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@knowahnosenothing4862

25 күн бұрын

SAVAGES!

@spencerburke3752

25 күн бұрын

SAVAGES!!

@jasonu3741

24 күн бұрын

It makes sense for guys 10-25, and also for men 55-80 but the average man 25-40 having 2 "guy nights" a week would probably end up dead if it was only done in person. because at some point one of the guys is going to suggest something wildly fun, but also wildly dangerous and from 25-40 is 15 years at 2 nights a week thats 1,590 outings atleast 90 of those outings will be near death and if 10% of that is fatal thats 9 times they probably got themselves or a bro killed.

I'm a father, 45 years old with 2 young daughters. Both my wife and i work full time, we barely get time to tread water with all the household chores etc. My best mate who was best man at our wedding comes over on a Saturday night every 6 weeks or so. He brings his guitar and we sit and have a jam for about 4 hours. This time is so good for me, even though I'm happy with the rest of my life.

@grammaurai6843

25 күн бұрын

That's awesome! And remember that it's good for your kids to see you relaxed and enjoying your hobbies. It lets them see your human side and sets the foundation for the relationship you'll have when they're all grown.

@jasonu3741

24 күн бұрын

It makes sense for guys 10-25, and also for men 55-80 but the average man 25-40 having 2 "guy nights" a week would probably end up dead if it was only done in person. because at some point one of the guys is going to suggest something wildly fun, but also wildly dangerous and from 25-40 is 15 years at 2 nights a week thats 1,590 outings atleast 90 of those outings will be near death and if 10% of that is fatal thats 9 times they probably got themselves or a bro killed.

@chrisdawson9312

23 күн бұрын

@@jasonu3741nahh I feel like after 30 men calm down a bit. Their pre frontal cortexes develop enough that they’re aware of risks in that regard. It could get rowdy don’t get me wrong, get them near a fire and all hell could break loose. But with age comes some responsibility for yourself and your family and I think the average man is smarter than that

My husband has a night a week with his snooker buddies for last 17 years and he rarely misses it. On Sundays he visits a mate for an hour or so and they help each other out with mechanical jobs when needed. It’s healthy and necessary and I encourage it. I have plenty of girl time and we have couples time and our time. 33 yrs of marriage we’ve learnt we don’t have to be joined at the hip to have a solid relationship.

Two guys night out a week doesn't have to be anything crazy. My buddies and I did that for years just through a regular long running Dungeons and Dragons game. Kept us all sane.

@AulisVaara

5 күн бұрын

Twice a week? Damn that's a lot of prep for the DM. I had to limit mine to once every two weeks, just to have enough time to work on the campaign.

@jonrazo7912

5 күн бұрын

@@AulisVaara We were a lot younger. I started playing D&D with school friends when I was around 10. I played with the same group pf friends until I was around 35.

Sadly, most guys are horrible at making and keeping guy friends. The moment the guy gets married, he's gone. Only when he realizes later that he needs his bro's, it's too late, cuz those friends have moved on. Guys need to learn how to have genuine friendships that aren't romantic in nature.

@fujohnson8667

24 күн бұрын

Yep your mates will be the ones picking you up off the floor when she leaves.

I realized that i gravitated towards this 2 night a week deal through luck. From out of highschool until i was in my early 20s, i felt way more socially empty than now. I almost never miss my Thursday night game night online with the guys, or our saturday in person D&D sessions. It feels great and I'm glad to have a wife that supports me in that.

I love how there’s women on here and the first thing they do is “me, me, me” making it about them. How about just listening and realizing the world doesn’t revolve around you.

@tommyrq180

25 күн бұрын

But it does revolve around them. Can’t fix it.

@welshpokerman101

24 күн бұрын

That's because there is latent narcissism in the majority of women these days .

@Planeet-Long

24 күн бұрын

​@@tommyrq180Only in their heads and in those of gynocentric men, not everything is about women. Men can have fun and not think about women.

