But murugi really has pretty eyes

@thealuway

8 ай бұрын

I agree💯

@Journal.TheFaith

8 ай бұрын

I totally agree 😍

@annkariuki2236

8 ай бұрын

Totally 💯

@NimoNjoroge

8 ай бұрын

💯🔥

@Pink_dots

8 ай бұрын

Murugi has many pretty features. Her smile too, she has nice teeth😍

SUBSCRIBE ❗️🤗

Lydia's comment about rewatching girlfriends reminds me of something i came across... that people with anxious attachment styles like rewatching shows coz it gives them a sense of ease, coz they know what will happen next in the shows and how it will end

@wacekewanjoroge6679

8 ай бұрын

Oh wow that’s a very interesting point..makes so damn sense.

Lol, It’s Lydia realising there are avoidant women 😂 and as a representative of the avoidants, waahh si mlitukujia hii episode, si pole bas 😢 It’s just easier to switch off our emotions and go into robot mode to avoid hurt, it’s self preservation, we are really just scared little kittens on the inside 😅

My hot take is that men are just naturally worse at sustaining relationships. And I say this as a man who understands how patriarchy can isolate and distance a man from his own emotions. Where women will have close and intimate relationships with other women through out their life, (male friendships are not intimate or vulnerable 9 times out of 10) most men will never experience emotional and intimate relationships outside of their romantic ones. This makes it almost emotionally overwhelming to deal with another human being in this way especially if you weren't in any meaningful relationships prior. (Also why most men have avoidant attachment) This is why a lot of relationships end because the man was being distant and seemingly uninterested a few months down the line; which, in my opinion, is sparked by "burn out" from having to be vulnerable so often, having to look after another person's mental well being, and other stuff that are easy to do when you're in love. But fade after the honeymoon phase where that emotional inexperience starts to show. This can be overcome of course with therapy, self reflection, and a healthy growth mindset (measures I've taken myself) and may be less common than I lead on but I feel is true from my experiences and observations. Keep up the good content, you two are inspiring.

@magdalinekinyanjui404

8 ай бұрын

Wow this is quite an elaborate explanation.

@gracethuku4555

8 ай бұрын

I looove this. You breaking many generational issues by working on being better.

@PhyllisWaithera-pq6fp

8 ай бұрын

A self aware man, and we love to see and hear it!

@carolinenjoroge1195

8 ай бұрын

Does this have anything to do with how men are raised?I want to do better for my son

@gracethuku4555

8 ай бұрын

@@carolinenjoroge1195 yes. socialization is the key to change. Like allow him to express himself and listen. Teach him that feelings and emotions are felt by all humans.

“Red flags aren’t red flags if they’re what’s familiar” I needed to pause after that one!😮‍💨😮‍💨

@esthermulu1229

8 ай бұрын

Expound please

@jama3645

8 ай бұрын

@@esthermulu1229 If, for example, you grew up in a toxic or abusive home, you would be more likely to accept the same from a friend or partner in the future because you think that behavior is okay and normal.

This video is an hour long but I watched it for maybe an hour and 20min because i had to repeat so many good points. Yall are easy to watch and listen. In fact let me repeat some of your episodes whilst i wait for the next.

@ndutamaryhilda

8 ай бұрын

I knowwwwwwwwwwwww me toooo

@misscarey

8 ай бұрын

I always rewatch their love letters on SNS podcast,that was a real bomb!! Its my 10th time watching that and ain't deleting that soon❤This two women are everything foshoo🎉❤

Am 21 years old but am learning my worth through this show..you ladies are like sisters I have never had..love your make up and outfits💥

Who else feels like time is flying, literally 😅 unafumba kufungua macho wiki imeisha 😂 Anyway it's good coz it feels like Wednesday isn't that far away 😊❤

Everytime I told this son of pharaoh 'I love you' he just smiled...one day I brought it up and asked why he never says it back and he responded ' but I don't hate you'....I just left....praying so hard I don't go for closure😂

@joycemburu8041

8 ай бұрын

Am a lady who responds that way when someone tells me the same. Especially from a man and we are not dating.

@carolinenjoroge1195

8 ай бұрын

Whaaat even a random stranger says I love you😂😂😂

@nancychege6777

6 ай бұрын

You don't tell a man you love him first dear

Love the lighting in this video, its giving 🥰

@tmipodcastke

8 ай бұрын

Oh thank you❤️

@isfaith.

8 ай бұрын

quality 🤌🏾

@isfaith.

