Applying a term from film criticism to real people was the first mistake

@alaytheaherr

Жыл бұрын

literally cannot facepalm hard enough

@tacticalmisandrist

Жыл бұрын

Especially applying it to a man creating it lol the female gaze comes from women, women cultivate the female gaze, not the other way around. He can try and perform for it, but he’s definitely not going to be the person to invent it EDIT: AND DEF NOT WHEN HE TALKS ABOUT (specifically black) WOMEN LIKE HE DID!! He’s just another egotistical man gassed up by women praising him

@bouirbouir5033

Жыл бұрын

yeah reminds me of the shit that went on with kit connor :/

@villi1077

Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU

@perplexed1783

Жыл бұрын

@bouirbouir I accidentally read "kit cooner" as kurtis conner 😭

are they seriously calling this the "female gaze?" the female gaze does not refer to an ACTUAL GAZE

@nanalewa4462

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@nanalewa4462

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@NNRiddle

Жыл бұрын

Right?! And if it would then what, female gaze = looking awkward but being able to switch to confident in an instant? I do not understand where this came from xD

@graciespaceycakes3714

Жыл бұрын

Going into this I assumed it was "female gaze" as in "this guy looks kinda nonthreatening and that makes him cute" but 10 minutes in I can't imagine what it could possibly mean aside from "this guy's looking at me like he calls women 'females'"

@user-oy6hk1gn7l

Жыл бұрын

tiktok stop bastardizing media analysis and psychology terms challenge

The girl screaming STOPPPPPP is the one who really deserves all the fame. That was hilarious

@alexverdana2435

Жыл бұрын

i know right lmaoooo

@Wince_Media

Жыл бұрын

@@alexverdana2435 tell me when she gets the death metal screamo band she deserves

@labcabincaliforniasblacksunday

Жыл бұрын

She was the highlight out of all of this

@ughugh5611

Жыл бұрын

Lmaoooooooooo i love

@Remi_Lin

Жыл бұрын

What’s her tag she’s hilarious

Some women are horrifically attracted to the serial killer vibe and I’m 100% sure that’s what’s going on here

@stardewposting

Жыл бұрын

naur don't insult serial killers like that

@ida6950

Жыл бұрын

100%! He’s got the Dharmer vibes

@snegluf

Жыл бұрын

@@ida6950 we should never compare anyone’s “vibe” to a cannibal who tortured people.

@Youdontneedtoknowmyname-zw1tr

11 ай бұрын

@@stardewpostingbro what

@Youdontneedtoknowmyname-zw1tr

10 ай бұрын

@@addi1626 he’s doing the vibe extremely well that’s why he looks like a serial killer, and hold up… you like that vibe?

The Kevin gaze is literally the look a guy gives while you’re talking when he has completely stopped listening to just objectify you.

@shesthebethest

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@desireesmith862

Жыл бұрын

I thought he was pretending to daydream or get distracted by something he just remembered lol

@v.xien.

Жыл бұрын

Or when you reject men and they get all butthurt. Literally weirdo vibes. I guess those women got issues lol

@DiMagnolia

Жыл бұрын

ACCURATE.

@itsallkrystalclear8398

Жыл бұрын

YES!

The expression doesn't even look sexual or romantic in nature, it just looks like he's either dissociating or having a silent seizure.

@smeeghead

Жыл бұрын

LITERALLY. like he is just staring off into space.

@damienearl8302

Жыл бұрын

He's barely even lip-syncing to the audio most of the time...or moving his mouth at all, just staring blankly into your soul The live stream reaction portion gave me genuine whiplash because as confusing and simultaneously boring as he is, I genuinely thought he couldn't make more than one expression!

@hagathachristie

Жыл бұрын

It was very shark eyes and disengaged. Like... eerily vacant.

@imjustanotherjess

Жыл бұрын

I completely agree - he looks like he’s about to faint!

@cryguy0000

Жыл бұрын

I KNOW! He looks like me when I look at myself in the mirror, just disappointed

"cmon chat, please let me have this one racism, I've had a bad day"

@DiMagnolia

5 ай бұрын

It’s his comfort racism

@emilyjohn2034

4 ай бұрын

@@DiMagnoliaomg your horrible for that one 😂😂

@AshaSara

4 ай бұрын

​@@DiMagnoliaemotional support racism

@janner2006

4 ай бұрын

He even said "I had a bad day *yesterday*". I didn't know we could reserve the racist card - I thought it would expire by the end of the day

@the_local_bigamist

3 ай бұрын

Nothing cures a bad day like using a racial slur, especially combined with watching people react to videos of you merely looking at a camera. Better than trying some meditation or talking to a friend to get cheered up. But what can expect from a racist narcissist who doesn't even understand the basic meaning of the sociological concept he has butchered to create content (the male gaze and the female gaze, which he literally thinks means how men and women look at one another) or that fantastic Edgar Allen Poe comment?

In case anyone is still confused, the difference between female gays and male gays is that we call them lesbians, hope that cleared everything up 🙏

@Dogy0909

10 ай бұрын

Thank you boss

@harperthegreat

8 ай бұрын

This isn’t that funny but I’m crying so hard right now

@FirstLast-fl1co

7 ай бұрын

male lesbian and female gay

@mariya_tortilla

7 ай бұрын

lmfao thank u sm

@michaelstevenson5044

4 ай бұрын

yes, thank you

there is no way that the entirety of a tiktok community concluded that the new standard of the female gaze is just some dude who look like somebody tried to draw kurtis connor from memory.

@heythisanimalcantalk

Жыл бұрын

LMFAOO

@bunyumie

Жыл бұрын

NOT KURTIS 😭😭😭

@babygurleatsshickennuggits4201

Жыл бұрын

So true, if I had to describe what our Mayor looks like from memory I'd probably just end up with that.

@ilawinterburn2111

Жыл бұрын

Seriously why is he Kurtis from the dollar store if he was racist?

@m.josena4485

Жыл бұрын

Deadass garbage bin version of beautiful kurtis conners

Kevin looks like a high school teacher you don’t wanna be left alone with

@lucymills9994

Жыл бұрын

he reminds me of my 10th grade english teacher who was married to his former student

@greenfacere210

Жыл бұрын

😂

@koiifsh

Жыл бұрын

@@lucymills9994 ayo

@Foggy404

Жыл бұрын

Kevin looked like a more messed up Trevor Phillips

@bry.b

Жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭😭

wait, there are people out there who think the male gaze is a LITERAL THING like the way a man gazes at a woman??? I'm gonna cry

@imsmolandangery4274

Жыл бұрын

"How i stopped dressing for the male gaze" was a thing, like okay, you are now basing your wardrobe around men. Conservative Christians, school dress codes, and everyone who asked "well, what were you wearing?" are finally happy.

@drilonkennedy-gorne2049

Жыл бұрын

Is it not the assumption in media that the spectator, the camera, and the protagonist from who's eyes we watch the woman, are all men?