@rossgossman6530

24 күн бұрын

I read a bumper sticker on the back of a Tesla that read … no wife happy life. He was at the departure drop off at SeaTac.. Seattle. Hmmm ✈️

@user-rn1ws5id8h

23 күн бұрын

Haha sounds like you need a few days off m8

There’s undoubtedly a lot of pressure on men. There’s a lot of pressure on women too. There’s a lot of pressure on relationships. There’s pressure on children. But let’s talk about the bigger problem too. Financial pressures could be somewhat alleviated if we didn’t live in a culture where what you own and image matters. Mental health would improve if we were all weren’t addicted to our phones and screens. Relationship pressures would improve if both people were present and committed to partnership, not their phones. Physical health would improve if our society didn’t keep creating things to make life so easy you don’t have to move. I can control my washing machine from my car for goodness sake. It’s ridiculous. Easy lives make weak people. That’s just a fact. And I’m not saying there aren’t people who have very really difficulties and these solutions don’t apply, there’s definitely more than one crisis situation going on. But let’s go upstream to how we got here in the first place. We mock the old days of gender roles, but families all ate dinner together without a phone and talked. It used to be a village did in fact raise a child, and now you have men and women all alone raising children by themselves without support. We’ve broken down so many systems that helped us all stay healthier in many ways. Women are at the end of their rope now too. It’s so disheartening to sit in a public space and watch humans these days. We are like robots, being controlled by our phones, and what our phones tell us to do, think, and prioritize. It’s time to look up, put down your phone, and face what life really is in front of you and deal with it. Stop running from responsibilities and procrastination.

@FormidableOne

24 күн бұрын

Damn now thats a comment

@WilcoxNotreallythere

24 күн бұрын

​@@FormidableOnethey should go back to School if they wanna write a paper like that! I ain't grading it!

@Go.Bex.

24 күн бұрын

Agreed! One of the best comments I've read on this channel.

@LOGIBEAR01

23 күн бұрын

Shush

I’m single and between work, the gym, family and trying to turn my passion into my career, I barely have enough time to see my friends once a week. It’s pretty delusional for married men to expect 2 nights to themselves each week.

@ivanvidojevic2461

24 күн бұрын

Yeah 2 is too much but once a week seems realistic

@Planeet-Long

24 күн бұрын

When the kids are in bed and when all chores are done.

@pricklycats

24 күн бұрын

​@@Planeet-Long Sleep is one of the most important factors for health though. If your kids go to bed at 8-10pm and wake up at 6-7am for school or whatever that means you're gonna be barely sleeping... and people wonder why less people are having kids lol the math just doesn't add up

I know 0 women who would be okay with 2 nights a week.

@louiswilliamterminator2887

25 күн бұрын

That's why you don't ask and you don't negotiate

@CG-fx9bl

25 күн бұрын

My wife is fine with it :D

@Kris.G

24 күн бұрын

That's okay, you only know a handful anyway.

@Killllian

24 күн бұрын

I know 0 women.

@Kris.G

24 күн бұрын

@@Killllian women aren't real anyway

I met up with some friends back from uni on Monday. Tomorrow, I'm having some friends round for board games. This week I am sorted!

If she takes 2-3 hours to get ready to go somewhere she can wait 2-3 hours for me to play some mf video games in my free time.

@wills9732

25 күн бұрын

you have already lost if you are engaging in negotiations like this.

@imdevzii

25 күн бұрын

@@wills9732 it’s not a negotiation though, it’s my time to relax. I can spend 2-3 hours a day doing something I love and enjoy if she can do something she loves and enjoys.

@adrian-dragosbalaban6401

24 күн бұрын

​@@wills9732 yeah, I'd just bail if I ever needed to have these stupid conversations again

@Planeet-Long

24 күн бұрын

Just marry a tomboy, they put on random clothes from their wardrobe and don't wear make-up, it's such a relief to be with a tomboy... Until she starts complaining that you take too long to get ready... 😒

@imdevzii

24 күн бұрын

@@Planeet-Long I’ll pass

I do and have loved so many men in my life from my father, son and husband - and many male best friends. I love male conversations, male greatness from Aristotle, Shakespeare to Einstein. Not only that; who dig our roads, build our cities, fix our plumbing....? Women who hate men need to check their own faults and weaknesses.

@pricklycats

24 күн бұрын

Lol literally biting the hand that feeds them... if men disappeared the entire world would collapse overnight and that's not an exaggeration at all

As a SAHM when we had babies a night on my own after a day on my own was just too much to handle. But if I’d been traded two nights off a week myself I maybe could have. For women without babies….yeah I don’t understand. I’d be so happy for my husband to get out more and be happier now that my kids are older. It’s better for all of us when he’s taken care of. I don’t have issues taking time for myself now, I have lots of issues convincing him to do it and he NEEDS to.

