who are like i bought this,i did that,and at that point they truely know you are at your lowest point financially..its really a turn off to me

Amazing episode ☺️😀...Murugi please plug us where you bought that dress ...you look great 😍😍

I once went to an invite an event and I remember we were having a conversation with Foi Wambui....God bless that girl she was trying to know me and literally another influencer came to say hey to her she said to her and immediately strikes a conversation with her as if she didn't even realize I was there and Mark you this babe the first time she held A Brunch event me and a friend of mine whom they are tight went to support her and this was second time she was ignoring me .....imagine i just unfollwed her instantly......upcoming influencers such as me in events people don't take us seriously but what I know tomorrow we might need to work together do you think I will reciprocate the same energy???

@aokookello5564

Жыл бұрын

Wait until you become big, they'll be all over your DM. Mimi when I go for those celebrity events, I focus on the food and drinks. Some of them can treat you lower than 🗑️

@lifewithallets

Жыл бұрын

@@aokookello5564 it is soo wrong coz you don't know where you will meet me tomorrow and the energy you gave me will be the same I will give to you.

When y’all whispered I heard the name you mentioned LOOOOL

@noellerume6633

Жыл бұрын

I thought I did too lol..but I really enjoyed the episode kama kawa

Murugi - Absolutely, Lydia -100 percent.

@tmipodcastke

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@Linda.Maingi

Жыл бұрын

​@@tmipodcastke and goodnight 😂😂

I want the green dresssss

Am watching this episode on a different place but that energy of people not keeping the plans like cancel if you won't appear

💕💞⭐✨ favourite session 💖

*boundaries are about frequency!

I LOVE YOU GUYSSSSSS

Murugi your word is " Exactly' since yummy mummy days

Mean girl energy - I have experienced it with co-workers. Negativity I cant deal

Lydia will always say.. Guess Wha'... in her accent and now when im passionately advising my problematic friends lazima niseme... guess wha'

I am properly drunk from taking a shot every time you said “I feel LIKE”…so to answer the both of you, like is your word collectively

Eish This One Definitely Brought Out Y'all's TRUE Personalities To Life..STOP SHOUTING..WE BELIEVE YOU!!! 😂😂 #ThePassion

Lid says "good night " pretty often.

mean girl energy giving kindergarten immediately yuck🙄

@mercykwamboka_

Жыл бұрын

Eeeww🤢

joan the word/saying that you always use is 'you know, kind of thing' and know IVE STARTED SAYING IT. lmaoo its giving trend setter!🤣