Things We Learnt While Being Single | Our Journeys in Singleness ft Jules and Lydia K M- Part One

Hello BKS lovers! Welcome to season two of The Best Kept Secret Podcast. On this episode Jules, Lydia and our host Sharon share their Best Kept Secrets on things they've learnt while being single and what their journeys in singleness looked like.
Please share YOUR best kept secret on singleness in the comment section.
Thank you for watching.

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  • @kikimonied
    @kikimonied11 ай бұрын

    Jules ,sharon and lydia is definitely the trio i never knew i needed omg.I've subscribed immediately Someone to like this comment so i can come back and watch

  • @njambi9262
    @njambi926211 ай бұрын

    Wherever Jules and Lydia go , I follow 😌❤️❤️

  • @albertinaallan5751

    @albertinaallan5751

    11 ай бұрын

    I second you😅

  • @carol76798

    @carol76798

    11 ай бұрын

    And to think I wouldn't have "known" them were it not for social media😂

  • @RebeccaKimanzi-qi9cf

    @RebeccaKimanzi-qi9cf

    11 ай бұрын

    I third you ❤❤❤

  • @brendankatha7035

    @brendankatha7035

    11 ай бұрын

    Me too ❤

  • @maman_moon

    @maman_moon

    2 ай бұрын

    So be me❤

  • @Judysheilak
    @Judysheilak11 ай бұрын

    Learing that you are enough by yourself is not just for single people. I feel like even in a relationship you need to find peace at being yourself first and never loose that.

  • @HadithiAfricanTales
    @HadithiAfricanTales11 ай бұрын

    Only Jesus can really fill that 'hole'. Everything else is temporary and superficial. I've been single for 10 years and God has kept me.

  • @joycenyawira7841

    @joycenyawira7841

    11 ай бұрын

    Truth!

  • @damarlswanjlru6935

    @damarlswanjlru6935

    11 ай бұрын

    😮😮and do you flirt

  • @ichooseviolence2532

    @ichooseviolence2532

    10 ай бұрын

    Danganya maasai

  • @HadithiAfricanTales

    @HadithiAfricanTales

    10 ай бұрын

    @@damarlswanjlru6935 no. To be clear I didn't intentionally choose it to be 10 years but that's what's happened. I'm 31, I believe by virtue of being single and celibate these last 10 years, I've avoided a lot of recklessness that comes with the age between 20-30 as you discover who you are. Haven't had to take contraception, worry about pregnancy and STIs, no baby daddy drama and not to mention soul ties. I'd say in many ways,I have been spared a lot. I'm a Christian so that informed my decision. My initial decision was to keep myself until marriage and it still is. Of course I see others get married and have kids and want that too but I want it the right way, the God way. So I'm enjoying my singlehood working on myself(that's something else I noticed was lacking in my previous relationship. I experienced trauma as a child and kept putting that burden on my partner. I'm still healing but in a much better place than I was before.) I've made peace with my decision and if I don't get married, although I do desire a Godly union, there's so many children that deserve love and I will adopt. However, even within that I will maintain my celibacy journey because I obey God and it has never failed me. As a Christian I've come to learn that anytime you obey God, you gain more than you lose and that's how I intend to live.

  • @carolinenjoroge1195

    @carolinenjoroge1195

    6 ай бұрын

    💯💯💯

  • @carolinemukundi4918
    @carolinemukundi491811 ай бұрын

    I love Jules..she is very authentic,Lydia ❤ she has good energy...wisdom..

  • @muthonithejoy
    @muthonithejoy11 ай бұрын

    This didn't feel like a podcast episode but a conversation among friends. This was lovely,can't wait for part 2❤

  • @lulukibaaraTUSONGEVIRISKY-TV
    @lulukibaaraTUSONGEVIRISKY-TV11 ай бұрын

    ❤Feeling enough feels like a tree that produces apples and other people benefit by plucking the apples and eating them. If you were a tree, what are you producing? If nothing, check your soil, climate etc, not another tree. Hope that makes sense to whoever needs it. On cheating...it's just a concept, if you buy a tap for your kitchen and it gets spoilt, replace it, if you don't you'll get dehydrated. So some men and women cheat to fill their cup, they don't want to fix their tap...on that note, you can't fill someone fully, they have to fill themselves first. That's what being enough is to my level of understwnsing. Unlearning alot of those things we learnt is the work.