The path is to seek truth, work on self & be of service. Socialization - “we can keep going on less attention than we crave”, we know this from times we’ve indulged in socializing & walked away with nothing but lost time & neglected duties. Depends on the individual, I have enough on my plate.

@manoftomorrow5987

25 күн бұрын

Facts. That’s too much wasted time…if you’re a grown man with responsibilities and life goals…2 times every week is a waste of time.

@alfonsoramirezelorriaga1153

24 күн бұрын

Being married and having kids is way better than having friends . Hanging with my family doesn't compare with anything else in life.

@xeropunt5749

24 күн бұрын

@@alfonsoramirezelorriaga1153 Yes thank you,, I agree. I can’t say time spent with friends or relatives my age was pure joy lol.

@mactireliath2356

24 күн бұрын

I think, looking at this video as a thought experiment, the hope would be to be inspired to a higher quality of friendship. I love being a father, and spending time with my partner. But there is also a part of my identity that needs other kinds of interactions. Those friends I’ve found through hobbies and business ventures, for example, have enriched me & helped me learn how to be a better person at the same time. I think it’s possible for all of us.

@xeropunt5749

24 күн бұрын

@@mactireliath2356 I think it does depend on one’s personality type & quality of opportunity, & I do not think all men need suffer from some solitude or lack of buddy time.. If one is highly clean, courteous, ethical & spiritual minded, one can’t endure someone who is not. If I had the opportunity to spend a day with Musk, I would, but with a Jack Black or Seth Rogan or gangster rapper would be torture for me lol… I am a flexivert & can go for a very long time without hanging out. I never feel deprived. There’s so much to do, learn, think & be. Friends aren’t always down to do your thing. Sometimes you get lucky & find a perfect friend, but too many a times someone betrays another’s peace. Peace is what keeps you happy, deeply, in the long term.

Bro nothing would make me happier than if my man fucking left me alone and hung out with friends. Then again in an independent introvert and he’s codependent. I beg him to go hang out with other men

Didn't know George before the episode. That's one of the reasons why I love Modern Wisdom when I discover people like this. Well done, Chris!

I dont even have 2 friends

@Crcmvnt

25 күн бұрын

Right there with you brother.

@SirAlexanderdeLarge

24 күн бұрын

You can go out 2 times with a single one?

@dinocarosi4303

24 күн бұрын

If you can get one see them twice.

@Kris.G

24 күн бұрын

I don't have FRIENDS but I have work buddies, but due to the shift work it's difficult to meet.

@WilcoxNotreallythere

24 күн бұрын

Friends are becoming a liability in this day and age.

Very important. Must do.

2 times a week!? I have kids, man. I have 2 a month on average and it's great. Also, text friends and call friends daily. If you have time for 2 nights then awesome and go for it! Just not a thing for us dads typically.

@lifeforgod07

25 күн бұрын

2 a month is crazy lol. If i get out once a quarter, I'd be happy.

@markwmosley

25 күн бұрын

@@lifeforgod07 I make a real effort to make it happen and my wife is super supportive. Typically just a "bro dinner" and home by 10pm or so but nice to get out and hang with friends.

@abhijeetambat8521

25 күн бұрын

Met my bro today after 3 years will probably meet again after 3 years again

@denniskatinas

25 күн бұрын

I got 4 kids, three sons, so it’s guys time all the time. It’s evening now, almost, now having a cigar and beer reflecting and enjoying fatherhood, ideas for the future, man… have many kids ya’ll, it’s tough but in a good way, it’s incredible. Wish you good health and a wonderful life.

@freda7961

25 күн бұрын

Yeah, twice a week is just ridiculous. It’s generally for single men with not much to do.

I'm 41yo. Used to have great friendships in my youth (up to 25), and male parties were common. Slowly but surely, I lost all my friends, except one. Now I barely know anyone. Somehow loneliness still isn't considered as a real problem in our society, especially when it concerns men. If ever, it'll be seen as primarily their fault. I reckon I/we can be "solitary animals", but it's also what is expected from us. I found women to be often disapproving of my former friendships, pushing me to spend even less time with them. It's just unhealthy overall, for men, women, society.