@mittarikinz

Жыл бұрын

@@imsmolandangery4274 I'm pretty sure when people mean they stopped dressing for the male gaze they mean now they base their wardrobe on what _they_ think it's attractive and looks good on them instead of the stereotypical male idea of "hotness"

@MarkelleRayneeSheree

Жыл бұрын

I literally thought the female gaze was just in storytelling media like novels and movies and stuff. It's a way of telling a story that appeals to women, especially sexual scenes. I'm so confused as to what people think the female gaze is in this context.

@Caelinus

Жыл бұрын

​@@MarkelleRayneeSheree Male Gaze and Female Gaze are pretty much that, though it extends beyond just storytelling. E.G. A beer comercial that highlights an woman who is picked because she is attractive to the average man is appeal to the "Male Gaze" specifically because it is assuming the worldview of a male viewer. (Sounds a little tautological there, but whatever.) It is basically any form of media that "sees" the world in the same way as a man does. A super clear example is all those old Conan Style sword and sorcery movies. The men in them are all massive musclebound units, and the women (even the fighters) are all petite and conventionally beautiful. While both groups are wearing little clothing and are "hot" the way in which they are hot differs. The women look the way men would want their women to look, while the men look like the way men would want to be hot. So in either case the aspirational aspect of its worldview is directed towards the male viewer. Important Disclaimer: Male and Female Gaze or not inherently bad. The problem is not that the male gaze exists. It is always going to exist. The problem is that the male gaze is heavily *favored* over the female, which creates an imbalance in media. This is a big problem for media companies that want to pull more female customers into their fandoms. But yeah, it literally has nothing to do with the physical look of some ones eyes. This guy just happened to have soft, watery and non-threatening eyes. Which is not even a female thing? I know a lot of women with intense and confident physical gazes.

Gotta love how he immediately decided to insult the blonde lady even though she didn’t insult him, she was just saying that she didn’t understand.

@prettysparklez1195

Жыл бұрын

She even said it was a nice gaze 🤦‍♀️

@kaywee4200

Жыл бұрын

Right. He's an ass. Straight up.

@AshaSara

4 ай бұрын

I thought it was funny how he thought calling her Lindsey Lohan was an insult when she's beautiful and talented

@the_local_bigamist

3 ай бұрын

Narcissistic injury. He doesn't understand the concept of male gaze/female gaze as a cultural response, yet uses the term anyway because he thinks it just means "how men and women look at each other". He is also racist, didn't get the awesome Edgar Allen Poe joke and literally spent time live-streaming himself watching people react to his face, like a modern version of the tale of Narcissus except that Narcissus had actual depth to his character whereas this guy is just a narcissistic, racist bellend. The woman was perfectly polite but with all the points mentioned before considered, how could we expect him to be reasonable? Also, I don't understand how this became so popular? These are just videos of him fumbling in front of a camera and then pulling a kind of smirk. Then again, from what I've seen of TikTok, not much creative though seems to go into what is produced (I've never been on there to be fair, and don't plan to either - these commentary videos show me enough to want to stay away).

@damialabii

3 ай бұрын

@@AshaSara exactly he even picked out a great picture of her its literally a compliment if anything lol

i love how a lot of girls were like "nobody can do it like him" like miss girly im sure you can find TONS of misogynistic, balding people with anger issues

@blacksesamecandies

Жыл бұрын

hahaha oh damn.

@dea9457

Жыл бұрын

You mean tons of unattractive men 😭

@alysiamckinney8839

Жыл бұрын

Literally one of the largest demographics 💀

@Funeral_Mannequin

Жыл бұрын

I feel like they were being satire/joking, right? I hope..

@xfreja

Жыл бұрын

deadass

I never understood why people went crazy over him. He looks like a "nice guy" nerd who gets pissed when your d&d character won't sleep with his.

@babayaga3098

Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY

@v.xien.

Жыл бұрын

On god

@SD-oi9gr

Жыл бұрын

Then he speaks and you realise he’s extremely dumb, petty, very insecure and as complex a a cornflake. Now we see why he doesn’t talk much.

@hannahbunny6650

Жыл бұрын

he looks like the naked mole rat from kim possible

@stegothedino

Жыл бұрын

this is the best description

Whoever that girl was that screamed “STOPPP” really has 10/10 comedic timing and deserves everything

@hallehuckleberry

2 ай бұрын

I agree

he has the same humor of a 13 year old boy from the south. down to the "WHAT?! WHAT DID I DO!!?" after an offensive joke.

@hallehuckleberry

2 ай бұрын

That’s what I thought too. It was really cringe.

@jess-so6ee

Ай бұрын

made my skin crawl fr

@candyh4284

Ай бұрын

As an autistic kid, it was really a mindfuck that people say this when they know exactly what they did wrong, why it's wrong, and what they should do instead.

@Momoiro0

Ай бұрын

It's giving "gingers have souls" guy

how does Kevin balance looking 40 years old and also acting like a middle schooler? truly an enigma

@lugoorstar

Жыл бұрын

Enigma male

@MylesNotYards

Жыл бұрын

@@lugoorstar fuck that’s good

@CoryMck

Жыл бұрын

Ugly inside ugly outside

@mashaa.7509

Жыл бұрын

@@lugoorstar im gonna throw up from laughter

@perplexed1783

Жыл бұрын

@Lugoor Star Finally the trilogy of garbage people has been completed, Alpha, Sigma and Enigma Males!

The worst thing about actual concepts being talked about on tik tok is that no one actually understands and then uses the terms in the wrong way

@cravenmoorehead291

Жыл бұрын

Truth

@bmaze944

Жыл бұрын

Yes, it's insane. The woman trying to explain how Kevin fits the female gaze was complete nonsense

@kai_fatallysapphic

Жыл бұрын

This is like when Tumblr thought color theory was the same thing as what emotion you feel when you look at a color, well it's not! -me, a frustrated artist

@dimsufferer9951

Жыл бұрын

Like no one knowing what the hell “POV” means

@DeathnoteBB

Жыл бұрын

@@kai_fatallysapphic Yeah except at least Tumblr is basically invisible to the rest of the internet. Tiktok is like the face of it now, so if anything gets popular, everyone knows about it. Leading to mass misinformation

Not a woman, but if I ever got looked at by Kevin in public, I'd take it as a threat.

Kevin making fun of women: White woman: *looks like famous actress* Black women: *i will mock your black features*

isn’t the female gaze supposed to be a feminist media analysis term? i’m so confused, does the female gaze mean a guy makes a face women think is attractive? i’m a woman attracted to men and i would consider myself a feminist, but i have no idea what they’re talking about.

@Kyarrix

Жыл бұрын

Me too, same thing same situation and this guy is creepy. It makes little sense.

@Moomoo000

Жыл бұрын

Same with the whole “men written by women” like isn’t that for movie/show characters?? Why are we using this stuff for real people

@cravenmoorehead291

Жыл бұрын

I feel like in this aspect it just more means like what women want vs what men think women will want, like how some girls don’t actually like a ton of muscle on a guy, but a lot of dudes just assume that all women think that’s hot. You know what I mean?