8 ай бұрын

quality 🤌🏾

Despite having anxious attachment style and my man having avoidant, we compliment each other in the sense that, we are aware of our traumas and are working towards being better versions of ourselves. Sometimes it doesn't even feel like I am that anxious anymore or him avoidant. Thanks to Lydia and therapist Jeff, we had some of those serious conversations before, and I had my bare minimums....especially emotional security and how he treats me.

Such a good episode 😊You ladies are everything amazing.

Episode 111🎉 We thank God for TMI ❤

Thank you so much for this beautiful episode girls .. 💗💗

the test says am a disorganized fearful avoidant😪😪yawa

We always love love it here❤️❤️... The host looking good as usual . And yes today I've learnt my attachment style through the link you guys shared below. I'm Team Secure💯 .

Only discovered you and love your podcast. 2 young ladies with alot of great advice. Well done you 2. You're doing a great job

That colour looks so good on you murugi ❤

Hey Queens looking gorgeous😍Lunch breaks are for TMI❤️

Lyd is making murugi think about he relationship even more this avoidant and secure attachment styles hits her deep down

Definitely taking the test. Interesting. Thank you for sharing the link

Love this ❤..love your intro❤

Im inlove with Lydia's outfit ❤

Definitely TMIIII 🎶💃🏿. Quick recovery Lyd❤. Love that lilac colour on Murugi🔥. I love how we are redefining some as Bare Minimum😅. Standards raised🥂😎.

You ladies are hilarious😂. Love.

OMGGGG!!! I loveeee The new intro This might be my favourite episode And its episode 111 I love it

Paused to just come and acknowledge that Murugi & Lydia's edges are giving life!!!!!! Now back to video

I think anxious are attracted to avoidants because in the beginning, avoidants give cool, calm, collected vibes that anxious attachers crave. It gives stability

@makena2783

8 ай бұрын

This is actually true. I have realised most Avoidants are attractive because they give quiet, chilled vibes. You are actually right😮

@paulinemacharia8415

5 ай бұрын

Damn! This is true100%

Love you all❤

Yes that part on going for holiday and not having the impulse to post. I'm with you on that

This was hilarious and also eye opening since we are single 😂😂aki my man

Murugi I loved your makeup. So on point

It's my birthday but I have been waiting for this episode like my life depends on it🤣🤣🤣Best birthday gift.

@PaulineMwangi-dc9xm

8 ай бұрын

Happy birthday 🎉

@floicenyota8656

8 ай бұрын

Me too sis😂😂 Happy Birthday dear🎉🎉🎉 Blessings

@rachelwamwere2275

8 ай бұрын

Happy birthday! 🎉

@preciousosia6835

8 ай бұрын

Happy Birthday🎉

@tmipodcastke

8 ай бұрын

Happy birthday, so honoured you get to enjoy this episode today ❤️

am a new follower here and am loving it 😂❤you guys are so real

Thank you for letting know my attachment style

Do we really have to wait till nextweek😢😭loved this episode ❤

I really needed this session 😂😂thanks

It's great discovering my attachment style as secure

I am this old to learn about my attachment style. Thank you gals. The love for TMI glows and grows

These days I just download. I don't even watch online anymore. I want to take it all in! Like a nice cup of coffee.

😂😂😂,not the little " herpe"😂😂😂 am on the floor,,,,Lyd soo funyy....im definitely getting my bar high with every episode too 💯💯

Here for my weekly dosage😊😊🤗

Am a new member to this channel and am glad to be here . Watching each episode is enlightening me to be better for me .i love what you ladies are doing keep it up.

I the jiggling before starting when I saw "he loves you if "😍

I loooove this episode, because it shines more light on the quality of a relationship. Even if a man doesn't necessarily do things that show that he hates you, it is more beneficial to know whether he actually loves you through these signs that you have given in the episode.

"If you don't love us just say ,so that we can block you😂😂😂" we love you big sisters❤

You r such an encouraging soul,,, from Lyn show

Always waiting for Wednesdays❤🤗

Anytime❤❤❤

Always waiting for Wednesday❤

The last last chapati waahhhhh🤣🤣🤣🤣That's true love right there

I always sing with you guys tmiiiiiiiiii❤😅😂 content is on firee

Wow🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 You guys mentioned my comment. I love you guys

I LOOOOOOOVE it here!🥰

Re-watching...i really need to.. this show is👌

What a way to end 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Murugi umeguza wengi

Waiting for next episode upload🥳🥳

My man for sure loves me❤

Murugi is sooo perfect 😭😭

😍Wednesdays are definitely for TMI😘 I LOVE EVERY EPISODE

@tmipodcastke

8 ай бұрын

Glad you love them!Wednesdays are definitely TMI trademarked😂

Yassssssssssss🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤... I love the duo and I thought they should know it ! ❤❤❤❤

@tmipodcastke

8 ай бұрын

Thank you,we love you too❤️

My take home from this episode....alooooot 🤗😍☺

When is government allocation security to these two treasures ? Murugi and Lyd ♥️♥️

The shade in this episode 😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂 the bar is higher than your man bringing you water 😢😂

@riyahshamar2222

8 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

The parting shot😂😂😂

I normally take like 2hrs watching tmi coz I have to rewind till my mind processes but this one I'll watch twice for sure

@charitykareh

8 ай бұрын

Lol 😂 thought I was the only one who usually rewinds their videos they are so informative.