@louiswilliamterminator2887

25 күн бұрын

Read "Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man". From that you'll learn why you get that push (and so many other pushes). You'll also learn why making 1000 concessions will kill the relationship. The woman will have full emotional control over her man, who will be isolated from friends and family, safe and secure, but boring, predictable and unattractive to her

@WilcoxNotreallythere

24 күн бұрын

My dad told me all my friendships would fissile out by 25. He was right. The world is all smack talk and back stabbing now.

@Planeet-Long

24 күн бұрын

​@@louiswilliamterminator2887 That actually sounds like how a narcissist isolates their partner in a relationship. I am not even sure if that is normal female behaviour, unless somehow all women suffer from narcissistic personality disorder (or rather their husbands suffer from their wife's narcissism).

@louiswilliamterminator2887

24 күн бұрын

@@Planeet-Long That sounds about right. In any case the book is a short and easy read, but contains such a wealth of insight that it takes multiple reads to fully understand and practically integrate into your relationships. I'm not a young guy, and that book has been incredibly useful. It also explains 'the how's and 'the why' of the deterioration of many a male/female relationship.

Woman's perspective here: I've ALWAYS thought that relationships were far HEALTHIER if BOTH partners get both some alone time and social time with friends. It's NOT healthy for men to ONLY have their female partners for support. Two evenings (or one evening and some time on a weekend day) seems REASONABLE to me. That doesn't mean that men shouldn't be dong more DOMESTIC labor than they usually do (if BOTH partners work outside jobs)--but, that's another issue). Some women's resentment of men having time with their male friends might come from their BFs/husbands ALREADY spending a lot of at home on video games and/or watching sports--while doing very little at home chores.

I wish I had the option. Due to my living situation and work, I see a friend in person like a couple of times per year since the past 4 years.

@s.s.0

25 күн бұрын

Make it happen. Why don’t you?

@derpyeh9107

25 күн бұрын

@@s.s.0 Making new friends isn't easy.

@s.s.0

25 күн бұрын

@@derpyeh9107 he didn’t say he doesn’t have friends he said he wishes he had the option to see them. I understand it is hard to make friends nowadays.

yes please, we men all men NEED THIS

Married to a Slavic woman, where international women's day is Valentine's day. You learn of the analogue, defender of the fatherland day. If you don't get a gift, you don't owe one back. I gave up on hunans early. When I read all my mother's books, psychology, sociology, feminism, etc. Married twice, neither time to an English woman. Getting into AI, i got into hunans, because "AI" is deeply surprisingly human. So sitting back and observing my wife change day to day is really odd. I found Stoicism as a way to deal with my wife, because "I am going to have to accept that some things will not change" I can honestly recommend it, got me through cancer. Never would have expected that. Great show by the way.

I have been a lone wolf ever since I graduated college almost a year ago in May 2023. The problem is that for almost half the year (January-April), I work 11 hour shifts and in my few moments of free time I have been studying for the CPA Exam so I can advance my career. A lot of my friends are also in jobs that have extended shifts. I'm just hoping that I can pass the CPA Exam as soon as possible so I can be social again.

@DukeofEarl

25 күн бұрын

If you stay in public practice half your year will be almost intolerable .

@fujohnson8667

24 күн бұрын

Ah mate you got years of shite coming

Hey homies - I agree with the sentiments expressed. BUT "the study" was bogus. It was funded by the Guinness beer company where they wanted Dunbar to team up with Danny Wallace (british humorist) for an ad campaign. The funding source doesn't necessarily mean the study's bad, but it was only done on a group of five guys. The only place the research was published was on Guinness's website and they've since taken it down. I don't think this takes away from the commentary around men needing to spend time together or that the backlash from that very notion being ridiculous. Yet, I just wanted to give some extra context in case you all reference this study later and open your central point open for attack. The core studies on social connection and the disproportionate impact on men because of how we construct our social circles (or lack thereof) should be enough. :)

Reading some of these comments, man... just builds a case for me to stay out of the married with children business.

@grammaurai6843

25 күн бұрын

If you're uninterested in selfless sacrifice, duty, leadership, and discipline, then yes, you absolutely should leave the legacy building to other men! 💪 It's great that you've identified your limits before marriage and fatherhood and not after.