  • @mailcomtechnologies6848
    @mailcomtechnologies684810 ай бұрын

    This good conversion. Being single is not easier thing.i lost my wife and it has not been easier but i thank God I am born again. God will led me to right person suitable wife for me .

  • @talkthetalkwithmelody
    @talkthetalkwithmelody11 ай бұрын

    Jules and Lydia should start up a podcast❤️❤️❤️what a combo goodjob🎉

  • @mytinylittlechannel
    @mytinylittlechannel11 ай бұрын

    I loved it here. Thank you Sharon K ❤. Lydia my darling, always a pleasure! Jules xo

  • @user-ez7yx3ot9c

    @user-ez7yx3ot9c

    11 ай бұрын

    We stan you Jules

  • @NeemaKamwana-qs8bg
    @NeemaKamwana-qs8bg11 ай бұрын

    I don't know how to act😍😍😍my favs on one single episodee😭❤Goooddddd !

  • @sandrakinta1285

    @sandrakinta1285

    11 ай бұрын

    And you aren't alone

  • @Sharon_Njoki.M

    @Sharon_Njoki.M

    11 ай бұрын

    Immediately yes ❤

  • @carol76798

    @carol76798

    11 ай бұрын

    Saaaaame😭😭😭❤❤❤

  • @elleakenya

    @elleakenya

    11 ай бұрын

    I know right 🤗

  • @lucymwai7540

    @lucymwai7540

    11 ай бұрын

    You're not alone

  • @lilianjerikamau
    @lilianjerikamau11 ай бұрын

    I am 26 and I relate so much to Julia. In a job I don't love and so lonely but I'm so adamant on quality over quantity

  • @edinahkendi9871

    @edinahkendi9871

    11 ай бұрын

    It's gonna be okay hunny

  • @fidelisasunta3974

    @fidelisasunta3974

    11 ай бұрын

    @liliankamau5164 I understand what you mean. I just got a new job a few months ago and Imposter syndrome has been real. So i have been feeling so down and lonely since I moved to a new town. To make it worse I am going through a break up. So in short I know what you mean but i believe it gets easy with time.

  • @racykamau2394

    @racykamau2394

    11 ай бұрын

    Girl i know what you mean and i feel you, i am 25 i got pregnant at 23 went through a shitty break up and had bed rest most of my pregnancy i had to move back to my parents and completely depend on them.. now am approaching twenty six trying to figure out what the hell i want to do with my life and watching everyone else "win" in life

  • @gracewangari2073

    @gracewangari2073

    11 ай бұрын

    You define me some years back

  • @Cynthia-Moses

    @Cynthia-Moses

    11 ай бұрын

    Are all the 25 and 26-year-olds in the same boat? Cause I'm here too, feels like I'm moving but not getting anywhere! Sigh.

  • @joycegachua2524
    @joycegachua25249 ай бұрын

    @28 the feeling of loneliness is a real giant. Self-doubt,,sleepless nights, tears ,,but then again realising that it is a phase that will eventually come to an end keeps me moving

  • @whitneymorrah9108
    @whitneymorrah910811 ай бұрын

    Jules and lydia should be friends

  • @lilywhite8029

    @lilywhite8029

    11 ай бұрын

    Infact they should have a podcast. They are so similar

  • @Awinomoraa

    @Awinomoraa

    11 ай бұрын

    I really love Lydia and Jules together do something for us girls

  • @annemi428

    @annemi428

    11 ай бұрын

    Rich conversations.

  • @brendagitonga8040

    @brendagitonga8040

    11 ай бұрын

    Yes please

  • @muthonimaina7998

    @muthonimaina7998

    11 ай бұрын

    They are great friends❤

  • @mums1992
    @mums199211 ай бұрын

    Educative and relatable conversation. No to idolizing marriage no matter our age.

  • @Ruethamy
    @Ruethamy11 ай бұрын

    lydia with jules in one episode😍😍😍

  • @user-ug7fn2uq6g
    @user-ug7fn2uq6g11 ай бұрын

    Anywhere Jules is...is where my heart is. Amazing conversation Ladies!

  • @michelle7226

    @michelle7226

    11 ай бұрын

    Yesss team jules

  • @DeDollyshow
    @DeDollyshow11 ай бұрын

    Where ever I see lydia, I pause everything and watch, you ladies look stunning

  • @wangecikabugi1489
    @wangecikabugi148911 ай бұрын

    I am not currently single , but I appreciate your insight. Somethings I did when single and I agree being content when single and knowing it's a season is the cream of the cake .