@starvingdelusions

Жыл бұрын

You're right, it is a media analysis term. The 'male gaze' was theorised by Laura Mulvey and its basically where the camera is/acts as a heterosexual man and women are likely to be objectified. The 'female gaze' is simply the opposite (Mulvey didn't talk about this however)

@cravenmoorehead291

Жыл бұрын

But I really do understand what you’re talking about, it took me awhile to figure out what that meant but I just think about it like that now

Bro he’s like 22 but looks like he’s in his early 40’s…and then had the audacity to make fun of that woman’s age lol

@Linkedfairy

Жыл бұрын

he's 33, his joke didn't even make sense she's 10 years older than he is. But you're right, he looks older than he is.

@KalCounty

Жыл бұрын

@@Linkedfairy He comes off as being pretty dim, honestly. Wouldn't surprise me if he actually thought she was double his age.

@cardiiiiii

Жыл бұрын

hes 33

@twixxaddict

Жыл бұрын

@@Linkedfairy I think i remember some girl who he knew saying he’s 23 or something

@BurnTheTeddy

Жыл бұрын

Homeboy is BALDING and thinks he can make fun of anyone

Thank you SO MUCH for bringing his racist jabs towards black women to light! I felt like I was in the freaking twilight zone for a bit on TikTok with people swooning over an entitled butthole that rants and makes fun of genetic features on people that don't find what he does attractive 😅.

as a queer (trans) man, WE DO NOT CLAIM HIM. I do not know how someone could not understand how making fun of someone's ethnic features is inherently wrong and harmful, especially when that person is part of a marginalized group.

@Nothanie

7 ай бұрын

As another queer (gay) guy I do not claim him nor understand how he is attractive to some 😭

@milescox1792

26 күн бұрын

As the same, saying we don't claim this obvious loser does more harm than good. His identity doesn't matter; this guy sucks, and everyone can agree with that. No need to resort to tribalism.

this is just people not understanding what the 'female gaze' is and thinking they're quirky by liking a guy who isn't conventionally attractive

@TsukiiTsukii

Жыл бұрын

This is so true

@Ayyoura

Жыл бұрын

THISSS THIS IS LITERALLY IT

@inuandkagome4eva

Жыл бұрын

He doesn't even do what they're raving about tbh... when he spaces out and gets "confident", everyone says omg hes tongue tied and fantasizing about me. No he looks like a huge douchebag.. and does not look like hes lucky to have you... he looks like "omg gurl yer bewbies r so huge.. i get bonar now".

@monbub

Жыл бұрын

thanks you said it for me also the fact that he looks like a serial killer

@alyssamendoza7708

Жыл бұрын

100%

This has to be the an example of mass hysteria because no way did all those women actually convince themselves he was the epitome of attraction 😭

@murdermyinsanity

Жыл бұрын

Sometimes it's fun to hype up a conventionally unattractive person. Sometimes you can be unattractive but there genuinely is some quality about how you carry yourself that makes you attractive. The fun gets sucked out of it when the target turns out to suck but it's totally a thing I understand. I've gotten comments about my partner of 11 years being super unattractive in pictures but then they meet him in person and they're like oh I get it. Appeal is mysterious.

@doodles1331

Жыл бұрын

@@murdermyinsanity this is so cute and wholesome (((':

@011mph

Жыл бұрын

@@murdermyinsanity lmaooo

@annieliina

Жыл бұрын

@@murdermyinsanity i don't like to judge a book by its cover but to me he looks on the outside exactly like he turned out to be on the inside (also what am i saying i judge every actual book by its cover)

@thatssoari3533

Жыл бұрын

@@murdermyinsanity there’s no fun about it. firstly,​ all i know is he has made videos sexualizing beating and raping women, so that’s all i have to know. secondly, im going to touch on a subject jarvis slightly mad run the video. it’s 100% “fun” to you because your white. the black woman subject is really more nuanced, white women set the beauty standards for both women and men worldwide, and that’s a fact. they have set the “female gaze”, and it’s weird, because it’s not something no other race, not just black people, appeal to. especially because the “gaze” fits white, skinny men with brown fully hair. something that isn’t seen as features apart of other races. a man, especially one with a platform like jarvis, using his voice to defend black woman is just nice to see. it’s because most black men die to internalized racism say the most disgusting shit about black women simply to uplift white women.

"Kevin looks like the type of guy who would treat you right!" *Kevin's only rebuttal to his haters is by making fun of their appearances*

@katyrusso1989

10 ай бұрын

Yeah and like, isn't someone saying you look like Lindsay Lohan a compliment?

@elephorofonius

9 күн бұрын

specifically non eurocentric appearances which is like..

I think the majority of people on TikTok constantly throw terms around without knowing what they actually mean. They misuse “female gaze”, “POV”, “gaslighting”, “queerbaiting” and many more. I’m glad I don’t have that app bc I imagine that to be infuriating

@andieallison6792

Ай бұрын

It's so baffling because like they grew up with the internet at their disposal like do they not know how Google works

It's not even that he isn't attractive, it's that he's trying to come across as confident and a "idgaf" attitude when he's obviously incredibly insecure lmao

@LayZeeChill

Жыл бұрын

This

@Candyrock15

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. He's also not attractive

@tyleralan1470

Жыл бұрын

@@Candyrock15 ok that's too far he can't help that like sure his tik toks are cringe but like c'mon don't rip on his appearance its ok to make fun of his behaviour because thats his choice and its objectively cringe but making fun of his looks is different

@kee5561

Жыл бұрын

@@tyleralan1470 nah, he deserves it. He made fun of other people’s appearances so it’s only fair to say he looks like an insecure incel that never gets out of the house

@ramenlover1696

Жыл бұрын

Yeah he’s also not attractive

wait ok so, every black woman he automatically makes fun of their appearance (mostly black features),when he’s making fun of a white woman, he compares her to a celebrity…..ok

@Imxel21

Жыл бұрын

This guy is a weirdo. But the people who really hype him up tend to be palm coloured

@kookykiddo

Жыл бұрын

yuppp I did not like that. And he said “whattt what did I do 🥺” weaponized ignorance with his new 3M followers.

@dracohatesu9894

Жыл бұрын

i love white men /s

@perplexed1783

Жыл бұрын

The audacity of him to do that with that hairline is astounding

@futuristicgirl14

Жыл бұрын

@@dracohatesu9894white men usually love other white men

"She's not looking at the jawline.. she's not invited to the harem either" WHERE AND WHAT 💀💀💀💀

the blatant racism when he was making fun of those black women's facial features. pisses me off when people think they can make fun of random people just because they got validation from a couple people online.

He just looks like a stoner who's trying to remember what they were about to tell you without breaking eye contact.

@SoManyRandomRamblings

Жыл бұрын

That's what I thought too. I was like....if you want someone to look at you like this just get an attentive stoner. Get them really high and they will look at you exactly like that the whole time. Lol.