@rxvyy

25 күн бұрын

Get your passport ready homie

@SATANTHEGREATx

25 күн бұрын

@@grammaurai6843legacy? Lmfao, most men are average at best. The only legacy they’ll leave behind is more tax paying npcs.

@derpyeh9107

25 күн бұрын

@@grammaurai6843 That's a weird inference to make from Mosh's comment.

@grammaurai6843

25 күн бұрын

@@ephemera5714 Happiness can be found in a life of service and sacrifice, but not everyone wants to live that way, and obtaining happiness and satisfaction through a life dedicated to family and community doesn't negate the value of that choice. Some prefer the control and autonomy that comes from singleness. I'm not the one putting a moral judgment on that - I'm explicitly saying that it's *actually better* to know that about yourself before trapping a wife and kids into a life and relationship that none of you wants. A lot of men are in denial about it.

I agree completely. Men need a brotherhood. Men need men to do manly things, to have encouragement, understanding and accountability. Men motivate men to be MEN. I need women around to understand me as a woman. In my marriage there is no designated time for socializing. Like everything else in our marriage, we compromise. Sometimes he needs more time with his mates, and I pick up that slack. Sometimes I need rest and he does the same for me. Because we love one another. Funny how easy things become when you love your partner.

I think this research is probably accurate and useful, for an awful lot of men. Personally, I find the notion about as unappealing as two weeks on a cruise ship. However, my personal (probably rare) idiosyncrasies are not to be recommended, on the whole. I raise them simply to suggest that individuals should find what works for them. Either way, effort should be made to find peace of mind.

@pricklycats

24 күн бұрын

Money doesn't have much use if you die from stress before getting to use it

I have to say - I agree with this. Man and woman need our time , maybe alone or maybe with friends but you need time to yourself to be you. Not a husband not a wife not a mother or father just to be you … very important

Best and mosr affordable way of meeting this quota is through sports! E.g. Jiujitsu few days per week

Guess I’ll die

@Kris.G

24 күн бұрын

insert meme

There are millions of men who would spend lots of time with their partner and not seek time out socializing but women don’t want them lmao. They want guys who other women want and actively desire. It’s a self destructive ego game. I am glad to be a man though. Running around partying, drinking and having everything given to me, crying to get my way and posting my Ls on social media for everyone to see. It’s great.

Female here, I have 6 brothers. Absolutely, males need male time ! 💪🏻 It makes them better brothers, husbands, and fathers. Key is, being very selective on hanging out with males that will support and encourage you to be the best possible you. Emulate the man that you want your daughter to marry. You are the number one prototype that she will go after.

Years ago, in every pub in every town, sat a lonely figure of a man, hoping, waiting, and insisting on being heard. Others would whisper in the shadows "Be careful! Don't get too close, he's the pub bore..." Drunk on his own intellect, yearning to be special, situationally unaware, he always missed 'the point'. He always went home alone

Yay thanks for sharing George! he's great!

My partner and his mates get together twice a week and have done religiously since they were in their early twenties and I love to see them together. We have managed to navigate bringing up 2 daughters and work full time. Him being with his mates a few times a week has made him a better partner and dad. I don't get why this is such a bad thing!

We juuuust moved so he doesn’t have a crew yet, but I still encourage phone calls with friends, exercising on his own, and down time after work. However, from past relationships and friends stories I’ve found that guys night often means getting shitfaced and coming home way too late etc etc. I’m sure some women are being way too controlling, but I think a big percentage have been burned by bad behavior around this.

@Fernadogcv

24 күн бұрын

For sure a lot of people (not only guys) think about a good night out as getting drunk and doing stupid things. If that is the case with someone's partner I would reconsider the relationship. There's so much of life besides getting wasted.

@chris you need to interview Frank Schwartz of F3. It’s a FREE men’s morning workout and leadership group, and we address this point head on

I get about one year

I, also, think a lot of it depends on the association their partner is engaging in. What kind of friends? What activites are they doing? Is his best friend a known cheater with shady characteristics? I think age has a lot to do with it. Are the two nights at the bar? Or are the two nights gaming at home? Fishing at your local lake? Golfing? Are you home by a reasonable time? There's a lot that the couple need to reason on and let be known what they are willing or not willing to except. It boils down to communication, kindness, and respect.

"Is he thinking of me?" No... he was just getting up to make a peanut butter sandwich.