  • @diananyambura5872
    @diananyambura587211 ай бұрын

    Sharon gives me pretty queen quiet confidence 😍. Like angelic Jules is just good vibezz period, Lydia is vibes and also like a very good friend 😊. Love love this podcast

  • @hinesightmind
    @hinesightmind11 ай бұрын

    My way of showing myself love is going out on solo dates i rewrite my goals,tick goals achieved.. enjoy good food, ...take good pics.. some days solo movie dates.

  • @kaveytheteacher

    @kaveytheteacher

    11 ай бұрын

    Woow i should try this

  • @daisykoskei9711
    @daisykoskei971111 ай бұрын

    Where Jules is,i am there! ni kama aliniwekea juju🤣🤣🤣

  • @carol76798

    @carol76798

    11 ай бұрын

    Mee tooooo🔥🔥🔥

  • @estherrimi2777

    @estherrimi2777

    11 ай бұрын

    Me too😅

  • @GsKitchenandMore

    @GsKitchenandMore

    11 ай бұрын

    Same😂😂😂😂😂

  • @faithomudho7281
    @faithomudho728111 ай бұрын

    I'm in the journey of singleness, and it needs a lot of commitment and discipline for you to find alone time, self-worth, self-love, and feel enough for oneself. Thank you ladies

  • @melissagitts
    @melissagitts11 ай бұрын

    I 100% related to this particular conversation The base of one allowing themselves get to the point of choosing aloneness/loneliness is never to get ourselves into something that will cost our peace of mind..and generally put our authenticity to jerpody We dont need to be fully healed to be in our next relationship, is such a game changer!

  • @jcm_r
    @jcm_r11 ай бұрын

    Jules, you have been my compass in the whole psychology/soul-searching and healing journey for a while now. I just want to say a big thank you to you.

  • @shanealnixon6802
    @shanealnixon680211 ай бұрын

    Can't wait for part two🎉🎉This is wholesome!

  • @brigidkashoi8847
    @brigidkashoi884711 ай бұрын

    Thank you for bringing Jules and Lydia.

  • @tiktoktrendingke
    @tiktoktrendingke11 ай бұрын

    Currently @23yrs old and your podcast has definitely impacted my future positively ❤ realising that I have the power to heal is the greates gift one can get

  • @nauyomamekondjo1382
    @nauyomamekondjo138211 ай бұрын

    The best of Lydia and Jules. I feel healed coz it's like this conversation is for me.

  • @anna.ke.
    @anna.ke.10 ай бұрын

    I just love how they do not "perfectualize" their life,we all are definitely a work in progress....thank you for doing this

  • @risperkariuki1459
    @risperkariuki145911 ай бұрын

    So amazingly to hear that authentic second point. I grew up without the extreme edification of marriage. I recently discovered that the whole concept of how marriage is like the" it" for a woman... Was learned in church/religion. Spiritual women really get it good on this one.

  • @racykamau2394
    @racykamau239411 ай бұрын

    i love Lydia's wisdom.. Julia, i love her authentic self and how much i learn from her,😍😍 great work sharon

  • @cathymartina7888
    @cathymartina788811 ай бұрын

    In a relationship, and I loved every single second of this. Woow, such gems, so beautiful. Thank you girls🎉

  • @patriciamwaura5859
    @patriciamwaura585911 ай бұрын

    I wholly embrace such wholesome meaningful insightful conversations.... Thank you for sharing and being authentic in the process! ❤❤

  • @gacoki
    @gacoki11 ай бұрын

    Can't take my eyes off Lydia's jacket ❤❤❤

  • @deekmuninga
    @deekmuninga11 ай бұрын

    Great conversation! Love love it! Came for Jules and Lydia and I loved it!!! Watching from Uganda.🇺🇬

  • @Blozae_
    @Blozae_11 ай бұрын

    It was my first time coming across your channel. I enjoyed the conversation, it is relatable and I can’t wait for part 2😊. 🇿🇦

  • @nosicelosivuka8366
    @nosicelosivuka836611 ай бұрын

    Powerful discussion, educational and eye opening. I like the fact that you share things that are hardly shared because we are scared of disgrace from our communities, I can relate to a lot of what you discussed.

  • @melissakiplagat9611
    @melissakiplagat961111 ай бұрын

    This was a whole therapy session!!! Can't wait for part 2.

  • @teresandonj6835
    @teresandonj683511 ай бұрын

    I love Jules. Jules, I love ya! Also, this is very wholesome.