@FTMothman

Жыл бұрын

The fact that I’ve done this… it doesn’t help that weed made me stop masking for a while cause I forgot how…

@GriffinAAN

Жыл бұрын

That is exactly what I was thinking too!

@nesamdoom

Жыл бұрын

Perfect, nothing is going on.

@jungtothehuimang

Жыл бұрын

Yeah it's not really giving "sexy" as much as it's giving "too many special brownies"

Kevin is literally a stereotypical nice guy. Acts all nice and once you don't give him what he wants, he switches up on you to protect his thin skin

@nadiashanel5015

Жыл бұрын

The stereotypical nice guys are the worstttt omg

@talkingtreefrombugaboocree4847

Жыл бұрын

Bingo

@land_shark_maw1048

Жыл бұрын

‘Hello my fair maiden how may I say suck on them nips” that’s probably how he talk

@electricay

Жыл бұрын

He looks like two types of people who both call themselves gentlemen

@papercut5238

11 ай бұрын

literally exactly what i was thinking

If someone told me I looked like I was about to get addicted to absinthe and write poems about ravens I would be so flattered.

@waewae

8 ай бұрын

HAHA ME TOO!!

@ahobbit1273

29 күн бұрын

I mean, Poe was talented. This man is not.

Kevin, to me, is the equivalent of "What if the Dream face reveal was a whole person." He's not ugly but also not hot. He's....Kevin. And that's okay. *HOWEVER,* his personality tips the scales into "gross" territory very easily. No one outright called him Ugly but his thin-skin heard "I'M BEING ATTACKED NY UGLY PEOPLE!! I KNOW I'M HOT CAUSE PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET TOLD ME SO!!"

@LeoP2008

10 ай бұрын

@@homerj.simpson2514 Kevin, why did you make a burner account to defend yourself when all of us forgot about you 4 months ago?

Dude is OBSESSED with himself. He took it AND RAN WITH IT and now it's his whole personality.

@L0STNER0

Жыл бұрын

Right? When I saw his "tutorial" vid, I just know that he thinks highly of himself before the trend. And when people blindly succumbed to this madness, it inflated his ego. 🤮

@the_ethereal_memoirs

Жыл бұрын

And so very childish, let's not forget that

@dackattac

Жыл бұрын

which is so weird to me because his whole schtick is pretending to be shy and unsure of himself??

@lucastea9533

Жыл бұрын

i never liked him. saw the vid and thought “ew wtf how do people think this is a female gaze”😂😂. thought i was crazy

@davidgarrett4980

Жыл бұрын

Hes just an insecure person on the internet who can't handle criticism

"40? she's like double my age" meanwhile Kevin is the one who looks like he's about to enter his mid-life crisis like be serious

@keropi193

Жыл бұрын

Serious does he think its a flex that he's half her age and already looks so close to being a pensioner?

@nessaasdfghjkl5015

Жыл бұрын

He’s not even half her age he’s literally 33 😭 that could be his sister

@Tee256

Жыл бұрын

right! like sir your hairline left us about 5 years ago

@n.e8091

Жыл бұрын

Its also crazy how the chat instantly started calling her karen for... being an older woman?

@josiahmycousin

Жыл бұрын

@@nessaasdfghjkl5015 oof. He cant do math either😬

I wanna scream whenever people don't understand that the male gaze is specifically a term to critique misogynistic filmmaking. The distinction matters because now we have people who think that real life women need to be criticized for "appealing to the male gaze," i.e. choosing to look hot to attract men, which is literally not a problem.

Kevin's stare is the look men give me while they're mentally undressing you, it's so creepy and unnerving to receive that look/stare in real life. I swear it's these kids who are not experienced who think that is the female gaze

Love how he tries to mock that woman for being double his age when he LOOKS double his age

@hay.joy.2001

Жыл бұрын

Right?? Like I keep seeing that his age is 22. BRUH IM 22 and I’m still young enough that I sometimes get mistaken for someone in high school. AND HES BALDING LMAO

@kaywee4200

Жыл бұрын

Right lmfaooooo

@markdotinc8371

11 ай бұрын

​​​@@hay.joy.2001 he's TWENTY TWO??? STAAAAAHHHP

@hay.joy.2001

10 ай бұрын

@@markdotinc8371 yup!!! I swear my dad looks younger than him and my dad is 43 💀

@Mirrored33

9 ай бұрын

@@hay.joy.2001My dad is literally 50+ and looks 25 years younger than he does…. His face is lowkey disturbing

I love how Kevin thinks he can makes fun of people's appearances while he's over here looking like one of the burglars from Home Alone

@be4md

Жыл бұрын

LMAOOOOOO

@Chefgrlangel

Жыл бұрын

Omg 😹😹😹

@ria_x_rose

Жыл бұрын

I knew he was familiar 💀💀💀💀💀

@scullzchannel4354

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@elimiller7445

Жыл бұрын

he looks like the pringles guy

The woman who said Kevin has the “female gaze” should have her internet access revoked

Things I like about Kevin: He looks like the tragic hero in a classic Russian novel. Things I do not like about Kevin: Pretty much everything else I'm seeing here

Jarvis getting legitimately upset at the degradation of black women is exceedingly closer to capturing the female gaze than Kevin and his pathetic attempt to seem humble and approachable. I thought the Kevin thing was overblown on tiktok, but man those lives really sent me over the edge

@jewels3400

Жыл бұрын

I feel like I have seen 100 creepy dudes do those same looks on TikTok. EVERY TIME me and everyone I heard/known thinks it's creepy. Its a shallow way to look like a you are trying to look "sexy." But somehow when this guy does it people are saying it's sexy. I feel like it's this weird mental thing where the supposed context or labels change how you feel, not the actual content. Also, it's weird that this is the female gaze. It isn't exploitative or demeaning in any way. You just look at a camera and bite your lip. Sure, people find it weird, but finding it weird isn't what they are talking about correct? When you look at the male gaze in media it is explicitly demeaning. Only hiring hot "chicks" because they are hotter, making your looks your value. Writing in those woman without any character or nuance. Making them be primarily a secondary position that needs saving, or is treated like an object or trophy. Like a possession. Or practically enforcing that successful woman HAVE to be good looking. That is what the male gaze was. It's gotten better sure, I hope. All of that was only possible in the first place was because men were, and still are, in power. The female gaze, what is it? Looking at people? Huh... After watching more of this video, I'm not even going to continue. Both "gazes" are not even close to be comparable. This topic will die soon, probably...

@elliot-sowdon

Жыл бұрын

@@jewels3400 Basically the appealing to the female gaze usually means being approachable, non threatening, and cute.

@BiggerinRealLife

Жыл бұрын

YAS

@miad6160

Жыл бұрын

This

@MeadInTheHorn

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

I’m surprised that the messy room, bad facial hair, and hand rubbing his own neck in embarrassment didn’t give anyone else the ick right off the bat

@mechanomics2649

Жыл бұрын

I've never heard of the neck rubbing being a problem before.