@LadyPosh_254

8 ай бұрын

@@charitykareh it seems tuko wengi 😜

@amandawambui8063

8 ай бұрын

Tuko wengi🎉😂

@kazmorich

8 ай бұрын

I find myself rewinding too so it can sink in

@irenenjeri7523

8 ай бұрын

We are doing this together sis.....

It's a mystery how I watch TMI for 3hrs and it's originally for 1 hr😮😮😅but I'm always posing and taking notes literally 😂😂😂😂

A single babe here,will be back to give reasons of how "my man " loves me😂prayers queen betweeners

"Those who don't trust,control" wuuuueh

Needed this 😅..love from Uganda❤

@JackieBirungi-eq7le

8 ай бұрын

Am here too from uganda 😍 love u ladies

Yoh !!!just the other weekend his friends were like we've never seen him like this😂😂

Murugi is so beautiful ❤️

Am loving TMI,.....BEST PODCAST 💪keep up girls am in my 20's am learning and unlearning........🙏

"Don't come here telling us he loves just because he brought a glass of water "😂😂 Murugi u are an attacker😂😂😂 jokingly

My friend introduced me to TMI and I'm obsessed!!!!!!!!!!! My standard are on top rynooww can't even lie..... Its funny since I learned a lot of things I didn't know about myself and I'm not experiencing some things alone ,,,,like oooow woowww!!!!!!!!!!!

But surely Lydia 😂😂😂😂😂😂aty the quality of heerr husband

I agree with Murugi about sex in marriage...the pleasure after marriage can ease things into conversation. Also duty! Because he has to be dutiful ama?

Day made ,😍😍! Also is no one talking about the disorganized attachment style? 👀

@TotBou

8 ай бұрын

I know right?,, i just took a test and found out i have disorganised attachment style😢😢💔

Love what Murugi says. I also want to talk about things or know when to talk about them and solve them. When dating I was an avoidant but after marriage, you don’t want to be mad for days .

Who else loves this new intro😍

Did the quiz and am secured I felt good. Hahaha

These episodes make every Wednesday special

@tmipodcastke

8 ай бұрын

Aaaw🤧🤗Thank you.

That 'wasilipe tu' took me out🤣🤣🤣🤣

I've been in situations where a guy I'm dating is jealous of how I talk about my dad. I'm still young, so I hope I'll figure it out and keep my husband to be first. I'm extremely sapiosexual, Murugi I feel it, trust me I've stayed in a toxic relationship coz the guy was so smart. He lacked emotional intelligence though ...pure madness

As for us, we are just there

yeeey🥳🥳

I'm an avoidant, my man is secure. He is absolutely amazing! and being with him brings me closer to being secure...They exist for sure...but a rare breed... I value him deeply.

My weekly dosage is here 🎉🎉❤

@tmipodcastke

8 ай бұрын

Enjoy💕

I'm here and I can't even relate a thing.😅

Wednesday class in session. let's nduthis!!!!

@tmipodcastke

8 ай бұрын

Let's gerrit🤎

hoping to see "she loves you if" version :>

Inbetweener reporting for duty! From Zimbabwe

@tmipodcastke

8 ай бұрын

Enjoy this one hun🔥

@chidoshayanowako8776

8 ай бұрын

Yaay fellow Zimbabwean inbetweener

Its murugi😂. 5 page power point presentation for only 300. Asaol😂😂 .. it's tough.. " What my baby wants, my baby gets" ( if he is capable) Thats the theme ❤

@millicentwanja2579

8 ай бұрын

I laughed so hard...murugi can be hilarious 😂

Lyd's Outfit 😍😍😍😍😍 puurrrr

I knew my husband was the one when he stood up for me when his friend was being racist in my abscess...

Y'all are looking freeeeeeshhh

@tmipodcastke

8 ай бұрын

Thank you bebs❤️

I'm a secure beb 😚😚 but with an anxious default 😢

"am I a spoon or fork to you"😂😂😂

Lyd is so funny 😂