  • @missinjairu1448
    @missinjairu144811 ай бұрын

    We are here for this ❤️ thank you for bringing Jules and Lydia these two are just wholesome.

  • @elizabethwambui8160

    @elizabethwambui8160

    11 ай бұрын

    @sharon ,Jules and Lyd loved loved this episode.

  • @PaulineMwangi-dc9xm

    @PaulineMwangi-dc9xm

    11 ай бұрын

    ​ 39:45

  • @PaulineMwangi-dc9xm

    @PaulineMwangi-dc9xm

    11 ай бұрын

  • @PaulineMwangi-dc9xm

    @PaulineMwangi-dc9xm

    11 ай бұрын

    39:53

  • @lizlilly3246
    @lizlilly324611 ай бұрын

    And over 25 which is on a break 😭😭 ❤️❤️

  • @ashleey9754
    @ashleey975411 ай бұрын

    Best kept secret combo!!! These three are gold!!!

  • @ataraatenya5635
    @ataraatenya563511 ай бұрын

    Jules....girl you are so underrated...Am giving you your flowers, shine. Lydia has great energy

  • @sharonkendi356
    @sharonkendi35611 ай бұрын

    this was amazing. A girl was taking notes! Looking forward to part two

  • @muchirinjoki7332
    @muchirinjoki733211 ай бұрын

    I totally relate with Jules....human connection is so important

  • @LifeIsGood49
    @LifeIsGood4911 ай бұрын

    All the way from South Africa, thanks for this video @Sharon. Such an incredible video n being exposed to the incredible guests.

  • @vanessanderu2016
    @vanessanderu201611 ай бұрын

    This was soooo insightful. 👏👏👏 Cannot wait for Part 2.

  • @bethndungu5693
    @bethndungu569310 ай бұрын

    You've written the end before you even know if they are fit the course!!! I'm mindblown ❤❤

  • @bonabanamay
    @bonabanamay11 ай бұрын

    Ugandan here ,loved this session ,very relatable ,informative ,and even inspirational about embracing one own company

  • @annmimo37
    @annmimo3711 ай бұрын

    Very insightful and fun ,I always enjoy Jules energy❤thank you.

  • @quiniannjambi
    @quiniannjambi11 ай бұрын

    Today's podcast was full of wisdom 🔥🔥🔥✨. Thank you ladies 🥰🥰🥰.

  • @_Sevanne_
    @_Sevanne_11 ай бұрын

    so much wisdom in just one video !! ❤❤

  • @ruthwanjiru9034
    @ruthwanjiru903410 ай бұрын

    This is soo good,loved it Jules, Lydia following you religiously where you go ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sharonjepchumba2547
    @sharonjepchumba254711 ай бұрын

    And two of my favourites are here Amazing times here today

  • @anitarita7754
    @anitarita775410 ай бұрын

    This felt so therapeutic and such an eye opener!

  • @EasyAcess
    @EasyAcess11 ай бұрын

    Enjoyed the show!!! Indeed as a woman you need to figure out your self worth and what does self love look like to you before you betray yourself.

  • @matildasang1138
    @matildasang113811 ай бұрын

    What Jules said is true. A healthy relationship can help guide you heal in so many ways. As much as therapy can be useful you still need some training ground to see if you've truly healed.

  • @shiru_njogu
    @shiru_njogu2 ай бұрын

    When love finds me again, l want it to find me submerged in my own love....Lydiaaa😢😢

  • @phoebethambu2674
    @phoebethambu267411 ай бұрын

    Wonderful episode Sharon💗 Podcasts are genius.. we really are so similar as humans and I appreciate the wisdom from these sisters🫶🏾

  • @jacquemwemathecoach
    @jacquemwemathecoach11 ай бұрын

    Before i was betrayed i betrayed myself 😮 So true...

  • @lucynduta6272
    @lucynduta627211 ай бұрын

    Best idea ever.. Lydia and Jules 😍😍

  • @muthonii162
    @muthonii16211 ай бұрын

    Favs in one video😍 Definatelyy here for it!