@Pollyjpocket

Жыл бұрын

And the receding hair line 💀

@jen8771

Жыл бұрын

@@Pollyjpocket LMAOOO 💀

@youraveragewhiteguy7296

Жыл бұрын

This guy makes me insanely uncomfortable ngl. Like i wouldn't want to be in a room with him, even if there were 100 other people

@docsnake

Жыл бұрын

That room is an *instant* turn off.

i would call that "predator eyes," not "female gaze" or anything else

I love how they were like "look at the jaw movement" but his "jaw movement" was him doing that thing frogs do when they croak

This dude screams "nice guy" energy. I'm sure the people fangirling over him is a nice ego-boost, but he can't expect everyone to have the same opinion. Edit: I’m not sure if people know that “nice guy” is not actually meant as a compliment. You can look up “nice guy” stories and find plenty of disturbing behavior from guys not getting their way.

@kaemincha

Жыл бұрын

100%

@specter3660

Жыл бұрын

If you’re talking about Kevin, I personally find him more creepy than a « nice guy ».

@Tink00

Жыл бұрын

I got creepy vibes, which were 100% confirmed by him consequently body shaming (black) women

@Nojnoj

Жыл бұрын

@T N hey sorry, but I'm a little confused. I might be wrong, but to me it seemed more like he was just making fun of people in general and jarvis' two examples just happened to be black.

@saltypretzel4959

Жыл бұрын

@@specter3660 Yes, I was talking about Kevin.

He really thinks he’s flexing on that 43 year old lady for being “half her age” and he already has a receding hairline

@bitchslapthesun

Жыл бұрын

GET ‘EM 🔥🔥🔥

@merrylyn1957

Жыл бұрын

AND HE"S NOT EVEN HALF HER AGE, HE'S 33! Receding hairline and bad at basic math smh

@jenniferparker7588

Жыл бұрын

Dude looks like he's older than that already lol.

@jasminelaramay5699

Жыл бұрын

i was literally thinking the same thing omfg

@perplexed1783

Жыл бұрын

His ego is big but not as big as his forehead

Ive never seen jarvis get so mad😭 11:03

@salem-01

Жыл бұрын

Me neither, and honestly he’s rightfully angry. He is pissed off and so am I

"If you get it, you get it". I don't get it. Dude's a little creep. I don't want anyone to look at me like that... "She's lived double my life". Tell that to your hairline, bruh, if you can catch up with it.

"The male gaze" and "the female gaze" refers to filmmaking techniques and other art-- the male gaze shows women whose bodies are pointed towards the camera in a way that would not be their natural posture, who are shot in sections of their bodies rather than focusing on their faces. It's about presenting the female body through the eyes of the spectator, the audience, who is presumed to be a man who is attracted to these women. The "female gaze" would be the opposite of that, a theoretical portrayal of women through the eyes of a female spectator. Language is fluid and I don't think it always only has to refer to cinematography, but a dude filming intentionally awkward thirst traps for women is not "the female gaze." That makes no sense. The male gaze is not just what men are attracted to, and the female gaze is not just what women are attracted to.

@amitjose3739

Жыл бұрын

I think qoves studio has detailed videos with a concrete scientific perspective on male and female gaze. The logic behind it lies in evolutionary psychology.

@bluealtas9976

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!! Why a lot of people just dont investigate about terms?

@NotAnotherKuromi

Жыл бұрын

I agree about the term but disagree about what this guy did not being the female gaze. In film the actress & crew are told to act/move/ shoot them in them through the male gaze" which is supposed to be what men find most attractive. Here he is acting/moving/shooting himself in the "female gaze" in a way supposed to be more attractive to most women. Of course the 2 are not equal & most of thr discussions around the male gaze is negative. It often focuses in the predatory aspect & reducing a woman down to eye candy, where as this guy adds more depth to the focus character through his female gaze lense. However I I think he does a good job at highlighting the differences between what a lot of alpha males think women find attractive, compared to what a lot of women actually find attractive... Now the same could be said for the female gaze too, with diffeeent archytypes & tropes appealing to different men but I'm not gonna rehash old ground & this comment is probably already long enough!

@amitjose3739

Жыл бұрын

@@NotAnotherKuromi i dont think either male or female gaze has predatory aspects. Its just the way people percieve it. Its weird that male gaze has become a synonym for creeping while science based channels explain them easily with the help of evolutionary psychology. Its no wonder that feminists are crying all over the video even though it has a neutral to positive stance on both male and female gaze.

@arthurcarnegie9144

Жыл бұрын

I think you did a great job explaining these terms.

The fact that the definition of the female gaze is about what female creatives can bring to their work separate from the male eye, but it's been turned into 'this man has cracked the woman code and now all women find him hot' speaks numbers

@aristat

Жыл бұрын

I think this all starts with, like, people taking male gaze (= misogyny produces movies that turn women into something to be consumed by The Male Gaze) and turned it into ✨ Male Gaze ✨ = woman sexy in movie, so then, when creatives and thinkers actually try to come up with a term for works that seek to portray the subjects as all human and not as a set of Men and their Playthings, naming it The Female Gaze in opposition to the original male gaze, the crowds immediately latch onto the easiest definition which is "When Man attractive to Woman"

@Sir-Taco

Жыл бұрын

@@aristat what please simplify for me if you could

@taranullius9221

Жыл бұрын

​@@Sir-Taco People have misunderstood more complex film concepts/feminist critique of film (movies are made by men for men, the inherent misogyny in our culture results in a diminished and stylised representation of women as objects or an accessory to men)...so in this instance that's been boiled down to "this is what men find hot" conversely they've wrongly assumed the female gaze is the opposite and "this is what women find hot" and that's just not what those terms mean.

@taranullius9221

Жыл бұрын

​@@Sir-Taco I'm no expert on this but Maggie Mae Fish gave an example that resonated with me in Silence of the Lambs. Normally in film you'd see a woman as beautiful as Foster walking into that room she'd be the object 'cos she's a beautiful women, let's move the camera up and down her while the men (all the police officers in the funeral parlor) leer at her and the men in the room would be in on it as would the audience, there's no judgement of that and no empathy for her. Instead, we see her entering through the door from her perspective. For once it isn't Jodie Foster being stared at...the camera is her looking at the men all gawking at her and it diminishes them. You can see that they're either leering at her like pigs or are uncomfortable "why womz in FBI?". It doesn't glamourise her objectification or her strangeness or her opposition to the male and even more importantly it doesn't glamourise them. We saw what it was like from her perspective to be diminished by a bunch of creeps and sexist jerks and the end view was that they were in the wrong for that. It impacted me heavily at the time I was still a kid and I didn't know why but that's what it was. For once they were made to look bad for doing what most films do all the time to women. Enable misogyny and male primacy.