It’s just instinctive man-hate. Let’s face it, break one guy, just get another.

@louiswilliamterminator2887

25 күн бұрын

True. For a fuller understanding, read "Practical Female Psychology: For a Practical Man"

My husband has a hobby of fish and fish tanks. He helped his friend start one up. One night around 9:30 or so, his friend noticed his fish start to tilt/die. He reached out to my husband for help and decided he needed a new filter. So my husband jumps up and goes to his house to pick him up to make a Walmart run. Well... apparently his friends woman was NOT happy. Acted super jealous and annoyed. Like... girl... calm down... There's so many insecure women out there that can't even handle their man going to Walmart past 7 PM.

Maybe it is my age but I just don't get this whole discussion. I was always a lone wolf. I guess I needed another guy on the squash court but other than that... I also found I did much better with women when I didn't hangout with a pack. Guys become real jerks when they are with other guys.

@WilcoxNotreallythere

24 күн бұрын

Bingo. I operate on a similar level then but never really put it into words.

I work in a female dominated industry and company. I go to a powerlifting gym after work to be in a male world. If I don't go to the gym to be around other men it negatively affects my mental health

Bottom line, when women are present, men have to edit and change everything they say and do or there will be someone who takes offense and the criminal lawsuits start. Lose your job, reputation, property and be branded for life as "toxic" or worse..

6:20 😂 literally

There is less time for everyone to do what they want or to allow partners to be social as there is less time, a lot of women feel unloved if you’re not with them 24/7 and if your girl wants girl time and you can’t that’s a big red flag already.

I already knew Saturday was for the boys but what’s the other day? Thursday?

The Distinguished Gentlemen's Ride!

I suggest bowling league guys. She’s doesn’t want to come play, but she can still come and watch the door is open. Plus yer drinking and also competing. Solves all the issues . U get to know the people in the league slowly and become part of the community Highly recommend

I think a lot of people, especially women, are confusing what a guys night can be. I usually have 2 guys nights a week and it's me playing basketball at a local gym for 2 hours. And then my in studio podcast which usually ends up being around 2 and a half hours. I'm a dad and i still help out with the baby and stuff around the house. And yes i afford my wife the same kind of opportunities when she wants them. I think it may be a little easier for me because my wife is a stay at home mom. But it can be done and that time away from her allows me to miss her and enjoy my time at home all the more.

08:20 This actually points to a lower glass ceiling for talented men, if less accomplished women are more likely to be appointed CEO purely because she's a woman you need to be much more competent as a man, meaning that for men and women of the same level of competencies a glass ceiling exists for men that doesn't exist for women.

I don’t find this unreasonable. I'm married...going on 8 years. I enjoy my time and wish my husband would be less clingly.

@theninjaofmusic

25 күн бұрын

Push him to get involved with stuff. Sports, the gym, and church are all great places for him to find some brotherhood.

Ehhh I need 2 nights to myself 😅😂

@brianmeen2158

24 күн бұрын

I need 6 nights to myself and I’m Not kidding lol

@azraelfirstofhisname8695

24 күн бұрын

@@brianmeen2158 lol here here

Gas is expensive, activities are exensive, life is expensive. What fantasy does this study think 2 nights a week is feasible?!

"Guys night" is such a weird concept to me. All the way back to high school my friends group has been mixed men and women. My wife is my best friend. I dunno, true for populations but not all individuals is a category I suppose.

A directly quotable video title, wish me luck, lads ...But in all seriousness, if there was a comparison of what women want for their sons, versus from their partners, it would be revealing in this respect. Of course there would be a range of responses, but they would be distributed differently.

Science

What are friends. I have a family. How can anyone be a good father a good husband work 50 + hrs a week and still have times to go hang with the boys twice a week. Not saying I wouldn’t enjoy it. But too much to juggle without dropping something.

@CG-fx9bl

25 күн бұрын

100%, you have to make sacrifices if you're married with kids! Hopefully you can get some of your hobbies back once they're grown up

I cant imagine anyone other than my wife wanting to see me every week lmao! truly. I dont want to see my friends every week. oh well! my goal right now is once per month see friends or family outside the house. Probably very unhealthy but its improvement for me. 35 yo, married, one kiddo. but i also play video games with my wife almost every day, which is so fun. if my wife saw friends once per week i would be so proud of her and i know it would be huge for her health, same for me i know.