  • @michelle7226
    @michelle722611 ай бұрын

    Jules & Lydia should start something together ❤️

  • @rita_mutheu
    @rita_mutheu11 ай бұрын

    I loved loved this episode 💗

  • @milkahkarera-lv4vf
    @milkahkarera-lv4vf11 ай бұрын

    Wow what a beautiful story. You are a strong woman. Congratulations. May the Lil one grow to be loved by God and man

  • @nancyjerotich8326
    @nancyjerotich832611 ай бұрын

    I like the part that you guys talk about responsibility I have been blaming others but from now I'll be taking responsibility.thanks girls your the best 💗🥰💯

  • @keshymacharia5204
    @keshymacharia520411 ай бұрын

    Waiting for part two❤.. learning alot

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz282111 ай бұрын

    Yhoo! All my faves #Lyd❤ and #Jules❤ in same session. I know I'm gonna enjoy this one😎😅. Good vibes🔥🔥.

  • @jaelmulovi1615
    @jaelmulovi161511 ай бұрын

    Just what I needed today. Very educative😊

  • @rachelwamwere2275
    @rachelwamwere227511 ай бұрын

    This was so beautiful to listen to. I definitely will re-listen

  • @jeniferaswine4370
    @jeniferaswine437011 ай бұрын

    This is top tier explicit 💥💯💕...love y'all ❤️ ❤️❤️

  • @lilac8794
    @lilac879411 ай бұрын

    This is the best podcast in Africa

  • @Figuringitout101
    @Figuringitout10110 ай бұрын

    That part where Lydia related being chosen as proof of worthiness just answered an existential question that I've been grappling with.

  • @prettysoul096
    @prettysoul09611 ай бұрын

    Definitely here for Jules

  • @wangechigathii
    @wangechigathii10 ай бұрын

    Currently in this alone phase and I appreciate your insights to this Will really help a bunch 🙏

  • @wambuigitau280
    @wambuigitau28011 ай бұрын

    Jules growth on rshps...and love for Self ❤...Lydia is on another level! Deep ❤

  • @vanessanyaruai9911
    @vanessanyaruai991111 ай бұрын

    Such an insightful conversation. I loved this episoide🥰

  • @diariesofpinky
    @diariesofpinky11 ай бұрын

    Such a wholesome conversation ❤️love love this

  • @naomionyango4280
    @naomionyango428011 ай бұрын

    I really enjoyed this episode ❤️🤗

  • @kawaa1234
    @kawaa123411 ай бұрын

    Woooow, discovering yourself is the first step before relationship

  • @catherinetheuri2346
    @catherinetheuri234611 ай бұрын

    This episode was bomb!!!

  • @estellemuthoni
    @estellemuthoni11 ай бұрын

    Such a wholesome conversation👌👌, also the three of you can launch another podcast 😊

  • @patty161
    @patty16111 ай бұрын

    This is very insightful. Thank you guys❤

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu246111 ай бұрын

    Am new in this channel 😊and am already loving this 🎉sharon you're soo audible and clear ❤i love that

  • @itsmusaN
    @itsmusaN11 ай бұрын

    Watching this podcast for the first time, I must say I'm here to stay...interesting indeed ❤

  • @julietmacharia5825
    @julietmacharia58256 ай бұрын

    This was amazing,have really learned more and most of the things have discovered about myself and working on them. Thanks so much .

  • @ilukolwinnie952
    @ilukolwinnie95211 ай бұрын

    This is beautiful and authentic ❤

  • @amutuheirenina6178
    @amutuheirenina617811 ай бұрын

    Your hair looks good 😍😍 Sharon!

  • @tracyjepkoech5996
    @tracyjepkoech599611 ай бұрын

    This is amazing💯

  • @esthernyaga9656
    @esthernyaga965611 ай бұрын

    Love this and I can relate to so much of this conversation😊

  • @ludza32
    @ludza3211 ай бұрын

    Such an eye opener conversation

  • @_wawira
    @_wawira11 ай бұрын

    This is awesomely intense!!😊

  • @janiceasero4134
    @janiceasero413411 ай бұрын

    A great wholesome episode!😍❤

  • @belindamelvine2133
    @belindamelvine213311 ай бұрын

    The two are just🥰🥰the best and thanks for sharing this with us

  • @brendamoraa7556
    @brendamoraa755611 ай бұрын

    I rarely comment but this episode wow just wow ,thanks manze for sharing this

  • @brendahmuriuki8328
    @brendahmuriuki832810 ай бұрын

    Totally loved the whole conversation

  • @vanessamuhanga3617
    @vanessamuhanga361711 ай бұрын

    Learning a lot from you guys especially now with my broken heart 😢

  • @clarakimeto3270
    @clarakimeto327011 ай бұрын

    Love love this episode

  • @kimkardicey
    @kimkardicey11 ай бұрын

    Loved this so much❤️

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