@berugitv3562

Жыл бұрын

this is just like the word slay

as a women, kevin makes me feel more like a lesbian rather than bisexual

Kevin looks like the weird uncle no one wants to have babysitting their kids

@hay.joy.2001

Жыл бұрын

THIS LMFAOOO

As a Black woman, seeing all the other Black women utterly confused about this guy appealing to other women really brightened my day :D

@byeolbitch

Жыл бұрын

I feel so bad for Jarvis that I had to skip most of the vid cause he grosses me out

@Candyrock15

Жыл бұрын

Hahaha I'm thinking it has to be more than a coincidence that mostly black women were put off by him. I'm a black woman too and be grosses me out

@WickedMarkio

Жыл бұрын

right?? i dont see what is great about him i dont see it

@JeanPaulBeaubier

Жыл бұрын

not black (asian); showed my sister this kevin guy the other day and she said people probably like him because 'white girls will like any white guy who just sort of has nice eyes' lol

@flutterg1035

Жыл бұрын

Oh I especially feel this, I don't live near many black people where I am right now. Sometimes it hurts cause it feels so isolating. Though I also just don't have any friends here in general which makes it worse. But it feels good to know I'm not crazy for feeling like I'm being treated differently as a black woman.

Him getting banned while you were recording is legitimately the best thing ever

@auliamate

Жыл бұрын

EPIC W

@socialgutbrain7774

Жыл бұрын

It was an omen I think

@WonderfulArgos

Жыл бұрын

Why was he banned?

@genericname2747

Жыл бұрын

Jarvis banned him

@ewe2630

Жыл бұрын

@@WonderfulArgos there was some drama around him because he watched a girl self harm. Then he admitted to having mutilation(?) Kink so i think thats why he fleed social media

Male gaze was specifically a Film theory concept (the audience is assumed to be male so top gun volley ball scene is homo erotic but women sensually playing in swim wear is straight, there are other aspects about how men and even objects are depicted) but the internet is allergic to using words correctly

I too love when my husband stares at me as though he has suddenly had a stroke.

All I have to say is that if THAT is the look y'all find attractive, just date STONERS, the half closed eyes and relaxed grin is their norm. Date really high dudes.

@lanceelliott2504

Жыл бұрын

The only good part!

@KristenZianourry2015

Жыл бұрын

Thats an insult to stoners 😭 please they look like shaggy not this creepy white guy 😭

@BaeKun

Жыл бұрын

I like stoners but not Kevin

@SoManyRandomRamblings

Жыл бұрын

@@BaeKun agreed, and doubt Kevin is one, doesn't seem like chill is part of his life

@m.josena4485

Жыл бұрын

@@SoManyRandomRamblings he does seem very high strung

When Kevin was trying to “roast” the 43 year old women by saying she’s lived “double his life” he’s only digging himself by admitting that he’s a 22 year old thats severely balding 💀

@aidey833

Жыл бұрын

RIGHTT buy some minoxidil my love

@c0smicchelsea

Жыл бұрын

😭😭I’d didn’t even think about that. That’s hilarious 😂

@Chiomaaaaa

Жыл бұрын

and people were saying he’s 33 in the livestream comments

@pablosalaices4459

Жыл бұрын

@@Chiomaaaaa yeah I think he’s that age which would make this whole ordeal even more sad. Bro is a fully grown acting like a teenager

@Chiomaaaaa

Жыл бұрын

@@pablosalaices4459 and he thinks he can say that woman was twice his age and people would believe him💀

1:56 difference is Male gaze- objectification Female gaze- treating women like human beings. Being desired as a person not an object.

I personally have never understood why someone looking at you like they're trying to undress you is supposed to be sexy or attractive. I don't understand it, it makes me feel creeped out. If other people like it that's cool but I just don't, I see the same thing in all those story apps promoting werewolves love stories and the like.

@handler65

4 ай бұрын

look up zayn in 1 direction

as a lesbian this man has perplexed me for weeks. I genuinely couldn’t tell if all the straights were gaslighting me😂

@Saga_Anserum

Жыл бұрын

I probably like men and I also don't get it.

@shirin9452

Жыл бұрын

I think they may have been gaslighting themselves but as a pan girlie I’m not limited to this so I may just be wrong?

@genericname8727

Жыл бұрын

I’ve seen it suggested that some women saw him as a stand in for their partners. If your partner looked at you like that, it might be appealing. If a stranger does it, it’s creepy. I’ve also heard that it might be attractive because it’s fiction where people know they won’t face negative consequences from the look. Kind of like how people romanticise a lot of abusive tropes in romance fiction. So a guy in fiction looking at you like this might make you feel desired in a fun way, whereas a guy irl looking at you like this might make you feel desired in a more predatory way. I’ve also heard some women just have weird taste and we're all different. So I guess some women genuinely would find this look attractive irl. Idk. I personally don’t really get it either and part of me thinks a lot of women were just pretending to like him because that was the trend lol.

@parkerisles

Жыл бұрын

I’m straight and have seen less conventionally attractive men (and women) as attractive usually because of their personalities. This man has a trash personality and the videos he posted did not depict anything redeemable about himself. I feel like some of the people who find him attractive are those who obsess over serial killers or people trying to boost the confidence of someone they think appears modest.

@shirin9452

Жыл бұрын

@@genericname8727 I also have a theory that women probably tried really hard to find the attractiveness in him, and when you concentrate on the good things, it kind of becomes all you see. I’m demi so it doesn’t work for me, but even I could agree that the slight femininity of his features and sanpaku eyes might be seen as attractive.

Since the first time I saw this guy he gave me the heebie jeebies. Not only does he look like a 45 year old man but his eyes say “I’m gonna follow you into a dark alley after this party” imo. He goes from pretending to be a nervous awkward guy at a party to looking at the camera like he’s thinking about how he’s going to assault you later and the switch up is so creepy makes my skin crawl I don’t get why everyone is all over it 😭

@annechovey1252

Жыл бұрын

He looks like he’d roofied my drink 😭

@lacytaylor1501

Жыл бұрын

Remember that tiktok was just full of serial killer fangirls, that's probably who's going crazy for this.

@anna_banana414

Жыл бұрын

LITERALLY SAME. the first video i saw of him there were idk a few, maybe a 100 comments about him being hit and all that and i thought they were jokes, like yk typical tiktok “SLAAYYY HAVE MY BABIES” comments about unconventionally attractive people yk. but then 4 or 5 more vids on my fyp and i began to question this “joke”….. then the whole “female gaze” thing started and it really hit me that they were serious. okay then….

@sarahbarabe4990

Жыл бұрын

Same. He has murderer eyes

@shr3yas

Жыл бұрын

YES!!!