That all male house party sounds great haha

If anyone wants to golf hit me up! Come out with my friends and I!

Men don’t need a day. We’re the basis for stable , safe, prosperous society. Days are for the weak.

Science says, 2 SPA days per week and 8 hours sleep for young mothers to remain healthy.

If no alcohol or other drugs are involved.

@WilcoxNotreallythere

24 күн бұрын

Only the cleanest MDMA for me.

It used to be a night at the local pub - NO girls.

uhm...do I have to feel bad now if my husband prefers to spend time with me? will he die earlier if I do not force him to spend time with his friends? serious question

I always try to advocate to women to make sure they find hobbies or activites that are for themselves... not as a couple. You BOTH have to have your own time. I think a lot of women expect to fulfull ALL their man's needs and desires and that's just not realistic. This is why tribes were so important. Men get their pack of brothrens while the older women can calm down the younger women. LOL

I have 7 guy nights per week. Sometimes I even sleep through them.

Shit I haven’t had a guys night since my bachelor party. I’ve been married 7 years end of this month.

Hanging out with the bros is overrated 😂 I'm always so bored. That shit was fun when we were kids but watching the game, drinking brews and shooting the shit gets old.

At 38 I have no desire to see friends once a week let alone twice 🤷

Do 2 alone "Guy's Nights" per week count? That's how many friends I have xD

@fujohnson8667

24 күн бұрын

Me too, but we move 🤙

“Science says that men…” -psychologists “Oh, so we’re hating on women now?”

My wife's brother's "guy nights" are spear fishing on midnight low tides. I want to join 'em.

Haven't had a guys night in 7 years and i feel like im dying.

Wait, you guys have friends to do a guys night?

2 guy, one cup

Rofl 2 a week i dont even have 2 friends as a adult male

@WilcoxNotreallythere

24 күн бұрын

Then you're doing this right.

2 nights a week seems excessive....and i'm a dude. A full quarter of nights every month spent away from your family doesn't strike me as reasonable.

The comments show how widespread the issue is when men are married with kids

Fuck that. One or two a year max

“GUYS NIGHT”

The study was comissoned by Guiness. That's all you need to know

Me surviving on zero in years 😅

Is it toxic masculinity if a trans man is being aggressive? Asking for a friend

*You know it is truly a Guys Night when* *_''There's a giant banana hanging from the ceiling that everyone's trying to kick''_* 5:06 *This is somehow the most dude thing ever* 😂 Addition: And it is true. Males in particular like to be more alone and isolated nowadays and social interactions in general lift the spirits and allow you to forget about the world for just one day.

Who's this Science guy, he says a lot of stuff but no one has ever met him?

Some guys are just arseholes. But... most women who do not get as much attention from their guy as they need are dating out of their leagues. They are 6s hanging out to 8s thinking its long term relationship while for him its just a fling.

I think a guy's night is a healthy need for a man. And it releases stress and built up emotions. Its a necessity to have it in some form.

Mens night out: Sports ⚽️ Women’s night out: Gossip ☕️

@taraz6786

25 күн бұрын

Men gossip a lot too nowadays. 😂

@MarieCurtis92

25 күн бұрын

@@taraz6786 Men have always been massive gossips. My own father chief among them. 😆

@Gromov-jj8jf

25 күн бұрын

this checks out in my experience

@DawgMama

24 күн бұрын

I think my husband would probably like a break from me gossiping about college football.

@SirAlexanderdeLarge

24 күн бұрын

I don't like sports, though. 🤷🏻‍♂️

1 night for muay thai, 1 night for Jiu-jitsu, 1 night for Jesus, minimum.

SOMEONE FINALLY SAID IT. 💪🏾

Some truths dropped here !!!

Just play HELLDIVERS 2 and SAVE DEMOCRACY!

I use to think this…but as I got older I don’t have time to spend 2 nights with “the bros”. I got gym, work and rest to catch up on. If you need 2 nights a week to spend with the boys every week, I guarantee you that you’re unsuccessful in live.

@RandomGuyyy

25 күн бұрын

Life, not "live". I may be lonely but at least I can bloody spell.

@manoftomorrow5987

25 күн бұрын

@@RandomGuyyy 🙄

LMAO