5:36 Hearing Jarvis say "I'm having Kevin's baby!" Makes me laugh so hard omg-

He genuinely looks like he's staring into space, like he just fell asleep with his eyes open. The other guys who try to imitate him have way more life

he is just another Nice Guy that gets mad when people don't react to him the way he wants

@tasha385

Жыл бұрын

the perfect definition of a “nice guy”

@dog8068

Жыл бұрын

hes not even fake nice he seems pretty mean on those streams to be honest

@amani98001

Жыл бұрын

@@dog8068 fr, just insulting girls who literally didn't do anything

@droomzy

Жыл бұрын

@@amani98001 girls: *have an opinion* Kevin: *races to Google images to attempt to halfass a roast about their looks* the chat: "oh Kevinnnnn 😭😭😭😭😭😭" bro was acting 15 to defend himself

@moniqtl

Жыл бұрын

@@dog8068 fr and almost everyone on his stream or in his chat is still supporting and meatriding him it's really disappointing and stupid.

His gaze gives me “I’ll lock you up in my basement” and “I’ll remove your organs”

@wonderlucky1912

Жыл бұрын

Yes I agree with you. this Kevin guy gives me creepy vibes, I am honestly so confused on why some people are infatuated with him.

@socialgutbrain7774

Жыл бұрын

Yup. Even a Kubrick Stare is more expressive.

@kitkatskye

Жыл бұрын

it's giving Dahmer tbh

@Saga_Anserum

Жыл бұрын

he looks like a homunculus made out of dust, grease, and a toothbrush

@timeforlaurynsopinion5138

Жыл бұрын

i've gotten creepy vibes from him from the start and seeing these videos is letting me know that i can trust my intuition

female gaze = hozier's album covers. can't explain it in detail but that's the closest thing i can think of

I don't see it, for me, who can't read emotions well, his eyes just look...empty. Like when they go "it's all in the eyes" I'm just "sociopath eyes????"

@micahguillemette3344

Жыл бұрын

Omg same

jarvis they're called lesbians, not "female gays"

@FTMothman

Жыл бұрын

😭

@imkayokay

Жыл бұрын

bruh 💀

@starvingdelusions

Жыл бұрын

Lmaoooooo😭😭

@lawrencelopez9839

Жыл бұрын

or just... gay

@Kiki-wm5or

Жыл бұрын

this is good

Okay the bar might be in hell, but seeing Jarvis get genuinely upset that Kevin was making racist jokes towards the black woman near the end when he hardly ever gets heated over anything makes me happy. Hardly anyone except other black women are ever on the black woman's side, so I appreciate him making a point about it.

@mjangelvortex

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. It felt cathartic to see that.

@shwilson2029

Жыл бұрын

Couldn't agree more.

@Nuancednudibranch

Жыл бұрын

Same. Which makes me realize just how disappointing humans and society are. It’s bittersweet. Nice to see it done but only illuminates just how infrequently it’s typically done. 🥲

@user-kl2cx7ob4n

Жыл бұрын

bar is definitely in hell baby cause (and i say this with love) jarvis is c//nish 😭 but yeah agree it’s nice to hear nonetheless

@Oliviaandtrina

Жыл бұрын

I actually loved it too, which is so sad that the bar is that low that basic disdain for racism is commendable. But it really was nice to see Jarvis that heated about it sticking up for woc and women in general

I've never seen someone who can look at you while looking entirely past you

No keep that OUT of my gaze

Jarvis who very rarely ever gets upset or angry on camera saying 'oh fuck off' in that tone made me sit up straight. defending that woman who did absolutely nothing wrong against a racist bully was maybe bare minimum but still really nice to hear amongst all the shitty things on the internet today.

@chelseakitkatz

Жыл бұрын

Yup. We need more people getting angry about the right things.

@bluecollarmenproductions

Жыл бұрын

I’d agree but he gets upset all the time

@Toxic_Femininity

Жыл бұрын

@@bluecollarmenproductionswhaaaat?

@southernheretic

Жыл бұрын

i was thinking the same thing! definitely caught my attention

I'd like to start a petition to get Jarvis to release his attempts at the 'Gaze' that were clearly cut from this video.

@perplexed1783

Жыл бұрын

I would love to see the clips of Jarvis acting like the gays

@__m-a-x__

Жыл бұрын

Jarvis' audition tape for GaZe Clan

@randomeditor

Жыл бұрын

seconded

@jadedxspade

Жыл бұрын

Yes please 😅

@JustCallMeMeghan

Жыл бұрын

Aye!

sometimes i forget people are real

Bro makes me want to instinctively cover my drink when he’s on camera

Him being gay was the biggest twist for me. This is the kind of dude that will hit you up on grindr and if things get even a little bit awkward in the conversation he will start shittalking you about how he didn't even find you attractive in the first place

@Bee-rt5qf

Жыл бұрын

You’re literally describing a “Nice Guy” lol which he deff gives off creepy NG vibes

@FloatingErgonaut

Жыл бұрын

This is a thing with gay dudes too??

@spacemono5419

Жыл бұрын

i dont think hes actually gay, i think he is just 'trolling'. what a loser guy

@Nanajsiuz

Жыл бұрын

@@FloatingErgonaut this is a human thing. No one is entitled for a relationship or sex

@ihavenoidea2805

Жыл бұрын

@@FloatingErgonaut it's a thing with guys in general tbh💀

Kevin getting banned on TikTok while you're in the middle of filming about him is really just too delicious

@reallynow7718

Жыл бұрын

HE GOT BANNED!!!??? HAHAHAHAHHAA

@ixedtea5302

Жыл бұрын

HE WAS BANNED LMAOKK

@misr1326

Жыл бұрын

Damn really??

@brandonlicata259

Жыл бұрын

why did he get banned??

@sophialeejhonson

Жыл бұрын

Why did he got banned?

This actually makes me feel sick. Like this guy being empowered to this level is scary

"If you get it, you get it." I... don't.

He had the stalker look. The literal definition of a nice guy

@desireesmith862

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, when I first saw it I thought he just started heavily dissociating after lip syncing for a moment. I was confused.

@asteria1141

Жыл бұрын

@@desireesmith862 I stared back for a solid two minutes and still didn't see it, you know? I was not sure what to make of it

@angel-zq6or

Жыл бұрын

"Nice guy"

@asteria1141

Жыл бұрын

@@angel-zq6or yes! With big air quotations

@winonarose7488

Жыл бұрын

@@angel-zq6or nice guy ™️

Kevin was always creepy and Jarvis stays the most attractive internet man

I am begging people to look up the thing they are talking about, that's not what female gaze means, it's a film theory term about the portrayal of women in film.

@darkschweppes

Жыл бұрын

i’ve been thinking this and feeling agitated that everyone on tiktok constantly misrepresents every single thing they ever speak about ever

Even the girl who said he has sanpaku eyes wasn't making fun of his appearance, she was just pointing out what women were reacting to. His eye shape is often known as having "bedroom eyes" because people find them seductive. The fact that he was almost shaking with anger while reacting to those women makes him seem unstable.

@ganymedeanoutlaw

Жыл бұрын

Ah, that helps me see how anybody was seeing those tiktoks as sexy, though it still doesn't come off to me as bedroom eyes. On him, it feels halfway to a Kubrick stare.

@mx.unfunny

Жыл бұрын

Bedroom eyes are definitely different than what he’s giving. He looks like he’s high 24/7 💀💀

@ameliaq.7481

Жыл бұрын

@@ganymedeanoutlaw 😂 "Kubrick stare". I agree. He set off my fight or flight response. But for the women who found him attractive, I think the heavy-lidded look was what did it.

@agostodandrea3589

Жыл бұрын

@@ganymedeanoutlaweyes like that are only attractive when the rest of the eye shape is attractive like Maddie from euphoria. His eyes are too round and have too much upper lid for a man. He also just looks creepy so. Plenty of studies on “senpaku eyes” if u look them up

@cassie2572

Жыл бұрын

@@ganymedeanoutlawthis is what I thought it was suppose to be at first bahahahhaa. Some kind of serial killer stare

It's never good to put someone in that high of a pedestal for doing absolutely nothing to get there.

@LoveK1

Жыл бұрын

I even think it’s bad to exalt people who are actually doing good, big things because it ruins everyone. It gets to everyone’s head and they really lose touch.

@mechanomics2649

Жыл бұрын

@@LoveK1 This is where I'm at. It's never a good idea to put people on a pedestal no matter who they are. It rarely ends in anything good.

@amani98001

Жыл бұрын

I AGREEEE!!! He has such a big ego and starts throwing shit at people even though they are stating the obvious.

@HeoBaby24

Жыл бұрын

The fact I genuinely like his content Because I saw him for skits not the female face gaze

@drmether9150

Жыл бұрын

Tell that to half the people on TikTok

Back in the 90s in the UK we were taught if someone makes you uncomfortable, it's called the no feeling, and you should move away, or get help. I absolutely get strong 'no feeling' vibes...

@Songmorning

9 ай бұрын

For real. Impressive how he figured out the exact look to tap into your amygdala, primal fear, "run NOW" gut reaction.

the way he just screamed WHAT DID I DO?!? grace me the ick so badly

Totally unrelated, but: One time I was talking with a white coworker about “the white gaze” and ways that black folks adapt to that scrutiny, and she had this puzzled look on her face the whole time. It wasn’t until the very end that she told me up until that moment she thought I was saying “the white gays”. 😐

@marianaeduardo4710

Жыл бұрын

This is hilarious

@perplexed1783

Жыл бұрын

Ngl that was me when I first heard people talking about the male and female gaze I was so confused 💀

@Nicole-tv7hy

Жыл бұрын

NO WAY 😭

@mightymeatymech

Жыл бұрын

she couldn't conceive of you saying the phrase 'white gaze' because she just doesn't 'see colour' 😏😘

@charlieparade5046

Жыл бұрын

Smartest white person …

You can tell that Kevin wasnt a confident person before this whole situation

@nsjs17

Жыл бұрын

He may not have had much actual self love before this, but he gives me narc vibes from the content he’s putting out and his reactions to criticism. The type to exploit people bc he’s unhappy with himself.

@monbub

Жыл бұрын

kevin is those people that get their first taste of confidence and then overdo it until that's their only personality left

@nsjs17

Жыл бұрын

@@askinredroads5132 why is it uncool? Are you the thought police? Most narcissists will never get formally diagnosed because they think therapy is stupid, and because their extreme need for social validation and control means they’ll hide a lot of their harmful actions in private but you can still have a pretty good handle on whether someone has NPD by their specific dysfunctional behavior. If NPD was actually able to be controlled I would say you’re right. Generally, if you can get a narcs butt into therapy, all they do is learn how to manipulate better. That’s why I don’t feel bad about armchair diagnosing, because professionals don’t have a very good grasp of narcs in the first place. So there’s nothing to delegitimize. It’s a personality disorder, quite a bit different than a mental illness, and garners less sympathy from me. I have a narc radar from my years of observing, and it’s not steered me wrong.

@kphoria1009

Жыл бұрын

@@nsjs17 personality disorders are still disorders

@nsjs17

Жыл бұрын

@@kphoria1009 yeah it’s a disorder where to feel better and superior about themselves, they prey on other people, and intentionally harm them just for the sake of it. It can be almost identical to psychopathy, save for internal motivation towards how others perceive them. It’s a disordered way of living, but that doesn’t mean I need to coddle them because it’s a “disorder.”

I think these women are just attracted to the thousand yard stare and social anxiety.

I think if you get a load of stans and then whittle away the ones who might criticise you for being petty or making fun of somebody's appearance you'll end up with a pretty hardcore fanbase who'll probably double down to defend whatever you do. You can farm those suckers for a lot of money & views long after the mainstream has moved on

Dude looked like he was in the middle of an awkward conversation, spaced out, then snapped back to reality

@caithenry8429

Жыл бұрын

That's what I thought as well! Like he glitched for a moment and it completely went over my head that it was supposed to be sexy

@thaloblue

Жыл бұрын

He looks like those hyper awkward guys that “space out” looking at your ass. And then genuinely try to bs you that they just accidentally zoned out there.

@felixhenson9926

Жыл бұрын

that's the point. The implication is that he started thinking lewd things for a moment

@Jacob-Sophia

Жыл бұрын

That’s literally what I thought. I guess I’m the epitome of attraction when I space out in public and stare out into space.

@ethanbard3067

Жыл бұрын

Oh there goes gravity

the fact his first line of defense is making fun of ppls looks is very telling 🤩

@dezg5865

Жыл бұрын

That’s what I was thinking too

@ashzawa

Жыл бұрын

Literally, dude is projecting 😂

@q1ta

Жыл бұрын

@@ashzawa lmao frrr

@ghibli9763

Жыл бұрын

he’s the one to talk as someone with crazy ass eyes 💀

@tenshhi

Жыл бұрын

@sharletwitch THATS WHAT I THOUGHT!!! Dude i don’t understand why the chat was like “oooh brutal” like wtf, Lindsay is so gorgeous.

“Something women have been trying to explain for a long time” we’ve explained what the female gaze is, we all know what it is, Kurtis Conner has been a public figure for a while already

i'm so baffled by what on earth made so many women attracted to this man. like, his videos made me uncomfortable at best, repulsed at worst. i convinced myself that i just don't understand it since i'm a lesbian, but it seems like i am not the only one utterly perplexed by this situation

It just looks like the thousand yard stare. He didn't just catch a glimpse of an attractive woman, he realizes he left the oven on, faucet running, and his door unlocked.

@nospoonfulofmayonnaiseforme

Жыл бұрын

Pfft 💀

@internetjuice681

Жыл бұрын

I kinda thought it looked like a mugshor

@CosmicGardener

Жыл бұрын

I feel the same. The blank stare is so creepy. Like there's bad intent behind that and not in hot way. I feel like most people are gonna have more positive micro expressions flicker on their face. You might see someone you are interested in and get an excited smile on your face. Additionally micro expressions are very hard to intentionally do, like they happen unconsciously.

@lid2966

Жыл бұрын

All of that yes 😂

@a-goblin

Жыл бұрын

dude goes from lipsynching to watching advent orange drop on the POW camp